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Convincing your spouse to swing

Convincing your spouse to swing with opinions by Tom and Bunny

 

Convincing your spouse to swing

We recently we posed with this question from our Facebook group from a member wanting to know how to convince his spouse to enter into the swingers lifestyle.   On this podcast we discuss our opinions regarding this.

we welcome your feedback and opinions below at the bottom of our page.

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Can a relationship go back to exactly how it was after one cheats

Dear Tom and Bunny

Can a relationship go back to exactly how it was after one cheats?

Our Opinion

We don’t condone cheating for any reason whats so ever.  we often hear all the time that they love their spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend or whatever they identify as.  We know people can have a lot of love for each other in a sexless commitment however we also know that in our instance, we initially got together as we had a sexual attraction for each other and thankfully we still have that sexual attraction if not more today than before.   Cheating is a very hard breach of trust with most people, while some can get past it, is it going to go back exactly as it was before?  we don’t think it would, regardless if the other person says they fully forgive the person who cheated, it would be something they will remember for the rest of their lives.

Can two people get past the cheating, very possible, and we know that people forgive all the time, we know we have done things in our lives that the other one of us may not have agreed with and is willing to move past that situation as the current situation is much better than the unknown.

Would our relationship go back to exactly the way it was? No it couldn’t because of the trust.  it would take many years of trust to be on the same page however there will always be that twinge of doubt and it would be something that needed to be worked on for life and if you love the person you are with and you were the one cheating, you have to always and forever remind her or him how much you love them, how sorry you are and always make sure they have no reason to doubt your actions in the future.

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We want to start swinging very slow

Dear Tom and Bunny

Hi

I came across to one of your videos and I have seen many of them so as you can imagine what kind of search I was doing. Just a little bit about myself. I have been married for more than 26 years, we got married when we were eighteen and this is something that you also mention on one of your videos about getting married at a young age. We live in South Florida. We would like to start very slow, we consider ourselves to be conservative so I want to get your advice to see what is the best to start and see if we like to be voyeurs or exhibitionist,  or something else so what do you recommend is the best way to start because one thing is to say it and another is to do it. Maybe go to the Hotel in Hollywood? Anyway, your videos help a lot but still if you can give us some advice will be great.

Thank you

 

HI MG,

We are very aware of the hotel you mention in your email, while it is a great hotel and a lot of fun and we recommend it to everyone new and experienced, for what you are asking specifically we do not think this is the best avenue to take if you are wanting to see a full picture of what a swingers situation really is.  with you being in South Florida and you mention Hollywood, if you go over to Trapeze Ft. Lauderdale on a Saturday night, the club will be packed full of people.  you can go people watch to your hearts desires from the mixing and mingling in the social areas and the dance floor and of course you can walk the play rooms all without having to do anything you do not want to do.  If you decide you want to play, there are both an everyone is welcome area and a couples only area. They have a great staff, bartenders and a full food buffet that would be 5 stars so that you do not even have to go eat before going and you can bring your own alcohol and they have all the mixers, please remember to tip your bartenders.  they do have a valet, we highly suggest you valet because they have all the upfront parking and your car is at risk parking on your own unless you get there really early you may find some spare up front parking.  Go in with smiles and appear to be approached and talk to people, remember, talking is not a guarantee to sex on either side; however it is a lot more fun talking to people than being a wall flower.  Be part of the party and you will want to go back again.   We suggest you go to our site http://www.tomandbunny.com (which we assume you have already been) and click on Clubs; you can watch our Trapeze Ft Lauderdale video to see what it looks like on the inside.  Sorry we do not have a Miami Velvet video and we have not been able to reach anyone about doing a video there and we do not have any experience there but you can also check out that club and know you do not need to do anything you do not want to do, as we say in our videos, you can only go as fast as the slowest person and there is no need to rush that person.  We also recently did a few videos that would cater to you, go to our videos link and click on the following videos – Misconceptions about the Swinging Lifestyle, Get up and meet people!, It’s expensive to be a swinger and Sex and Boundaries.  There are allot more videos that you can also watch but those are our newest.  Also just in case you do play, we made a video What’s in our play bag, always be prepared.

We would love to hear back from you on what you have experienced; Sort of keep tabs on how you are enjoying or not enjoying the lifestyle and your feedback on your experiences.

Thank you for your email

Tom and Bunny

If you have questions, please feel free to email us and we will do our best to answer with our opinions how we would do it.

This question will be seen in August 2019 ASN LIfestyle Magazine


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Party with us at Sunny Buns October 5th – 12th 2019 at Hedonism in Jamaica

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Adult Travel Hedonism II The Sunny Buns

Sexy backs of five beautiful women in bikini on the beach

Are you ready to enjoy the all new Tom’s Trips Mo Fun, Less Drama fall extravaganza at Hedonism II.  The Sunny Buns are all about having a great time.  This is a exciting open minded and fun filled group hosted by Tom’s Trips host couple Tom and Bunny and featuring the Entertainer of the Year Mark Maze.

