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Sooner Swing May 31 to June 2 2024 Tulsa Oklahoma

On The Border Sooner Swing May 31 to June 2, 2024 Tulsa Oklahoma

We are going to the huge 120 acre Sooner Swing camping trip just outside of Tulsa Oklahoma with the On The Border Lifestyle Group Friday May 31st to Sunday June 2nd 2024 with themed parties, Zip Lines, Hot Air Balloon, Naked Karaoke, Orgy Dome, Discussion topics and much much more.

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Old Fat Guys and Ms No Swimsuit Part 2

Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks and the Ms No Swimsuit contest at Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny Part 2

Today we discuss part 2 of our recent group trips Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks and Ms No Swimsuit contest with Toms Trips at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica.

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00:00:00:00 – 00:00:26:12
Tom and Bunny
we’re Tom and Bunny from Tom and Bunny dot com. And today we’re talking part two about our recent trip to Hedonism Resort in Jamaica with Tom Strip’s year leader and adult lifestyle travel Got it all that you did that was very good. So this is our week number two. So we were just there. We were literally in Jamaica from February 18th through March.

00:00:26:19 – 00:00:52:13
Tom and Bunny
No March 13th. Yeah. 21 days. I’m way off. Yeah, I think it was February 22nd, 22nd to March 1308. Let me put up the Tom’s trips right there. There we go. Go to that website and call that number to book Tom’s trips. So if you’re listening to this podcast, you might want to jump over to our YouTube channel.

00:00:52:13 – 00:01:15:08
Tom and Bunny
Just search Tom and Bonnie, just as it says right here, no spaces. And you can watch our videos because sometimes we do corny, stupid stuff and we make stupid faces at each other like that. Sometimes all the time. All right. Some of it. Okay. I got Tom so fun. One of the funniest things I’ve heard before is everybody’s like, my God, I don’t realize you.

00:01:15:10 – 00:01:36:10
Tom and Bunny
I think it’s funny when you roll your eyes. And I’m like, I didn’t realize I did it so much. You do? Oops, I do. I just don’t say anything. I let the audience say it. I just seen a meme today and Hold on. my God, you’re killing it because I’m podcast. Not. No, no, no. I got to give you this meme because death.

00:01:36:16 – 00:01:57:24
Tom and Bunny
This is so me. This is so you know, you took a picture. Yeah, that does. Do you ever just forget to hide your expressions for a minute and then you’ll you’re like, Whoa. I didn’t mean to see that face out loud. yeah, that’s me. That’s our boss. That is our boss. That’s why I can’t take phone calls or anything.

00:01:57:27 – 00:02:29:00
Tom and Bunny
Right? So we just finished up the last video. We’re talking about nonsense about pool games. Yeah. So that was four old fat guys with hot chicks. Then come week two is our annual Miss No Swimsuit, which is Tom’s trip’s staple event of the year. It’s our flagship event. It’s bingo. This was our 24th annual. Now, me and Bonnie, I’ve only been with Tom’s trips for six and a half years, and so, no, we don’t own the company.

00:02:29:00 – 00:02:57:25
Tom and Bunny
But this was our 13th trip. What? Tom’s? Yes. We’ve been traveling with them for 12 years, starting here. So. So, no, for us, in one of the things that you’ll find if you haven’t already gone to hedonism or traveled with the group, one of the things that you’ll find is people tend to go back at the same time every year because they’ve met friends or they’ve made connections and they always want to go back at the same time so they can continue to grow those friendships and make make new.

00:02:57:26 – 00:03:23:08
Tom and Bunny
Yes. Case in point, last one of last year’s contestants, she came in third. She just they just recently got married this summer and a big group from the corral went to her wedding or their wedding. And they’ve all become such good friends now they go to the corral a lot. So now they continue to go back and forth between New York and Slovenia.

00:03:23:10 – 00:03:48:23
Tom and Bunny
Yes, I talk with my hands, but I mean, that’s just a vacation point. I keep saying how fly by my face. And yes, I’ve hit him in the face before. I actually have, because I kind of lean forward. Yeah, you can’t do that. I look at my shirts all I try to go, I need my gear. So I need to be able to do that stuff you don’t want.

00:03:48:25 – 00:04:25:22
Tom and Bunny
You can’t have that kind of an impact. No. So anyways, yes. No. So for us, men’s not swimsuit is a fantastic time because we get to see all kinds of friends that we only see once a year now and in the past we just have a lot of staff at Mr. Swimsuit and the last year we didn’t have as much staff, so we all the staff that we had worked our butts off from eight in the morning until midnight, one in the morning every single day.

00:04:25:24 – 00:04:54:11
Tom and Bunny
And when I say work our butts off, it’s just we’re not working solid. But we can’t get drunk. No. And be at another event and be coherent. So it is working this time. We actually had an extra entertainment couple. Yeah. We also had another host couple and that host couple. I mean, the entertainers we had Mark Mays. Yes.

00:04:54:11 – 00:05:17:27
Tom and Bunny
And Terry, his wife. Yes. And then we had Beth and Kyle. I don’t know if I could say their name, but I guess we can. But we did. And it was great because Mark sings, plays guitar. He has a foot drum set, so he is a one man band, but he also has a band in Michigan and he does solo stuff.

00:05:17:27 – 00:05:45:01
Tom and Bunny
There are two Kyle plays saxophone and he sings, my God, he’s a mark and Kyle are both phenomenal singers. And then Beth is just so adorably cute and she’s she helps with me and Barney as a host couple when it’s just the four of us. Now, One of the one of the cool things, though, this year is Tom actually had two other women help him.

00:05:45:04 – 00:06:06:15
Tom and Bunny
We do at this particular event too, because it’s our men’s no swimsuit. We do a lot of photos. Tom is a photographer. No, he’s not a professional. He just knows how to use a camera in automatic mode. No, I know how to do lighting. Yes. I mean, look at our lights here. So what he would do is he had Beth.

00:06:06:21 – 00:06:36:05
Tom and Bunny
Beth and she and Jenny, they were his lighting girls. So previous years, we never wanted to interrupt the show for the people, but we also gained zero promotion out of it. So the photos in the past, I mean, while good, weren’t as good as I thought they could be, because when they’re on the stage, it’s really dark. And dark creates a very grainy photo and it doesn’t look as appealing.

00:06:36:07 – 00:06:58:14
Tom and Bunny
So after some discussions, I was able to have Beth and Jenny whenever our person that we want to take a picture of would come out, we would be front stage. And the second they would come out, they would turn on the LED lights. I would shoot a few pictures. They would turn off the LED lights and we would all walk away.

00:06:58:14 – 00:07:22:06
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, worked out that way. We didn’t block the audio. No. And it worked out absolutely perfect. And we’re going to be posting our no swimsuit icon just give me a couple of weeks and we’ll be posting a lot of the pictures on there because we actually have good pictures this year. I couldn’t I couldn’t do it for Tom because I have an attention span about this big and I’d be holding the light and I’d be like, squirrel.

00:07:22:08 – 00:07:53:26
Tom and Bunny
Yes, she would. She would. But also Bunny gets called away. And I do. Yeah. So we’re always we’re always within sight of each other, but we’re always doing something different at that event. Exactly. So I do the photography and I’m a liaison between Times trips and a lot of the clubs managers are owners, correct? So that way we can hopefully fulfill their needs while we’re at Jamaica.

00:07:53:28 – 00:08:34:03
Tom and Bunny
Right. And hopefully in the next several months we’ll be able to get our needs fulfilled after after surgery again. Well, we’re waiting on that. I, like the doctor said before, there’s no way they can deny it because it’s in my body. But they already did at first denial, which they denied Bunny on an MRI. So the doctor wrote a two page letter on the medical necessity of me having the surgery, and they have 30 days to review and they’re going to wait for every into the 30 days.

00:08:34:03 – 00:09:00:26
Tom and Bunny
So we’re not very hopeful right this second as far as insurance goes. And, you know, I want to reiterate to that because, you know, not only, you know, are we a travel agents within the pineapple world, but we are pineapple people, too. Yes. But we’re not the type that play separately. We only do it together. So therefore, if Tommy’s broken, I’m broken, too.

00:09:00:28 – 00:09:35:16
Tom and Bunny
Right. And so if you’re broken, heart broken. And I mean, I did have to explain that to a friend this last time who approached us, And I’m like, You do understand that we’re broken. And he’s like, You’re Tom is broken, but you’re not. And I’m like, Yeah, yeah. We’ve been married 38 years, been together 39 years. You don’t stay together this long without respecting each other and feeling like when a part of each other, when one is going through something, the other, unfortunately, yes, goes through it, too.

00:09:35:16 – 00:09:56:08
Tom and Bunny
And, you know, everybody’s life is different. Everybody is in the pineapple world differently. This is just how we do it and and what works for us. And I could I could tell buddy, let’s do this. And she’d probably say no. Right, Exactly. Just because she doesn’t feel comfortable. Nope. And if you’re not feeling comfortable, you’re not going to have a good time.

00:09:56:09 – 00:10:19:25
Tom and Bunny
Right. But so that being said, let me tell you, you know, one of the things I keep forgetting to write everything down, but the next time we go, I’m going to write down all the crazy things that you hear while you’re there. Right. But the one the one that I do specifically remember is I had a guest approached me in the pool and he had a cowboy hat on.

00:10:20:02 – 00:10:39:15
Tom and Bunny
Always wore a cowboy hat. And he says to me, Have you ever wrote a a bucking bronco? Like what? And he and I’m like, a rodeo. Rodeo or think, Yeah, or something like that. And I’m like, Why? Why would you even ask me that? And he goes, Well, have you ever rode in a rodeo? And I’m like, No.

