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Stop ignoring your spouse at lifestyle events

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Stop ignoring your spouse at lifestyle events

We see a lot of times where one half of the spouse is so into the lifestyle they forget they have a spouse with them and focus all their attention on the new friends.  We want to remind everyone that this can be a very dangerous route and you should never ignore or forget that your spouse is with you.

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Transcript

00:00:00:00 – 00:00:15:22
Tom
Hey, everyone. We’re Tom and Bonnie, and we got Bama here. Bama wants her stuffed animal. Hold on. Right here. Let me get her. If you’re watching this on YouTube, this is Bama. Bama bear right now.

00:00:15:24 – 00:00:18:04
Bunny
She doesn’t know that we have to work.

00:00:18:07 – 00:00:49:11
Tom
So we’re Tom and Bonnie from Tom and Buncombe. And if you are interested in pineapple topics, check us out on YouTube and on podcast on all the major podcast sites. Tom and Bonnie. And if you can, follow us on Twitter, Instagram, Tom and Bonnie and we work for Tom’s troops.com cheerleader and adult lifestyle travel to destinations all around the world with cruises, resorts and events.

00:00:49:14 – 00:01:08:18
Tom
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00:01:08:23 – 00:01:16:16
Bunny
And even if, you look at and you say, oh, well, they don’t have a group that week, I can still book you. Yes. If it’s available online, I can book it for you.

00:01:16:16 – 00:01:28:21
Tom
Yep. We can book hedonism all year long and we also book Desire and Temptation, as well as The Bluest blessed Desire and Temptation Cruises. Yes. And Nadia Nolan’s.

00:01:28:24 – 00:01:31:13
Bunny
Of course. And now splash parties.

00:01:31:16 – 00:01:37:00
Tom
And splash parties. So today’s topic is.

00:01:37:02 – 00:01:38:21
Bunny
Help you stay out of the doghouse?

00:01:38:21 – 00:01:47:04
Tom
Yeah, stay out of the doghouse because, Bunny, she brought this up a couple weeks ago.

00:01:47:07 – 00:01:54:04
Bunny
I brought it up and several months ago when I was first approached. I mean, we’re approached a lot with different things.

00:01:54:04 – 00:02:01:09
Tom
So let’s give the scenario what you’re up. I mean, what we’re saying is neglect.

00:02:01:11 – 00:02:11:07
Bunny
Yeah. Yeah, it is neglect on your spouse. Yeah. So basically what’s have basically.

00:02:11:09 – 00:02:13:12
Tom
Well what’s what’s written down up here.

00:02:13:12 – 00:02:20:18
Bunny
Let’s just start when you’re getting ready to go on lifetime vacation, to one of the great events.

00:02:20:18 – 00:02:21:05
Tom
The club.

00:02:21:05 – 00:02:36:22
Bunny
Even a club or a night out with another couple or a single, you want to talk about possibilities of scenarios, so you want to know where your partner is in line with you.

00:02:36:22 – 00:02:38:13
Tom
And where your boundaries are.

00:02:38:17 – 00:02:43:01
Bunny
You don’t want to be ten steps ahead of your partner.

00:02:43:03 – 00:02:46:24
Tom
And you got to make sure that you both like without.

00:02:46:24 – 00:02:48:00
Bunny
Your partner knowing.

00:02:48:02 – 00:03:24:21
Tom
Without your partner know. Yeah. Oh, our previous video, we talked about our boundaries and, we started off with a book of rules of what we couldn’t do. And then we created boundaries based on our actual real life experiences and activities because we talked about each scenario. Even still today, 20 some years later, almost 30 years later, we talk about every scenario as if it were a first time scenario.

00:03:24:21 – 00:03:57:15
Tom
And we want to know what we liked about it, what we could have done better. Yeah, to make it even more fun. But and then not a requirement is if there was anything we did not like about the scenario, we would either discuss it out our adopt a boundary about it. One of our boundaries is, is we keep an eye on each other during the whole socializing to play all the time.

00:03:57:19 – 00:04:17:17
Tom
Not that we’re watching each other like a hawk. We’re watching to make sure that we’re all on the same page. We’re having a good time. If someone’s not having a good time, we can pick up the cues. That goes for either me or me, our buddy. I won’t be here, buddy. So.

00:04:17:24 – 00:04:31:10
Bunny
And and that even that even goes for the other couple. If if I’m seeing something that, you know, one of them isn’t feeling it or feeling clicky, I will even say, hey, is everything okay?

00:04:31:13 – 00:04:56:23
Tom
I’ve seen buddy, I’m struggling. And Bonnie’s called the wife over because we we all know each other’s buttons to push. And there are times of emergency where somebody is trying their best, but they’re not just making the grade. And sometimes it’s the spouse that gets them over.

00:04:56:25 – 00:04:59:17
Bunny
Yeah. Absolutely. And I’ve done it for Tom before many.

00:04:59:17 – 00:05:00:16
Tom
Many times, many.

00:05:00:16 – 00:05:06:17
Bunny
Many times I’d be like hold on let me, let me help you here. You know, let let’s get him back to where he needs to be.

00:05:06:19 – 00:05:30:24
Tom
Well, because I like with any new people, they don’t know my buttons and therefore I may not really care for what they’re doing to me. And then finally, I’ll say, hold on, let me show you a couple things. Not that we the whole point of the pineapple lifestyle is to experience different types of, experiences.

00:05:30:26 – 00:05:31:13
Bunny
Right?

00:05:31:13 – 00:05:36:11
Tom
And then hopefully we’ll be that, lead off of that and bring it home with us.

00:05:36:12 – 00:05:49:01
Bunny
But we also know that, that when guys aren’t feeling it, that, it tends to. Deter the, the play situation a little bit. So sometimes you need help.

00:05:49:08 – 00:06:14:11
Tom
So one thing that buddy’s been getting a lot of comments on, I haven’t gotten on, but they’ve been coming to funny is a lot of frustrations where their spouse is more into to the other person and not caring about their feelings. Are there at the time level? Yes. Of security.

00:06:14:11 – 00:06:15:08
Bunny
Correct.

00:06:15:10 – 00:06:16:11
Tom
Or safe space?

00:06:16:11 – 00:06:16:22
Bunny
Yeah.

00:06:16:22 – 00:06:19:10
Tom
So like I love using that word.

00:06:19:10 – 00:06:40:26
Bunny
Now this is and I actually have seen it. Yes, I seen it just recently on, on a chat where, one of the, spouses was texting back and forth too much. And even though he was asked to stop, even though he was asked to stop, he still hasn’t.

00:06:40:28 – 00:06:44:14
Tom
And that is that the one where they have a group chat?

00:06:44:18 – 00:06:45:03
Bunny
No.

00:06:45:03 – 00:07:11:11
Tom
Oh, so I saw one today where they have a four way group chat. Our three way group chat. Because it’s, single female and the husband is they were private messaging at first, and then when they started to make plans to meet up, they then added his wife into a group chat. And so that way she was aware.

00:07:11:11 – 00:07:31:12
Tom
So that way, when the husband went out on a date, she was aware of all the plans and everything. Then she found out that they were texting the husband and the other girl, still privately and excluding her. Now we would have a major issue. Oh yeah, one of us did that with the other.

00:07:31:14 – 00:07:36:28
Bunny
And and for me, I mean, for me, that’s just another form of cheating. And I.

00:07:37:04 – 00:07:38:16
Tom
Well, in our eyes.

00:07:38:18 – 00:07:43:29
Bunny
Because it’s a mentally. It doesn’t cheating doesn’t have to just be physical.

00:07:44:02 – 00:07:45:03
Tom
Right.

00:07:45:05 – 00:08:02:00
Bunny
So and I am seeing the lot in and it’s not people that have been in this life for a long time. It’s most of the people that are just starting because they’re so excited and they’re, they’re jumping in with both feet and they’re forgetting that they have a partner with them.

00:08:02:03 – 00:08:03:13
Tom
Right.

00:08:03:15 – 00:08:08:29
Bunny
So they’re like going forward and then they’re like, oh, crap, I pissed off my partner.

00:08:09:06 – 00:08:38:19
Tom
Well, without saying any names, we we seen it happening at hedonism with a couple where they weren’t even together. The female brought the guy and the guy was just bam, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam bam. And it kind of created a wedge because she didn’t feel included in any of his stuff. So, I think she brought the wrong person.

00:08:38:24 – 00:08:40:25
Bunny
Oh, and that happens. That happens. So he’s a.

00:08:40:25 – 00:08:41:23
Tom
Nice enough guy.

00:08:41:23 – 00:08:54:25
Bunny
But but but the fact is, is if you’re married or you have a spouse or a partner or anything, you need to include them in your train of thought.

00:08:54:25 – 00:08:55:13
Tom
Right?

00:08:55:18 – 00:09:06:14
Bunny
So I always, you know, the best thing is, is to talk about scenarios like, if you’re going out to a club, kind of think about what might could possibly happen.

00:09:06:19 – 00:09:27:14
Tom
I mean, you don’t have to overthink it. No, I always say go to the club with the anticipation of nothing’s going to happen except just you and your wife or you and your husband, depending on who’s watching this video, just going and having a good time with no expectations. And if something happens, be prepared.

00:09:27:17 – 00:09:43:12
Bunny
But that’s where I’m saying I know you need to discuss those scenarios. You say we’re going to go have a good time, but if this happens, do we want to go forward, right? How far do we want to go? You need to have those already kind of in your little guideline.

00:09:43:13 – 00:10:00:19
Tom
I know, like, if a single hour couple, What are the signals if we’re not interested and one of us isn’t interested? I mean, always be aware of your partner’s feelings before anybody else’s, right?

00:10:00:19 – 00:10:31:07
Bunny
So one of the scenarios that I had is, there was, a for some going on and every and three of them seem to be having a good time. And the one was just kind of standing out on the outside because he didn’t really know how far it would go and how far he could go. And his wife was having a great time, and then he decided to have intercourse with the other female.

00:10:31:07 – 00:10:32:23
Bunny
And his wife freaked.

00:10:32:23 – 00:10:33:13
Tom
Freaked.

00:10:33:16 – 00:10:34:16
Bunny
Freaked.

00:10:34:19 – 00:10:34:27
Tom
Out.

00:10:35:03 – 00:10:45:20
Bunny
So she was like, no, you were not supposed to do that, right? It was. And it was basically implied it was going to be all about her. But he didn’t know that.

00:10:45:22 – 00:10:48:19
Tom
Well, I mean, I want it to be all about you, but I want to be included.

00:10:48:22 – 00:10:55:17
Bunny
I know, I know, but two days later, she still was not speaking to him. Wow.

00:10:55:19 – 00:11:29:14
Tom
And with that, I and I was telling Barney, you know, the a lot of people do videos TikToks podcast that the pineapple world is less divorces than any other field or any other lifestyle. But first off, there are no statistics. Not one single statistic out there goes specifically out pineapple people. Did you get divorce? Yeah. Okay. Then boom, right?

00:11:29:22 – 00:11:30:16
Tom
No, seriously.

00:11:30:16 – 00:11:31:05
Bunny
I know, I know.

00:11:31:06 – 00:11:57:01
Tom
They claim that they know these statistics out there and there are none. So the fact is, is we ran a club for 20 years. We saw a lot of divorces. Was it because of the lifestyle? Who knows? Who cares? The fact this is we’re thinking that if they did get a divorce, a lot of it was probably just they couldn’t communicate with each other.

00:11:57:03 – 00:12:09:25
Bunny
That’s exactly what it was. Could they even, you know, he was like, every day, come to me and talk to me. And I’m like, you need to talk to her. She’s not talking to me. Well, that’s part of the problem. Because if.

00:12:10:02 – 00:12:11:09
Tom
You’re huge problem.

00:12:11:09 – 00:12:18:04
Bunny
If you’re pissed off at your spouse or your partner, you need to communicate, not just sit there and.

00:12:18:06 – 00:12:26:02
Tom
And guys, take this as a hint. Don’t get so pissed off. You leave your wife at a resort or no by herself.

00:12:26:02 – 00:12:26:22
Bunny
Oh my god.

00:12:26:22 – 00:12:46:06
Tom
Because revenge is real. It’s big. We’ve seen guys get pissed off at their girl leave thinking they’re going to be all macho, and she’s going to come running. Hell no. We seen the girl bang the entire club. And then go home and tell him all about how he screwed up.

00:12:46:08 – 00:12:47:02
Bunny
Yeah. And then.

00:12:47:02 – 00:12:48:04
Tom
They’re divorced.

00:12:48:06 – 00:12:49:26
Bunny
Yeah.

00:12:49:28 – 00:12:54:27
Tom
I’m not laughing about the divorce. I’m not saying it’s just part of life.

00:12:54:29 – 00:12:58:26
Bunny
Well obviously if he left her at the club he left her before.

00:12:59:04 – 00:13:24:04
Tom
Right. And also be careful about fantasies of like having your wife do all these guys, because sometimes the wife can reset you. In the beginning she might be submissive. It might be kind of for it worse. Yeah.

00:13:24:07 – 00:13:31:14
Bunny
But but if your partner says, hey I don’t like this or I don’t want to do this again.

00:13:31:16 – 00:13:33:29
Tom
Everything don’t stop until you talk about it.

00:13:34:00 – 00:13:42:01
Bunny
Right. Don’t try to convince. Don’t try to push the subject, especially that night or that weekend.

00:13:42:03 – 00:13:44:26
Tom
Sorry, I’m looking for our dog.

00:13:44:29 – 00:13:55:21
Bunny
If somebody says that they don’t like something now, it’s not the time to push it. Now. Now is the time to stop it. And we can revisit that later. Go home.

00:13:55:24 – 00:14:11:14
Tom
Yeah, sleep on it. I mean, if you’re, It’s kind of like that drunk person who wants to apologize and become besties again five seconds after a huge argument, right? It’s not the time or place.

00:14:11:16 – 00:14:45:18
Bunny
There are certain scenarios that, yeah, definitely need a little bit of talking out. Need it more than ten minutes sometimes. Yeah. You can be pissed off at each other for quite a while. Right? And don’t don’t let extracurricular or fun time in come in between your yourselves and you know and that was the other thing is I’m hearing a lot in it’s both from male and female that their partner is paying more attention to their play partner than they are.

00:14:45:20 – 00:14:50:05
Tom
I have seen that. And,

00:14:50:07 – 00:15:12:00
Bunny
It’s almost like they come in and they’re like, oh, there’s my friend, and they’re like, gone, right? And they don’t pay attention. They don’t check in on their on their partner to make sure that they’re okay or they’re having a good time and they’re lovey dovey over here. And their partners like this. No. Read that body language. If that’s something that you don’t want.

00:15:12:00 – 00:15:27:22
Bunny
Sorry, I talk with my hands. If that’s something that makes you feel comfortable, you need to let your partner know. And if your partner says this is making me feel uncomfortable, then you need to discuss it, not not just let it roll. Roll off of you.

00:15:27:27 – 00:15:31:24
Tom
No, no, I, I totally I’m I’m hearing you.

00:15:31:27 – 00:15:36:00
Bunny
Because you because we’ve seen it. We’ve seen it a lot.

00:15:36:02 – 00:16:04:21
Tom
And I just, I, just me and Bunny have always been able to communicate. And communication is the key to a successful marriage. Our success a successful time in the pineapple world. Communication is important in life in general. If you can’t, if you cannot openly talk about everything with your spouse. I don’t have any words.

00:16:04:24 – 00:16:05:04
Bunny
No.

00:16:05:09 – 00:16:12:09
Tom
No, I mean, I don’t have any words of encouragement because my encouragement is for you to communicate with your spouse.

00:16:12:11 – 00:16:28:23
Bunny
Absolutely. And communication also means body language. You’ve got to be able to read your partner to write, if there might be a scenario where they’re gagged and you can’t say anything.

00:16:28:25 – 00:16:31:07
Tom
But it’s just, how have you been? Yeah.

00:16:31:10 – 00:16:43:03
Bunny
No, no, no. You know that that would not happen. You are going in the other night. I know I’m going in the other night. I have a bad gag to.

00:16:43:06 – 00:16:44:13
Tom
Spit on that thing.

00:16:44:15 – 00:16:52:24
Bunny
But no, that could be a situation like with Tom, his death. So he’s got to constantly be watching.

00:16:52:25 – 00:16:55:21
Tom
I do, because I take my hearing aids out.

00:16:55:24 – 00:17:01:01
Bunny
And sometimes if he doesn’t get this, like, he doesn’t understand that, I’m like.

00:17:01:04 – 00:17:03:26
Tom
I.

00:17:03:28 – 00:17:29:29
Bunny
But no, you you know your partner well enough that you know when by looking at body language, by looking at expressions that they’re not comfortable and that’s when you need to pay attention. And you need to determine, especially for the ones that are guilty of giving the play partner way much more attention than their other partner. You need to reevaluate if that’s what you really want.

00:17:30:01 – 00:17:34:05
Bunny
Because you keep pushing that level, you’re going to end up in the hole or.

00:17:34:07 – 00:17:36:23
Tom
I’m just letting money talk. This is our topic.

00:17:36:27 – 00:17:41:03
Bunny
This is my topic. I’m not used to just letting money talk.

00:17:41:05 – 00:17:45:26
Tom
I know I’m usually the one talking, but I’m just letting you free flow on this one.

00:17:46:02 – 00:17:52:20
Bunny
Yeah, because I just look at my. It’s like to see the hamster and I’m like, you’re going to fall asleep or no, no, no, no.

00:17:52:20 – 00:18:15:02
Tom
I, I’m actually intrigued because you wanted to talk about this topic because like I said, people don’t approach me on that stuff. They approached Bunny because she’s a female and they feel less threatened or they think, I’m going to charge. I mean, I don’t charge anybody, but me and Bunny are always willing to help everybody. We don’t want to see anyone break up or.

00:18:15:08 – 00:18:16:02
Bunny
You know, have a.

00:18:16:02 – 00:18:20:01
Tom
Divorce. But we also don’t want to see somebody ruin a marriage either.

00:18:20:07 – 00:18:21:12
Bunny
No, absolutely.

00:18:21:12 – 00:18:45:26
Tom
Not, ma’am, but we are 38 years married. 39 years together. We were always told in the pineapple world that it would break us up. We’d be jealous. And yeah, we’ve had our share of jealousies and everything. We just talk, we communicate. I mean, I just can’t express it enough. That communication.

00:18:45:28 – 00:18:47:07
Bunny
You know,

00:18:47:10 – 00:18:48:09
Tom
I had to get that word out.

00:18:48:10 – 00:19:14:27
Bunny
Yes, yes, I was talking to somebody, last October, and, I was talking to another gentleman, and, and we were talking about that same scenario, and I said, I said, you know, Tom and I have been together 38 years, and I still get jealous. And he goes, do you get jealous or do you get envious? And I’m like, excuse me?

00:19:15:00 – 00:19:24:13
Bunny
He’s like, are you jealous that he’s really having a good time? Or are you envious that he’s having a good time and you’re not?

