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Stop ignoring your spouse at lifestyle events

Stop ignoring your spouse at lifestyle events

We see a lot of times where one half of the spouse is so into the lifestyle they forget they have a spouse with them and focus all their attention on the new friends.  We want to remind everyone that this can be a very dangerous route and you should never ignore or forget that your spouse is with you.

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Transcript

00:00:00:00 – 00:00:15:22
Tom
Hey, everyone. We’re Tom and Bonnie, and we got Bama here. Bama wants her stuffed animal. Hold on. Right here. Let me get her. If you’re watching this on YouTube, this is Bama. Bama bear right now.

00:00:15:24 – 00:00:18:04
Bunny
She doesn’t know that we have to work.

00:00:18:07 – 00:00:49:11
Tom
So we’re Tom and Bonnie from Tom and Buncombe. And if you are interested in pineapple topics, check us out on YouTube and on podcast on all the major podcast sites. Tom and Bonnie. And if you can, follow us on Twitter, Instagram, Tom and Bonnie and we work for Tom’s troops.com cheerleader and adult lifestyle travel to destinations all around the world with cruises, resorts and events.

00:00:49:14 – 00:01:08:18
Tom
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00:01:08:23 – 00:01:16:16
Bunny
And even if, you look at and you say, oh, well, they don’t have a group that week, I can still book you. Yes. If it’s available online, I can book it for you.

00:01:16:16 – 00:01:28:21
Tom
Yep. We can book hedonism all year long and we also book Desire and Temptation, as well as The Bluest blessed Desire and Temptation Cruises. Yes. And Nadia Nolan’s.

00:01:28:24 – 00:01:31:13
Bunny
Of course. And now splash parties.

00:01:31:16 – 00:01:37:00
Tom
And splash parties. So today’s topic is.

00:01:37:02 – 00:01:38:21
Bunny
Help you stay out of the doghouse?

00:01:38:21 – 00:01:47:04
Tom
Yeah, stay out of the doghouse because, Bunny, she brought this up a couple weeks ago.

00:01:47:07 – 00:01:54:04
Bunny
I brought it up and several months ago when I was first approached. I mean, we’re approached a lot with different things.

00:01:54:04 – 00:02:01:09
Tom
So let’s give the scenario what you’re up. I mean, what we’re saying is neglect.

00:02:01:11 – 00:02:11:07
Bunny
Yeah. Yeah, it is neglect on your spouse. Yeah. So basically what’s have basically.

00:02:11:09 – 00:02:13:12
Tom
Well what’s what’s written down up here.

00:02:13:12 – 00:02:20:18
Bunny
Let’s just start when you’re getting ready to go on lifetime vacation, to one of the great events.

00:02:20:18 – 00:02:21:05
Tom
The club.

00:02:21:05 – 00:02:36:22
Bunny
Even a club or a night out with another couple or a single, you want to talk about possibilities of scenarios, so you want to know where your partner is in line with you.

00:02:36:22 – 00:02:38:13
Tom
And where your boundaries are.

00:02:38:17 – 00:02:43:01
Bunny
You don’t want to be ten steps ahead of your partner.

00:02:43:03 – 00:02:46:24
Tom
And you got to make sure that you both like without.

00:02:46:24 – 00:02:48:00
Bunny
Your partner knowing.

00:02:48:02 – 00:03:24:21
Tom
Without your partner know. Yeah. Oh, our previous video, we talked about our boundaries and, we started off with a book of rules of what we couldn’t do. And then we created boundaries based on our actual real life experiences and activities because we talked about each scenario. Even still today, 20 some years later, almost 30 years later, we talk about every scenario as if it were a first time scenario.

00:03:24:21 – 00:03:57:15
Tom
And we want to know what we liked about it, what we could have done better. Yeah, to make it even more fun. But and then not a requirement is if there was anything we did not like about the scenario, we would either discuss it out our adopt a boundary about it. One of our boundaries is, is we keep an eye on each other during the whole socializing to play all the time.