00:10:39:21 – 00:11:02:06
Tom and Bunny
And he goes, Would you like to? And I’m like, Why? And he goes, Because I come out of chute one and I go, Well, that’s good, because I don’t like to shoot too. All right, guys, you know where she stands on that. But let me, too. It’s just fun, things like that. You know, the things that make things memorable when you have a good time with.

00:11:02:08 – 00:11:36:15
Tom and Bunny
Right. You know, just because you’re in the pineapple world doesn’t mean that you have to. Well, I there are people that fixate on having to do something with someone else every single night. And you know what? More power to them. We know couples that have been together as long as us that live that way. And we also know couples who didn’t make it past a couple of years because the other didn’t feel that the one loved them as much as the lifestyle.

00:11:36:17 – 00:12:05:13
Tom and Bunny
So we never put our feelings on the back burner. We’re always the forefront. And the pineapple world has changed dramatically since we entered it many, many years ago. I’m just going to leave it at that. But so already, so sorry. 38 years. I know, but so just the fact that it just because you’re there at Hedo doesn’t mean that you’re going to play with everybody or anybody talking about that.

00:12:05:18 – 00:12:28:15
Tom and Bunny
No, I’m just talking about I know, let’s not go negative. I’m just making connections because that’s kind of a negative. Okay. It was Harry’s birthday. It was Harry’s birthday. We’ve seen a lot of naked people. We didn’t. And one of the things we always hear and we’re not going to bring up any stories is bunny hairs all the time.

00:12:28:18 – 00:13:00:18
Tom and Bunny
I know, Harry. Yes. And we always wanted to do a video called I Know Harry because we have a hundreds stories of different scenarios of why they know Harry when they’re talking to Bunny. Bunny actually asked Harry if secret if we could have permission to do that video. And Harry said, absolutely. And then I got to thinking, would that come across as us talk and smack about anyone?

00:13:00:21 – 00:13:24:23
Tom and Bunny
So but, you know, the thing is, Harry, and for those of you that don’t know is Harry is the owner of hedonism, Right. And he is the nicest guy and he’s very, very friendly. So of course, he’s kind of shy, though. He is kind of shy. Yeah, he is kind of shy. He doesn’t mind people approaching him. He doesn’t really approach too many people.

00:13:24:23 – 00:13:54:11
Tom and Bunny
No, but that being said, everybody knows Harry. Every. Yes. Everybody knows Harry. I know Harry. Yeah. Do you know Harry? I know Harry. Yeah. He even got a business card. I did. His business cards are poker chips. I personally have never kissed Harry, but I know Harry, so I know. How are you going to last and binding? I know, Harry, but mine is.

00:13:54:14 – 00:14:20:07
Tom and Bunny
I know Harry goes less than a few other girls. yeah? yeah. Laila. So we just thought that would be kind of fun to do. Maybe when we’re no longer travel agents, no, but know it. But if we did tell stories, it would all be in fun. absolutely. There’s like, a comedian, right? Right. But we’re not funny.

00:14:20:10 – 00:14:44:08
Tom and Bunny
We’re not funny. But no. So, yeah. No, if you go there, Harry is usually he’s there a lot. He bought the place is his own personal private playground. From what I understand, his brother and sister all run the place and he has all the staff and the last person you want to go up to, to give advice on how to run Hedo is Harry.

00:14:44:08 – 00:15:07:09
Tom and Bunny
He doesn’t he go to his people? Let him have a drink in his hand. Actually, he did tell us a funny story that he was wearing his sandals at it. He was at the Teppanyaki. Yeah. And he was eating it. He was wearing a sandals hat and there’s a guest sitting next to him and he was doing all this complaining and and everything about the food.

00:15:07:09 – 00:15:28:19
Tom and Bunny
And then he says to Harry, he goes, Well, how who are you? And he goes, My name is Harry. And he goes in, What do you do? And he goes, I’m the owner of this place. But he didn’t take it offensively. No, he didn’t. He actually took that as real honest, constructive criticism because the guy didn’t know who he was.

00:15:28:21 – 00:15:47:18
Tom and Bunny
He was telling us that they were going to be updating the rooms that caught on fire. Yep. And, yeah, those go down. Those get. There’s the first 20 rooms are going to be not going to take five and a half months. It’s going to take two years. And I said can I put in a request And it’s like you want to request for what?

00:15:47:18 – 00:16:13:20
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like to change the curtains from cream to anything else to anything else. He goes, You don’t like my green curtains? Nope. No, because they were there before you started. Are were they orange? I think they were. But now they’re seventies green. Yeah. Yeah. Avocado. Green. Yeah, definitely. I had cars that were that color green. Right. I don’t want to date myself, but they were muscle cars.

00:16:13:20 – 00:16:36:06
Tom and Bunny
But I mean, you know, in when he’s there you don’t he’s, he’s there to have fun. He’s not there to. Anyone want to talk business? No, no. So we just out with Harry again. Happy birthday. We told. We told you happy birthday while we were there. Happy birthday across our channel. Yeah. And he didn’t even know we did videos, right?

00:16:36:12 – 00:17:01:09
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. So see that everybody knows. Yeah. Because we don’t go running around saying we have a YouTube channel either you either you find us or you don’t. Exactly. And the most important person there didn’t find us. But. But his sister in law watches over. yes, she does. Hi, Diane. Hi, Dr. Richard. Richard. But Richard is Bonnie’s dessert buddy.

00:17:01:12 – 00:17:27:19
Tom and Bunny
Yes. We get to talk about desserts because they have a brand new pastry chef. And it’s amazing. And yes, she is straight up says, be careful, you’ll get fat. I, I would just as soon miss dinner. Yeah. Go to the desserts. Yeah, but. But no, we had an amazing time. And going back to Miss swimsuit since we’re talking about that Harry saw on the top.

00:17:27:19 – 00:17:50:14
Tom and Bunny
Inaki bar is closed, and we heard complaints before we went there that it was warm in there and stuff like that. And the air couldn’t keep up when we were in there, we we were freezing. We got freezing in a bad way, in a very good way that we were expecting it to feel like 90 in there. And it actually felt like 72.

00:17:50:14 – 00:18:21:06
Tom and Bunny
It used to feel like it was outside, honey, it was an outside. It was 120 degrees. So yeah, it was actually a very nice, enjoyable. And they got a big long sushi bar now. Yes. So you can sit up there and order your sushi. You can get a salad up there. So it was very, very nice improvement. Now me and Bonnie are going through dental work and twice I got a front crown.

00:18:21:07 – 00:18:43:16
Tom and Bunny
I wasn’t going to bring it. I’m going to break today because we don’t give two craps, but twice my crown came off. Yeah. Was the first time it was at the tap in the Rocky. And we, I took a bite of shrimp or something and I could feel it dangling and thank God I didn’t swallow it.

00:18:43:17 – 00:19:04:24
Tom and Bunny
No. And then we got that glued on. And then a few days later, it came out, come off again. Again. I got a dentist appointment this Tuesday. We’re going to see what we can do. The crown needs to be replaced anyway, so it’s it’s starting to get a hole in the back from the. I mean, how long have I had this thing.

00:19:04:27 – 00:19:29:22
Tom and Bunny
years. Yeah. But, you know, it’s pretty funny because we do have a dentist that travels with us, so. So we’re sitting at dinner and. And I’m like, I need you in our room now. Our boss is like, What? I’m like, No, no, I need your services. So when we came back, she’s like, You carry dental supplies with you.

00:19:29:25 – 00:19:51:29
Tom and Bunny
She’s like, Well, yeah, of course I would. But we had a little thing that we brought just in case, because I just got a new bridge. Yeah. And I was concerned that the new bridge might have an issue. So we wanted to be prepared. We bought the glue. We didn’t know there was only enough glue on that little bottle to do half of the crown.

00:19:52:02 – 00:20:22:22
Tom and Bunny
It says that it’s good for ten bullcrap. I squeezed every drop out of there. Just so you know, it’s called recap it and it’s actually good to have in your luggage if you have any crowns. Well, yeah, we’re going to do a video on things you definitely should take because we never really thought about crowns falling out except for when I just got the bridge and we never thought about prescription glasses bringing an extra pair.

00:20:22:22 – 00:20:46:14
Tom and Bunny
If you’re going to be there for seven, 12, 14 days, that’s a long time to go without glasses. So we both brought extra glasses and I always carry extra reading to figure out my lens. I always carry extra readers to live up at the desk in case somebody says, I can’t really read that. I’m like, Here, here we go.

00:20:46:16 – 00:21:11:15
Tom and Bunny
So now on no swimsuit. I just went up base a little with the top jockey. Then it went into my crown right? So arm is no swimsuit that we had eight amazing ladies. They all did a great job. They did a fit, and they all worked well together. Ah, and we are very excited to be part of their journey.

00:21:11:18 – 00:21:35:09
Tom and Bunny
yeah. And you know, it was really great because they have to do certain different little contests to win your vote. Because if you travel with us, then you get to vote on who’s going to be the winner. So it for me, the biggest thing is to watch when they first come in how shy they are. They’re like, I don’t even know if I can do this.

00:21:35:12 – 00:21:56:05
Tom and Bunny
And even some of their husbands are like that too, too. At the end of the week, they’ve got this confidence that just amazes right every time. And the one thing that I always look forward to is talent show, because you never know what people are going to pull off. Every one of them was amazing. they did a great job.

00:21:56:05 – 00:22:25:23
Tom and Bunny
So good. Yeah. I, I’ve already edited all the videos. We’re figuring out one because we, we have people signed photo releases and we, we’ve told all the girls in the beginning that if they have anyone up on stage with them are using them as props, they had to make sure they had the Graham wristband and a photo release was signed and one of the contestants invited all the guys up to the stage.

