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Boundaries

Our Boundaries in the Swinging Lifestyle

In this Episode we discuss our boundaries in the Swingers Lifestyle.  We talk about how we first started swinging with all of our rules and eventually threw them all out the window and only added things that made us feel uncomfortable.  Again, this is only our opinion and what worked for us.

we welcome your feedback and opinions below at the bottom of our page.

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How do you deal with Rejection

Dear Tom and Bunny
We have been fans for a while and we watch all of your videos because not only do we find them informative but the way you both interact is entertaining and wanted to thank you for doing them. We have recently started going to clubs and we have not approached anyone because, honestly we are afraid of being rejected. We went back through your videos but we don’t recall anything be about how to handle rejection, but we do have a personal question for you both. Have you two personally been rejected? and if so, how did you handle it? Can you still be friends with someone who rejected you? T & P

Dear T&P,
Thank you for watching our videos, we enjoy doing them and we are glad you find our interaction entertaining. To answer your question, Yes we have been rejected many times, it’s just how the lifestyle is. Does it hurt our feelings? to be honest, yes it does, but we also know we are not going to be someone else cup of tea. There are so many variations when two couples meet up, so many that we say there is a 75% chance nothing will happen because it only takes one to say no. From our personal experience and we will assume many are like us, not all but many. We obviously look for a physical attraction with potential playmates and if we don’t have a physical attraction we will see if a mental attraction develops because honestly, more times than not for us, people we have played with from a physical attraction wasn’t as good as playing with someone who we have developed a mental attraction with. if we have either of those two and we feel the other couple is feeling something like we are, we might step up and ask if they are interested in taking things further and we know that’s a bold step because we are opening a door to rejection and we all know that never feels good. If we are rejected, we won’t lie, we go into a fetus position and cry it out for a while, maybe even kick and screen and whine wondering what was wrong with us! OK, we lied, we don’t do any of that, but we do understand that if you don’t ask you won’t know and if you wait for the other couple to ask, they may never ask themselves and at least we know where we stand. Can we be friends with people who have rejected us? Absolutely we can, this lifestyle is a small community and we are here to meet people, chances are high that because one couple rejected you or should we say not interested in playing with you, doesn’t mean they can’t be friends with you and even better, know someone you may be more compatible with that you yourself find just as attractive either or both physically or mentally. There is currently a lot of topics we are seeing about rejection and how people handle it, everyone handles it differently however those who can take those rejections and grow from them will have a lot more fun in the swinging lifestyle.

Tom and Bunny

Toms Trips and ASN Lifestyle Magazine

Toms Trips official travel partner with ASN Lifestyle Magazine

 

Toms Trips official travel partner with ASN Lifestyle Magazine

We at Tom’s Trips, are proud to announce that we will be the official travel company of the online magazine ASN Lifestyle Magazine! Currently, our Promotions and Travel Consultants, Tom and Bunny, are contributing editors of the Magazine with their “Dear Tom and Bunny” column. ASN has included all their lifestyle related YouTube videos to reach a broader range of couples and singles in the Swingers Lifestyle. Tom’s Trips will also host a Travel page with Mark Maze contributing his tips calling his blog “Just the Tip by Mark Maze” so be on the lookout for that!

We would like you to check out this very well laid out and thought out magazine by going to the ASN website http://www.ASNLifestylemagazine.com for the December issue and see for yourself what a great editorial this is for the lifestyle.

we welcome your feedback and opinions below at the bottom of our page.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.


Mike and Sheri

Tom and Bunny interview Michael and Sheri from ASN Lifestyle Magazine

We talk to Michael and Sheri the owners of ASN Lifestyle Magazine about what people can expect to see when exploring their lifestyle related content.   We also talk about taking Candy from Strangers in this episode!  It’s a must listen to and we look forward to your comments.

we welcome your feedback and opinions below at the bottom of our page.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.