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How to talk my wife into swinging

How to talk my wife into swinging

We get questions all the time, however about 50% are “How can I talk my wife into the swinging lifestyle”   We spend time talking about this with different scenarios and what works for us in the the Pineapple Lifestyle.

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Transcript

00:00:03:00 – 00:00:26:07
Tom
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here and I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos from the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips.com, or give us a call at 1-800-285-0853 and I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:26:07 – 00:00:52:07
Tom
Hey everyone. We are Tom and Bonnie with Tom and by. It’s right there on the bottom of your screen if you’re watching us on YouTube, if you are not watching us on YouTube and you’re listening to us on podcasts, we invite you to jump over to YouTube and check us out. Just search Tom and Bonnie and if you’re watching us on YouTube and you prefer to listen to us in your car, we’re on pretty much every major podcast network.

00:00:52:14 – 00:00:55:22
Tom
So you can just search Tom and Bonnie.

00:00:55:24 – 00:00:56:23
Bunny
We make it simple.

00:00:56:23 – 00:01:15:23
Tom
We try to make it simple. We actually work for Tom’s trips. You’re a leader in adult lifestyle travel and this is how we are able to do these videos is because of your viewership, your comments, your feedback. But more importantly, booking with Tom’s trips.

00:01:15:23 – 00:01:17:10
Bunny
Yes. So call me.

00:01:17:12 – 00:01:25:29
Tom
Yes. The phone number is right there on the screen right now. Call Bonnie. And so she’s a low pressure sales person, but she’ll answer all your questions.

00:01:25:29 – 00:01:29:13
Bunny
And you’ll talk to me, not my assistant.

00:01:29:16 – 00:01:41:04
Tom
With Bonnie. Does I have an assistant? So real quick, there is a story on that. When people do call the 800 number and when it’s really flattering.

00:01:41:05 – 00:01:42:15
Bunny
It is very flattering.

00:01:42:16 – 00:01:58:22
Tom
And when Bonnie answers the phone and the people get all giddy, are they, get tongue tied? And then they say, I didn’t think you were going to answer the phone. I thought you would have an assistant. And what’s your response?

00:01:58:22 – 00:02:00:01
Bunny
I am the assistant.

00:02:00:01 – 00:02:10:01
Tom
Bonnie is distance. Yes. We work a real job, ladies. And yes, we do. so we just thought that was. I thought that was kind of work.

00:02:10:01 – 00:02:13:09
Bunny
A real job. Straight from my phone. Wherever my phone’s out, I’m at.

00:02:13:10 – 00:02:21:14
Tom
Yeah. We tell people, you know, a lot of people work from an office, other people work from home. We work from the phone. Currently, my phone is up. They’re recording.

00:02:21:14 – 00:02:27:00
Bunny
Us. I used to work from up here in in this little studio.

00:02:27:02 – 00:02:35:22
Tom
I know the lighted area over Bonnie’s head right there. That’s a little cubby with the dormer window and that there’s a desk.

00:02:35:25 – 00:02:50:00
Bunny
I should start working back up here again, because whenever the phone ring, I’d have to run up here, take care of it, and then run back downstairs. I should do it because, you know, I mean, it’s up and downstairs. There’s 17 steps from the.

00:02:50:02 – 00:02:52:28
Tom
Bell that you gotta come down these steps to go back up these.

00:02:52:28 – 00:02:57:06
Bunny
Steps. Yeah. So there’s only maybe I’ll do that. I’ll put that back up here.

00:02:57:10 – 00:03:28:07
Tom
Now, one of the things we do tell people all the time is if you ask us questions, a lot of times we will respond to your questions. However, when we get asked multiple times, we feel that there is a need for our answer to be more public and more on YouTube or podcasts because we figure if we get five or more questions, there’s gotta be a lot more people out there that have a same exact burning question.

00:03:28:10 – 00:03:39:13
Tom
And often times we get, oh my God, I ran across this video or this podcast and you answered, well, we don’t say we answer all the questions. What do we do?

00:03:39:16 – 00:03:40:21
Bunny
We give our opinion.

00:03:40:21 – 00:03:42:09
Tom
Yeah, which doesn’t mean nothing.

00:03:42:09 – 00:03:45:24
Bunny
No, just us are the only ones that care about our opinion.

00:03:45:25 – 00:04:02:13
Tom
We are the content creators that say our opinion is just our opinion. It means absolutely nothing and you could take it for what it’s worth. And we hope what works for us may or may not work for you, but we hope it works for you.

00:04:02:15 – 00:04:02:28
Bunny
Yes we.

00:04:02:28 – 00:04:04:02
Tom
Do. That makes sense.

00:04:04:04 – 00:04:05:13
Bunny
It completely okay.

00:04:05:17 – 00:04:20:07
Tom
So but we always say ask five other people that are in the direction you’re looking at and you’ll get five varying answers. And then just choose the one you resonate. Best and the most.

00:04:20:07 – 00:04:49:11
Bunny
Well with of course you do. Yeah. Of course you do. Now you know. And it’s, there’s so many different content creators out there from all aspects of life and which is what absolutely makes this new pineapple world so great. Yeah. And I really and I really, absolutely love that. And we all have our little following too. I mean, because there’s some that are much younger than us and there’s some that are older than us, so we fall right in that as.

00:04:49:12 – 00:05:05:25
Tom
Content creators that host hotel takeovers. So they offer a great, advice because they’re talking from experience. they’re like finding said there’s younger content creators. There’s our age.

00:05:05:28 – 00:05:10:15
Bunny
Yes, there’s some that are just straight lifestyle. There’s some that are into.

00:05:10:18 – 00:05:11:05
Tom
Fatter.

00:05:11:07 – 00:05:15:25
Bunny
Baristas, poorly, I mean, you name it, all gamuts are.

00:05:15:25 – 00:05:39:04
Tom
Covered now we will start off by saying there is no right or wrong way of navigating the lifestyle. However you personally choose to navigate, it is the most accepting way to navigate it. You do not have to conform to others ideology to be in this lifestyle. That’s absolutely. I accept.

00:05:39:08 – 00:05:40:15
Bunny
The absolute truth, but.

00:05:40:15 – 00:05:56:05
Tom
All the creators welcome, advice, suggestions and everything and that’s what makes it great. It gives you may resonate with another creator more. You may resonate with us. It doesn’t matter. you may resonate with multiple creators.

00:05:56:08 – 00:06:06:29
Bunny
Yeah. Because some of us are still on the same wavelength. It it’s just great. Yeah. I just love listening to and talking to other people about different situations.

00:06:07:00 – 00:06:14:18
Tom
Right. So we just got recently, we recently so we just got recently about it’s my hearing.

00:06:14:19 – 00:06:15:07
Bunny
It is yours.

00:06:15:08 – 00:06:38:06
Tom
I mean literally I know I’m going to go stay off topic for a second. if you guys have been following us, I have had multiple surgeries in the last six months. Sitting is six months. Six months. I, I’ve had a hand surgery. And then I had a cochlear surgery and then I had a penile implant surgery.

00:06:38:06 – 00:06:39:01
Bunny
Yes.

00:06:39:03 – 00:06:51:11
Tom
And then I just had another Kokila surgery and the Kokila penile implant cochlear all within one month. Well a month and a half. Yeah.

00:06:51:14 – 00:06:52:05
Bunny
I mean it was.

00:06:52:05 – 00:06:53:17
Tom
Just bam bam bam.

00:06:53:17 – 00:06:54:15
Bunny
Yes.

00:06:54:17 – 00:06:58:00
Tom
Yeah. But it’s our slow. It was our slow time.

00:06:58:02 – 00:07:06:25
Bunny
Right. I was going to say come July you’re going to get your butt probed.

00:07:06:27 – 00:07:12:09
Bunny
Oh it’s that time I forgot about.

00:07:12:09 – 00:07:17:07
Tom
Don’t don’t. No, we’re not going to talk about that.

00:07:17:10 – 00:07:18:18
Tom
What is that called, an MBA?

00:07:18:24 – 00:07:21:07
Bunny
No, you’re going to go nuts.

00:07:21:09 – 00:07:24:07
Tom
Ask. I thought it was an endoscope or something.

00:07:24:12 – 00:07:27:01
Bunny
That’s just how old we are, right?

00:07:27:03 – 00:07:30:05
Tom
So, yeah, unfortunately, we got to go through all that.

00:07:30:05 – 00:07:31:05
Bunny
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:07:31:12 – 00:07:57:21
Tom
But anyway, just a quick, quick, quick update. I am healing great. My implant is three weeks old. And we’ve used it twice. and we recommend not using it for about three months. And I will still go with that recommendation because the last two times. So it’s a little painful. I had to, deflate it really fast since we.

00:07:57:24 – 00:08:02:01
Tom
Yeah. Says we say our good as we say, not as we do here.

00:08:02:08 – 00:08:07:04
Bunny
There it is. Well, I was looking for, backwards. Backwards.

00:08:07:06 – 00:08:15:07
Tom
But, so we did talk to our urologist, our urologist.

00:08:15:07 – 00:08:16:06
Bunny
Our.

00:08:16:08 – 00:08:36:14
Tom
Great guy. Love him, love him. And I told him, I said, hey, when we are talking about you going on video coming up, I was on drugs. Were you serious? And he goes, absolutely. So he’s going to come over here to our house one of these nights. We just have to care.

00:08:36:16 – 00:08:48:06
Bunny
Okay, go get get the schedule. But can I reiterate the fact that you’re on pain medication and you were on, coming out of Anastacia. You weren’t on drugs.

00:08:48:08 – 00:08:49:29
Tom
That. Right? Right, right, right.

00:08:50:00 – 00:08:50:27
Bunny
You were medicated.

00:08:51:01 – 00:09:05:29
Tom
I, I was legally medicated. So, are legally on drugs. I’m doing the air quotes because somebody is going to put us on blast, and they always do because they didn’t hear the context. They only heard the headline.

00:09:06:00 – 00:09:07:02
Bunny
Yeah.

00:09:07:04 – 00:09:28:04
Tom
So let’s hear the context before we make comments, please. So anyway, everything’s healing. Well, the doctor is coming to our house. He’s going to do a while. We do all of our videos and then we turn them into podcast. So it’s going to be probably several weeks, maybe 3 or 4 weeks.

00:09:28:04 – 00:09:30:14
Bunny
Our travel scramble was crazy, right?

00:09:30:14 – 00:09:37:22
Tom
Because he can do it during the week. And our I mean, we’re traveling from Thursday through Sunday and Monday is a recovery day.

00:09:38:20 – 00:10:14:19
Tom
So that only usually leaves a couple of days. So look forward to him. He’s actually going to join us on several years ago we were doing videos on Eddie. and we did a, quite a few videos and I took them off. And not that I have thin skin, but I was getting more negativity about my head from supposed people that didn’t have Eddie and, are how can I talk about it or be so open about it, blah blah, blah blah blah.

00:10:14:21 – 00:10:20:00
Tom
The fact is, is how many percentage of people with, diabetes have 80.

00:10:20:03 – 00:10:20:24
Bunny
80%.

00:10:20:24 – 00:10:41:00
Tom
80% of people with diabetes have some form of Eddie. We’re going to talk to the doctor. We’re going to get real numbers. But one of the numbers is, on the Eddie thing is, if people don’t talk about it to their doctor or their wife, how many people truly have it?

00:10:41:03 – 00:10:42:12
Bunny
And that, yeah.

00:10:42:12 – 00:10:43:22
Tom
That we don’t even know.

00:10:43:22 – 00:10:44:18
Bunny
About.

00:10:44:20 – 00:10:54:19
Tom
We only know about what’s documented with urology and, family practices or Viagra sales. All right. You know what I mean?

00:10:54:19 – 00:10:54:26
Bunny
Yeah.

00:10:54:26 – 00:10:56:18
Tom
Well, that’s how they’re documenting.

00:10:56:19 – 00:11:03:00
Bunny
Viagra sales that they know of. They don’t know. Right. Other ones. India. Yeah, exactly. Acquired.

00:11:03:01 – 00:11:10:08
Tom
We’re not saying you should go to India, order from India or go to Mexico. Just it’s gotten cheaper though.

00:11:10:11 – 00:11:13:04
Bunny
It has it. Yeah I haven’t I haven’t priced it doesn’t.

00:11:13:04 – 00:11:13:19
Tom
Work for me.

00:11:13:19 – 00:11:17:00
Bunny
No, no I say we haven’t tried that in a long time.

00:11:17:02 – 00:11:39:16
Tom
so. Yeah, we’re going to bring back a lot of those 80 videos. I didn’t delete them. I just turned them off. And you know what? I’m just going to grow a thick skin and I’m just going to put them back online. And hopefully the negative comments I can weed out. But if it if those videos help people, that’s the import.

00:11:39:18 – 00:11:54:01
Tom
If it helps one one guy out there are even a couple trying to understand, because a lot of times I know this isn’t even the video, but a lot of times Bonnie was thinking it was her.

00:11:54:23 – 00:12:01:27
Tom
Personally, not me physically. So. So yeah, I think it’s time to bring those back.

00:12:02:00 – 00:12:02:18
Bunny
And of course.

00:12:02:18 – 00:12:03:22
Tom
I’m a happy camper.

00:12:03:24 – 00:12:04:17
Bunny
Yeah. You are.

00:12:04:20 – 00:12:14:16
Tom
All right. So, with that said, that was our course. We haven’t done a video in a while. Now is our quick, quick update to the update to the update.

00:12:14:19 – 00:12:15:06
Bunny
Of course.

00:12:15:07 – 00:12:15:18
Tom
Okay.

00:12:15:19 – 00:12:17:05
Bunny
Enough talking about your junk now.

00:12:17:05 – 00:12:19:28
Tom
Yeah. So what question did you get recently asked.

00:12:19:28 – 00:12:49:13
Bunny
And so this lady contacted me and she wanted her and her husband hadn’t been discussing getting into the pineapple world. And of course, she had numerous, numerous questions. And and some of them were kind of bordered on poorly and some of them were on lifestyle. And then, of course, she thought, well, as my husband pushing me into this and, and, like I told her, I said, you got to communicate all of those issues for starters, right?

00:12:49:15 – 00:13:02:04
Bunny
And of course, I asked her different questions about what, you know, he was doing or saying, and, and it and it just turned out that he wasn’t trying to push her into it. He was just showing his, enthusiasm.

00:13:02:06 – 00:13:02:25
Tom
Right.

00:13:02:28 – 00:13:05:04
Bunny
And his excitement is to.

00:13:05:06 – 00:13:05:25
Tom
Enthusiasm.

00:13:05:25 – 00:13:09:17
Bunny
Over enthused. And which happens a lot.

00:13:09:18 – 00:13:11:20
Tom
It does. And.

00:13:11:22 – 00:13:28:03
Bunny
I mean, was really think back for the people that are already in this in our world, when you have had your first initial hookup, gone to a club, anything, you come home and you’re so excited about it and you wanted to.

00:13:28:05 – 00:13:28:21
Tom
Hit, but.

00:13:28:22 – 00:13:33:01
Bunny
You want to tell everybody and you can’t you can’t just tell everybody.

00:13:33:03 – 00:13:43:03
Tom
Well, it depends on who you are. There are parents or that would go to their job and tell everyone, which we would never, ever advise.

00:13:43:05 – 00:13:44:11
Bunny
no.

00:13:44:13 – 00:14:03:25
Tom
we, I think Pineapple World is a sexual lifestyle. It’s not a marriage. It’s not, anything that you’re trying to achieve. They’re like nodding all and say, have the sexual freedom parade.

00:14:03:28 – 00:14:05:15
Bunny
Hey, I was going to say that.

00:14:05:18 – 00:14:06:06
Tom
Oh, sorry.

00:14:06:06 – 00:14:15:17
Bunny
So I was going to say so you can pretty much go with sexual freedom, right. And that’s exactly what what this lifestyle is all.

00:14:15:17 – 00:14:47:03
Tom
About right now. What the Sexual Freedom Parade is. It goes down Bourbon Street and through the French Quarter. And the one thing about it is it it kind of opens people eyes up. hey, there’s a lot of people that don’t have the chances that normal relationships have are that they are more sexually active, are sexual beings. I truly believe that, as a human race, we were never meant to be totally monogamous.

00:14:47:03 – 00:15:18:02
Tom
Sexually, we are committed to each other. Yes. Me and Bunny have been married 38 years. This, it was 24, and we’ve been together over 39 years. Some people would always say, oh, your marriage has gone, crash, or you’re going to get divorce. Now, me and Barney just know how to navigate, see? And that’s the key thing is knowing how to navigate the pineapple world and not I mean, we always tell we.

00:15:18:02 – 00:15:29:02
Tom
Oh, you used to tell people jump in with both feet and then back out of the waters to your comfort level, because if you go in too slowly, it kind of gets,

00:15:29:04 – 00:15:32:07
Bunny
Too many roles, too boring.

00:15:32:10 – 00:16:00:01
Tom
it’s just me and Barney are one role was we had a one seat for everything. Meaning if one of us did something the other really didn’t care to see afterwards, we would talk about the whole encounter. And if one of us said, hey, we had fun. But I really didn’t like this part of the encounter. Doesn’t matter what it is, it could be someone playing with her toes.

00:16:00:01 – 00:16:03:26
Tom
I don’t have a foot fetish, but I might have an issue with somebody.

00:16:03:29 – 00:16:04:14
Bunny
Yeah.

00:16:04:16 – 00:16:18:20
Tom
Doing something I wouldn’t do at home. I don’t know, I’m just making stuff up. But we agree that at that point we won’t cross that line again. We never crossed the line in the first place.

00:16:18:23 – 00:16:21:28
Bunny
No, we had a one because we had a yes, because we asserted.

00:16:21:28 – 00:16:23:28
Tom
We don’t hold it against each.

00:16:23:28 – 00:16:41:07
Bunny
Other. Not at all. Not at all. Now, her concern was it almost sounded as though her husband was looking for a poly relationship with another couple, and she didn’t want to do that. She thought it was just going to be more fun to go out and mix and mingle with multiple people.

00:16:41:07 – 00:16:41:25
Tom
Right?

00:16:41:28 – 00:16:55:26
Bunny
And, you know, like, that’s what I told her, you know, you’ve got to communicate this with your husband. And I said, but, you know, things always involve two. I mean, you may start one way, you might end up with another. Yeah.

00:16:55:29 – 00:17:11:05
Tom
Those couples that started off as pineapple and then turned poly. And then there’s people that wanted to start off poly and turned pineapple. I mean life is ever changing. Kind of like Garth Brooks. The song the River.

00:17:11:05 – 00:17:12:07
Bunny
Of course got.

00:17:12:07 – 00:17:13:13
Tom
A got a follower follow.

00:17:13:13 – 00:17:23:11
Bunny
Flows like, you know, we’re still in the pineapple world. But I mean, as far as doing anything, it’s been a long time.

00:17:23:12 – 00:17:49:06
Tom
Well, I’ve been broken for a long time, but I will say me and funny, we’re not so much selective, are picky some people, because that comes along as a negative connotation. We can be friends with pretty much everyone, and I always have to leave myself an out because there are people we never want to encounter ever, ever again.

00:17:49:06 – 00:17:51:15
Tom
Just because we weren’t expecting.

00:17:51:17 – 00:17:52:17
Bunny
Exactly, yes.

00:17:52:17 – 00:18:09:03
Tom
But when it comes to actually playing all the moons, how to line, we got to feel it and then we’re good with it. We don’t go out necessarily looking for.

00:18:09:06 – 00:18:10:09
Bunny
Exactly.

00:18:10:11 – 00:18:13:11
Tom
Because we don’t want to get disappointed. And, you.

00:18:13:11 – 00:18:28:16
Bunny
Know, there are a lot of misconceptions for people that are starting off in, into this life that if they go to a club or they go here, they go there, that they’ve got to play with just anybody that asks, absolutely not.

00:18:28:17 – 00:18:52:23
Tom
We’ve heard that from a lot of women. and it’s ironic, though, we heard that from a lot of women, and it’s mostly women. And I’ll tell you how I came up with this. Mostly it’s a women’s idea about getting into the lifestyle. When we ran a club, we ran it for 20 years, and I would whenever a new couple brand new.

00:18:52:23 – 00:19:34:03
Tom
I mean, big, bugged out eyes and just, you know, and I would always just have fun, open up general conversation. And one of my questions was always, whose idea was it to come here? Because our club was the first thing they ever did. The first place they were meeting people, first place they ever went to. So and a lot of times I would probably I mean, it was I don’t even I don’t have a percentage, but it was a high ratio of it was the woman’s idea and it kind of, I kind of shocked me because you were most people think it’s the guy’s idea.

00:19:34:05 – 00:19:39:24
Tom
The guy’s the dog because the guy is the sleazy one. But I’m not saying women are.

00:19:39:26 – 00:19:42:02
Bunny
But it’s.

00:19:42:05 – 00:19:50:01
Tom
I’m just saying that women are just a sexual. But out in the vanilla world, they don’t show up as much.

00:19:50:01 – 00:20:04:01
Bunny
No, not at all. Not at all. And you know, in that, in that kind of poses, one of the other questions that we get all the time from the creepy people that say, how do I how do I, get.

00:20:04:01 – 00:20:04:28
Tom
My wife into it?

00:20:04:29 – 00:20:10:14
Bunny
How do I talk my wife into this? Well, you don’t well, you don’t, you do.

00:20:10:16 – 00:20:12:13
Tom
There’s a way, which is a way.

00:20:12:16 – 00:20:15:17
Bunny
You talk to her about it. Yes.

00:20:15:19 – 00:20:17:01
Tom
You communicate?

00:20:17:03 – 00:20:18:16
Bunny
Yes.

00:20:18:18 – 00:20:43:29
Tom
So, yeah. I have we get probably half of our emails. Our messages we get half are from married men asking either telling us how they wish their wife was like, funny, are asking us how to talk their wife into it, even to the point of asking if we would talk their wife into it.

00:20:43:29 – 00:20:44:28
Bunny
Yeah, and that’s a big no.

00:20:44:29 – 00:20:55:01
Tom
That’s a big no. I mean, well, we’ll answer questions, we’ll talk to people. But the person has to be has to understand that what we’re talking about.

00:20:55:04 – 00:20:56:00
Bunny
Is.

00:20:56:02 – 00:21:04:13
Tom
We know we don’t want to throw out, a jaw dropper and just say, hey, you should wait. I mean, pineapple we.

00:21:04:13 – 00:21:05:20
Bunny
Have and we.

00:21:05:23 – 00:21:05:25
Tom
I.

00:21:06:01 – 00:21:31:12
Bunny
Actually haven’t heard this. The horror stories of, of a couple went to meet a couple, and the wife had no clue what was going on. No clue, because he he did all of the talking, all of the chatting back and forth. He sent all of her pictures to them, and she had no clue whatsoever that she was going on.

00:21:31:13 – 00:21:36:16
Bunny
Well, yeah. And that is just wrong in every sense of the word.

00:21:36:16 – 00:21:55:04
Tom
Yep. And we don’t agree with that. We started our videos. I don’t know how long ago I have to go back and see when the first video was done, but our videos actually started with there was a cup down by. Back then there was only a few content creators.

00:21:55:04 – 00:21:55:23
Bunny
Yeah there was.

00:21:55:24 – 00:22:18:15
Tom
We weren’t even a content creator at the time. We were just running a club. Yeah, and one thing that we noticed at the club was the pineapple. They didn’t call it pineapple people back then. They call them and cheers. I mean, let’s bring it back to where it is. They keep changing the terminology faster than we can keep.

00:22:18:15 – 00:22:22:15
Bunny
Oh, we we came along not too long after. Key part is.

00:22:22:19 – 00:22:53:24
Tom
Right. our wife. You a press? And I gotta say this because of the algorithm, so bear with me on this. But. So we had seen a video where the couple said s pineapple world was the best thing for your marriage, and you should get into it. And I looked at Bunny and I said, that is probably I could see divorce forces happening.

00:22:53:27 – 00:22:56:02
Bunny
And,

00:22:56:04 – 00:23:03:01
Tom
we set up our camera in our living room, because I go overboard and we say.

00:23:03:03 – 00:23:03:29
Bunny
Go big or go home.

00:23:03:29 – 00:23:30:11
Tom
Yeah. We set up a lighting, soft boxes, everything. And our first video was communication is the most important thing in your relationship. If you can communicate about anything, everything under the sun, you can not. I mean, it’s embarrassing. And if you could just muscle through the embarrassment and talk to your spouse.

00:23:30:14 – 00:23:32:23
Bunny
No, no no no. If you if.

00:23:32:26 – 00:23:34:26
Tom
I kiss, a lot of things are embarrassing to talk.

00:23:34:26 – 00:23:41:10
Bunny
I want to say, if you can ask your husband, hey, do I have a hair in my buttcrack you can talk about anything.

00:23:41:10 – 00:23:53:17
Tom
Wow. I did not expect that one, but yeah, if you could talk about a hair on your buttcrack, we could probably talk about pretty much everything.

00:23:53:17 – 00:23:54:22
Bunny
Yeah, exactly.

00:23:54:22 – 00:24:05:06
Tom
So if you could talk about your penile implant, you could probably talk about anything to everybody. if you want to go that route.

00:24:05:07 – 00:24:07:05
Bunny
Of course. Of course you got that right.

00:24:07:06 – 00:24:37:03
Tom
But, yeah, the the biggest thing is we don’t talk to wives. If you don’t, we never hear from wives talking the husbands into this. I mean, that’s probably the easier target, but we don’t talk to wives. I mean, we’ll answer the wives questions. We’ve actually had wives contact us and say, hey, my husband watched one of your videos and said communication is the best thing, and he brought up the pineapple world.

00:24:37:05 – 00:24:46:00
Tom
I have serious questions. Can I ask you questions? Absolutely. Yeah, we want, but we’re only giving our opinion.

00:24:46:03 – 00:24:47:13
Bunny
But yes.

00:24:47:16 – 00:24:48:06
Tom
What works for.

00:24:48:06 – 00:24:59:20
Bunny
Us, I mean, we’re an open book. If you call us and ask us questions or you want you have any concerns, definitely. We’ll talk to you. but I’m not going to try to talk somebody into it.

00:24:59:21 – 00:25:16:17
Tom
Right. And there is a whole lot of gamut to lifestyle people. starting off with there are you don’t actually have to physically, connect with somebody to be in this world.

00:25:16:19 – 00:25:29:20
Bunny
No, no. You know, we used to have a lot of people that came to our club that they just they were more exhibitionists. So they wanted to come dance erotically, pull their boobies out of their dress.

00:25:29:21 – 00:25:31:20
Tom
Right. So they want to be older.

00:25:31:22 – 00:25:41:15
Bunny
So we had that from, from all the way up. You imagine what people could do. And they did it. Yes. So there’s so much.

00:25:41:16 – 00:26:05:15
Tom
People just like to be around the pineapple people because the pineapple people are so much more honest and open. And now in today’s terminology now mind you we go back 2527 years in the pineapple world. So I’m going to kind of say terminology we use back then that we would get slaughtered for using today.

00:26:05:18 – 00:26:06:10
Bunny
Yes.

00:26:06:10 – 00:26:32:13
Tom
What our thought was if a couple came to our club and they didn’t want to, they didn’t want to physically touch another person. They just wanted to hang out, drink, have a good time, dance erotically, like Barney said, maybe get a little bit of naked. on the dance floor, or get up on our pole and be a stripper for a song or two for their husband.

00:26:32:15 – 00:26:44:12
Tom
We always said, and this is work. Don’t slaughter me. This is just what the mentality was 20 some years ago. One drink shy of being a pineapple world.

00:26:44:14 – 00:26:46:00
Bunny
True. Very true.

00:26:46:05 – 00:26:51:13
Tom
So drinking is a big thing in the pineapple world.

00:26:51:16 – 00:26:56:01
Bunny
it can make. It can make you make mistakes, too.

00:26:56:01 – 00:27:19:17
Tom
It can make you make a. But you just have to know that when you start drinking, you gotta own up to your. Yes, any mistakes that you feel you made and just get past that? because obviously the other people, they may be aware that you’re overly intoxicated, they may not be aware because they are just as intoxicated.

00:27:19:24 – 00:27:32:17
Tom
So hey, Mimi, I’m funny, have different thoughts around all the politically correct going around. If we if we lived by politically correct, there would be no pineapple World.

00:27:32:19 – 00:27:33:10
Bunny
No.

00:27:33:13 – 00:27:44:00
Tom
There wouldn’t be because everyone is going to find fault somewhere. And they have to rephrase the terminology because they they fault even the terminology so much.

00:27:44:00 – 00:27:45:00
Bunny
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:27:45:05 – 00:27:46:02
Tom
It’s it’s.

00:27:46:02 – 00:27:46:14
Bunny
Very.

00:27:46:14 – 00:27:50:04
Tom
Offended by certain phrases are words.

00:27:50:04 – 00:27:55:11
Bunny
Yeah. It’s very, very and it’s really hard to keep up with that because.

00:27:55:13 – 00:28:03:23
Tom
because before our terminology would change every five plus years now it seems like it changes every year.

00:28:03:24 – 00:28:07:01
Bunny
Oh it’s funny, Tom’s a tick tock guy.

00:28:07:04 – 00:28:08:14
Tom
I am a tick tock guy.

00:28:08:17 – 00:28:29:28
Bunny
if you see my tick tocks, they’re all dogs. I my dog is dogs. So there will be words that come out or phrases that come out. And I have to ask Tom, what does this mean? It’s like, are you kidding me? Right? I’m so far behind. But you know what? It’s where I’m comfortable with.

00:28:30:00 – 00:28:33:17
Tom
And this all entails what? Where we are.

00:28:33:19 – 00:28:34:23
Bunny
but no, that’s talking.

00:28:34:23 – 00:28:36:16
Tom
About the original sub.

