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Tom and Bunny Podcast discuss actual condom use in the swingers lifestyle

Truth in Advertising – Condom Use


Are couples who claim to Require condoms when playing telling the truth?

We have been working in the lifestyle for well over 20 years now and while couples should protect themselves when swinging and engaging in intercourse with people of the opposite and same sex, the fact is that while many people will post their requirements that everyone be protected and wear condoms, when actually in an intimate setting they tend to forget what they posted or said and proceed to engage in sex without proper protection.

We are not here to advocate or deny the use of condoms, we truly believe that adults have and should have the ability to make their own decisions for what works for them in the Consensual Non Monogamy Swingers Lifestyle.  What do you think? are we right? wrong? did we forget something? please post a comment and let us know.

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Swinging and round two

Swinging with a couple and excited for round two, is there more to it or just hype?

We talk about avoiding meeting other couples or singles in hopes that the one couple that you played with will play in round two.  We discuss how we also wanted to play with couples multiple times and like everything, life takes you on twist and turns and why we are often one hit wonders with most of the people we play with.  We give our honest opinion of putting all  your eggs into one basket and having blinders on about meeting others because you had a great first encounter with a couple only to find that the second encounter was not all the expectations were going to be and the awkwardness of many second chance play situations.

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Running into family at a Swingers Lifestyle Event

Ever worry about running into family or co-workers at a swinger club or event?
In this episode we talk about actual events where people who were attending swingers lifestyle events and have run into Family members, Co-Workers, Neighbors, Classmates and friends and how they were able to deal with those situations while practicing their Consensual Sex Positive Non Monogamy Lifestyle

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

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Bi Sexual Couples – Males and Females in the Swinging Lifestyle

Today we discuss Bi Sexual Labels in the swinging lifestyle!
Do you feel that you need to classify your sexual preference to just everyone because you are in the swinging lifestyle?  We discuss our views on this in this podcast about Bi Sexual Couples, Males and Females.  Please comment below your views!

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

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What we think about the Original MotorBunny

Our Secret Weapon for Breaking the Ice and Giving Mind-blowing Orgasms
Hi! We are Tom and Bunny. We have run one of the nation’s oldest and largest lifestyle clubs and now work for Tom’s Trips, Adult Lifestyle Travel. We produce videos, podcasts, and blogs about our opinions and what works for us as a couple in the swingers lifestyle.

Working for Tom’s Trips takes us all over the country to clubs promoting adult travel to Hedonism in Jamaica, Desire in Cancun, as well as other lifestyle-friendly destinations. We thought it was going to be an easy job just talk to people!We quickly found that,like anyone who senses a sell-job, they avoid eye contact and walk the other way! We knew we needed something to draw their attention to our table. Then we could talk and answer questions about clothing-optional, nude and lifestyle travel that most people do not even know exist.

That’s when we were introduced to Motorbunny, an extremely powerful straddle-style vibrator! It vibrates with amazing intensity and comes with penetration attachments that rotate at a variety of speeds. We hoped it would attract attention, and it did! We could set in on a table with a large dildo rotating. If that wasn’t enough, we could zap the vibration to create a “buzz”, to really get people and their curiosity to come over to ask what the heck it was. We would explain the Motorbunny to them and show them the controls as well as all the attachments that can be included to enhance the fun in the bedroom. Of course,our conversation would lead to our travel and how people could enter into a whole new world that never seemed possible. But without a conversation starter, we wouldn’t even have the chance. Then we would invite people to join us in the playroom to have a hands-on demonstration of this incredible machine.

Obviously, being the first one on such an intimidating vibrator on steroids, we found that once we got one female to jump on it, curious watchers followed. We did not have to work to get people to try it out. We now had a line that would go for hours and when we say hours, we really mean HOURS!

