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How to meet Couples and Singles

Are you looking to do something while Social Distancing?  Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic!
Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. to obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

 

Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and Bunny

Virtual Swing Party with Tom and Bunny

Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and Bunny

We are excited to be part of the launch of the Virtual Swing Party Saturday April 25th 2020 and we will be hosting our very own room during this event. See you all April 25th VIRTUALLY LIVE! – Tom and Bunny – Please click this link below to learn all the details we will be producing and more about this event! https://bit.ly/2K8r6Ti

We are excited to be hosting our very own room on the brand new Ethical Consensual Non-Monogamy Swingers Lifestyle platform “Virtual Swing Party” on April 25th 2020

With the trends of the Corona Virus aka COVID19 and the social distancing that is taking place, all the Swingers Lifestyle clubs, House Parties and Hotel take-over events have been shut down in order to let this pandemic pass us by and to get the world back to a normal state.

Virtual Swing party has brought to us the concept of a large scale convention type feel in a virtual setting known as Virtual Swinging throughout the lifestyle community and we were invited to host one of the many rooms they will have open and available to guest through out the event.  Our room will be called “Swinging Lifestyle” and will consist of our personal opinions on what works for us in the swinging lifestyle as well as opinions on what works for others in their quest as they navigate their swinging lifestyles.   This room will be a great room for Couple’s, Single Ladies and Single men who are New to the lifestyle and those experienced who can offer ideas and opinions so people can learn from our past mistakes or look into possibilities that they never thought of before!

The exact time of our room start to end will be posted soon, so we invite you to come and join us as well as navigate everything this event has to offer you.

Some of the rooms you will encounter during this event will include:
  • “The DJ Den” with multiple rooms of interest in music genres, and would be a great place to mix and mingle with others
  • “Virtual Play Rooms” This is your naughty rooms to show and participate with your sexual vibes with others watching and you watching others.
  • “Lights, Costumes and Action” for the guest who would like to dress in their favorite themes
  • “Swinging Lifestyle” Hosted by TomandBunny.com – Opinions from the host and others.
  • “How to make Good Pussy Better with Taylor Sparks”
  • “Lets Get Intimate” a demonstration of the Hi Massager with Dr’s Steve and Wendy
Please feel free to click any of the images to go directly to Virtual Swing Party’s website for all the information and how to book the event for April 25th, 2020
See you there!
Tom and Bunny
Keeping The Lifestyle Together 
When Life Keeps Us Apart
TICKETS AND FIRST ROUND OF ROOMS RELEASED!
Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and Bunny
Staying Connected Through Covid-19 And Beyond…..
For those in the lifestyle, the act of social distancing is especially hard. We are part of a community where so many relationships extend beyond those with whom we live. We look forward to the day when we all celebrate being “social” again together with our closest and dearest friends!
So, we are excited to announce that a group of the country’s top lifestyle promoters have teamed up to bring you Virtual Swing Parties that mirror the experience of being at an actual live event!!!
With everyone safely at home helping to defeat the virus, so many of our colleagues have been searching for a way to get back into the “swing” of things from the comfort of home. So, we have assembled a group of the lifestyle’s best Party Hosts, DJ’s, Educators, that are glad to help make this the biggest and sexiest online party ever!??
You can expect an online experience like no other with
MULTIPLE HOSTED ROOMS AT
ONE HUGE ONLINE EVENT!

Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and BunnyVirtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and BunnyTICKETS AND FIRST ROUND OF ROOMS RELEASED

How do we meet TomandBunny

How to meet us

TomandBunny behind the scenes making videos for the swingers lifestyle

We are always asked about how we meet people or how they could meet us?
Because of our openness about the swinging lifestyle and yes we are a couple that enjoys meeting other couples and select singles for friendships and fun!  We do receive a lot of email messages and comments on our videos and post about wanting to meet us just to meet us to actual offers to play.  We created this page to help people meet us for the possibilities of play and some hints on how to get our attention, and others.

We are on all the major sites listed below, ( Kasidie, SDC & SLS )  we are on many others but we are mainly active on these three as we have found them to be the best for our needs.

If you are on any of these sites already, you can send us an email to our profile and we are listed as TomandBunny on all three sites.

