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Virtual Party Recap – Live Coaching and Live podcast

Virtual Swing Party Recap – Live Coaching and live podcasting
We discuss all the fun from the Virtual Swing Party event hosted on April 25th 2020 and what happened in our room, we also discuss us becoming certified Life Coaches and to schedule a session with us on www.TomandBunny.com  and our breaking news of our Live podcast starting Thursday May 7th at 8pm CST and continuing every Thursday and you can get all the details at www.swingwithtomandbunny.com

We mention in this episode the cam couple and would post their twitter @Laceycoffeegirl Give them a follow, very nice couple.

The photo below is of us just before going live on the virtual swing party

Day 40 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Virtual Swing Party

Day 40 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Virtual Swing Party

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Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

Are you looking to do something while Social Distancing?  Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic!
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Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. To obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
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Swing with TomandBunny Live podcast


How do we meet TomandBunny

How to meet us

TomandBunny behind the scenes making videos for the swingers lifestyle

We are always asked about how we meet people or how they could meet us?
Because of our openness about the swinging lifestyle and yes we are a couple that enjoys meeting other couples and select singles for friendships and fun!  We do receive a lot of email messages and comments on our videos and post about wanting to meet us just to meet us to actual offers to play.  We created this page to help people meet us for the possibilities of play and some hints on how to get our attention, and others.

We are on all the major sites listed below, ( Kasidie, SDC & SLS )  we are on many others but we are mainly active on these three as we have found them to be the best for our needs.

If you are on any of these sites already, you can send us an email to our profile and we are listed as TomandBunny on all three sites.

If not a member on any of the sites, you can join them all for FREE with no credit card required.  On Kasidie, they offer us 90 days free and SDC and SLS 30 days free, these are not bait sites but actual real sites that we use for our personal lifestyle experience.  Each site offers their own unique features and we suggest joining them all. One site may have a better following in one location over another,  so not all sites would work depending on your location. We found benefits using all three during our travels.

Description of you as a couple or single lady or single male:
Take a minute and complete a quality description. Tell a story about you, as a couple, single lady or single male. Describe to the reader who they would meet in person, you do not have to go overboard. Avoid a one line description such as “We are a hot couple, looking for other hot couples”.  We like substance in the people we plan to meet, and because we have not met you,  we would want to feel we have some connection when we do meet in person.

Some suggestions, describe each of you individually with as much detail to give the reader a mental visualization of you. IE: hair color and length, eye color, body type, sense of humor or lack of. When describing yourselves you don’t have to be vulgar or tell the world how amazing you are at oral or sexual positions. Its good idea to tell people what you like to do or what you would like to try. You should comment your level of play you are comfortable with, such as are you Straight, Bi sexual, Bi Curious, open to all possibilities but undecided on your sexuality.  You should also include some personal activities as many others may be attracted to someone they have something in common with, IE: Do you ride motorcycles, do you go boating, camping, sing karaoke etc…

What are you looking for:
Our biggest suggestion is keeping this area all positives and no negatives.  You can list what you don’t want without being rude about it.  You don’t have to go overboard on this section, the more you add the more you will exclude, if that makes any sense. it’s like a search, the more you put in the less results come up.  If you are looking for Couples only this would be a good place to put that. You don’t have to scream that “If we want a single male we will contact you”, if they email you, you can just delete the email. No need to make your profile rude and you shouldn’t fault people for at least reaching out. While you may not be into something today, doesn’t mean tomorrow you may change your mind, that is the beauty of swinging.

Suggestions of what you should list and what you are looking for. IE: If you are very specific and only want fit couples, list that as requirement, however if you are open to all body types, you should mention that so people will know.  If you don’t want people who smoke you should mention that, if you don’t care if they smoke or not, there is no reason to mention that.

We personally are attracted to profiles that can articulate what they want without sounding negative to those who they are not interested in, meaning, we prefer nice and positive people. some will say they are being direct, we say there is a huge difference between being direct and just being rude.

Contacting us on sites:
When emailing us, it is best to tell us something other than just a one word email IE: “Hello” or “Hey” or “Hi“.  Tell us what brought you to email us. What was it in our profile that specifically made you feel you had a connection, was it our photos, was it something in our profile description, maybe what we were looking for, or was it something we listed that we enjoyed that caught your eye?  We, like many others, like compliments. We want to know that someone actually took the time to read our profile, looked at our photos and genuinely had an attraction to us as a couple, not just one of us.   When we email people we always tell them why we are contacting them, but we also list some things in their profile that we found exciting so they know we read their profile, and we always end our email with a question that they can respond to.