00:28:36:17 – 00:28:53:07
Bunny
Yeah. So we. But, you know, I basically told her, hey, this is your life years and your husband’s life. You do with it however you want to go. And our our saying is always, you can only go as fast as the slowest person, right?

00:28:53:08 – 00:28:55:13
Tom
You and you. You can’t.

00:28:55:15 – 00:28:59:29
Bunny
You can’t fault each other for somebody being slower than the other one.

00:28:59:29 – 00:29:11:09
Tom
I only said that because I’m watching the microphones go up and down, and when funny turns my direction, I watch it go down. And then when she turns back. So it’s, not a blast. It’s just, I get blasted for.

00:29:11:10 – 00:29:12:28
Bunny
I know, I know, for me.

00:29:13:03 – 00:29:18:25
Tom
We talked to each other because I read lips and I have my cochlear on so I can actually hear.

00:29:18:28 – 00:29:19:09
Bunny
On this.

00:29:19:09 – 00:29:25:03
Tom
Side, on this side. Now, if she was on this side, I’d be like, why?

00:29:25:05 – 00:29:34:12
Bunny
But did you even hear what I said? No, she. This is what I live with. He had no clue what I even said.

00:29:34:13 – 00:29:35:18
Tom
Said all over again.

00:29:35:20 – 00:29:37:11
Bunny
I said, you can only go as.

00:29:37:14 – 00:29:39:11
Tom
Fast as the slowest person. I did hear.

00:29:39:11 – 00:29:40:10
Bunny
That. What I said after that.

00:29:40:13 – 00:29:41:04
Tom
I don’t know.

00:29:41:06 – 00:29:46:12
Bunny
You can’t fault each other for somebody going slower than the other one.

00:29:46:14 – 00:30:20:07
Tom
Correct. And my, my thing. I always tell couples, especially new new couples talk, talk, talk meaning talk before you go anywhere or meet anybody or anything but scenarios in your head. I know it’s kind of, it could get stressful. You can get anxieties. Yeah, but you should be prepared for the encounter. If you’re going to meet a couple at a bar or dinner, do you have an out?

00:30:20:10 – 00:30:40:08
Tom
I mean, because you could walk in and as Bonnie says, the first two, three, four words out of a guy’s mouth, she knows right then and there if she even wants to communicate any further. So you got to have an out and the babysitter thing doesn’t work. Don’t get a fake phone call. Go get the babysitter out.

00:30:40:08 – 00:30:57:25
Tom
Gotta go. No, no, just be honest. Just say, hey, we don’t think it’s going to work out and we don’t want to waste your time. And we don’t want to spend $150 on a dinner sitting with people. We have no nothing in common with. You don’t have to be that dramatic. But you.

00:30:57:25 – 00:30:58:16
Bunny
Have.

00:30:58:19 – 00:30:59:10
Tom
My buddy.

00:30:59:12 – 00:30:59:20
Bunny
Buddy.

00:30:59:20 – 00:31:22:17
Tom
Turn her back on a couple. But the guy was an arrogant chauvinist. Yes. So when she did that, I’m a nice guy. I had to sit there for 45 minutes and endure the other couple. Meanwhile, Bonnie has her back. She’s talking to another table. She’s talking the waitresses. And this guy thinks he has a chance with her. And I’m like, you don’t read body language.

00:31:22:20 – 00:31:34:11
Tom
Apparently it’s a deaf skill because I can read body language, facial expressions, lips. Yeah, yeah. I mean, when someone turns their back on me, I know. Okay, it’s time to end.

00:31:34:11 – 00:31:48:28
Bunny
You know, we’ve been we’ve been in this long enough to that we know each other’s, what are each other’s likes and dislikes. And so, I mean, we both will almost no immediate leave.

00:31:49:01 – 00:32:18:17
Tom
Oh, yeah. I mean, so, Harry Harrison out for new couples that we used to use, and it worked really, really well. It still works today. Not so much for us, because if people have seen our videos, but in the conversation within so much time, you can actually talk about the weather. No matter if it’s hot or cold, rainy doesn’t matter.

00:32:18:21 – 00:32:44:10
Tom
You could talk about the weather, but the weather is the code for you guys. So I would look at Bonnie and, all right, look at the general conversation. I would say if I was interested in, other female, I would say, Holy cow. Bonnie, did you see that record temperature in Arizona? And Bonnie would reply back either.

00:32:44:10 – 00:32:56:01
Tom
Yeah, it was really hot. Meaning she was hot for the other guy, or she would talk about how call that was in Iowa.

00:32:56:03 – 00:33:18:21
Tom
Immediately, if she said the word cold, I knew that it was time to start backing out of the conversation and oh, because we don’t want, rooster block another couple ever. So there’s no reason, especially in a club setting our hotel take over, that you occupy someone’s time because they’re in a very short time frame.

00:33:18:28 – 00:33:32:18
Bunny
And you will find people, and people go, oh, that was really rude. But no, it’s not rude. The people will come up and be like, you know, within the first five minutes, hey, are you guys players? Would you be interested?

00:33:32:20 – 00:33:34:27
Tom
Hold on. We we like to get to know people.

00:33:34:27 – 00:33:51:22
Bunny
Yeah, I mean, we I met this one couple one time and they literally came up and they sat at our table and they go, so do you think there’s a chance of us and they said the word f u c k. And I’m like, nope. And he goes, hey, great guess. now you just saved me an hour, right?

00:33:51:22 – 00:34:17:02
Tom
And we were all good with that. And they’re no offense. they’re there is going to be a very high, high, high probability unless you’re in it for play. And there’s nothing wrong with that either. Absolutely not that you won’t make a match with other people. There are people that go to parties and don’t hook up multiple parties, many parties.

00:34:17:04 – 00:34:20:21
Tom
Then there’s people that go to a party and hook up ten times in one.

00:34:20:21 – 00:34:31:08
Bunny
Night, and there’s people that just absolutely love sex and they don’t care with who. And more power to them. I mean, it is you.

00:34:31:10 – 00:34:35:05
Tom
At the pineapple world. You see a lot of people lose focus on that.

00:34:35:10 – 00:34:44:28
Bunny
But and then, like I said, there’s other ones that might once a year and there is nothing wrong with where you go with this.

00:34:44:28 – 00:34:45:19
Tom
Right.

00:34:45:22 – 00:34:53:28
Bunny
And so I am going to lead us right into an advertising life, not an advertising.

00:34:53:28 – 00:34:55:07
Tom
We’re not advertising nothing.

00:34:55:07 – 00:34:57:15
Bunny
Nope. So I basically told you.

00:34:57:16 – 00:35:00:24
Tom
Say the word advertising. You’re you’re going to lose half of our honey.

00:35:00:25 – 00:35:02:05
Bunny
All right. So we’re not advertising.

00:35:02:08 – 00:35:03:29
Tom
Except for Tom’s trips.

00:35:04:02 – 00:35:11:04
Bunny
Exactly. So I told her because she had so many different questions on different things that I couldn’t answer her on.

00:35:11:10 – 00:35:11:21
Tom
Right.

00:35:11:27 – 00:35:16:10
Bunny
So I told her there is a great convention coming up at the end of June.

00:35:16:10 – 00:35:20:17
Tom
We actually wrote down a list of the places we’re going to be. Yeah, through the month of June.

00:35:20:17 – 00:35:40:10
Bunny
But if for any of you that are really, really new to this and that, want to explore different options and different things and learn at different seminars and, talk to thousands of people nodding in New Orleans. Yeah, it’s the place to be.

00:35:40:13 – 00:35:54:09
Tom
Yeah. It is the world’s largest pineapple convention, and upwards to 2500 people on Bourbon Street for 4 or 5 days now. We’ll be there for.

00:35:54:13 – 00:35:57:08
Bunny
We come in Wednesday morning and it.

00:35:57:08 – 00:36:00:19
Tom
Starts on Tuesday, but it’s mild on TV.

00:36:00:19 – 00:36:01:25
Bunny
Yeah. Where do you.

00:36:01:25 – 00:36:06:04
Tom
Say it starts building Thursday and Friday.

00:36:06:07 – 00:36:06:18
Bunny
Yeah.

00:36:06:20 – 00:36:08:01
Tom
Be prepared.

00:36:08:03 – 00:36:16:22
Bunny
So you’re going to eat there. Things start at 10 a.m.. I mean from different seminars on newbies to.

00:36:16:24 – 00:36:17:12
Tom
Massage.

00:36:17:13 – 00:36:26:29
Bunny
Massages to speed dating to poorly. by the way, you name it, you’re going to find it there.

00:36:27:07 – 00:36:33:25
Tom
And most seminars are free. There are some paid ones, but if they’re paid, there’s a reason why.

00:36:34:00 – 00:36:34:15
Bunny
And not.

00:36:34:16 – 00:36:35:15
Tom
You got to sign up for.

00:36:35:15 – 00:36:40:26
Bunny
Those. And there just seminars. There’s, Bourbon Street parties.

00:36:40:26 – 00:36:52:23
Tom
There’s couples. The seminars are. Yeah. Would be probably key. then, you, you start off at noon party.

00:36:52:25 – 00:36:53:19
Bunny
Start your party.

00:36:53:19 – 00:37:17:22
Tom
Honestly, there are two parties that start at noon every single day. and then at 3:00, two more open up and noon one is kind of, shut down and they open up for, but they are closed off to only the attendees for this convention. It is so bold, seem to get in that the line starts almost an hour before the event.

00:37:17:25 – 00:37:38:21
Tom
Tom’s trips, me and Bonnie will be there along with our host, Mike and Denise, and we will be doing. We’re not sure yet. you know, it’s probably going to be fat cats on Friday at noon. And if you’re going to be an audience, we invite you to join us at noon at Fat Cats.

00:37:38:23 – 00:37:41:10
Bunny
You are very positive that you’re going to get that time.

00:37:41:10 – 00:37:53:21
Tom
Slot. I think I think we are. And if it’s not fat cats, it’ll be bandstand. But I think it’s going to be fat cats because that with I got the choice, parties and I put fat cats as the priority.

00:37:53:21 – 00:38:11:16
Bunny
Yeah. So but, you know, it’s just a great place to go and to meet people. And then after that, and before they have the ballroom parties at 9:00 at night, they have multiple meet and greets on what you’re looking for. Yeah. Five couples poly couples fetish.

00:38:11:19 – 00:38:30:27
Tom
And their priority. so if you’re, by a couple you’re not going to be out in the lobby. They’re actually going to have a room specifically. So that way you don’t have lurkers or people leering to see who the by couples are.

00:38:30:28 – 00:38:31:20
Bunny
Yeah.

00:38:31:22 – 00:38:39:18
Tom
they’ll actually have to go into the room. Poly couples, they’ll probably have their own room, and then they’ll have a main meet and greet. And that’s the ballroom.

00:38:39:18 – 00:38:45:19
Bunny
Now, currently, I mean, we are only three weeks out or weeks out from this major event.

00:38:45:21 – 00:38:48:22
Tom
The 2nd June 28th through the 30th.

00:38:48:25 – 00:38:56:10
Bunny
The two main hotels are already sold out, but they do have another overflow hotel. I mean, Tom and I are not even staying in the main hotel.

00:38:56:11 – 00:38:57:05
Tom
No.

00:38:57:07 – 00:39:09:27
Bunny
We are staying off. We’re only staying a block away, but it’s just going to be, great. Great week and a very good learning for the newbies.

00:39:10:01 – 00:39:22:08
Tom
And these events are great to just go to, not just not in all ones, but there’s a lot of hotel takeovers. There’s, we’re going we’re going to sooner swing. We’re leaving at four in the morning.

00:39:22:08 – 00:39:23:13
Bunny
Yep. So yeah.

00:39:23:14 – 00:39:27:28
Tom
Four in the morning. This video will actually come out after we’ve looked here.

00:39:27:29 – 00:39:35:22
Bunny
Yes. So I mean we’re going to sooner swing in Oklahoma. They already have over 800 people coming for this weekend.

00:39:35:23 – 00:39:37:07
Tom
Hundreds of people at a.

00:39:37:07 – 00:39:43:05
Bunny
Campground, at a campground. also going on this weekend, it’s the splash party.

00:39:43:05 – 00:39:43:15
Tom
Yeah.

00:39:43:15 – 00:39:51:20
Bunny
And Atlanta and Atlanta, which is another really good sign that, we’ve been to splash. We have not.

00:39:51:20 – 00:39:52:19
Tom
Been to Lauderdale.

00:39:52:22 – 00:39:56:08
Bunny
We have not been to Atlanta.

00:39:56:09 – 00:39:57:11
Tom
No, we haven’t been to it.

00:39:57:14 – 00:40:13:04
Bunny
But we will because it’s only four hours from us. Right. But, they have splash parties in Atlanta, Fort Lauderdale and Houston, Houston. And so there’s so many great, great. Right.

00:40:13:04 – 00:40:30:25
Tom
And like I say, then there’s all the hotel takeovers. I mean, there’s just so many. We can’t even list them all. Then you got your regular clubs. Now the club we’re going to go to, not this weekend but the next Friday. We’re only go in there Friday night because we’re going to a wedding Saturday.

00:40:31:01 – 00:40:36:14
Bunny
So Friday, June 7th, we will be at the corral.

00:40:36:16 – 00:40:39:02
Tom
You know, that’s that corral welcome.

00:40:39:07 – 00:40:40:04
Bunny
With the K.

00:40:40:06 – 00:40:50:19
Tom
Yeah. So if you want to meet us, come out Friday night. I don’t know how late they will be there, but, we’re going to we’re we’re leaving here Thursday. They get there for Friday.

00:40:50:19 – 00:40:53:20
Bunny
So that’s the corral and Spring Grove, Pennsylvania.

00:40:53:20 – 00:41:00:18
Tom
Yes. And some people have asked. I’m four hours away. Five hours away. We’re 12 and we’re driving.

00:41:00:20 – 00:41:01:21
Bunny
So.

00:41:01:23 – 00:41:17:26
Tom
Yeah, they always say, is it worth it? I don’t know if it’s worth it for you or not. It is for us. We absolutely love the car. We love the people. We would recommend it to anybody, but we don’t want somebody say, oh, Tom, my buddy recommended it and we hated it because it’s not your cup of tea.

00:41:17:26 – 00:41:18:23
Bunny
It’s this.

00:41:18:24 – 00:41:25:23
Tom
It’s something that you should experience on your own the first time and make your own decision.

00:41:25:25 – 00:41:32:12
Bunny
It’s in in. It’s bad. It’s bad to say. But Tom and I have a rule. You always try things twice.

00:41:32:14 – 00:41:34:07
Tom
Because maybe.

00:41:34:09 – 00:41:35:18
Bunny
Make.

00:41:35:20 – 00:41:37:20
Tom
Or sometimes you.

00:41:37:22 – 00:41:50:24
Bunny
Yeah, but we’ve gone back to different places and we had a completely different feel. Right. Just it every night. And we know this from running an on premise club for 20 years, every night is different than the.

00:41:50:24 – 00:42:18:13
Tom
Other every single night. And if you have a bad experience one night, you might have a phenomenal experience. You might have a phenomenal experience. Can’t wait to get back. And it doesn’t meet your expectations. And you leave there with a negative thought in your head. Just remember it varies per the party theme. The day of the week. If you’re going during Mother’s Day weekend, it’s going to suck.

00:42:18:16 – 00:42:31:29
Bunny
Yeah, typically, if you’re going on a three day weekend like Memorial Day or Labor Day, they generally are a lot slower because everybody’s out on their boat. So we have our little theme vacations. So yeah.

00:42:32:02 – 00:42:48:22
Tom
Graduation. So it of you got to look at the holidays. You got to look at what is happening around that might, detract from yeah, the venue. And if there is nothing going on around your venues, probably going to be hopping.

00:42:48:25 – 00:43:00:26
Bunny
Well, I know, there’s a club in Iowa and, the Friday opening Friday night fair, they just closed the club because no one’s going to be there. Right? Everybody goes to the Iowa State Fair.

00:43:00:28 – 00:43:02:03
Tom
Yeah.

00:43:02:05 – 00:43:03:25
Bunny
So, I mean, yeah.

00:43:03:27 – 00:43:08:13
Tom
We actually lived in Iowa for a year and a half. Don’t ask us why.

00:43:08:16 – 00:43:09:07
Bunny
We don’t even know.

00:43:09:09 – 00:43:12:21
Tom
We actually started our pineapple.

00:43:12:24 – 00:43:15:26
Bunny
And we did our, I guess, our journey, our.

00:43:15:26 – 00:43:16:17
Tom
Journey.

00:43:16:17 – 00:43:18:07
Bunny
Our pineapple journey started.

00:43:18:07 – 00:43:25:26
Tom
Living in a small town of 800 people was a no no, 898. We had 96 houses, 96 houses.

00:43:25:26 – 00:43:27:17
Bunny
It did have 97, but one burned.

00:43:27:19 – 00:44:02:20
Tom
Out there and the fire department watched it burn down. And, so anyway, we’ll be at the corral, not this Friday, but next Friday, June 7th. Yeah, seven. Then what’s the next hedonism? We’re back to hedonism and we will be there with Cassidy. Crush. Cassidy crush is. It’s a younger crowd because we actually time around teachers. Yes, because the teachers wanted to come, but they had school and everything, so we kind of navigated it to where they can attend.

00:44:02:26 – 00:44:12:23
Tom
So it tends to be a little on the younger side. And when I say younger side, it’s not 1821. It’s probably in mid 30s,

00:44:12:25 – 00:44:14:16
Bunny
Or like 40s or.

00:44:14:19 – 00:44:19:24
Tom
The 40s. Yeah. So we’re the old ones. We are, we’re the cool and Uncle.

00:44:20:19 – 00:44:21:27
Tom
Well, that’s what they tell us.

00:44:21:27 – 00:44:23:04
Bunny
I know.

00:44:23:06 – 00:44:26:22
Tom
But what? They kick us out of bed. Fruit and crackers, you know.

00:44:26:24 – 00:44:27:13
Bunny
Maybe not.

00:44:27:13 – 00:44:30:13
Tom
We’ll have to find out.

00:44:30:16 – 00:44:32:14
Bunny
maybe not this time, though.

00:44:32:17 – 00:44:39:28
Tom
And then when? This time. Then we come back in three days later where we do our lines for Nadia and Mullins.

00:44:40:00 – 00:44:45:04
Bunny
And you know what? I. I’m very, very giddy about going back to Nadia. It’s been it’s.

00:44:45:06 – 00:44:46:20
Tom
It’s been five years. It’s.

00:44:46:26 – 00:44:51:25
Bunny
Yeah. Because we didn’t get 2019 was the last time we went.

00:44:52:02 – 00:44:52:24
Tom
There you go.

00:44:52:26 – 00:44:55:28
Bunny
And so. So it was our.

00:44:56:01 – 00:45:04:17
Tom
Claim to fame is we were awarded our how when they announce are they. We were.

00:45:04:20 – 00:45:06:00
Bunny
Presented as.

00:45:06:02 – 00:45:25:13
Tom
We are presented as the king and queen. not in New Orleans on Bourbon Street and we got to ride in a float. The the, bunch of guys push these floats down. Yeah. Previous kings and queens and other Royal Corps. So that was actually kind of fun. Actually. It was a lot of fun.

00:45:25:13 – 00:45:32:07
Bunny
It was a lot of fun. And naughty in New Orleans has always been our one of our favorite events to go to.

00:45:32:10 – 00:45:42:11
Tom
Because there’s so much going on. I mean, you do breakfast, lunch and dinner on your own. I mean, they do have, a brunch, and.

00:45:42:14 – 00:45:43:12
Bunny
I don’t even know if they’re I.

00:45:43:12 – 00:45:48:14
Tom
Don’t think they’re having it anymore because it’s really a that’s a hard one to,

00:45:48:16 – 00:45:51:07
Bunny
There’s a lot of. They have pizza at midnight.

00:45:51:08 – 00:46:10:17
Tom
Yeah. If you’re in the playrooms, they bring in, like, hundreds of pizzas, and some people will just go up to the playroom just to get pizza and people like, oh, no, no, no, it’s all sanitary. It’s good. Yeah. And that’s probably some of the best pizza. I don’t remember the name of the place, but Crescent City pizza.

00:46:10:17 – 00:46:11:21
Bunny
And do they get it from Crescent?

00:46:11:21 – 00:46:15:14
Tom
I believe so, because that’s where, we got it for Cassidy.

00:46:15:14 – 00:46:20:28
Bunny
That’s what we’re having for lunch on that one Tuesday, I remember. Yep. That’s the first thing we’re having for lunch on that Wednesday.

00:46:20:28 – 00:46:28:15
Tom
If you haven’t had Crescent City Pizza on Bourbon Street, every place sells pizza. Crescent city sells really good pizza.

00:46:28:17 – 00:46:36:01
Bunny
And it’s it’s down there. It’s probably a good 4 or 5 blocks from the from the resort. And it doesn’t.

00:46:36:03 – 00:46:36:28
Tom
Matter if you’re walking.

00:46:36:28 – 00:46:37:05
Bunny
From.

00:46:37:05 – 00:46:43:11
Tom
Canal Street down Bourbon Street. Yeah. Towards the, pirate bar.

00:46:43:13 – 00:46:44:22
Bunny
Oh, John Lafitte’s. Yeah.

00:46:44:28 – 00:46:58:03
Tom
And you, everyone has to go there. That’s pretty much the end of Bourbon Street. Yeah. So you walk from Canal all the way down to John the Feets and it’s all candlelit. It’s like you’re in the 1700s. It’s really cool.

00:46:58:03 – 00:47:08:24
Bunny
So, yeah, I’m really, really looking forward to going back. And, you know, and for us, it’s like being newbies all over again too, because it’s been so long.

00:47:08:24 – 00:47:09:27
Tom
So we’re going to be fresh meat.

00:47:09:28 – 00:47:12:27
Bunny
We are going to be freshmen, but no one’s going to know who we are.

00:47:12:28 – 00:47:15:18
Tom
I don’t know if my name.

00:47:15:19 – 00:47:16:08
Bunny
Yeah, I don’t.

00:47:16:08 – 00:47:24:13
Tom
Know if it’s gonna work yet or not. I it works, but I don’t know. It’s still painful. Yeah, yeah. So I, I’m going to have to heel for a while.

00:47:24:14 – 00:47:27:04
Bunny
I have to be very, very gentle, very gentle.

00:47:27:07 – 00:47:28:05
Tom
Just lay there.

00:47:28:05 – 00:47:28:18
Bunny
And leave.

00:47:28:18 – 00:47:29:16
Tom
Time. Don’t move.

00:47:29:18 – 00:47:30:07
Bunny
And we’ve talked.

00:47:30:07 – 00:47:31:15
Tom
Before. Lock your hips.

00:47:31:16 – 00:47:33:21
Bunny
We’ve talked before. I’m not really gentle.

00:47:33:21 – 00:47:34:22
Tom
Don’t push back.

00:47:34:26 – 00:47:38:06
Bunny
Don’t just lay there.

00:47:38:06 – 00:47:40:06
Tom
Just let me do my thing.

00:47:40:08 – 00:47:41:18
Bunny
Just be a pillow princess.

00:47:41:19 – 00:47:45:06
Tom
There you go. Yep. So, yeah, I know.

00:47:45:08 – 00:47:48:09
Bunny
That’s not easy for me.

00:47:48:11 – 00:48:17:10
Tom
We I mean, we’re we’re looking forward. We’re going to be going to more larger events. We’ve been going to more clubs in more specific locations like the corral, vibe and Nashville. Yeah. Our Murfreesboro. we’re going to specific clubs. We have a host couple that go to trapeze, and they’re going to tempted in Lexington, this month.

00:48:17:14 – 00:48:20:19
Bunny
Yep. June 14th, June 15th and 16th.

00:48:20:19 – 00:48:37:03
Tom
Okay. So but I mean, you’re meeting the, general location of that specific club we like to go to where people travel in, like, splash party. not in the hotel parties.

00:48:37:04 – 00:48:38:28
Bunny
I mean, we just came back from Vegas.

00:48:38:28 – 00:48:42:04
Tom
Yep. And there was a lot of people that flew in for that one.

00:48:42:07 – 00:48:55:04
Bunny
Yeah. So it it we’re kind of getting back to, almost like a grassroots yacht, which is what we started and, and we’re just ready to hit the ground running again.

00:48:55:12 – 00:49:03:00
Tom
Right. So again, the best thing to do is and I didn’t finish off, I talked about talking about.

00:49:03:00 – 00:49:05:26
Bunny
Finished off this morning.

00:49:05:28 – 00:49:12:14
Tom
Wow. We talked about discussing all the, hypotheticals.

00:49:12:14 – 00:49:12:29
Bunny
Yes.

00:49:13:05 – 00:49:37:08
Tom
But what we didn’t talk about is me and Bonnie always discuss when we come home at night. No two things happen. Whether anything happen or not. We discuss what we liked about the night, what we didn’t care for or anything like that. But what if if nothing happened? We. You do have to question why did nothing happen? Was it us?

00:49:37:09 – 00:49:44:04
Tom
Was it them? Was it one of us? Why were we putting that? Don’t approach us.

00:49:44:07 – 00:49:48:05
Bunny
It usually stems from bunny tops. Too much.

00:49:48:09 – 00:49:57:19
Tom
Yes, but I talk too much on camera. So I could talk forever on camera. But when it’s out of club, I know when to shut up.

00:49:57:21 – 00:50:04:16
Bunny
But it’s kind of even. Even after all these years, you still get giddy and you still get nervous.

00:50:04:18 – 00:50:25:00
Tom
Oh, we still. Oh yeah, we still get really nervous. And people are like, oh, you’re the experienced people. No no no no, no, we don’t play that much. We really don’t play that much. And we’re fine with that. the, the main focus is it’s us.

00:50:25:06 – 00:50:25:21
Bunny
Yes.

00:50:25:22 – 00:50:29:27
Tom
And we won’t let anything interfere with our relation itself.

00:50:29:29 – 00:50:30:15
Bunny
No.

00:50:30:17 – 00:50:56:27
Tom
So we won’t take one for the team now, taking one for the team is such a nagging negative connotation. Taking one for the team just means one of you are physically attracted to the other person. It doesn’t mean they’re a bad person or anything like that. It just means that you don’t want to get physically intimate with someone you’re not physically attracted to.

00:50:56:29 – 00:51:21:07
Tom
And unfortunately, in this pineapple world there, there’s a lot of mismatched couples. Me and buddy are probably mismatched to a lot of other couples. Couples may want Bunny, but not me. they may want me and not Bunny. I know that’s the rarity. I know I’m pat myself on the back stroking my own ego here, but it is what it is.

00:51:21:09 – 00:51:42:26
Tom
Whatever. one of our encounters was, hedonism, and it just happened to be a single female and a single guy. Yeah. So it worked out. It did really well. because it was a couple that one of us was hit or miss on.

00:51:42:27 – 00:52:07:05
Bunny
Right? Right. And, you know, and think it happens. I mean, like you said, the stars aligned, at that. But our biggest thing is we always come home and we talk about it. And, if, and this is the new, new phrase, but we always say we, we, we claim each other if we played, but I don’t call it reclaim.

00:52:07:05 – 00:52:08:18
Bunny
We reconnect.

00:52:08:21 – 00:52:32:01
Tom
Yeah. So after if we do have a physical encounter with somebody, I’m using the right proper wording that doesn’t get us kicked off the algorithm. You if we have a physical interaction with another couple, sometimes there are single females, sometimes there are single men. But we focus more on, both of us playing.

00:52:32:06 – 00:52:32:29
Bunny
Yes.

00:52:33:01 – 00:52:53:21
Tom
Our interacting. Yes. So when we do come home, we get physically intimate with each other. Because the last thing I want to do is one of us doesn’t wake up in the morning, and the other one has to go through the rest of their life knowing that the last person that person was physically intimate with was not me.

00:52:53:23 – 00:52:58:00
Tom
So call it, low self-esteem.

00:52:58:03 – 00:53:12:01
Bunny
It. This is a morbid, even a morbid thought, but we’ve even discussed it. If if there’s anything that happens in the middle of play and God forbid, you know, one of us has a heart attack, you push off the other partner and jump on.

00:53:12:04 – 00:53:24:28
Tom
Oh, and if I have the heart attack, Bunny knows how to. Well, she has to learn how to fight the new one. But I don’t want to go to the morgue or the hospital with, a stiffy.

00:53:25:01 – 00:53:26:03
Bunny
What did they. What did?

00:53:26:03 – 00:53:41:20
Tom
That one they called a forklift. Because there’s two tubes, and I. In a future video, I’ll show you what the whole implant looks like. But there’s a tube on each side of the shaft, so they call it a forklift because they’re both,

00:53:41:22 – 00:53:42:01
Bunny
Yeah.

00:53:42:08 – 00:54:02:12
Tom
So I don’t want to be called a forklift. So I got to show Bunny where the new button is because it was high right now it’s low middle. Yeah. So yeah, it’s something happens to me. She’s just going to press. I also have to do with press for a second and then it will eventually go down all on its own.

00:54:02:14 – 00:54:09:04
Bunny
I’m not a crazy driver. We’re crazy. We’re. Yeah, but hey, that’s us. That’s us.

00:54:09:05 – 00:54:09:17
Tom
What are we?

00:54:09:20 – 00:54:14:25
Bunny
So, We’re, Time to go pack.

00:54:14:28 – 00:54:15:25
Tom
What time?

00:54:15:27 – 00:54:17:20
Bunny
We’re at 53 minutes. Oh, we’re.

00:54:17:26 – 00:54:18:10
Tom
Under an.

00:54:18:10 – 00:54:23:08
Bunny
Hour. Yeah, I told you, I know it’s giving me 30 minutes.

00:54:23:10 – 00:54:28:01
Tom
Yeah, well, we always start off our video saying we’re going to be 30 minutes, and then.

00:54:28:04 – 00:54:28:17
Bunny
Right.

