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Convincing your spouse to swing

Convincing your spouse to swing with opinions by Tom and Bunny

 

Convincing your spouse to swing

We recently we posed with this question from our Facebook group from a member wanting to know how to convince his spouse to enter into the swingers lifestyle.   On this podcast we discuss our opinions regarding this.

we welcome your feedback and opinions below at the bottom of our page.

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Can a relationship go back to exactly how it was after one cheats

Dear Tom and Bunny

Can a relationship go back to exactly how it was after one cheats?

Our Opinion

We don’t condone cheating for any reason whats so ever.  we often hear all the time that they love their spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend or whatever they identify as.  We know people can have a lot of love for each other in a sexless commitment however we also know that in our instance, we initially got together as we had a sexual attraction for each other and thankfully we still have that sexual attraction if not more today than before.   Cheating is a very hard breach of trust with most people, while some can get past it, is it going to go back exactly as it was before?  we don’t think it would, regardless if the other person says they fully forgive the person who cheated, it would be something they will remember for the rest of their lives.

Can two people get past the cheating, very possible, and we know that people forgive all the time, we know we have done things in our lives that the other one of us may not have agreed with and is willing to move past that situation as the current situation is much better than the unknown.

Would our relationship go back to exactly the way it was? No it couldn’t because of the trust.  it would take many years of trust to be on the same page however there will always be that twinge of doubt and it would be something that needed to be worked on for life and if you love the person you are with and you were the one cheating, you have to always and forever remind her or him how much you love them, how sorry you are and always make sure they have no reason to doubt your actions in the future.

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REVENGE SEX! Don’t leave your girlfriend or wife at a swingers club

REVENGE SEX at a Swingers Club!!!  DON’T LEAVE YOUR GIRLFRIEND or WIFE!

We have seen this throughout our swinging lifestyle, the guy leaves his girl at a swingers club!  WTF, what is he thinking???  We know she is thinking REVENGE SEX!!!  We released this episode too late,  it happened last night at an event we were at!

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We want to start swinging very slow

Dear Tom and Bunny

Hi

I came across to one of your videos and I have seen many of them so as you can imagine what kind of search I was doing. Just a little bit about myself. I have been married for more than 26 years, we got married when we were eighteen and this is something that you also mention on one of your videos about getting married at a young age. We live in South Florida. We would like to start very slow, we consider ourselves to be conservative so I want to get your advice to see what is the best to start and see if we like to be voyeurs or exhibitionist,  or something else so what do you recommend is the best way to start because one thing is to say it and another is to do it. Maybe go to the Hotel in Hollywood? Anyway, your videos help a lot but still if you can give us some advice will be great.

Thank you

 

HI MG,

We are very aware of the hotel you mention in your email, while it is a great hotel and a lot of fun and we recommend it to everyone new and experienced, for what you are asking specifically we do not think this is the best avenue to take if you are wanting to see a full picture of what a swingers situation really is.  with you being in South Florida and you mention Hollywood, if you go over to Trapeze Ft. Lauderdale on a Saturday night, the club will be packed full of people.  you can go people watch to your hearts desires from the mixing and mingling in the social areas and the dance floor and of course you can walk the play rooms all without having to do anything you do not want to do.  If you decide you want to play, there are both an everyone is welcome area and a couples only area. They have a great staff, bartenders and a full food buffet that would be 5 stars so that you do not even have to go eat before going and you can bring your own alcohol and they have all the mixers, please remember to tip your bartenders.  they do have a valet, we highly suggest you valet because they have all the upfront parking and your car is at risk parking on your own unless you get there really early you may find some spare up front parking.  Go in with smiles and appear to be approached and talk to people, remember, talking is not a guarantee to sex on either side; however it is a lot more fun talking to people than being a wall flower.  Be part of the party and you will want to go back again.   We suggest you go to our site http://www.tomandbunny.com (which we assume you have already been) and click on Clubs; you can watch our Trapeze Ft Lauderdale video to see what it looks like on the inside.  Sorry we do not have a Miami Velvet video and we have not been able to reach anyone about doing a video there and we do not have any experience there but you can also check out that club and know you do not need to do anything you do not want to do, as we say in our videos, you can only go as fast as the slowest person and there is no need to rush that person.  We also recently did a few videos that would cater to you, go to our videos link and click on the following videos – Misconceptions about the Swinging Lifestyle, Get up and meet people!, It’s expensive to be a swinger and Sex and Boundaries.  There are allot more videos that you can also watch but those are our newest.  Also just in case you do play, we made a video What’s in our play bag, always be prepared.

We would love to hear back from you on what you have experienced; Sort of keep tabs on how you are enjoying or not enjoying the lifestyle and your feedback on your experiences.

Thank you for your email

Tom and Bunny

If you have questions, please feel free to email us and we will do our best to answer with our opinions how we would do it.