If not a member on any of the sites, you can join them all for FREE with no credit card required.  On Kasidie, they offer us 90 days free and SDC and SLS 30 days free, these are not bait sites but actual real sites that we use for our personal lifestyle experience.  Each site offers their own unique features and we suggest joining them all. One site may have a better following in one location over another,  so not all sites would work depending on your location. We found benefits using all three during our travels.

Description of you as a couple or single lady or single male:
Take a minute and complete a quality description. Tell a story about you, as a couple, single lady or single male. Describe to the reader who they would meet in person, you do not have to go overboard. Avoid a one line description such as “We are a hot couple, looking for other hot couples”.  We like substance in the people we plan to meet, and because we have not met you,  we would want to feel we have some connection when we do meet in person.

Some suggestions, describe each of you individually with as much detail to give the reader a mental visualization of you. IE: hair color and length, eye color, body type, sense of humor or lack of. When describing yourselves you don’t have to be vulgar or tell the world how amazing you are at oral or sexual positions. Its good idea to tell people what you like to do or what you would like to try. You should comment your level of play you are comfortable with, such as are you Straight, Bi sexual, Bi Curious, open to all possibilities but undecided on your sexuality.  You should also include some personal activities as many others may be attracted to someone they have something in common with, IE: Do you ride motorcycles, do you go boating, camping, sing karaoke etc…

What are you looking for:
Our biggest suggestion is keeping this area all positives and no negatives.  You can list what you don’t want without being rude about it.  You don’t have to go overboard on this section, the more you add the more you will exclude, if that makes any sense. it’s like a search, the more you put in the less results come up.  If you are looking for Couples only this would be a good place to put that. You don’t have to scream that “If we want a single male we will contact you”, if they email you, you can just delete the email. No need to make your profile rude and you shouldn’t fault people for at least reaching out. While you may not be into something today, doesn’t mean tomorrow you may change your mind, that is the beauty of swinging.

Suggestions of what you should list and what you are looking for. IE: If you are very specific and only want fit couples, list that as requirement, however if you are open to all body types, you should mention that so people will know.  If you don’t want people who smoke you should mention that, if you don’t care if they smoke or not, there is no reason to mention that.

We personally are attracted to profiles that can articulate what they want without sounding negative to those who they are not interested in, meaning, we prefer nice and positive people. some will say they are being direct, we say there is a huge difference between being direct and just being rude.

Contacting us on sites:
When emailing us, it is best to tell us something other than just a one word email IE: “Hello” or “Hey” or “Hi“.  Tell us what brought you to email us. What was it in our profile that specifically made you feel you had a connection, was it our photos, was it something in our profile description, maybe what we were looking for, or was it something we listed that we enjoyed that caught your eye?  We, like many others, like compliments. We want to know that someone actually took the time to read our profile, looked at our photos and genuinely had an attraction to us as a couple, not just one of us.   When we email people we always tell them why we are contacting them, but we also list some things in their profile that we found exciting so they know we read their profile, and we always end our email with a question that they can respond to.

Here is our list that we look at when we receive an email:

  1. Did the email introduce themselves and ask questions we could respond to?
  2. Is the profile a Couple, Single Female or Single male?
  3. Does the profile have any photos?
  4. If a couple, are there photos of both the male and female posted?
  5. If they have photos, what is the quality of photos, how old are the photos?
  6. Do they have faces? if not do they have private photos?
  7. Did they open their private photos when they initially emailed us?
  8. We read the full description and what they are looking for in others
  9. Does the description and seeking appear to be what we would be looking for?
  10. We will look at the profile location and ages of the couple or single
  11. If available we look at the age of the profile, how long have they been on the site
  12. We will look for certification of the profile and compare to the date of the profile
  13. We will look at the dates of the certification, are they old or recent
  14. We actually read the certifications and look at the profiles of those who certified

Follow up on what we look for:
We put our face photos on all our profiles and we do have private photos that we do share with profiles that we have an attraction to.  We understand that not everyone can or feels comfortable putting their faces on their profile, we do expect to actually see the couple that we will be emailing with. We suggest putting your non face photos in the public or verified photo gallery and your faces in the private gallery. We would expect people who do not have publicly visible face photos to open their privates without us asking them to. Some express they wanted to see if we had an attraction on their profile before opening their private photos, the answer is no, without seeing your entire profile, we do not. You can have all the body photos in the world, we are attracted to warm smiles and pleasant looks.  We only share our private photos with people we actually plan to meet, our face and body photos are all visible to everyone already.  We prefer to see G-Rated photos, and we enjoy seeing nudes of the people we plan to play with, but we don’t have to see nudes on the initial email.  We upload quality photos, so we expect with the technology of the phones and cameras today, there is no reason for grainy or low quality photos.  We feel that they are hiding something or they are very old photos from old technology and we have to question, what do they look like today.