Here is our list that we look at when we receive an email:

  1. Did the email introduce themselves and ask questions we could respond to?
  2. Is the profile a Couple, Single Female or Single male?
  3. Does the profile have any photos?
  4. If a couple, are there photos of both the male and female posted?
  5. If they have photos, what is the quality of photos, how old are the photos?
  6. Do they have faces? if not do they have private photos?
  7. Did they open their private photos when they initially emailed us?
  8. We read the full description and what they are looking for in others
  9. Does the description and seeking appear to be what we would be looking for?
  10. We will look at the profile location and ages of the couple or single
  11. If available we look at the age of the profile, how long have they been on the site
  12. We will look for certification of the profile and compare to the date of the profile
  13. We will look at the dates of the certification, are they old or recent
  14. We actually read the certifications and look at the profiles of those who certified

Follow up on what we look for:
We put our face photos on all our profiles and we do have private photos that we do share with profiles that we have an attraction to.  We understand that not everyone can or feels comfortable putting their faces on their profile, we do expect to actually see the couple that we will be emailing with. We suggest putting your non face photos in the public or verified photo gallery and your faces in the private gallery. We would expect people who do not have publicly visible face photos to open their privates without us asking them to. Some express they wanted to see if we had an attraction on their profile before opening their private photos, the answer is no, without seeing your entire profile, we do not. You can have all the body photos in the world, we are attracted to warm smiles and pleasant looks.  We only share our private photos with people we actually plan to meet, our face and body photos are all visible to everyone already.  We prefer to see G-Rated photos, and we enjoy seeing nudes of the people we plan to play with, but we don’t have to see nudes on the initial email.  We upload quality photos, so we expect with the technology of the phones and cameras today, there is no reason for grainy or low quality photos.  We feel that they are hiding something or they are very old photos from old technology and we have to question, what do they look like today.

We meet people based on both physical and mental attractions:
We understand people may use different names in the lifestyle, fudge their ages and weights etc.. we don’t care. It’s about physical and mental attractions, that is why we require photos for the physical and a well written profile for the mental.  A good example is we know couples in their mid to late 60’s that look like they are in their 30’s and 40’s and we know couples in their 30’s and 40’s that look in their 60’s. We never go by ages or weights, if we look at a couple and say ” We wouldn’t kick them out of bed for eating crackers “, we have an attraction.

Become certified:
Remember, there are a lot of fakes, flakes and catfish on the internet, use your best judgement. We look for certifications to help us make a decision. However, we don’t view certifications from the website as a “real” certification, we honestly hate those because anyone can hold a sign with their screen name and date and get certified. We want to see that the profile actually met another profile or went to a club / event.  We at least know the profile actually met someone physically and in person.

We suggest what you should not include in your profile:

  1. SCREAM IN ALL CAPS
  2. Repeating NO SINGLE MALES throughout your profile.
  3. Boosting how awesome you are at oral skills, everyone is a master oral manipulator.
  4. Make the reader feel insecure about their abilities because you boost yours (IE: I will make your wife cum like never before)
  5. That you are Shy, everybody is shy when meeting someone new, it shows lack of confidence.
  6. Putting NO DRAMA or DRAMA FREE, these profiles are typically the drama
  7. Listing as a couple but are single, if you were a couple and no longer, change your profile.
  8. being too politically correct, IE: if you require condoms, put that, if your don’t, don’t add it and try to play without them. people don’t like liars.
  9. Politics, leave the politics or views at home.  If you are just so dead set you can’t play with someone with opposing views, list it. (Still sounds like a negative)
  10. Negatives, your profile should be 100% positive, the reader will see your negativity as a reason not to contact you or reply to your emails.

We do not use KIK:
To finish up, we get a lot of emails that tell us that the profile doesn’t post photos but to chat them on KIK and they will send photos on there. We honestly do not use KIK. If a profile chooses not to upload photos to the sites listed below, we wouldn’t be interested in going out of our way to communicate in another spectrum just to get photos.

In conclusion:
We hope we gave you an honest view on how we view other profiles and how we engage with others on matchmaker websites. and our opinion as to how others would also treat other profiles contacting them.

We do receive our share of emails and we appreciate it. To be up front, we do not feel because we have a profile and someone emails us we are required to respond.

