We want to start swinging very slow

Dear Tom and Bunny


I came across to one of your videos and I have seen many of them so as you can imagine what kind of search I was doing. Just a little bit about myself. I have been married for more than 26 years, we got married when we were eighteen and this is something that you also mention on one of your videos about getting married at a young age. We live in South Florida. We would like to start very slow, we consider ourselves to be conservative so I want to get your advice to see what is the best to start and see if we like to be voyeurs or exhibitionist,  or something else so what do you recommend is the best way to start because one thing is to say it and another is to do it. Maybe go to the Hotel in Hollywood? Anyway, your videos help a lot but still if you can give us some advice will be great.

Thank you



We are very aware of the hotel you mention in your email, while it is a great hotel and a lot of fun and we recommend it to everyone new and experienced, for what you are asking specifically we do not think this is the best avenue to take if you are wanting to see a full picture of what a swingers situation really is.  with you being in South Florida and you mention Hollywood, if you go over to Trapeze Ft. Lauderdale on a Saturday night, the club will be packed full of people.  you can go people watch to your hearts desires from the mixing and mingling in the social areas and the dance floor and of course you can walk the play rooms all without having to do anything you do not want to do.  If you decide you want to play, there are both an everyone is welcome area and a couples only area. They have a great staff, bartenders and a full food buffet that would be 5 stars so that you do not even have to go eat before going and you can bring your own alcohol and they have all the mixers, please remember to tip your bartenders.  they do have a valet, we highly suggest you valet because they have all the upfront parking and your car is at risk parking on your own unless you get there really early you may find some spare up front parking.  Go in with smiles and appear to be approached and talk to people, remember, talking is not a guarantee to sex on either side; however it is a lot more fun talking to people than being a wall flower.  Be part of the party and you will want to go back again.   We suggest you go to our site http://www.tomandbunny.com (which we assume you have already been) and click on Clubs; you can watch our Trapeze Ft Lauderdale video to see what it looks like on the inside.  Sorry we do not have a Miami Velvet video and we have not been able to reach anyone about doing a video there and we do not have any experience there but you can also check out that club and know you do not need to do anything you do not want to do, as we say in our videos, you can only go as fast as the slowest person and there is no need to rush that person.  We also recently did a few videos that would cater to you, go to our videos link and click on the following videos – Misconceptions about the Swinging Lifestyle, Get up and meet people!, It’s expensive to be a swinger and Sex and Boundaries.  There are allot more videos that you can also watch but those are our newest.  Also just in case you do play, we made a video What’s in our play bag, always be prepared.

We would love to hear back from you on what you have experienced; Sort of keep tabs on how you are enjoying or not enjoying the lifestyle and your feedback on your experiences.

Thank you for your email

Tom and Bunny

If you have questions, please feel free to email us and we will do our best to answer with our opinions how we would do it.

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