00:03:57:19 – 00:04:17:17
Tom
Not that we’re watching each other like a hawk. We’re watching to make sure that we’re all on the same page. We’re having a good time. If someone’s not having a good time, we can pick up the cues. That goes for either me or me, our buddy. I won’t be here, buddy. So.

00:04:17:24 – 00:04:31:10
Bunny
And and that even that even goes for the other couple. If if I’m seeing something that, you know, one of them isn’t feeling it or feeling clicky, I will even say, hey, is everything okay?

00:04:31:13 – 00:04:56:23
Tom
I’ve seen buddy, I’m struggling. And Bonnie’s called the wife over because we we all know each other’s buttons to push. And there are times of emergency where somebody is trying their best, but they’re not just making the grade. And sometimes it’s the spouse that gets them over.

00:04:56:25 – 00:04:59:17
Bunny
Yeah. Absolutely. And I’ve done it for Tom before many.

00:04:59:17 – 00:05:00:16
Tom
Many times, many.

00:05:00:16 – 00:05:06:17
Bunny
Many times I’d be like hold on let me, let me help you here. You know, let let’s get him back to where he needs to be.

00:05:06:19 – 00:05:30:24
Tom
Well, because I like with any new people, they don’t know my buttons and therefore I may not really care for what they’re doing to me. And then finally, I’ll say, hold on, let me show you a couple things. Not that we the whole point of the pineapple lifestyle is to experience different types of, experiences.

00:05:30:26 – 00:05:31:13
Bunny
Right?

00:05:31:13 – 00:05:36:11
Tom
And then hopefully we’ll be that, lead off of that and bring it home with us.

00:05:36:12 – 00:05:49:01
Bunny
But we also know that, that when guys aren’t feeling it, that, it tends to. Deter the, the play situation a little bit. So sometimes you need help.

00:05:49:08 – 00:06:14:11
Tom
So one thing that buddy’s been getting a lot of comments on, I haven’t gotten on, but they’ve been coming to funny is a lot of frustrations where their spouse is more into to the other person and not caring about their feelings. Are there at the time level? Yes. Of security.

00:06:14:11 – 00:06:15:08
Bunny
Correct.

00:06:15:10 – 00:06:16:11
Tom
Or safe space?

00:06:16:11 – 00:06:16:22
Bunny
Yeah.

00:06:16:22 – 00:06:19:10
Tom
So like I love using that word.

00:06:19:10 – 00:06:40:26
Bunny
Now this is and I actually have seen it. Yes, I seen it just recently on, on a chat where, one of the, spouses was texting back and forth too much. And even though he was asked to stop, even though he was asked to stop, he still hasn’t.

00:06:40:28 – 00:06:44:14
Tom
And that is that the one where they have a group chat?

00:06:44:18 – 00:06:45:03
Bunny
No.

00:06:45:03 – 00:07:11:11
Tom
Oh, so I saw one today where they have a four way group chat. Our three way group chat. Because it’s, single female and the husband is they were private messaging at first, and then when they started to make plans to meet up, they then added his wife into a group chat. And so that way she was aware.

00:07:11:11 – 00:07:31:12
Tom
So that way, when the husband went out on a date, she was aware of all the plans and everything. Then she found out that they were texting the husband and the other girl, still privately and excluding her. Now we would have a major issue. Oh yeah, one of us did that with the other.

00:07:31:14 – 00:07:36:28
Bunny
And and for me, I mean, for me, that’s just another form of cheating. And I.

00:07:37:04 – 00:07:38:16
Tom
Well, in our eyes.

00:07:38:18 – 00:07:43:29
Bunny
Because it’s a mentally. It doesn’t cheating doesn’t have to just be physical.

00:07:44:02 – 00:07:45:03
Tom
Right.

00:07:45:05 – 00:08:02:00
Bunny
So and I am seeing the lot in and it’s not people that have been in this life for a long time. It’s most of the people that are just starting because they’re so excited and they’re, they’re jumping in with both feet and they’re forgetting that they have a partner with them.

00:08:02:03 – 00:08:03:13
Tom
Right.