00:19:24:16 – 00:19:25:26
Tom
That’s her great.

00:19:25:28 – 00:19:30:28
Bunny
And I’m like, you’re absolutely right. You’re absolutely right.

00:19:31:00 – 00:19:32:02
Tom
No.

00:19:32:04 – 00:19:39:06
Bunny
So so yeah, you got to think is a jealous or is envious. And that’s when I say, fine, I’m going to take my ball and go home.

00:19:39:06 – 00:19:43:23
Tom
Yep. And she takes me home.

00:19:43:25 – 00:20:06:07
Bunny
But I was like, yeah you’re that it that I was like after all these years? I said, you know what? That kind of slapped me in the head. That was like a an eye opener because, yeah, your absolutely right. And he goes, because of the fact is you’re not jealous. You’re still having a good time, but you’re envious because you know what she’s getting and that you like getting that.

00:20:06:12 – 00:20:07:23
Bunny
And you’re not right now.

00:20:07:25 – 00:20:10:18
Tom
I’ll say that’s true.

00:20:10:20 – 00:20:12:02
Bunny
Right? Yeah.

00:20:12:04 – 00:20:15:06
Tom
Yeah, I’ll say that. That’s 1,000% true.

00:20:15:25 – 00:20:33:11
Tom
Because you know when you, when you go meet up with people whether it’s single a couple, you don’t know what you’re going to get until you’re right. I mean these pictures with Coke cans and remote controls, you don’t know if it’s the tiny remote or the.

00:20:33:13 – 00:20:35:08
Bunny
Big, big remote.

00:20:35:11 – 00:21:04:23
Tom
You don’t know if it’s the little six ounce cans of soda or the 12 ounce cans or the the 16. But it’s just, I mean, yeah. I, I totally get that. I mean, I, I’ve been with females where they are more pillow princesses. Yes. And so I’ll use the word envious. I’m envious that the other guy has you and I am.

00:21:04:25 – 00:21:08:20
Bunny
Trying to do everything under the sun to help.

00:21:08:22 – 00:21:12:19
Tom
Yeah, I guess I feel neglected.

00:21:12:21 – 00:21:13:07
Bunny
See?

00:21:13:12 – 00:21:13:25
Tom
See?

00:21:13:27 – 00:21:14:19
Bunny
Yeah, yeah.

00:21:14:20 – 00:21:15:25
Tom
So I get it.

00:21:15:28 – 00:21:22:20
Bunny
Yeah, but that was an eye opener. I’m like, whoa, okay. That was that was a good one that he brought up.

00:21:22:23 – 00:21:25:13
Tom
So you’re no longer jealous. You’re just envious.

00:21:25:16 – 00:21:35:13
Bunny
Yes, absolutely. But I think if Tom went out on a date, I, I would be so jealous.

00:21:35:14 – 00:21:37:00
Tom
Oh, you’d be a stalker.

00:21:37:03 – 00:21:37:16
Bunny
I think.

00:21:37:18 – 00:21:39:09
Tom
Following us and.

00:21:39:12 – 00:21:40:24
Bunny
That is way beyond.

00:21:40:24 – 00:21:45:16
Tom
I look over my shoulder to be tucked down, looking at. Yeah. No, that would be funny.

00:21:45:19 – 00:21:49:15
Bunny
I would yeah, that’s way beyond my comfort zone.

00:21:49:17 – 00:22:13:18
Tom
But yeah, we see, it happens all the time. I mean, a lot of events, even people were close with we we never say anything because it’s not our place unless they ask us. Because we don’t interject ourselves into other people’s lives. Except for here on video. And you’re willing you’re able to hit stop or close out the window.

00:22:13:18 – 00:22:41:13
Tom
You don’t have to watch us or listen to us, but we see a lot of people where they put a lot more focus on their play partner than they do their own spouse. We just seen a, couple of events ago, and a whole like, dating scenario where, I mean, me, I’m funny after 39 years, we want to be this close to each other.

00:22:41:13 – 00:22:57:28
Tom
We work together, we live together. We are this close together, believe it or not, 23 to 24 hours a day, every day, seven days a week, all year long. We’re really not apart, and we prefer not to be.

00:22:58:03 – 00:23:01:08
Bunny
The only time we’re part is when we’re in the restroom.

00:23:01:10 – 00:23:35:15
Tom
That’s the only time we’re apart. But we’re still within yelling range. Yeah, but, I, I couldn’t if we are. I mean, if we’re friends with another couple. Yeah, we’re totally good. Don’t don’t take it out of context that we can pal around and hang on to the other person and do fun stuff, but if it comes down to just intimately holding hands, are acting like you’re the couple and not.

00:23:35:17 – 00:23:49:07
Tom
Yeah, me and Bonnie, that that’s just a different scenario for us. But we have a lot of friends where we can paddle around with each other, and we just don’t. We don’t get envious. Whoa, whoa. Going rooster block each other. No problem.

00:23:49:09 – 00:24:03:09
Bunny
Yep. Absolutely. But yeah. So that’s just the biggest thing is keep your eyes open, keep your mind open and keep keep an eye on your partner too. And make sure that they’re within the loop.

00:24:03:09 – 00:24:52:10
Tom
And and people can lose interest in each other if you’re not showing, the other one the attention that they. Oh that they deserve or need. I was just telling somebody and I know where I talked about the divorcing. We have an album in our Facebook and we had 109 couples and people whenever they say, oh yeah, the divorce rate is so low in the lifestyle because it’s statistically proven, because you can communicate that no, divorcing emotions can also create huge issues, because when you have an emotional attachment, someone else that your spouse can’t compete with.

00:24:52:12 – 00:25:12:16
Tom
Correct. But I go, I went, I I’ll pull up that photo album and I like see these couples see these couples, they look happy, right? They’re like yeah, yeah, yeah. All 75% of our divorce. 75%. And like I said earlier we don’t know if it’s because of the lifestyle and it could be any number of reasons.

00:25:12:21 – 00:25:26:15
Tom
But it probably all boils down to a common denominator of lack of feeling. The other ones are like a lack of interest or no communication, passion or no sexual desires or.

00:25:26:19 – 00:25:28:05
Bunny
Right. Absolutely.

00:25:28:07 – 00:25:43:10
Tom
And and at 39 years, we still think that you should be desiring each other sexually, as you did when you were dating. Because when you were dating, the focus, honestly, was to get laid right?

00:25:43:13 – 00:25:44:06
Bunny
Exactly.

00:25:44:06 – 00:25:59:29
Tom
It was to find your soulmate. It was to find a compatibility factor. That’s where I never understood. No sex before marriage. Because then you’re kind of stuck. And there’s a lot of divorces. Are that because.

00:26:00:03 – 00:26:00:22
Bunny
Oh, yeah.

00:26:00:24 – 00:26:08:24
Tom
They didn’t measure up to each other’s, what they thought would be like.

00:26:08:26 – 00:26:12:12
Bunny
No, I, I completely get that. Yeah I completely.

00:26:12:12 – 00:26:41:02
Tom
Get that the whole hot wife thing, it works for some people and I, we’ve seen it not work for a lot of people. So hot wife thing is something we would never recommend. If someone does it that’s fine. We have no issues with it. But we would never try to talk anyone into it, nor would we recommend it, because I don’t think a lot of people could handle that scenario well.

00:26:41:02 – 00:26:56:05
Bunny
And the fact is, is if, you if you really think that your wife wants to do it, then you really need to make sure that she really wants to do it. Because we met some men and he was just a narcissist, and he basically forced her to do it.

00:26:56:06 – 00:26:59:22
Tom
Yes. And I mean, he was literally calling guys.

00:26:59:22 – 00:27:01:06
Bunny
And she.

00:27:01:06 – 00:27:15:17
Tom
And he even asked us because we were meeting them. And next thing you know, he’s like, hey, do you mind if I have a couple singles come over and nail or why, why you guys are here? And I’m like, no, dude, we’re out of here.

00:27:15:18 – 00:27:19:09
Bunny
He got off on it. She hated it. Yeah, she she.

00:27:19:12 – 00:27:23:29
Tom
Tries to take her out of there and I’m like, I didn’t know what to do in that scenario.

00:27:24:04 – 00:27:46:21
Bunny
She said, I am leaving him, I feel used I don’t want to do this. So you’ve got to make sure you’re both on the same level. Yeah. And if think I’m like, I just can’t reiterate the fact of the feelings change. If you don’t want to do it, then you need to stand up and say, I don’t like this, I don’t want to do this anymore.

00:27:46:24 – 00:27:52:11
Bunny
And then your partner should respect you in figure things out.

00:27:52:12 – 00:28:21:19
Tom
Well, the whole thing about the, pineapple world is compromises. Somebody has a fantasy and it’s, I mean, hopefully you can let your spouse live out their fantasies. That’s the whole, point of including other people into your life because some fantasies require more than one person and yes, a person not willing to do things that your spouse isn’t willing to do.

00:28:21:19 – 00:28:31:05
Bunny
Well, and also, two fantasies can be just in your head. In reality, is a good slap kick in the nuts.

00:28:31:07 – 00:28:54:27
Tom
Now, we’ve seen people break up because they, one of them had all these wild fantasies and they came true and they couldn’t handle it. They wanted nothing to do with the other person, and it was their fantasies that backfired on them. And they were the ones disgusted with the other one for helping fulfill those fantasies. How messed up is that?

00:28:54:28 – 00:29:05:11
Bunny
Oh yeah. Yeah. Let’s go back into the narcissist there. Yeah. But. So no. Yeah. It’s a very, very fine line. I think.

00:29:05:13 – 00:29:06:00
Tom
I’m pulling up my.

00:29:06:00 – 00:29:18:00
Bunny
Glasses. But not only is it that fine line, but like you say, it’s just that communication. You’ve got to communicate it. Just make this pineapple world fun. It’s fun as you can.

00:29:18:05 – 00:29:18:16
Tom
If you’re.

00:29:18:16 – 00:29:20:04
Bunny
Not. It’s supposed to be.

00:29:20:09 – 00:29:39:25
Tom
Yeah. If you’re not having fun, if you if you can’t go out and without having something to do with someone else, it may come back to haunt you later. Like, remember that your spouse is the most important person like Tom.

00:29:39:25 – 00:30:07:10
Bunny
And I say we are very, very social pineapple people. So for us it’s just a matter of going out, having fun, flirting, harmlessly, flirting. If it leads to something, then that’s great. If not, then we’ve value a friendship. We are now part of the community. Well, we’re not having. I mean, we’re having fun, but we’re not meeting the people that we want to meet.

00:30:07:13 – 00:30:14:20
Bunny
So now we’re looking for pineapple first. Yeah. So we can go out and have fun with people. We like to have fun with.

00:30:14:21 – 00:30:16:15
Tom
Pineapple people are just more fun to be.

00:30:16:18 – 00:30:33:08
Bunny
They are much more fun to be around. You don’t have to worry about. You don’t have to worry about, offending somebody because you’re wearing a too low kind of a shirt or. Or you can go on a Jeep ride with wearing them side boob shirt without.

00:30:33:10 – 00:30:33:28
Tom
Without no.

00:30:33:28 – 00:30:36:10
Bunny
Bra with a right. Exactly.

00:30:36:10 – 00:31:05:23
Tom
No. It’s true, because, I just put up a thing, because we’re going to go to cheap and base and, and, Pigeon Forge and, August. Yep. And it’s going to be all through Pigeon Forge, Gatlinburg. And this last year there was like 50,000 shapes star expecting more this year they say to go a mile. It might take you an hour to two hours because it’s just it’s a slow crawl and we’re looking forward to that.

00:31:06:01 – 00:31:28:07
Tom
So I and all these people are posting, like, we have a solid black tie, so they’re doing a black T meet up and they’re going to take a big picture. All the black tips I did. You see the pink Jeep meet up? I didn’t realize there were hundreds of them. And there’s just a big picture with it.

00:31:28:07 – 00:31:32:00
Tom
Looks like a thousand pink jeeps all in one picture.

00:31:32:01 – 00:31:35:07
Bunny
I might have to be in a gray jeep next year.

00:31:35:09 – 00:31:36:25
Tom
A gray t.

00:31:36:28 – 00:31:41:16
Bunny
Told you if I. If I get a Jeep, what I’m doing with it.

00:31:41:18 – 00:31:43:15
Tom
What are you doing with it?

00:31:43:17 – 00:31:45:01
Bunny
Putting thumper on it.

00:31:45:01 – 00:32:13:17
Tom
Oh. So, there there were people about the red jeeps and white, every jeep color. And then somebody goes, is there going to be a singles meet up? And I thought, well, that’s a great idea, because mostly it’s a lot of it’s going to be families. So I found if you’re familiar or not on the Jeep, they have trail badges and you earn them.

00:32:13:22 – 00:32:39:25
Tom
But there was, an upside down pineapple with horns and a tail and it just says plays well with the others. 4×4. And I posted that I didn’t think it was going to get approved because this is a very family friendly Facebook group. And it two weeks later, all of a sudden it popped up, approved. I was like, oh my God, there’s like seven, almost 18,000 profiles in here.

00:32:39:28 – 00:33:10:28
Tom
I’m like, I am either going to get slaughtered or so immediately I got 150 either likes hearts are laughing emojis. I got a couple of angry emojis. I got three comments, that were negative. One is, really this community has dole out those people in it and I’m thinking, you know, look around at all your friends, family, coworkers, people you sit next to in church.

00:33:11:00 – 00:33:48:22
Tom
You probably know pineapple people and not realize it because we don’t just come out, we know how to act well. Most of us know how to act normal. Yeah. And, social environment. A lot of the comments are pretty good and people are sharing it. People are tagging it, and there’s, vendor who’s going to be selling little cheat badges, and they have one that says, upside down pineapple, if you know, you know, and they’re like 25 bucks, I’m like, I might have to buy one.

00:33:48:22 – 00:34:10:04
Tom
I don’t want to put it on my Jeep, but, I just thought to support that and I was talking to her. She’s not in the lifestyle, but I committed her for producing stuff that would be promotable or sellable to other people that aren’t. Are not her demographic.

00:34:10:04 – 00:34:10:16
Bunny
Correct?

00:34:10:19 – 00:34:23:24
Tom
Mostly the coins are challenge. Coins are military, police, firemen, first responders. So it’s kind of cool to see an actual, real, bona fide upside down pineapple.

00:34:23:26 – 00:34:25:05
Bunny
Exactly.

00:34:25:07 – 00:34:57:04
Tom
Badge. So, we’ll get that. But I was talking to her, and I was telling her, I said, you know, probably 20% of that group is in the pineapple lifestyle somehow. Because in California, they did a study, the local news, and they went around surveying people. And it came out that 1 in 4 couples admitted to at least trying something in the pineapple world one time.

00:34:57:06 – 00:35:08:07
Tom
They didn’t ask any father. So that meant if you walk your neighborhood and count 100 houses, 25 possibly could be pineapple people.

00:35:08:07 – 00:35:08:18
Bunny
Yep.

00:35:08:21 – 00:35:20:03
Tom
You go to your work, you got 100 people that work in your office. 25 could be pineapple people. I know if you’re a police officer, it’s probably 85%.

00:35:20:05 – 00:35:21:02
Bunny
School teacher, a.

00:35:21:02 – 00:35:38:18
Tom
School teachers, nurses. But I mean, different lines of work are going to accumulate that 25% down. But that also goes for churches. I mean, the the moral majority aren’t so moral when they keep a secret like this.

00:35:38:21 – 00:35:49:11
Bunny
Did you see the the one going around now that there was some type of a list and it says the most swingers per capita is Pennsylvania?

00:35:49:12 – 00:35:55:16
Tom
Oh, I the one that say that. Yeah. And well, but they didn’t even put California on there.

00:35:55:16 – 00:35:55:29
Bunny
No.

00:35:55:29 – 00:36:19:08
Tom
So they’re skewed I mean, and I even post I even wrote to you that you could tell they were non pineapple people who did it just by the way. They were a few things. They, they were very naive or trying to be just a plain where someone like us would have wrote the list and yeah, got a little more definitive on it.

00:36:19:10 – 00:36:41:01
Tom
But when I told this girl who is going to be selling these batches about the pineapple world, she goes, oh my God. My friend basically said word for word, what? You just said that there’s going to be 20% of this group that would buy that batch and stuff like that. They might not put it on their cheap, but they might keep it at home.

00:36:41:04 – 00:37:06:01
Tom
We want to make a pact for with different cheap batches, and that would be one of them. And then she asked me to take it off, because I did promote it, that she was going to be selling them. So she must have gotten a little pushback. And, you know, I don’t I don’t, disagree with her wanting, me to know my post because I don’t want anyone to be dark.

00:37:06:03 – 00:37:06:16
Bunny
No.

00:37:06:16 – 00:37:08:28
Tom
And she wasn’t even in the pineapple.

00:37:08:28 – 00:37:33:11
Bunny
And that’s what I disagree with, because everybody has a right to their own business. Everybody has a right to make money, whether, it’s selling that or selling a set of tires. Right. And that’s where I just get so frustrated with people out there in the community that are so hateful towards another group of individuals.

00:37:33:11 – 00:37:42:17
Tom
Yeah. And that group of individuals, they just have a stigma in their head about that, group of individuals.

00:37:42:17 – 00:37:42:28
Bunny
Right.

00:37:43:01 – 00:37:52:25
Tom
But the fact is that group of individuals is a more honest group. They’re more they they’re more caring about other people.

00:37:52:28 – 00:37:54:23
Bunny
They’re the first ones to jump up.

00:37:54:27 – 00:37:58:00
Tom
To paint our house in California.

00:37:58:02 – 00:37:58:21
Bunny
Yeah.

00:37:58:24 – 00:38:14:22
Tom
And we are just talking about it, man. But we’re going to paint it by ourselves. And we have like ten people. So, ready to work. I mean, not to socialize. They were pushed. Let’s do, let’s do one day start to finish prime, paint it.

00:38:14:24 – 00:38:33:12
Bunny
And then when we moved to when we bought our house in California, we were moving 80 miles away and we didn’t know where are we going to put all of our stuff. And somebody just randomly called us, we made, maybe once or twice and, he’s like, I got this property, I’ve got this, I’ve got that.

00:38:33:12 – 00:38:36:11
Bunny
You can. You’re more than welcome to park your trailers here.

00:38:36:13 – 00:38:37:01
Tom
Yeah.

00:38:37:03 – 00:38:45:20
Bunny
I mean, just out of the blue. So our community is so much more helpful and is so much more caring, I think, than most any of the other.

00:38:45:20 – 00:39:10:15
Tom
And we don’t have no judgments. And that’s the difference between the pineapple world, where there are a lot of people that I know. We’re totally off topic because we’re done with the other topic. I think. But there’s a lot of people that go to pineapple clubs and events, even hedonists, there’s a lot of nudist, there’s a lot of people that want to wear their bottoms and no tops.

00:39:10:20 – 00:39:25:22
Tom
There’s people that want to be naked, there’s people that want to play with others and that everyone gets along because, you know, if someone comes up and says, hey, do you want to play? All you guys says, no. Well, I’m not into that, but thank you. Take it as a compliment.