We meet people based on both physical and mental attractions:
We understand people may use different names in the lifestyle, fudge their ages and weights etc.. we don’t care. It’s about physical and mental attractions, that is why we require photos for the physical and a well written profile for the mental.  A good example is we know couples in their mid to late 60’s that look like they are in their 30’s and 40’s and we know couples in their 30’s and 40’s that look in their 60’s. We never go by ages or weights, if we look at a couple and say ” We wouldn’t kick them out of bed for eating crackers “, we have an attraction.

Become certified:
Remember, there are a lot of fakes, flakes and catfish on the internet, use your best judgement. We look for certifications to help us make a decision. However, we don’t view certifications from the website as a “real” certification, we honestly hate those because anyone can hold a sign with their screen name and date and get certified. We want to see that the profile actually met another profile or went to a club / event.  We at least know the profile actually met someone physically and in person.

We suggest what you should not include in your profile:

  1. SCREAM IN ALL CAPS
  2. Repeating NO SINGLE MALES throughout your profile.
  3. Boosting how awesome you are at oral skills, everyone is a master oral manipulator.
  4. Make the reader feel insecure about their abilities because you boost yours (IE: I will make your wife cum like never before)
  5. That you are Shy, everybody is shy when meeting someone new, it shows lack of confidence.
  6. Putting NO DRAMA or DRAMA FREE, these profiles are typically the drama
  7. Listing as a couple but are single, if you were a couple and no longer, change your profile.
  8. being too politically correct, IE: if you require condoms, put that, if your don’t, don’t add it and try to play without them. people don’t like liars.
  9. Politics, leave the politics or views at home.  If you are just so dead set you can’t play with someone with opposing views, list it. (Still sounds like a negative)
  10. Negatives, your profile should be 100% positive, the reader will see your negativity as a reason not to contact you or reply to your emails.

We do not use KIK:
To finish up, we get a lot of emails that tell us that the profile doesn’t post photos but to chat them on KIK and they will send photos on there. We honestly do not use KIK. If a profile chooses not to upload photos to the sites listed below, we wouldn’t be interested in going out of our way to communicate in another spectrum just to get photos.

In conclusion:
We hope we gave you an honest view on how we view other profiles and how we engage with others on matchmaker websites. and our opinion as to how others would also treat other profiles contacting them.

We do receive our share of emails and we appreciate it. To be up front, we do not feel because we have a profile and someone emails us we are required to respond.

Single men.
We mainly look to meet with couples. Please feel free to email us on these sites, we do keep an open mind and our options open. We would be very picky on who we allow as a single male into our personal lifestyle, but know that your profile needs to be really appealing with full photos of you and your face for us to respond and that your email and profile is respectful.  we only reply to emails that we feel we would be a match, and if we do reply to your email, that doesn’t mean that we are a sure thing, it just means your profile peaked our curiosity. Note: Tom is not a cuckold and we have no intention of someone wanting to dominate either one of us.

Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. To obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle 30 day Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

Join websites like Kasidie.com, SDC.com and SwingLifestyle.com to start meeting Couples, Single Ladies and Single men today for sexual fun

Start meeting couples and singles today!

Are you looking to do something while Social Distancing?  Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic!
Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Note: the below list is our recommendations of the websites we are active on and can be found under the profile TomandBunny on each site.  We invite you to check out ALL three websites with no obligation and no credit card needed and these are all legitimate websites and not bait and switch like many out there.    We have currently been active members and meet people equally among all the sites depending on the areas we will be visiting in our travels.

One site may be your site of choice due to the amount of population of profiles on a given website as each website holds a a dominance in specific regions.  The sites are not listed in any specific order except that they offer additional FREE time before you must become a paid member to continue, however we have found many will continue with the site they feel the most comfortable with and the more details in your description, what you are looking for and good quality photos are essential for your best results in making connections with people.