00:08:03:15 – 00:08:08:29
Bunny
So they’re like going forward and then they’re like, oh, crap, I pissed off my partner.

00:08:09:06 – 00:08:38:19
Tom
Well, without saying any names, we we seen it happening at hedonism with a couple where they weren’t even together. The female brought the guy and the guy was just bam, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam bam. And it kind of created a wedge because she didn’t feel included in any of his stuff. So, I think she brought the wrong person.

00:08:38:24 – 00:08:40:25
Bunny
Oh, and that happens. That happens. So he’s a.

00:08:40:25 – 00:08:41:23
Tom
Nice enough guy.

00:08:41:23 – 00:08:54:25
Bunny
But but but the fact is, is if you’re married or you have a spouse or a partner or anything, you need to include them in your train of thought.

00:08:54:25 – 00:08:55:13
Tom
Right?

00:08:55:18 – 00:09:06:14
Bunny
So I always, you know, the best thing is, is to talk about scenarios like, if you’re going out to a club, kind of think about what might could possibly happen.

00:09:06:19 – 00:09:27:14
Tom
I mean, you don’t have to overthink it. No, I always say go to the club with the anticipation of nothing’s going to happen except just you and your wife or you and your husband, depending on who’s watching this video, just going and having a good time with no expectations. And if something happens, be prepared.

00:09:27:17 – 00:09:43:12
Bunny
But that’s where I’m saying I know you need to discuss those scenarios. You say we’re going to go have a good time, but if this happens, do we want to go forward, right? How far do we want to go? You need to have those already kind of in your little guideline.

00:09:43:13 – 00:10:00:19
Tom
I know, like, if a single hour couple, What are the signals if we’re not interested and one of us isn’t interested? I mean, always be aware of your partner’s feelings before anybody else’s, right?

00:10:00:19 – 00:10:31:07
Bunny
So one of the scenarios that I had is, there was, a for some going on and every and three of them seem to be having a good time. And the one was just kind of standing out on the outside because he didn’t really know how far it would go and how far he could go. And his wife was having a great time, and then he decided to have intercourse with the other female.

00:10:31:07 – 00:10:32:23
Bunny
And his wife freaked.

00:10:32:23 – 00:10:33:13
Tom
Freaked.

00:10:33:16 – 00:10:34:16
Bunny
Freaked.

00:10:34:19 – 00:10:34:27
Tom
Out.

00:10:35:03 – 00:10:45:20
Bunny
So she was like, no, you were not supposed to do that, right? It was. And it was basically implied it was going to be all about her. But he didn’t know that.

00:10:45:22 – 00:10:48:19
Tom
Well, I mean, I want it to be all about you, but I want to be included.

00:10:48:22 – 00:10:55:17
Bunny
I know, I know, but two days later, she still was not speaking to him. Wow.

00:10:55:19 – 00:11:29:14
Tom
And with that, I and I was telling Barney, you know, the a lot of people do videos TikToks podcast that the pineapple world is less divorces than any other field or any other lifestyle. But first off, there are no statistics. Not one single statistic out there goes specifically out pineapple people. Did you get divorce? Yeah. Okay. Then boom, right?

00:11:29:22 – 00:11:30:16
Tom
No, seriously.

00:11:30:16 – 00:11:31:05
Bunny
I know, I know.

00:11:31:06 – 00:11:57:01
Tom
They claim that they know these statistics out there and there are none. So the fact is, is we ran a club for 20 years. We saw a lot of divorces. Was it because of the lifestyle? Who knows? Who cares? The fact this is we’re thinking that if they did get a divorce, a lot of it was probably just they couldn’t communicate with each other.

00:11:57:03 – 00:12:09:25
Bunny
That’s exactly what it was. Could they even, you know, he was like, every day, come to me and talk to me. And I’m like, you need to talk to her. She’s not talking to me. Well, that’s part of the problem. Because if.

00:12:10:02 – 00:12:11:09
Tom
You’re huge problem.

00:12:11:09 – 00:12:18:04
Bunny
If you’re pissed off at your spouse or your partner, you need to communicate, not just sit there and.