00:39:25:22 – 00:39:26:21
Bunny
But it’s basically.

00:39:26:22 – 00:39:27:06
Tom
Is,

00:39:27:09 – 00:39:37:27
Bunny
We’re all in the same mindset of just want to have fun and meet people, right? And enjoy everybody’s.

00:39:37:29 – 00:39:52:10
Bunny
Being around people and have fun. But socialize. Yeah. The socializing and, yeah, there’s people outside. They’re so closed minded that they won’t even think of anything beyond you’re having sex with somebody else.

00:39:52:13 – 00:40:08:08
Tom
Right? And then that goes along with it. And I guess I will add into the topic of this. When we see people that focus on someone more than their own spouse, me and Bunny actually avoid both of them.

00:40:09:20 – 00:40:24:29
Tom
Because we just don’t want drama. And most people in the pineapple world, they’re, they want to be drama free. And we, we want to have fun. We want to smile. We don’t want to be the shoulder that they’re always crying on or talking about.

00:40:25:00 – 00:40:30:22
Bunny
Correct? Very correct. Yep. All right I think we’re done with this one.

00:40:30:22 – 00:40:31:23
Tom
We are done.

00:40:31:24 – 00:40:33:09
Bunny
We are done with you.

00:40:33:11 – 00:40:57:15
Tom
We’re done with you today. So until next time, definitely follow us everywhere. Just search Google, Tom and Bunny all one word. Tom and boo and and y and book your next trip with Tom’s trips.com your leader in adult lifestyle travel and let us further let us show you a good time.

00:40:57:18 – 00:41:00:02
Bunny
You got that right. We’ll see you.

00:41:00:02 – 00:41:02:00
Tom
Soon. We’ll see you soon.

 

Ms No Swimsuit – Naughty in Nawlins and Northaven Resort

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Ms No Swimsuit – Naughty in Nawlins and Northaven Resort

On this Podcast, we discuss our recent trips to Naughty in Nawlins, the largest upside down pineapple lifestyle swingers convention in the world!  While at Naughty in Nawlins, we hosted one of the many parties on Bourbon St on Friday afternoon and promoted our Tom’s Trips Ms No Swimsuit competitions where one sexy lady out of 10 wins a chance to represent Naughty in Nawlins at Hedonism resort in Jamaica during the Tom’s Trips Ms No Swimsuit contest.   Attending this event, you are a Judge!

We also discuss our upcoming trip to Northaven Resort in Brooklyn Michigan where we will be the host for Tom’s Trips Caribbean party August 1st – 3rd , 2024   Check out http://www.Northavenresort.com today

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00:00:00:00 – 00:00:23:07
Tom
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00:00:23:07 – 00:00:50:01
Tom
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Tom
So if you want to see what Bunny is wearing right now, hubba hubba.

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Bunny
It’s new.

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Tom
It’s very new.

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Bunny
It is very new.

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Tom
jump over to our YouTube, all of our social media, everything under the sun. No matter what website we’re on, Cassidy slash SDC, it’s where all Tom and Bunny all spelled out one word.

00:01:11:15 – 00:01:15:14
Bunny
It keeps it very easy. So we remember who we are right now.

00:01:15:14 – 00:01:19:09
Tom
We work for Tom’s trips. Hold on. I’m going to put that on the screen.

00:01:19:10 – 00:01:20:09
Bunny
There you go.

00:01:20:11 – 00:01:30:11
Tom
You’re your leader in adult lifestyle. Travel to destinations all around the world. We book cruises, resorts and events like Noddy and Northerns. Yeah.

00:01:30:14 – 00:01:33:18
Bunny
That was fun. We’re going to talk. We’re going to talk about that one this trip.

00:01:33:20 – 00:01:44:29
Tom
Yeah. So right now we’re going to talk about a couple of events, a previous event not in dollars. And then North Haven. Yes, that’s coming up next week.

00:01:45:01 – 00:01:49:05
Bunny
So that’s going to be August 2nd and third in Brooklyn, Michigan.

00:01:49:06 – 00:01:53:11
Tom
Yeah. And we’re going to be we’re going to meet a couple other podcasters up there.

00:01:53:11 – 00:02:02:04
Bunny
Why we’re there we are. It’s going to be a real fun filled weekend. But you know, one one thing that I want to know, how come everybody invites us out for the Jamaican week?

00:02:02:06 – 00:02:03:17
Tom
I don’t know.

00:02:03:19 – 00:02:05:08
Bunny
Do they think we’re just American or.

00:02:05:08 – 00:02:21:11
Tom
Something? We aren’t American, but maybe because Tom’s Trips is the most booking travel agency. hedonism we saw and number two of the entire island of Jamaica. Mind.

00:02:21:13 – 00:02:22:20
Bunny
So yes.

00:02:22:20 – 00:02:28:25
Tom
We are, we are. Our company is well-respected in the travel industry and the Jamaica, region.

00:02:28:27 – 00:02:30:03
Bunny
We’re quite busy.

00:02:30:05 – 00:02:31:02
Tom
We are very.

00:02:31:02 – 00:02:32:08
Bunny
Busy.

00:02:32:11 – 00:02:37:10
Tom
So we just got back from Nadia and we did.

00:02:37:10 – 00:02:45:01
Bunny
Oh, my gosh, we haven’t been there since before Covid, so I think the last time we were there was the summer of 2019.

00:02:45:02 – 00:03:01:07
Tom
Yeah. And we we were excited to go back because our schedules haven’t allowed us to go back because it never coincided with our travel schedule. And we were always booked somewhere else.

00:03:01:09 – 00:03:11:16
Bunny
So we definitely realized how much fun we had missed out on. Yes, every single time. And every time we go back, it gets bigger and bigger and bigger.

00:03:11:17 – 00:03:40:19
Tom
It’s packed. I mean, you want to, meet thousands and I, I’m not exaggerating. Thousands of pineapple people in one place. Now they take up all of Bourbon Street. They take up several hotels, but they all wear, lanyards with their event passes on them. So you could spot a pineapple person walking down the street from a mile away.

00:03:40:20 – 00:03:52:17
Bunny
You know, we we actually we booked very, very late and we did not stay at one of the host hotels. We had to stand and and another one and that’s our dog.

00:03:52:19 – 00:04:13:14
Bunny
And as we’re walking down in front of the hotel, I looked at Tom and I’m like, hey, there’s some of those freaky people. Yes, they had their lanyards on and they kind of jump back. And I started laughing. I pulled mine out. Don’t worry, I am too. And they’re like, oh, should we not wear these down Burma Street?

00:04:13:14 – 00:04:28:23
Bunny
I said, you can wear them wherever you want. And they said, certainly no one’s going to know when I’m like, ha ha. Everybody on Bourbon Street now was right when the pineapple people are in town. So sorry. our dog did not get the memo that today was a work day.

00:04:28:25 – 00:04:31:26
Tom
Today is podcast day. Bama.

00:04:31:28 – 00:04:32:28
Bunny
And she she.

00:04:32:29 – 00:04:47:27
Tom
Bring me a sock. So, we absolutely had a blast at Naughty Dollars. more importantly, is one of the main reasons we went there was because Bob was getting married.

00:04:47:29 – 00:04:55:26
Bunny
Yep. He got remarried, got remarried. It was a beautiful little intimate, setting. And it was really, really nice.

00:04:56:02 – 00:04:56:16
Tom
Right.

00:04:56:16 – 00:05:00:28
Bunny
So it was the first time that we got to meet Adrianna.

00:05:01:00 – 00:05:01:18
Tom
Yes.

00:05:01:18 – 00:05:09:17
Bunny
So. But it was so, so good to see so many people that we haven’t seen in absolute years. Tom, stop playing with your socks.

00:05:09:21 – 00:05:21:18
Tom
I know I was trying to grab her because I was going to put her out here. I got her, I was going to put her on camera. This is our Bama.

00:05:21:20 – 00:05:23:03
Bunny
That’s our troublemaker.

00:05:23:05 – 00:05:35:16
Tom
She likes to growl down, at our legs. And one video, we did a blooper reel and I called it bunnies Angry Vagina because she kept growling right in Bunny’s crotch.

00:05:35:19 – 00:06:03:11
Bunny
It’s about what she’s going to start doing now. Luckily, it’s only a sock. Another squeaky toy or one of those honkers, right? So. Oh, funny story on that. She loves these stuffed animals at home and they make all these horrible noises. So I am in the middle of the store and I’m looking at this toy, and I honk it, and it sounded like a fart.

00:06:03:14 – 00:06:10:04
Bunny
And I did it right as an employee was walking by me turn and he looked at me. Really? Now I start laughing. I said, it’s a toy.

00:06:10:06 – 00:06:11:06
Tom
For toy, not.

00:06:11:06 – 00:06:11:27
Bunny
Me.

00:06:11:29 – 00:06:41:11
Tom
It was a for me. I don’t know what you’re talking about. So I didn’t say take up. I mean, it used to be just the weekends when we would go over there Thursday to get all checked in and the party started on Friday and Saturday. Now people show up on Monday. Yeah, they have a pre-party on Tuesday. Then it really kicks off Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and then everyone goes home Sunday.

00:06:41:17 – 00:06:43:24
Tom
But they even have an after party on Sunday.

00:06:43:25 – 00:06:45:27
Bunny
They drag home on Sunday.

00:06:45:29 – 00:07:18:08
Tom
Yeah. if you are interested and going to not in all ends. There is a link on Tom’s trips.com. Tom’s trips.com. Just go to that web page and scroll down. You’ll see $19 for 2025. Book your room. Book your event. It’s something. Whether you’ve ever been to an event or ever traveled, you can feel comfortable there because you’re not just at a lifestyle only event.

00:07:18:13 – 00:07:20:28
Tom
It’s everybody under the sun.

00:07:20:29 – 00:07:29:13
Bunny
And there is something for everybody. I mean, starting at noon every day, you’re going to have two, two parties on Bourbon Street.

00:07:29:14 – 00:07:31:16
Tom
Usually right across the street from each other.

00:07:31:16 – 00:07:43:28
Bunny
And then at 3:00 you’ve got two more that spring up. If you’re not a party person, they have a pool party. So they have both pools open during the day, right? They have every seminar that you can possibly imagine.

00:07:44:04 – 00:07:46:05
Tom
I’m kicking the dog. I think time.

00:07:46:07 – 00:07:55:07
Bunny
One of the one of the, presenters that I, absolutely fell in love with. And I just thought she was amazing. Was Doctor Stephanie.

00:07:55:10 – 00:07:57:07
Tom
Oh, she was awesome.

00:07:57:07 – 00:08:02:21
Bunny
She was. We’ve been always keep missing each other. And it was finally great to finally meet her.

00:08:02:21 – 00:08:09:24
Tom
And we got to meet Dan and Lacey from the, swinging Nation. the swinger society.

00:08:09:26 – 00:08:15:03
Bunny
And let’s not forget, we got to reconnect with Jay and Angie from Avid Swingers.

00:08:15:06 – 00:08:25:05
Tom
Yeah, so it’s been a long time since we’ve seen them. And on Tik Tok, if you ever seen her sexy swinger check, we got to meet her.

00:08:25:07 – 00:08:28:18
Bunny
And, swinging flamingos. We also know very, very well.

00:08:28:18 – 00:08:29:10
Tom
Yes.

00:08:29:12 – 00:08:30:28
Bunny
I don’t know if we can say their names.

00:08:31:01 – 00:08:41:24
Tom
I don’t think so. They were going to start posting their pictures because they said what the hell, we’re going to come out. And then all of a sudden they stop posting their pictures so we won’t say their name.

00:08:41:24 – 00:08:47:05
Bunny
So we did meet quite, quite a few other podcasters and YouTubers.

00:08:47:06 – 00:08:48:07
Tom
Up and comers.

00:08:48:08 – 00:08:51:17
Bunny
But I am horrible with names and I’m really sorry.

00:08:51:19 – 00:09:04:22
Tom
I know we should have wrote it all down, but, we we always suggest people this, and we suggest to people that they should listen. And, all kinds of content creators.

00:09:04:24 – 00:09:05:27
Bunny
Some we.

00:09:06:03 – 00:09:06:25
Tom
May.

00:09:06:28 – 00:09:13:02
Bunny
Forget, some big ones that we’ve actually had many conversations with was.

00:09:13:05 – 00:09:20:17
Tom
Charlie, Jackie from Open Love 101 and the owners of color, probably the biggest names out there.

00:09:20:20 – 00:09:24:10
Bunny
So like I said, it’s just been everything’s been a whirlwind since we got back.

00:09:24:12 – 00:09:52:22
Tom
We’re you know, we’re not scripted here. We’re just talking. So whatever comes flying through our little brains, it comes out of our mouth. And then so if we missed something, we do apologize. But we do, we do like that. There are up and comer podcasters, TikTok ers and YouTubers and stuff like that. You know, we always say, listen to everybody.

00:09:52:22 – 00:10:11:02
Tom
You might resonate better with somebody, might not, you might get bad information, you might get great information. But the whole thing is a good melting pot of information that you can decipher from because every podcaster talks about stuff other people believe them.

00:10:11:06 – 00:10:16:25
Bunny
Exactly. And there’s there’s a podcaster out there for everything. Everything from.

00:10:16:25 – 00:10:17:10
Tom
From,

00:10:17:12 – 00:10:24:11
Bunny
From the single females to the single males to young 20s all the way up to.

00:10:24:13 – 00:10:24:29
Tom
All right.

00:10:25:00 – 00:10:29:21
Bunny
All right, I, I wasn’t going to throw a number.

00:10:29:23 – 00:10:33:00
Tom
if you’re going to go there, we might as well say, because we’re we’re old.

00:10:33:06 – 00:10:35:03
Bunny
We’re the old ones out here.

00:10:35:05 – 00:10:51:23
Tom
We are the old ones. when we started doing our YouTube channel, there was only a few out there. Average Swingers was doing their podcast, Open Love 101. John and Jackie, they were doing a YouTube channel.

00:10:52:12 – 00:11:23:14
Tom
And there was maybe a couple of others, but it was a very new, environment. And we started it because we ran a club in California and we thought we kept hearing different information online, and then we would see the responses and we weren’t countering any responses. What what we were doing was telling people how we would personally navigate certain situations and the lifestyle in general.

00:11:23:16 – 00:11:30:24
Tom
And what worked for us may or may not work for them, but at least it’s a guide or a direction they can look into.

00:11:31:01 – 00:11:53:09
Bunny
Right? So now we’ll go back to 99 okay. So on top of meeting all of these people that we had never met before or reconnecting the ones that we haven’t seen in years, you know, you have all your different little seminars, right? And Tom was invited to sit in on one and it fizzled. It didn’t go anywhere.

00:11:53:10 – 00:11:57:11
Tom
Nobody showed up.

00:11:57:13 – 00:12:01:24
Bunny
But it was framed. The old guy felt like it was phrased.

00:12:01:26 – 00:12:22:14
Tom
stuff that happened from years past or something. But you know what? It was, it was some other well-known people that own clubs, and we had some great stories. So y’all missed out because now we’re not going to repeat them. Oh, no, they’re locked away. They’re like, you know.

00:12:22:15 – 00:12:25:15
Bunny
Yeah. We can’t share them now.

00:12:25:17 – 00:12:32:06
Tom
That’s all right. So we had fun just chilling and we, we were going down memory lane with these people.

00:12:32:08 – 00:12:38:05
Bunny
Oh, it was great. I mean, to see JC yeah, we haven’t seen JC since,

00:12:38:08 – 00:12:39:05
Tom
American Republic.

00:12:39:05 – 00:12:45:04
Bunny
Yeah, yeah. So so no, it was an absolute amazing time. We had so much fun.

00:12:45:08 – 00:12:47:20
Tom
We did do the Miss No swimsuit contest.

00:12:47:20 – 00:12:48:14
Bunny
We did.

00:12:48:14 – 00:12:59:20
Tom
So this is where. So we are where we’re going to go. We we just decided we could go within two weeks notice.

00:13:00:07 – 00:13:28:17
Tom
So we weren’t expecting to sponsor anything or to set up a booth or do anything because we, we didn’t know and we didn’t want to ask for anything because, you know, they already had their stuff coordinated. So Bob gave us our own party on Bourbon Street, and it was the, noon party. So we, we were going back and forth with Bob, and we were like, hey, we want to do a miss.

00:13:28:19 – 00:13:52:27
Tom
No swimsuit. are we able to. And he goes, well, you could do anything you want, but remember the noon parties is kind of the start of the day, and people kind of trickle in, and it’s the, 3:00 party that because everyone is finally at the noon parties and it ends at three. So they’re ready to go to the 3:00 foreign.

00:13:52:28 – 00:13:53:24
Tom
Really terrible.

00:13:53:24 – 00:13:57:01
Bunny
And at the noon party, they’re just starting to drink.

00:13:57:01 – 00:14:13:20
Tom
Yeah. So they’re not drunk yet. So the party, we didn’t think the party was going to be there. So we discussed it and we thought, well, yeah, we’ll play it by ear, we’ll see what happens. But if anything 2025, we will do an official miss No swimsuit contest.

00:14:13:21 – 00:14:20:22
Bunny
Now, one of the things that you got to know about Tom and I is we are fly by the seat of our pants, right? If they say we can do it, we’re going.

00:14:20:22 – 00:14:22:08
Tom
For it, and we will exploit it.

00:14:22:08 – 00:14:26:20
Bunny
And we, you know, you said yes. Okay, we’re taking it all the way.

00:14:26:27 – 00:14:39:13
Tom
So we used to do our Miss No swimsuit, raise you on Saturday at 3:00. It was one of the premiere parties. Besides the Kassidy foam party that was hard to compete with.

00:14:39:16 – 00:14:39:23
Bunny
At the.

00:14:39:23 – 00:15:10:10
Tom
Beach. At the beach. But we were the final party of the event, and it was really cool. They would block out all the windows so nobody could see it, and we would have anywhere from 10 to 15 ladies going up competing to represent Not and Orleans at our event miss no swimsuit in Jamaica. in March. Well this event we couldn’t get an answer if they could be nude or not.

00:15:10:11 – 00:15:17:24
Bunny
We couldn’t even get an answer if we could have Ronnie come and announce it until the bar opened at 12.

00:15:17:25 – 00:15:41:04
Tom
We didn’t know we could deejay it, or we knew there was gonna be a light band, but we didn’t know what control we had with the deejay, the microphone, or we could deejay. So we finally, five minutes before they open, we get this feel there’s going to be a band. We can use the microphones when, we can stop the band, we can make announcements, whatever.

00:15:41:06 – 00:16:02:19
Tom
We can’t touch their deejay equipment. Even though we have had a professional sound and lighting guy right there, we weren’t allowed to touch it. It’s fine. They brought in a DJ, so we told them what we wanted to play, and we were finally told they didn’t care what we did. And we were like, are you sure?

00:16:02:21 – 00:16:05:22
Bunny
Windows all open to Bourbon Street?