Feel free to contact us on any or all the sites under our profile TomandBunny and we will be happy to look over your profile and offer our advice to creating the best profile for the most exposure and engagement with others.   We do not certify people we have not personally met, however some sites offer various ways to become certified. if we have met you , please let us know where we met you and if we do remember you we will be happy to provide a certification letting others know your profile is real.

We find communication with other like minded couples and singles gets us through this pandemic and wanted to suggest you try this while you are self distancing and who knows, you may make connections to meet up after this is all over!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!  We have been members of Kasidie from January 2008

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. to obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials. We have been members of SDC since June 2009

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny. We have been members of SwingLifestyle since June 2002.

How we are dealing with the Coronavirus Covid19 Pandemic by TomandBunny

What we do during a Pandemic!

We do stupid and fun stuff and take photos to prove it!
On a serious note, we are taking this pandemic very serious and we are doing everything possible to keep ourselves safe regardless if this is a hoax or real, there is absolutely no reason not to be prepared because regardless, when the government steps in and declares marshal law or some other legal sounding name, you won’t be able to leave your  house.  so to those that will comment that we are not taking this serious, we are, but we all deal with things in our own way, ours is we will maintain our sense of humor during this stressful time. See our updated video (April 7th, 2020) below to see how we are dealing with the pandemic.

Are you looking to do something while Social Distancing?  Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic!
Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. to obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

Day 1 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Guard our toilet paper

Day 1 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Guard our toilet paper

Day 2 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Don't Breath on us!

Day 2 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Don’t Breath on us!

Day 2 - What do we do during a Pandemic - I Said Don't Breath on Me!

Day 2 – What do we do during a Pandemic – I Said Don’t Breath on Me!

Day 3 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Build a fort

Day 3 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Build a fort

What do we do during a Pandemic Day 4 with TomandBunny

Day 4 – What do we do during a Pandemic? Pillow Fights!

Day 5 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Golf cart vs Lawn Tractor races

Day 5 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Golf cart vs Lawn Tractor races

 

Day 6 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Getting Healthy

Day 6 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Getting Healthy

Day 7 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 1

Day 7 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 1

Day 7 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 2

Day 7 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 2

Day 7 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 3

Day 7 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 3

Day 8 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Pray for America

Day 8 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Pray for America
So we have been posting fun and stupid images to keep everyone’s spirits up, watching what is happening in NYC and around the world we took today and wanted to Pray for America and to everyone who is effected by this epidemic and we know it will get better and we ask everyone to take a minute and pray for a cure. Sending Prayers, well wishes and love to everyone. Tom and Bunny

Day 9 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Play on the trains

Day 9 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Play on the trains

Day 10 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Self Reflection

Day 10 – What do we do during a Pandemic? Self Reflection
With not knowing what is going to happen, where the world will be and how long this will last, it’s a good time to reflect on where you have been, where you currently are and where you want to be! This will end but life won’t and we are hopeful for a bright future, this all seems to be slowing down and they are finding ways to combat this everyday with new medical treatments. Please continue to Self distance to keep the spread down and we are thinking of all of you. Lots of love. – Tom and Bunny

Day 11 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Haulin Ass

Day 11 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Haulin Ass

Day 12 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Wind Therapy

Day 12 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Wind Therapy

Day 13 - What do we do during a Pandemic - GOOD vs EVIL

Day 13 – What do we do during a Pandemic – GOOD vs EVIL

Day 13 - What do we do during a Pandemic - GOOD PREVAILS

Day 13 – What do we do during a Pandemic? Super Bunny Prevails!
Super Bunny with her intimate knowledge and constant practice and use of her device was able to overtake Riddler Tom with his lack of knowledge on the proper technique use of his device. Remember, practice practice practice to become efficient in the use of your personal devices.