00:12:18:06 – 00:12:26:02
Tom
And guys, take this as a hint. Don’t get so pissed off. You leave your wife at a resort or no by herself.

00:12:26:02 – 00:12:26:22
Bunny
Oh my god.

00:12:26:22 – 00:12:46:06
Tom
Because revenge is real. It’s big. We’ve seen guys get pissed off at their girl leave thinking they’re going to be all macho, and she’s going to come running. Hell no. We seen the girl bang the entire club. And then go home and tell him all about how he screwed up.

00:12:46:08 – 00:12:47:02
Bunny
Yeah. And then.

00:12:47:02 – 00:12:48:04
Tom
They’re divorced.

00:12:48:06 – 00:12:49:26
Bunny
Yeah.

00:12:49:28 – 00:12:54:27
Tom
I’m not laughing about the divorce. I’m not saying it’s just part of life.

00:12:54:29 – 00:12:58:26
Bunny
Well obviously if he left her at the club he left her before.

00:12:59:04 – 00:13:24:04
Tom
Right. And also be careful about fantasies of like having your wife do all these guys, because sometimes the wife can reset you. In the beginning she might be submissive. It might be kind of for it worse. Yeah.

00:13:24:07 – 00:13:31:14
Bunny
But but if your partner says, hey I don’t like this or I don’t want to do this again.

00:13:31:16 – 00:13:33:29
Tom
Everything don’t stop until you talk about it.

00:13:34:00 – 00:13:42:01
Bunny
Right. Don’t try to convince. Don’t try to push the subject, especially that night or that weekend.

00:13:42:03 – 00:13:44:26
Tom
Sorry, I’m looking for our dog.

00:13:44:29 – 00:13:55:21
Bunny
If somebody says that they don’t like something now, it’s not the time to push it. Now. Now is the time to stop it. And we can revisit that later. Go home.

00:13:55:24 – 00:14:11:14
Tom
Yeah, sleep on it. I mean, if you’re, It’s kind of like that drunk person who wants to apologize and become besties again five seconds after a huge argument, right? It’s not the time or place.

00:14:11:16 – 00:14:45:18
Bunny
There are certain scenarios that, yeah, definitely need a little bit of talking out. Need it more than ten minutes sometimes. Yeah. You can be pissed off at each other for quite a while. Right? And don’t don’t let extracurricular or fun time in come in between your yourselves and you know and that was the other thing is I’m hearing a lot in it’s both from male and female that their partner is paying more attention to their play partner than they are.

00:14:45:20 – 00:14:50:05
Tom
I have seen that. And,

00:14:50:07 – 00:15:12:00
Bunny
It’s almost like they come in and they’re like, oh, there’s my friend, and they’re like, gone, right? And they don’t pay attention. They don’t check in on their on their partner to make sure that they’re okay or they’re having a good time and they’re lovey dovey over here. And their partners like this. No. Read that body language. If that’s something that you don’t want.

00:15:12:00 – 00:15:27:22
Bunny
Sorry, I talk with my hands. If that’s something that makes you feel comfortable, you need to let your partner know. And if your partner says this is making me feel uncomfortable, then you need to discuss it, not not just let it roll. Roll off of you.

00:15:27:27 – 00:15:31:24
Tom
No, no, I, I totally I’m I’m hearing you.

00:15:31:27 – 00:15:36:00
Bunny
Because you because we’ve seen it. We’ve seen it a lot.

00:15:36:02 – 00:16:04:21
Tom
And I just, I, just me and Bunny have always been able to communicate. And communication is the key to a successful marriage. Our success a successful time in the pineapple world. Communication is important in life in general. If you can’t, if you cannot openly talk about everything with your spouse. I don’t have any words.

00:16:04:24 – 00:16:05:04
Bunny
No.

00:16:05:09 – 00:16:12:09
Tom
No, I mean, I don’t have any words of encouragement because my encouragement is for you to communicate with your spouse.

00:16:12:11 – 00:16:28:23
Bunny
Absolutely. And communication also means body language. You’ve got to be able to read your partner to write, if there might be a scenario where they’re gagged and you can’t say anything.