00:16:05:24 – 00:16:16:23
Tom
Everything is wide open in this bar. The doors are wide open and we had ten contestants and they all got naked.

00:16:16:23 – 00:16:23:13
Bunny
Well, it got really scary because, well, right at 12, just as we’re opening the doors, it starts to pour.

00:16:23:15 – 00:16:25:28
Tom
Oh yeah. So we were like, okay, our party’s.

00:16:25:28 – 00:16:27:16
Bunny
Just done because we’re.

00:16:27:18 – 00:16:28:18
Tom
Way down bourbon.

00:16:28:21 – 00:16:46:06
Bunny
And then next thing I know, I see people walking by us, and then I see him going next to the party across the street. And then I realize we don’t have any but a sign, a sign holder. So what happens is not in New Orleans, has people, volunteers, do, you know, for for different things and they are assigned different places.

00:16:46:06 – 00:16:46:29
Bunny
Well, there is.

00:16:46:29 – 00:16:47:29
Tom
A little fubar.

00:16:47:29 – 00:16:57:00
Bunny
Yeah. And our sign holder person decided not to show up. So I’m like, screw this, I got it. So I’m out here dancing.

00:16:57:02 – 00:17:16:00
Tom
Funny. She’s out there holding our sign, guiding people in. Of course they have to have the lanyards. Get it? And that was the only stipulation. Then she goes across the street to the other party and directs people over to our party.

00:17:16:03 – 00:17:17:12
Bunny
Oh, we’re gonna make it there anyways.

00:17:17:12 – 00:17:49:05
Tom
Meanwhile, the other bar is calling Bob’s saying, hey, no one’s coming in our bar. And meanwhile buddy out, they’re going go over to our party. So. Okay. So yeah, yeah, that was a little unscrupulous, but it was fun. we did finally get a couple door monitors and but there’s still the other party didn’t kick off because they knew what was going to happen at our party and they weren’t let down.

00:17:49:08 – 00:18:04:02
Bunny
But come in coming at like 1230, 1:00. Everybody is just now starting to roll in. Now we only have this place until three, right? They’re starting to roll in. They’re all sober and trying to get girls to do this was like.

00:18:04:05 – 00:18:04:16
Tom
Pulling.

00:18:04:16 – 00:18:05:12
Bunny
Teeth. Yeah.

00:18:05:14 – 00:18:07:07
Tom
Cause they were all sober.

00:18:07:09 – 00:18:20:20
Bunny
And so we had two of our past contestants there. So we had Stacy Stacy and Dennis. Denise. Yeah. And with the help of those two, we were able to get ten contestants, right?

00:18:20:20 – 00:18:23:12
Tom
And we were trying to keep it at ten.

00:18:23:20 – 00:18:26:14
Bunny
Some of them did it just because they got a free pair of panties.

00:18:26:14 – 00:18:45:10
Tom
Yes, we give out booty shorts, so I’ll I’ll play the video of Bunny holding the sign, and then I’ll show a picture of what the booty shorts look like. So I got to remember to do that. So if I didn’t do it, make a negative comment. That’ll get me on the ball next time.

00:18:45:12 – 00:18:51:18
Bunny
But we had those girls, came onto the shoot like, normally the first one.

00:18:51:20 – 00:18:52:10
Tom
Is so.

00:18:52:10 – 00:18:56:04
Bunny
Shy and doesn’t really know what to do. Oh heck no.

00:18:56:04 – 00:19:06:14
Tom
And as each girl goes, the other girls one up them because they seen what the other girls are doing. But the last girl.

00:19:06:17 – 00:19:10:27
Bunny
Oh yeah. So the first girl, actually,

00:19:11:00 – 00:19:12:20
Tom
And they did a phenomenal job.

00:19:12:21 – 00:19:22:00
Bunny
The first girl came out immediately and got naked right away. and then she proceeded to put a lot of steam.

00:19:22:02 – 00:19:42:02
Tom
I was being blocked by some dude. I had a great view of the stage and some seven foot tall dude walks right in front of me and stands there. And not only was I there, there was like four other people. Like, really? You’re seven feet tall. You should have a mental awareness to go against the wall, right?

00:19:42:04 – 00:19:42:22
Bunny
You’re like, it wasn’t.

00:19:42:25 – 00:19:44:29
Tom
So I got blocked for half of the contest.

00:19:44:29 – 00:19:57:21
Bunny
But so no, they did. They absolutely did. Amazing. And one thing I was cracking up at is here, they’re naked on the stage and they don’t care. They don’t even see the people behind in the window. I know they’re looking in the window.

00:19:57:24 – 00:20:06:28
Tom
I look over and I’m like, oh, they’re they’re getting a show. And like all, all eyes are inside.

00:20:07:05 – 00:20:17:00
Bunny
And all of these girls there. The applause was just absolutely amazing. But they had a good time. But our winner our winner was last.

00:20:17:07 – 00:20:18:00
Tom
Yes.

00:20:18:00 – 00:20:19:00
Bunny
And, she.

00:20:19:00 – 00:20:20:03
Tom
Was in to win.

00:20:20:03 – 00:20:22:08
Bunny
It. Can we say what she did?

00:20:22:11 – 00:20:27:15
Tom
Well, you got to be careful because of the censoring on YouTube, but you can.

00:20:27:18 – 00:20:30:05
Bunny
Okay, so let’s just say that,

00:20:30:08 – 00:20:32:19
Tom
You’re going to have to use a little imagination on this.

00:20:32:19 – 00:20:39:06
Bunny
So she decided she wanted to put a small little alcohol bottle. Like what? You would get.

00:20:39:08 – 00:20:40:08
Tom
The airline.

00:20:40:10 – 00:20:45:01
Bunny
On and shot that little thing. She was going to put it in a place that it shouldn’t be.

00:20:45:05 – 00:20:47:14
Tom
She was going to put it in her present wallet.

00:20:47:16 – 00:21:02:02
Bunny
Yes. And then, Yeah, that’s where she was going to put it and then pull it out and do a shot. Yeah. Well, she sent her husband to the store to buy one of those, and he couldn’t find that. And he came back with one of this, did the double serving of wine bottle.

00:21:02:02 – 00:21:05:14
Tom
That would do it. Two glasses.

00:21:05:16 – 00:21:06:03
Bunny
In.

00:21:06:05 – 00:21:09:15
Tom
The bottle was like, where’s that thing? Don’t know.

00:21:09:15 – 00:21:14:23
Bunny
It’s just the first thing. She looked at her. She’s like, what do you want me to do with this?

00:21:14:25 – 00:21:32:24
Tom
So while the other girls were competing, before the competition, she started getting, into our present wallet. It’s only for about five, ten minutes. Yeah, and once it was in there, she. I don’t think she want to take it out.

00:21:32:27 – 00:21:34:14
Bunny
She was. She was enjoying it.

00:21:34:14 – 00:21:40:15
Tom
She was enjoying it way too much. She just hit the, the neck of it up and down.

00:21:40:16 – 00:21:47:10
Bunny
Yeah. Yeah. So, you know, it’s funny because she came right up immediately and got naked and like, oh my gosh, that thing is going to come out.

00:21:47:12 – 00:21:53:02
Tom
I told her I should be careful about bending over. You’re going to shoot that thing out like a frickin shotgun shell.

00:21:53:09 – 00:22:07:00
Bunny
Knock somebody out. Yeah. Somebody out. But then she should start dancing. She turned around, she squatted, and she pushed that thing right out, and, Oh, my God, that was it. Everybody went crazy.

00:22:07:05 – 00:22:27:08
Tom
And then she opened it and took a big drink and then called Ronnie, one of our entertainers up, and he got down on his knees to do a body shot, and she just poured it down between her cleavage down into him, and he drank it, and then he spit it all over the audience.

00:22:27:10 – 00:22:29:17
Bunny
Space thing. She just couldn’t make it out, like.

00:22:29:18 – 00:22:34:21
Tom
I think we got. Oh, I was taking pictures of them, so I got a great picture of that.

00:22:34:21 – 00:22:41:18
Bunny
So that guy finally moved. Yeah. You got to see the show. Yeah. But no, it it was really, really.

00:22:41:21 – 00:22:44:21
Tom
Nice coming to.

00:22:44:23 – 00:22:47:22
Bunny
swimsuit in March. March 1st be the eighth.

00:22:47:22 – 00:23:09:15
Tom
March 1st to the eighth. If you would like to go to miss no swimsuit. It is one of Tom’s trips and hedonism, most interactive events. Because if you come to watch the competition and typically there’s 8 to 10 ladies representing clubs and events around the nation, you are a judge.

00:23:09:17 – 00:23:10:02
Bunny
Yes.

00:23:10:02 – 00:23:25:13
Tom
And your responsibility is to pick your top three. And then out of all the, combinations of points and math and everything, one is deemed a winner. And then we got a second place and a runner up.

00:23:25:15 – 00:23:35:13
Bunny
so it’s super fun. And you get to see things like that before. Yes. Because we actually did have one that would always put glitter in her prison wallet.

00:23:35:15 – 00:23:39:17
Tom
And throw it out.

00:23:39:19 – 00:23:40:19
Tom
People are like.

00:23:40:22 – 00:23:41:10
Bunny
Oh.

00:23:41:12 – 00:23:49:05
Tom
Where are these people going? I’ve never been to a place like that. Well, you got to travel with us.

00:23:49:06 – 00:23:50:20
Bunny
And you got to come to the party.

00:23:50:20 – 00:23:52:07
Tom
You got to come to the parties.

00:23:52:10 – 00:24:03:15
Bunny
Yes. So yeah, no, we definitely, definitely have a great time, that’s for sure. Yes. And and you know what stories like that people are like. Yeah, right. Whatever. Oh people that don’t live in our life.

00:24:03:15 – 00:24:05:14
Tom
Right.

00:24:05:17 – 00:24:12:20
Bunny
Relishing the boring. The boring people that are just going out for dinner and to the movies on the weekends.

00:24:12:23 – 00:24:13:03
Tom
Yeah.

00:24:13:05 – 00:24:17:18
Bunny
They’re like, people don’t really do that. Yeah, yeah, we do know.

00:24:17:20 – 00:24:19:04
Tom
They don’t dress up for each other.

00:24:19:11 – 00:24:21:17
Bunny
No, not at all. No, not at all.

00:24:21:19 – 00:25:06:24
Tom
So, again, see? Yeah. Barney’s angry vagina down there. So if you would like to go to Nadia again, go to Tom’s trips.com. Scroll down. You’ll see Anthony and Nolan’s banner. Click it and it’ll take you right to the booking and everything. and then on miss no swimsuit you can go to no swimsuit.com. And I have been uploading pictures of the previous years of them, and I’m starting to upload the contestants for the 2025 contest, so just keep checking out.

00:25:06:24 – 00:25:19:29
Tom
No swimsuit.com and you’ll get an eyeful. And follow us on Twitter because we post all the pictures we can’t post on Instagram and Facebook on Twitter.

00:25:21:01 – 00:25:23:03
Tom
Yeah. So definitely go to Twitter.

00:25:23:05 – 00:25:23:24
Bunny
So you.

00:25:23:24 – 00:25:28:06
Tom
Can follow us on Twitter. Tom and Bonnie are troops.

00:25:28:11 – 00:25:38:04
Bunny
So and for if you’d like to meet us they said next week I know it’s like really quick and it’s probably going to be that week. And you put the video out, I’m going to.

00:25:38:04 – 00:25:39:14
Tom
Put it I’m going to try to put it out by.

00:25:39:14 – 00:25:43:22
Bunny
Tomorrow, August. I think it’s the first, first, second, third. We’re going to be there.

00:25:43:23 – 00:25:44:29
Tom
Got a calendar on your phone.

00:25:45:00 – 00:25:51:04
Bunny
It’s okay. But we’re going to be at North Haven in Brooklyn, Michigan and then and.

00:25:51:07 – 00:26:05:14
Tom
And the website to that is an o r t h a v and resort.com. So it’s not North Haven, it’s North Haven resort.com.

00:26:05:14 – 00:26:14:29
Bunny
Yes. So it’s a really really fun place to go. You can it it’s a clothing optional. It’s a clothing up so clothing optional.

00:26:15:05 – 00:26:38:02
Tom
So they have sometimes I mean it varies per event but some they have group breakfast on certain days they have group dinners where a group will supply dinner for the whole entire resort. Our breakfast. We’ve done that in the past. We last year we did margaritas, right?

00:26:38:05 – 00:26:40:12
Bunny
We did. We did. We did a margaritas on.

00:26:40:12 – 00:26:42:10
Tom
Soups and salsa bar.

00:26:42:12 – 00:26:54:25
Bunny
So we are actually, they ask one of their members to kind of sponsor the party and they come up with it. Well, this year the their member, he’s they pretty much got everything covered.

00:26:54:26 – 00:27:03:09
Tom
Yeah. So we we get to enjoy a lot marks. They’re going to handle the pool games and events and everything.

00:27:03:09 – 00:27:12:13
Bunny
And Friday night they have a little pond. Yeah. And they call it the beach area. So on Friday night, we’re actually having a Caribbean beach party down there.

00:27:12:14 – 00:27:39:13
Tom
Right. And then we are going to be bringing our Toms trips 360 photo booth. And we’ll set up and we’ll put the background image of that event for Friday night. and then we’ll do videos of all the guests. We don’t share those videos. We’ll share our videos. We don’t care. but all those videos go to each of the individual guests that was on the platform.

00:27:39:13 – 00:27:40:00
Bunny
Yes.

00:27:40:00 – 00:27:48:26
Tom
And the camera spins around them. They just stand there and as I say, looks stupid for 30s. And it will be an awesome video.

00:27:48:26 – 00:28:01:05
Bunny
Yeah. Because if you look like you’re wanting to be sexy or anything, they don’t turn out, you gotta you gotta look like you’re having fun. Yeah. And then on Saturday night is my ever favorite theme. And it’s so easy for me. It’s glow night glow party.

00:28:01:07 – 00:28:09:12
Tom
Yeah. And we’ll be setting up the 360 photo booth for a glow party. they have a nightclub there. It’s a really nice night.

00:28:09:13 – 00:28:10:27
Bunny
Very, very nice nightclub.

00:28:10:27 – 00:28:16:20
Tom
So we’ll we’ll set it up just out on their back. it’s the smoking patio, right?

00:28:16:23 – 00:28:27:12
Bunny
so their hotel, their nightclub is called Hotel California, and it is open at least this Saturday night. Some some weekends. It’s open both Friday and Saturday.

00:28:27:15 – 00:28:46:08
Tom
Now North Haven has cabins where they just have just a bed, dresser, TV and everything you would have except for bathrooms. they have a main bathroom with multiple showers and everything. And then they have, you can bring RVs in there.

00:28:46:10 – 00:28:50:22
Bunny
They do have some rooms that have like a half bath. So at least you have a toilet in a safe.

00:28:50:23 – 00:29:14:29
Tom
Okay. I didn’t know that. And then they have, residents that stay there throughout. Well, they don’t on the weekends. Some live there when it’s open and closed. It’s not open year around it. I think it’s open May through October or November. I don’t don’t quote me on the dates. You can check North haven.com. I’ll put a link across the screen.

00:29:15:01 – 00:29:23:22
Bunny
Well it’s because it’s so high, so far into Michigan that I know that they the city turns off the water there like in October.

00:29:23:22 – 00:29:24:14
Tom
Yeah, because.

00:29:24:19 – 00:29:26:01
Bunny
They want it to freeze, you.

00:29:26:01 – 00:29:51:18
Tom
Know. But we look forward to that. We we’ve been going there now for seven years. And a very clean very upscale resort. They have general store the prices are just normal prices in a resort like this. We’ve been to some they check up the prices on drinks or food or anything even ice here. It’s all just regular hours.

00:29:51:18 – 00:29:53:24
Tom
If you went down to your local circle K right.

00:29:53:24 – 00:30:15:09
Bunny
And it’s really nice because I mean you can get your, their, their logo, Yeti Yeti style mugs. You can get, milk. Yeah. Crackers. Chips. if you didn’t bring an outfit and you want a new sexy outfit, you can purchase one there too, right? So you pretty much a little bit of everything. And they have in that little store there.

00:30:15:10 – 00:30:19:17
Tom
Yeah. And you get to talk to people and that’s where you get your best internet.

00:30:19:20 – 00:30:20:22
Bunny
Yes. Yes it.

00:30:20:22 – 00:30:27:20
Tom
Is. So you’ll see me up there in the little tail. They got several tables out front. They got an ice cream thing.

00:30:27:22 – 00:30:29:27
Bunny
So if we ever need to do any work we go up there.

00:30:29:27 – 00:30:48:17
Tom
We go up there. we, enjoy the pool parties because they will have a live deejay overlooking the pool. And then the the pool is. It’s a pretty good sized pool, but you got to get there early if you want to DCC.

00:30:48:19 – 00:31:05:11
Bunny
Right? So if you want a chaise lounge, if you want to lay out. Yeah, you definitely have to be there early, right. and, you can’t have your alcohol in the pool. So that’s one of the reasons to why you want to get a chaise lounge. So that way you can go back to you and get get your stuff out of here.

00:31:05:11 – 00:31:06:25
Tom
Any any mug.

00:31:06:27 – 00:31:10:04
Bunny
Yet you want to bring your Yeti mug, your towels and your sunscreen.

00:31:10:05 – 00:31:24:08
Tom
Now, we talked about, like, different breakfast is our margarita. knocks over our, our chips and salsa, dinners on Thursdays. What do they call it? The drunk, drunk bitch.

00:31:24:08 – 00:31:25:07
Bunny
Thursdays.

00:31:25:09 – 00:32:01:10
Tom
It’s Thursdays. And that’s where people. You’ll see golf. You can rent golf carts there. So we got a golf cart, thank God. Otherwise we’d be cheap. A cheap being around the place. But, you basically take your golf cart, and different residents will sponsor. They put our alcohol munchies. And when we’re not talking chips or dips, we’re talking, they’re pouring it a crock pot with man, which is, different sandwiches, different types of foods and everything.

00:32:01:10 – 00:32:05:04
Tom
So it’s not like you can go hungry. And what time does that start?

00:32:05:06 – 00:32:20:01
Bunny
I don’t even know what time that one starts. That’s Thursday afternoon. Thursday evening because you say evening because there’s nothing else going on. And then Friday you have whatever party or whatever they’re doing in the meantime. And then there’s always an after party on Fridays.

00:32:20:02 – 00:32:20:22
Tom
Right.

00:32:20:24 – 00:32:29:10
Bunny
And then, same thing on Saturday. There’s always an after party after a party on Saturday nights, too.

00:32:29:11 – 00:32:37:02
Tom
Now, there was one time we went and I really liked, and that’s where the the residents.

00:32:37:05 – 00:32:38:02
Bunny
Meet your neighbors.

00:32:38:02 – 00:32:40:14
Tom
Meet your neighbors. Okay. That’s what it was called.

