Are couples who claim to Require condoms when playing telling the truth?
We have been working in the lifestyle for well over 20 years now and while couples should protect themselves when swinging and engaging in intercourse with people of the opposite and same sex, the fact is that while many people will post their requirements that everyone be protected and wear condoms, when actually in an intimate setting they tend to forget what they posted or said and proceed to engage in sex without proper protection.
We are not here to advocate or deny the use of condoms, we truly believe that adults have and should have the ability to make their own decisions for what works for them in the Consensual Non Monogamy Swingers Lifestyle. What do you think? are we right? wrong? did we forget something? please post a comment and let us know.
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We will be at the Des Moines Lifestyle Club April 24th & 25th in Des Moines, IA and we would like any of our Midwest friends to come out and party with us for one or both nights! Let us know if you can come out and see us. The website is www.desmoineslifestylesclub.com
About The Des Moines Lifestyle Club:
The Des Moines Lifestyle Club aka ClubG, is a brick and mortar Swing Club located in Des Moines IA.
Hosting over 3500 sf of Sexy, Erotic and fun lifestyle atmosphere from their large dance floor with 2 professional stripper poles, 3 quiet rooms, social areas and private deck to the friendly BYOB bar with Free mixers and Bar glasses to drink from.
Ever worry about running into family or co-workers at a swinger club or event? In this episode we talk about actual events where people who were attending swingers lifestyle events and have run into Family members, Co-Workers, Neighbors, Classmates and friends and how they were able to deal with those situations while practicing their Consensual Sex Positive Non Monogamy Lifestyle
Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area? we want to know! Post below.
How many times have you and another couple been all into each other and you think all four of you are going to play, you go to the playroom only to learn that one half of the couple only wants to watch their other half play? Please comment below your thoughts!
We were recently introduced to Spunk Lube by our friends at ASN Lifestyle Magazine and we have to admit, we were a little reluctant to try this lube in the beginning.
So Bunny has always been super sensitive to different Condoms and Lube and after having a Hysterectomy she has come to rely on lube during sexual intercourse as she no longer gets as wet as she used to before the surgery. We tried many different brands of lube and after many urinary tract infections and bacterial infections we found a lube that she could use called PINK WATER. however constantly have to reapply the lube every 10 minutes or so and we all know the more you reapply the thicker and gooier it gets and is less lube and irritating, so we would have to stop what we were doing and wash all the old lube off and start over which is annoying in it’s self
Back to the story!
So we got this Spunk Lube and we decided to try it, worst case we figured was a week out of service dealing with any urinary tract or bacterial infections and we could always go back to what we have been using.
So one night we decide to try it and we didn’t really think it through all the way, we have the pump bottle so we did 2 or 3 pumps which didn’t look like a whole lot, we apply to both of us and yeah, we had lube all over our hands and private parts everywhere! We go at it for about an hour of intercourse and we thought for sure we were going to have to reapply several times but we did not have to apply anymore than we already had and lasted longer than we could.
One thing we noticed with the pink lube is you can smell the lube as a lube if you know what we mean, it’s hard to explain, but with the SPUNK LUBE we didn’t have that weird odor we were expecting. The SPUNK LUBE was very slippery and made for great intercourse.
We have only tried to date their Hybrid version of SPUNK LUBE and we were also given Glow in the Dark lube which we will wait to use at a club or house party for some added fun!
We did not do any oral with the SPUNK LUBE so we can not comment on that at this time but we will do a follow up to this story at a later date when that happens, this lube is pretty thick and doesn’t come off very easy so we were a little nervous about getting it in our mouths…
We invite you to comment below with questions or your opinions on this product.
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People always ask our opinions on different products and unless we personally have tried a product we don’t offer our recommendations, We Recommend SPUNK LUBE!!!
Spunk Lube reached out and we received several shipments to give out at events as well as let people test with with our MotorBunny and HI Massager, come out and try this amazing lube and see for yourself that this is the best lube on the market!
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REVENGE SEX at a Swingers Club!!! DON’T LEAVE YOUR GIRLFRIEND or WIFE!
We have seen this throughout our swinging lifestyle, the guy leaves his girl at a swingers club! WTF, what is he thinking??? We know she is thinking REVENGE SEX!!! We released this episode too late, it happened last night at an event we were at!
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We have been asked many times about where the Upside Down Pineapple to indicate people were swingers started or came from and after some exhausting research we talk about our opinion and we are looking for your feedback on this subject.
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