00:54:28:18 – 00:54:30:20
Tom
One of us doesn’t shut up.

00:54:30:22 – 00:54:38:27
Bunny
It’s because now I’m looking at it. Tom wants to go to bed in one hour and 40 minutes. We still have to make dinner and we still have to pack in the car.

00:54:39:03 – 00:54:42:10
Tom
we’ll probably go out to dinner.

00:54:42:12 – 00:54:47:25
Bunny
I I’m to send Tom to the store for a dinner run, and I’ll finish packing.

00:54:47:28 – 00:55:15:14
Tom
So if you want to meet us, definitely. I got to update our Tom and money.com. I, I stopped doing it for a while because we were getting some stalkers, and I’ll be honest, they made us very nervous putting out too early where we are going to go. Yes. Sometimes it’s better to put out after you’ve gone, and then they can learn about it and then book next year and stuff like that.

00:55:15:16 – 00:55:38:03
Tom
So but yeah, we just told you where we’re going to be for June. I know it’s for short notice, but if you’d like to meet us, not in noggins, it’s naughty hyphen. the-events.com aren’t go to Tom strobes.com and just scroll down. Yeah don’t go to night hyphen events because we make a commission. If you just book it and it cost you no more.

00:55:38:06 – 00:55:41:22
Bunny
So yeah go to Tom’s tips.com and it’s underneath.

00:55:41:25 – 00:55:43:08
Tom
just scroll down to main page and.

00:55:43:08 – 00:55:43:19
Bunny
You’ll see.

00:55:43:19 – 00:55:45:19
Tom
It and just click on the naughty.

00:55:45:19 – 00:55:49:02
Bunny
And I. And I know it works because somebody just booked one today.

00:55:49:04 – 00:55:49:20
Tom
Oh did.

00:55:49:22 – 00:55:52:12
Bunny
Yes. Oh.

00:55:52:14 – 00:56:16:11
Tom
So and that’s how we’re able to do these videos. Yeah. You support us by booking travel. It costs you no more money and you might save money depending on like our group trips to hedonism. You actually save money booking to Tom’s trips. And we are the leader, the leader in hedonism. Travel throughout the year with over 20 group trips.

00:56:16:11 – 00:56:19:23
Tom
We book more rooms at hedonism than anybody else.

00:56:19:25 – 00:56:20:18
Bunny
That we do for.

00:56:20:18 – 00:56:23:09
Tom
30 years our company has been in business.

00:56:23:11 – 00:56:31:21
Bunny
Yes, yes, we’ve been really working hard to come at. We making a big comeback after Covid.

00:56:31:21 – 00:56:33:01
Tom
Covid was having.

00:56:33:01 – 00:56:47:19
Bunny
Her that kicked everybody’s butts. And you know what? We, swept off the dust and we came back with a vengeance. And, we’re bigger and better than not bigger and better. We are bigger and better than before.

00:56:47:20 – 00:56:53:06
Tom
Right now. We probably didn’t fully answer the question that was asked.

00:56:53:09 – 00:56:54:25
Bunny
Because that’s the money.

00:56:54:26 – 00:57:06:25
Tom
That’s us. We just randomly talk. I mean, we could answer the question in two minutes, but we like to talk.

00:57:06:27 – 00:57:12:13
Tom
I’d like to talk if you couldn’t see. A bunny was pointing at me.

00:57:12:16 – 00:57:18:00
Bunny
All right, we need to get off this. they need to,

00:57:18:02 – 00:57:18:25
Tom
They need to go eat.

00:57:18:26 – 00:57:30:07
Bunny
They need to go eat. Oh, can I do a shout out to Jack and Diane, who just booked with me? And I know that they watch us while they’re at their home gym. I, Jack and Diane.

00:57:30:10 – 00:57:31:24
Tom
We should play the song.

00:57:31:26 – 00:57:33:08
Bunny
Right?

00:57:33:11 – 00:57:35:09
Tom
Little ditty? Yeah, by Jack and.

00:57:35:09 – 00:57:37:19
Bunny
I, of course.

00:57:37:22 – 00:57:45:08
Tom
So, yeah. definitely. Come travel with us. We. We’d love to meet people. don’t be a stalker.

00:57:45:10 – 00:57:47:23
Bunny
No, no, don’t.

00:57:47:25 – 00:57:48:13
Tom
Oh, and.

00:57:48:13 – 00:57:53:02
Bunny
Don’t don’t make us, take down all of our schedule because they’re stalking either.

00:57:53:02 – 00:58:02:02
Tom
And if you email us, our DM us and we don’t respond, we don’t respond to. Hey. Hi.

00:58:02:04 – 00:58:04:09
Bunny
You’re hot, you’re hot.

00:58:04:12 – 00:58:14:11
Tom
I want to play, I mean, right, can I ask a question? We don’t even respond to that. Ask the question and we shall respond. Yes, maybe.

00:58:14:13 – 00:58:17:23
Bunny
Respond. Send a whole sentence.

00:58:17:26 – 00:58:19:25
Tom
Send something of substance.

00:58:19:26 – 00:58:20:23
Bunny
Yeah.

00:58:20:25 – 00:58:22:14
Tom
I mean.

00:58:22:16 – 00:58:23:28
Bunny
All right. I was like, no.

00:58:24:01 – 00:58:24:14
Tom
It’s just the.

00:58:24:14 – 00:58:25:17
Bunny
Other day, I know.

00:58:25:19 – 00:58:30:26
Tom
Literally going hundreds down and seeing stuff that I should have replied two months ago.

00:58:30:28 – 00:58:34:21
Bunny
All right. Well, he’ll reply, I’ll reply.

00:58:34:23 – 00:58:36:00
Tom
All right, until next time.

00:58:36:05 – 00:58:37:05
Bunny
We’ll see you soon.

00:58:37:05 – 00:58:38:12
Tom
We’ll see you soon.

 

 

UPDATE #1 – Tom broke his penis at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica

UPDATE #1 – Tom broke his penis at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica!

This is an Update to the Podcast dated February 12th, 2024 If you have not listened to it, please revisit that Podcast to come up to speed.

Yes, Tom broke his penis at the world famous Clothing Optional, Nudist and Lifestyle resort Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica.   After years of suffering with ED the un imaginal happened and today we discuss an update that we finally got approved and the surgery completed for a removal and replacement of the Boston Scientific AMS 700 Penile Implant!

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Transcript:

Tom and Bunny-15 minutes. And what am I getting done? You’re getting your new penile implant done. Oh, and replacement. A removal of removal and replacement. So we’ll add this video to our follow up video. All right. So we’ll see you then for five hours.

00:00:29:28 – 00:00:33:07
Tom and Bunny
Yep. All right.

00:00:36:14 – 00:00:59:21
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here and I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos in the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips.com, or give us a call at 1-800-285-0853 and I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:59:21 – 00:01:31:04
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone, we’re Tom and Bunny with Tom and bunny.com. This is take 4382. Because I keep soldering stuff. Yes he does. This is a follow up video that we promised back in February of how I broke my penis in Jamaica. and this is an initial because, I’m just now getting in the starting ranges. So we’re going to do another follow up because people actually had more questions than I had answers for today.

00:01:31:04 – 00:02:03:04
Tom and Bunny
And I won’t have answers for for about six more weeks. Exactly. Yes. So another six weeks. But we are going to include my urologist. So with that said, we want to give three huge thank yous. One to doctor Josh Calvert from Nashville with our urology associates. He is my urologist. Thank you. without you, we know this wouldn’t have been possible because probably most every other urologist wouldn’t have taken that extra step.

00:02:03:05 – 00:02:34:20
Tom and Bunny
Our mile. I mean, come on, you came out of surgery and you documented for me before you did anything else. And that was unbelievable. And we just truly appreciate it. Secondly, is Doctor Calvert’s care coordinator, Kim, she had she battled the insurance companies for us, like, every week. Trooper. She was constantly on the phone, constantly sending texts and without her care and dedication to this, it would have never went through.

00:02:34:21 – 00:03:04:10
Tom and Bunny
She truly was attached to my case. Yes she was. She was vested into, getting me approved and seeing me get better. Yeah, exactly. And the third is Boston Scientific, who actually manufactures the implant. I was provided, the AMS 700. I don’t know what this one is. It may not be the AMS 700. We’ll explain that in the video.

00:03:04:14 – 00:03:31:07
Tom and Bunny
You got to watch this one to the end. I know people will watch. Five minutes, ten minutes. This may be a 30 minute video. Just watch it to the end because we’re going to explain different things along the way. And we don’t want you to miss anything. If you are listening to us on podcast, jump over to our YouTube channel and just search Tom and Bunny, Tom and boo and and why, and you’ll find this video along with our original video.

00:03:31:08 – 00:03:51:10
Tom and Bunny
Yes. And if you are watching us on YouTube and you don’t care to see our bright, shiny faces, you can go to any podcast site and listen to it in your car. That’s my shameless plug. It is. You got them out there? Yeah, and we wouldn’t be able to bring the video to you without Tom. Absolutely not. You’re leader and adult lifestyle vacations all right.

00:03:51:10 – 00:04:19:13
Tom and Bunny
So with, now Boston Scientific, called Bonnie when I was, I just had my Kokila done. If you guys have been following us, you know, I had hand surgery. I had a cochlear surgery. I have another surgery scheduled 11 days from now. We are changing his name to Steve Austin. But Bionic Man and Boston Scientific, that was, Heather.

00:04:19:15 – 00:04:44:26
Tom and Bunny
Heather was on the insurance side helping me on the insurance side. Right? We didn’t know if she could help us fully or not, because, we’re self-insured, and a lot of times they go in, and if you’re employer insured, they can get your employer to add sexual function. And we’re going to explain that here in a minute. And then Carl, who is the local route, he was actually in my surgery.

00:04:44:26 – 00:05:07:12
Tom and Bunny
Yes. And we both got to meet him. And just checking out to see what exactly happened and why it failed. And we we don’t even know how I got approved yet. So that’s still a mystery. We have guesses, but we don’t like. I don’t want to ruin good things. Exactly. So to start, we finished up the last video.

00:05:07:12 – 00:05:34:22
Tom and Bunny
We were happy go lucky. We were positive. We were having fun. We were making jokes. Some people said we’re actually funny in the video and they actually had their husbands listen to it. But more importantly, we actually had a lot of people listening. Almost 11,000 video views currently today, and it’s only been up for two months. And that is just video views we haven’t gone back and seen on our podcast podcast, I kind of looked at and that was in the hundreds of thousands of listeners.

00:05:35:09 – 00:05:57:21
Tom and Bunny
so I just like the video and it’s because I could see the stats a little bit easier. we, we finished up with we had our appointment. We kind of told you what happened. So if you haven’t seen our first video, we’re going to put a link at the top of the description. For the original video, we ask that you pause this video, click that one.

00:05:57:26 – 00:06:18:20
Tom and Bunny
I know it’s a half hour out of your life, but go watch it because we explain and a lot of stuff we’ll talk about today, you’ll get a better understanding for. Absolutely. So watch, how I broke my penis in Jamaica and then come back to how I broke my penis in Jamaica. Update. And this is the first update and we’ll do a couple of updates.

00:06:18:23 – 00:06:45:00
Tom and Bunny
Yes, we will as we as we keep going along, as we progress. Yes. And we’re going to get the doctor that’s going to be on video and on podcasts. He’s actually kind of excited. Well, and you know, the great thing about about Doctor Calvert versus your previous urologist, your previous urologist was was getting up there in age. I think he was pretty close to retirement if not over retirement.

00:06:45:02 – 00:07:09:03
Tom and Bunny
So therefore for him it was like, okay, well, we’ll get this done. It was just very uniform. You know, we’re going to do this in very monotone. Yeah. With Doctor Calvert, he is such a forerunner in this particular area that he just wants everybody to be he says his goal is to, have every male realize an erection.

00:07:09:06 – 00:07:33:05
Tom and Bunny
Yes. And that’s a great goal. And it is a great guy. I told him I was going to say that there’s so many men that don’t realize that they need it, or so many couples that, they just need to get out there in the IT experience in and speak to somebody about their issues right now. last we follow it up.

00:07:33:09 – 00:07:57:27
Tom and Bunny
We didn’t know what was wrong. All we know is the plunger for my pump. I could pump it so many times, and then it would go flat and it wouldn’t expand to pump more. I knew my reservoir was empty. I knew right from the get go because it’s just common sense mechanics. Correct. And, but we had to go through the motions.

00:07:57:29 – 00:08:25:26
Tom and Bunny
We go down to Doctor Calvert and he immediately checks and shirts as I tight. It goes flat. And so he immediately schedules me a casket. go to this Cat scan and then we talk about. Yeah, we did. Okay. So we did the Cat scan. All the results came back and I had no fluid in my reservoir, thankfully.

00:08:25:26 – 00:08:52:25
Tom and Bunny
Now this is just what I did. And the other video we talked about how when I pumped it up for the Cat scan, I didn’t release it because I was afraid. I was afraid if I hit that manifold to release the fluid, I wouldn’t be able to get anything in there. And I was not. I was probably more quarter erect, but at least I was a semi so we could still fool around that we could, that we could.

00:08:52:26 – 00:09:20:25
Tom and Bunny
It was hard. It was hard. It was, you know, that was frustrating. It was frustrating. So in the past that originally happened what, January 20th or January 15th, something like that originally happened. But like he says, since he had just enough in there and he has enough of his own, I don’t even find him material. When I, when I get aroused, the blood still goes into the side.

00:09:20:25 – 00:09:46:03
Tom and Bunny
So the original doctor did not, I say, water out all the spongy material for the tubes. So when we would get very excited and Tom would be taking care of me, when he would get ultra, ultra ready, he would be like, just lay there, just lay there. I’m going to take care of this. And we would I would literally just lay there because because I don’t rock the hips don’t do nothing.

00:09:46:03 – 00:10:08:13
Tom and Bunny
Because if you rock back and I’m rocking out, it’s done. It’s done. So I like to explain it. It was like trying to push a marshmallow through a pinhole. Yes. It’s the only way you can explain how it was like a marshmallow through a screw hole. Yes, but we managed to have, sexual intercourse. Three times in the last three months.

00:10:08:16 – 00:10:41:26
Tom and Bunny
Yes. I mean, it’s depressing. It is depressing. It is depressing. Handjobs. BJs. Those were able to happen. I figured out a trick. She figured out the trick, and we worked around it. But I still felt guilty for Bunny. And because, Yeah, she’s taking care of me, then. Well, I didn’t have. It’s kind of weird, I think, because of the depression of knowing I could not do nothing.

00:10:41:28 – 00:11:07:03
Tom and Bunny
I got into the depression of it’s better to avoid it than, And some people would say, well, I would do this, I would do that. And it’s it’s kind of in a mindset. It really is. You know, one of the things that we found out, too, is not every state covers this particular surgery for various reasons. Now moving to Tennessee, we did not realize we didn’t look it up.

00:11:07:03 – 00:11:36:25
Tom and Bunny
We did not look it up. But they do not cover the surgery either on physicality or on psychological. Now, Alabama says that psychological is just as a part or a sexual function. Yes. And which I completely, 100% agree on because watching Tom go from happy go lucky to down in the dumps within a matter of, well, the first denial came through and he just dropped right down.

00:11:36:25 – 00:12:02:11
Tom and Bunny
So let’s tell everyone what’s going on. I originally got my first denial and almost right away and we got a call from their care coordinator, and, she’s like, you got denied. And we we discussed appeals and everything. So she went, Doctor Covert was in surgery, and then when he came out of surgery, thankfully, the he works in the hospital.

00:12:02:11 – 00:12:38:09
Tom and Bunny
So when that far, she was able to meet up with them and immediately right out of surgery, he wrote multiple pages, I’m guessing two or more pages of why it was medically necessary for me to have my old unit removed and a new unit installed, and they sent that in. So we are excitement went back up because how could they deny us when a doctor is spending so much time documenting the whole criteria?

00:12:38:11 – 00:13:02:18
Tom and Bunny
I mean, we even tried saying maybe when the saline bag fluid emptied out in my pelvic area because I had extreme back pains for about two weeks, he said that wouldn’t have caused that. So I was like, oh no, it’s helping you that. Yeah. And so we wait. And because it’s an appeal instead of 14 days, now they have 30 days.

00:13:02:18 – 00:13:29:12
Tom and Bunny
So we’re talking 45 days. So we’re like, okay, well I had it on the calendar. We are marking the days. And we our care coordinator, Kim, was calling them every week. And finally we get the devastation call. it was on a Tuesday. I don’t remember. Yeah, I think we were talking Tuesday. Oh, no, it was on a Monday.

00:13:29:15 – 00:13:50:26
Tom and Bunny
So we got a call and she goes, I have bad news. And she goes, I was so invested in you that I did not expect that. She goes, you were denied. And there’s no more appeals. And I’m like, and you can almost hear her almost crying. I mean, well Tom was crying like literally crying and it’s very, very depressing.

00:13:50:26 – 00:14:17:04
Tom and Bunny
I mean not that’s a hard, hard hit. It is a hard hit and the surgery is $20,000. So we’re already talking about refining our house. selling off our Harley and a car are doing a go fund me when we talk about Go Fund Me in the previous video, I was just more merely joking about it because me and Bonnie always give.

00:14:17:04 – 00:14:43:18
Tom and Bunny
We never asked for anything. We’ve never asked anyone of anything. But we also provide something of value for a lot of people listening. Not everyone, but a lot of people thank us from years ago today. Even today, when we go to hedonism, it’s not uncommon for ten different couples to come up and say, oh my God, your videos are why we’re here, or, thanking us.

00:14:43:21 – 00:15:05:14
Tom and Bunny
And I would casually tell people in our we might do a go fund me. So look for that. And we’re like, oh my God, you’ll pay for your surgery like that. And I’m like, it’s $20,000 and they’re like, will donate. And everyone was saying their donate. But you know what? Until you do it, I would hate to put out something and get zero.

00:15:05:17 – 00:15:27:24
Tom and Bunny
I want to thank everyone. That’s great in the world. But I also have reality. The, I know I maybe I have low self-esteem there. Well, yeah. And you know, a lot of people donate to GoFundMe, but they’re like to fix his penis. Yeah. I’m not going to doing it today. Or. The fact is, people people think that an implant is like breast implants.

00:15:27:24 – 00:15:53:21
Tom and Bunny
We’re just going to make them bigger. Enhancement and enhancement. No, it’s not to make it bigger. It’s not to enhance it. It’s to make it work. Right. So we she goes, so we got we go, can we get the number to Boston Scientific? They’re the ones who manufacture the implant. The implant I had was an Ames 700.

00:15:53:23 – 00:16:16:21
Tom and Bunny
It basically has two tubes up the side shafts, on one on each side of the urethra. And then it has a pump in the scrotum, and then it has a reservoir of saline in your pelvic area. And when you pump up, when you pump it, it draws, fluid from the reservoir into the two tubes. And there’s a one way check valve.

00:16:16:21 – 00:16:51:07
Tom and Bunny
And then when you want to release it, there’s a button on the manifold and on the pump, you push that and the reservoir actually has a vacuum because you’re drawing it out, not just pushing it out. And it pulls the fluid back into the reservoir. It’s a very simple, process. Yeah. And so we asked, can we, can we get the phone number to Boston Scientific because on our previous video, we told the doctor about the video and he was like shocked.

00:16:51:07 – 00:17:11:03
Tom and Bunny
He was like, oh my God, you have 9600 views in two months. And I’m like, yeah. And I said, my thought is, is let’s throw that at Boston Scientific. Because at the end of that video, we, we said we’re going to do an update, which we are here doing an update right now. And I said, I don’t want to make threats.

00:17:11:03 – 00:17:43:00
Tom and Bunny
I just want to say we were we are pro implant because I’ve had Ed since my 20s, we would love to do a glowing video to say, hey, I’ve been denied by insurance. But Boston Scientific stepped up and paid for the new surgery because it was only three years in my system when I was told 10 to 15 years, and just give the doctor the device and we’ll pay for the surgery.

00:17:43:00 – 00:18:10:20
Tom and Bunny
Right. I was looking for any, any option that we could. And if the doctor was like that, that may very well work, because implant manufacturers need people like me and Barney. Because he said, typically nobody talks about their junk to nobody, not even their wife. He’s typically the first person that they open up to. And he said that an implant manufacturer would love to have.

00:18:10:20 – 00:18:35:13
Tom and Bunny
He watched our video and absolutely loved it, laughed all the way through it. said we were very articulate and we explained it very well. He did give me more of an explanation on how the tubes are put in. He goes, I was reversed, but same thing, I was correct, I just gave a reverse, way of doing so.

00:18:35:16 – 00:19:06:15
Tom and Bunny
We, called Boston Scientific, and then Heather calls Bonnie. and that’s when we found out about, different insurances, employer insurances from right now, one of the things you definitely have to check to if, if you are in the same position that we are. Because now once we did that first video, people started coming out of the woodwork and letting us know that, hey, they were denied first, right?

00:19:06:15 – 00:19:36:15
Tom and Bunny
Or they are waiting on their approvals or somebody, people are waiting on approvals for like years in it. Not every state insurance approves it, right? We found out in Tennessee, psychological or physical are not covered under sexual functions. No. Yeah. So we found out real fast that our insurance excludes it doesn’t have an option. It excludes sexual function.

00:19:36:15 – 00:20:04:19
Tom and Bunny
Somebody immediately calls our assurance Rock. And she started looking at all the different insurance companies and plans. None of hers include sexual function. She goes, well, we might be able to find it. We’re going to pay a big premium. Oh, that. And now you’re back under it. damn it. I don’t know, so it’s going to fall under.

00:20:05:01 – 00:20:31:06
Tom and Bunny
previous. I have to hit her arm away. Oh, shit. So don’t pound it. Not right now. So anyway, before you do anything, call your insurance broker. Ask if your insurance policy covers sexual function. We did not even think we thought. It’s in our body. It’s part of our body. It’s. I mean, it’s not like eyes are teeth.

00:20:31:09 – 00:20:54:22
Tom and Bunny
It’s part of our body. Everything should be covered. And it’s not a preexisting condition in this instance. But if we were to get another insurance that covered, we would then have a preexisting. We would have to. Would you wait? You’d have to start all over and wait. What? At least. Yeah, at least a year. At least a year.

00:20:54:25 – 00:21:19:08
Tom and Bunny
So we were just oh my God, oh my God. I’m not going to wait two years. No. because we can’t even get new insurance till November or something. So just check and make sure if it doesn’t start pre-planning now before you go in for anything so you can make sure you have sexual function on your insurance. So when you do go into a urologist you have it on your insurance.

00:21:19:08 – 00:21:43:07
Tom and Bunny
So so let’s let’s just leave it exactly. All right. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to us. Now we, when we got the second an eye on everything. Well, Heather from Boston Scientific called Bonnie, and she’s more of the insurance, so she was going to reach out to call and see if there’s anything he could do.

00:21:43:09 – 00:22:01:12
Tom and Bunny
Right. And she did call me. And she said, you know, at this point, now we’ve got to have that denial letter. We needed the denial. She goes, once you get that denial letter, then we will we will take it and go with it and see what we can get covered for you. If anything, if anything. So we were expecting nothing.

00:22:01:12 – 00:22:20:04
Tom and Bunny
So. And of course, then it’s time to go away to Jamaica again. So we’re as we’re in Jamaica, you know, we’re I know mails coming in and and even when they sign off the denial letter would be in a four day. they’re going to mail out four days and we were going to be gone seven. So we were like okay, we’ll have it when we get home.

00:22:20:07 – 00:22:43:15
Tom and Bunny
So we come home and in the at least about 2 or 3 days, we finally got to our mail. Yeah, because we expected it. And I’ll let her and we figure there’s no rush on it now. and I thought a couple days after we got home, I’m like, maybe we should open it. Then, not a letter, and start sending it over to Boston Scientific to see if they can do anything.

00:22:43:18 – 00:23:07:18
Tom and Bunny
I know Boston Scientific is huge. They do stands. They do all kinds of medical devices. I’m just a little guy. Yes, a little guy. But I do have a big voice on here. Of course you do. So I mean, our video has been viewed 3.5 million video views. We don’t have a big subscriber following, but we don’t tell everyone to subscribe to us because your friends and family can see who you subscribe to.

00:23:07:24 – 00:23:38:23
Tom and Bunny
We never want anyone out themselves inadvertently. So as I, I get it and I’m opening it up. I’m fully expecting denied and opening up at like 455, four 3430. And I open it up and I’m like, is this the one for the other? Kokila because I’m seeing approved and we were clearly told we are denied. Now, mind you, we never got denial number one, nor did we get denial number two.

00:23:38:23 – 00:24:07:29
Tom and Bunny
And they dragged their feet that the first denial we got two weeks right after. Right? The second denial we didn’t. They submitted all the appeal 30 days. They’re saying we never got anything. So Kim the care coordinator, had to resubmit it. And then it was another 30 days before they had to do anything. So it is they were just dragging their feet.

00:24:08:01 – 00:24:30:26
Tom and Bunny
So I’m reading it and it says remove and replace, of a penile implant, a penile platinum like. But it says approved approved one denial zero. And I’m like, they messed up. They sent us the wrong letter. Maybe we can use this with the well, and then maybe we can say, oh, you made my clients all excited. And then you take it away from them.

00:24:31:03 – 00:25:00:03
Tom and Bunny
I was I was already in my mind thinking of options. Yes, yes. And then the dates didn’t match up. Yeah. They said that the, the surgery was from February 15th to April 15th. Meanwhile, the letter of the date is April 16th. And here we’re reading it on a, Oh, my God, April 29th. Yes. So we’re just like, all right, so the sketcher surgery date is already closed.

00:25:00:03 – 00:25:24:13
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. So I’m like, oh my God, I got approved. And then they’re going to deny me again. So we immediately call Doctor Calvert’s office. And of course, 530 430 M it usually goes to voicemail. We usually get a call back pretty quick, but not within 30 minutes. so we call the insurance and we called everyone. No one answered.

00:25:24:15 – 00:25:54:25
Tom and Bunny
The next morning, we got two calls. We got a call from Kim at Colbert’s office, and she was so ecstatic. And she had me take pictures of it, send it over. And when I sent it over, I said, if this is true, can we have surgery May 7th, eighth or ninth? Because that would perfectly fit our schedule because we’re going to be traveling June all the way through June, and I don’t want to wait till July and have them tonight in the process.

00:25:54:26 – 00:26:17:17
Tom and Bunny
Right? No, we didn’t want to wait. We don’t want to wait and give them a reason to deny it again. Right. So she’s she calls us immediately when she reads the email and she goes, I love your optimism. She goes, I don’t want to be a Debbie Downer. I, I just want to put it forward. Your request. She goes, you realize that that surgery is one week out from today.

00:26:17:19 – 00:26:39:18
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like, yeah, I said, doctor Calvert said he’s ready to go any time she goes, all right. That was kind of being facetious, saying, yeah, he’s ready to go, but we still got to go through insurance. We got to get an operating room lined up. We got to get the staff all the it. There’s so much more than just the doctors saying, let’s go.

00:26:39:20 – 00:27:13:06
Tom and Bunny
So, so we we like that’s okay. It’s okay. We are just being hopeful. So all of a sudden, she initially she calls back and says it is approved. She goes, they can’t even find the original denials. So I’m reading my letter and it said that my approval was an override to the previous denial by a doctor who has never reviewed my case before.

00:27:13:08 – 00:27:47:21
Tom and Bunny
And I thought, this is kind of weird that a doctor randomly looks at my case and approves it and overrides the denial. And I could think, because I’m hoping Boston Scientific with their contacts and it’s like they say, it’s not what you know, it’s who you know. I am. I they haven’t said nothing. I’m just hoping that maybe they made a few calls and someone said, let me take a look and says, oh yeah, yeah, he could definitely use this.

00:27:48:22 – 00:28:16:13
Tom and Bunny
so and we’re thankful, however it happened that that doctor reviewed re reviewed my case and overturned and said it was medically necessary for me. And you know what? It could have been where I added, do you know who I am? I’m Betsy. That’s exactly right. Don’t mess with me. But, realistically, what I heard in Jamaica last time is your town.

00:28:16:17 – 00:28:42:10
Tom and Bunny
You’re the guy with the broken penis. You know how many times we got and you’re like, yeah, that’s me. Wish where we were getting because I was able to pump it up a little bit. I’ll just tell a quick story. We went to another resort with some friends and they had a nude pool. And as I’m walking in the nude pool, she’s sitting on the steps and looks up at me and she goes, oh my God, you got it fixed.

00:28:42:10 – 00:29:07:02
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like, what are you talking about? She goes, you’re you’re drunk. And I’m like, no. And she goes, well, it looks like it’s fixed. I’m like, that’s how it always. And I and I have to say that same thing to somebody else. She’s like, well Tom got an erection. I’m like, no, we didn’t know. And she goes, no, no he didn’t erection in the pool.

00:29:07:02 – 00:29:31:14
Tom and Bunny
I’m like, did you? I’m like, did you feel what she’s like? No, but it was there and I’m like, that’s my I want to feel it. So, anyway, however that took place, I’m whoever I am, I want to thank the doctor. They they didn’t even list the name of the doctor. Just says a doctor that’s never reviewed your case before.

00:29:31:16 – 00:30:00:29
Tom and Bunny
Just randomly picked your case out of the millions and said he’s a new penis. So? So then the next call I like, do he? He needs a new penis. So the next call comes in about a half hour later. and it’s Kim, and she goes, so I have an honest question. I said, what’s wrong? This question, because we are an honest couple, we will answer anything honestly.

00:30:01:02 – 00:30:27:13
Tom and Bunny
Maybe you’ve not answered or if it’s none of your business, but if it is something that can help you or assist you and we feel free, we will always answer honestly. She goes, if I were to be able to get you in Tuesday, May 7th at noon for the operation, would you promise not to be a no show?