This question will be seen in August 2019 ASN LIfestyle Magazine


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Upside down pineapple – Myth or Legend

We have been asked many times about where the Upside Down Pineapple to indicate people were swingers started or came from and after some exhausting research we talk about our opinion and we are looking for your feedback on this subject.

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Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

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Party with us at Sunny Buns October 5th – 12th 2019 at Hedonism in Jamaica

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Adult Travel Hedonism II The Sunny Buns

Sexy backs of five beautiful women in bikini on the beach

Are you ready to enjoy the all new Tom’s Trips Mo Fun, Less Drama fall extravaganza at Hedonism II.  The Sunny Buns are all about having a great time.  This is a exciting open minded and fun filled group hosted by Tom’s Trips host couple Tom and Bunny and featuring the Entertainer of the Year Mark Maze.

We will have the most prizes and best parties of any group at Hedonism.  Join us for events around the Hedonism and around Negril as we travel to the coolest bars, best restaurant, and premium shopping locations.  You can count on the the experienced Tom’s Trips team to show you the ropes and make sure you have a great time.

When you join a Tom’s Trips group you benefit from working with the 4 time Travel Agent of the Year and the experienced staff who make sure that you get the best events planned during the week.  Take advantage of the very best prices of the year.Tom and Bunny and Mark and Terri Maze at Hedonism II resort in Jamaica

Tom and Bunny & Mark and Terri will be on hand this trip to make sure your vacation is taken care of.

Mark MazeTravel Agency of the Year Toms Trips and Entertainer of the Year Mark Maze

What is included when you book with Tom’s Trips – New Years Eve Hedonism II

  • Tom’s Trips Host Couples
  • Tom’s Trips Express Check-In
  • On-Site Agent from Tom’s Trips
  • Courtyard Games & Shenanigans
  • Fantasy XXX Play Room – with MotorBunny
  • Tom’s Trips Happy Hour at the Nude Pool
  • Personalized Beaded Necklace
  • Check-In Gifts
  • Tom’s Trips Pool  Parties
  • Cocktail Reception
  • Tuesday night GLOW PARTY!
  • Group Catamaran Trip *Extra Cost Applies
  • Group Excursion *Extra Cost Applies

What is Included in your stay at Hedonism II

  • All you can eat and drink at 5 restaurants and 4 bars
  • Daily Land and Water Sports (non-powered)
  • Scuba and Snorkeling
  • Daily Entertainment
  • Nightly Entertainment
  • Disco
  • Piano Bar
  • Theme Nights
  • White Sand Beach (Nude and Prude)
  • 3 Pools
  • 2 Hot Tubs
  • Be As Naughty As You Want To Be

Sunny Buns – October 5 to 12, 2019

 

Are you guaranteed sex at a swingers club

 

Are you guaranteed sex at a swingers club

Recently a negative comment was made on one of our club videos about how they couple did not see sex during the party and how could the club call it’s self a Swing club if there was no sex?  So we wanted to bring you our take about seeing sex at a Swingers club and what you should or should not expect..

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Join us for Sunny Buns at Hedonism

Sunny Buns Oct 5 – 12 2019
Join #tomstrips , #TomandBunny & Mark Maze at #Hedonism for this exciting and erotic event in #Jamaica! Click link for more information!

Sunny Buns – October 5 to 12, 2019

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Our funny stories about Swinging

Today we talk about funny stories we were either involved in or witnessed while in the swinging lifestyle. To keep our podcast to 30 minutes we will do another podcast later with more funny storied you can listen to.  We hope you enjoy our stories and please post a comment below about your funny or entertaining stories you have and share with others.

Today we talk about funny stories we were either involved in or witnessed while in the swinging lifestyle. To keep our podcast to 30 minutes we will do another podcast later with more funny storied you can listen to.  We hope you enjoy our stories and please post a comment below about your funny or entertaining stories you have and share with others.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
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Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

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Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

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https://www.sdc.com

Want to know where Bunny gets her dresses from? CLICK HERE

Support our videos, when you purchase from Amazon, please click our link and we will receive a commission for each purchase! this helps up bring you new content. CLICK HERE

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
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Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.


Kasidie Krush at Hedonism the first day is crazy

We are at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica right now with the Kasidie Krush Group and we are rocking the resort with a great group of people and one creepy single male who is staying at the resort but not part of our group!  Be sure to book your Kasidie Krush and come party with us the next year.

We are at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica right now with the Kasidie Krush Group and we are rocking the resort with a great group of people and one creepy single male who is staying at the resort but not part of our group!  Be sure to book your Kasidie Krush and come party with us the next year.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Want to know where Bunny gets her dresses from? CLICK HERE

Support our videos, when you purchase from Amazon, please click our link and we will receive a commission for each purchase! this helps up bring you new content. CLICK HERE

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.