Day 14 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Hunting Butterflies

Day 14 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Hunting Butterflies

Day 15 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Alabama Haircut

Day 15 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Alabama Haircut

Day 16 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Pajama Party

Day 16 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Pajama Party

Day 17 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Facebook and Chill

Day 17 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Facebook and Chill

Day 18 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Podcasting

Day 18 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Podcasting

Day 19 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Making videos

Day 19 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Making videos

Day 20 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Conspiracy Theories

Day 20 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Conspiracy Theories

Day 21 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Play Hide n Seek

Day 21 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Play Hide n Seek

Day 22 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Blowing Bubbles

Day 22 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Blowing Bubbles

Day 23 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Recreate our first kiss

Day 23 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Recreate our first kiss
The date was April 7, 1985, when Band Geek Bunny and  Heavy Metal Tom went out on our first date. Bunny was one week shy of 17 and had her own car. Tom had just moved to Arizona from California and did not have a car or license. We decided to go to the Drive in and of course Bunny was the driver!  After our first kiss Tom pulled away and licked Bunny right up the side of the face. Then told her he was a freak, and this is how our crazy life started!

Day 24 - What do we do during a Pandemic - MotorBunny Rodeo

Day 24 – What do we do during a Pandemic – MotorBunny Rodeo

Day 25 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Who wore it better

Day 25 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Who wore it better

Day 26 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Couples Mask

Day 26 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Couples Mask

Day 27 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Happy Easter

Day 27 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Happy Easter

Day 28 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Who wore it better 2

Day 28 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Who wore it better 2

Day 29 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Bunnys Birthday

Day 29 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Celebrate Bunny’s Birthday

Day 30 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Daily Walks

Day 30 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Daily Walks

Day 31 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Naughty Royalty

Day 31 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Naughty Royalty

Crowned King and Queen in 2016 at Naughty in Nawlins Swingers Convention
Some of you may not know this, in 2016 we were crowned King and Queen of the largest swingers convention Naughty in Nawlins and it is one of our most memorable moments in our lives. we had no clue that were about to be awarded such an honor and title! These were the clothes we wore when we gave up the crown in 2017 and was one of the best nights. Tom’s costume is an authentic hand made Mardi Gras costume from the 1950’s and is so delicate. we purchased it from an antique store in the french quarter, paid a lot for it but well worth it!

If you see the Red ducks behind bunny, they throw only so many out to the audience and we manage to have one for every year! We love Naughty in Nawlins and it is the one convention we do not miss and hoping that we don’t miss it in 2020!

Day 32 - What do we do during a Pandemic - SEXY CHEERLEADERS

Day 32 – What do we do during a Pandemic – SEXY CHEERLEADERS

Day 33 - What do we do during a Pandemic? - Alabama Pedicure! with all the hair and nail salons closed, we gotta do what we gonna do! to see all the series of photos check out this page on our website. https://bit.ly/TnBpandemic

Day 33 – What do we do during a Pandemic? – Alabama Pedicure!  with all the hair and nail salons closed, we gotta do what we gonna do!

Day 34 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Alabama Waxing

Day 34 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Alabama Waxing

Day 35 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Alabama Shopping

Day 35 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Alabama Shopping

Day 36 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Having Sex

Day 36 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Having Sex

Day 40 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Virtual Swing Party

Day 40 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Virtual Swing Party

Day 44 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Create live Streaming

Day 44 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Create live Streaming

Are you looking to do something while Social Distancing?  Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic!
Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

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Des Moines Swingers Lifestyle Club April 24 – 25 2020

We will be at the Des Moines Lifestyle Club April 24th & 25th in Des Moines, IA and we would like any of our Midwest friends to come out and party with us for one or both nights! Let us know if you can come out and see us. The website is www.desmoineslifestylesclub.com

About The Des Moines Lifestyle Club:

The Des Moines Lifestyle Club aka ClubG, is a brick and mortar Swing Club located in Des Moines IA. 

Hosting over 3500 sf of Sexy, Erotic and fun lifestyle atmosphere from their large dance floor with 2 professional stripper poles, 3 quiet rooms, social areas and private deck to the friendly BYOB bar with Free mixers and Bar glasses to drink from.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
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Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

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What we think about the Original MotorBunny

Our Secret Weapon for Breaking the Ice and Giving Mind-blowing Orgasms
Hi! We are Tom and Bunny. We have run one of the nation’s oldest and largest lifestyle clubs and now work for Tom’s Trips, Adult Lifestyle Travel. We produce videos, podcasts, and blogs about our opinions and what works for us as a couple in the swingers lifestyle.