00:30:27:13 – 00:30:49:14
Tom and Bunny
Meaning you are going to guarantee you will be here? And I’m like, no. Yes. Meanwhile, I could hear Bonnie over there because we were going to Vegas and we’re supposed to fly back on Tuesday, the day of the surgery, and she’s rescheduling it for Monday. And Kim’s like, the only problem is we need to get blood work before the surgery.

00:30:49:14 – 00:31:11:17
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like, I will drive down to Nashville right now. And so she’s like, we were leaving the following day because we were leaving the very next morning. So she set it up. She goes, come at 2:00, we’ll get your blood work and everything. And so yeah, we went there and got all that done and surgery went very, very well.

00:31:13:07 – 00:31:44:29
Tom and Bunny
the whole surgical staff was just really super nice. Everyone in that hospital, I think most everyone that walked in my room had seen our previous video. because if they if they brought it up, I would say, yeah, I if they did, I’d be like, did you see my video? And they’re like, yeah. So it was kind of funny that, everyone had seen the video and like the last one, she was asking me all kinds of lifestyle questions.

00:31:45:05 – 00:32:09:09
Tom and Bunny
She was cute, too. She she was really cute. So, anyway, everything went good, as far as I knew, but what I didn’t know is Doctor Calvert talked about it. Did he come out and see you or he didn’t? He came out this last time they did over the phone. Oh, no. No, him and him and Cole came out to see me and told me that everything went very, very well.

00:32:09:12 – 00:32:33:27
Tom and Bunny
Okay. But what did he tell you? Because I only. What do you mean way that you say it like so. Well, everyone. Okay, so the a lot of the comments I was getting was, was I getting a sex change. So my reply was always back, yes, I’m going back to a male. Are are you getting an enlargement? And I would do the little coy eyes because I was just joking.

00:32:33:29 – 00:33:02:12
Tom and Bunny
No, I was getting the 700. My previous doctor had told me that you’re born with what you’re born with, and they’ll stretch it out and put as long of tubes as they can in there. But that’s the best they can do. so Doctor Calvert comes out since Bunny obviously doesn’t remember, but I do is he told her that he was able to put larger 2 to 2cm, which is almost a full inch longer.

00:33:02:17 – 00:33:22:00
Tom and Bunny
Now you know what it it we clearly know that it should have been done back in the beginning just because of just because of our sexual activity. And, and we would be at and I’d be like, hey, you’ve got to finish, you got to pump it up more, pump it up more, because she could feel it, but maybe it was leaking at the time.

00:33:22:00 – 00:33:43:04
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, we don’t know because, we’ll do another follow up on that on its own video. So people who have the implants are going to get an implant that they can look for signs. And, you know, the crazy thing was this once he told me that, I was like, oh, I’m thinking Tom’s going to be very happy. It’s going to be static when he wakes up.

00:33:43:12 – 00:34:09:23
Tom and Bunny
And then he leaves and I’m like, I forgot to ask what caused it. So I had to call back. I had to call cam. And within a half an hour, Doctor Calvert called me back in and explained to me exactly what happened. Basically, I was showing it off too much and I overused that. I’m apparently 10 to 15 year of normal use versus three years of lifestyle views.

00:34:10:02 – 00:34:32:23
Tom and Bunny
use. It’s like dog years for every year. It’s seven years. Yeah. But you so my. All right. Could have been. We have discussed this one in the past. We are like the absolute worst lifestyle we are. We really are. But we are very sexual beings ourselves. And we literally have some type of sexual function at least once a day.

00:34:32:25 – 00:34:58:10
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. I don’t know what’s normal. It’s normal once a week. Well, something once every two weeks. Once every two months, once every six months. Once every year. But people in the lifestyle tend not. People think the lifestyle is all about meeting other people for play, right? It’s really just because we’re just very sexually attracted to each other and we’re just sexually active.

00:34:58:16 – 00:35:23:06
Tom and Bunny
And being in the lifestyle is fun to include other people. Y’all go out to. If you’re not in the lifestyle, don’t knock us. Because if you go out to a movie with your neighbors or coworkers or your best friends, it’s the same as us going to a nightclub and knocking boots. Just a different way of doing it. Okay, then.

00:35:23:09 – 00:35:56:20
Tom and Bunny
No, I’m just saying they have their way. I’m not. I someone have their way and lifestyles have their way. But you also got to know you’re a good clear cut case for Boston Scientific to think, oh, there are other people in this world that use there’s a lot more than a normal case, right. To maybe like extra tubing on the current tubing so that they last a little bit longer than 10 to 15 years.

00:35:56:20 – 00:36:19:22
Tom and Bunny
No more use. And you got two and a half. So I did look up on TikTok and I did see a larger. So he said that he was able to put one in that’s two centimeters longer. Now I don’t know if that’s the As 700. It’s just that has the tube. Some guys are four inches, some are six, some are ten, some are one or whatever.

00:36:19:28 – 00:36:42:21
Tom and Bunny
So they have different tube lengths for different guys. They could have just put longer tubes though, for all I know. I do know that I did see, but it didn’t say it was Boston Scientific and it did not say it was the 700. It just says they were thicker and longer. And when they pumped it up, sure enough, the girth got bigger and the length was about an inch longer than that.

00:36:42:23 – 00:37:05:03
Tom and Bunny
And they had a side by side of a normal tube. And then this one, I hope to God they put the other one in because it’ll make it girthy or and longer. Oh Lord, how many likes girth? Oh Lord have mercy. Oh, but hell yeah, yeah, I’m all for that. Now, the doctor on that video and I’m just, oh wait wait wait, I do have to sing.

00:37:05:09 – 00:37:26:17
Tom and Bunny
I do remember one important thing that Doctor Calvert told me when he was leaving. And you didn’t tell me? Yes. He said to not touch it. Do not touch. It’s yours. I’ll see you in three weeks. And he goes. Do not touch it. Ha ha ha ha! Don’t worry now. Going to right now. It’s all bruised.

00:37:26:19 – 00:37:59:21
Tom and Bunny
I mean, it looks like someone might use it as a punching bag. but. Yeah, the one thing, though, on the length and girth one, if it is in fact that particular model, the doctor said that it takes 12 months of use pumping it up and retracting it before and expanding everything before you will notice the length girth, because you’re normally at this size, and now it’s pushing it a little farther and a little wider.

00:37:59:25 – 00:38:31:15
Tom and Bunny
So yeah, God help me if that’s the one. Yes. Well, it but we did know that from the previous surgery because it did take a long time. It took about a year to get back to, to get back to my normal length. So some people will ask, what is your normal length? When I first got the surgery done, I was kid you not the most I was was about the size of my thumb after surgery.

00:38:31:17 – 00:38:59:14
Tom and Bunny
Before surgery, I was between 7 and 8 depending on excitement. Correct? Would you agree with that? Yep. Okay, so after surgery I was like, oh man, two inches. Yeah. And I kept pumping it and I’m like, oh my god. I went into a depression and his doctor kept telling him, you gotta give it time and think of it as a balloon, like blowing up a balloon.

00:38:59:17 – 00:39:18:11
Tom and Bunny
You expand it and it’s really hard to blow those tiny ones at first. And but then when you get it and you release it and you blow it up again, it gets easier and easier and easier. You can go bigger and bigger. That’s the way the implant functioned. I don’t know if it’s how it was intended or how it works on other people, but that was how it functioned on me.

00:39:20:21 – 00:39:48:07
Tom and Bunny
it we didn’t really use it for, I want to say about three months. Right. Because the kids, Doctor White was the previous doctor. He kept telling, no, you’re not ready. Nope. You’re not ready. Expand it, retract it. and, and from what I have heard and what we’ve read, it all depends on how you heal.

00:39:48:09 – 00:40:10:05
Tom and Bunny
It depends on your physicality and how well you take care of it. Exactly. So, I did have I got a bunch of messages from, recent TikTok little tiny video we did just before I went into surgery. It was just the 22nd. Get ready to go under the knife and finally said it was for my penile implant, remove and replace.

00:40:10:05 – 00:40:39:12
Tom and Bunny
And it’s had 600,000 views. I said, have I set up Bill Tom’s trips into that little video? But, oh, I forgot where I was going with that. We were talking about length finger. Yeah, I forgot what’s going on with that. I don’t even know how long we’ve been talking. Oh, I remember, so, we’re currently at 39 minutes, so this can be an hour long.

00:40:39:14 – 00:41:06:13
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, because you like to talk about your junk. I do like to talk about my tongue. So, one, I got a lot of messages. I got messages on Tik Tok because of that little video, but we’ve gotten a lot of messages from the YouTube video. And one of the questions from Tik Tok was, he’s getting an implant in about a week, and then he, and his wife, him and his wife are going to healing is, in six weeks.

00:41:06:19 – 00:41:30:02
Tom and Bunny
Will he be ready to use it? he goes, so I’ll be ready to use mine at six weeks. And I’m like, hey, because you got two tubes up the shaft of your junk. all that has to heal inside. I mean, that is abused in there. You don’t see how much damage was done to the tissue or anything.

00:41:30:05 – 00:41:54:19
Tom and Bunny
You can, I, I replied back, I’m like, you could do whatever you want to do. I personally chose to wait and Doctor Calvert watched our first video and he clearly when I said we waited like, I don’t know, three, six months, he goes, you are more spot on. He goes, why risk it? And why damage yourself? Are the implant because all that has to heal inside.

00:41:54:20 – 00:42:19:01
Tom and Bunny
Well, and plus the fact that when we did start it, it was a little painful, right? So, you know, as a wife and your lover, we take it a little easier. Yeah. Yeah. You’re more cautious. You go break me for no go at your pace. Do what you can do. I’ve seen Bonnie tell other women. Don’t break it.

00:42:19:03 – 00:42:52:09
Tom and Bunny
Don’t break it. Oh, mama bear. Okay. No, about that. You don’t know what we’ve been through. This coming for 39 years. We’ve been married 39 years. May 24th in two weeks. Yeah, on the 24th, I get my other Kokila. Yes. surgery. So. Well, we’re actually going to follow. We’re going to go back to, we’re going to step back a little bit because that gentleman is going to Jamaica.

00:42:52:12 – 00:43:20:22
Tom and Bunny
We also go back to Jamaica on June 13th. But will we or will we not get back in the water? It all really depends on incision on and especially on what Doctor Calvert says. Right. Because it doesn’t matter. It’s just, the nerd pool gets a lot of use over all the other pools. some people say that it gets cloudy from the side of the screen.

00:43:20:23 – 00:43:47:27
Tom and Bunny
Other people say other things, but all I know is I don’t want any firm where the stitches were. Any scabs from the healing process. If there is even a single scab, I will not walk into that pool just because that’s the last place you want an infection. Exactly. Yeah, and definitely no salt water and no salt water. No, you definitely don’t need any bacterial in that.

00:43:47:27 – 00:44:08:16
Tom and Bunny
You got to keep it as clean as humanly possible. Right. And listen to your doctor and follow every word of his or her advice. Well, oh, and you know the other thing I’m going to I’m flipping around again on the other gentleman that said that he wants to go to Quito and play right afterwards, what about getting a condom on?

00:44:08:19 – 00:44:32:12
Tom and Bunny
That would hurt like hell. Well, after after six weeks, I I’m guessing it would probably hurt me. One of the problems with, having an implant is, you know, everyone can put a condom over their head, and they put it over all over down there, all the way to their elbow. And they all say, yeah, guys say that they can’t get it on when with the implant.

00:44:32:12 – 00:45:00:11
Tom and Bunny
It’s so rigid because those tubes don’t really have any flex whatsoever. So when you put I mean I so magnums fit and they turn my whole south brighter than my shirt. Yes the whole thing, it’s just skin tone. But when I pull it off it looks like my shirt. So it’s too tight. Magnum. Extra large is too big.

00:45:00:14 – 00:45:29:14
Tom and Bunny
So I’m in that gray area. I know there’s that company that makes them to your exact size, and I probably should look at those, and could you measure the circumference and the length and then they send you your exact measurements. Exactly. So I think they’re made by one. Yes. Oh. Any now and you know, for us, like I said, yes, we’re very excited to get back to, a sexual function.

00:45:29:21 – 00:45:53:17
Tom and Bunny
You know, we always say we cross the road when we get to it or cross the bridge when we get to it. But you know what? At 56, this was not the bridge to stop having sexual relations, right? I married my best friend. He’s my husband. He’s my lover, my confidant in that, you know, that it’s the path that we take together.

00:45:53:17 – 00:46:16:07
Tom and Bunny
And it. We’re not ready to give that up yet. No, we have had friends say, oh, when it’s done, it’s done. No, no. Well, they say that because it’s not done right now. anyone out there could go. Oh, well, when it’s my time. No, stop saying that because you’re going to be in a total different mindset when your stuff doesn’t work.

00:46:16:10 – 00:46:41:18
Tom and Bunny
I mean, big mindset. and, and if you don’t live the same type of life as we do, you still need to speak to your wife about it, talk to your doctor about it, because you need everybody in your corner, right, to to function with this particular surgery. Don’t just it’s about the fact, oh, I’ve got bed and nothing’s going to work for me.

00:46:41:22 – 00:47:04:29
Tom and Bunny
No, there are things that will work for you. You just need to reach out to talk to people that you know. How many people didn’t even know an implant existed for men? I’ll lie. I’ve got a lot of messages going. I didn’t know those existed. I got one from a surgical nurse saying that she was in the surgical for the, rigid implants, not the pump one.

00:47:05:01 – 00:47:22:01
Tom and Bunny
I didn’t know that. The wrench, it came out before the pump, but obviously one had come from the other. And she had never heard of the pump one. So she messaged me and said, I’ve I’ve been in the operating room on the wretched ones. I didn’t even know there was a pump. I don’t know how the richest ones work I have.

00:47:22:05 – 00:47:46:23
Tom and Bunny
I don’t even know what they look like. Doesn’t sound like it’s fun. Does doesn’t. but if. Here’s our clear cut advice and like I said, we’re just talking about what’s going on right now. Right now they are. They cut me across the pelvic bone. Yep. That’s where the original doctor went. And I said, hey, to the new Doctor Calvert.

00:47:46:23 – 00:48:12:08
Tom and Bunny
And I said, hey, he went this way, and I could feel the tubes going over my pelvic bone, down into the scrotum, into the palm. And it’s uncomfortable, especially if I cross my leg or sit wrong. And you would you would scream, I would, I jump, go. And she was like, what’s wrong? nothing. But now he goes, well, there are tubes.

00:48:12:08 – 00:48:34:01
Tom and Bunny
There is a reservoir, there’s a pump. There’s, all this stuff going on. And I said, I, I understand, I just it was just you, you could see it through the skin. It was just so high up. So he goes, well, the way he’s going to do it is he’s going to go through the top original scar, but he’s also going to cut into the scrotum.

00:48:34:20 – 00:48:57:01
Tom and Bunny
and you know what? I don’t feel those tubes. So maybe when I talked to him, he was under a better understanding. And he. And the pump is before was really high up. Now it’s really low. Yeah, yeah. So I think it’ll be easier to operate. And he kept he in all of his videos. He says that you need to grab the pump and pull it down.

00:48:57:04 – 00:49:26:02
Tom and Bunny
Your other doctor never did that. So you’re saying hi. And that could have been what fault with that? Because it could have been kinking and but yeah, majorly bruised right now. They did surgical glue on the pelvic, but they did stitches on my scrotum. but let me tell you, the, he has absolutely no, no swelling, but we have been taking it so incredibly easy.

00:49:26:06 – 00:49:56:09
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. I mean, we now live in a two story house. They said that the stairs wouldn’t bother him, but literally come up to go to bed. Yeah, and go back downstairs. But other than that, it has been taking it very, very easy. And that’s the biggest thing. You’ve got to just shut yourself down until you heal. Yeah. So I another, comment I had was, a gentleman just had his done and his was same problem as me.

00:49:56:09 – 00:50:18:22
Tom and Bunny
It just stopped working. No reason. No, no. Why. And he was waiting over a year, year and a half. And he finally got his done a week before. This gives me a week before mine. Now his doctor replaced the tubes and the shaft and the pump, but left the reservoir in his pelvic, but just kind of secured it.

00:50:18:24 – 00:50:42:11
Tom and Bunny
My doctor, I asked him about that and he goes, well, he goes, why take the risk? Because if you are leaking fluid, oh, that meant fluids were able to come in. And he goes, I just personally wouldn’t want to take the risk of anything being contaminated on a closed system. Exactly. So he goes, I’m going to replace everything unless you don’t want me to.

00:50:42:11 – 00:51:03:24
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like, no, no, no, I, I, I’m in it to win it. I want you to do what you do best. I am not here. I was just asking why would his doctor do that? And he goes, they all have their reasons and there’s no right or wrong reason. I say there is because by replacing everything, I feel more comfortable that I’m not going to be.

00:51:03:24 – 00:51:27:24
Tom and Bunny
And sooner rather than later. Exactly. Right now, one thing that he did explain to me too, is we didn’t even discuss what they figure it out. What caused it. Basically what he said. I have more information when we go into next week, so that’s why we’re going to do another follow up. So this is basically what he told me in my, my, oblivious explanation back the two tubes that run up the shaft.

00:51:27:24 – 00:51:53:10
Tom and Bunny
They do have little wires that run through those that connect to the pump, he said. It’s basically like a starter. You get so much time on it and those little wires will wear out. And that is what is happening. It like a yeah. So he said, basically what they found in you is that you had the same exact, issue as if you just used it too much.

00:51:53:12 – 00:52:19:16
Tom and Bunny
And like that. He said that he, they found the failure within the tubes that is synonymous with the 10 to 15 year mark. Okay. So so that explains some of that. Well, that’s where we said, yeah, they’ve got to understand that not everybody is having sexual relations only once a week or every other week. Every every day cuts down that lifespan.

00:52:19:18 – 00:52:41:09
Tom and Bunny
It does. And so I had I had another message come in and he was waiting two years for the VA and he got his approved. And I think he’s still in his next week. he just got his done too. So it was all just in succession. All three of us. This is the one in Kentucky I believe so.

00:52:41:13 – 00:53:04:24
Tom and Bunny
And they they’re going to replace everything. But it took I think it was more of a scheduling issue with him, but the VA covered it. That’s good. That’s really good. I told Tom link, I’m like, you just got to wait nine years. You’re gonna make it last nine years. So for me that that’s and Medicare will cover it.

00:53:06:06 – 00:53:37:15
Tom and Bunny
my my big take on all this is I’ve had Ed since my mid 20s. Is it my fault? No. is anyone’s fault. No. It’s just like somebody losing their hearing or going blind or just growing old. It’s inevitable it will happen. It’s just some people. It never happens too. I always say, if you don’t have Ed, more power to you, we applaud you and be proud.

00:53:37:18 – 00:54:01:23
Tom and Bunny
There is no reason to put down someone who does have Ed like sucks to be, you know. Yeah, I hear saying that because we hear this all the time and it’s not a funny comment. Well and then it’s, it’s a douchebag comment. It is. And whether it be a from a male or a female, because within our lifestyle we hear it from the females also.

00:54:01:24 – 00:54:24:04
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Oh my gosh, I don’t play with that guy. He can’t get an erection. Yeah. Oh I just want to slap them because they just don’t understand. And you know what? Yes. Tom can get an erection with me for a few minutes and then it goes. Then it goes flat. But you know somebody else, you know, they don’t know.

00:54:24:04 – 00:54:51:06
Tom and Bunny
They don’t know. Because that’s going through my head that it’s not going to last very long and. Right. But then, so it doesn’t matter if it’s a douchebag or a douchebag woman. Right. Either one. So I mean, just I mean, be supportive of those who have it because it is just, a disabling it can very debilitating. I want to I want to almost put it out there like you do with your hearing.

00:54:51:08 – 00:55:10:23
Tom and Bunny
When people mess with you about your hearing, you always say, would you kick a pill? Would you kick a person in a wheelchair? Yeah. So why would you? Why would you make fun of my hearing? Or why would you make fun of somebody having Ed? But there are people that just can’t go through life without making themselves feel better by putting someone else down.

00:55:10:25 – 00:55:29:27
Tom and Bunny
So with that said, I don’t want to dwell on that. It’s just it’s a no. It’s just a fact of life. It happens. Well, it’s just annoying. And sometimes people just absorb it and we want to put it out there. I know I’ll get comments. We do, we do block and we do delete the comments. We don’t need those people in our lives.

00:55:29:27 – 00:56:03:05
Tom and Bunny
I don’t even know why they feel the need to take the time it took to make the comment, because I’m going to delete it anyways. Why? Why? Just go on, move on. If you if you don’t like it Berkus, don’t subscribe and don’t follow us, just move on. With that all said, if you are taking the blue or yellow pill or doing the injections, especially if you’re doing the tri max injections, start talking to your urologist yesterday.

00:56:03:07 – 00:56:30:15
Tom and Bunny
Yes, don’t worry about the implant. Start researching. Start documenting. People have been on the blue pill for years. Fine. Great. But there are a lot of people we’ve talked to. But with me, the blue pill stopped working, the yellow pill stopped working, and the tri mics stopped working. It’s not, be all for everyone. My body just Denton.

00:56:30:22 – 00:56:53:20
Tom and Bunny
All right. Hello. And on the flip side, if you are a lot younger and you’re taking the tri mics or you’re taking those pills for sport, you don’t need them with your spouse, but you need them for sport. You need to stop taking it. Otherwise you’re going to be sitting where we are in the next in years. Yeah, because it will inadvertently mess with your arm.

00:56:55:01 – 00:57:13:20
Tom and Bunny
junk. Where I have to believe it. Damage as well. God forbid if they get that four hour erection, they have to go to er. They’re going to be doing a lot more than that. And implant. Yeah. They slice you open to drain the blood. So you don’t want to do that. You don’t want to take that step.

00:57:13:20 – 00:57:33:22
Tom and Bunny
You see people cringing right now. Don’t take it for sports. Trust me. Right. So what do we got here you are almost an hour. Oh my God. I thought it was going to be just a 30 minute. I know we kind of babbled and we got to the end. There’s more to even talk about. Yes, there is, but,

00:57:33:25 – 00:58:01:02
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, just after two denials and expecting a denial letter and getting an approval letter, emotions were all over, bouncing off walls and everything because we couldn’t get Ahold of anybody to confirm or deny the approval. But once Kim got Ahold of them, then they said, well, we don’t even see the denials, but we got an approval here.

00:58:01:04 – 00:58:27:13
Tom and Bunny
She accepted that and to have my surgery a week later, I get all. I’ll be honest though, the first one, it was a breeze. The second one, I started to get a little nervous, because I didn’t really remember the first one because it it wasn’t that painful. I mean, I did take oxy for the first day and a half, and I weaned myself off of it.

00:58:27:13 – 00:58:56:24
Tom and Bunny
I haven’t been on it since. And we are at how many days? This is Saturday? Six days. Tuesday, five days. Five days. So after a couple days, I wind myself off, and I don’t. I mean, every now and then, like, if I get out of my Jeep and my Jeep selected, I get up too fast. I got to remind myself to get up a little slower, set a little slower, just because I’m stretching different muscles in areas that were cut, I will recommend.

00:58:57:01 – 00:59:20:13
Tom and Bunny
I mean, we love our Bama immensely. She almost went out the window the day when if you have a big dog or a cat or dog that likes to jump in your lap, you might want to caution yourself to constrain the dog because Bama jumped on my lap and I mean, I almost threw her across the jeep because that hurt.

00:59:20:17 – 00:59:47:24
Tom and Bunny
Oh yeah, no kidding her. She just want to curl up and sleep in his lap while I drove. So anyway, we’re going to do other videos between the update. I know we really haven’t been doing much because we just went to Vegas and oh, two weeks I have my other surgery and then we go to a week later, we go to Sooners swing in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

00:59:48:01 – 01:00:13:08
Tom and Bunny
But while we’re here for two weeks, we do plan on putting out some more travel tip videos, lifestyle videos, and just more. We might even talk about my junk a little more because I love talking about my junk. And he does talk about it at home all the time. I do, I do, yes. I mean, I’m just ecstatic we got it.

01:00:13:11 – 01:00:33:09
Tom and Bunny
It was the best thing ever, ever. All right, so until our next video, don’t forget, we do everything we do on video, we do on podcast, on all the major podcast sites, so you can listen to us in the car, in the gym, on the toilet, whatever you want to do. And on video. We know people.

01:00:33:09 – 01:00:56:15
Tom and Bunny
We get pictures of them watching us on their big screen TVs in their living room. Some of you guys I know, I remember sending them a picture of that, either way, hey, like our stuff, but send us a comment. if it’s podcast, we don’t really get comments there, but you can go to Tom and bunny.com. I’ll put it up on the screen.

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We’re not that it means anything. Our opinion doesn’t mean no, it doesn’t. It’s just an opinion. Just like any other influencer out there, there’s just opinions. They’re not to be all of the lifestyle. So not at all. No. So all right, until next time. We’ll see you soon. We’ll see you soon.

 

Vibe Party Recap with Tom and Bunny

Vibe Party Recap with Tom and Bunny

Tom and Bunny recap their recent weekend at the Vibe Party hotel takeover in Murfreesboro Tennessee and update on their upcoming trips with Tom’s Trips with Hedo Hotshots at Hedonism in Jamaica, Bi-events Bi Out in Las Vegas, Sooner Swing camping trip in Tulsa Oklahoma, Kasidie Krush at Hedonism in Jamaica, Northaven Resort in Brooklyn Michigan and our two events back at Hedonism Resort with our Sunny Buns and Bi Week.

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Transcript

00:00:00:00 – 00:00:23:07
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here and I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos in the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips.com, or give us a call at 1-800-285-0853 and I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:23:07 – 00:00:48:08
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone. We’re Tom and Bonnie from Tom and Barnicle coming to you live from the Nashville area of Tennessee. And we were representing Tom’s trips, your leader and adult lifestyle travel to destinations all around the world and more by attending the Vibe Party in Murfreesboro, Tennessee this past weekend. You know what? We haven’t really been out very much besides going to Jamaica ready to go.

00:00:48:13 – 00:01:15:19
Tom and Bunny
And, it was certainly great to get our feet wet and get in there and have fun again. Yeah, because the what are we in April, middle of April going on middle of April. And we have been at Hayden is January, February, March and we’re going back next week. So it’s kind of a nice change to get to a local place.

00:01:15:19 – 00:01:33:01
Tom and Bunny
And we have a couple more events that we’re going to be going to that we’ll talk about at the end of this video. So if you want to follow us, come out and join us. So we, got the invite to be part of the Vibe Tribe while we are in, hedonism. for the Miss No swimsuit.

00:01:33:06 – 00:01:56:22
Tom and Bunny
And I think that we’ve actually probably found a home. We did find a home. Now we have band, vibe one other time, and it was probably about six years ago, maybe five, five and a half years ago when we first started with Tom’s trips. We went to a Halloween party at vibe, and we we were kind of busy the whole time.

00:01:56:22 – 00:02:21:24
Tom and Bunny
So we we enjoyed ourselves, but not like this weekend. Right now. We did have a lot of help. Yeah. My goodness. They really, pretty much held her hand and introduced us to everybody that they knew and so it was really, really good. My kidneys have been hosting for Tom’s trips for 14 years. long before we started.

00:02:21:26 – 00:02:52:22
Tom and Bunny
And they go to Trapeze Atlanta and they go to five parties. So they also go to, a couple other ones. But those are the two that they’re most well known. and believe me, they have a great presence, vibe. Everybody who is anybody who wasn’t anybody who was somebody they all knew Mike and Andy, he’s and Mike and and he’s personally brought them and introduced us.

00:02:52:24 – 00:03:12:17
Tom and Bunny
And that made our jobs a lot easier. Well, and the gist of it made the fact of getting to meet people a lot easier to it’s always great when you have somebody that kind of helps you out a little bit. Yeah. I mean, even as long as we’ve been in this life, it’s great to have friends to meet other friends, right?

00:03:12:19 – 00:03:48:15
Tom and Bunny
See, I say right a lot. You do literally, literally. So, no. now vibe had a new location. They did have a new location. Now, that ironic part is when me and buddy were transporting RVs for a while when Covid hit, and we had nothing better to do except try to make money, we would stay at the hotel that vibe was hosting at, and we always thought while we were staying there, it wasn’t a lot of people at the hotel.

00:03:48:19 – 00:04:09:25
Tom and Bunny
No, no, it’s an older hotel, but it’s big. It’s huge. And we thought, man, what a great place to have a lifestyle event at. And and you know, I mentioned that to and to the owners of vibe. I don’t know if I can mention their names, but I did mention that to them. And she’s like, you know, we’ve been trying to get this location for over seven years.

00:04:10:03 – 00:04:39:03
Tom and Bunny
What a great location. And let me tell you what a great way to blow it out. I mean, blow party. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it was it was a great, great weekend. Yeah. So you want real quick you want to give there. information for vibe parties. I just oh I, we, we had to restart the video. So if you want, Google our research vibe while you’re watching our video or after.

00:04:39:03 – 00:05:05:18
Tom and Bunny
And I’m going to put their web address throughout the video. And at the end of the video, it’s parties by vibe.com pa t I s b b I b e.com. And if you’re listening to us on a podcast, you’re welcome to jump over to our YouTube channel. And if you’re watching us on YouTube, you can listen to us on podcasts.

00:05:05:18 – 00:05:29:17
Tom and Bunny
We are Tom and Bonnie everywhere on social media, Instagram and Twitter, so be sure to like and subscribe there. Now, I won’t make you start all over. Thank you. So you know the week it vibe is a hotel takeover. Yes. And they do have a their parties on Friday night and on Saturday night. So you’re getting the most bang for your buck for the whole weekend.

00:05:29:17 – 00:06:06:20
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. And Friday night started off with spring break and Saturday night was blow in two. Totally different two totally different vibes. Yes. You like I threw that in there. And they had two different deejays, one on Friday and one on Saturday. So the music kind of correlated with each one. Yeah. So going with the spring break or now, me, I’m finding we like more of the top 40 music and music that you hear on the radio or that you can bump around to Friday night.