We will have the most prizes and best parties of any group at Hedonism.  Join us for events around the Hedonism and around Negril as we travel to the coolest bars, best restaurant, and premium shopping locations.  You can count on the the experienced Tom’s Trips team to show you the ropes and make sure you have a great time.

When you join a Tom’s Trips group you benefit from working with the 4 time Travel Agent of the Year and the experienced staff who make sure that you get the best events planned during the week.  Take advantage of the very best prices of the year.Tom and Bunny and Mark and Terri Maze at Hedonism II resort in Jamaica

Tom and Bunny & Mark and Terri will be on hand this trip to make sure your vacation is taken care of.

Mark MazeTravel Agency of the Year Toms Trips and Entertainer of the Year Mark Maze

What is included when you book with Tom’s Trips – New Years Eve Hedonism II

  • Tom’s Trips Host Couples
  • Tom’s Trips Express Check-In
  • On-Site Agent from Tom’s Trips
  • Courtyard Games & Shenanigans
  • Fantasy XXX Play Room – with MotorBunny
  • Tom’s Trips Happy Hour at the Nude Pool
  • Personalized Beaded Necklace
  • Check-In Gifts
  • Tom’s Trips Pool  Parties
  • Cocktail Reception
  • Tuesday night GLOW PARTY!
  • Group Catamaran Trip *Extra Cost Applies
  • Group Excursion *Extra Cost Applies

What is Included in your stay at Hedonism II

  • All you can eat and drink at 5 restaurants and 4 bars
  • Daily Land and Water Sports (non-powered)
  • Scuba and Snorkeling
  • Daily Entertainment
  • Nightly Entertainment
  • Disco
  • Piano Bar
  • Theme Nights
  • White Sand Beach (Nude and Prude)
  • 3 Pools
  • 2 Hot Tubs
  • Be As Naughty As You Want To Be

Sunny Buns – October 5 to 12, 2019

 

The Korral – A Haunted Swingers Club

Tom and Bunny discuss the Korral, a haunted swingers club in Spring grove, PA with Tom's Trips. Want to go to Hedonism in Jamaica, call 800-285-0853

In this episode we discuss the haunting of The Korral swingers club in Spring Grove, PA   We got to sit down with current manager Dee and discuss the previous manager who died during a party and how he still haunts the club today, we discuss the club and events as well as all the activities that you can expect when attending one of their many events!

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Mars Shags Venus at Ms No Swim Suit

Mars Shags Venus at Ms No Swim Suit

While we were at the Tom’s Trips Ms No Swim Suit Contest at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica we were able to talk to Jessie and Jodie from Mars Shags Venus who had Contestant #4 Beverly in the competition.  We discuss their club / Parties as well as their contestant and their thoughts on how the contest was going.

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Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

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Our Haunted House

Our Haunted House by Tom and Bunny

LIVING IN A HAUNTED HOUSE!

We live in a haunted house and we just got confirmation that someone actually died in our house!  Listen to our crazy story and some of the sounds we captured on our recorder.

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Beware of Scammers – Buyer Beware when purchasing Adult Lifestyle Travel

Beware of Scammers - Buyer Beware when purchasing Adult Lifestyle Travel

We talk to you about Buyer Beware when it comes to purchasing Adult Vacations as there are a lot of Scammers out there!  Please book with Tom’s Trips who has a solid 20+ year reputation in the travel industry and has been awarded BEST LIFESTYLE TRAVEL AGENCY 4 years running

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1 Year Anniversary with Toms Trips

11/27/2018
Our one year Anniversary with Toms Trips
On November 5, 2018 we hit our one year mark with Toms Trips! It has been an amazing year with new challenges and best of all, new adventures. We are now situated in Alabama. I won’t say that we’re planting our roots as we are not sure where we will end up in the next 3 years. Moving to a small town in the South was quite a culture shock from Southern California. But, we have taken it all in stride and have embraced our small town life when we are not on the road.

Our first year was a learning experience for us. Tom and I both have backgrounds in customer service and customer care so that is a forte that we could bring to Toms Trips. But, unlike freedom Acres where everyone knew us and approached us, now we’re the new kids on the block and have to approach others. Sometimes, it can be a little intimidating; you just have to put yourself out there with a handshake and a smile. We both love getting to meet and socialize with everyone we meet from all walks of life. So, please if you see us in a club or event please come say hello.

Once again we will be traveling to Hedonism and Desire this year. We are looking to add other travel destinations outside of the US. Keep an eye on our schedule for upcoming trips we have planned.
We start traveling again this weekend. We will have 3 weekends in a row here in the South which we are really excited to attend. We will be spending New Years Eve at Players DFW and then head down to the Austin area. This will be an incredible year for us and we are ready to hit the road again.

Aliases and Nicknames in the Swinging Lifestyle with TomandBunny

In this episode we talk about using Aliases and Nicknames in the Swinging lifestyle.

What are your thoughts on this?

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Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

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Support our videos, when you purchase from Amazon, please click our link and we will receive a commission for each purchase! this helps up bring you new content. CLICK HERE

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
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Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.