Working for Tom’s Trips takes us all over the country to clubs promoting adult travel to Hedonism in Jamaica, Desire in Cancun, as well as other lifestyle-friendly destinations. We thought it was going to be an easy job just talk to people!We quickly found that,like anyone who senses a sell-job, they avoid eye contact and walk the other way! We knew we needed something to draw their attention to our table. Then we could talk and answer questions about clothing-optional, nude and lifestyle travel that most people do not even know exist.

That’s when we were introduced to Motorbunny, an extremely powerful straddle-style vibrator! It vibrates with amazing intensity and comes with penetration attachments that rotate at a variety of speeds. We hoped it would attract attention, and it did! We could set in on a table with a large dildo rotating. If that wasn’t enough, we could zap the vibration to create a “buzz”, to really get people and their curiosity to come over to ask what the heck it was. We would explain the Motorbunny to them and show them the controls as well as all the attachments that can be included to enhance the fun in the bedroom. Of course,our conversation would lead to our travel and how people could enter into a whole new world that never seemed possible. But without a conversation starter, we wouldn’t even have the chance. Then we would invite people to join us in the playroom to have a hands-on demonstration of this incredible machine.

Obviously, being the first one on such an intimidating vibrator on steroids, we found that once we got one female to jump on it, curious watchers followed. We did not have to work to get people to try it out. We now had a line that would go for hours and when we say hours, we really mean HOURS!

Personal Use
Bunny absolutely LOVES the Motorbunny Original and she is looking forward to getting the newest Motorbunny Buck very soon (which thrusts instead of rotating). She uses all the attachments equally, but her favorite is the Double Penetration attachment. She will start off with the smaller attachments to work herself up as it’s a slow marathon to achieve a powerful full body orgasm, not a race. After she starts with the non-penetrating flat attachment and reaches her clit orgasm, she will work her way to the Lolli attachment, again working herself up and usually at this time she will soak the machine. Once this starts happening, she will insert the large dildo attachment and thrust on the Motorbunny up and down like she is riding a partner. Typically, this is where she will squirt, and to maximize her experience of multiple orgasms she will then install the double penetration attachment to make her turn into Jell-O.

Most of the time, we will bring our Motorbunny along when we are meeting a couple for some fun time. However, we also are careful, and we will play together first, and finish with the Motorbunny! By finishing with the Motorbunny, any possible remaining orgasms will be completely fulfilled, and everyone will end the night with satisfaction and euphoria. Our friends love it when we are coming over because they know they will be coming later that night if you know what we mean!

Motorbunny at Clubs
We have taken the Motorbunny to Trapeze Atlanta where we hosted a Motorbunny party in the playroom. After two and a half hours we thought the night was over. As we were putting everything away,we had a couple ask us to setup the Motorbunny for them as a late favor. We did, and within minutes we had another line that was over an hour long! I think we ended up having to actually stop taking names or we would have been there through the next day!

We duplicated the same results at EC Oasis in Breaux Bridge, Louisiana where we promoted the Motorbunny as a “catch-all” for the curious. Later that evening, we found a private room for guests to play with the Motorbunny. We would let a female rider select her attachment of choice and we would show her husband or boyfriend how to control the unit, but some ladies did not want to trust their significant other with the controls! Not to worry, Tom was happy to stand in and assist in the orgasms. We had a constant line for three hours. Some of the women wanted to give the Motorbunny a full work out to see if they could break it, but sorry, no luck! The Motorbunny withstood the harshest of thrusting, rolling, bouncing, and anything thrown at it! We did have to cool down once!

Motorbunny at Conventions
Naughty in N’awlins was an experience! We of course brought our Motorbunny for our booth and again to let people play on it. Then a couple brought a Sybian, which is the Motorbunny direct competitor. Knowing this, we agreed to do a Podcast and host a Motorbunny versus Sybian rodeo and we would invite two girls to try both machines. Each girl would control the unit of the opposing girl. The idea was good, and we were ready to go, but we were not prepared when 20 couples came through the door to see the rodeo live! We capitalized on this and we asked all 20 ladies to jump on each machine and give them a whirl. We had the same exact attachments on both machines so basically the only difference would be the vibration and rotation action of each machine. The Sybian went to 10 and the Motorbunny went to 11 and we waited for each girl that tried each machine in random order of selection. At the end of the rodeo, we asked each of the ladies, if they were to own only one, which unit would they want. All 20 said the Motorbunny!So we asked,“Why?” The basic answer was that the Motorbunny was more powerful, but also more consistent on the vibration. After researching the specs on both units, they didn’t need to read them to know the results. The Motorbunny is actually much more powerful, and with the quality we can see where the consistency comes into play, almost like a harmonic balance or a frequency that is working in favor of the participant.