00:22:25:23 – 00:22:47:12
Tom and Bunny
And all I see is faces and I can’t see risk. And and it was later in the week if I just had a black rectangle just covering the heads down. It blocked half of the video and she was on a pole, so it would have blocked half. Yeah. So we’re still trying to figure out I got I’ve never been able to do videos.

00:22:47:12 – 00:23:04:24
Tom and Bunny
We don’t do videos with the other people. So I never learned how to blur faces. So when the face turns away, the floor goes away. But when it goes towards the camera, it automatically blurs it. But I got to do that with 20 dudes. I got to figure out how to do that and not blur her face. Right?

00:23:04:25 – 00:23:28:08
Tom and Bunny
So it’s just something that might take me a little longer. Yeah, something you definitely have to research and learn. Or maybe I know somebody that can take that video and do it for them, so we’ll figure it out. But we do plan on uploading all those videos to our YouTube so that way you can look at each of the contestants videos, maybe minus one.

00:23:28:11 – 00:23:53:21
Tom and Bunny
We’ll see. We’ll see. But we had dancing, we had singing, we had group dancing. Yeah. So we say. And then we had one too, where she she draws and makes custom hats. Yeah. Her husband came out and gave the winner of the best dressed one of her hats that she had already on. Yeah. So it was really, really.

00:23:53:26 – 00:24:22:29
Tom and Bunny
It’s very cool. I was just to see. Right. Yes, that was Tiffany. So it’s very cool along the border and you’re out of Tulsa, Oklahoma. And the one that I kind of it didn’t shock me, but I was really impressed by the way that she did. It was Kelly from Sapphire. Everybody does. I touched myself. Well, not everybody, but when they do it, they want to do it real sexy and everything like that.

00:24:22:29 – 00:24:46:19
Tom and Bunny
She had fun with the song, right? And she made me appreciate the song We could. She was having fun with it, and it turned out really, really good. Yeah, I think she’s. Q She’s very you know, they’re all I like her look. yeah, Yeah. That. You like the girl next door? I do like the girl next. And, you know, we were I was taking pictures and there was a girl from Vibe.

00:24:46:20 – 00:25:10:04
Tom and Bunny
Vibe is a hotel party out of Nashville, Tennessee, and we’re now part of the Vibe Tribe. We are well, part of the Vibe Tribe because now we live here. And Megan, she was just an adorably cute girl, but she knew how to take cute pictures. And so we’re going to be putting those on our social media real soon.

00:25:10:04 – 00:25:34:22
Tom and Bunny
I’m still going through all the pictures right now that all the girls took great pictures, but Megan probably stood out as most outward outgoing as far as doing the poses. So, yeah, it’s almost like I would have thought she had a Tik-Tok page or an Instagram page. She was the only one that you pulled out the camera and she knew what to do.

00:25:34:23 – 00:26:03:24
Tom and Bunny
She knew what to do. Yeah. And then Lacy from Paradise Lakes Resort out of Tampa, Florida, just elegant, beautiful girl. And she took some amazing pictures. But as she was watching Megan, she started coming out of her shell and doing cute hats. And when I say cute, I don’t mean childish. I mean just just really cool pictures. Having fun with the camera, right?

00:26:03:24 – 00:26:26:24
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Not making love to the camera, but. Yeah, exactly. Because you know what we’re using. You use these as marketing and you want you want it to show that we’re having fun and all the girls get copies of all these pictures so that way they could show all their friends and everything. So we want to give them the best possible photo that we can.

00:26:26:29 – 00:26:54:02
Tom and Bunny
I know everyone has their camera phones and they were posting, but hopefully some of mine with my lighting might be something that they want to share. Yeah. Now we went to that Glow party on Tuesday. We we went to take pictures of our contestants and put the camera away. We were there for an hour and a half taking pictures of our contestants, guest friends, all kinds of people.

00:26:54:05 – 00:27:15:28
Tom and Bunny
But they had a backdrop we use and that was one of the ones that I was so squirrel with because I kept trying to find people and then I’d walk away. Don’t say a word. My like, well, I like going because I didn’t have it on my camera because like, the lights I was using didn’t have the hot shoe for the camera.

00:27:16:01 – 00:27:36:23
Tom and Bunny
So I had a handle that you could hold it with. And I had two tripods. And here’s Bunny walking away with the light right? But no, it’s just such an amazing time. And we didn’t go on the catamaran. We stayed back and got some work done. And then we went on a pub crawl. Not on all. We got canceled.

00:27:36:29 – 00:28:01:24
Tom and Bunny
Got canceled because we got it canceled for any nefarious reason. We just only had three people signed up and it’s a lot of expense. So we had a Thursday pub crawl, so the Tuesday one got canceled and we asked anyone that was going on Tuesday to just move over to Thursday. And so but everyone wants to go on the catamaran.

00:28:01:27 – 00:28:32:08
Tom and Bunny
the play this catamarans hedonism was dead, but it was nice for us. Well, while the catamarans were out, it was like quiet, but it gave us time because we had Mark in for the contestants and all of their group on one. And then we had Kyle in for contestants and all of their groups. Yes, on the other and then any other guests that didn’t come with one of the groups, they could pick what boat they wanted.

00:28:32:08 – 00:28:55:12
Tom and Bunny
You know, forget what cream was, a flying remotes. That’s a flying. And boy, let me tell you, I don’t think any and I don’t think anybody remember sunblock. No, they came back with red. Came back so red. But yeah, if you have a food fetish that was the the boats to be on because they were eating whipped cream off of everything.

00:28:55:12 – 00:29:29:17
Tom and Bunny
Everything, everything. It’s not even lifted off the pole probably, but from what everybody was telling me, it was the best catamaran they’d ever been on. Well, I don’t doubt it. Yeah. Eight contestants, beautiful contestants. And for on each boat and everyone’s a judge. And those contestants are vying for those votes from those people. And I know Beth told me that she went around and grabbed gathered all of the girls and put them on the front of the boat so they could all dance.

00:29:29:17 – 00:30:01:28
Tom and Bunny
And then everybody else joined them. Yes. So, yeah, it’s it was a really good time. But like I said, we we stayed behind, got some work done, and then we got to check out one of our newer deejays that. yeah, came on. Yeah. He deejay Bad Boy. What is it? What’s his name? Scott. Scott. Yeah, he he actually contacted us and wanted to try out or wanted to see if we’d be interested in deejay.

00:30:01:28 – 00:30:26:05
Tom and Bunny
And I said, Well, our bosses are going to be at this event in October, and you’re welcome to come. But if you email them, we get emails from 30 deejays a year or more. And while they might be great, we don’t we don’t know just based off of email. So I said, why don’t you come talk to them in person?

00:30:26:05 – 00:30:47:27
Tom and Bunny
Maybe they’ll put you up for whatever reason. He didn’t deejay in October. No, no. So he came back out for no swimsuit and they actually put him in a new poll from 2 to 4, which is the prime time. And he did a great job. He did do a great job. Now let’s go back. Old fat guys brought their own entertainer.

00:30:48:02 – 00:31:13:00
Tom and Bunny
my gosh. Professor Woo, He was he’s fun. He’s a qualified investor. So he’s well-spoken, articulate. He sings karaoke. And when I heard him sing a couple of years ago, I was really taken aback. This guy’s good. So he’s deejaying the pool parties, he’s helping with the pool games. He had never done this before. This a first time.

00:31:13:05 – 00:31:33:19
Tom and Bunny
He had seen it but never done it. He’s singing in the DJ booth, so people are actually thinking it’s music. Then he comes out on the pool deck singing, and he did a great job playing music. And he did Flashdance and he did Flashdance where they dumped the bucket of water on him while he is on a chair.

00:31:33:22 – 00:32:00:07
Tom and Bunny
And he’s not a small guy, so he is part of the old fat guys. But yeah, no, everybody did. Amazing. Yes. And Scott will be back with this, I believe. I can’t remember when he’s coming back. I think he’s actually going going to be there for Thanksgiving. Wow. Nice. So you got a job? Yeah, because we don’t actually hire I mean, we can refer and we can recommend, but we don’t actually do the hiring.

00:32:00:09 – 00:32:35:00
Tom and Bunny
So we’re just employees that we are. But other than that, well, Party is one of Buddy’s favorites. But again, no swimsuit. we set up a 360 photo booth, but it was raining. Yeah. And we impromptu we had a party down at the parade. Paul and Mark was playing video music, so we set the 360 photo booth and we did like 26 or 27 videos because no one really knew what was down there.

00:32:35:00 – 00:32:56:23
Tom and Bunny
We just at the very last minute, within like 30 minutes before we said we can do it here. You know, I think had we been able to set up for it during Glo party, we would have beat our record on how many people we’ve done videos of. But the fact that it’s 51 hour, we only set it up for one hour.

00:32:56:26 – 00:33:23:26
Tom and Bunny
But the fact is, is it had poured and poured and the crowd was we were afraid people would get up and slip on that. Yeah, it’s not a very big platform really. And the reason why we only do it for one hour is because hedonism is all inclusive. Not only do you get all the food at all the restaurants and the grills, it’s all inclusive with alcohol and people are enjoying the stage show.

00:33:23:26 – 00:33:46:19
Tom and Bunny
And we do the booth from 10 to 11 because after the stage show ends, people start hitting that bar and we realized drunk people why we want to cater to everyone. There are limits to how much you can do, how much I can take when someone I got online, a piece you can take, Well, we’ve got a line of people.

00:33:46:19 – 00:34:04:24
Tom and Bunny
And in a when people have been drinking, they’re not kind of not at their level. Very true. So, I mean, it’s not an upset thing. It’s just that we want to make sure everyone’s safe and we want to make sure our work is safe. So we tear it down. And then that way, me and Bonnie can enjoy the party.