00:06:06:20 – 00:06:30:22
Tom and Bunny
The deejay had the dance floor packed and he was playing all those cool songs that we used to play at our club, right. It was kind of like a big mix of what we used to play. And yeah, it was like threw about a lot back, a lot of memories. Yeah. He, he was a phenomenal DJ. We we were really, really, really impressed.

00:06:30:22 – 00:06:54:15
Tom and Bunny
And just the dance for never quit. And then, the spring break party, everyone was kind of just wearing it was they said dress like you would if you were on spring break. So you had people in shorts and bikini thongs. So what? so it was very, very simple and easy to wear. I what did I wear?

00:06:54:20 – 00:07:15:25
Tom and Bunny
Oh, I have a little white outfit that I usually wear to Hedo. And I actually pulled that one out and wore it. Oh, yeah. It’s, Victoria’s Secret. It’s like, it’s a it’s actually a bathing suit cover, but but it, you know, she looks naked, right? So. And she was bathing. I am naked under it. Yeah. You weren’t wearing a bathing suit under it, so,

00:07:15:27 – 00:07:49:07
Tom and Bunny
No. Then there was a lot of people that that are regulars there, and they all had their, airbrushed t shirts. Yeah. 20, 20 from those people. And they kept coming over. So that was really cool because I kept saying, yeah, you must all went to the same airbrush. But no, I was very, very impressed. not only by the way, the parties are ran by the size of it, but just the people were just really super nice.

00:07:49:08 – 00:08:13:18
Tom and Bunny
They were really, really, really nice. They were very young. yeah, a lot more younger than us. But they still talk to us old people. They did. Maybe they didn’t think that we are so old. Hopefully. You know, you kept asking me if you looked younger. I was trying then, the nice thing about the location of the vibe party is the proximity to restaurants.

00:08:13:21 – 00:08:37:02
Tom and Bunny
Ubers. Ubers are, in abundance. they’re they’re we went to, restaurant for, brunch, on Saturday. On Saturday. And there was a restaurant in the parking lot. I don’t want to give too much details because I’m not sure, people need to book to get the information. So I don’t want to give away the dedicado.

00:08:37:02 – 00:08:58:28
Tom and Bunny
Exactly. Not. So, yeah. there’s a Walmart right across the street that pretty much everything you need, you can almost walk to if you really want to. We went to Walmart, and next we ended up walking back. Yeah. But no. And then let’s talk about Saturday night because Saturday night glow parties are always my talk about Saturday day.

00:08:59:04 – 00:09:25:08
Tom and Bunny
Oh yes, Saturday day and all the pool party that they did and all the activities. Yes. So our, miss no swimsuit contest that she took second place. they, her and her husband hosted a pool party from one to. It was only supposed to be a couple hours, but I heard it went till 6:00 at night and the party started at 8:00 at night.

00:09:25:11 – 00:09:47:02
Tom and Bunny
So the party got a little started a little later. So. Yeah. No, I know that they did a wet t shirt contest. I believe they did a wet underwear contest, a wet underwear contest. Hey, I let the guys get out there and oh, it was guys. Oh, the girls never came. No. Just kidding. it was packed. It was very packed.

00:09:47:04 – 00:10:14:10
Tom and Bunny
Yes, it was very packed. but, no, they did an amazing job doing their their games and getting people involved. Yeah. So. But I did see a couple on the wet t T-shirt. Some of the people are like, just like, here, here’s your shirt. Okay, okay. But that’s what happens when you’re friends. Yeah. You kind of get the ball and hold volunteers for I don’t know if they got Volun told.

00:10:14:10 – 00:10:34:18
Tom and Bunny
I was just watching from a distance, but it was it was fun to watch. Definitely for sure. If you’re wondering why buddy keeps looking at me, if you’re watching on YouTube, it’s because I’m technically deaf, so I have to see people. But since he’s this close, I can actually hear her. So yeah, and typically when I talk to Tom, I’m always looking at his face so he can read my lips.

00:10:34:18 – 00:10:57:26
Tom and Bunny
She likes my pretty face. I do, I do. He’s very handsome. But no, no, I want to talk about Saturday night because Glow Party is my absolute favorite. No matter where we go. Glow party is by far Bunnys ultimate favorite theme. it’s easy to dress to. The music is always pumping, so yeah, it’s more upbeat. Techno is.

00:10:57:28 – 00:11:26:16
Tom and Bunny
So now that DJ on Saturday night came in and he played all of the hottest house in dance music that you can imagine. Yeah, he had that place bumpin. Yeah, he was actually he was a really great deejay. I was going to say good DJ. He. No, he was really a great deejay. Both days were awesome. And they both cater to two different types of genre and we we couldn’t have been more happier.

00:11:26:18 – 00:11:52:05
Tom and Bunny
no. And don’t forget, you know, they come in there and they take a hotel lobby area. That’s nothing. It’s a blank canvas is a blank canvas. And they make it into a nightclub for one weekend. And the glow stuff around it, they put up the black walls with yellow glow paint on them. And heck, just a DJ upstairs.

00:11:52:07 – 00:12:15:10
Tom and Bunny
what would it be called? I don’t even there. They had a shadow box up there. They had a dance pull up there down below. They had two dance poles. Then they had the big area that looked like a rock concert with all the lighting and their huge truss sister truss system, their dance floor didn’t. They had a cage.

00:12:15:13 – 00:12:45:13
Tom and Bunny
Not only was the dance floor like tiles that were stuck together, they were nice and soft. Yeah. So when you were out there dancing, it wasn’t like you were trying to, like, dance on a hard floor and slip everywhere. It was really right. It worked out perfectly well. But I will have to say that that was probably by far the most black lights that I have ever seen at a Glow party, and that’s what makes it Glow party success.

00:12:45:15 – 00:13:13:06
Tom and Bunny
Everybody was glowing. Yes. Even if you wore a pale colors you were still glowing. No. There were some some awesome outfits. Now I tell you what I was sitting back watching and I was just kind of cracking up and laughing because watching the the crowd was reminded me so much of way back in our day when we would go to the lifestyle convention in Las Vegas.

00:13:13:06 – 00:13:38:05
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Oh yeah, we were about that age and man, we were up at like, well, we’re up about 11:00 in the morning and we were going until about nine in the morning. Right. And that’s what they were doing. They start over again. No. You know what though? What we didn’t see because unfortunately, we went did go a little bit, a little bit early on Saturday night.

00:13:38:05 – 00:13:59:05
Tom and Bunny
They had an after hours party too. So up on that area where they had their I saw a DJ, they had a full DJ system up there. So when the party was done over here, the after hours party took off. Okay. Yeah. Mike was saying they’ll go till six in the morning. And we’re a little beyond that now.

00:13:59:08 – 00:14:26:29
Tom and Bunny
But people always ask us, age demographics and I will say that the general age was a younger crowd, probably in their mid late 30 to 40 ish. So maybe I’m thinking a little younger. Well, no, I’m just talking in the media in the meat and potatoes. Yes. very a lot of people were very physically fit and but they were arrogant, physically fit.

00:14:26:29 – 00:14:51:27
Tom and Bunny
They were having a great time. beautiful people. There were people of all shapes and sizes, but the majority seemed to fit, physically fit crowd. So that’s the type of party you’re looking for. That is the place to go to. But you know what? There was like Tom said, I was, far from physically fit. There was a whole mix of all kinds of different people.

00:14:51:27 – 00:15:18:19
Tom and Bunny
So if you’re looking, there’s something for everybody. Yeah. Oh, absolutely. Yeah. we like I said we just get asked because there are people that want to go to more of a fluffy club and some people want to go to a very young club, some people want to go to a physically fit. And there’s nothing wrong with any of those, and there’s nothing wrong with any of the clubs wanting to run a certain way.

00:15:18:20 – 00:15:42:26
Tom and Bunny
No, I mean, we want to put that out there, our club that we used to run, we cater to everybody. And there were clubs a couple miles from us that cater to under 30, physically fit. you have to have a wallet to prove your worthiness. we never agreed with that back then. we still personally don’t.

00:15:42:28 – 00:16:10:17
Tom and Bunny
But like I say it, it’s, Well, I mean, but we can’t now because we’re working on that. But no, the the five party was just. It was a fun experience for everybody. Let’s put it this way. They’re such a friendly group that not only, you know, we know quite a few of them from our midst. No swimsuit contest in Jamaica, right?

00:16:10:18 – 00:16:34:22
Tom and Bunny
And one of our other contestants from trapeze was there, so they came in from Atlanta. Yeah. there was a couple there that came to miss no swimsuit and didn’t know anybody. They kind of got adopted by the vibe Tribe when we were in Jamaica. And they flew all the way in from Salt Lake City, Utah. Yes. And then I did see on Facebook that there was somebody else that came in from Houston.

00:16:34:25 – 00:16:54:01
Tom and Bunny
Did you see the map? There are people from California. They what they do is they took a map of the United States, and here we are, Tennessee. And they, colored in all the states in blue, not being political, but who came to the white Party this last week? I didn’t see that. Oh, yeah. See, that’s pretty cool.

00:16:54:01 – 00:17:21:01
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, it’s actually kind of cool that they were listing where everyone came from, but it was an amazing party. And we’re definitely going to be back for sure. Yeah. Now, vibe was talking to us. They used to do parties once a month and they would put out, tickets are for sale. Can’t you? Not as fast as Garth Brooks, Taylor Swift and all them big name artists.

00:17:21:04 – 00:17:44:24
Tom and Bunny
They would sell out in under ten minutes. I mean, whole entire hotels, people were sitting there like Ticketmaster and I like click, click and even overflows. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We had Stand the Overflow the first time because we couldn’t even get into the Right. The main hotel. Yes. You want to stay in the main hotel because you don’t want to have to leave to go to another hotel.

00:17:44:24 – 00:18:07:29
Tom and Bunny
And most likely people aren’t going to leave with you to go to another hotel. No. So you want to have a room at the host hotel. So that way you could take your private party and go have some fun privately, then go back to the main party. Now they do have a playroom there. their playroom had a bondage area, had a lot of beds and a lot of apparatuses.

00:18:08:00 – 00:18:31:10
Tom and Bunny
Right. But you also got to understand that every state is different on what they can allow in their playroom. So so everything is a little bit different in each state. If you go to a different hotel party. Yes. but you know, sometimes in the hotel parties, people will take people to their rooms because of more accessibility right there.

00:18:31:12 – 00:19:06:14
Tom and Bunny
Oh, yeah. It’s a lot more convenient. A lot more convenient. And you got a shower? Yeah. And the best way house. The best way to get somebody in your room. Hey, you guys, one shot. Come on over. I. That’s what you used to say. Of course, of course. Now that we got you here. So now vibe does their party every couple months, and, they were telling us that they were seeing a trend that when they were having a party, that people were booking so fast that the, the trend was that they were spending too much money.

00:19:06:16 – 00:19:32:03
Tom and Bunny
it can happen. It can happen. And they were about all taking money. They were obviously there about making money, but they started doing their parties a little farther apart so people could recoup because by the time you pay for the party, the hotel, the travel, the food and everything, it can add up pretty fast. And in some cases, babysitters, dogs, humans, dog sitters.

00:19:32:06 – 00:19:51:10
Tom and Bunny
We took mama with us. We we did. I don’t think she’ll be going to the next one. So yeah, it was it was a little too uncomfortable for her in the house. Yeah. She’s stuck in a room, stuck behind the pillows. But, yeah, that’s very admirable. we really appreciate that. They’re looking at the the owner of five.

00:19:51:11 – 00:20:13:06
Tom and Bunny
He’s a mathematical genius, and he is looking at all the associated costs and everything, and he just didn’t feel comfortable knowing that people were probably spending their last few dollars. But, you know, I honestly think too, when, when you have them every month, then it kind of gets mundane and it gets to be the same thing in the same people.

00:20:13:13 – 00:20:42:00
Tom and Bunny
But I think when you have them only, you know, five or 6 or 7 a year, then it gets more excitement. You get more. I think so too. Too. I think so too. because when it’s every single month we were at a club for 20 years, we were open five nights a week. We could tell you we we had a lot of new people, of course, but we could see the same people on each specific night.

00:20:42:03 – 00:21:02:10
Tom and Bunny
I mean, Saturday was always the same group of people. And there’s nothing wrong with that because it’s like seeing your friends once a week. Well, one of the funny stories that I always tell everybody is I bartended for 18 years back behind that bar, and we used to let the girls dance up on the bar. Oh, yeah.

00:21:02:16 – 00:21:23:21
Tom and Bunny
And I could tell you who had a birthmark. I had this who had that? Just because I seen the same thing every week. I liked it when, people would go worst time and you’d be like, hold on. He’ll be around in a minute. There’s a new girl up on the bar, and here I come around the corner.

00:21:23:23 – 00:21:47:09
Tom and Bunny
But, yeah. parties by vibe. check them out. Definitely book. You want to book early and fast? you want to join their website? You got a book like this? Yeah. And in order to be on their website, you have to at least go to, I think it’s two parties a year just to stay on their website.

00:21:47:09 – 00:22:10:20
Tom and Bunny
Yes. Now, I think that they have one coming up in June, according to what Mike was saying, but I don’t I think we’re even going to have a scheduling conflict with that one, too. I think we’re going to a wedding in Pennsylvania that weekend. Yeah, we’re pretty much booked every weekend. so, but you might see us somewhere in the summertime out there for sure.

00:22:10:25 – 00:22:43:12
Tom and Bunny
Now, the, the first weekend, if you want to know our kind of our schedule right now, first weekend of May, we’re going to be in Las Vegas for the buy out. And it’s a bi event and it’s for bi couples. And singles. And we’re going to be there representing Tom’s trips because Tom’s trip’s host, the only bye week and, hedonism and Jamaica, this year we’re on in April and the event’s not till October 5th.

00:22:43:14 – 00:23:11:18
Tom and Bunny
We are only have as of right now. How many rooms? Because we have nine, nine rooms. I thought it was eight. So nine rooms out of 289 rooms. So it’s crazy how fast it’s selling out. So we’re going to be there representing for the 2025 bye week at hedonism to, let people know about it. And then when we come back, we’re going to be home for a couple weeks, aren’t we?

00:23:11:20 – 00:23:37:02
Tom and Bunny
We are going to be home for a couple weeks in May. Yes. Okay. So and then at the last weekend of May, we just put out a little video on it. We’ll be at Sooners swing with Justin and Kaylee with On the Border lifestyle group in Tulsa, Oklahoma. and that’s o t b l s.com if you want check out on the border lifestyle and book sooner.

00:23:37:02 – 00:24:00:10
Tom and Bunny
Swing and come visit with us the end of May. and then, we’re going to be home all of July. I don’t know how that, but you just by past June, I did bypass June, didn’t I? We’re not going to be home much in June. June? The first weekend of June, first weekend in June is, we’re going to be at a wedding in Pennsylvania.

00:24:00:11 – 00:24:25:01
Tom and Bunny
Yes, we’re going to be, our entertainers. you already said their name. Beth and Kyle. He’s a singer saxophonist, and she is the cutest girl. Shit. they’re going to get married. They’ve been together 17 years, 17 years, and they’re going to finally do it. And we got invited. So we’re going to go down there and we’re going to stop in at the corral.

00:24:25:03 – 00:24:47:22
Tom and Bunny
That Friday night. Yep. I think that’s June 7th. I think it’s a Friday night. Okay. We’re going to be at the corral and that’s Spring Grove, Pennsylvania and that’s the corral.com if you want to check that out. then the second week of June were June 15th through the 22nd. We’re going to be back at hedonism. Okay. That’s for Cassidy Cross.

00:24:47:25 – 00:25:07:17
Tom and Bunny
and then when are we in Michigan for, That’s all. Yeah. So that’s why you. Oh, I kept thinking that was to. No, no, no. So all of July, we’re going to be home. I don’t know how that ever worked out, but it will be. Will be nice. now. Yes, if they want to go to Cassidy cross with us in June, are there still.

00:25:07:18 – 00:25:32:23
Tom and Bunny
No. We’re sold out. Oh, my God, they’re sold out. But we do have North Haven, I believe it. It’s the first weekend in August. Yes. And that’s in Brooklyn, Michigan. And that is, it’s I always say North Haven Resort in Brooklyn, Michigan. There is a North Haven something else. I think it’s a golf course or something else.

00:25:32:26 – 00:26:03:18
Tom and Bunny
Don’t mistake it. When you Google type in North Haven, Brooklyn, Michigan and you’ll find it. and that is a clothing optional nudist campground campground, if you want a lot of hard things going on, I don’t know if you can call it a camp. It’s not. It’s an upscale night. It’s totally upscale. Oh, nice. so we’re going to be there, I believe it is the first weekend in August, and that is for their Taste of Hilo weekend.

00:26:03:23 – 00:26:30:27
Tom and Bunny
Okay. So we’ll be representing. Yes. Trips for that will be then the end of August, we actually get our own little vacation and we are going to the Great Smoky jeep invasion. Oh, yeah. And, we’ll be in Pigeon Forge, but it’s Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge, Tennessee. And last year, 20,000 jeeps signed up. 50,000 showed up. so buddy has our hotel already.

00:26:30:27 – 00:26:57:29
Tom and Bunny
We are ready. I’m ready to roll on that one. Yeah, and then, September 7th, we will be back at the corral in Spring Grove, Pennsylvania. Yeah. For the crowning of their Miss Corral, who will represent them next year at Miss No. Swimsuit. Yep. And then the end of September. We don’t have anything else, right? No. Okay, so the end of September, we’ll be back at hedonism for our sunny buns.

00:26:58:02 – 00:27:22:00
Tom and Bunny
there are rooms for that. We do September 28th to the October 5th. Yeah. September 28th to October 5th. I do have rooms available for study, but. So if you want to go with us to Hinduism in the end of September or early October, and it’s great weather. phone numbers right down right over here. I was set up (800) 285-0853.

00:27:22:03 – 00:27:47:07
Tom and Bunny
go to Tom’s trips.com. You can see all of our group trips. And then we go straight into October 5th through the 12th hour by week. like I said, nine rooms left for that one. Nine rooms. So if you are a biker, people, unfortunately the single rooms are not available because we only sell 20 of them.

00:27:47:09 – 00:28:10:27
Tom and Bunny
other than that, they have to be double occupancy. So it could be a couple, two guys, two girls, but it has to be two people to the room. There are only nine rooms left and they are the cheapest rooms available. Yes. Meaning price wise. And they are Garden View regulars. Yes. They start. They are at 245 a night per person based on double occupancy.

00:28:10:27 – 00:28:35:20
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. So if you want to go to that definitely book it is a crazy week and that’s October 5th through the 12th 2024. Yeah. Because we haven’t released 2025 because we got to get to 2024. Yes. And I think we’re pretty much unoccupied through the rest of the year so far. Yeah, yeah, yeah, man, I couldn’t live the life of a rock star.

00:28:35:22 – 00:28:59:04
Tom and Bunny
you do? I’m not as busy now. And they get paid. They get paid. I mean, we get paid, we get paid. We don’t get paid. Millions and billions. No, we love our jobs. We do love our jobs. Yeah. The the the joke of that is, is people will say to us, oh my gosh, you’re YouTube famous. And Tom’s like, no, famous, no, you’re celebrities, you’re celebrities.

00:28:59:04 – 00:29:23:16
Tom and Bunny
No celebrities make money. Yeah, we’re not celebrities. We’re just YouTube junkies. We just like to have fun on camera. We just like to talk a different kind of fun. Yes, yes. Yeah. All right, so I think that we’re pretty much done with what we did this weekend. Yep. So again, check out parties. Bye bye.com. And they have a Facebook group.

00:29:23:16 – 00:29:46:20
Tom and Bunny
You can only get in it if you go to their parties and you are registered on their actual website. because their website is a social media website. and that’s the only way you can book their events. So definitely check them out and we will let you know when the next five party will be out. But we’re excited to be part of the Vibe Tribe.

00:29:46:22 – 00:29:55:01
Tom and Bunny
Exactly. Good. It’s good to find a home again. Yes. So that being said, I guess we’ll see you guys soon. We’ll see you soon.

 

Sooner Swing May 31 to June 2 2024 Tulsa Oklahoma

On The Border Sooner Swing May 31 to June 2, 2024 Tulsa Oklahoma

We are going to the huge 120 acre Sooner Swing camping trip just outside of Tulsa Oklahoma with the On The Border Lifestyle Group Friday May 31st to Sunday June 2nd 2024 with themed parties, Zip Lines, Hot Air Balloon, Naked Karaoke, Orgy Dome, Discussion topics and much much more.

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Old Fat Guys and Ms No Swimsuit Part 2

Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks and the Ms No Swimsuit contest at Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny Part 2

Today we discuss part 2 of our recent group trips Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks and Ms No Swimsuit contest with Toms Trips at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica.

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00:00:00:00 – 00:00:26:12
Tom and Bunny
we’re Tom and Bunny from Tom and Bunny dot com. And today we’re talking part two about our recent trip to Hedonism Resort in Jamaica with Tom Strip’s year leader and adult lifestyle travel Got it all that you did that was very good. So this is our week number two. So we were just there. We were literally in Jamaica from February 18th through March.

00:00:26:19 – 00:00:52:13
Tom and Bunny
No March 13th. Yeah. 21 days. I’m way off. Yeah, I think it was February 22nd, 22nd to March 1308. Let me put up the Tom’s trips right there. There we go. Go to that website and call that number to book Tom’s trips. So if you’re listening to this podcast, you might want to jump over to our YouTube channel.

00:00:52:13 – 00:01:15:08
Tom and Bunny
Just search Tom and Bonnie, just as it says right here, no spaces. And you can watch our videos because sometimes we do corny, stupid stuff and we make stupid faces at each other like that. Sometimes all the time. All right. Some of it. Okay. I got Tom so fun. One of the funniest things I’ve heard before is everybody’s like, my God, I don’t realize you.

00:01:15:10 – 00:01:36:10
Tom and Bunny
I think it’s funny when you roll your eyes. And I’m like, I didn’t realize I did it so much. You do? Oops, I do. I just don’t say anything. I let the audience say it. I just seen a meme today and Hold on. my God, you’re killing it because I’m podcast. Not. No, no, no. I got to give you this meme because death.

00:01:36:16 – 00:01:57:24
Tom and Bunny
This is so me. This is so you know, you took a picture. Yeah, that does. Do you ever just forget to hide your expressions for a minute and then you’ll you’re like, Whoa. I didn’t mean to see that face out loud. yeah, that’s me. That’s our boss. That is our boss. That’s why I can’t take phone calls or anything.

00:01:57:27 – 00:02:29:00
Tom and Bunny
Right? So we just finished up the last video. We’re talking about nonsense about pool games. Yeah. So that was four old fat guys with hot chicks. Then come week two is our annual Miss No Swimsuit, which is Tom’s trip’s staple event of the year. It’s our flagship event. It’s bingo. This was our 24th annual. Now, me and Bonnie, I’ve only been with Tom’s trips for six and a half years, and so, no, we don’t own the company.

00:02:29:00 – 00:02:57:25
Tom and Bunny
But this was our 13th trip. What? Tom’s? Yes. We’ve been traveling with them for 12 years, starting here. So. So, no, for us, in one of the things that you’ll find if you haven’t already gone to hedonism or traveled with the group, one of the things that you’ll find is people tend to go back at the same time every year because they’ve met friends or they’ve made connections and they always want to go back at the same time so they can continue to grow those friendships and make make new.

00:02:57:26 – 00:03:23:08
Tom and Bunny
Yes. Case in point, last one of last year’s contestants, she came in third. She just they just recently got married this summer and a big group from the corral went to her wedding or their wedding. And they’ve all become such good friends now they go to the corral a lot. So now they continue to go back and forth between New York and Slovenia.

00:03:23:10 – 00:03:48:23
Tom and Bunny
Yes, I talk with my hands, but I mean, that’s just a vacation point. I keep saying how fly by my face. And yes, I’ve hit him in the face before. I actually have, because I kind of lean forward. Yeah, you can’t do that. I look at my shirts all I try to go, I need my gear. So I need to be able to do that stuff you don’t want.

00:03:48:25 – 00:04:25:22
Tom and Bunny
You can’t have that kind of an impact. No. So anyways, yes. No. So for us, men’s not swimsuit is a fantastic time because we get to see all kinds of friends that we only see once a year now and in the past we just have a lot of staff at Mr. Swimsuit and the last year we didn’t have as much staff, so we all the staff that we had worked our butts off from eight in the morning until midnight, one in the morning every single day.

00:04:25:24 – 00:04:54:11
Tom and Bunny
And when I say work our butts off, it’s just we’re not working solid. But we can’t get drunk. No. And be at another event and be coherent. So it is working this time. We actually had an extra entertainment couple. Yeah. We also had another host couple and that host couple. I mean, the entertainers we had Mark Mays. Yes.

00:04:54:11 – 00:05:17:27
Tom and Bunny
And Terry, his wife. Yes. And then we had Beth and Kyle. I don’t know if I could say their name, but I guess we can. But we did. And it was great because Mark sings, plays guitar. He has a foot drum set, so he is a one man band, but he also has a band in Michigan and he does solo stuff.

00:05:17:27 – 00:05:45:01
Tom and Bunny
There are two Kyle plays saxophone and he sings, my God, he’s a mark and Kyle are both phenomenal singers. And then Beth is just so adorably cute and she’s she helps with me and Barney as a host couple when it’s just the four of us. Now, One of the one of the cool things, though, this year is Tom actually had two other women help him.

00:05:45:04 – 00:06:06:15
Tom and Bunny
We do at this particular event too, because it’s our men’s no swimsuit. We do a lot of photos. Tom is a photographer. No, he’s not a professional. He just knows how to use a camera in automatic mode. No, I know how to do lighting. Yes. I mean, look at our lights here. So what he would do is he had Beth.

00:06:06:21 – 00:06:36:05
Tom and Bunny
Beth and she and Jenny, they were his lighting girls. So previous years, we never wanted to interrupt the show for the people, but we also gained zero promotion out of it. So the photos in the past, I mean, while good, weren’t as good as I thought they could be, because when they’re on the stage, it’s really dark. And dark creates a very grainy photo and it doesn’t look as appealing.

00:06:36:07 – 00:06:58:14
Tom and Bunny
So after some discussions, I was able to have Beth and Jenny whenever our person that we want to take a picture of would come out, we would be front stage. And the second they would come out, they would turn on the LED lights. I would shoot a few pictures. They would turn off the LED lights and we would all walk away.

00:06:58:14 – 00:07:22:06
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, worked out that way. We didn’t block the audio. No. And it worked out absolutely perfect. And we’re going to be posting our no swimsuit icon just give me a couple of weeks and we’ll be posting a lot of the pictures on there because we actually have good pictures this year. I couldn’t I couldn’t do it for Tom because I have an attention span about this big and I’d be holding the light and I’d be like, squirrel.

00:07:22:08 – 00:07:53:26
Tom and Bunny
Yes, she would. She would. But also Bunny gets called away. And I do. Yeah. So we’re always we’re always within sight of each other, but we’re always doing something different at that event. Exactly. So I do the photography and I’m a liaison between Times trips and a lot of the clubs managers are owners, correct? So that way we can hopefully fulfill their needs while we’re at Jamaica.

00:07:53:28 – 00:08:34:03
Tom and Bunny
Right. And hopefully in the next several months we’ll be able to get our needs fulfilled after after surgery again. Well, we’re waiting on that. I, like the doctor said before, there’s no way they can deny it because it’s in my body. But they already did at first denial, which they denied Bunny on an MRI. So the doctor wrote a two page letter on the medical necessity of me having the surgery, and they have 30 days to review and they’re going to wait for every into the 30 days.

00:08:34:03 – 00:09:00:26
Tom and Bunny
So we’re not very hopeful right this second as far as insurance goes. And, you know, I want to reiterate to that because, you know, not only, you know, are we a travel agents within the pineapple world, but we are pineapple people, too. Yes. But we’re not the type that play separately. We only do it together. So therefore, if Tommy’s broken, I’m broken, too.

00:09:00:28 – 00:09:35:16
Tom and Bunny
Right. And so if you’re broken, heart broken. And I mean, I did have to explain that to a friend this last time who approached us, And I’m like, You do understand that we’re broken. And he’s like, You’re Tom is broken, but you’re not. And I’m like, Yeah, yeah. We’ve been married 38 years, been together 39 years. You don’t stay together this long without respecting each other and feeling like when a part of each other, when one is going through something, the other, unfortunately, yes, goes through it, too.

00:09:35:16 – 00:09:56:08
Tom and Bunny
And, you know, everybody’s life is different. Everybody is in the pineapple world differently. This is just how we do it and and what works for us. And I could I could tell buddy, let’s do this. And she’d probably say no. Right, Exactly. Just because she doesn’t feel comfortable. Nope. And if you’re not feeling comfortable, you’re not going to have a good time.

00:09:56:09 – 00:10:19:25
Tom and Bunny
Right. But so that being said, let me tell you, you know, one of the things I keep forgetting to write everything down, but the next time we go, I’m going to write down all the crazy things that you hear while you’re there. Right. But the one the one that I do specifically remember is I had a guest approached me in the pool and he had a cowboy hat on.

00:10:20:02 – 00:10:39:15
Tom and Bunny
Always wore a cowboy hat. And he says to me, Have you ever wrote a a bucking bronco? Like what? And he and I’m like, a rodeo. Rodeo or think, Yeah, or something like that. And I’m like, Why? Why would you even ask me that? And he goes, Well, have you ever rode in a rodeo? And I’m like, No.

