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Convincing your spouse to swing

Convincing your spouse to swing with opinions by Tom and Bunny

 

Convincing your spouse to swing

We recently we posed with this question from our Facebook group from a member wanting to know how to convince his spouse to enter into the swingers lifestyle.   On this podcast we discuss our opinions regarding this.

we welcome your feedback and opinions below at the bottom of our page.

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Upside down pineapple – Myth or Legend

We have been asked many times about where the Upside Down Pineapple to indicate people were swingers started or came from and after some exhausting research we talk about our opinion and we are looking for your feedback on this subject.

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Misconceptions in the Swinging Lifestyle

We always hear what people think who are not in the lifestyle with no personal experience about their thoughts on how swingers are.  We know there are a lot of misconceptions but here we list 6 of the most we hear when people find out we are in the swinging lifestyle.  if you have others, please comment with those and we will do another video later with additional misconceptions.

Vanilla Hunters tried to play with our Son and his Girlfriend

Vanilla Hunting:

Lets start off with the fact that we do not condone Vanilla Hunting. For those of you who do not know what that is. It is a Lifestyle couple who will go to regular bars and pick up non lifestyle couples. Typically doing so by buying their drinks, getting them drunk and then making their move.

When this is done to a non lifestyle couple, it is an unfair advantage that the swinger couple has. The vanilla couple has not had the opportunity to talk about a non monogamous relationship and  discuss what  could or could not happen. Thus, damaging a relationship sometimes to the point of the couple breaking up. We have seen and heard about relationships not lasting after these encounters and we have also seen some couples decide that is what they would like to pursue and will contact a club or party or join a lifestyle matchmaking website to see if is truly for them.

Now, this actually happened to our Son and Girlfriend this weekend. we will refer to them as Steven and Joann , so they can remain anonymous. They are young and their relationship is just hitting the one year mark. Steven works away during the week and they only see each other on the weekends. We do know that they are not in a non monogamous relationship and at this point they should not be. They are still working on their communication skills and jealousy issues. If this couple had succeeded this weekend, It would have destroyed them.

The crazy part is that we were all staying at the same Hotel for a reunion. Steven and Joann  went to a show and sat next to an older couple who were “extremely“ nice to them. This couple befriended them, asked them all kinds of personal questions and in return told them things to make them feel comfortable. They had told them that they were in a long distance relationship and that he lived in Oklahoma and she was a over the road Truck driver.  The man also told Joann that he likes to wear Kilts but is afraid to tell his girlfriend which sounded strange. They paid the bar for our son and his girlfriend tab at the end of the show and invited them to go to Catalina with them the next day. All expenses paid.

After the show and drinks, they invited them back to their room to get another drink. Now, we lifestyle people know what comes next! But, it backfired on them. No sooner did they get to this couples room did we call wondering where they were at so we could get a drink and visit with our Son. When Steven and Joann came to our room and told us what happened and that they met this really nice couple, we explained to them what had just happened and what they were leading up to and they had no clue.

We had a few drinks and talked for a few minutes in our room with Steven and Joann and then went to bed. About an hour later Joann called me in a panic to let us know that she was having trouble with Steven. When we got to the room Steven was clearly incoherent. He kept passing out to the point where he did not look like he was breathing.  We made him vomit and kept force feeding him water. None of us have ever seen him like this and we are inclined to believe that he was slipped a ruphie. But with no proof we could not be sure but all we could think about was “what would have happened had we not called”.

The next day, this couple kept calling and texting Joann. We told them to ignore it and they would give up. Well, what happens next, they show up at our Sons hotel room. Apparently In a drunken state, they had shared their room number and phone number with this couple. When this woman knocked on the door saying it was housekeeping, Ms. Mama bear Bunny answered! You should have seen the shocked look on their faces! This couple was much older than we are! She said that she was friends with Steven and Joann  and that they had plans to go to Catalina. Bunny proceeded to tell her that they were staying in and that Steven was very ill from the night before. Oh, and of course it was family day. The couple put their tails between their legs and walked off. If Bunny had claws they would have been out at that time.

We have been in the swinging lifestyle for 22 years. We were able to pick up on the clues immediately.  So if you decide you want to go vanilla hunting, think about what consequences lay ahead for the couple and have respect for them. Please don’t hurt another couples relationship for yourself satisfaction.  And that way you will not have to meet a Mama Bear protecting her cubs.

That sums up our Saturday night. How was yours?

How to get out of a conversation at a Lifestyle event

Today we discuss how to get out of a conversation at a Lifestyle event!  Many of you know that being trapped in an unwanted conversation is hard enough and you don’t want to be rude, listen to our podcast for our suggestions

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Swinger Etiquette at lifestyle events

We discuss some common sense etiquette that we see lacking at lifestyle events.

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Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

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Lifestyle Conventions and what they offer

Today we discuss going to Lifestyle conventions and what you can expect to see from Pool Parties, Vendors, Classes, Ball Rooms and more.   We discuss in this podcast Xcapades in Houston Texas

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Louisiana Rumble

We recently just got back from The Louisiana Rumble, a motorcycle rally for Swingers!

 

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A single male who took our advice is thriving in the swinging lifestyle

We recently attended Club Trapeze in Atlanta GA and we were approached by a very nice, well groomed and well spoken younger single male who wanted to thank us for a video we had done on our YouTube channel about Swinging with the Single male, he wanted to let us know he followed all of our advice and has so much success it’s almost unreal.  Listen to our podcast and we will put the video below.

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Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
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We discuss Bait and Switch in the swinging lifestyle

Today we discuss the Bait and Switch in the Swinging Lifestyle. 

We have been in situations where you think you are on the same page as the couple you plan to play with only to find out after you are in the middle of the action they have different plans.  Listen to our Podcast about Bait & Switch.

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Want to know where Bunny gets her dresses from? CLICK HERE

Support our videos, when you purchase from Amazon, please click our link and we will receive a commission for each purchase! this helps up bring you new content. CLICK HERE

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
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Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.