Personal Use
Bunny absolutely LOVES the Motorbunny Original and she is looking forward to getting the newest Motorbunny Buck very soon (which thrusts instead of rotating). She uses all the attachments equally, but her favorite is the Double Penetration attachment. She will start off with the smaller attachments to work herself up as it’s a slow marathon to achieve a powerful full body orgasm, not a race. After she starts with the non-penetrating flat attachment and reaches her clit orgasm, she will work her way to the Lolli attachment, again working herself up and usually at this time she will soak the machine. Once this starts happening, she will insert the large dildo attachment and thrust on the Motorbunny up and down like she is riding a partner. Typically, this is where she will squirt, and to maximize her experience of multiple orgasms she will then install the double penetration attachment to make her turn into Jell-O.

Most of the time, we will bring our Motorbunny along when we are meeting a couple for some fun time. However, we also are careful, and we will play together first, and finish with the Motorbunny! By finishing with the Motorbunny, any possible remaining orgasms will be completely fulfilled, and everyone will end the night with satisfaction and euphoria. Our friends love it when we are coming over because they know they will be coming later that night if you know what we mean!

Motorbunny at Clubs
We have taken the Motorbunny to Trapeze Atlanta where we hosted a Motorbunny party in the playroom. After two and a half hours we thought the night was over. As we were putting everything away,we had a couple ask us to setup the Motorbunny for them as a late favor. We did, and within minutes we had another line that was over an hour long! I think we ended up having to actually stop taking names or we would have been there through the next day!

We duplicated the same results at EC Oasis in Breaux Bridge, Louisiana where we promoted the Motorbunny as a “catch-all” for the curious. Later that evening, we found a private room for guests to play with the Motorbunny. We would let a female rider select her attachment of choice and we would show her husband or boyfriend how to control the unit, but some ladies did not want to trust their significant other with the controls! Not to worry, Tom was happy to stand in and assist in the orgasms. We had a constant line for three hours. Some of the women wanted to give the Motorbunny a full work out to see if they could break it, but sorry, no luck! The Motorbunny withstood the harshest of thrusting, rolling, bouncing, and anything thrown at it! We did have to cool down once!

Motorbunny at Conventions
Naughty in N’awlins was an experience! We of course brought our Motorbunny for our booth and again to let people play on it. Then a couple brought a Sybian, which is the Motorbunny direct competitor. Knowing this, we agreed to do a Podcast and host a Motorbunny versus Sybian rodeo and we would invite two girls to try both machines. Each girl would control the unit of the opposing girl. The idea was good, and we were ready to go, but we were not prepared when 20 couples came through the door to see the rodeo live! We capitalized on this and we asked all 20 ladies to jump on each machine and give them a whirl. We had the same exact attachments on both machines so basically the only difference would be the vibration and rotation action of each machine. The Sybian went to 10 and the Motorbunny went to 11 and we waited for each girl that tried each machine in random order of selection. At the end of the rodeo, we asked each of the ladies, if they were to own only one, which unit would they want. All 20 said the Motorbunny!So we asked,“Why?” The basic answer was that the Motorbunny was more powerful, but also more consistent on the vibration. After researching the specs on both units, they didn’t need to read them to know the results. The Motorbunny is actually much more powerful, and with the quality we can see where the consistency comes into play, almost like a harmonic balance or a frequency that is working in favor of the participant.

Tom’s Trips host the Motorbunny at Hedonism
Our company, Tom’s Trips, hosts 20 group events a year at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica. We bring a Motorbunny for our “Afternoon Delight” parties where we break out the Motorbunny and create an exclusive private party for our guests to come out and play and have fun as well as try out this awesome vibrator! After playing on the Motorbunny, many times we hear our guest telling others they will be buying one for their home! Like the clubs, we have the lady pick out her attachment of choice and we show the gentleman how to use the controller. It’s not rocket science at all to use. We explain to bring the Motorbunny up slowly versus just going into Turbo mode!

Here are some interesting fun “facts!”