00:10:39:21 – 00:11:02:06
Tom and Bunny
And he goes, Would you like to? And I’m like, Why? And he goes, Because I come out of chute one and I go, Well, that’s good, because I don’t like to shoot too. All right, guys, you know where she stands on that. But let me, too. It’s just fun, things like that. You know, the things that make things memorable when you have a good time with.

00:11:02:08 – 00:11:36:15
Tom and Bunny
Right. You know, just because you’re in the pineapple world doesn’t mean that you have to. Well, I there are people that fixate on having to do something with someone else every single night. And you know what? More power to them. We know couples that have been together as long as us that live that way. And we also know couples who didn’t make it past a couple of years because the other didn’t feel that the one loved them as much as the lifestyle.

00:11:36:17 – 00:12:05:13
Tom and Bunny
So we never put our feelings on the back burner. We’re always the forefront. And the pineapple world has changed dramatically since we entered it many, many years ago. I’m just going to leave it at that. But so already, so sorry. 38 years. I know, but so just the fact that it just because you’re there at Hedo doesn’t mean that you’re going to play with everybody or anybody talking about that.

00:12:05:18 – 00:12:28:15
Tom and Bunny
No, I’m just talking about I know, let’s not go negative. I’m just making connections because that’s kind of a negative. Okay. It was Harry’s birthday. It was Harry’s birthday. We’ve seen a lot of naked people. We didn’t. And one of the things we always hear and we’re not going to bring up any stories is bunny hairs all the time.

00:12:28:18 – 00:13:00:18
Tom and Bunny
I know, Harry. Yes. And we always wanted to do a video called I Know Harry because we have a hundreds stories of different scenarios of why they know Harry when they’re talking to Bunny. Bunny actually asked Harry if secret if we could have permission to do that video. And Harry said, absolutely. And then I got to thinking, would that come across as us talk and smack about anyone?

00:13:00:21 – 00:13:24:23
Tom and Bunny
So but, you know, the thing is, Harry, and for those of you that don’t know is Harry is the owner of hedonism, Right. And he is the nicest guy and he’s very, very friendly. So of course, he’s kind of shy, though. He is kind of shy. Yeah, he is kind of shy. He doesn’t mind people approaching him. He doesn’t really approach too many people.

00:13:24:23 – 00:13:54:11
Tom and Bunny
No, but that being said, everybody knows Harry. Every. Yes. Everybody knows Harry. I know Harry. Yeah. Do you know Harry? I know Harry. Yeah. He even got a business card. I did. His business cards are poker chips. I personally have never kissed Harry, but I know Harry, so I know. How are you going to last and binding? I know, Harry, but mine is.

00:13:54:14 – 00:14:20:07
Tom and Bunny
I know Harry goes less than a few other girls. yeah? yeah. Laila. So we just thought that would be kind of fun to do. Maybe when we’re no longer travel agents, no, but know it. But if we did tell stories, it would all be in fun. absolutely. There’s like, a comedian, right? Right. But we’re not funny.

00:14:20:10 – 00:14:44:08
Tom and Bunny
We’re not funny. But no. So, yeah. No, if you go there, Harry is usually he’s there a lot. He bought the place is his own personal private playground. From what I understand, his brother and sister all run the place and he has all the staff and the last person you want to go up to, to give advice on how to run Hedo is Harry.

00:14:44:08 – 00:15:07:09
Tom and Bunny
He doesn’t he go to his people? Let him have a drink in his hand. Actually, he did tell us a funny story that he was wearing his sandals at it. He was at the Teppanyaki. Yeah. And he was eating it. He was wearing a sandals hat and there’s a guest sitting next to him and he was doing all this complaining and and everything about the food.

00:15:07:09 – 00:15:28:19
Tom and Bunny
And then he says to Harry, he goes, Well, how who are you? And he goes, My name is Harry. And he goes in, What do you do? And he goes, I’m the owner of this place. But he didn’t take it offensively. No, he didn’t. He actually took that as real honest, constructive criticism because the guy didn’t know who he was.

00:15:28:21 – 00:15:47:18
Tom and Bunny
He was telling us that they were going to be updating the rooms that caught on fire. Yep. And, yeah, those go down. Those get. There’s the first 20 rooms are going to be not going to take five and a half months. It’s going to take two years. And I said can I put in a request And it’s like you want to request for what?

00:15:47:18 – 00:16:13:20
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like to change the curtains from cream to anything else to anything else. He goes, You don’t like my green curtains? Nope. No, because they were there before you started. Are were they orange? I think they were. But now they’re seventies green. Yeah. Yeah. Avocado. Green. Yeah, definitely. I had cars that were that color green. Right. I don’t want to date myself, but they were muscle cars.

00:16:13:20 – 00:16:36:06
Tom and Bunny
But I mean, you know, in when he’s there you don’t he’s, he’s there to have fun. He’s not there to. Anyone want to talk business? No, no. So we just out with Harry again. Happy birthday. We told. We told you happy birthday while we were there. Happy birthday across our channel. Yeah. And he didn’t even know we did videos, right?

00:16:36:12 – 00:17:01:09
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. So see that everybody knows. Yeah. Because we don’t go running around saying we have a YouTube channel either you either you find us or you don’t. Exactly. And the most important person there didn’t find us. But. But his sister in law watches over. yes, she does. Hi, Diane. Hi, Dr. Richard. Richard. But Richard is Bonnie’s dessert buddy.

00:17:01:12 – 00:17:27:19
Tom and Bunny
Yes. We get to talk about desserts because they have a brand new pastry chef. And it’s amazing. And yes, she is straight up says, be careful, you’ll get fat. I, I would just as soon miss dinner. Yeah. Go to the desserts. Yeah, but. But no, we had an amazing time. And going back to Miss swimsuit since we’re talking about that Harry saw on the top.

00:17:27:19 – 00:17:50:14
Tom and Bunny
Inaki bar is closed, and we heard complaints before we went there that it was warm in there and stuff like that. And the air couldn’t keep up when we were in there, we we were freezing. We got freezing in a bad way, in a very good way that we were expecting it to feel like 90 in there. And it actually felt like 72.

00:17:50:14 – 00:18:21:06
Tom and Bunny
It used to feel like it was outside, honey, it was an outside. It was 120 degrees. So yeah, it was actually a very nice, enjoyable. And they got a big long sushi bar now. Yes. So you can sit up there and order your sushi. You can get a salad up there. So it was very, very nice improvement. Now me and Bonnie are going through dental work and twice I got a front crown.

00:18:21:07 – 00:18:43:16
Tom and Bunny
I wasn’t going to bring it. I’m going to break today because we don’t give two craps, but twice my crown came off. Yeah. Was the first time it was at the tap in the Rocky. And we, I took a bite of shrimp or something and I could feel it dangling and thank God I didn’t swallow it.

00:18:43:17 – 00:19:04:24
Tom and Bunny
No. And then we got that glued on. And then a few days later, it came out, come off again. Again. I got a dentist appointment this Tuesday. We’re going to see what we can do. The crown needs to be replaced anyway, so it’s it’s starting to get a hole in the back from the. I mean, how long have I had this thing.

00:19:04:27 – 00:19:29:22
Tom and Bunny
years. Yeah. But, you know, it’s pretty funny because we do have a dentist that travels with us, so. So we’re sitting at dinner and. And I’m like, I need you in our room now. Our boss is like, What? I’m like, No, no, I need your services. So when we came back, she’s like, You carry dental supplies with you.

00:19:29:25 – 00:19:51:29
Tom and Bunny
She’s like, Well, yeah, of course I would. But we had a little thing that we brought just in case, because I just got a new bridge. Yeah. And I was concerned that the new bridge might have an issue. So we wanted to be prepared. We bought the glue. We didn’t know there was only enough glue on that little bottle to do half of the crown.

00:19:52:02 – 00:20:22:22
Tom and Bunny
It says that it’s good for ten bullcrap. I squeezed every drop out of there. Just so you know, it’s called recap it and it’s actually good to have in your luggage if you have any crowns. Well, yeah, we’re going to do a video on things you definitely should take because we never really thought about crowns falling out except for when I just got the bridge and we never thought about prescription glasses bringing an extra pair.

00:20:22:22 – 00:20:46:14
Tom and Bunny
If you’re going to be there for seven, 12, 14 days, that’s a long time to go without glasses. So we both brought extra glasses and I always carry extra reading to figure out my lens. I always carry extra readers to live up at the desk in case somebody says, I can’t really read that. I’m like, Here, here we go.

00:20:46:16 – 00:21:11:15
Tom and Bunny
So now on no swimsuit. I just went up base a little with the top jockey. Then it went into my crown right? So arm is no swimsuit that we had eight amazing ladies. They all did a great job. They did a fit, and they all worked well together. Ah, and we are very excited to be part of their journey.

00:21:11:18 – 00:21:35:09
Tom and Bunny
yeah. And you know, it was really great because they have to do certain different little contests to win your vote. Because if you travel with us, then you get to vote on who’s going to be the winner. So it for me, the biggest thing is to watch when they first come in how shy they are. They’re like, I don’t even know if I can do this.

00:21:35:12 – 00:21:56:05
Tom and Bunny
And even some of their husbands are like that too, too. At the end of the week, they’ve got this confidence that just amazes right every time. And the one thing that I always look forward to is talent show, because you never know what people are going to pull off. Every one of them was amazing. they did a great job.

00:21:56:05 – 00:22:25:23
Tom and Bunny
So good. Yeah. I, I’ve already edited all the videos. We’re figuring out one because we, we have people signed photo releases and we, we’ve told all the girls in the beginning that if they have anyone up on stage with them are using them as props, they had to make sure they had the Graham wristband and a photo release was signed and one of the contestants invited all the guys up to the stage.

00:22:25:23 – 00:22:47:12
Tom and Bunny
And all I see is faces and I can’t see risk. And and it was later in the week if I just had a black rectangle just covering the heads down. It blocked half of the video and she was on a pole, so it would have blocked half. Yeah. So we’re still trying to figure out I got I’ve never been able to do videos.

00:22:47:12 – 00:23:04:24
Tom and Bunny
We don’t do videos with the other people. So I never learned how to blur faces. So when the face turns away, the floor goes away. But when it goes towards the camera, it automatically blurs it. But I got to do that with 20 dudes. I got to figure out how to do that and not blur her face. Right?

00:23:04:25 – 00:23:28:08
Tom and Bunny
So it’s just something that might take me a little longer. Yeah, something you definitely have to research and learn. Or maybe I know somebody that can take that video and do it for them, so we’ll figure it out. But we do plan on uploading all those videos to our YouTube so that way you can look at each of the contestants videos, maybe minus one.

00:23:28:11 – 00:23:53:21
Tom and Bunny
We’ll see. We’ll see. But we had dancing, we had singing, we had group dancing. Yeah. So we say. And then we had one too, where she she draws and makes custom hats. Yeah. Her husband came out and gave the winner of the best dressed one of her hats that she had already on. Yeah. So it was really, really.

00:23:53:26 – 00:24:22:29
Tom and Bunny
It’s very cool. I was just to see. Right. Yes, that was Tiffany. So it’s very cool along the border and you’re out of Tulsa, Oklahoma. And the one that I kind of it didn’t shock me, but I was really impressed by the way that she did. It was Kelly from Sapphire. Everybody does. I touched myself. Well, not everybody, but when they do it, they want to do it real sexy and everything like that.

00:24:22:29 – 00:24:46:19
Tom and Bunny
She had fun with the song, right? And she made me appreciate the song We could. She was having fun with it, and it turned out really, really good. Yeah, I think she’s. Q She’s very you know, they’re all I like her look. yeah, Yeah. That. You like the girl next door? I do like the girl next. And, you know, we were I was taking pictures and there was a girl from Vibe.

00:24:46:20 – 00:25:10:04
Tom and Bunny
Vibe is a hotel party out of Nashville, Tennessee, and we’re now part of the Vibe Tribe. We are well, part of the Vibe Tribe because now we live here. And Megan, she was just an adorably cute girl, but she knew how to take cute pictures. And so we’re going to be putting those on our social media real soon.

00:25:10:04 – 00:25:34:22
Tom and Bunny
I’m still going through all the pictures right now that all the girls took great pictures, but Megan probably stood out as most outward outgoing as far as doing the poses. So, yeah, it’s almost like I would have thought she had a Tik-Tok page or an Instagram page. She was the only one that you pulled out the camera and she knew what to do.

00:25:34:23 – 00:26:03:24
Tom and Bunny
She knew what to do. Yeah. And then Lacy from Paradise Lakes Resort out of Tampa, Florida, just elegant, beautiful girl. And she took some amazing pictures. But as she was watching Megan, she started coming out of her shell and doing cute hats. And when I say cute, I don’t mean childish. I mean just just really cool pictures. Having fun with the camera, right?

00:26:03:24 – 00:26:26:24
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Not making love to the camera, but. Yeah, exactly. Because you know what we’re using. You use these as marketing and you want you want it to show that we’re having fun and all the girls get copies of all these pictures so that way they could show all their friends and everything. So we want to give them the best possible photo that we can.

00:26:26:29 – 00:26:54:02
Tom and Bunny
I know everyone has their camera phones and they were posting, but hopefully some of mine with my lighting might be something that they want to share. Yeah. Now we went to that Glow party on Tuesday. We we went to take pictures of our contestants and put the camera away. We were there for an hour and a half taking pictures of our contestants, guest friends, all kinds of people.

00:26:54:05 – 00:27:15:28
Tom and Bunny
But they had a backdrop we use and that was one of the ones that I was so squirrel with because I kept trying to find people and then I’d walk away. Don’t say a word. My like, well, I like going because I didn’t have it on my camera because like, the lights I was using didn’t have the hot shoe for the camera.

00:27:16:01 – 00:27:36:23
Tom and Bunny
So I had a handle that you could hold it with. And I had two tripods. And here’s Bunny walking away with the light right? But no, it’s just such an amazing time. And we didn’t go on the catamaran. We stayed back and got some work done. And then we went on a pub crawl. Not on all. We got canceled.

00:27:36:29 – 00:28:01:24
Tom and Bunny
Got canceled because we got it canceled for any nefarious reason. We just only had three people signed up and it’s a lot of expense. So we had a Thursday pub crawl, so the Tuesday one got canceled and we asked anyone that was going on Tuesday to just move over to Thursday. And so but everyone wants to go on the catamaran.

00:28:01:27 – 00:28:32:08
Tom and Bunny
the play this catamarans hedonism was dead, but it was nice for us. Well, while the catamarans were out, it was like quiet, but it gave us time because we had Mark in for the contestants and all of their group on one. And then we had Kyle in for contestants and all of their groups. Yes, on the other and then any other guests that didn’t come with one of the groups, they could pick what boat they wanted.

00:28:32:08 – 00:28:55:12
Tom and Bunny
You know, forget what cream was, a flying remotes. That’s a flying. And boy, let me tell you, I don’t think any and I don’t think anybody remember sunblock. No, they came back with red. Came back so red. But yeah, if you have a food fetish that was the the boats to be on because they were eating whipped cream off of everything.

00:28:55:12 – 00:29:29:17
Tom and Bunny
Everything, everything. It’s not even lifted off the pole probably, but from what everybody was telling me, it was the best catamaran they’d ever been on. Well, I don’t doubt it. Yeah. Eight contestants, beautiful contestants. And for on each boat and everyone’s a judge. And those contestants are vying for those votes from those people. And I know Beth told me that she went around and grabbed gathered all of the girls and put them on the front of the boat so they could all dance.

00:29:29:17 – 00:30:01:28
Tom and Bunny
And then everybody else joined them. Yes. So, yeah, it’s it was a really good time. But like I said, we we stayed behind, got some work done, and then we got to check out one of our newer deejays that. yeah, came on. Yeah. He deejay Bad Boy. What is it? What’s his name? Scott. Scott. Yeah, he he actually contacted us and wanted to try out or wanted to see if we’d be interested in deejay.

00:30:01:28 – 00:30:26:05
Tom and Bunny
And I said, Well, our bosses are going to be at this event in October, and you’re welcome to come. But if you email them, we get emails from 30 deejays a year or more. And while they might be great, we don’t we don’t know just based off of email. So I said, why don’t you come talk to them in person?

00:30:26:05 – 00:30:47:27
Tom and Bunny
Maybe they’ll put you up for whatever reason. He didn’t deejay in October. No, no. So he came back out for no swimsuit and they actually put him in a new poll from 2 to 4, which is the prime time. And he did a great job. He did do a great job. Now let’s go back. Old fat guys brought their own entertainer.

00:30:48:02 – 00:31:13:00
Tom and Bunny
my gosh. Professor Woo, He was he’s fun. He’s a qualified investor. So he’s well-spoken, articulate. He sings karaoke. And when I heard him sing a couple of years ago, I was really taken aback. This guy’s good. So he’s deejaying the pool parties, he’s helping with the pool games. He had never done this before. This a first time.

00:31:13:05 – 00:31:33:19
Tom and Bunny
He had seen it but never done it. He’s singing in the DJ booth, so people are actually thinking it’s music. Then he comes out on the pool deck singing, and he did a great job playing music. And he did Flashdance and he did Flashdance where they dumped the bucket of water on him while he is on a chair.

00:31:33:22 – 00:32:00:07
Tom and Bunny
And he’s not a small guy, so he is part of the old fat guys. But yeah, no, everybody did. Amazing. Yes. And Scott will be back with this, I believe. I can’t remember when he’s coming back. I think he’s actually going going to be there for Thanksgiving. Wow. Nice. So you got a job? Yeah, because we don’t actually hire I mean, we can refer and we can recommend, but we don’t actually do the hiring.

00:32:00:09 – 00:32:35:00
Tom and Bunny
So we’re just employees that we are. But other than that, well, Party is one of Buddy’s favorites. But again, no swimsuit. we set up a 360 photo booth, but it was raining. Yeah. And we impromptu we had a party down at the parade. Paul and Mark was playing video music, so we set the 360 photo booth and we did like 26 or 27 videos because no one really knew what was down there.

00:32:35:00 – 00:32:56:23
Tom and Bunny
We just at the very last minute, within like 30 minutes before we said we can do it here. You know, I think had we been able to set up for it during Glo party, we would have beat our record on how many people we’ve done videos of. But the fact that it’s 51 hour, we only set it up for one hour.

00:32:56:26 – 00:33:23:26
Tom and Bunny
But the fact is, is it had poured and poured and the crowd was we were afraid people would get up and slip on that. Yeah, it’s not a very big platform really. And the reason why we only do it for one hour is because hedonism is all inclusive. Not only do you get all the food at all the restaurants and the grills, it’s all inclusive with alcohol and people are enjoying the stage show.

00:33:23:26 – 00:33:46:19
Tom and Bunny
And we do the booth from 10 to 11 because after the stage show ends, people start hitting that bar and we realized drunk people why we want to cater to everyone. There are limits to how much you can do, how much I can take when someone I got online, a piece you can take, Well, we’ve got a line of people.

00:33:46:19 – 00:34:04:24
Tom and Bunny
And in a when people have been drinking, they’re not kind of not at their level. Very true. So, I mean, it’s not an upset thing. It’s just that we want to make sure everyone’s safe and we want to make sure our work is safe. So we tear it down. And then that way, me and Bonnie can enjoy the party.

00:34:04:28 – 00:34:39:19
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, cause that it said, that’s my favorite, right? And so, no, it’s definitely a lot of fun. We have fun taking videos, but eventually when my back starts feeling better, I’ll be the fool out there dancing. When they play Sandstorm by Druid anything techno because that’s all I can dance to because I don’t have any rhythm. Now, the one thing was I got to relax in the morning because Bonnie had to go to rehearsals every morning at 930 now ten, 930 the first day.

00:34:39:21 – 00:35:01:27
Tom and Bunny
So I got to just chill in the air conditioned room and yes, and our air conditioning actually worked this time. Yeah, it was cold. And what they do is they’ll do a final video of the performance and then they send me the video and I put it up on YouTube, but it’s not open to the public and I share it to just the girls so they can keep watching it.

00:35:01:27 – 00:35:23:27
Tom and Bunny
So that and I’ll tell you what, this year, because we did that and those videos were viewed quite a bit. Yeah, the performance this year was really good. Yeah. Yeah. What are you talking about? They had it down day one, right? But I watched all the views on YouTube, so they were watching it during the week. All week long.

00:35:23:27 – 00:36:05:06
Tom and Bunny
Because you could tell. Right, right. Cause day number two, let’s see here. The first rehearsal was on Monday, right? Then they do the catamaran. They came back on Wednesday. Winston was late coming to rehearsal, so we started without them. They already had it all down. Good. Completely down. So, yeah, the girls on no swimsuit do a rehearsal every day because on Friday night, even though all the votes have been cast and everything and we’re going to announce a winner by what, 830 and 8:00, they start the stage show.

00:36:05:06 – 00:36:33:29
Tom and Bunny
And that’s where we got multiple people going up and entertaining the audience and talking about that week and the past and the future and everything. And then the girls come out and do that stage show and then we then they come out and they do the question, Yeah, they come out, do a nude question, and then they all line up.

00:36:33:29 – 00:37:03:25
Tom and Bunny
I, I wanted to get a picture of all of them in the gowns so that way I could post it because it didn’t work out that way. So when they’re all nude, if I post it, blur out, somebody is going to complain. It’s still going to get hit and we still get I get a little thing. Yeah, I try not to do that, but we can post our on no swimsuit dot com and it will be Yeah that will be yeah.

00:37:03:25 – 00:37:30:01
Tom and Bunny
Because you know what we are actually redesigning our website too so everything is going to be new and fresh out there pretty soon. Yep. And lots of links to see. Can I go back and reset. No. So that we don’t trace nothing. We’re unscripted. Yes. Start to finish what we started. UPS 38 minutes. Sorry. No one’s going to walk it that far.

00:37:30:04 – 00:37:52:26
Tom and Bunny
If you watch it that far. Flub in common. There you go. There you go, buddy. Flubbed up. what do I always do? Flub up, Flub up. So what else, if anything? No, no. It’s just, you know, if you guys want to book with this, if you want to have a lots and lots of fun, give us a call.

00:37:52:26 – 00:38:16:20
Tom and Bunny
I can. The phone number. Right. I got to figure it out right there. you got to see her. we got to go sit on that. it’s it’s bad. It’s backwards. Okay? That’s why I’m always doing it wrong. But call us 800 2850853 and check it out. You can even. it knocked out that one. Yes.

00:38:16:24 – 00:38:37:11
Tom and Bunny
If you’re watching, if you’re on podcast sorry there is a screen up of mine and Bonnie’s cartoon character with Tom strips 800 to 8 50853. You can book your travel directly with but yes. Then just a reminder that hedonism is no longer a place that you can just book at the spur of the moment. you’re going to book.

00:38:37:12 – 00:39:02:26
Tom and Bunny
I was talking to Harry about it. It’s it’s gone crazy. Four or five months out, it’s sold out. I mean, we’re sitting here right now, March 17th. We have a trip, June 15th through the 22nd. Sorry, We had a friend contact us yesterday. We had rooms where he had a room and he gave it up Well, but then he called before we left and he said he may go.

00:39:02:26 – 00:39:29:06
Tom and Bunny
He had to wait to figure out financial because it rooms were to him for at that time. And he goes, can we keep an eye out in the room? Well, there’s no keeping an eye out cause when you want it and because we can’t hold nothing. No. And he reached out to us yesterday and unfortunately. But when he first reached out to us, there were six rooms available, both and the cheapest category.

00:39:29:09 – 00:39:50:18
Tom and Bunny
And but I get it. He wanted to make sure he could pay for rent and his waiting for bonus, but also to the other thing is is like for our week in October I already have a list of waiting waiting list. So yeah, just because an event is up by a week, that is by week. Yeah, that’s. That’s for our single rooms.

00:39:50:18 – 00:40:15:28
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Singles. They only allow 20 single mothers, female or male, right. Yes. I just want to clarify, but it’s more the traveling. It’s only 20 singles. But we do have at this very moment out of 280 some rooms. 20 rooms left. Yes. And they’re in cheaper categories. They are. Because the what’s the ocean view and the premiums and the Jacuzzi.

00:40:16:01 – 00:40:38:28
Tom and Bunny
But if you want a premium or Jacuzzi, you have to book what we have available in the cheapest category because there is now a waiting list for a premium room and people do cancel. So but in order to get the premium room, the people who booked and showed loyalty on that booking early will get the same awards. Definitely.

00:40:38:28 – 00:40:59:00
Tom and Bunny
If you want to go to bye week October 5th through the 12th, you better be calling us this week because you just booked another one today. No, I’ve got three I have to put in. my God. So they’re going like wildfire. Like I said, this is March 17th and we’re going we figure that these rooms are going to be gone by the 1st of April.

00:40:59:01 – 00:41:23:01
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. And the next. And then everybody will go on a waiting list. And then we’re going to get all the pissed off cancellations. So, yeah, if you want to go bye week, October 5th to the 12th, you got to call Bunny 800 to 8 50853 and you got up, got to make a commitment to reserve your room because if you delay the next day there may not be.

00:41:23:04 – 00:41:48:01
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. No. And you know what we got some really great ones coming up in September. Tom and I will be there for our sentebale on September 28 through October 5th. Those ones, we do have rooms available, not very many, but that one, that one obviously will sell out real quick too. But but definitely, if you want to go with us, that’s going to be the next time we have availability that we’re going.

00:41:48:01 – 00:42:03:29
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, because we’re going on April eight from eight and in September and April and June are both already sold out. Yeah. So yes, rooms go very, very fast. And if, you know, years ago you used to be able to call and say, Hey, I want to go to Hilo next month. sure. Well, we’ll get you. No, no.

00:42:04:01 – 00:42:44:14
Tom and Bunny
Right. Unfortunately, I mean, it’s good for us. It’s good for Hedo, but it’s not good for you guys. Yeah, but yeah, all right. So this was part two of two. Yes, we did. Stay Royalton for four days. Next video We’ll we’ll just we’ll talk about our stay there. I overdosed myself on sugar I’m I’m diabetic I got to meet her there and they they served a pineapple drink that it felt like you’re eating a frickin pineapple.

00:42:44:17 – 00:43:10:02
Tom and Bunny
And I couldn’t stop drinking them. No, I didn’t even get heartburn. I was just such a sucker, and I didn’t even think he was like, I’m not drunk. I honestly wasn’t drunk, but he just like, yeah, yeah, we’ll talk about that. Yeah, diabetic and pineapple drinking, pineapple juice. Don’t what not to do. Right at an all inclusive resort in Jamaica.

00:43:10:02 – 00:43:32:27
Tom and Bunny
In Jamaica. All right, so we’re going to cut this. And just so you know, all of our videos are on podcast except for our little short promotional videos and all of our podcast are on YouTube. So you can listen to it in your car, you can watch it, whatever you want to do. We do appreciate the comments, the feedback, not the negative ones.

00:43:32:27 – 00:43:58:19
Tom and Bunny
We delete and block those, so don’t even waste your time. No, it might be up for a few hours, could be up for a week or two, but you will be dealt with like deleted block And we’re just trying to have fun and we’re trying to make things easier on you, too. Yes. So until next time, if you have any questions or want us to talk about something, definitely make a comment.

00:43:58:19 – 00:44:10:24
Tom and Bunny
We do read the comments we. Well, you do. I do. I do before and I tell buddy the good ones. Yeah. So anyway, until next time. We’ll see you soon. We’ll see you soon.

Old Fat Guys and Ms No Swimsuit Part 1

Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks and the Ms No Swimsuit contest at Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny

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00:00:03:04 – 00:00:26:11
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here. And I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos in the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips dot com or give us a call at one 800 2850853. And I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:26:11 – 00:01:06:11
Tom and Bunny
However, while we’re Tom, everybody from Tom and money.com and we recently just got back from Hayden as to end to make with Tom’s trips. You’re a leader in adult lifestyle travel. And we spent three weeks in Jamaica, 21 days, 1t1 day. And boy, let me tell you, it was it was long. It was a ball buster. It was so far we’ve never I mean, we’ve traveled around the United States for like a couple of months, but never out of the country for such a long, long period.

00:01:06:13 – 00:01:31:01
Tom and Bunny
I missed my baby. Yeah. Mama, Mama bear only list. We really missed our baby. But you know what? I was the perfect wife while I was there. You are. I was. How are you? Dare I ask, how are you the perfect wife? Because I brought you a picture of Bam. Say, Dad, bring a picture up. Bam! So I could put it by the nightstand.

00:01:31:03 – 00:02:02:01
Tom and Bunny
I’ll post the picture. See, I’m special. You are? Who brings a picture of their dog? And it’s not even that. Well, we weren’t on vacation. We were working. We did get four days of a vacation. We did this. Absolutely amazing. So let’s start. Start. You wanted to start with something. So let’s if you’re listening to this on a podcast, this is kind of a visual thing.

00:02:02:01 – 00:02:39:21
Tom and Bunny
So you might want to jump over to our YouTube channel, Tom and Bonnie. And so we motor Buddy reached out to us. Yes. And they said we got a new roller bag. You might be interested. I’m trying to figure out what way my head tilts. And we already have the heart case. That’s right. Be right behind me back there, you can see this whole block thing and they thought this would be a little more to our needs because it has a lot of compartments and it’s a soft sided and goes fits right in the car.

00:02:39:21 – 00:03:10:08
Tom and Bunny
Perfect. Yes. And so they asked if we needed any more attachments because we keep a motor. Buddy Hayden is in to make, but we also have two motor buddies here. So I’m like, I think we’re good. But let me just take a look just in case they came out with something new that we didn’t have. So I jump on their website and I noticed that they had a doc and vacuum attachment.

00:03:10:11 – 00:03:35:10
Tom and Bunny
I don’t know how long it’s been there or how how long they had it for the original motor buddy. Now we have that attachment on the buck, but we never had it on the original motor buddy. So Bonnie has a bunch of doc charts and marital aids. So we had boom. Yes, she has. From Skinny, too thick, too long.