00:32:41:16 – 00:33:03:06
Tom
They would set up either alcohol, like a bar or, some did both. Alcohol and or Ders. We, we’re not lying when we’re talking. They were serving filet mignon bites. They were serving prime rib sandwiches. They were going all out on this stuff.

00:33:03:08 – 00:33:04:26
Bunny
Because they won a prize.

00:33:04:29 – 00:33:08:24
Tom
They won a prize, but still, I was very, very.

00:33:08:25 – 00:33:14:12
Bunny
How about the shrimp? They had shrimp that were as big as my hand. Huge like a prawn.

00:33:14:14 – 00:33:37:00
Tom
So, yeah. it’s definitely like I said, it’s an upscale resort. Very, very nice resort. The, the people who the residents as well as the guests are all amazing. Yeah. It’s you could talk to everybody. Nobody’s a stranger, nobody. And there’s no clicks. They just hang out and everything. And all you got to do is just walk up.

00:33:37:00 – 00:33:45:08
Tom
I mean, people view people as clicks. If they don’t get invited into the conversation, just walk up and say, how are you guys doing? And you’re part of the conversation.

00:33:45:08 – 00:33:53:12
Bunny
And if you’re an Avia and you, you’re looking for a place of they’re open, you know, seven days a week during.

00:33:53:14 – 00:33:54:12
Tom
Right during.

00:33:54:12 – 00:34:01:21
Bunny
Season. So, I mean, you can roll in there on Monday and just enjoy the resort and relax and lay out at the pool.

00:34:01:21 – 00:34:02:23
Tom
And then the party and.

00:34:02:24 – 00:34:05:07
Bunny
I start Thursday.

00:34:05:10 – 00:34:24:27
Tom
And so we’ll be going up world even our house in Nashville on Wednesday so we can pull in Thursday morning. Yep. And then, we’re bringing our motorhome and pulling our Wrangler because we can’t put the 360 both in our motorhome. So we got to pull the cheek to put the 360. Both in the back.

00:34:25:05 – 00:34:26:26
Bunny
Don’t let them lie to you.

00:34:26:29 – 00:34:27:21
Tom
I’m excited.

00:34:27:25 – 00:34:29:10
Bunny
He just liked full of Jeep.

00:34:29:10 – 00:34:29:29
Tom
It looks bad.

00:34:29:29 – 00:34:31:01
Bunny
Out.

00:34:31:04 – 00:34:32:27
Tom
It really does.

00:34:32:29 – 00:34:33:13
Bunny
It sure.

00:34:33:13 – 00:34:39:02
Tom
Does. But check out North haven.com. Lawton is.

00:34:39:05 – 00:34:40:08
Bunny
North North Haven.

00:34:40:14 – 00:34:49:23
Tom
North haven.com. Yeah North haven.com. And like I said I’ll put links throughout the video and everything right over the top of our faces.

00:34:49:23 – 00:34:51:16
Bunny
And you will not be disappointed at all.

00:34:51:17 – 00:35:09:06
Tom
You won’t be disappointed. And hopefully you guys come out, the first weekend of August. We’ll be there. we know that there’s gonna be another, couple that just started doing podcast, and so we’re going to meet them while we’re there. So that’ll be kind of fun and interesting.

00:35:09:07 – 00:35:10:16
Bunny
Absolutely. Yeah.

00:35:10:18 – 00:35:30:27
Tom
And, they’re going to be doing a party in South Bend, Indiana pretty soon in September. We can’t go because we’re going to be in to make them on. But if you’re looking for a party in South Bend, Indiana, send us a message. We’ll get you hooked up with that couple, and hopefully we can help them get all sold out.

00:35:30:27 – 00:35:31:07
Tom
And.

00:35:31:14 – 00:35:32:01
Bunny
Right, right.

00:35:32:02 – 00:35:35:12
Tom
This is our first party.

00:35:35:14 – 00:35:37:13
Bunny
more power to them.

00:35:37:15 – 00:35:39:09
Tom
Hahaha.

00:35:39:11 – 00:35:46:05
Bunny
Parties are fun. They’re fun to run. But man, you, Yeah, it’s a lot of work.

00:35:46:07 – 00:35:48:16
Tom
So how much time are we into this far?

00:35:48:17 – 00:35:50:07
Bunny
I don’t know, I can’t see I’m getting on.

00:35:50:13 – 00:35:59:10
Tom
Hold on. I’m going to put the glasses on. We are, 35. Man, that’s not bad.

00:35:59:12 – 00:36:02:13
Bunny
I five.

00:36:02:15 – 00:36:16:01
Tom
All right, so we are going to be doing a couple videos after this about just pineapple world stuff. as we’ve been going around, I know we haven’t done a video in a while, and if we have, it was about my junk.

00:36:16:04 – 00:36:17:22
Bunny
And which is healing perfect.

00:36:17:23 – 00:36:25:23
Tom
It’s healing perfectly. So we are going to get my urologist. I was just chatting with him last Saturday.

00:36:25:25 – 00:36:26:09
Bunny
Yes.

00:36:26:10 – 00:36:46:24
Tom
And so we will get him. I gave him the dates that we’re not going to be here. So I told him whatever date he wants to come up. And if you have any questions for the urologist, send, don’t go to Tom bodycon. We have a contact link on there. Send us messages and I will ask the urologist right here on camera.

00:36:47:12 – 00:36:50:13
Tom
And even may or may not answer but I’ll ask.

00:36:50:15 – 00:36:57:02
Bunny
Well and even then you know like I said, if you have any questions regarding any of that.

00:36:57:05 – 00:37:19:29
Tom
Implants, ed medications, you know, a lot of people we hear all the time in front of a lot of people that no one ever has an issue. Privately, I get all the messages and our the text, our calls are feedback saying, hey, I, I’m embarrassed. I don’t want to ever bring this up. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about.

00:37:19:29 – 00:37:24:25
Tom
No. It’s life. I mean, we lose our eyesight. I say, I got glasses.

00:37:24:29 – 00:37:25:12
Bunny
We lose our.

00:37:25:12 – 00:37:28:02
Tom
Hair, we lose.

00:37:29:03 – 00:37:29:21
Tom
I will lose them.

00:37:29:21 – 00:37:31:08
Bunny
I got a spot right here.

00:37:31:08 – 00:37:33:14
Tom
I did have my cochlear implants.

00:37:33:21 – 00:37:36:00
Bunny
Yeah, my sixth surgery.

00:37:36:00 – 00:37:57:19
Tom
So we gotta turn it head. I will, I was doing this, but I’ve had six surgeries because each time they do one surgery at a time to make sure that it works and everything. So I started with the bars, and then I went to the Baja Magnetic. Now I’m on the OCA, TOS and the OCA to let me see if I can take it off.

00:37:57:21 – 00:38:12:21
Tom
It is this little thing here. It’s not very big, and it just magnetized this to the side of my head, and then I can hear everything. I can stream my TV to them. I can talk on my phone through them. I can watch TikTok through them.

00:38:12:24 – 00:38:13:28
Bunny
You know, it’s pretty interesting.

00:38:13:28 – 00:38:18:29
Tom
This is what they look like. Camera. Yep. Okay. Yep. So I’ve got one on both sides.

00:38:19:05 – 00:38:47:29
Bunny
It was pretty interesting because his otolaryngologist is very new to the Nashville area and to the, clinic that we go to. and then when we went in for the first surgery, the, the nurse was like, so who is this doctor? I’ve never heard of them. And I’m like, oh, you know. And I told her, I said, he’s the only one outside of Vanderbilt that’s doing these implants, right?

00:38:47:29 – 00:38:49:19
Tom
Yeah. It’s only two doctors.

00:38:49:19 – 00:38:58:23
Bunny
Yeah. And then he comes back in two months later and they’re like, oh my gosh, you’re back. They’re not used to doing two. They’re used to only doing one right.

00:38:58:23 – 00:39:27:01
Tom
Most people that have a cochlear implant have one because it uses your skull as a conductor for your hearing. Could I go with one? I could, but I don’t hear as well because I am deaf. I mean, if you look at my hearing results, I am 95% deaf beyond deaf. So while I have one, I could hear, I just don’t hear as well.

00:39:27:01 – 00:39:34:25
Tom
With both of them. I still even struggle. And this is directly connected to my yes, my inner ears.

00:39:34:25 – 00:39:39:05
Bunny
Right? Right. So it’s pretty, pretty interesting technology.

00:39:39:05 – 00:39:41:10
Tom
I can’t tell direction.

00:39:41:10 – 00:39:41:20
Bunny
No.

00:39:41:20 – 00:39:48:20
Tom
So buddy, in a storm, we’ll go. Tom and I got a staff and I go out to the I.

00:39:48:23 – 00:39:49:05
Bunny
I got.

00:39:49:05 – 00:39:55:06
Tom
It, and then I start doing a slow circle and looking for.

00:39:55:06 – 00:40:00:05
Bunny
Her. I have to start telling him, all right, go to the front of the store, stop at the main island, stay there.

00:40:00:06 – 00:40:01:20
Tom
I wonder what people think.

00:40:01:20 – 00:40:04:12
Bunny
When we were yelling through the store.

00:40:04:12 – 00:40:06:22
Tom
We are.

00:40:06:25 – 00:40:08:27
Bunny
Because usually the phones in the car, we.

00:40:08:28 – 00:40:14:25
Tom
Got no shame in our game. Yeah, we have a call each other. Oh, why don’t we call each other?

00:40:14:28 – 00:40:15:21
Bunny
I don’t know.

00:40:15:24 – 00:40:17:00
Tom
That would probably be.

00:40:17:03 – 00:40:22:05
Bunny
So, you know, funny story. His aunt and, cousin were just out here.

00:40:22:08 – 00:40:23:00
Tom
You know, and we took him.

00:40:23:00 – 00:40:27:11
Bunny
In that we took him to Nashville, and the stores were packed, and we went there on Sunday.

00:40:27:15 – 00:40:32:06
Tom
Saturday, Sunday. No, no, it was Sunday. We left Monday.

00:40:32:07 – 00:40:40:29
Bunny
Sunday afternoon, and the stores were packed and we’re trying to find everything. So it’s. Aren’t you open? Marco? And everybody turn around. Oh.

00:40:41:00 – 00:40:45:19
Tom
Store yours. Paulo. I think they need new words.

00:40:45:21 – 00:40:47:20
Bunny
Yeah, that one didn’t work out or.

00:40:47:24 – 00:40:48:21
Tom
That didn’t work out too.

00:40:48:22 – 00:40:52:11
Bunny
Well. But it was cute, because then we went into another store and they did it again.

00:40:52:13 – 00:41:13:08
Tom
Yep. my hand surgery. So if you’ve ever if you’ve been following on that, am I, I’m not really happy with. That’s as far as I can open this hand or this hand I can open all the way. This doctor pat himself on the back saying how great he was. I asked him to call this doctor because I really had faith in what this doctor did.

00:41:13:08 – 00:41:32:29
Tom
My pinky is a little crooked, but the rest of that hand is good. And this doctor says, I’m the man. I know what I’m doing. Oh, I’m so mad. Why can’t somebody just bring their ego check down, make a phone call and say, what did you do? Because this guy’s already had seven prior.

00:41:32:29 – 00:41:33:26
Bunny
Surgery because of.

00:41:33:26 – 00:41:37:03
Tom
And you’re the only one that’s actually wanted his hand.

00:41:37:04 – 00:41:47:17
Bunny
And it’s, you know, out of all of Tom’s doctors, he is the he is the least trusted. And he won’t go back home. And we just talked to somebody.

00:41:47:17 – 00:42:02:12
Tom
We bought something off Facebook Marketplace, and she had the same doctor and he totally messed up her hand. I mean, we’re talking a lawsuit, lots and all kinds of stuff going on. Yeah, but yeah, I don’t like what he did to my hand.

00:42:02:12 – 00:42:09:01
Bunny
And but all of our other doctors, we just absolutely love them. Yeah. They’ve been amazing. All right. So we’ve we’re done with this.

00:42:09:03 – 00:42:10:14
Tom
Really I’m not.

00:42:10:16 – 00:42:13:03
Bunny
Yeah you are. You’re just rambling now.

00:42:13:03 – 00:42:14:10
Tom
I am rambling because that’s the.

00:42:14:17 – 00:42:15:27
Bunny
Ramble on the next video.

00:42:15:28 – 00:42:41:10
Tom
All right. So if you are watching this on YouTube, we do transpose all this YouTubes into audio files and put them on podcast. We’re on all the major podcast sites. We’re on iTunes, we’re on Google Podcasts. I think they’re going away. But Spotify, that’s what I listen to my podcast on. And typing all of the even the lower ones.

00:42:41:10 – 00:43:02:29
Tom
So if we’re not on a podcast site, message us. We’ll get ourselves added. if you are listening to us on podcasts, definitely check us out on YouTube. we actually we don’t make much money. We are monetized. We might be able to get a Happy Meal one month, or we might be able to go to a nice dinner.

00:43:02:29 – 00:43:15:14
Tom
So it’s up to you to watch our videos. And if you’re not going to watch all of our video, we don’t care. Click play and go to the bathroom, take a shower, go to work something. Just let it play all the way through. Yeah.

00:43:15:17 – 00:43:25:10
Bunny
So, our biggest, our biggest grossing one was Tom broke his penis. So. Yeah, I don’t know. I don’t I don’t think we could top that one. We’ll see.

00:43:25:13 – 00:43:50:05
Tom
We’ll we’ll eventually get there. But, follow us on Twitter. We have several accounts. We got Tom and Bonnie. That’s, our more popular one. We have Tom’s trips and we have no, miss no swimsuit. on Instagram, we have Tom and Bonnie, and we have Tom’s trips. And then on Facebook, we have, Tom and Bonnie.

00:43:50:05 – 00:43:57:05
Tom
So just search Tom and Bonnie everywhere. And you’re going to hear about Tom’s trips here regardless.

00:43:57:08 – 00:43:59:03
Bunny
Yes. You whether you want to or not.

00:43:59:05 – 00:44:05:21
Tom
But we do post mostly on on our personal stuff, pictures and stuff on Tom and Bonnie.

00:44:05:29 – 00:44:08:21
Bunny
Yes. That’s it. That being said.

00:44:08:24 – 00:44:10:20
Tom
All right, we’ll see you soon.

00:44:10:21 – 00:44:12:02
Bunny
We’ll see you soon.

 

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00:00:03:04 – 00:00:26:11
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here. And I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos in the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips dot com or give us a call at one 800 2850853. And I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:26:11 – 00:01:06:11
Tom and Bunny
However, while we’re Tom, everybody from Tom and money.com and we recently just got back from Hayden as to end to make with Tom’s trips. You’re a leader in adult lifestyle travel. And we spent three weeks in Jamaica, 21 days, 1t1 day. And boy, let me tell you, it was it was long. It was a ball buster. It was so far we’ve never I mean, we’ve traveled around the United States for like a couple of months, but never out of the country for such a long, long period.

00:01:06:13 – 00:01:31:01
Tom and Bunny
I missed my baby. Yeah. Mama, Mama bear only list. We really missed our baby. But you know what? I was the perfect wife while I was there. You are. I was. How are you? Dare I ask, how are you the perfect wife? Because I brought you a picture of Bam. Say, Dad, bring a picture up. Bam! So I could put it by the nightstand.

00:01:31:03 – 00:02:02:01
Tom and Bunny
I’ll post the picture. See, I’m special. You are? Who brings a picture of their dog? And it’s not even that. Well, we weren’t on vacation. We were working. We did get four days of a vacation. We did this. Absolutely amazing. So let’s start. Start. You wanted to start with something. So let’s if you’re listening to this on a podcast, this is kind of a visual thing.

00:02:02:01 – 00:02:39:21
Tom and Bunny
So you might want to jump over to our YouTube channel, Tom and Bonnie. And so we motor Buddy reached out to us. Yes. And they said we got a new roller bag. You might be interested. I’m trying to figure out what way my head tilts. And we already have the heart case. That’s right. Be right behind me back there, you can see this whole block thing and they thought this would be a little more to our needs because it has a lot of compartments and it’s a soft sided and goes fits right in the car.

00:02:39:21 – 00:03:10:08
Tom and Bunny
Perfect. Yes. And so they asked if we needed any more attachments because we keep a motor. Buddy Hayden is in to make, but we also have two motor buddies here. So I’m like, I think we’re good. But let me just take a look just in case they came out with something new that we didn’t have. So I jump on their website and I noticed that they had a doc and vacuum attachment.

00:03:10:11 – 00:03:35:10
Tom and Bunny
I don’t know how long it’s been there or how how long they had it for the original motor buddy. Now we have that attachment on the buck, but we never had it on the original motor buddy. So Bonnie has a bunch of doc charts and marital aids. So we had boom. Yes, she has. From Skinny, too thick, too long.

00:03:35:10 – 00:04:21:13
Tom and Bunny
The short to different types of textures to double. Yeah. And she has a hand thing, so I’ve got quite the array. Yeah. So when we saw that, we we reached out and said we could definitely use that attachment and we’ll take one to him ism in Jamaica. So that way if someone hasn’t tried the motor buddy, they can bring their own preferred Doc Johnson attachment to try out on an actual real motor buddy And it makes it, it makes it because that way the girl is more comfortable when she tries something knowing that she is already comfortable with it.

00:04:21:18 – 00:04:57:03
Tom and Bunny
So it’s a good multiple use to to try it. Right. And like, like Bonnie, like I said, she has an array of attachments and depending on the time is depending on what attachment. So I have an extra special one now you do. So we thought, we’re going to get this vacuum attachment. Let’s go on Amazon and let’s let’s order a Doc Johnson Yeah, let’s order a new one, sort of a new one.

00:04:57:05 – 00:05:25:29
Tom and Bunny
Something that is different that I’ve never tried before. We went to the marital aid store and my God, there are about three or four times more money than on Amazon. So we didn’t buy one that we were holding in our hand. We can figure it out. Look at the size, the girth. So when we’re looking at it there, we’re looking at one that was kind of it.

00:05:26:02 – 00:05:55:11
Tom and Bunny
It didn’t look like a human. No, no. It looked a little bit different. So I thought, you know what? This one looks really interesting. I’ve never tried anything like this before. It has like three different big bulky ridges. And so they had a small one and a large one. Now, us not thinking the large the large ones said ten inches thick that weren’t thick.

00:05:55:11 – 00:06:30:20
Tom and Bunny
And you don’t have to put it all the way, you know. And I said two and a half inches around. So I’m like okay, we’re thinking two and a half inches is like, you know, do I like, you know, I’m doing girl math? Yeah, I’m doing guy math. And so the other one was quite a bit smaller like and since 7/8 is and so I think it’s worth thinking is like the small one because she has said once and girth here once so Tom’s like you you could handle the other one, you know.

00:06:30:23 – 00:06:58:11
Tom and Bunny
So yeah, go big or go home. Yeah. We don’t know. Size Queen was a real size when we’re at the marital aid store that had size queen ones that were like this big around, like the fence posts and like this this long so this big around that long. No way. We thought because we thought doc chances were more human anatomy.