00:34:04:28 – 00:34:39:19
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, cause that it said, that’s my favorite, right? And so, no, it’s definitely a lot of fun. We have fun taking videos, but eventually when my back starts feeling better, I’ll be the fool out there dancing. When they play Sandstorm by Druid anything techno because that’s all I can dance to because I don’t have any rhythm. Now, the one thing was I got to relax in the morning because Bonnie had to go to rehearsals every morning at 930 now ten, 930 the first day.

00:34:39:21 – 00:35:01:27
Tom and Bunny
So I got to just chill in the air conditioned room and yes, and our air conditioning actually worked this time. Yeah, it was cold. And what they do is they’ll do a final video of the performance and then they send me the video and I put it up on YouTube, but it’s not open to the public and I share it to just the girls so they can keep watching it.

00:35:01:27 – 00:35:23:27
Tom and Bunny
So that and I’ll tell you what, this year, because we did that and those videos were viewed quite a bit. Yeah, the performance this year was really good. Yeah. Yeah. What are you talking about? They had it down day one, right? But I watched all the views on YouTube, so they were watching it during the week. All week long.

00:35:23:27 – 00:36:05:06
Tom and Bunny
Because you could tell. Right, right. Cause day number two, let’s see here. The first rehearsal was on Monday, right? Then they do the catamaran. They came back on Wednesday. Winston was late coming to rehearsal, so we started without them. They already had it all down. Good. Completely down. So, yeah, the girls on no swimsuit do a rehearsal every day because on Friday night, even though all the votes have been cast and everything and we’re going to announce a winner by what, 830 and 8:00, they start the stage show.

00:36:05:06 – 00:36:33:29
Tom and Bunny
And that’s where we got multiple people going up and entertaining the audience and talking about that week and the past and the future and everything. And then the girls come out and do that stage show and then we then they come out and they do the question, Yeah, they come out, do a nude question, and then they all line up.

00:36:33:29 – 00:37:03:25
Tom and Bunny
I, I wanted to get a picture of all of them in the gowns so that way I could post it because it didn’t work out that way. So when they’re all nude, if I post it, blur out, somebody is going to complain. It’s still going to get hit and we still get I get a little thing. Yeah, I try not to do that, but we can post our on no swimsuit dot com and it will be Yeah that will be yeah.

00:37:03:25 – 00:37:30:01
Tom and Bunny
Because you know what we are actually redesigning our website too so everything is going to be new and fresh out there pretty soon. Yep. And lots of links to see. Can I go back and reset. No. So that we don’t trace nothing. We’re unscripted. Yes. Start to finish what we started. UPS 38 minutes. Sorry. No one’s going to walk it that far.

00:37:30:04 – 00:37:52:26
Tom and Bunny
If you watch it that far. Flub in common. There you go. There you go, buddy. Flubbed up. what do I always do? Flub up, Flub up. So what else, if anything? No, no. It’s just, you know, if you guys want to book with this, if you want to have a lots and lots of fun, give us a call.

00:37:52:26 – 00:38:16:20
Tom and Bunny
I can. The phone number. Right. I got to figure it out right there. you got to see her. we got to go sit on that. it’s it’s bad. It’s backwards. Okay? That’s why I’m always doing it wrong. But call us 800 2850853 and check it out. You can even. it knocked out that one. Yes.

00:38:16:24 – 00:38:37:11
Tom and Bunny
If you’re watching, if you’re on podcast sorry there is a screen up of mine and Bonnie’s cartoon character with Tom strips 800 to 8 50853. You can book your travel directly with but yes. Then just a reminder that hedonism is no longer a place that you can just book at the spur of the moment. you’re going to book.

00:38:37:12 – 00:39:02:26
Tom and Bunny
I was talking to Harry about it. It’s it’s gone crazy. Four or five months out, it’s sold out. I mean, we’re sitting here right now, March 17th. We have a trip, June 15th through the 22nd. Sorry, We had a friend contact us yesterday. We had rooms where he had a room and he gave it up Well, but then he called before we left and he said he may go.

00:39:02:26 – 00:39:29:06
Tom and Bunny
He had to wait to figure out financial because it rooms were to him for at that time. And he goes, can we keep an eye out in the room? Well, there’s no keeping an eye out cause when you want it and because we can’t hold nothing. No. And he reached out to us yesterday and unfortunately. But when he first reached out to us, there were six rooms available, both and the cheapest category.

00:39:29:09 – 00:39:50:18
Tom and Bunny
And but I get it. He wanted to make sure he could pay for rent and his waiting for bonus, but also to the other thing is is like for our week in October I already have a list of waiting waiting list. So yeah, just because an event is up by a week, that is by week. Yeah, that’s. That’s for our single rooms.

00:39:50:18 – 00:40:15:28
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Singles. They only allow 20 single mothers, female or male, right. Yes. I just want to clarify, but it’s more the traveling. It’s only 20 singles. But we do have at this very moment out of 280 some rooms. 20 rooms left. Yes. And they’re in cheaper categories. They are. Because the what’s the ocean view and the premiums and the Jacuzzi.

00:40:16:01 – 00:40:38:28
Tom and Bunny
But if you want a premium or Jacuzzi, you have to book what we have available in the cheapest category because there is now a waiting list for a premium room and people do cancel. So but in order to get the premium room, the people who booked and showed loyalty on that booking early will get the same awards. Definitely.

00:40:38:28 – 00:40:59:00
Tom and Bunny
If you want to go to bye week October 5th through the 12th, you better be calling us this week because you just booked another one today. No, I’ve got three I have to put in. my God. So they’re going like wildfire. Like I said, this is March 17th and we’re going we figure that these rooms are going to be gone by the 1st of April.

00:40:59:01 – 00:41:23:01
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. And the next. And then everybody will go on a waiting list. And then we’re going to get all the pissed off cancellations. So, yeah, if you want to go bye week, October 5th to the 12th, you got to call Bunny 800 to 8 50853 and you got up, got to make a commitment to reserve your room because if you delay the next day there may not be.

00:41:23:04 – 00:41:48:01
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. No. And you know what we got some really great ones coming up in September. Tom and I will be there for our sentebale on September 28 through October 5th. Those ones, we do have rooms available, not very many, but that one, that one obviously will sell out real quick too. But but definitely, if you want to go with us, that’s going to be the next time we have availability that we’re going.

00:41:48:01 – 00:42:03:29
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, because we’re going on April eight from eight and in September and April and June are both already sold out. Yeah. So yes, rooms go very, very fast. And if, you know, years ago you used to be able to call and say, Hey, I want to go to Hilo next month. sure. Well, we’ll get you. No, no.

00:42:04:01 – 00:42:44:14
Tom and Bunny
Right. Unfortunately, I mean, it’s good for us. It’s good for Hedo, but it’s not good for you guys. Yeah, but yeah, all right. So this was part two of two. Yes, we did. Stay Royalton for four days. Next video We’ll we’ll just we’ll talk about our stay there. I overdosed myself on sugar I’m I’m diabetic I got to meet her there and they they served a pineapple drink that it felt like you’re eating a frickin pineapple.

00:42:44:17 – 00:43:10:02
Tom and Bunny
And I couldn’t stop drinking them. No, I didn’t even get heartburn. I was just such a sucker, and I didn’t even think he was like, I’m not drunk. I honestly wasn’t drunk, but he just like, yeah, yeah, we’ll talk about that. Yeah, diabetic and pineapple drinking, pineapple juice. Don’t what not to do. Right at an all inclusive resort in Jamaica.

00:43:10:02 – 00:43:32:27
Tom and Bunny
In Jamaica. All right, so we’re going to cut this. And just so you know, all of our videos are on podcast except for our little short promotional videos and all of our podcast are on YouTube. So you can listen to it in your car, you can watch it, whatever you want to do. We do appreciate the comments, the feedback, not the negative ones.

00:43:32:27 – 00:43:58:19
Tom and Bunny
We delete and block those, so don’t even waste your time. No, it might be up for a few hours, could be up for a week or two, but you will be dealt with like deleted block And we’re just trying to have fun and we’re trying to make things easier on you, too. Yes. So until next time, if you have any questions or want us to talk about something, definitely make a comment.

00:43:58:19 – 00:44:10:24
Tom and Bunny
We do read the comments we. Well, you do. I do. I do before and I tell buddy the good ones. Yeah. So anyway, until next time. We’ll see you soon. We’ll see you soon.

Old Fat Guys and Ms No Swimsuit Part 1

Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks and the Ms No Swimsuit contest at Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny

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00:00:03:04 – 00:00:26:11
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here. And I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos in the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips dot com or give us a call at one 800 2850853. And I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:26:11 – 00:01:06:11
Tom and Bunny
However, while we’re Tom, everybody from Tom and money.com and we recently just got back from Hayden as to end to make with Tom’s trips. You’re a leader in adult lifestyle travel. And we spent three weeks in Jamaica, 21 days, 1t1 day. And boy, let me tell you, it was it was long. It was a ball buster. It was so far we’ve never I mean, we’ve traveled around the United States for like a couple of months, but never out of the country for such a long, long period.

00:01:06:13 – 00:01:31:01
Tom and Bunny
I missed my baby. Yeah. Mama, Mama bear only list. We really missed our baby. But you know what? I was the perfect wife while I was there. You are. I was. How are you? Dare I ask, how are you the perfect wife? Because I brought you a picture of Bam. Say, Dad, bring a picture up. Bam! So I could put it by the nightstand.

00:01:31:03 – 00:02:02:01
Tom and Bunny
I’ll post the picture. See, I’m special. You are? Who brings a picture of their dog? And it’s not even that. Well, we weren’t on vacation. We were working. We did get four days of a vacation. We did this. Absolutely amazing. So let’s start. Start. You wanted to start with something. So let’s if you’re listening to this on a podcast, this is kind of a visual thing.