  • Average orgasm was typically within 5 minutes or less.
  • Most who tried the Motorbunny said they wanted one of their own.
  • Most could not handle the vibration turned all the way up.
  • Most liked an attachment that penetrated.
  • Some were a little shy and only used the flat attachment for clit stimulation.
  • Including participation by others while on the Motorbunny enhanced the experience for female riders.
  • The water-resistant design makes cleanup very easy.
  • You can purchase a case, or it fits in a carry-on luggage perfectly.

Men and the Motorbunny!
They do have a few attachments for the men to use for themselves, so that ladies can’t be greedy and have the equipment all to themselves. The photo above is the Jiggle Butt attachment. We did not get this so we can’t give you any details or a personal experience. Also pictured above in the attachments on the lower left which is the “Keister Bunny,” a prostate attachment that also vibrates the balls. We also have not tried the Keister Bunny “yet”, but we may very well do it and update this blog!

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

We recommend Spunk Lube with the MotorBunny

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Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

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Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

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Shower Fresh

Are you Shower Fresh?
Today we talk to Mike and Denise, friends of ours and host couple for Tom’s Trips about what proper hygiene is all about, from washing those intimate areas to shaving and taking precautions to be ready for play and not offend your play partners.  Listen to this podcast as we get real honest in our approach to educate the listeners on this critical subject!

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
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Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

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Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

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Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
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Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

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Do you want to be on a podcast

We are looking for Couples and Singles in the Swinging Lifestyle to be on our podcast.  We can do podcast in person when we are in your area or we can setup a remote Skype podcast with you.   If you would like to be on one of our future podcast, please send us the following information.

We know that we only have our opinion when we are doing our videos and podcast and we wanted to open up our discussions to include other opinions or different opinions as our listeners are looking for answers to questions about the swingers lifestyle

You do not need to use your real names if you would like to podcast with us! you may remain anonymous for your privacy

When emailing us please provide the following information

  1. Full Name (s) (We don’t have to use your real names on the podcast)
  2. Ages Male & Female
  3. Years in the Lifestyle
  4. A good contact phone number
  5. Your suggestion of the podcast title you would like to be on
  6. Have you ever been on a Podcast 
  7. The best time to get together to do a Podcast
  8. Tell us any additional information you feel we would need or more info on the Podcast.

What is the best time to do a Podcast? (required)
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Can a relationship go back to exactly how it was after one cheats

Dear Tom and Bunny

Can a relationship go back to exactly how it was after one cheats?

Our Opinion

We don’t condone cheating for any reason whats so ever.  we often hear all the time that they love their spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend or whatever they identify as.  We know people can have a lot of love for each other in a sexless commitment however we also know that in our instance, we initially got together as we had a sexual attraction for each other and thankfully we still have that sexual attraction if not more today than before.   Cheating is a very hard breach of trust with most people, while some can get past it, is it going to go back exactly as it was before?  we don’t think it would, regardless if the other person says they fully forgive the person who cheated, it would be something they will remember for the rest of their lives.

Can two people get past the cheating, very possible, and we know that people forgive all the time, we know we have done things in our lives that the other one of us may not have agreed with and is willing to move past that situation as the current situation is much better than the unknown.

Would our relationship go back to exactly the way it was? No it couldn’t because of the trust.  it would take many years of trust to be on the same page however there will always be that twinge of doubt and it would be something that needed to be worked on for life and if you love the person you are with and you were the one cheating, you have to always and forever remind her or him how much you love them, how sorry you are and always make sure they have no reason to doubt your actions in the future.

We welcome any positive comments from our visitors.  you do not need to give us your real name or even a real email address to comment, however the site requires something.  all post are put up for moderation and if your comment is negative or abusive we will not include it in our blogs.

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REVENGE SEX! Don’t leave your girlfriend or wife at a swingers club

REVENGE SEX at a Swingers Club!!!  DON’T LEAVE YOUR GIRLFRIEND or WIFE!

We have seen this throughout our swinging lifestyle, the guy leaves his girl at a swingers club!  WTF, what is he thinking???  We know she is thinking REVENGE SEX!!!  We released this episode too late,  it happened last night at an event we were at!

we welcome your feedback and opinions below at the bottom of our page.

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Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

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