00:06:58:11 – 00:07:28:09
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, more. Yeah because they have it was all more corn stars. Yeah. Corn stuff. Yes. So you could use there anatomy. Exactly. So if you watch them on the movies, you can actually use their aid. So I really, you know, and going back or going back, I really wish that Amazon would put on there that it might appear bigger smaller.

00:07:28:11 – 00:07:52:21
Tom and Bunny
Harris Might appear smaller than yeah, it appears smaller than actual size. So this is what we haven’t even opened it and woven when figuring out some type of pull game to use with that. But I was thinking ring toss or it’s it’s pretty but I think that would weigh down our luggage going to Hedo so well it’s definitely going to Hedo because it’s not staying here Why not.

00:07:52:21 – 00:08:18:13
Tom and Bunny
We’ll just put it up on the TV stand. All right. So this is what I ordered. Lucky put your fist up there, player first. Up next to it, put your fist up. No, no, no. Like next to it. That’s her fist. That’s crazy. Well, I mean, I’m not saying it’s crazy because some people. Yeah. Would be able to have no problem.

00:08:18:17 – 00:08:47:12
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, but no, not funny. This is not going in my in my marital aids box. So all the comments that we get all looking for some BBC. No, we aren’t. We’re not opposed. We’re, we’re equal opportunist. So wait, you know, if, if a guy is that big, it’s definitely, you know, unsubscribe from our channel. Don’t comment. Don’t follow us because it’s never going to happen.

00:08:47:15 – 00:09:12:21
Tom and Bunny
So so basically what I just bought was a $50 ring toss scheme. We haven’t even taken it. I wonder if we can get reimbursed for that for a ring toss game. I doubt that we’ll get a huge no. So so yesterday it comes in the mail comes through Amazon and Tom’s like, well, what’s this other box? Then I’m like, Well, that’s the Doug Johnson that I ordered.

00:09:12:25 – 00:09:42:23
Tom and Bunny
This box is huge and it weighed £5. It’s like in this big box. And I’m like, Well, maybe there’s multiples. I don’t remember what I ordered. Don’t Amazon trunk? yeah. Don’t drink an Amazon. No, you might not be able to read your measurements properly. We’re going to have to get a circumference check. So when it says instant 7/8 our it’s are five inches.

00:09:42:23 – 00:10:08:26
Tom and Bunny
We know how big it is. So basically I spent $50 on it. It gave us a good laugh at that. We were laughing because I want to talk about this on our video. On our next video. First thing I said, either that or we could autograph it and send it to somebody for a mere $500. Right. It’s our our will probably.

00:10:08:28 – 00:10:36:27
Tom and Bunny
We’re still waiting on insurance. On my issue. If you watched my broken Yes video what we’ve I have to do a go fund me so maybe we’ll option an office give it to the person that donates them most at one time. There you go. They’ll be where are we can do it to where? No matter what the donations are, we just in our name for every donation.

00:10:37:00 – 00:11:01:16
Tom and Bunny
But it has to be over some amount. It can’t be a box. A big cost like 25 bucks. That’s all right. That’s all right. So look out. Possibly for a go fund me. We don’t really know. We don’t want to do it, but surgery, if we if we have to pay for. It’s about $20,000. Yes. So what? We’re still waiting to do an update video on that.

00:11:01:17 – 00:11:24:14
Tom and Bunny
Yes. As soon as we know that’ll be coming out. Yes. All right. So you know what? The past three weeks, like I said, they absolutely want a lot faster than I anticipated. Then it actually went. But we had two great groups. We did. And we literally we got there on Thursday. Normally when we get there on Thursday, we’re the first of our group.

00:11:24:16 – 00:11:51:08
Tom and Bunny
We were not this time. No, there was like already 15, 20 people there waiting. Yes, but they all went to bed. Yeah, I think it was a travel day. Everybody was already in bed. I think. Gosh, So let’s start there. Don’t ever travel when somebody is getting ready to do an election in Jamaica. Now let’s first start off the travel advisory.

00:11:51:10 – 00:12:28:02
Tom and Bunny
They had Jamaica at a level four travel advisory. Now we’re not advising anything, but we did not feel uncomfortable there. We went to dinner at Rex Cafe and Ivan’s restaurant three times. We went on multiple pub crawls during our time and talking to the multiple drivers we had and the staff at the resort, they they all said that in a is they’re not seeing anything.

00:12:28:07 – 00:12:54:24
Tom and Bunny
So when they’re doing that Jamaican alert, they’re covering the whole they’re putting a blanket over the whole country. So basically it’s going to be if you’re looking for trouble, you can find trouble. Yeah, but yeah, we never felt unsafe at all. No, but like I say, we’re not advising anything. Whatever makes you comfortable here, just use your judgment.

00:12:54:26 – 00:13:24:22
Tom and Bunny
We go back here in the next few weeks. Yeah. April 22, 27, for our Hito Hotshots, and then we go back again in June. So we’re still going back? Yeah. Now, with that said, there was an election going on. Yes. And we did not know that the president of Jamaica was in Lucy, which is the halfway point between Montego Bay and Negro.

00:13:24:24 – 00:13:49:15
Tom and Bunny
And we got stuck in. God. Hope. Hope. Well, Hopewell Well, we were stuck about four or five miles before. Hopewell Yeah. Hopewell It’s going to be the first bigger town or parish between Montego Bay right after actually, right after you leave Montego Bay, that’s going to be the first biggest parish. Well, it what we were stuck there for like two and a half hours in traffic.

00:13:49:15 – 00:14:20:23
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Now, this is a two Lane Island road. The ocean’s literally literally two lanes because there is nowhere to pass. I’ll look for the picture and I’ll post here. Our two lane road became a five lane road because every idiot in the world was trying to pass, which now they have to merge back in and our driver was a safe driver and I would have asked him to do anything.

00:14:20:26 – 00:15:02:26
Tom and Bunny
No illegal. They literally had everything even off to the road during in the dirt on both sides were completely packed. People were trying to pass into oncoming traffic. Ambulances and in police cars couldn’t even get through. We got passed by a cow and we did it. How do you get past it? Looks out the window and goes, There’s a cow trot and passed us because in Jamaica, you know, sometimes they get off their leash because if they’re not in a fence, they’ve got a leash in, they’re chained to the ground so they can pick that area around them.

00:15:03:04 – 00:15:27:16
Tom and Bunny
Sometimes they get off and they run down the road. Yep. And that’s what happened. We got passed by a cow. Now we’re still not seeing anything. We’re thinking there’s an accident because typically when they’re you’re in that kind of traffic and there’s an accident, you’re stopped because it is a two lane road. And even our driver, Michael, says, there’s an intersection about a mile or so up.

00:15:27:16 – 00:15:47:23
Tom and Bunny
That’s probably where the accident is. That’s typically someone’s pulling out or in or motorcycle accidents. And it’s not like you have waves or Google Maps. I had ways. Yeah, but you couldn’t see. No, it didn’t have all the alerts we have and then the states. So all I could tell us how far we were from heading. So it took us two and a half hours.

00:15:47:23 – 00:16:28:18
Tom and Bunny
We finally get through Hopewell and they yeah, we seen a lot of people on the streets, but nothing that was more than usual right? So we get once we get through Hopewell, we start going. We’re like, Yes, finally we’re rolling and we’re passing. And then we stopped again. It’s just before Lucy Just before Lucy. Well, as you go around the island, you don’t really not normally notice it when you’re just driving, but when you’re in dead, stop, You could actually see were curved around and went through Lucy and our driver says to us, Hey, if you don’t mind, I know this way we can go through the neighborhoods and we can avoid a lot of

00:16:28:18 – 00:16:56:16
Tom and Bunny
this traffic. So we did. Yeah. That’s when it got. We thought, Well, we did. That’s when we didn’t feel comfortable because all of a sudden we’re seeing a ton of people in this neighborhood. We never see people. We see a few people hanging out on their porches or barbecuing and stuff like that. But we never see a ton of people walking the street.

00:16:56:22 – 00:17:25:08
Tom and Bunny
And one of the things, too, you got to understand in in Lucy there, their regular residential streets would be like what our alleys look like. Yes. So they’re very narrow. And pretty much she can only get one car through there in each direction. Right. And they’re talking to the Michael or driver. That’s what we found out about because everyone was wearing green.

00:17:25:13 – 00:17:57:29
Tom and Bunny
Yes. And we started noticing more and more green the more we approached the actual center of Lucy. And then we see thousands of people now in America. That type of environment could turn ugly really fast. So that’s where we felt our uneasiness. But Michael assured us that when he didn’t even know the president of Jamaica was in Lucy, he just said, They’re having an election and they’re celebrating.

00:17:58:03 – 00:18:24:18
Tom and Bunny
They weren’t protesting. They were violent, they were happy, they were smiling, they were dead. The election had even taken place yet. Right. This was on Thursday. The election was going to happen on Monday. Yeah. So that made us feel a little more comfortable. And we got to then we made it through there just fine. I mean, after we went through there, then we realized we were totally safe and we got to Hedonism.

00:18:24:18 – 00:19:01:25
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, but what normally takes an hour and a half drive to Montego Bay to Negril took us 5 hours, but we stopped at KFC. We did. We did. For the first time in 14 years. If you guys want some good KFC here, you if you’re staying in Montego Bay. Yeah, don’t stop because we stopped and we didn’t realize that from the time we got parked and walked in from the time we made our order, which was just a little box meals to the time we got the three little box meals was 45 minutes.

00:19:01:25 – 00:19:27:04
Tom and Bunny
Yes, it is the most profitable and most busiest KFC in the world. And also to I think that that was our downfall because we had another guest that was there in the airport with us and they had a private transfer to well, they went straight ahead and it only took them two and a half hours. Yeah. So that stop to get the chicken put us behind everything.

00:19:27:05 – 00:19:43:08
Tom and Bunny
Right. But at least we had a meal and we didn’t go in hungry but we didn’t have a bathroom so it’s no way to pull over. I was willing to pee in the bushes because all the other guys were doing that. I was Jamaican. I was willing to to help. And I was thinking I was like, Bonnie won’t care.

00:19:43:08 – 00:20:09:14
Tom and Bunny
She’ll drop her pants and pee. So we, I, we held it. I mean, Bunny are good for 2 hours and we held it for five. Well, the minute the minute I seen everything backing up, I had only probably taken like three drinks out of my soda. I’m like, no, no more. Never, never make it drink. Never. No. And Michael had had his beer and water and thank God we didn’t drink beer.

00:20:09:14 – 00:20:37:24
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, Yeah, I’m. I mean, I’m not a big fan of beer. If he had Red Stripe white, maybe, but Red Stripe, not my. It’s more like Budweiser. Yeah. And also to if you guys know this, if you go to Club Mo Bay, if you get club Mo so you know it’s going to bypass you through immigration it gives you a little lounge while you wait for you that your driver, your van, you can get rum punch to go.

00:20:37:24 – 00:20:59:23
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Thank God I did not do that. Right. Thank God I didn’t even do that. We didn’t even use the lounge. We just walked right out and gotten this car. So we get to Hedonism and they have a new general manager. So we got to meet them. Yes. Very, very nice guy. he seems like he’s going to be a a he’s going.

00:20:59:26 – 00:21:29:17
Tom and Bunny
It is. What we see, because we only saw him for two weeks. Yeah, he’ll. He’ll do good. Yes. We don’t know. The politics are how things handle from the management to the general manager. I can them right so but Bonnie made a comment that the glasses looked a little dingy and it it was water spots. It looked like the dishwashers needed to be clean.

00:21:29:17 – 00:21:49:21
Tom and Bunny
The filters. And lo and behold, the next night, all the glasses were crystal clear. It’s just, you know, it’s little things like that when you run in. Maybe they ran out of the stuff that you put in it and it didn’t stop the stuff you get in the car wash spot free rock free rent. So I don’t know.

00:21:49:21 – 00:22:17:14
Tom and Bunny
But anyway, it was nice to meet him. So very nice, very personable. Right? I love talking to him. He’s from the UK. Yeah. So we did ask though, because one of the things that we always do is, you know, hedonism has a no tipping policy. People will get fired. They will think tips get fired. So believe it or not, it’s just like any other job.

00:22:17:14 – 00:22:48:03
Tom and Bunny
People will tell management if someone gets a tip and they see it. So it’s not like they’re going to. It’s like in America, like any other job, somebody doesn’t like it because they’re not supposed to do it. That’s how they’re going to get found out. Right? So we bring Snickers bars. We brought 140 Snickers bars and then, yeah, every couple of days I’ll walk around first.

00:22:48:03 – 00:23:06:11
Tom and Bunny
I get the bartenders. Yeah, I just want to take care of the bartenders. I take care of the waitstaff. The waitstaff and the late midnight cooks. Yes. I always went out because they never get nothing. So I went over there and they were pretty excited. Yep. As we go by groundskeepers, we hand them to everybody in the front office.

00:23:06:11 – 00:23:34:06
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So we took care of everybody we could. And when you bring Snickers, they come out. Everybody’s like, I want one, I want one. And the biggest one is one of our waitstaff that we’ve known there for years. He’s like, could I have two for my grandchildren? Absolutely. Absolutely. One more. But we actually asked David, we’re like, hey, you know, they say that it tasted different.

00:23:34:12 – 00:23:58:07
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, because he’s from England. He goes, I can attest to that. Yeah. He said it was sweeter. Yeah. So yeah. So if you have any ideas, you know, they definitely tip in stickers. Yeah. And I watched Tick Tock on this English girl who tries American Foods and they have Kit Kats in England, and she tried an American Kit Kat and didn’t like it because it was too sweet.

00:23:58:08 – 00:24:30:21
Tom and Bunny
Too sweet. I remember because we do have that one bartender and he says, I don’t like sweet. Yeah. He goes, No, they’re too sweet. Too sweet. So that’s where we come in. We’re just too sweet. We are too early next year. Next time, I think we have to bring more room. So we we did get a a room and that used to be an ocean view nude room and they had to change its a guard of view regular because when you open the window all you see is a roof.

00:24:30:26 – 00:24:52:15
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, it’s right behind the dive shack. And between the flame and the dive sack, it’s actually a really good location. It has a balcony that you could sit out on that we sat on every single night. Yeah. And we got to say hi to people. Walk into the nude porn back. Now, I did find out that the particular room that we were in was horrible for cell reception.

00:24:52:18 – 00:25:15:23
Tom and Bunny
Yes. Now, for you people, if you’re trying to call Times trips, which is the number like right here, right there. But funny, that answer is because we found out about the horrible cell reception about a week into our staff. Yeah. And it literally we’re just wondering why the phone wasn’t bringing in one of our other host couples was right below us.

00:25:15:23 – 00:25:41:03
Tom and Bunny
The the room directly below us and they didn’t have any issues. It was just that particular area. When I went around, everything dropped right soft. So I told them I can’t have that room anymore. So our first week was all fat guys with hot chicks. my God, we absolutely love that group. We do. I haven’t. You know, we haven’t laughed so hard in such a long time.

00:25:41:03 – 00:26:09:18
Tom and Bunny
And it was such a good, refreshing time to go after the holidays and after the back to back with Jan. It was just great to let loose and have fun with them. Well, one of the things is it’s such they started off with, what, four or five couples years ago and now like 77 rooms. Yeah, they are so big now as a host couple, we do the pool games.

00:26:09:21 – 00:26:31:20
Tom and Bunny
We we usually bring a deejay or an entertainer, but if not, we then we got to coordinate with the Jamaican deejay. We we do the cocktail parties and we do the meet and greets. We do the offsite dinners and the pub crawls. This year, Well, last year, too. But this year was even better. They got their own entertainment committee.

00:26:31:27 – 00:27:05:07
Tom and Bunny
They’re on their own Facebook chat. And one of the couples, Paula, she’s kind of in charge of it, I think. And she coordinated the room crawl. Yeah, they they coordinated all the pool games. Me and Bunny are I mean, we did the offsite site dinner and we set up the pub crawl, but and Pat on Bunny’s back. She got those old fat guys a cooler, cooler full of beer and an extra case of beer for the winter.

00:27:05:09 – 00:27:33:13
Tom and Bunny
Before we started the pub crawl. We did. We went through over two cases. Beer? Yup. And that was just a staff plus bar at the bar and we bought all the bars. So it was it’s just very nice that we’re more of a support asset between the group and the resort. It was so nice to just sit in the pool and watch other people put on the game.

00:27:33:15 – 00:28:00:02
Tom and Bunny
We do want to say a big, huge thank you to the old fat guys with hot chicks for making us so welcome, but also allowing us to enjoy our time and not feel like we have had to be responsible for each and every single event. It was really fun. And then they have one of one of the guests works for or does Pure Romance Party.

00:28:00:03 – 00:28:24:06
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So maybe you sort of called her on that. Doc Johnson, back to you laughing because obviously we don’t know measurements. They donated all of the marital aids to give away as prizes. Yeah. So it was really, really nice. That was really cool. And up the prize value. Yes. And it just goes to show how many amazing people travel.

00:28:24:08 – 00:29:01:10
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So if you’re interested in old fat guys with hot chicks, I’ll tell you what, it’s explain. It’s not old fact, guys. Maybe one. But the the women are everything from what I twenties to. Well, yeah 56 days. So yeah. but me and Bonnie fit in well with our highway age, all that stuff, don’t you agree? Yeah.

00:29:01:17 – 00:29:24:19
Tom and Bunny
So when we went on the pub crawl, most all of us wore are old fat guys with hot chick. I’ll put that picture. Yeah. So and then we got to remember because a lot of times I said, I’ll put a picture in, you forget. So as we’re coming back in to hedonism, this young girl looks at me and she goes, Is that your old fat guy?

00:29:24:19 – 00:29:47:18
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like, Yes. And she goes, Dude, you’re too skinny. You need to be kicked out. I lost 60 some pounds. I mean, if you see our pictures and our social media and our videos, you could see I used to have a fat brown head and now it’s getting more slender. I don’t really have a gut no more.

00:29:47:20 – 00:30:11:23
Tom and Bunny
So, yeah, I should be exiled from old fat guys. Know that just goes to show that it’s not. It’s just a fun name. It is a fun name. And it’s a really, really fun group. Now what you got to do is you got to go to times trips dot com and click on group trips and you’ll see old fat guys attack sex one of the dates next year.

00:30:11:26 – 00:30:42:16
Tom and Bunny
I have it right here in front of me. my God. my gosh. She just got a new price. Pricey. February 22nd to March 1st. Right. And what’s the cheapest? Room? 310 a night per person. All right. So singles are a little slight are slightly more. So you definitely if you do double occupancy it’s cheaper all around But old fat guys attack chicks definitely, definitely recommend that because we will be there.

00:30:42:18 – 00:31:02:16
Tom and Bunny
yes, we will. We’ll be the naked ones in the nude pool, watching the game, watching the games, I think actually got up and participated in one of them. I think you did. I did. I know you did. You look like a you look like a roll of lifesavers. So they pop these big laps. yeah. gosh.