00:02:02:01 – 00:02:39:21
Tom and Bunny
So you might want to jump over to our YouTube channel, Tom and Bonnie. And so we motor Buddy reached out to us. Yes. And they said we got a new roller bag. You might be interested. I’m trying to figure out what way my head tilts. And we already have the heart case. That’s right. Be right behind me back there, you can see this whole block thing and they thought this would be a little more to our needs because it has a lot of compartments and it’s a soft sided and goes fits right in the car.

00:02:39:21 – 00:03:10:08
Tom and Bunny
Perfect. Yes. And so they asked if we needed any more attachments because we keep a motor. Buddy Hayden is in to make, but we also have two motor buddies here. So I’m like, I think we’re good. But let me just take a look just in case they came out with something new that we didn’t have. So I jump on their website and I noticed that they had a doc and vacuum attachment.

00:03:10:11 – 00:03:35:10
Tom and Bunny
I don’t know how long it’s been there or how how long they had it for the original motor buddy. Now we have that attachment on the buck, but we never had it on the original motor buddy. So Bonnie has a bunch of doc charts and marital aids. So we had boom. Yes, she has. From Skinny, too thick, too long.

00:03:35:10 – 00:04:21:13
Tom and Bunny
The short to different types of textures to double. Yeah. And she has a hand thing, so I’ve got quite the array. Yeah. So when we saw that, we we reached out and said we could definitely use that attachment and we’ll take one to him ism in Jamaica. So that way if someone hasn’t tried the motor buddy, they can bring their own preferred Doc Johnson attachment to try out on an actual real motor buddy And it makes it, it makes it because that way the girl is more comfortable when she tries something knowing that she is already comfortable with it.

00:04:21:18 – 00:04:57:03
Tom and Bunny
So it’s a good multiple use to to try it. Right. And like, like Bonnie, like I said, she has an array of attachments and depending on the time is depending on what attachment. So I have an extra special one now you do. So we thought, we’re going to get this vacuum attachment. Let’s go on Amazon and let’s let’s order a Doc Johnson Yeah, let’s order a new one, sort of a new one.

00:04:57:05 – 00:05:25:29
Tom and Bunny
Something that is different that I’ve never tried before. We went to the marital aid store and my God, there are about three or four times more money than on Amazon. So we didn’t buy one that we were holding in our hand. We can figure it out. Look at the size, the girth. So when we’re looking at it there, we’re looking at one that was kind of it.

00:05:26:02 – 00:05:55:11
Tom and Bunny
It didn’t look like a human. No, no. It looked a little bit different. So I thought, you know what? This one looks really interesting. I’ve never tried anything like this before. It has like three different big bulky ridges. And so they had a small one and a large one. Now, us not thinking the large the large ones said ten inches thick that weren’t thick.

00:05:55:11 – 00:06:30:20
Tom and Bunny
And you don’t have to put it all the way, you know. And I said two and a half inches around. So I’m like okay, we’re thinking two and a half inches is like, you know, do I like, you know, I’m doing girl math? Yeah, I’m doing guy math. And so the other one was quite a bit smaller like and since 7/8 is and so I think it’s worth thinking is like the small one because she has said once and girth here once so Tom’s like you you could handle the other one, you know.

00:06:30:23 – 00:06:58:11
Tom and Bunny
So yeah, go big or go home. Yeah. We don’t know. Size Queen was a real size when we’re at the marital aid store that had size queen ones that were like this big around, like the fence posts and like this this long so this big around that long. No way. We thought because we thought doc chances were more human anatomy.

00:06:58:11 – 00:07:28:09
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, more. Yeah because they have it was all more corn stars. Yeah. Corn stuff. Yes. So you could use there anatomy. Exactly. So if you watch them on the movies, you can actually use their aid. So I really, you know, and going back or going back, I really wish that Amazon would put on there that it might appear bigger smaller.

00:07:28:11 – 00:07:52:21
Tom and Bunny
Harris Might appear smaller than yeah, it appears smaller than actual size. So this is what we haven’t even opened it and woven when figuring out some type of pull game to use with that. But I was thinking ring toss or it’s it’s pretty but I think that would weigh down our luggage going to Hedo so well it’s definitely going to Hedo because it’s not staying here Why not.

00:07:52:21 – 00:08:18:13
Tom and Bunny
We’ll just put it up on the TV stand. All right. So this is what I ordered. Lucky put your fist up there, player first. Up next to it, put your fist up. No, no, no. Like next to it. That’s her fist. That’s crazy. Well, I mean, I’m not saying it’s crazy because some people. Yeah. Would be able to have no problem.

00:08:18:17 – 00:08:47:12
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, but no, not funny. This is not going in my in my marital aids box. So all the comments that we get all looking for some BBC. No, we aren’t. We’re not opposed. We’re, we’re equal opportunist. So wait, you know, if, if a guy is that big, it’s definitely, you know, unsubscribe from our channel. Don’t comment. Don’t follow us because it’s never going to happen.

00:08:47:15 – 00:09:12:21
Tom and Bunny
So so basically what I just bought was a $50 ring toss scheme. We haven’t even taken it. I wonder if we can get reimbursed for that for a ring toss game. I doubt that we’ll get a huge no. So so yesterday it comes in the mail comes through Amazon and Tom’s like, well, what’s this other box? Then I’m like, Well, that’s the Doug Johnson that I ordered.

00:09:12:25 – 00:09:42:23
Tom and Bunny
This box is huge and it weighed £5. It’s like in this big box. And I’m like, Well, maybe there’s multiples. I don’t remember what I ordered. Don’t Amazon trunk? yeah. Don’t drink an Amazon. No, you might not be able to read your measurements properly. We’re going to have to get a circumference check. So when it says instant 7/8 our it’s are five inches.

00:09:42:23 – 00:10:08:26
Tom and Bunny
We know how big it is. So basically I spent $50 on it. It gave us a good laugh at that. We were laughing because I want to talk about this on our video. On our next video. First thing I said, either that or we could autograph it and send it to somebody for a mere $500. Right. It’s our our will probably.

00:10:08:28 – 00:10:36:27
Tom and Bunny
We’re still waiting on insurance. On my issue. If you watched my broken Yes video what we’ve I have to do a go fund me so maybe we’ll option an office give it to the person that donates them most at one time. There you go. They’ll be where are we can do it to where? No matter what the donations are, we just in our name for every donation.

00:10:37:00 – 00:11:01:16
Tom and Bunny
But it has to be over some amount. It can’t be a box. A big cost like 25 bucks. That’s all right. That’s all right. So look out. Possibly for a go fund me. We don’t really know. We don’t want to do it, but surgery, if we if we have to pay for. It’s about $20,000. Yes. So what? We’re still waiting to do an update video on that.

00:11:01:17 – 00:11:24:14
Tom and Bunny
Yes. As soon as we know that’ll be coming out. Yes. All right. So you know what? The past three weeks, like I said, they absolutely want a lot faster than I anticipated. Then it actually went. But we had two great groups. We did. And we literally we got there on Thursday. Normally when we get there on Thursday, we’re the first of our group.

00:11:24:16 – 00:11:51:08
Tom and Bunny
We were not this time. No, there was like already 15, 20 people there waiting. Yes, but they all went to bed. Yeah, I think it was a travel day. Everybody was already in bed. I think. Gosh, So let’s start there. Don’t ever travel when somebody is getting ready to do an election in Jamaica. Now let’s first start off the travel advisory.

00:11:51:10 – 00:12:28:02
Tom and Bunny
They had Jamaica at a level four travel advisory. Now we’re not advising anything, but we did not feel uncomfortable there. We went to dinner at Rex Cafe and Ivan’s restaurant three times. We went on multiple pub crawls during our time and talking to the multiple drivers we had and the staff at the resort, they they all said that in a is they’re not seeing anything.

00:12:28:07 – 00:12:54:24
Tom and Bunny
So when they’re doing that Jamaican alert, they’re covering the whole they’re putting a blanket over the whole country. So basically it’s going to be if you’re looking for trouble, you can find trouble. Yeah, but yeah, we never felt unsafe at all. No, but like I say, we’re not advising anything. Whatever makes you comfortable here, just use your judgment.

00:12:54:26 – 00:13:24:22
Tom and Bunny
We go back here in the next few weeks. Yeah. April 22, 27, for our Hito Hotshots, and then we go back again in June. So we’re still going back? Yeah. Now, with that said, there was an election going on. Yes. And we did not know that the president of Jamaica was in Lucy, which is the halfway point between Montego Bay and Negro.

00:13:24:24 – 00:13:49:15
Tom and Bunny
And we got stuck in. God. Hope. Hope. Well, Hopewell Well, we were stuck about four or five miles before. Hopewell Yeah. Hopewell It’s going to be the first bigger town or parish between Montego Bay right after actually, right after you leave Montego Bay, that’s going to be the first biggest parish. Well, it what we were stuck there for like two and a half hours in traffic.

00:13:49:15 – 00:14:20:23
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Now, this is a two Lane Island road. The ocean’s literally literally two lanes because there is nowhere to pass. I’ll look for the picture and I’ll post here. Our two lane road became a five lane road because every idiot in the world was trying to pass, which now they have to merge back in and our driver was a safe driver and I would have asked him to do anything.

00:14:20:26 – 00:15:02:26
Tom and Bunny
No illegal. They literally had everything even off to the road during in the dirt on both sides were completely packed. People were trying to pass into oncoming traffic. Ambulances and in police cars couldn’t even get through. We got passed by a cow and we did it. How do you get past it? Looks out the window and goes, There’s a cow trot and passed us because in Jamaica, you know, sometimes they get off their leash because if they’re not in a fence, they’ve got a leash in, they’re chained to the ground so they can pick that area around them.