00:03:35:10 – 00:04:21:13
Tom and Bunny
The short to different types of textures to double. Yeah. And she has a hand thing, so I’ve got quite the array. Yeah. So when we saw that, we we reached out and said we could definitely use that attachment and we’ll take one to him ism in Jamaica. So that way if someone hasn’t tried the motor buddy, they can bring their own preferred Doc Johnson attachment to try out on an actual real motor buddy And it makes it, it makes it because that way the girl is more comfortable when she tries something knowing that she is already comfortable with it.

00:04:21:18 – 00:04:57:03
Tom and Bunny
So it’s a good multiple use to to try it. Right. And like, like Bonnie, like I said, she has an array of attachments and depending on the time is depending on what attachment. So I have an extra special one now you do. So we thought, we’re going to get this vacuum attachment. Let’s go on Amazon and let’s let’s order a Doc Johnson Yeah, let’s order a new one, sort of a new one.

00:04:57:05 – 00:05:25:29
Tom and Bunny
Something that is different that I’ve never tried before. We went to the marital aid store and my God, there are about three or four times more money than on Amazon. So we didn’t buy one that we were holding in our hand. We can figure it out. Look at the size, the girth. So when we’re looking at it there, we’re looking at one that was kind of it.

00:05:26:02 – 00:05:55:11
Tom and Bunny
It didn’t look like a human. No, no. It looked a little bit different. So I thought, you know what? This one looks really interesting. I’ve never tried anything like this before. It has like three different big bulky ridges. And so they had a small one and a large one. Now, us not thinking the large the large ones said ten inches thick that weren’t thick.

00:05:55:11 – 00:06:30:20
Tom and Bunny
And you don’t have to put it all the way, you know. And I said two and a half inches around. So I’m like okay, we’re thinking two and a half inches is like, you know, do I like, you know, I’m doing girl math? Yeah, I’m doing guy math. And so the other one was quite a bit smaller like and since 7/8 is and so I think it’s worth thinking is like the small one because she has said once and girth here once so Tom’s like you you could handle the other one, you know.

00:06:30:23 – 00:06:58:11
Tom and Bunny
So yeah, go big or go home. Yeah. We don’t know. Size Queen was a real size when we’re at the marital aid store that had size queen ones that were like this big around, like the fence posts and like this this long so this big around that long. No way. We thought because we thought doc chances were more human anatomy.

00:06:58:11 – 00:07:28:09
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, more. Yeah because they have it was all more corn stars. Yeah. Corn stuff. Yes. So you could use there anatomy. Exactly. So if you watch them on the movies, you can actually use their aid. So I really, you know, and going back or going back, I really wish that Amazon would put on there that it might appear bigger smaller.

00:07:28:11 – 00:07:52:21
Tom and Bunny
Harris Might appear smaller than yeah, it appears smaller than actual size. So this is what we haven’t even opened it and woven when figuring out some type of pull game to use with that. But I was thinking ring toss or it’s it’s pretty but I think that would weigh down our luggage going to Hedo so well it’s definitely going to Hedo because it’s not staying here Why not.

00:07:52:21 – 00:08:18:13
Tom and Bunny
We’ll just put it up on the TV stand. All right. So this is what I ordered. Lucky put your fist up there, player first. Up next to it, put your fist up. No, no, no. Like next to it. That’s her fist. That’s crazy. Well, I mean, I’m not saying it’s crazy because some people. Yeah. Would be able to have no problem.

00:08:18:17 – 00:08:47:12
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, but no, not funny. This is not going in my in my marital aids box. So all the comments that we get all looking for some BBC. No, we aren’t. We’re not opposed. We’re, we’re equal opportunist. So wait, you know, if, if a guy is that big, it’s definitely, you know, unsubscribe from our channel. Don’t comment. Don’t follow us because it’s never going to happen.

00:08:47:15 – 00:09:12:21
Tom and Bunny
So so basically what I just bought was a $50 ring toss scheme. We haven’t even taken it. I wonder if we can get reimbursed for that for a ring toss game. I doubt that we’ll get a huge no. So so yesterday it comes in the mail comes through Amazon and Tom’s like, well, what’s this other box? Then I’m like, Well, that’s the Doug Johnson that I ordered.

00:09:12:25 – 00:09:42:23
Tom and Bunny
This box is huge and it weighed £5. It’s like in this big box. And I’m like, Well, maybe there’s multiples. I don’t remember what I ordered. Don’t Amazon trunk? yeah. Don’t drink an Amazon. No, you might not be able to read your measurements properly. We’re going to have to get a circumference check. So when it says instant 7/8 our it’s are five inches.

00:09:42:23 – 00:10:08:26
Tom and Bunny
We know how big it is. So basically I spent $50 on it. It gave us a good laugh at that. We were laughing because I want to talk about this on our video. On our next video. First thing I said, either that or we could autograph it and send it to somebody for a mere $500. Right. It’s our our will probably.

00:10:08:28 – 00:10:36:27
Tom and Bunny
We’re still waiting on insurance. On my issue. If you watched my broken Yes video what we’ve I have to do a go fund me so maybe we’ll option an office give it to the person that donates them most at one time. There you go. They’ll be where are we can do it to where? No matter what the donations are, we just in our name for every donation.

00:10:37:00 – 00:11:01:16
Tom and Bunny
But it has to be over some amount. It can’t be a box. A big cost like 25 bucks. That’s all right. That’s all right. So look out. Possibly for a go fund me. We don’t really know. We don’t want to do it, but surgery, if we if we have to pay for. It’s about $20,000. Yes. So what? We’re still waiting to do an update video on that.

00:11:01:17 – 00:11:24:14
Tom and Bunny
Yes. As soon as we know that’ll be coming out. Yes. All right. So you know what? The past three weeks, like I said, they absolutely want a lot faster than I anticipated. Then it actually went. But we had two great groups. We did. And we literally we got there on Thursday. Normally when we get there on Thursday, we’re the first of our group.

00:11:24:16 – 00:11:51:08
Tom and Bunny
We were not this time. No, there was like already 15, 20 people there waiting. Yes, but they all went to bed. Yeah, I think it was a travel day. Everybody was already in bed. I think. Gosh, So let’s start there. Don’t ever travel when somebody is getting ready to do an election in Jamaica. Now let’s first start off the travel advisory.

00:11:51:10 – 00:12:28:02
Tom and Bunny
They had Jamaica at a level four travel advisory. Now we’re not advising anything, but we did not feel uncomfortable there. We went to dinner at Rex Cafe and Ivan’s restaurant three times. We went on multiple pub crawls during our time and talking to the multiple drivers we had and the staff at the resort, they they all said that in a is they’re not seeing anything.

00:12:28:07 – 00:12:54:24
Tom and Bunny
So when they’re doing that Jamaican alert, they’re covering the whole they’re putting a blanket over the whole country. So basically it’s going to be if you’re looking for trouble, you can find trouble. Yeah, but yeah, we never felt unsafe at all. No, but like I say, we’re not advising anything. Whatever makes you comfortable here, just use your judgment.

00:12:54:26 – 00:13:24:22
Tom and Bunny
We go back here in the next few weeks. Yeah. April 22, 27, for our Hito Hotshots, and then we go back again in June. So we’re still going back? Yeah. Now, with that said, there was an election going on. Yes. And we did not know that the president of Jamaica was in Lucy, which is the halfway point between Montego Bay and Negro.

00:13:24:24 – 00:13:49:15
Tom and Bunny
And we got stuck in. God. Hope. Hope. Well, Hopewell Well, we were stuck about four or five miles before. Hopewell Yeah. Hopewell It’s going to be the first bigger town or parish between Montego Bay right after actually, right after you leave Montego Bay, that’s going to be the first biggest parish. Well, it what we were stuck there for like two and a half hours in traffic.

00:13:49:15 – 00:14:20:23
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Now, this is a two Lane Island road. The ocean’s literally literally two lanes because there is nowhere to pass. I’ll look for the picture and I’ll post here. Our two lane road became a five lane road because every idiot in the world was trying to pass, which now they have to merge back in and our driver was a safe driver and I would have asked him to do anything.

00:14:20:26 – 00:15:02:26
Tom and Bunny
No illegal. They literally had everything even off to the road during in the dirt on both sides were completely packed. People were trying to pass into oncoming traffic. Ambulances and in police cars couldn’t even get through. We got passed by a cow and we did it. How do you get past it? Looks out the window and goes, There’s a cow trot and passed us because in Jamaica, you know, sometimes they get off their leash because if they’re not in a fence, they’ve got a leash in, they’re chained to the ground so they can pick that area around them.

00:15:03:04 – 00:15:27:16
Tom and Bunny
Sometimes they get off and they run down the road. Yep. And that’s what happened. We got passed by a cow. Now we’re still not seeing anything. We’re thinking there’s an accident because typically when they’re you’re in that kind of traffic and there’s an accident, you’re stopped because it is a two lane road. And even our driver, Michael, says, there’s an intersection about a mile or so up.

00:15:27:16 – 00:15:47:23
Tom and Bunny
That’s probably where the accident is. That’s typically someone’s pulling out or in or motorcycle accidents. And it’s not like you have waves or Google Maps. I had ways. Yeah, but you couldn’t see. No, it didn’t have all the alerts we have and then the states. So all I could tell us how far we were from heading. So it took us two and a half hours.

00:15:47:23 – 00:16:28:18
Tom and Bunny
We finally get through Hopewell and they yeah, we seen a lot of people on the streets, but nothing that was more than usual right? So we get once we get through Hopewell, we start going. We’re like, Yes, finally we’re rolling and we’re passing. And then we stopped again. It’s just before Lucy Just before Lucy. Well, as you go around the island, you don’t really not normally notice it when you’re just driving, but when you’re in dead, stop, You could actually see were curved around and went through Lucy and our driver says to us, Hey, if you don’t mind, I know this way we can go through the neighborhoods and we can avoid a lot of

00:16:28:18 – 00:16:56:16
Tom and Bunny
this traffic. So we did. Yeah. That’s when it got. We thought, Well, we did. That’s when we didn’t feel comfortable because all of a sudden we’re seeing a ton of people in this neighborhood. We never see people. We see a few people hanging out on their porches or barbecuing and stuff like that. But we never see a ton of people walking the street.

00:16:56:22 – 00:17:25:08
Tom and Bunny
And one of the things, too, you got to understand in in Lucy there, their regular residential streets would be like what our alleys look like. Yes. So they’re very narrow. And pretty much she can only get one car through there in each direction. Right. And they’re talking to the Michael or driver. That’s what we found out about because everyone was wearing green.

00:17:25:13 – 00:17:57:29
Tom and Bunny
Yes. And we started noticing more and more green the more we approached the actual center of Lucy. And then we see thousands of people now in America. That type of environment could turn ugly really fast. So that’s where we felt our uneasiness. But Michael assured us that when he didn’t even know the president of Jamaica was in Lucy, he just said, They’re having an election and they’re celebrating.

00:17:58:03 – 00:18:24:18
Tom and Bunny
They weren’t protesting. They were violent, they were happy, they were smiling, they were dead. The election had even taken place yet. Right. This was on Thursday. The election was going to happen on Monday. Yeah. So that made us feel a little more comfortable. And we got to then we made it through there just fine. I mean, after we went through there, then we realized we were totally safe and we got to Hedonism.

00:18:24:18 – 00:19:01:25
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, but what normally takes an hour and a half drive to Montego Bay to Negril took us 5 hours, but we stopped at KFC. We did. We did. For the first time in 14 years. If you guys want some good KFC here, you if you’re staying in Montego Bay. Yeah, don’t stop because we stopped and we didn’t realize that from the time we got parked and walked in from the time we made our order, which was just a little box meals to the time we got the three little box meals was 45 minutes.

00:19:01:25 – 00:19:27:04
Tom and Bunny
Yes, it is the most profitable and most busiest KFC in the world. And also to I think that that was our downfall because we had another guest that was there in the airport with us and they had a private transfer to well, they went straight ahead and it only took them two and a half hours. Yeah. So that stop to get the chicken put us behind everything.

00:19:27:05 – 00:19:43:08
Tom and Bunny
Right. But at least we had a meal and we didn’t go in hungry but we didn’t have a bathroom so it’s no way to pull over. I was willing to pee in the bushes because all the other guys were doing that. I was Jamaican. I was willing to to help. And I was thinking I was like, Bonnie won’t care.

00:19:43:08 – 00:20:09:14
Tom and Bunny
She’ll drop her pants and pee. So we, I, we held it. I mean, Bunny are good for 2 hours and we held it for five. Well, the minute the minute I seen everything backing up, I had only probably taken like three drinks out of my soda. I’m like, no, no more. Never, never make it drink. Never. No. And Michael had had his beer and water and thank God we didn’t drink beer.

00:20:09:14 – 00:20:37:24
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, Yeah, I’m. I mean, I’m not a big fan of beer. If he had Red Stripe white, maybe, but Red Stripe, not my. It’s more like Budweiser. Yeah. And also to if you guys know this, if you go to Club Mo Bay, if you get club Mo so you know it’s going to bypass you through immigration it gives you a little lounge while you wait for you that your driver, your van, you can get rum punch to go.

00:20:37:24 – 00:20:59:23
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Thank God I did not do that. Right. Thank God I didn’t even do that. We didn’t even use the lounge. We just walked right out and gotten this car. So we get to Hedonism and they have a new general manager. So we got to meet them. Yes. Very, very nice guy. he seems like he’s going to be a a he’s going.

00:20:59:26 – 00:21:29:17
Tom and Bunny
It is. What we see, because we only saw him for two weeks. Yeah, he’ll. He’ll do good. Yes. We don’t know. The politics are how things handle from the management to the general manager. I can them right so but Bonnie made a comment that the glasses looked a little dingy and it it was water spots. It looked like the dishwashers needed to be clean.

00:21:29:17 – 00:21:49:21
Tom and Bunny
The filters. And lo and behold, the next night, all the glasses were crystal clear. It’s just, you know, it’s little things like that when you run in. Maybe they ran out of the stuff that you put in it and it didn’t stop the stuff you get in the car wash spot free rock free rent. So I don’t know.

00:21:49:21 – 00:22:17:14
Tom and Bunny
But anyway, it was nice to meet him. So very nice, very personable. Right? I love talking to him. He’s from the UK. Yeah. So we did ask though, because one of the things that we always do is, you know, hedonism has a no tipping policy. People will get fired. They will think tips get fired. So believe it or not, it’s just like any other job.

00:22:17:14 – 00:22:48:03
Tom and Bunny
People will tell management if someone gets a tip and they see it. So it’s not like they’re going to. It’s like in America, like any other job, somebody doesn’t like it because they’re not supposed to do it. That’s how they’re going to get found out. Right? So we bring Snickers bars. We brought 140 Snickers bars and then, yeah, every couple of days I’ll walk around first.

00:22:48:03 – 00:23:06:11
Tom and Bunny
I get the bartenders. Yeah, I just want to take care of the bartenders. I take care of the waitstaff. The waitstaff and the late midnight cooks. Yes. I always went out because they never get nothing. So I went over there and they were pretty excited. Yep. As we go by groundskeepers, we hand them to everybody in the front office.

00:23:06:11 – 00:23:34:06
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So we took care of everybody we could. And when you bring Snickers, they come out. Everybody’s like, I want one, I want one. And the biggest one is one of our waitstaff that we’ve known there for years. He’s like, could I have two for my grandchildren? Absolutely. Absolutely. One more. But we actually asked David, we’re like, hey, you know, they say that it tasted different.

00:23:34:12 – 00:23:58:07
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, because he’s from England. He goes, I can attest to that. Yeah. He said it was sweeter. Yeah. So yeah. So if you have any ideas, you know, they definitely tip in stickers. Yeah. And I watched Tick Tock on this English girl who tries American Foods and they have Kit Kats in England, and she tried an American Kit Kat and didn’t like it because it was too sweet.

00:23:58:08 – 00:24:30:21
Tom and Bunny
Too sweet. I remember because we do have that one bartender and he says, I don’t like sweet. Yeah. He goes, No, they’re too sweet. Too sweet. So that’s where we come in. We’re just too sweet. We are too early next year. Next time, I think we have to bring more room. So we we did get a a room and that used to be an ocean view nude room and they had to change its a guard of view regular because when you open the window all you see is a roof.

00:24:30:26 – 00:24:52:15
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, it’s right behind the dive shack. And between the flame and the dive sack, it’s actually a really good location. It has a balcony that you could sit out on that we sat on every single night. Yeah. And we got to say hi to people. Walk into the nude porn back. Now, I did find out that the particular room that we were in was horrible for cell reception.

00:24:52:18 – 00:25:15:23
Tom and Bunny
Yes. Now, for you people, if you’re trying to call Times trips, which is the number like right here, right there. But funny, that answer is because we found out about the horrible cell reception about a week into our staff. Yeah. And it literally we’re just wondering why the phone wasn’t bringing in one of our other host couples was right below us.

00:25:15:23 – 00:25:41:03
Tom and Bunny
The the room directly below us and they didn’t have any issues. It was just that particular area. When I went around, everything dropped right soft. So I told them I can’t have that room anymore. So our first week was all fat guys with hot chicks. my God, we absolutely love that group. We do. I haven’t. You know, we haven’t laughed so hard in such a long time.

00:25:41:03 – 00:26:09:18
Tom and Bunny
And it was such a good, refreshing time to go after the holidays and after the back to back with Jan. It was just great to let loose and have fun with them. Well, one of the things is it’s such they started off with, what, four or five couples years ago and now like 77 rooms. Yeah, they are so big now as a host couple, we do the pool games.

00:26:09:21 – 00:26:31:20
Tom and Bunny
We we usually bring a deejay or an entertainer, but if not, we then we got to coordinate with the Jamaican deejay. We we do the cocktail parties and we do the meet and greets. We do the offsite dinners and the pub crawls. This year, Well, last year, too. But this year was even better. They got their own entertainment committee.

00:26:31:27 – 00:27:05:07
Tom and Bunny
They’re on their own Facebook chat. And one of the couples, Paula, she’s kind of in charge of it, I think. And she coordinated the room crawl. Yeah, they they coordinated all the pool games. Me and Bunny are I mean, we did the offsite site dinner and we set up the pub crawl, but and Pat on Bunny’s back. She got those old fat guys a cooler, cooler full of beer and an extra case of beer for the winter.

00:27:05:09 – 00:27:33:13
Tom and Bunny
Before we started the pub crawl. We did. We went through over two cases. Beer? Yup. And that was just a staff plus bar at the bar and we bought all the bars. So it was it’s just very nice that we’re more of a support asset between the group and the resort. It was so nice to just sit in the pool and watch other people put on the game.

00:27:33:15 – 00:28:00:02
Tom and Bunny
We do want to say a big, huge thank you to the old fat guys with hot chicks for making us so welcome, but also allowing us to enjoy our time and not feel like we have had to be responsible for each and every single event. It was really fun. And then they have one of one of the guests works for or does Pure Romance Party.

00:28:00:03 – 00:28:24:06
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So maybe you sort of called her on that. Doc Johnson, back to you laughing because obviously we don’t know measurements. They donated all of the marital aids to give away as prizes. Yeah. So it was really, really nice. That was really cool. And up the prize value. Yes. And it just goes to show how many amazing people travel.

00:28:24:08 – 00:29:01:10
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So if you’re interested in old fat guys with hot chicks, I’ll tell you what, it’s explain. It’s not old fact, guys. Maybe one. But the the women are everything from what I twenties to. Well, yeah 56 days. So yeah. but me and Bonnie fit in well with our highway age, all that stuff, don’t you agree? Yeah.

00:29:01:17 – 00:29:24:19
Tom and Bunny
So when we went on the pub crawl, most all of us wore are old fat guys with hot chick. I’ll put that picture. Yeah. So and then we got to remember because a lot of times I said, I’ll put a picture in, you forget. So as we’re coming back in to hedonism, this young girl looks at me and she goes, Is that your old fat guy?

00:29:24:19 – 00:29:47:18
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like, Yes. And she goes, Dude, you’re too skinny. You need to be kicked out. I lost 60 some pounds. I mean, if you see our pictures and our social media and our videos, you could see I used to have a fat brown head and now it’s getting more slender. I don’t really have a gut no more.

00:29:47:20 – 00:30:11:23
Tom and Bunny
So, yeah, I should be exiled from old fat guys. Know that just goes to show that it’s not. It’s just a fun name. It is a fun name. And it’s a really, really fun group. Now what you got to do is you got to go to times trips dot com and click on group trips and you’ll see old fat guys attack sex one of the dates next year.

00:30:11:26 – 00:30:42:16
Tom and Bunny
I have it right here in front of me. my God. my gosh. She just got a new price. Pricey. February 22nd to March 1st. Right. And what’s the cheapest? Room? 310 a night per person. All right. So singles are a little slight are slightly more. So you definitely if you do double occupancy it’s cheaper all around But old fat guys attack chicks definitely, definitely recommend that because we will be there.

00:30:42:18 – 00:31:02:16
Tom and Bunny
yes, we will. We’ll be the naked ones in the nude pool, watching the game, watching the games, I think actually got up and participated in one of them. I think you did. I did. I know you did. You look like a you look like a roll of lifesavers. So they pop these big laps. yeah. gosh.

00:31:02:21 – 00:31:30:12
Tom and Bunny
And they’re like, got them. You want to go put them on and show them again? So it’s a No, we’re not. We’re are. They’re in my room. You want me? Go get it. Go get it. But I’ll explain why. So they say they’re going to have a beer chugging contest and I haven’t chugged the beer in years. And I’m thinking I can do this because it’s just those like 12 ounce glasses and I’ll just inhale both of them.

00:31:30:14 – 00:31:56:23
Tom and Bunny
Although I was up against some stiff competition because these guys, a lot of them are from Wisconsin and all they do is drink beer and eat cheese. And I but I thought I could hold my own with them and they they bring out after we’re all standing there and they hand us each two beers, they bring out these lips and body is taking forever because now I’m going to run out of time.

00:31:56:26 – 00:32:24:09
Tom and Bunny
But we all had to put these big lips on before we chugged the beer. I lied. she lied. So the lips go under your over your teeth. So basically you bite down on it like vampire teeth and you can’t drink nothing through them. So when I’m drinking it just all pouring down everything but you coming back. I’m coming back.

00:32:24:09 – 00:32:53:28
Tom and Bunny
You’re coming back. I lied. She lied. But anyway, it added a little cool fun to the actual head. I could see up your skirt. Oops. If I could have taken a picture when everybody turned around with those lips. my God. It took, like, a couple minutes to even get them on. I love. I had different colors. Yours was right.

00:32:54:04 – 00:33:14:06
Tom and Bunny
Pink was my hot pink or pink. You had pink. somebody has red. They had purple. It was the color of the rainbow up there. this is so funny. But yeah, no one could chug a beer and it just went right down here. Yes. So that was just a fun game I lost. You did lose. I thought I was going to drown.

00:33:14:08 – 00:33:50:10
Tom and Bunny
But that other that other game that we did, you look like a to a roll of lifesavers, Candy. So they have another game and we’ve been doing it for years and they throw out the little scrunchies, the thin round scrunchies, the hair ties and all the guys put them around their member. Yeah. And I’m sitting there like when we normally when we do it, we throw them all out and then people can pick them up and do it, right.

00:33:50:16 – 00:34:10:29
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. But they were giving each guy five and so this girl comes up to hand me five and I’m like, I’ll just put them on. So she starts putting them on and on and on. And mind you, my crap is broken and you got up to 12 and there was still room. You look like the rainbow of proof.

00:34:11:04 – 00:34:35:08
Tom and Bunny
I did look like the lifesavers in that. So as girls were coming around trying to collect them because they won a prize by the person who was able to pause the most off. I would only like each girl pull off for free That way. I gave more girls time to touch me. Hey, I know you did. You Did.

00:34:35:10 – 00:34:59:24
Tom and Bunny
stop, stop, stop, stop. First I let the first two girls pull them up. yeah. Then I heard they were supposed to use their mouths. yeah. So I made the other girl, honored her deal and pulled me up to the side of the pool. And then another girl. So that. That completed my. Yeah, but I. You grew up in the beginning, me being deaf.

00:34:59:24 – 00:35:10:14
Tom and Bunny
I didn’t hear the rules of the game. So even with a broken member, you still got taken care of. I did fight multiple women.

00:35:10:16 – 00:35:37:03
Tom and Bunny
That was fun. I was Later on, after we went to another resort, I was walking into the pool and our friend Denise looks up at me and goes, You got it fixed. And I said, No. She goes, What do you mean no? I said, No. That’s just where it hangs. And starts out. It gets bigger from there. Really does.

00:35:37:08 – 00:36:06:28
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Yes. She was like, I like that. It’s floating. Just the floating. So that was kind of funny. Yeah. She thought I got my junk fixed and she was like, That was fast. I just saw your video. My No, no no, no. Unfortunately, it’s not. No, no. I’ve got to make a phone call this week. All right, so back to hedonism.

00:36:06:28 – 00:36:27:07
Tom and Bunny
But no, no, we’re fine. We’re fine. Yeah, because this could be a podcast. What’s that? 35 minute. What do you want to go part two? Yeah, we got to do a part two because we still got lots of stories from It’s no swimsuit. Okay, So what? We’re going to just stop this one and restart it. We’re going to wear the same clothes and we’re going to do part two.

00:36:27:07 – 00:36:39:11
Tom and Bunny
Why? We’re still fresh thinking about it. Yeah, because I got to I got to recite my pickup lines that I heard. Okay. All right. So we’ll be back in a little bit. We’ll see you soon. Season.

 

 

Going back to Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny

Going back to Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny

We are going back to Hedonism Resort in Jamaica Feb 22, 2024 to March 13,2024 for an epic time with two really great travel groups hosted by Tom’s Trips.

Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks is our first week, this group started with a few friends from Wisconsin and this upcoming event they have over 86 rooms booked.  This group is inclusive as they never let anyone feel left out regardless and you can expect fun activities from the Room Crawl, Pub Crawls, Old Fat Guy Olympic games as well as cocktail parties and pool parties.

The Tom’s Trips Ms No Swimsuit is in it’s 24th year as a leader at Hedonism as far a pagents go.  8 ladies from resorts and clubs around the nation are chosen to represent and come with the in it to win it mentality.  Events are Nude Fashion show, Anything But Clothes, Wet T-shirt contest, Glow party, Foam party, Beach party and Catamarans with nude snorkel and partying.  Also is off site dinners and pub crawls.  The best part is, YOU ARE A JUDGE! by booking to Tom’s Trips, you are officially a judge at this event!

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Transcript

00:00:03:01 - 00:00:26:08
Unknown
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here. And I know we're getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos in the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom's trips dot com or give us a call at one 800 2850853. And I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:26:08 - 00:00:50:06
Unknown
Hey, everyone. We're Tom and Bunny coming to you live from the Nashville area. Semi-private if you're watching this. Right. And we are the host of Tom and Money.com, as well as your host on a lot of our travel that is coming up. Yes. So first off, I want to say happy Valentine's Day. Well, belated Valentine's Day because this video will probably come out about a week or so after.

00:00:50:08 - 00:01:21:03
Unknown
Well, that's okay. It's too. Happy Valentine's Day, Tom. Okay. Valentine's Day dagger drive that screwdriver. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I'm all dressed in red. You are? How come I'm not? Well, you don't have any red. Okay, But he dresses me these every time I dress. You, you. We say we look. We look like Twinkies. We So we are getting ready to head back to Hedonism Resort in Jamaica.

00:01:21:05 - 00:01:46:10
Unknown
But this time. Okay, so last time we just did January recap. Yeah. And that video we talked about being there for 17 or 18 days. This time we're going back for 21 days. Yes. And you know what? Before we got to go and have fun and and kind of be on vacation this time, we have to work. This time we do have to work.

00:01:46:13 - 00:02:15:29
Unknown
And if you watched our Tom Brokaw's, you know what video currently we do not have an update as of right this minute during the taping of this video. All I know is the reservoir is completely empty. Yeah. So there's nothing to go from the reservoir into little guy. So it's going to be a long 21 days. We're going to be just nudists at hedonism this time.

00:02:15:29 - 00:02:43:17
Unknown
Well, I have to be a me too. Me too. So at one of the things that when we got into the lifestyle, we, you know, everyone sets their ground rules, their boundaries, and we had a laundry list of them and what we found is too many roles is too many roles. It hinders. Absolutely. It does play. Are you a Leonardo DiCaprio?

00:02:43:17 - 00:03:21:09
Unknown
Are you? I just I got to hear you had a that doesn't sound good. Leonardo DiCaprio on the Super Bowl on. They caught him doing a lot. They did. And you had to pointed out it could have just got right through notice. No, no, no. So anyway, they did the CAT scan. All we know right now is the reservoir that we talked about in the video, which I couldn't think of the name for the life of me, but Bonnie had to tell me what the name was.

00:03:21:11 - 00:03:48:26
Unknown
It was empty. So that's why the little plunger goes flat, because there's nothing to draw out of the reservoir, except nothing is a thing. Exactly. So we will do another a full update video, probably after the surgery, because it's going to go really fast. It's going to go from there, going to calls with the surgery day, and we're going to find out what they're going to do, probably the day of surgery.

00:03:48:26 - 00:04:10:23
Unknown
Well, he did actually tell you, though, that it's going to be a complete replacement. Right. But you never know what happens. I know. Yeah, lots of things can happen. He said he did contact insurance. And what he did say is, since I already have it in my body that the insurance can't refuse it, but it could take a while to approve it.

00:04:10:24 - 00:04:33:27
Unknown
Right. And they did tell us that it could take up to two weeks. Yeah, but he's going to be on the phone with them tomorrow to tell them our travel schedule because we're that important. And she's going to say, Do you know who you're talking to Exactly. he's people, right? We need this fixed. You know what? We should we should tell them to do it for free.