00:31:02:21 – 00:31:30:12
Tom and Bunny
And they’re like, got them. You want to go put them on and show them again? So it’s a No, we’re not. We’re are. They’re in my room. You want me? Go get it. Go get it. But I’ll explain why. So they say they’re going to have a beer chugging contest and I haven’t chugged the beer in years. And I’m thinking I can do this because it’s just those like 12 ounce glasses and I’ll just inhale both of them.

00:31:30:14 – 00:31:56:23
Tom and Bunny
Although I was up against some stiff competition because these guys, a lot of them are from Wisconsin and all they do is drink beer and eat cheese. And I but I thought I could hold my own with them and they they bring out after we’re all standing there and they hand us each two beers, they bring out these lips and body is taking forever because now I’m going to run out of time.

00:31:56:26 – 00:32:24:09
Tom and Bunny
But we all had to put these big lips on before we chugged the beer. I lied. she lied. So the lips go under your over your teeth. So basically you bite down on it like vampire teeth and you can’t drink nothing through them. So when I’m drinking it just all pouring down everything but you coming back. I’m coming back.

00:32:24:09 – 00:32:53:28
Tom and Bunny
You’re coming back. I lied. She lied. But anyway, it added a little cool fun to the actual head. I could see up your skirt. Oops. If I could have taken a picture when everybody turned around with those lips. my God. It took, like, a couple minutes to even get them on. I love. I had different colors. Yours was right.

00:32:54:04 – 00:33:14:06
Tom and Bunny
Pink was my hot pink or pink. You had pink. somebody has red. They had purple. It was the color of the rainbow up there. this is so funny. But yeah, no one could chug a beer and it just went right down here. Yes. So that was just a fun game I lost. You did lose. I thought I was going to drown.

00:33:14:08 – 00:33:50:10
Tom and Bunny
But that other that other game that we did, you look like a to a roll of lifesavers, Candy. So they have another game and we’ve been doing it for years and they throw out the little scrunchies, the thin round scrunchies, the hair ties and all the guys put them around their member. Yeah. And I’m sitting there like when we normally when we do it, we throw them all out and then people can pick them up and do it, right.

00:33:50:16 – 00:34:10:29
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. But they were giving each guy five and so this girl comes up to hand me five and I’m like, I’ll just put them on. So she starts putting them on and on and on. And mind you, my crap is broken and you got up to 12 and there was still room. You look like the rainbow of proof.

00:34:11:04 – 00:34:35:08
Tom and Bunny
I did look like the lifesavers in that. So as girls were coming around trying to collect them because they won a prize by the person who was able to pause the most off. I would only like each girl pull off for free That way. I gave more girls time to touch me. Hey, I know you did. You Did.

00:34:35:10 – 00:34:59:24
Tom and Bunny
stop, stop, stop, stop. First I let the first two girls pull them up. yeah. Then I heard they were supposed to use their mouths. yeah. So I made the other girl, honored her deal and pulled me up to the side of the pool. And then another girl. So that. That completed my. Yeah, but I. You grew up in the beginning, me being deaf.

00:34:59:24 – 00:35:10:14
Tom and Bunny
I didn’t hear the rules of the game. So even with a broken member, you still got taken care of. I did fight multiple women.

00:35:10:16 – 00:35:37:03
Tom and Bunny
That was fun. I was Later on, after we went to another resort, I was walking into the pool and our friend Denise looks up at me and goes, You got it fixed. And I said, No. She goes, What do you mean no? I said, No. That’s just where it hangs. And starts out. It gets bigger from there. Really does.

00:35:37:08 – 00:36:06:28
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Yes. She was like, I like that. It’s floating. Just the floating. So that was kind of funny. Yeah. She thought I got my junk fixed and she was like, That was fast. I just saw your video. My No, no no, no. Unfortunately, it’s not. No, no. I’ve got to make a phone call this week. All right, so back to hedonism.

00:36:06:28 – 00:36:27:07
Tom and Bunny
But no, no, we’re fine. We’re fine. Yeah, because this could be a podcast. What’s that? 35 minute. What do you want to go part two? Yeah, we got to do a part two because we still got lots of stories from It’s no swimsuit. Okay, So what? We’re going to just stop this one and restart it. We’re going to wear the same clothes and we’re going to do part two.

00:36:27:07 – 00:36:39:11
Tom and Bunny
Why? We’re still fresh thinking about it. Yeah, because I got to I got to recite my pickup lines that I heard. Okay. All right. So we’ll be back in a little bit. We’ll see you soon. Season.

 

 

Going back to Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny

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Going back to Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny

We are going back to Hedonism Resort in Jamaica Feb 22, 2024 to March 13,2024 for an epic time with two really great travel groups hosted by Tom’s Trips.

Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks is our first week, this group started with a few friends from Wisconsin and this upcoming event they have over 86 rooms booked.  This group is inclusive as they never let anyone feel left out regardless and you can expect fun activities from the Room Crawl, Pub Crawls, Old Fat Guy Olympic games as well as cocktail parties and pool parties.

The Tom’s Trips Ms No Swimsuit is in it’s 24th year as a leader at Hedonism as far a pagents go.  8 ladies from resorts and clubs around the nation are chosen to represent and come with the in it to win it mentality.  Events are Nude Fashion show, Anything But Clothes, Wet T-shirt contest, Glow party, Foam party, Beach party and Catamarans with nude snorkel and partying.  Also is off site dinners and pub crawls.  The best part is, YOU ARE A JUDGE! by booking to Tom’s Trips, you are officially a judge at this event!

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Transcript

00:00:03:01 - 00:00:26:08
Unknown
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here. And I know we're getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos in the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom's trips dot com or give us a call at one 800 2850853. And I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:26:08 - 00:00:50:06
Unknown
Hey, everyone. We're Tom and Bunny coming to you live from the Nashville area. Semi-private if you're watching this. Right. And we are the host of Tom and Money.com, as well as your host on a lot of our travel that is coming up. Yes. So first off, I want to say happy Valentine's Day. Well, belated Valentine's Day because this video will probably come out about a week or so after.

00:00:50:08 - 00:01:21:03
Unknown
Well, that's okay. It's too. Happy Valentine's Day, Tom. Okay. Valentine's Day dagger drive that screwdriver. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I'm all dressed in red. You are? How come I'm not? Well, you don't have any red. Okay, But he dresses me these every time I dress. You, you. We say we look. We look like Twinkies. We So we are getting ready to head back to Hedonism Resort in Jamaica.

00:01:21:05 - 00:01:46:10
Unknown
But this time. Okay, so last time we just did January recap. Yeah. And that video we talked about being there for 17 or 18 days. This time we're going back for 21 days. Yes. And you know what? Before we got to go and have fun and and kind of be on vacation this time, we have to work. This time we do have to work.

00:01:46:13 - 00:02:15:29
Unknown
And if you watched our Tom Brokaw's, you know what video currently we do not have an update as of right this minute during the taping of this video. All I know is the reservoir is completely empty. Yeah. So there's nothing to go from the reservoir into little guy. So it's going to be a long 21 days. We're going to be just nudists at hedonism this time.

00:02:15:29 - 00:02:43:17
Unknown
Well, I have to be a me too. Me too. So at one of the things that when we got into the lifestyle, we, you know, everyone sets their ground rules, their boundaries, and we had a laundry list of them and what we found is too many roles is too many roles. It hinders. Absolutely. It does play. Are you a Leonardo DiCaprio?

00:02:43:17 - 00:03:21:09
Unknown
Are you? I just I got to hear you had a that doesn't sound good. Leonardo DiCaprio on the Super Bowl on. They caught him doing a lot. They did. And you had to pointed out it could have just got right through notice. No, no, no. So anyway, they did the CAT scan. All we know right now is the reservoir that we talked about in the video, which I couldn't think of the name for the life of me, but Bonnie had to tell me what the name was.

00:03:21:11 - 00:03:48:26
Unknown
It was empty. So that's why the little plunger goes flat, because there's nothing to draw out of the reservoir, except nothing is a thing. Exactly. So we will do another a full update video, probably after the surgery, because it's going to go really fast. It's going to go from there, going to calls with the surgery day, and we're going to find out what they're going to do, probably the day of surgery.

00:03:48:26 - 00:04:10:23
Unknown
Well, he did actually tell you, though, that it's going to be a complete replacement. Right. But you never know what happens. I know. Yeah, lots of things can happen. He said he did contact insurance. And what he did say is, since I already have it in my body that the insurance can't refuse it, but it could take a while to approve it.

00:04:10:24 - 00:04:33:27
Unknown
Right. And they did tell us that it could take up to two weeks. Yeah, but he's going to be on the phone with them tomorrow to tell them our travel schedule because we're that important. And she's going to say, Do you know who you're talking to Exactly. he's people, right? We need this fixed. You know what? We should we should tell them to do it for free.

00:04:33:29 - 00:04:59:16
Unknown
Because in the for a sponsorship, because we talk about it all the time. You know, somebody asked me last night that I wanted a Philly account with them. And I said, you know what? No, I and my my main reasoning is, is the partners in necklaces. We do not have an affiliate. We do not get no monetary or nothing from them.

00:04:59:22 - 00:05:28:01
Unknown
We just love, love, love their jewelry, spunk, love. We they send us love to share around partners. It sends us necklaces to give away. It's not like we're selling them. And motor body God, we love motor money. They send us randomly some motor buddies for clubs and different events and stuff like that. No, we are giving away motor bunnies.

00:05:28:03 - 00:05:49:23
Unknown
So before we get for our email, but just let you know for the next four or five months that motor money is going to be getting a lot of use. Should I be jealous of motor body? Right. Are you saying you're going to cheat on me with a motor buddy? You can watch. I can watch. I can't watch.

00:05:49:25 - 00:06:16:00
Unknown
Can't touch. I can watch. But that's okay. As long as Barney's happy. I am happy. Of course. Of course. Right. Okay. You know what, though? While we're on that subject and people probably are asking, so can you not do anything? Well, I didn't want to make this video about my job. I think we should, but we already did a video about my junk.

00:06:16:00 - 00:06:37:29
Unknown
I think people want to hear more about what our upcoming plans are. All right. So, yeah, we'll talk about my junk and the good, bad, the ugly, the everything when we do the update video because we need 30 minutes to talk about something. That's what the algorithms say. All right. So we did try to do the dirty last night.

00:06:38:04 - 00:07:00:19
Unknown
We did. It was like we were in high school all over again. All right, enough with that. We'll talk about the dirty last night on a future podcast. Kind of like a clickbait. There you go. And then that way we can talk about we'll do it after the surgery schedule and talk about how we overcame certain sexual reasons.

00:07:00:20 - 00:07:27:12
Unknown
Of course. All right, fine. I want to talk about your junk. If you're listening to this, our podcast, jump over to YouTube and just search Tom and Bonnie. And if you're on YouTube, you can listen to all of our videos on podcast. You just won't be able to see us or any images. We put spots on the screen like, like this one here, like Tom's trips, right?

00:07:27:12 - 00:07:53:09
Unknown
Exactly. The end, it was almost a nip slip. So they definitely don't want it over there anyways. That would have been good. Would you say call the Enquirer? Call the Enquirer? Yes. Yes. So we are actually like those dresses, too. Yes, of course. We get a lot of compliments on these dresses. That's why Bunny wears them. That's why Bunny buys them is because if we get positive feedback, it encourages we get negative feedback.

00:07:53:09 - 00:08:11:21
Unknown
We just have to block people. And that sucks. And we don't want we don't want to block people. But you know what? I do buy a lot of my dresses on Amazon, so I should start putting them back up. You should know that's how we can make money. Go to Tom and money.com. We'll put an Amazon link up and all you got to do is click on it.

00:08:11:21 - 00:08:37:18
Unknown
You could buy anything, just click on that link and then we'll make a penny or two per sale. But if a billion people that actually buy something, we might make $1,000,000. Really, we would take that much out of. Jeff Well, if a billion people and you divide that down to one penny per transaction, I think that's like 1 million.

00:08:37:18 - 00:09:06:12
Unknown
I think a billion people. I think you're really reaching. I'm reaching. We're not that popular. I know we've got friends and family watching this. Maybe next year, maybe if you have a nip slip, maybe, just maybe. Right. I was looking through our Facebook and there's just it's just a general picture of Bunny standing. We have three bars in our dining room.

00:09:06:14 - 00:09:30:07
Unknown
Would you have seen our bar? That was the big backdrop behind us before. But we also have and if you go to our Facebook, you'll see Bunny standing in front of a bar. And then we have a whiskey keg. That's another bar that image has almost 11,000 likes on it and like a thousand comments and it doesn't show nearly what you're showing now.

00:09:30:10 - 00:09:49:07
Unknown
Well, maybe I have to do. The next one is in turtlenecks that you want her to wear. Turtlenecks say yes or no. And that yes, the turtlenecks are no. The turtlenecks in the I don't want you to look like what's her name? Haley. Nikki Haley. She wears a lot of turtlenecks. Are you? Don't want me to look like a grandma.

00:09:49:09 - 00:10:12:16
Unknown
I don't want you to look like a grandma. So if you love Nike, Nikki Haley, nothing wrong with that. It's just I think she'd get more support with a shirt like this just so she bends over a little bit. Yeah, Kind of jiggle. So. So, yeah, we're getting ready to head back to Hedonism. They got to be general manager.

00:10:12:17 - 00:10:37:13
Unknown
They do. I know. We just found out today. Today? So I was just posted. There's a Facebook group called our Favorite Jamaican Vacation Place. And it's a great group. There's like 15, 16, 17,000 members on there, but it's about hedonism. So if you want to know more about hedonism, you can jump on there. Make sure you book with Tom, strip stuff.

00:10:37:14 - 00:11:03:04
Unknown
Well, keep your loyalty where you anywhere from? Don't go anywhere else. Just call me. So we're going back with two events this time. And a vacation. And a vacation. Yes, we we, I we will definitely need that relaxing vacation after I got a hair on my eye. Now, see, I came from my nose. Your nose? A lot more.

00:11:03:06 - 00:11:33:29
Unknown
So the first group that we're going to go with is we're going to go April 28th, not April, February 22nd. Yes. And then we'll be there till March 13th. So that's a long time. It is a long time. It's a long time. So February, where is it? February 24th start starts the old fat guys with hot chicks. Now let's create a picture.

00:11:34:01 - 00:11:58:07
Unknown
This is not like the Facebook meme of all the big fat guys that are rich and wealthy billionaires with the yachts and private planes and the little skinny, tiny little boy. Yes, that's not this kind of good old fat guys. And hot chicks are like me and Bonnie. Yes, we are a great representation. We are. Absolutely. Yeah. And it's all about our ages.

00:11:58:07 - 00:12:21:05
Unknown
I mean, we have people that are as young as early thirties and some that are quite older, but the core group is right in their we're just and we love to party it. They are the best group. So one of the things and we sit and probably mention this on YouTube because our bosses could be watching it. I got to talk my head this way.

00:12:21:05 - 00:12:46:16
Unknown
I don't know why it's not at this, but we love the group because we're we're there as our company motto is we show you a good time by having a good time ourselves. So this group is one of the few groups where they're got, what, 80 plus room? So we do it's going to be a very, very big crowd.

00:12:46:20 - 00:13:09:14
Unknown
So they have a little committee, not a little committee. It's a big chat group, but they have their own committee. Their committee puts on their entertainment, their pool games. The room chromium body started a room crawl years ago and they have since taken it over and take taken what we started and made it a great thing because we don't have to be involved.

00:13:09:17 - 00:13:33:04
Unknown
I just have the method out with the rooms right all And this group is very accepting of everyone. If you are there by yourself, you are welcome into the group. If you're with another group, you're welcome to come party with us. It's it's not about drawing lines in the sand. It's just about having a great vacation and a great time.

00:13:33:07 - 00:14:01:26
Unknown
And and one of the things that that group leaders, just our group leaders, they say, is if any of the guests have issues, normally they would come to me and Buddy and then we would deal with it. But they like to be hands on. And so they tell all the guests, you have an issue, you come to them, and then if they can't fix it, they will come to us and then they expect us to fix it.

00:14:01:28 - 00:14:24:00
Unknown
And you know what? We are so good with that. And they tell their group we're there to party and have a great time with them because they truly enjoy our company as much as we enjoy theirs. I'm just saying that we'll find out next year and find out next year for invited back. So we're going to have just a great time.

00:14:24:00 - 00:14:44:19
Unknown
We're going to take we're going to drink beer and eat cheese curds, drink beer and eat cheese curds. Just the word cheese curds sound gross. You know, a lot of them are from Wisconsin. I got to tell my head this way. Again, they're they're from Wisconsin and Canada, but now they're all over the world. you know, the bad part.

00:14:44:22 - 00:15:09:17
Unknown
The bad part about that group. By the time by the time they leave, you would think that I'm from Wisconsin. Bonnie gets the accent. She visits her sister in Oklahoma within hours. She has an Oklahoma accent. She visits friends in Texas. She's talking about pizza. When there are all kinds of stuff I can adapt. She adapts to fast.

00:15:09:19 - 00:15:36:01
Unknown
Good thing that we don't go to New Jersey, right? So, yeah, they're going to they got their own entertainer coming out. The pull games will assist them in everything that they need assistance on. They will have at our site dinner with 20 people going to Ivan's. There's room here. Bonnie will go. But if not me, I'm it. We go all the time, so we'd rather as many people can take advantage of that.

00:15:36:01 - 00:16:04:03
Unknown
And they have their own host. And we we because we definitely want everybody to experience different parts of Jamaica to not just hedonism and then the pub crawl. We will definitely be on the pub crawl. We expect normally we take one bus and about 26 people and trust me, they're in there pretty tight. This group will need two busses and we'll have probably 60 plus people and they will be sitting on each other's laps.

00:16:04:03 - 00:16:25:22
Unknown
But and enjoying it and enjoying it. They're going to be hooting and hollering. They're going to be drinking. We're right now trying to set up a couple cases of beer so they can pre-game and they don't need to pre-game because the first bar we're going to, the drinks are two box seats. So it's for me. Well, I guess it is good.

00:16:25:22 - 00:16:59:26
Unknown
Ten, 15 minutes away. But we will be burying it a whole bunch of cruises now, also, too, they've already kind of got the catamaran situated, too. And we're going to have probably 90 to 100 people signing up on a catamaran that fits 80. So I did talk to the catamaran owner when I was there in January, and I told him that I've got a big group coming in and said, Hey, give me a call if you need two catamarans, one for your group and one for the rest of the reason.

00:16:59:26 - 00:17:35:20
Unknown
Yeah, you guys will definitely bring it to them. All fat guys will definitely have their own their own catamaran. boy. Yeah, we will be. We a lot of times, me and Buddy don't go on the catamaran. It's a great adventure, but we work a lot. Why? We're at Hedonism, so that's kind of our downtime. So when the catamaran goes out at 1030 in the morning and comes back at two in the afternoon, that's our we go to our room and kind of just chill out, watch TV, play on Tik Tok and think of future videos and then go sit down at the grill and watch people come back.