00:15:03:04 – 00:15:27:16
Tom and Bunny
Sometimes they get off and they run down the road. Yep. And that’s what happened. We got passed by a cow. Now we’re still not seeing anything. We’re thinking there’s an accident because typically when they’re you’re in that kind of traffic and there’s an accident, you’re stopped because it is a two lane road. And even our driver, Michael, says, there’s an intersection about a mile or so up.

00:15:27:16 – 00:15:47:23
Tom and Bunny
That’s probably where the accident is. That’s typically someone’s pulling out or in or motorcycle accidents. And it’s not like you have waves or Google Maps. I had ways. Yeah, but you couldn’t see. No, it didn’t have all the alerts we have and then the states. So all I could tell us how far we were from heading. So it took us two and a half hours.

00:15:47:23 – 00:16:28:18
Tom and Bunny
We finally get through Hopewell and they yeah, we seen a lot of people on the streets, but nothing that was more than usual right? So we get once we get through Hopewell, we start going. We’re like, Yes, finally we’re rolling and we’re passing. And then we stopped again. It’s just before Lucy Just before Lucy. Well, as you go around the island, you don’t really not normally notice it when you’re just driving, but when you’re in dead, stop, You could actually see were curved around and went through Lucy and our driver says to us, Hey, if you don’t mind, I know this way we can go through the neighborhoods and we can avoid a lot of

00:16:28:18 – 00:16:56:16
Tom and Bunny
this traffic. So we did. Yeah. That’s when it got. We thought, Well, we did. That’s when we didn’t feel comfortable because all of a sudden we’re seeing a ton of people in this neighborhood. We never see people. We see a few people hanging out on their porches or barbecuing and stuff like that. But we never see a ton of people walking the street.

00:16:56:22 – 00:17:25:08
Tom and Bunny
And one of the things, too, you got to understand in in Lucy there, their regular residential streets would be like what our alleys look like. Yes. So they’re very narrow. And pretty much she can only get one car through there in each direction. Right. And they’re talking to the Michael or driver. That’s what we found out about because everyone was wearing green.

00:17:25:13 – 00:17:57:29
Tom and Bunny
Yes. And we started noticing more and more green the more we approached the actual center of Lucy. And then we see thousands of people now in America. That type of environment could turn ugly really fast. So that’s where we felt our uneasiness. But Michael assured us that when he didn’t even know the president of Jamaica was in Lucy, he just said, They’re having an election and they’re celebrating.

00:17:58:03 – 00:18:24:18
Tom and Bunny
They weren’t protesting. They were violent, they were happy, they were smiling, they were dead. The election had even taken place yet. Right. This was on Thursday. The election was going to happen on Monday. Yeah. So that made us feel a little more comfortable. And we got to then we made it through there just fine. I mean, after we went through there, then we realized we were totally safe and we got to Hedonism.

00:18:24:18 – 00:19:01:25
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, but what normally takes an hour and a half drive to Montego Bay to Negril took us 5 hours, but we stopped at KFC. We did. We did. For the first time in 14 years. If you guys want some good KFC here, you if you’re staying in Montego Bay. Yeah, don’t stop because we stopped and we didn’t realize that from the time we got parked and walked in from the time we made our order, which was just a little box meals to the time we got the three little box meals was 45 minutes.

00:19:01:25 – 00:19:27:04
Tom and Bunny
Yes, it is the most profitable and most busiest KFC in the world. And also to I think that that was our downfall because we had another guest that was there in the airport with us and they had a private transfer to well, they went straight ahead and it only took them two and a half hours. Yeah. So that stop to get the chicken put us behind everything.

00:19:27:05 – 00:19:43:08
Tom and Bunny
Right. But at least we had a meal and we didn’t go in hungry but we didn’t have a bathroom so it’s no way to pull over. I was willing to pee in the bushes because all the other guys were doing that. I was Jamaican. I was willing to to help. And I was thinking I was like, Bonnie won’t care.

00:19:43:08 – 00:20:09:14
Tom and Bunny
She’ll drop her pants and pee. So we, I, we held it. I mean, Bunny are good for 2 hours and we held it for five. Well, the minute the minute I seen everything backing up, I had only probably taken like three drinks out of my soda. I’m like, no, no more. Never, never make it drink. Never. No. And Michael had had his beer and water and thank God we didn’t drink beer.

00:20:09:14 – 00:20:37:24
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, Yeah, I’m. I mean, I’m not a big fan of beer. If he had Red Stripe white, maybe, but Red Stripe, not my. It’s more like Budweiser. Yeah. And also to if you guys know this, if you go to Club Mo Bay, if you get club Mo so you know it’s going to bypass you through immigration it gives you a little lounge while you wait for you that your driver, your van, you can get rum punch to go.

00:20:37:24 – 00:20:59:23
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Thank God I did not do that. Right. Thank God I didn’t even do that. We didn’t even use the lounge. We just walked right out and gotten this car. So we get to Hedonism and they have a new general manager. So we got to meet them. Yes. Very, very nice guy. he seems like he’s going to be a a he’s going.

00:20:59:26 – 00:21:29:17
Tom and Bunny
It is. What we see, because we only saw him for two weeks. Yeah, he’ll. He’ll do good. Yes. We don’t know. The politics are how things handle from the management to the general manager. I can them right so but Bonnie made a comment that the glasses looked a little dingy and it it was water spots. It looked like the dishwashers needed to be clean.

00:21:29:17 – 00:21:49:21
Tom and Bunny
The filters. And lo and behold, the next night, all the glasses were crystal clear. It’s just, you know, it’s little things like that when you run in. Maybe they ran out of the stuff that you put in it and it didn’t stop the stuff you get in the car wash spot free rock free rent. So I don’t know.

00:21:49:21 – 00:22:17:14
Tom and Bunny
But anyway, it was nice to meet him. So very nice, very personable. Right? I love talking to him. He’s from the UK. Yeah. So we did ask though, because one of the things that we always do is, you know, hedonism has a no tipping policy. People will get fired. They will think tips get fired. So believe it or not, it’s just like any other job.

00:22:17:14 – 00:22:48:03
Tom and Bunny
People will tell management if someone gets a tip and they see it. So it’s not like they’re going to. It’s like in America, like any other job, somebody doesn’t like it because they’re not supposed to do it. That’s how they’re going to get found out. Right? So we bring Snickers bars. We brought 140 Snickers bars and then, yeah, every couple of days I’ll walk around first.

00:22:48:03 – 00:23:06:11
Tom and Bunny
I get the bartenders. Yeah, I just want to take care of the bartenders. I take care of the waitstaff. The waitstaff and the late midnight cooks. Yes. I always went out because they never get nothing. So I went over there and they were pretty excited. Yep. As we go by groundskeepers, we hand them to everybody in the front office.

00:23:06:11 – 00:23:34:06
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So we took care of everybody we could. And when you bring Snickers, they come out. Everybody’s like, I want one, I want one. And the biggest one is one of our waitstaff that we’ve known there for years. He’s like, could I have two for my grandchildren? Absolutely. Absolutely. One more. But we actually asked David, we’re like, hey, you know, they say that it tasted different.

00:23:34:12 – 00:23:58:07
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, because he’s from England. He goes, I can attest to that. Yeah. He said it was sweeter. Yeah. So yeah. So if you have any ideas, you know, they definitely tip in stickers. Yeah. And I watched Tick Tock on this English girl who tries American Foods and they have Kit Kats in England, and she tried an American Kit Kat and didn’t like it because it was too sweet.

00:23:58:08 – 00:24:30:21
Tom and Bunny
Too sweet. I remember because we do have that one bartender and he says, I don’t like sweet. Yeah. He goes, No, they’re too sweet. Too sweet. So that’s where we come in. We’re just too sweet. We are too early next year. Next time, I think we have to bring more room. So we we did get a a room and that used to be an ocean view nude room and they had to change its a guard of view regular because when you open the window all you see is a roof.

00:24:30:26 – 00:24:52:15
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, it’s right behind the dive shack. And between the flame and the dive sack, it’s actually a really good location. It has a balcony that you could sit out on that we sat on every single night. Yeah. And we got to say hi to people. Walk into the nude porn back. Now, I did find out that the particular room that we were in was horrible for cell reception.

00:24:52:18 – 00:25:15:23
Tom and Bunny
Yes. Now, for you people, if you’re trying to call Times trips, which is the number like right here, right there. But funny, that answer is because we found out about the horrible cell reception about a week into our staff. Yeah. And it literally we’re just wondering why the phone wasn’t bringing in one of our other host couples was right below us.

00:25:15:23 – 00:25:41:03
Tom and Bunny
The the room directly below us and they didn’t have any issues. It was just that particular area. When I went around, everything dropped right soft. So I told them I can’t have that room anymore. So our first week was all fat guys with hot chicks. my God, we absolutely love that group. We do. I haven’t. You know, we haven’t laughed so hard in such a long time.

00:25:41:03 – 00:26:09:18
Tom and Bunny
And it was such a good, refreshing time to go after the holidays and after the back to back with Jan. It was just great to let loose and have fun with them. Well, one of the things is it’s such they started off with, what, four or five couples years ago and now like 77 rooms. Yeah, they are so big now as a host couple, we do the pool games.

00:26:09:21 – 00:26:31:20
Tom and Bunny
We we usually bring a deejay or an entertainer, but if not, we then we got to coordinate with the Jamaican deejay. We we do the cocktail parties and we do the meet and greets. We do the offsite dinners and the pub crawls. This year, Well, last year, too. But this year was even better. They got their own entertainment committee.