Tom’s Trips host the Motorbunny at Hedonism
Our company, Tom’s Trips, hosts 20 group events a year at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica. We bring a Motorbunny for our “Afternoon Delight” parties where we break out the Motorbunny and create an exclusive private party for our guests to come out and play and have fun as well as try out this awesome vibrator! After playing on the Motorbunny, many times we hear our guest telling others they will be buying one for their home! Like the clubs, we have the lady pick out her attachment of choice and we show the gentleman how to use the controller. It’s not rocket science at all to use. We explain to bring the Motorbunny up slowly versus just going into Turbo mode!

Here are some interesting fun “facts!”

  • Average orgasm was typically within 5 minutes or less.
  • Most who tried the Motorbunny said they wanted one of their own.
  • Most could not handle the vibration turned all the way up.
  • Most liked an attachment that penetrated.
  • Some were a little shy and only used the flat attachment for clit stimulation.
  • Including participation by others while on the Motorbunny enhanced the experience for female riders.
  • The water-resistant design makes cleanup very easy.
  • You can purchase a case, or it fits in a carry-on luggage perfectly.

Men and the Motorbunny!
They do have a few attachments for the men to use for themselves, so that ladies can’t be greedy and have the equipment all to themselves. The photo above is the Jiggle Butt attachment. We did not get this so we can’t give you any details or a personal experience. Also pictured above in the attachments on the lower left which is the “Keister Bunny,” a prostate attachment that also vibrates the balls. We also have not tried the Keister Bunny “yet”, but we may very well do it and update this blog!

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

We recommend Spunk Lube with the MotorBunny

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.



The MotorBunny Original

The Original MotorBunny!

Background

We had recently started working for Tom’s Trips, the leader in adult lifestyle travel. Our new positions take us all over the nation going to different clubs to promote adult travel to Hedonism in Jamaica, Desire in Cancun as well as other lifestyle friendly destinations. We quickly realized that what we thought was going to be easy and just talk to people. However, we found that like anyone who sees someone selling something, they avoid eye contact and walk the other way! So after some thought, we knew we needed something to draw their attention to our table. Once there, we could talk and answer questions about clothing optional, nude and lifestyle travel that most do not even know exist.

We reached out to the MotorBunny company and got an original version with all the attachments. We could set in on a table with a large dildo rotating. If that wasn’t enough, we could zap the vibration to create a “buzz” per say, to really get the people and their curiosity to come over to ask what the heck it was. We could then explain the MotorBunny to them and show them the controls as well as all the attachments that can be included to enhance the fun in the bedroom. Of course we would work our conversation into our travel and how the people could enter into a whole new world that never seemed possible. We would also invite people to join us in the play room to have a hands on demonstration of this incredible machine.

After our promotions, we find a private location in the playroom of the club and have the guest come and play on the MotorBunny. Obviously, being the first one such an intimidating vibrator on steroids, we found that once we got one female to jump on it, the curious people watching followed. We did not have to work to get people to try it out. We now had a line that would go for hours and when we say hours, we really mean HOURS!

Personal Use

Bunny absolutely LOVES the Original MotorBunny and she is looking forward to getting the newest MotorBunny Buck very soon. She uses all the attachments equally but her favorite is the Double Penetration attachment. She will start off with the smaller attachments to work herself up as it’s a slow marathon to achieve a powerful full body orgasm, not a race. After she starts with the non penetrating clitoris attachment and reaches her clit orgasm, she will work her way to the Lolli attachment again working herself up and usually at this time she will soak the machine. Once this starts happening, she will insert the large dildo attachment and thrust on the MotorBunny up and down like she is riding a partner. Typically this is where she will squirt and to maximize her experience of multiple orgasms, she will then install the double penetration attachment to make her turn into jello.

Most of the time, we will bring our MotorBunny along when we are meeting a couple for some fun time. However, we also are careful and we will play first and then finish with the MotorBunny! By finishing with the MotorBunny, any possible remaining orgasms will be completely fulfilled and everyone will end the night with satisfaction and euphoria. Our friends love it when we are coming over because they know they will be coming later that night if you know what we mean.