00:17:35:21 - 00:17:58:17
Unknown
Yeah, All stumble back, bring something back over themselves. But you know what? I'm also there to show you the time. So on the catamaran, you're going to be the one showing a good time because obviously I'm not. No, they can all try. They could try. There you go. You can try to have a contest. Just line the girls up and say, who gets it up first?

00:17:58:17 - 00:18:25:19
Unknown
When's nobody's going to win? But that's the head neck. We just don't tell them to be like the girls never came and we're good. We're okay with this because this is fixable. So it's not I mean, if it wasn't fixable, we would not be doing videos and I'd be in complete depression, sucking my thumb in my bed, cry myself to sleep every night.

00:18:25:21 - 00:18:47:01
Unknown
I totally in in. You know what That what this is you guys all know with us. We just like to have fun in life. Yeah. And so, you know what? You got to be able to roll with the punches, right? And like they say, you got to be able to roll with the punches on the punch here. And you've been punched.

00:18:47:01 - 00:19:09:28
Unknown
I've vampire's remember, I just had had surgery too. So she has to do a lot of extra stuff because like I can't opening a big luggage around with because I have no strength in the tenderness alone and even open an apple juice. I can't even open apple juice. But she could barely open it. These things are childproof. They're the they're the ones that look like the Martinelli's.

00:19:09:28 - 00:19:36:16
Unknown
They look like apples. Well, if I were to send that to kindergarten with my kid, they would never be able to get it. We have to send a pair of channel locks because we actually open on what channel locks out of my toolbox? I'll tell you. I'll tell you. But the following week is our original swimsuit contest. Okay, So we started well, our original with Tom's trips was Miss not swimsuit.

00:19:36:18 - 00:20:05:07
Unknown
And we ran a club in California for 20 years. We would send contestants and our first contestant that we sent, she won Miss No swimsuit. So that's an ego. Obviously, it wasn't their first miss. No swimsuit, but Playboy was at Hedonism, so our girl was in Playboy videos and all kinds of stuff. She got really popular back in California.

00:20:05:12 - 00:20:33:27
Unknown
It was back in the earlier days of Miss Nonsense Time. So we traveled every year for six years, going back to hedonism specific perfectly for the no swimsuit, and I was the trunk person that stumbled off the bus from the pub crawl or off the boat coming back for the catamaran. I was the drunk. We were we were the sponsors that everybody wanted to have because we were just like, We have fun.

00:20:33:28 - 00:20:57:07
Unknown
Yeah, we told our girl, You know what? There's ten other resorts and clubs here representing. They're all going to vote for their girl. So don't go for first place. Just be there. Second place and the second place could win it. So that's kind of a hidden secret, by the way, that we do our the point six system. Yeah, absolutely.

00:20:57:07 - 00:21:22:24
Unknown
Second, if you state, just vote for me. Second vote for me second. Of course you can win. Yeah, we did have several other girls that came in second and third Miss Congeniality, so we've had great representation. And then six years ago, we decided to quit the nightclub business and go to work for Tom's trips. And part of our deal was we go to Miss no swimsuit every year.

00:21:22:29 - 00:21:47:11
Unknown
Yeah, because that's when all of our friends go to. Yeah. And all the clubs and all these friends that we have made throughout all these years. And it's just it's a great reunion every year. Now, keep in mind, if you book any of the 18 group trips that Tom's trips offers, and I think it's 19 now with The Lovers, most people travel the same time every year.

00:21:47:12 - 00:22:12:18
Unknown
So if you are only able to travel in June, Cassidy Crush a lot of those people travel the same time. You will make the same relationships that we make every trip, but also like we do at no swimsuit. And each year you go back, you have a reunion with your current friends that you made previous years, and all of a sudden you are making new friends.

00:22:12:18 - 00:22:42:00
Unknown
Yeah, you're adding you're adding more and more on because like in no swimsuit, the clubs invite more and more people to come vote for their contested. So we get to meet there. It's like on the border Justin and Katie they their group is a very friendly group and I'm not singling out anyone else. We love the corral. The Corral Host Now, justin kelly, they have on the border of Oklahoma.

00:22:44:15 - 00:23:09:08
Unknown
The corral. They will be sponsoring the globe party. That's one of the biggest events on the border. Is going to sponsor the white T-shirt contest. no, no, no, I did not. Yeah, because he said because we take pictures, but we have to have a model released. So everyone has a green wristband and he says those are by far the best pictures because we don't have to delete so many pictures because we can capture a small area.

00:23:09:08 - 00:23:32:12
Unknown
Very true. Where on the Glo Party we can't tell who's who. So it's we we have to know who's signed or not. On the catamaran we delete probably about 90% of the pictures. A lot of the events, we delete a lot of the pictures because if one person did not sign our model release, unfortunately we don't even blur their faces.

00:23:32:12 - 00:23:56:13
Unknown
We tried to, but we decided we didn't want to do that right Then we've got Club Sapphire out of Seattle, Washington. They've had multiple winners, like back. Yeah, years. Yeah. We could never get past him when we were with free two acres. No, no, Becky. She was a past winner. She'll be there, Kim. So be there from the corral.

00:23:56:13 - 00:24:25:16
Unknown
She was last that. No, Dee from Sapphire was last year's winner. So Sapphire, we'll have two winners there this year, and Sapphire will have two. D will be there. Janice will be back. Okay, so we're going to have probably a good five or six reigning or past Miss No swimsuits. She was going to say Miss F I was because our club was right there, almost right there at the end of the bus.

00:24:25:16 - 00:24:50:16
Unknown
Again, six and a half years later, I'm still saying free makers, but no, you got MTV, we've got trapeze. Well, we got the new one, Paradise Last Resort. And their girl is going to she's going to do good because she flew into Paradise Lakes just to compete and she won it. Hey, can I see a funny story about MSP?

00:24:50:18 - 00:25:10:09
Unknown
Sure. If as long as they don't hate us for it, he. No, he won't. And I was just going to say his name. Jesse, Jesse and Jody. They're awesome. He's so laid back and he has is when just when he when I go to take their picture he has a certain pose where he's kissing her. Yeah. The cheek.

00:25:10:11 - 00:25:31:04
Unknown
And he has to do that pose every time I time. So when I do take the picture and he forgets, I remind him of his pose. So signature pose. I didn't know that. He didn't know how to swim. No, that's right. And Glow party is my night to let loose and cut up and have a good time. So it was probably what got abandoned.

00:25:31:05 - 00:25:51:22
Unknown
1130, 12:00 at night. It was hot. And I was like, Hey, let's in. It's on the pool deck and skinny. I'm like, Hey, Jesse, let's go skinny dipping. And guess what? I said, Yeah, yeah, we're all going to jump down and, you know, strip down, go swimming. And he goes, Okay, okay. And I'm like, It's okay. There's going to be other people.

00:25:51:25 - 00:26:19:07
Unknown
So she thought he was just being shy. So we both stepped down, jumped in the water. His wife didn't strip down, she just went there clothes, and then somebody else jumped in and in. She's like, He doesn't know how to swim. Hey, I feel I can laugh about it now, but I felt horrible at the time, right? So we had a few people jump in to save him.

00:26:19:09 - 00:26:43:00
Unknown
But you know what? He was having a good time. Of course. You know, I've always got to be in there to kind of stir it up a little bit. You know, our boss will keep his name off. He's usually the first to jump in the pool during the what's the nude fashion show. Yeah. So he'll usually jump in the pool right after the.

00:26:43:02 - 00:27:10:04
Unknown
He did jump in the pool that night too. And his wife kind of got upset. She goes, I thought I said, you know, swimming tonight. And he's like, well, Bunny started it and then we had to save Jesse. So Mr. Swimsuit has some great events, so let's just go through that. We have eight we have eight contestants this year, eight contestants representing We have trapeze from Atlanta, Georgia.

00:27:10:04 - 00:27:39:24
Unknown
Yes. They also have a trapeze in Fort Lauderdale. We have nobody. No, we have not. In Orlando. Stacy is representing Naughty Islands. We have on the border. Yep, We have the corral. Yep, we have Paradise Lake Resort. Yes, we have Club Sapphire Club Sapphire. We've got Marcia and Venus. Marcia, Venus. my goodness. You for getting look on your phone.

00:27:39:27 - 00:28:06:18
Unknown
Hold on. We get some new ones every year and we're just shooting from the hip. We didn't have a document printed in front of us, so forgive us. Forgive us, because it's probably going to be somebody that I always remember. And it's right there. Contestants Corral. Duh. We've been around the whole time. Vibe five Okay, so five wasn't there last year?

00:28:06:18 - 00:28:33:01
Unknown
No, they've been there several years before and they weren't there last year and they are coming this year. So yes, Vibe. Vibe is a club out of Nashville and it's a hotel takeover. They literally sell out of two hotels within minutes. It's like 16 ticket master. Yeah, well, and we're not talking 10 minutes, we're talking under five, right?

00:28:33:01 - 00:28:58:11
Unknown
So even if we did promotional videos for them, it doesn't guarantee we would even get a room. No, no. But so that's, you know, it's just. Well, some of the events. Yeah. Okay. I was going to say, it's just that, you know, all the girls we do, we're going to have the new fashion show and we will take over the main pool deck.

00:28:58:15 - 00:29:18:20
Unknown
Right. And we do a pool party up there during the afternoon and we do the nude fashion show, the girls, and what do they do? So they are nude. They might wear a necklace. Can't, Heidi, Some of them, we're like little types of body or shoes. Yeah, we tell them to wear shoes because that kind of makes it sexy.

00:29:18:23 - 00:29:43:18
Unknown
Yeah. In anything. I mean, on the border. Kelly when she ran, she did. That's our buzzer to say shut up is 30 minutes D she what she did really cute. She had like headphones on and she had a fanny pack and she just danced around like, like the eighties. Yeah, Yeah. And then we have certain type things like that.

00:29:43:22 - 00:30:13:22
Unknown
We have another event called Anything But Clothes. And that's where the contestants like I, I, i, it was cute. I we were at Paradise Lakes and I was explaining anything about clothes and I was explaining something that happened years, years ago. And I said, this girl came out with sponges and rags and air fresheners and all kinds of stuff taped to her body.

00:30:13:25 - 00:30:35:14
Unknown
And she came out to the song at the car wash. Yeah. And I was explaining cause that that's my best way of explaining anything but clothes. And the girl that did that was in competing because that was me. That was me. And I'm like, my God, you're from Canada, You know, now she's from Florida. Yeah, but she was from Canada.

00:30:35:16 - 00:31:06:27
Unknown
So yeah, they'll, they'll do put together their outfit with and anything but clothes and then they try to dance to a song that kind of matches it. Right. So we have the globe Party and like I said, the crowd will be the sponsoring the Glo Party. They bring out tables full of glow stuff. This isn't cheap, people. You know, we had in the past, people were sponsoring the Glow party.

00:31:07:03 - 00:31:32:26
Unknown
They were so hardcore. They would take almost like a go fund me at their club. They would spend $5,000 on just glow cups, glow glasses, glow bracelets, glow everything and just give it all out within 30, 40 minutes. And now the crowd has stepped up to do it. And I don't even want to know what their budget is.

00:31:32:26 - 00:32:02:04
Unknown
No. And then we do. We will have one or two that will sponsor the catamarans because we actually will take two catamarans out. Yes. And two, two usually. Well, for representatives will be on one catamaran and four representatives will be on the other. They will be packed. Right now, I don't even know if me and Bonnie are going to be on the catamaran scope, but we do know our entertainers will be on each catamaran.

00:32:02:04 - 00:32:24:28
Unknown
Yeah. So we'll have one one entertainer on each catamaran that will keep that party going right now. You got me rubbing my nose. Yeah. See? See what happens. And then they have. Of course, you got to do a lot. I just got to do a wet T-shirt contest doing the wet T-shirt that's on the border. And then. Well, you obviously know what a way T-shirt contest is, right?

00:32:25:00 - 00:32:50:17
Unknown
And then during Thursday night, when they have the talent show, each one of the contestants has to do with some type of a talent on the tent. I videotaped those. So I do videotape it. So I record those. And but I only record our contestants and they're the only ones on stage. And if they bring anyone up on stage, they have to have a band on.

00:32:50:20 - 00:33:16:04
Unknown
There also is an it's the video music Down by The Prude. Paul yeah, yeah. We do that on Wednesday night. Yeah. And that's going to be sponsored by Paradise Lakes Resort because that is a great way, because it's at a bar, at a pool on the beach. So it's really good. And we start setting, we do video and we do video music.

00:33:16:05 - 00:33:35:18
Unknown
Video music down there. Yeah. And then on Friday, while everybody is voting for their well, one, one will sponsor a pool party at the nude pool. Yeah. So that I don't know what club, we don't know what all the sponsors are doing yet except for a couple because it got slipped out. So they're getting slipped out right here.

00:33:35:21 - 00:34:00:11
Unknown
But at the nude pool, they will sponsor the games and they'll dictate the music and they'll do that. Yeah. Don't give away all their swag from their club. Ah, and that's the great thing is because they're trying to win your votes. Yes, you are. So if you book with times trips, you are one of the judges and you pick three contestants.

00:34:00:13 - 00:34:22:04
Unknown
So the last day, Friday is when the voting begins. The voting begins. And while the voting is going on, all of the husbands or the boyfriends, they have to compete in what we call our man in motion. Right? Basically, it started off where the men had to get up there and dance and see what the girls are going through.

00:34:22:07 - 00:34:47:29
Unknown
And it's kind of evolved into a drag show. Yeah, Yeah, it has. It's a it's a fun thing, though. They're having a lot of them get shy and they're having a blast. But, you know, it's funny and it brings them out of their show. It does. A lot of them will wear their wives or their girlfriends. I think looking at your who has one of their costumes that they've worn throughout.

00:34:48:01 - 00:35:09:19
Unknown
Yes. Throughout the week. So it's it makes it really fun. And I was a man in motion one time because a contestant was there by herself and didn't have anyone. So I stepped up to the game. We heard our bosses say, Tom will do it, and we're way away. And I heard it and I'm deaf. And so he said it loud, So they must have seen us.

00:35:09:19 - 00:35:29:14
Unknown
So they've seen this coming up. Yeah. So we walk over and they're like, We need you to step up. We need you to do them. An emotion. I didn't even know what it was. Okay, okay. Do. And then but. And then we got Jim to do it with you too. yeah, yeah, yeah. But I think it's a rite of passage.

00:35:29:15 - 00:35:48:12
Unknown
It is. This time we'll have to get Jerry to do it. I think so. I definitely think Jerry needs to do it because we know Jeremy did it. Yeah. Yeah, he did the whole stripper moves and everything. But Jerry I think Jerry needs to do it because he has the dance moves. He does so well. What? We'll talk about Jerry and the kids.

00:35:48:12 - 00:36:16:15
Unknown
I think there there's one contestant that does have somebody willing to do it. We'll see. So we'll throw his name under the bus. So while the man in motion is happening, all the voting is taking place. And then when we go in and we count all the votes, one, two and three, and each one gets so many points, I think one gets five points to get three points and third place gets one point or something like that.

00:36:16:17 - 00:36:50:29
Unknown
And that's how someone who gets more second place can win overall. So we count them and then we have a Jamaican from the resort account for all of our votes to verify that indeed they are accurate and true. So that's our accounting system. Yes. But now, just so you know, if you watch this far, 2024 sold out and so Spencer laid out four for a while.

00:36:51:01 - 00:37:31:14
Unknown
So I have put up and you can see a lot of the pictures are older. I got to update the site but go to no swimsuit dot com and I have pictures and there's ways that links the book there are you can go to Tom strips dot com and you can click on no swimsuit under group trips but also old fat guys yes but either one there are two amazing weeks and a lot of people will book old fat guys and three or four days into no swimsuit and there's people that all book all of no swimsuit and back day a couple days in old fat guys because old fat guys and hot chicks is

00:37:31:14 - 00:38:00:20
Unknown
such a great group that they want that crossover when the old fat guys, they like to book somewhat in, too, because Then they get to vote before they leave. So you don't have to just vote on Friday. If you're there for part of the week and you're leaving early, you still get early voting. Yes. All you got to do is let one of us know that you're leaving on a certain day and we'll we'll get you a ballot and we'll tuck it away and we'll add it to the rest of the ballots on Friday.

00:38:00:22 - 00:38:33:08
Unknown
Yep. And then after that, we're we're going to What's the Grand Lido? Grand Lido, which is directly across the street. And this hotel is a very upscale five star resort. So we got several rooms and we got a swim up room. It has a butler who, if you want to go somewhere, you call a golf cart to pick you up.

00:38:33:13 - 00:38:52:23
Unknown
Apparently other people that know about the golf cart, but we heard about it. So we will definitely use that. And they have all kinds of restaurants and everything. Toms Trumps does not book Grand Lido. We're just going there for a company meeting, I think. Yeah, that's that's that's what I'm going to call it. We have to discuss. Yeah.

00:38:52:23 - 00:39:15:17
Unknown
What happened this year. Right. I can do next year. What we could do better next year. Yes. So, but Grand Lido has like five different areas and we're in the adult only clothing optional area. So we can pretty much do whatever we want because we got all the rooms in that area. But it's just a vacation for us, right?

00:39:15:20 - 00:39:40:27
Unknown
I mean, we're there not to work where I'm not there to take pictures and anything just to have a good time. Exactly how much time when we have. We are way past Bay. We are 39 minutes. my God. Sorry. So that is what we have coming up. Sorry we talked so long. Sorry about Barney's dress. It. It should be a turtleneck.

00:39:40:29 - 00:40:05:03
Unknown
Remember? In the comments, right? Yes, Turtleneck. Ah, no to turtleneck. And whatever you guys vote on is what she's wearing. Yeah, well, not in the next few videos, because we're going to do another couple of videos before we leave. It'll be after we come back. So, you know, I was just looking at pictures of Britney Mahomes and all of them.

00:40:05:05 - 00:40:26:13
Unknown
They can wear these dresses, but when I wear them, people are like, you shouldn't be wearing too old for that. Yeah. No. Yeah, I don't think so. I like it. I think they're 38. You're 39 years later? Yes. I still stare all right, well, we're going to wrap this one up. Yeah, we're going to do some just attempt videos.

00:40:26:13 - 00:40:52:20
Unknown
Yeah, We're going to talk about how you can know we're not. They're going to watch it. They're going to watch it. All right. So look for the big green screens with the flying. Kind of just a tip. Travel advice. Yes. So until next time, we'll see you there. No, you need to book. You need to buck go to Tom's Trip.com or one 800 2850853 and you can talk to me.

00:40:52:24 - 00:41:19:15
Unknown
Yes. Funny actually answers the phone now if it goes to voicemail, our boss gets those and she usually kicks them back to Bonnie. Ah. If you leave a message saying, Hey, I wanted to work with Bonnie, she will definitely kick that one back because Bonnie only makes a commission. Exactly. So follow us on Twitter, Instagram. just look at just search Tom and Bonnie, just as it's sitting there on the screen.

00:41:19:17 - 00:41:24:28
Unknown
We keep it easy. Keep it easy. All right. All right. So now we can buy by time.

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