00:26:31:27 – 00:27:05:07
Tom and Bunny
They’re on their own Facebook chat. And one of the couples, Paula, she’s kind of in charge of it, I think. And she coordinated the room crawl. Yeah, they they coordinated all the pool games. Me and Bunny are I mean, we did the offsite site dinner and we set up the pub crawl, but and Pat on Bunny’s back. She got those old fat guys a cooler, cooler full of beer and an extra case of beer for the winter.

00:27:05:09 – 00:27:33:13
Tom and Bunny
Before we started the pub crawl. We did. We went through over two cases. Beer? Yup. And that was just a staff plus bar at the bar and we bought all the bars. So it was it’s just very nice that we’re more of a support asset between the group and the resort. It was so nice to just sit in the pool and watch other people put on the game.

00:27:33:15 – 00:28:00:02
Tom and Bunny
We do want to say a big, huge thank you to the old fat guys with hot chicks for making us so welcome, but also allowing us to enjoy our time and not feel like we have had to be responsible for each and every single event. It was really fun. And then they have one of one of the guests works for or does Pure Romance Party.

00:28:00:03 – 00:28:24:06
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So maybe you sort of called her on that. Doc Johnson, back to you laughing because obviously we don’t know measurements. They donated all of the marital aids to give away as prizes. Yeah. So it was really, really nice. That was really cool. And up the prize value. Yes. And it just goes to show how many amazing people travel.

00:28:24:08 – 00:29:01:10
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So if you’re interested in old fat guys with hot chicks, I’ll tell you what, it’s explain. It’s not old fact, guys. Maybe one. But the the women are everything from what I twenties to. Well, yeah 56 days. So yeah. but me and Bonnie fit in well with our highway age, all that stuff, don’t you agree? Yeah.

00:29:01:17 – 00:29:24:19
Tom and Bunny
So when we went on the pub crawl, most all of us wore are old fat guys with hot chick. I’ll put that picture. Yeah. So and then we got to remember because a lot of times I said, I’ll put a picture in, you forget. So as we’re coming back in to hedonism, this young girl looks at me and she goes, Is that your old fat guy?

00:29:24:19 – 00:29:47:18
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like, Yes. And she goes, Dude, you’re too skinny. You need to be kicked out. I lost 60 some pounds. I mean, if you see our pictures and our social media and our videos, you could see I used to have a fat brown head and now it’s getting more slender. I don’t really have a gut no more.

00:29:47:20 – 00:30:11:23
Tom and Bunny
So, yeah, I should be exiled from old fat guys. Know that just goes to show that it’s not. It’s just a fun name. It is a fun name. And it’s a really, really fun group. Now what you got to do is you got to go to times trips dot com and click on group trips and you’ll see old fat guys attack sex one of the dates next year.

00:30:11:26 – 00:30:42:16
Tom and Bunny
I have it right here in front of me. my God. my gosh. She just got a new price. Pricey. February 22nd to March 1st. Right. And what’s the cheapest? Room? 310 a night per person. All right. So singles are a little slight are slightly more. So you definitely if you do double occupancy it’s cheaper all around But old fat guys attack chicks definitely, definitely recommend that because we will be there.

00:30:42:18 – 00:31:02:16
Tom and Bunny
yes, we will. We’ll be the naked ones in the nude pool, watching the game, watching the games, I think actually got up and participated in one of them. I think you did. I did. I know you did. You look like a you look like a roll of lifesavers. So they pop these big laps. yeah. gosh.

00:31:02:21 – 00:31:30:12
Tom and Bunny
And they’re like, got them. You want to go put them on and show them again? So it’s a No, we’re not. We’re are. They’re in my room. You want me? Go get it. Go get it. But I’ll explain why. So they say they’re going to have a beer chugging contest and I haven’t chugged the beer in years. And I’m thinking I can do this because it’s just those like 12 ounce glasses and I’ll just inhale both of them.

00:31:30:14 – 00:31:56:23
Tom and Bunny
Although I was up against some stiff competition because these guys, a lot of them are from Wisconsin and all they do is drink beer and eat cheese. And I but I thought I could hold my own with them and they they bring out after we’re all standing there and they hand us each two beers, they bring out these lips and body is taking forever because now I’m going to run out of time.

00:31:56:26 – 00:32:24:09
Tom and Bunny
But we all had to put these big lips on before we chugged the beer. I lied. she lied. So the lips go under your over your teeth. So basically you bite down on it like vampire teeth and you can’t drink nothing through them. So when I’m drinking it just all pouring down everything but you coming back. I’m coming back.

00:32:24:09 – 00:32:53:28
Tom and Bunny
You’re coming back. I lied. She lied. But anyway, it added a little cool fun to the actual head. I could see up your skirt. Oops. If I could have taken a picture when everybody turned around with those lips. my God. It took, like, a couple minutes to even get them on. I love. I had different colors. Yours was right.

00:32:54:04 – 00:33:14:06
Tom and Bunny
Pink was my hot pink or pink. You had pink. somebody has red. They had purple. It was the color of the rainbow up there. this is so funny. But yeah, no one could chug a beer and it just went right down here. Yes. So that was just a fun game I lost. You did lose. I thought I was going to drown.

00:33:14:08 – 00:33:50:10
Tom and Bunny
But that other that other game that we did, you look like a to a roll of lifesavers, Candy. So they have another game and we’ve been doing it for years and they throw out the little scrunchies, the thin round scrunchies, the hair ties and all the guys put them around their member. Yeah. And I’m sitting there like when we normally when we do it, we throw them all out and then people can pick them up and do it, right.

00:33:50:16 – 00:34:10:29
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. But they were giving each guy five and so this girl comes up to hand me five and I’m like, I’ll just put them on. So she starts putting them on and on and on. And mind you, my crap is broken and you got up to 12 and there was still room. You look like the rainbow of proof.

00:34:11:04 – 00:34:35:08
Tom and Bunny
I did look like the lifesavers in that. So as girls were coming around trying to collect them because they won a prize by the person who was able to pause the most off. I would only like each girl pull off for free That way. I gave more girls time to touch me. Hey, I know you did. You Did.

00:34:35:10 – 00:34:59:24
Tom and Bunny
stop, stop, stop, stop. First I let the first two girls pull them up. yeah. Then I heard they were supposed to use their mouths. yeah. So I made the other girl, honored her deal and pulled me up to the side of the pool. And then another girl. So that. That completed my. Yeah, but I. You grew up in the beginning, me being deaf.

00:34:59:24 – 00:35:10:14
Tom and Bunny
I didn’t hear the rules of the game. So even with a broken member, you still got taken care of. I did fight multiple women.

00:35:10:16 – 00:35:37:03
Tom and Bunny
That was fun. I was Later on, after we went to another resort, I was walking into the pool and our friend Denise looks up at me and goes, You got it fixed. And I said, No. She goes, What do you mean no? I said, No. That’s just where it hangs. And starts out. It gets bigger from there. Really does.

00:35:37:08 – 00:36:06:28
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Yes. She was like, I like that. It’s floating. Just the floating. So that was kind of funny. Yeah. She thought I got my junk fixed and she was like, That was fast. I just saw your video. My No, no no, no. Unfortunately, it’s not. No, no. I’ve got to make a phone call this week. All right, so back to hedonism.

00:36:06:28 – 00:36:27:07
Tom and Bunny
But no, no, we’re fine. We’re fine. Yeah, because this could be a podcast. What’s that? 35 minute. What do you want to go part two? Yeah, we got to do a part two because we still got lots of stories from It’s no swimsuit. Okay, So what? We’re going to just stop this one and restart it. We’re going to wear the same clothes and we’re going to do part two.

00:36:27:07 – 00:36:39:11
Tom and Bunny
Why? We’re still fresh thinking about it. Yeah, because I got to I got to recite my pickup lines that I heard. Okay. All right. So we’ll be back in a little bit. We’ll see you soon. Season.

 

 

Lifestyle Month at Hedonism Recap with Tom and Bunny

Lifestyle Month at Hedonism Recap with Tom and Bunny

In this podcast we discuss our travels with Tom’s Trips to Hedonism resort in Negril Jamaica during the world famous Lifestyle Month, upcoming events and fun stories.

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What happens at Hedonism with TomandBunny

What happens at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny

In this podcast we discuss typical daily activities while at the world famous Hedonism Resort in Negril Jamaica..   Book your next vacation with Tom’s Trips 800-285-0853

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General Chit Chat with TomandBunny

General Chit Chat with Tom and Bunny

In this podcast we discuss what’s been happening in the world of Tom and Bunny.  We discuss going on a date, going to our first lifestyle club (The Red Room) in Nashville and other lifestyle topics.

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Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and Bunny

Virtual Swing Party with Tom and Bunny

Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and Bunny

We are excited to be part of the launch of the Virtual Swing Party Saturday April 25th 2020 and we will be hosting our very own room during this event. See you all April 25th VIRTUALLY LIVE! – Tom and Bunny – Please click this link below to learn all the details we will be producing and more about this event! https://bit.ly/2K8r6Ti

We are excited to be hosting our very own room on the brand new Ethical Consensual Non-Monogamy Swingers Lifestyle platform “Virtual Swing Party” on April 25th 2020

With the trends of the Corona Virus aka COVID19 and the social distancing that is taking place, all the Swingers Lifestyle clubs, House Parties and Hotel take-over events have been shut down in order to let this pandemic pass us by and to get the world back to a normal state.