00:04:33:29 - 00:04:59:16
Unknown
Because in the for a sponsorship, because we talk about it all the time. You know, somebody asked me last night that I wanted a Philly account with them. And I said, you know what? No, I and my my main reasoning is, is the partners in necklaces. We do not have an affiliate. We do not get no monetary or nothing from them.

00:04:59:22 - 00:05:28:01
Unknown
We just love, love, love their jewelry, spunk, love. We they send us love to share around partners. It sends us necklaces to give away. It's not like we're selling them. And motor body God, we love motor money. They send us randomly some motor buddies for clubs and different events and stuff like that. No, we are giving away motor bunnies.

00:05:28:03 - 00:05:49:23
Unknown
So before we get for our email, but just let you know for the next four or five months that motor money is going to be getting a lot of use. Should I be jealous of motor body? Right. Are you saying you're going to cheat on me with a motor buddy? You can watch. I can watch. I can't watch.

00:05:49:25 - 00:06:16:00
Unknown
Can't touch. I can watch. But that's okay. As long as Barney's happy. I am happy. Of course. Of course. Right. Okay. You know what, though? While we're on that subject and people probably are asking, so can you not do anything? Well, I didn't want to make this video about my job. I think we should, but we already did a video about my junk.

00:06:16:00 - 00:06:37:29
Unknown
I think people want to hear more about what our upcoming plans are. All right. So, yeah, we'll talk about my junk and the good, bad, the ugly, the everything when we do the update video because we need 30 minutes to talk about something. That's what the algorithms say. All right. So we did try to do the dirty last night.

00:06:38:04 - 00:07:00:19
Unknown
We did. It was like we were in high school all over again. All right, enough with that. We'll talk about the dirty last night on a future podcast. Kind of like a clickbait. There you go. And then that way we can talk about we'll do it after the surgery schedule and talk about how we overcame certain sexual reasons.

00:07:00:20 - 00:07:27:12
Unknown
Of course. All right, fine. I want to talk about your junk. If you're listening to this, our podcast, jump over to YouTube and just search Tom and Bonnie. And if you're on YouTube, you can listen to all of our videos on podcast. You just won't be able to see us or any images. We put spots on the screen like, like this one here, like Tom's trips, right?

00:07:27:12 - 00:07:53:09
Unknown
Exactly. The end, it was almost a nip slip. So they definitely don't want it over there anyways. That would have been good. Would you say call the Enquirer? Call the Enquirer? Yes. Yes. So we are actually like those dresses, too. Yes, of course. We get a lot of compliments on these dresses. That's why Bunny wears them. That's why Bunny buys them is because if we get positive feedback, it encourages we get negative feedback.

00:07:53:09 - 00:08:11:21
Unknown
We just have to block people. And that sucks. And we don't want we don't want to block people. But you know what? I do buy a lot of my dresses on Amazon, so I should start putting them back up. You should know that's how we can make money. Go to Tom and money.com. We'll put an Amazon link up and all you got to do is click on it.

00:08:11:21 - 00:08:37:18
Unknown
You could buy anything, just click on that link and then we'll make a penny or two per sale. But if a billion people that actually buy something, we might make $1,000,000. Really, we would take that much out of. Jeff Well, if a billion people and you divide that down to one penny per transaction, I think that's like 1 million.

00:08:37:18 - 00:09:06:12
Unknown
I think a billion people. I think you're really reaching. I'm reaching. We're not that popular. I know we've got friends and family watching this. Maybe next year, maybe if you have a nip slip, maybe, just maybe. Right. I was looking through our Facebook and there's just it's just a general picture of Bunny standing. We have three bars in our dining room.

00:09:06:14 - 00:09:30:07
Unknown
Would you have seen our bar? That was the big backdrop behind us before. But we also have and if you go to our Facebook, you'll see Bunny standing in front of a bar. And then we have a whiskey keg. That's another bar that image has almost 11,000 likes on it and like a thousand comments and it doesn't show nearly what you're showing now.

00:09:30:10 - 00:09:49:07
Unknown
Well, maybe I have to do. The next one is in turtlenecks that you want her to wear. Turtlenecks say yes or no. And that yes, the turtlenecks are no. The turtlenecks in the I don't want you to look like what's her name? Haley. Nikki Haley. She wears a lot of turtlenecks. Are you? Don't want me to look like a grandma.

00:09:49:09 - 00:10:12:16
Unknown
I don't want you to look like a grandma. So if you love Nike, Nikki Haley, nothing wrong with that. It's just I think she'd get more support with a shirt like this just so she bends over a little bit. Yeah, Kind of jiggle. So. So, yeah, we're getting ready to head back to Hedonism. They got to be general manager.

00:10:12:17 - 00:10:37:13
Unknown
They do. I know. We just found out today. Today? So I was just posted. There's a Facebook group called our Favorite Jamaican Vacation Place. And it's a great group. There's like 15, 16, 17,000 members on there, but it's about hedonism. So if you want to know more about hedonism, you can jump on there. Make sure you book with Tom, strip stuff.

00:10:37:14 - 00:11:03:04
Unknown
Well, keep your loyalty where you anywhere from? Don't go anywhere else. Just call me. So we're going back with two events this time. And a vacation. And a vacation. Yes, we we, I we will definitely need that relaxing vacation after I got a hair on my eye. Now, see, I came from my nose. Your nose? A lot more.

00:11:03:06 - 00:11:33:29
Unknown
So the first group that we're going to go with is we're going to go April 28th, not April, February 22nd. Yes. And then we'll be there till March 13th. So that's a long time. It is a long time. It's a long time. So February, where is it? February 24th start starts the old fat guys with hot chicks. Now let's create a picture.

00:11:34:01 - 00:11:58:07
Unknown
This is not like the Facebook meme of all the big fat guys that are rich and wealthy billionaires with the yachts and private planes and the little skinny, tiny little boy. Yes, that's not this kind of good old fat guys. And hot chicks are like me and Bonnie. Yes, we are a great representation. We are. Absolutely. Yeah. And it's all about our ages.

00:11:58:07 - 00:12:21:05
Unknown
I mean, we have people that are as young as early thirties and some that are quite older, but the core group is right in their we're just and we love to party it. They are the best group. So one of the things and we sit and probably mention this on YouTube because our bosses could be watching it. I got to talk my head this way.

00:12:21:05 - 00:12:46:16
Unknown
I don't know why it's not at this, but we love the group because we're we're there as our company motto is we show you a good time by having a good time ourselves. So this group is one of the few groups where they're got, what, 80 plus room? So we do it's going to be a very, very big crowd.

00:12:46:20 - 00:13:09:14
Unknown
So they have a little committee, not a little committee. It's a big chat group, but they have their own committee. Their committee puts on their entertainment, their pool games. The room chromium body started a room crawl years ago and they have since taken it over and take taken what we started and made it a great thing because we don't have to be involved.

00:13:09:17 - 00:13:33:04
Unknown
I just have the method out with the rooms right all And this group is very accepting of everyone. If you are there by yourself, you are welcome into the group. If you're with another group, you're welcome to come party with us. It's it's not about drawing lines in the sand. It's just about having a great vacation and a great time.

00:13:33:07 - 00:14:01:26
Unknown
And and one of the things that that group leaders, just our group leaders, they say, is if any of the guests have issues, normally they would come to me and Buddy and then we would deal with it. But they like to be hands on. And so they tell all the guests, you have an issue, you come to them, and then if they can't fix it, they will come to us and then they expect us to fix it.

00:14:01:28 - 00:14:24:00
Unknown
And you know what? We are so good with that. And they tell their group we're there to party and have a great time with them because they truly enjoy our company as much as we enjoy theirs. I'm just saying that we'll find out next year and find out next year for invited back. So we're going to have just a great time.

00:14:24:00 - 00:14:44:19
Unknown
We're going to take we're going to drink beer and eat cheese curds, drink beer and eat cheese curds. Just the word cheese curds sound gross. You know, a lot of them are from Wisconsin. I got to tell my head this way. Again, they're they're from Wisconsin and Canada, but now they're all over the world. you know, the bad part.

00:14:44:22 - 00:15:09:17
Unknown
The bad part about that group. By the time by the time they leave, you would think that I'm from Wisconsin. Bonnie gets the accent. She visits her sister in Oklahoma within hours. She has an Oklahoma accent. She visits friends in Texas. She's talking about pizza. When there are all kinds of stuff I can adapt. She adapts to fast.

00:15:09:19 - 00:15:36:01
Unknown
Good thing that we don't go to New Jersey, right? So, yeah, they're going to they got their own entertainer coming out. The pull games will assist them in everything that they need assistance on. They will have at our site dinner with 20 people going to Ivan's. There's room here. Bonnie will go. But if not me, I'm it. We go all the time, so we'd rather as many people can take advantage of that.

00:15:36:01 - 00:16:04:03
Unknown
And they have their own host. And we we because we definitely want everybody to experience different parts of Jamaica to not just hedonism and then the pub crawl. We will definitely be on the pub crawl. We expect normally we take one bus and about 26 people and trust me, they're in there pretty tight. This group will need two busses and we'll have probably 60 plus people and they will be sitting on each other's laps.

00:16:04:03 - 00:16:25:22
Unknown
But and enjoying it and enjoying it. They're going to be hooting and hollering. They're going to be drinking. We're right now trying to set up a couple cases of beer so they can pre-game and they don't need to pre-game because the first bar we're going to, the drinks are two box seats. So it's for me. Well, I guess it is good.

00:16:25:22 - 00:16:59:26
Unknown
Ten, 15 minutes away. But we will be burying it a whole bunch of cruises now, also, too, they've already kind of got the catamaran situated, too. And we're going to have probably 90 to 100 people signing up on a catamaran that fits 80. So I did talk to the catamaran owner when I was there in January, and I told him that I've got a big group coming in and said, Hey, give me a call if you need two catamarans, one for your group and one for the rest of the reason.

00:16:59:26 - 00:17:35:20
Unknown
Yeah, you guys will definitely bring it to them. All fat guys will definitely have their own their own catamaran. boy. Yeah, we will be. We a lot of times, me and Buddy don't go on the catamaran. It's a great adventure, but we work a lot. Why? We're at Hedonism, so that's kind of our downtime. So when the catamaran goes out at 1030 in the morning and comes back at two in the afternoon, that's our we go to our room and kind of just chill out, watch TV, play on Tik Tok and think of future videos and then go sit down at the grill and watch people come back.

00:17:35:21 - 00:17:58:17
Unknown
Yeah, All stumble back, bring something back over themselves. But you know what? I'm also there to show you the time. So on the catamaran, you're going to be the one showing a good time because obviously I'm not. No, they can all try. They could try. There you go. You can try to have a contest. Just line the girls up and say, who gets it up first?

00:17:58:17 - 00:18:25:19
Unknown
When's nobody's going to win? But that's the head neck. We just don't tell them to be like the girls never came and we're good. We're okay with this because this is fixable. So it's not I mean, if it wasn't fixable, we would not be doing videos and I'd be in complete depression, sucking my thumb in my bed, cry myself to sleep every night.

00:18:25:21 - 00:18:47:01
Unknown
I totally in in. You know what That what this is you guys all know with us. We just like to have fun in life. Yeah. And so, you know what? You got to be able to roll with the punches, right? And like they say, you got to be able to roll with the punches on the punch here. And you've been punched.

00:18:47:01 - 00:19:09:28
Unknown
I've vampire's remember, I just had had surgery too. So she has to do a lot of extra stuff because like I can't opening a big luggage around with because I have no strength in the tenderness alone and even open an apple juice. I can't even open apple juice. But she could barely open it. These things are childproof. They're the they're the ones that look like the Martinelli's.

00:19:09:28 - 00:19:36:16
Unknown
They look like apples. Well, if I were to send that to kindergarten with my kid, they would never be able to get it. We have to send a pair of channel locks because we actually open on what channel locks out of my toolbox? I'll tell you. I'll tell you. But the following week is our original swimsuit contest. Okay, So we started well, our original with Tom's trips was Miss not swimsuit.

00:19:36:18 - 00:20:05:07
Unknown
And we ran a club in California for 20 years. We would send contestants and our first contestant that we sent, she won Miss No swimsuit. So that's an ego. Obviously, it wasn't their first miss. No swimsuit, but Playboy was at Hedonism, so our girl was in Playboy videos and all kinds of stuff. She got really popular back in California.

00:20:05:12 - 00:20:33:27
Unknown
It was back in the earlier days of Miss Nonsense Time. So we traveled every year for six years, going back to hedonism specific perfectly for the no swimsuit, and I was the trunk person that stumbled off the bus from the pub crawl or off the boat coming back for the catamaran. I was the drunk. We were we were the sponsors that everybody wanted to have because we were just like, We have fun.

00:20:33:28 - 00:20:57:07
Unknown
Yeah, we told our girl, You know what? There's ten other resorts and clubs here representing. They're all going to vote for their girl. So don't go for first place. Just be there. Second place and the second place could win it. So that's kind of a hidden secret, by the way, that we do our the point six system. Yeah, absolutely.

00:20:57:07 - 00:21:22:24
Unknown
Second, if you state, just vote for me. Second vote for me second. Of course you can win. Yeah, we did have several other girls that came in second and third Miss Congeniality, so we've had great representation. And then six years ago, we decided to quit the nightclub business and go to work for Tom's trips. And part of our deal was we go to Miss no swimsuit every year.

00:21:22:29 - 00:21:47:11
Unknown
Yeah, because that's when all of our friends go to. Yeah. And all the clubs and all these friends that we have made throughout all these years. And it's just it's a great reunion every year. Now, keep in mind, if you book any of the 18 group trips that Tom's trips offers, and I think it's 19 now with The Lovers, most people travel the same time every year.

00:21:47:12 - 00:22:12:18
Unknown
So if you are only able to travel in June, Cassidy Crush a lot of those people travel the same time. You will make the same relationships that we make every trip, but also like we do at no swimsuit. And each year you go back, you have a reunion with your current friends that you made previous years, and all of a sudden you are making new friends.

00:22:12:18 - 00:22:42:00
Unknown
Yeah, you're adding you're adding more and more on because like in no swimsuit, the clubs invite more and more people to come vote for their contested. So we get to meet there. It's like on the border Justin and Katie they their group is a very friendly group and I'm not singling out anyone else. We love the corral. The Corral Host Now, justin kelly, they have on the border of Oklahoma.

00:22:44:15 - 00:23:09:08
Unknown
The corral. They will be sponsoring the globe party. That's one of the biggest events on the border. Is going to sponsor the white T-shirt contest. no, no, no, I did not. Yeah, because he said because we take pictures, but we have to have a model released. So everyone has a green wristband and he says those are by far the best pictures because we don't have to delete so many pictures because we can capture a small area.

00:23:09:08 - 00:23:32:12
Unknown
Very true. Where on the Glo Party we can't tell who's who. So it's we we have to know who's signed or not. On the catamaran we delete probably about 90% of the pictures. A lot of the events, we delete a lot of the pictures because if one person did not sign our model release, unfortunately we don't even blur their faces.

00:23:32:12 - 00:23:56:13
Unknown
We tried to, but we decided we didn't want to do that right Then we've got Club Sapphire out of Seattle, Washington. They've had multiple winners, like back. Yeah, years. Yeah. We could never get past him when we were with free two acres. No, no, Becky. She was a past winner. She'll be there, Kim. So be there from the corral.

00:23:56:13 - 00:24:25:16
Unknown
She was last that. No, Dee from Sapphire was last year's winner. So Sapphire, we'll have two winners there this year, and Sapphire will have two. D will be there. Janice will be back. Okay, so we're going to have probably a good five or six reigning or past Miss No swimsuits. She was going to say Miss F I was because our club was right there, almost right there at the end of the bus.

00:24:25:16 - 00:24:50:16
Unknown
Again, six and a half years later, I'm still saying free makers, but no, you got MTV, we've got trapeze. Well, we got the new one, Paradise Last Resort. And their girl is going to she's going to do good because she flew into Paradise Lakes just to compete and she won it. Hey, can I see a funny story about MSP?

00:24:50:18 - 00:25:10:09
Unknown
Sure. If as long as they don't hate us for it, he. No, he won't. And I was just going to say his name. Jesse, Jesse and Jody. They're awesome. He's so laid back and he has is when just when he when I go to take their picture he has a certain pose where he's kissing her. Yeah. The cheek.

00:25:10:11 - 00:25:31:04
Unknown
And he has to do that pose every time I time. So when I do take the picture and he forgets, I remind him of his pose. So signature pose. I didn't know that. He didn't know how to swim. No, that's right. And Glow party is my night to let loose and cut up and have a good time. So it was probably what got abandoned.

00:25:31:05 - 00:25:51:22
Unknown
1130, 12:00 at night. It was hot. And I was like, Hey, let's in. It's on the pool deck and skinny. I'm like, Hey, Jesse, let's go skinny dipping. And guess what? I said, Yeah, yeah, we're all going to jump down and, you know, strip down, go swimming. And he goes, Okay, okay. And I'm like, It's okay. There's going to be other people.

00:25:51:25 - 00:26:19:07
Unknown
So she thought he was just being shy. So we both stepped down, jumped in the water. His wife didn't strip down, she just went there clothes, and then somebody else jumped in and in. She's like, He doesn't know how to swim. Hey, I feel I can laugh about it now, but I felt horrible at the time, right? So we had a few people jump in to save him.

00:26:19:09 - 00:26:43:00
Unknown
But you know what? He was having a good time. Of course. You know, I've always got to be in there to kind of stir it up a little bit. You know, our boss will keep his name off. He's usually the first to jump in the pool during the what's the nude fashion show. Yeah. So he'll usually jump in the pool right after the.

00:26:43:02 - 00:27:10:04
Unknown
He did jump in the pool that night too. And his wife kind of got upset. She goes, I thought I said, you know, swimming tonight. And he's like, well, Bunny started it and then we had to save Jesse. So Mr. Swimsuit has some great events, so let's just go through that. We have eight we have eight contestants this year, eight contestants representing We have trapeze from Atlanta, Georgia.

00:27:10:04 - 00:27:39:24
Unknown
Yes. They also have a trapeze in Fort Lauderdale. We have nobody. No, we have not. In Orlando. Stacy is representing Naughty Islands. We have on the border. Yep, We have the corral. Yep, we have Paradise Lake Resort. Yes, we have Club Sapphire Club Sapphire. We've got Marcia and Venus. Marcia, Venus. my goodness. You for getting look on your phone.

00:27:39:27 - 00:28:06:18
Unknown
Hold on. We get some new ones every year and we're just shooting from the hip. We didn't have a document printed in front of us, so forgive us. Forgive us, because it's probably going to be somebody that I always remember. And it's right there. Contestants Corral. Duh. We've been around the whole time. Vibe five Okay, so five wasn't there last year?

00:28:06:18 - 00:28:33:01
Unknown
No, they've been there several years before and they weren't there last year and they are coming this year. So yes, Vibe. Vibe is a club out of Nashville and it's a hotel takeover. They literally sell out of two hotels within minutes. It's like 16 ticket master. Yeah, well, and we're not talking 10 minutes, we're talking under five, right?

00:28:33:01 - 00:28:58:11
Unknown
So even if we did promotional videos for them, it doesn't guarantee we would even get a room. No, no. But so that's, you know, it's just. Well, some of the events. Yeah. Okay. I was going to say, it's just that, you know, all the girls we do, we're going to have the new fashion show and we will take over the main pool deck.

00:28:58:15 - 00:29:18:20
Unknown
Right. And we do a pool party up there during the afternoon and we do the nude fashion show, the girls, and what do they do? So they are nude. They might wear a necklace. Can't, Heidi, Some of them, we're like little types of body or shoes. Yeah, we tell them to wear shoes because that kind of makes it sexy.

00:29:18:23 - 00:29:43:18
Unknown
Yeah. In anything. I mean, on the border. Kelly when she ran, she did. That's our buzzer to say shut up is 30 minutes D she what she did really cute. She had like headphones on and she had a fanny pack and she just danced around like, like the eighties. Yeah, Yeah. And then we have certain type things like that.

00:29:43:22 - 00:30:13:22
Unknown
We have another event called Anything But Clothes. And that's where the contestants like I, I, i, it was cute. I we were at Paradise Lakes and I was explaining anything about clothes and I was explaining something that happened years, years ago. And I said, this girl came out with sponges and rags and air fresheners and all kinds of stuff taped to her body.

00:30:13:25 - 00:30:35:14
Unknown
And she came out to the song at the car wash. Yeah. And I was explaining cause that that's my best way of explaining anything but clothes. And the girl that did that was in competing because that was me. That was me. And I'm like, my God, you're from Canada, You know, now she's from Florida. Yeah, but she was from Canada.

00:30:35:16 - 00:31:06:27
Unknown
So yeah, they'll, they'll do put together their outfit with and anything but clothes and then they try to dance to a song that kind of matches it. Right. So we have the globe Party and like I said, the crowd will be the sponsoring the Glo Party. They bring out tables full of glow stuff. This isn't cheap, people. You know, we had in the past, people were sponsoring the Glow party.

00:31:07:03 - 00:31:32:26
Unknown
They were so hardcore. They would take almost like a go fund me at their club. They would spend $5,000 on just glow cups, glow glasses, glow bracelets, glow everything and just give it all out within 30, 40 minutes. And now the crowd has stepped up to do it. And I don't even want to know what their budget is.

00:31:32:26 - 00:32:02:04
Unknown
No. And then we do. We will have one or two that will sponsor the catamarans because we actually will take two catamarans out. Yes. And two, two usually. Well, for representatives will be on one catamaran and four representatives will be on the other. They will be packed. Right now, I don't even know if me and Bonnie are going to be on the catamaran scope, but we do know our entertainers will be on each catamaran.

00:32:02:04 - 00:32:24:28
Unknown
Yeah. So we'll have one one entertainer on each catamaran that will keep that party going right now. You got me rubbing my nose. Yeah. See? See what happens. And then they have. Of course, you got to do a lot. I just got to do a wet T-shirt contest doing the wet T-shirt that's on the border. And then. Well, you obviously know what a way T-shirt contest is, right?

00:32:25:00 - 00:32:50:17
Unknown
And then during Thursday night, when they have the talent show, each one of the contestants has to do with some type of a talent on the tent. I videotaped those. So I do videotape it. So I record those. And but I only record our contestants and they're the only ones on stage. And if they bring anyone up on stage, they have to have a band on.

00:32:50:20 - 00:33:16:04
Unknown
There also is an it's the video music Down by The Prude. Paul yeah, yeah. We do that on Wednesday night. Yeah. And that's going to be sponsored by Paradise Lakes Resort because that is a great way, because it's at a bar, at a pool on the beach. So it's really good. And we start setting, we do video and we do video music.

00:33:16:05 - 00:33:35:18
Unknown
Video music down there. Yeah. And then on Friday, while everybody is voting for their well, one, one will sponsor a pool party at the nude pool. Yeah. So that I don't know what club, we don't know what all the sponsors are doing yet except for a couple because it got slipped out. So they're getting slipped out right here.

00:33:35:21 - 00:34:00:11
Unknown
But at the nude pool, they will sponsor the games and they'll dictate the music and they'll do that. Yeah. Don't give away all their swag from their club. Ah, and that's the great thing is because they're trying to win your votes. Yes, you are. So if you book with times trips, you are one of the judges and you pick three contestants.

00:34:00:13 - 00:34:22:04
Unknown
So the last day, Friday is when the voting begins. The voting begins. And while the voting is going on, all of the husbands or the boyfriends, they have to compete in what we call our man in motion. Right? Basically, it started off where the men had to get up there and dance and see what the girls are going through.

00:34:22:07 - 00:34:47:29
Unknown
And it's kind of evolved into a drag show. Yeah, Yeah, it has. It's a it's a fun thing, though. They're having a lot of them get shy and they're having a blast. But, you know, it's funny and it brings them out of their show. It does. A lot of them will wear their wives or their girlfriends. I think looking at your who has one of their costumes that they've worn throughout.

00:34:48:01 - 00:35:09:19
Unknown
Yes. Throughout the week. So it's it makes it really fun. And I was a man in motion one time because a contestant was there by herself and didn't have anyone. So I stepped up to the game. We heard our bosses say, Tom will do it, and we're way away. And I heard it and I'm deaf. And so he said it loud, So they must have seen us.

00:35:09:19 - 00:35:29:14
Unknown
So they've seen this coming up. Yeah. So we walk over and they're like, We need you to step up. We need you to do them. An emotion. I didn't even know what it was. Okay, okay. Do. And then but. And then we got Jim to do it with you too. yeah, yeah, yeah. But I think it's a rite of passage.

00:35:29:15 - 00:35:48:12
Unknown
It is. This time we'll have to get Jerry to do it. I think so. I definitely think Jerry needs to do it because we know Jeremy did it. Yeah. Yeah, he did the whole stripper moves and everything. But Jerry I think Jerry needs to do it because he has the dance moves. He does so well. What? We'll talk about Jerry and the kids.

00:35:48:12 - 00:36:16:15
Unknown
I think there there's one contestant that does have somebody willing to do it. We'll see. So we'll throw his name under the bus. So while the man in motion is happening, all the voting is taking place. And then when we go in and we count all the votes, one, two and three, and each one gets so many points, I think one gets five points to get three points and third place gets one point or something like that.

00:36:16:17 - 00:36:50:29
Unknown
And that's how someone who gets more second place can win overall. So we count them and then we have a Jamaican from the resort account for all of our votes to verify that indeed they are accurate and true. So that's our accounting system. Yes. But now, just so you know, if you watch this far, 2024 sold out and so Spencer laid out four for a while.

00:36:51:01 - 00:37:31:14
Unknown
So I have put up and you can see a lot of the pictures are older. I got to update the site but go to no swimsuit dot com and I have pictures and there's ways that links the book there are you can go to Tom strips dot com and you can click on no swimsuit under group trips but also old fat guys yes but either one there are two amazing weeks and a lot of people will book old fat guys and three or four days into no swimsuit and there's people that all book all of no swimsuit and back day a couple days in old fat guys because old fat guys and hot chicks is

00:37:31:14 - 00:38:00:20
Unknown
such a great group that they want that crossover when the old fat guys, they like to book somewhat in, too, because Then they get to vote before they leave. So you don't have to just vote on Friday. If you're there for part of the week and you're leaving early, you still get early voting. Yes. All you got to do is let one of us know that you're leaving on a certain day and we'll we'll get you a ballot and we'll tuck it away and we'll add it to the rest of the ballots on Friday.

00:38:00:22 - 00:38:33:08
Unknown
Yep. And then after that, we're we're going to What's the Grand Lido? Grand Lido, which is directly across the street. And this hotel is a very upscale five star resort. So we got several rooms and we got a swim up room. It has a butler who, if you want to go somewhere, you call a golf cart to pick you up.

00:38:33:13 - 00:38:52:23
Unknown
Apparently other people that know about the golf cart, but we heard about it. So we will definitely use that. And they have all kinds of restaurants and everything. Toms Trumps does not book Grand Lido. We're just going there for a company meeting, I think. Yeah, that's that's that's what I'm going to call it. We have to discuss. Yeah.

00:38:52:23 - 00:39:15:17
Unknown
What happened this year. Right. I can do next year. What we could do better next year. Yes. So, but Grand Lido has like five different areas and we're in the adult only clothing optional area. So we can pretty much do whatever we want because we got all the rooms in that area. But it's just a vacation for us, right?

00:39:15:20 - 00:39:40:27
Unknown
I mean, we're there not to work where I'm not there to take pictures and anything just to have a good time. Exactly how much time when we have. We are way past Bay. We are 39 minutes. my God. Sorry. So that is what we have coming up. Sorry we talked so long. Sorry about Barney's dress. It. It should be a turtleneck.

00:39:40:29 - 00:40:05:03
Unknown
Remember? In the comments, right? Yes, Turtleneck. Ah, no to turtleneck. And whatever you guys vote on is what she's wearing. Yeah, well, not in the next few videos, because we're going to do another couple of videos before we leave. It'll be after we come back. So, you know, I was just looking at pictures of Britney Mahomes and all of them.

00:40:05:05 - 00:40:26:13
Unknown
They can wear these dresses, but when I wear them, people are like, you shouldn't be wearing too old for that. Yeah. No. Yeah, I don't think so. I like it. I think they're 38. You're 39 years later? Yes. I still stare all right, well, we're going to wrap this one up. Yeah, we're going to do some just attempt videos.

00:40:26:13 - 00:40:52:20
Unknown
Yeah, We're going to talk about how you can know we're not. They're going to watch it. They're going to watch it. All right. So look for the big green screens with the flying. Kind of just a tip. Travel advice. Yes. So until next time, we'll see you there. No, you need to book. You need to buck go to Tom's Trip.com or one 800 2850853 and you can talk to me.

00:40:52:24 - 00:41:19:15
Unknown
Yes. Funny actually answers the phone now if it goes to voicemail, our boss gets those and she usually kicks them back to Bonnie. Ah. If you leave a message saying, Hey, I wanted to work with Bonnie, she will definitely kick that one back because Bonnie only makes a commission. Exactly. So follow us on Twitter, Instagram. just look at just search Tom and Bonnie, just as it's sitting there on the screen.

00:41:19:17 - 00:41:24:28
Unknown
We keep it easy. Keep it easy. All right. All right. So now we can buy by time.

Lifestyle Month at Hedonism Recap with Tom and Bunny

Lifestyle Month at Hedonism Recap with Tom and Bunny

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Tom broke his penis at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica

Tom broke his penis at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica!

Yes, Tom broke his penis at the world famous Clothing Optional, Nudist and Lifestyle resort Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica.   After years of suffering with ED the un imaginal happened and today we discuss in full detail about this experience!

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Should you be a social media influencer for the lifestyle

Should you be a social media influencer for the lifestyle

We talk about the good, the bad and the ugly about becoming a Social Media Influencer in the swingers lifestyle.   We see a lot of new and upcoming couples creating content and we offer our opinions on being out and possible issues with Friends, Family, Co-workers, Neighbors and Jobs.

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