Attachments: The large dildo below left is the gusher. The bottom left is the prostate and ball vibrator for men. Top middle is the double penetration. Bottom middle is the lolli g-spot. Top right is a ribbed dildo with clit stimulation. Finally, the lower right is the clit on clit stimulation.

Clubs

We have taken the MotorBunny to Trapeze Atlanta where we hosted a MotorBunny party in the playroom. After 2 1/2 hours we thought the night was over. As we were putting everything away,we had a couple approach us to setup the MotorBunny for them. We did, and within minutes we had another line that was over an hour long. I think we ended up having to actually stop taking names or we would have been there through the next day!

We duplicated the same results at EC Oasis in Breaux Bridge, Louisiana where we promoted the MotorBunny as we say “Catch All” for the curious. Later that evening we found a private room for the guest to play and we setup the MotorBunny. We would let the lady select her attachment of choice and we would show the husband or boyfriend how to control the unit, but some ladies did not want to trust their significant other with the controls. Not to worry, Tom was happy to stand in and assist in the orgasms. We had a constant line for 3 hours. Some of the women wanted to give the MotorBunny a full work out to see if they could break it, sorry, no luck! The MotorBunny withstood the harshest of thrust, rolls, bounces and anything thrown at it was? We did have to cool down once!

Conventions

Naughty in Nawlins was an experience! We of course brought our MotorBunny for our booth and again to let people play on it. Then a couple brought a Sybian, which is the MotorBunny direct competitor. So knowing this, we agreed to do a Podcast and host a MotorBunny vs Sybian rodeo and we would invite two girls to try both machines. The other girl would control the unit of the opposing girl, well the thought was good and we were ready but we were not prepared when 20 couples come through the door to see the rodeo live! So we capitalized on this and we asked all 20 ladies to jump on each machine and give them a whirl. We had the same exact attachments on both machines so basically the only difference would be the vibration and rotation action of each machine. The Sybian went to 10 and the MotorBunny went to 11 and we waited for each girl that tried each machine in random order of selection. At the end of the rodeo, we asked each of the ladies, if they were to own one and only one, which unit would they want. All 20 said the MotorBunny. So we asked why? The basic answer was that the MotorBunny was more powerful but also more consistent on the vibration. After researching the specs on both units, they didn’t need to read to know the results. The MotorBunny is actually much more powerful and with the quality, we can see where the consistency comes into play, almost like a harmonic balance or a frequency that is working in favor of the participant.

Tom’s Trips host the MotorBunny at Hedonism

Our company, Tom’s Trips, hosts 20 group events a year at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica. We bring a MotorBunny for our “Afternoon Delight” parties where we break out the MotorBunny and create an exclusive private party for our guests to come out and play and have fun as well as try out this awesome vibrator! After playing on the MotorBunny, many times we hear our guest telling others they will be buying one for their home! Like the clubs, we have the lady pick out her attachment of choice and we show the gentleman how to use the controller. It’s not rocket science at all to use. We explain to bring the MotorBunny up slowly vs just going into Turbo mode!

Men and the MotorBunny!

They do have a few attachments for the men to use for themselves, so that ladies can’t be greedy and have the equipment all to themselves. The photo above is the Jiggle Butt attachment. We did not get this so we can’t give you any details or a personal experience. Also pictured above in the attachments on the lower left which is a Prostate attachment that also vibrates the balls. We also have not tried the Prostate attachment “yet”, but we may very well do it and update this blog!

Here are some interesting fun facts (not really facts but fun)

  • Average orgasm was typically within 5 minutes or less.
  • Most who tried the MotorBunny said they wanted one of their own.
  • Most could not handle the vibration turned all the way up.
  • Most liked an attachment that penetrated.
  • Some were a little shy and only used the clit stimulation.
  • There were not one specific chosen attachment, each lady selected their own preference.
  • Including others, while on the MotorBunny enhanced the experience with the lady.
  • Very easy clean up.
  • You can purchase a case or it fits in a carry on luggage perfectly.

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever had an opportunity to try the MotorBunny or own one??  we want to know!  Post below.

Click this image to watch our YouTube video on the Original MotorBunny

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.