Virtual Swing party has brought to us the concept of a large scale convention type feel in a virtual setting known as Virtual Swinging throughout the lifestyle community and we were invited to host one of the many rooms they will have open and available to guest through out the event.  Our room will be called “Swinging Lifestyle” and will consist of our personal opinions on what works for us in the swinging lifestyle as well as opinions on what works for others in their quest as they navigate their swinging lifestyles.   This room will be a great room for Couple’s, Single Ladies and Single men who are New to the lifestyle and those experienced who can offer ideas and opinions so people can learn from our past mistakes or look into possibilities that they never thought of before!

The exact time of our room start to end will be posted soon, so we invite you to come and join us as well as navigate everything this event has to offer you.

Some of the rooms you will encounter during this event will include:
  • “The DJ Den” with multiple rooms of interest in music genres, and would be a great place to mix and mingle with others
  • “Virtual Play Rooms” This is your naughty rooms to show and participate with your sexual vibes with others watching and you watching others.
  • “Lights, Costumes and Action” for the guest who would like to dress in their favorite themes
  • “Swinging Lifestyle” Hosted by TomandBunny.com – Opinions from the host and others.
  • “How to make Good Pussy Better with Taylor Sparks”
  • “Lets Get Intimate” a demonstration of the Hi Massager with Dr’s Steve and Wendy
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Staying Connected Through Covid-19 And Beyond…..
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With everyone safely at home helping to defeat the virus, so many of our colleagues have been searching for a way to get back into the “swing” of things from the comfort of home. So, we have assembled a group of the lifestyle’s best Party Hosts, DJ’s, Educators, that are glad to help make this the biggest and sexiest online party ever!??
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How do we meet TomandBunny

How to meet us

TomandBunny behind the scenes making videos for the swingers lifestyle

We are always asked about how we meet people or how they could meet us?
Because of our openness about the swinging lifestyle and yes we are a couple that enjoys meeting other couples and select singles for friendships and fun!  We do receive a lot of email messages and comments on our videos and post about wanting to meet us just to meet us to actual offers to play.  We created this page to help people meet us for the possibilities of play and some hints on how to get our attention, and others.

We are on all the major sites listed below, ( Kasidie, SDC & SLS )  we are on many others but we are mainly active on these three as we have found them to be the best for our needs.

If you are on any of these sites already, you can send us an email to our profile and we are listed as TomandBunny on all three sites.

If not a member on any of the sites, you can join them all for FREE with no credit card required.  On Kasidie, they offer us 90 days free and SDC and SLS 30 days free, these are not bait sites but actual real sites that we use for our personal lifestyle experience.  Each site offers their own unique features and we suggest joining them all. One site may have a better following in one location over another,  so not all sites would work depending on your location. We found benefits using all three during our travels.

Description of you as a couple or single lady or single male:
Take a minute and complete a quality description. Tell a story about you, as a couple, single lady or single male. Describe to the reader who they would meet in person, you do not have to go overboard. Avoid a one line description such as “We are a hot couple, looking for other hot couples”.  We like substance in the people we plan to meet, and because we have not met you,  we would want to feel we have some connection when we do meet in person.

Some suggestions, describe each of you individually with as much detail to give the reader a mental visualization of you. IE: hair color and length, eye color, body type, sense of humor or lack of. When describing yourselves you don’t have to be vulgar or tell the world how amazing you are at oral or sexual positions. Its good idea to tell people what you like to do or what you would like to try. You should comment your level of play you are comfortable with, such as are you Straight, Bi sexual, Bi Curious, open to all possibilities but undecided on your sexuality.  You should also include some personal activities as many others may be attracted to someone they have something in common with, IE: Do you ride motorcycles, do you go boating, camping, sing karaoke etc…

What are you looking for:
Our biggest suggestion is keeping this area all positives and no negatives.  You can list what you don’t want without being rude about it.  You don’t have to go overboard on this section, the more you add the more you will exclude, if that makes any sense. it’s like a search, the more you put in the less results come up.  If you are looking for Couples only this would be a good place to put that. You don’t have to scream that “If we want a single male we will contact you”, if they email you, you can just delete the email. No need to make your profile rude and you shouldn’t fault people for at least reaching out. While you may not be into something today, doesn’t mean tomorrow you may change your mind, that is the beauty of swinging.

Suggestions of what you should list and what you are looking for. IE: If you are very specific and only want fit couples, list that as requirement, however if you are open to all body types, you should mention that so people will know.  If you don’t want people who smoke you should mention that, if you don’t care if they smoke or not, there is no reason to mention that.

We personally are attracted to profiles that can articulate what they want without sounding negative to those who they are not interested in, meaning, we prefer nice and positive people. some will say they are being direct, we say there is a huge difference between being direct and just being rude.

Contacting us on sites:
When emailing us, it is best to tell us something other than just a one word email IE: “Hello” or “Hey” or “Hi“.  Tell us what brought you to email us. What was it in our profile that specifically made you feel you had a connection, was it our photos, was it something in our profile description, maybe what we were looking for, or was it something we listed that we enjoyed that caught your eye?  We, like many others, like compliments. We want to know that someone actually took the time to read our profile, looked at our photos and genuinely had an attraction to us as a couple, not just one of us.   When we email people we always tell them why we are contacting them, but we also list some things in their profile that we found exciting so they know we read their profile, and we always end our email with a question that they can respond to.

Here is our list that we look at when we receive an email:

  1. Did the email introduce themselves and ask questions we could respond to?
  2. Is the profile a Couple, Single Female or Single male?
  3. Does the profile have any photos?
  4. If a couple, are there photos of both the male and female posted?
  5. If they have photos, what is the quality of photos, how old are the photos?
  6. Do they have faces? if not do they have private photos?
  7. Did they open their private photos when they initially emailed us?
  8. We read the full description and what they are looking for in others
  9. Does the description and seeking appear to be what we would be looking for?
  10. We will look at the profile location and ages of the couple or single
  11. If available we look at the age of the profile, how long have they been on the site
  12. We will look for certification of the profile and compare to the date of the profile
  13. We will look at the dates of the certification, are they old or recent
  14. We actually read the certifications and look at the profiles of those who certified

Follow up on what we look for:
We put our face photos on all our profiles and we do have private photos that we do share with profiles that we have an attraction to.  We understand that not everyone can or feels comfortable putting their faces on their profile, we do expect to actually see the couple that we will be emailing with. We suggest putting your non face photos in the public or verified photo gallery and your faces in the private gallery. We would expect people who do not have publicly visible face photos to open their privates without us asking them to. Some express they wanted to see if we had an attraction on their profile before opening their private photos, the answer is no, without seeing your entire profile, we do not. You can have all the body photos in the world, we are attracted to warm smiles and pleasant looks.  We only share our private photos with people we actually plan to meet, our face and body photos are all visible to everyone already.  We prefer to see G-Rated photos, and we enjoy seeing nudes of the people we plan to play with, but we don’t have to see nudes on the initial email.  We upload quality photos, so we expect with the technology of the phones and cameras today, there is no reason for grainy or low quality photos.  We feel that they are hiding something or they are very old photos from old technology and we have to question, what do they look like today.

We meet people based on both physical and mental attractions:
We understand people may use different names in the lifestyle, fudge their ages and weights etc.. we don’t care. It’s about physical and mental attractions, that is why we require photos for the physical and a well written profile for the mental.  A good example is we know couples in their mid to late 60’s that look like they are in their 30’s and 40’s and we know couples in their 30’s and 40’s that look in their 60’s. We never go by ages or weights, if we look at a couple and say ” We wouldn’t kick them out of bed for eating crackers “, we have an attraction.

Become certified:
Remember, there are a lot of fakes, flakes and catfish on the internet, use your best judgement. We look for certifications to help us make a decision. However, we don’t view certifications from the website as a “real” certification, we honestly hate those because anyone can hold a sign with their screen name and date and get certified. We want to see that the profile actually met another profile or went to a club / event.  We at least know the profile actually met someone physically and in person.

We suggest what you should not include in your profile:

  1. SCREAM IN ALL CAPS
  2. Repeating NO SINGLE MALES throughout your profile.
  3. Boosting how awesome you are at oral skills, everyone is a master oral manipulator.
  4. Make the reader feel insecure about their abilities because you boost yours (IE: I will make your wife cum like never before)
  5. That you are Shy, everybody is shy when meeting someone new, it shows lack of confidence.
  6. Putting NO DRAMA or DRAMA FREE, these profiles are typically the drama
  7. Listing as a couple but are single, if you were a couple and no longer, change your profile.
  8. being too politically correct, IE: if you require condoms, put that, if your don’t, don’t add it and try to play without them. people don’t like liars.
  9. Politics, leave the politics or views at home.  If you are just so dead set you can’t play with someone with opposing views, list it. (Still sounds like a negative)
  10. Negatives, your profile should be 100% positive, the reader will see your negativity as a reason not to contact you or reply to your emails.

We do not use KIK:
To finish up, we get a lot of emails that tell us that the profile doesn’t post photos but to chat them on KIK and they will send photos on there. We honestly do not use KIK. If a profile chooses not to upload photos to the sites listed below, we wouldn’t be interested in going out of our way to communicate in another spectrum just to get photos.

In conclusion:
We hope we gave you an honest view on how we view other profiles and how we engage with others on matchmaker websites. and our opinion as to how others would also treat other profiles contacting them.

We do receive our share of emails and we appreciate it. To be up front, we do not feel because we have a profile and someone emails us we are required to respond.

Single men.
We mainly look to meet with couples. Please feel free to email us on these sites, we do keep an open mind and our options open. We would be very picky on who we allow as a single male into our personal lifestyle, but know that your profile needs to be really appealing with full photos of you and your face for us to respond and that your email and profile is respectful.  we only reply to emails that we feel we would be a match, and if we do reply to your email, that doesn’t mean that we are a sure thing, it just means your profile peaked our curiosity. Note: Tom is not a cuckold and we have no intention of someone wanting to dominate either one of us.

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