Single men.
We mainly look to meet with couples. Please feel free to email us on these sites, we do keep an open mind and our options open. We would be very picky on who we allow as a single male into our personal lifestyle, but know that your profile needs to be really appealing with full photos of you and your face for us to respond and that your email and profile is respectful.  we only reply to emails that we feel we would be a match, and if we do reply to your email, that doesn’t mean that we are a sure thing, it just means your profile peaked our curiosity. Note: Tom is not a cuckold and we have no intention of someone wanting to dominate either one of us.

Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. To obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle 30 day Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

We wasted our money at a local swingers club


I wasted my money going to a swingers club

Email from a couple who went to a swingers club
We received an email that a couple went to their local swingers club and they did not hook up, now one of them feel that it was a waste of money and doesn’t want to go back. This episode we discuss different view points of what we would do..

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram @TomandBunny https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today! These are the three sites we use.

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.

 

How we meet people in the Swinging Lifestyle with Tom and Bunny

How do we meet people in the Swinging Lifestyle with Tom and Bunny



We are always asked how we meet people in the swinging lifestyle and today’s podcast we discuss different methods

Many new couples fantasize about the prospects of meeting and engaging other Couples and Singles both Men and Women for sex, but have no idea that there is a vast network of ways to meet these couples.  Listen to our podcast and start meeting people today!

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram @TomandBunny https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.

 


Des Moines Swingers Lifestyle Club April 24 – 25 2020

We will be at the Des Moines Lifestyle Club April 24th & 25th in Des Moines, IA and we would like any of our Midwest friends to come out and party with us for one or both nights! Let us know if you can come out and see us. The website is www.desmoineslifestylesclub.com

About The Des Moines Lifestyle Club:

The Des Moines Lifestyle Club aka ClubG, is a brick and mortar Swing Club located in Des Moines IA. 

Hosting over 3500 sf of Sexy, Erotic and fun lifestyle atmosphere from their large dance floor with 2 professional stripper poles, 3 quiet rooms, social areas and private deck to the friendly BYOB bar with Free mixers and Bar glasses to drink from.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.

 


Swinging with a couple on your honeymoon

Would you swing with another couple on your honeymoon?
In this podcast we talk about an article in a magazine we were looking at where a couple says that by swinging on their honeymoon made their relationship stronger and better!  We have our opinions on this and we talk about those opinions in this podcast.

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.

 


Eden Club OKC with Chris and Crissy

Having open and fun discussions with Chris and Crissy from Eden Clubs!
Check out this podcast as we try to keep the discussions on track but keep going left, right, up and down as we talk to the new partners / Owners of Eden Clubs while we were in Oklahoma City, OK.  Eden Clubs are located both in Oklahoma City, OK and Dallas Fort Worth, TX.  You can see these clubs by visiting their website www.EdenClubs.com

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.



Open Communications in the Swinging Lifestyle

Open Communication in the Swinging Lifestyle

Tom and Bunny discuss communication

Having open communications with couples and singles is important!
Meeting up with couples and singles in the sex positive non monogamy swingers lifestyle is already stressful and in this podcast we discuss being up front with your potential play partners your limits that you do not want to engage in as well as what you would like to experience. We also discuss being aggressive or pushy which some view when others convey their interest in them.

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.



TomandBunny explain Hedonism 2 Resort in Jamaica – Part 2

We talk about other things to do at Hedonism Part 2!
So we have been to Hedonism in Jamaica 18 or more times with Tom’s Trips and the last time we were there we realized that there is so much more to Hedonism II then going to the Nude Pool, Drinking and having sex!  Listen to this podcast about some other fun things to occupy your time during your vacation at the worlds largest swingers lifestyle resort.

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.



We talk to the MixxedNutzz Podcasters

 

We talk to the MixxedNutzz Podcasters!
While we were at Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee Florida we were excited to see our newest friends and fellow podcasters that we had met at the Podcasters Meet n Greet at Naughty in Nawlins earlier in July.  In this podcast in typical fashion we discuss their podcast as well as jump around different topics on the swinging lifestyle.  If you would like to listen to Mixxed Nutzz you can find them on their website http://www.mixxednutzz.com

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

Toms Trips Adult Lifestyle Travel to Swinger Resorts
https://www.tomstrips.com/?ap_id=TomandBunny
Book your next trip with us 800-285-0853 Option #2 Ext #3 for Bunny

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Start meeting Couples and Singles today!

http://www.kasidie.com

http://www.swinglifestyle.com

https://www.sdc.com

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
.

Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

Check out these great links!  Click on each one to learn more about them.