00:16:28:25 – 00:16:31:07
Tom
But it’s just, how have you been? Yeah.

00:16:31:10 – 00:16:43:03
Bunny
No, no, no. You know that that would not happen. You are going in the other night. I know I’m going in the other night. I have a bad gag to.

00:16:43:06 – 00:16:44:13
Tom
Spit on that thing.

00:16:44:15 – 00:16:52:24
Bunny
But no, that could be a situation like with Tom, his death. So he’s got to constantly be watching.

00:16:52:25 – 00:16:55:21
Tom
I do, because I take my hearing aids out.

00:16:55:24 – 00:17:01:01
Bunny
And sometimes if he doesn’t get this, like, he doesn’t understand that, I’m like.

00:17:01:04 – 00:17:03:26
Tom
I.

00:17:03:28 – 00:17:29:29
Bunny
But no, you you know your partner well enough that you know when by looking at body language, by looking at expressions that they’re not comfortable and that’s when you need to pay attention. And you need to determine, especially for the ones that are guilty of giving the play partner way much more attention than their other partner. You need to reevaluate if that’s what you really want.

00:17:30:01 – 00:17:34:05
Bunny
Because you keep pushing that level, you’re going to end up in the hole or.

00:17:34:07 – 00:17:36:23
Tom
I’m just letting money talk. This is our topic.

00:17:36:27 – 00:17:41:03
Bunny
This is my topic. I’m not used to just letting money talk.

00:17:41:05 – 00:17:45:26
Tom
I know I’m usually the one talking, but I’m just letting you free flow on this one.

00:17:46:02 – 00:17:52:20
Bunny
Yeah, because I just look at my. It’s like to see the hamster and I’m like, you’re going to fall asleep or no, no, no, no.

00:17:52:20 – 00:18:15:02
Tom
I, I’m actually intrigued because you wanted to talk about this topic because like I said, people don’t approach me on that stuff. They approached Bunny because she’s a female and they feel less threatened or they think, I’m going to charge. I mean, I don’t charge anybody, but me and Bunny are always willing to help everybody. We don’t want to see anyone break up or.

00:18:15:08 – 00:18:16:02
Bunny
You know, have a.

00:18:16:02 – 00:18:20:01
Tom
Divorce. But we also don’t want to see somebody ruin a marriage either.

00:18:20:07 – 00:18:21:12
Bunny
No, absolutely.

00:18:21:12 – 00:18:45:26
Tom
Not, ma’am, but we are 38 years married. 39 years together. We were always told in the pineapple world that it would break us up. We’d be jealous. And yeah, we’ve had our share of jealousies and everything. We just talk, we communicate. I mean, I just can’t express it enough. That communication.

00:18:45:28 – 00:18:47:07
Bunny
You know,

00:18:47:10 – 00:18:48:09
Tom
I had to get that word out.

00:18:48:10 – 00:19:14:27
Bunny
Yes, yes, I was talking to somebody, last October, and, I was talking to another gentleman, and, and we were talking about that same scenario, and I said, I said, you know, Tom and I have been together 38 years, and I still get jealous. And he goes, do you get jealous or do you get envious? And I’m like, excuse me?

00:19:15:00 – 00:19:24:13
Bunny
He’s like, are you jealous that he’s really having a good time? Or are you envious that he’s having a good time and you’re not?

00:19:24:16 – 00:19:25:26
Tom
That’s her great.

00:19:25:28 – 00:19:30:28
Bunny
And I’m like, you’re absolutely right. You’re absolutely right.

00:19:31:00 – 00:19:32:02
Tom
No.

00:19:32:04 – 00:19:39:06
Bunny
So so yeah, you got to think is a jealous or is envious. And that’s when I say, fine, I’m going to take my ball and go home.

00:19:39:06 – 00:19:43:23
Tom
Yep. And she takes me home.

00:19:43:25 – 00:20:06:07
Bunny
But I was like, yeah you’re that it that I was like after all these years? I said, you know what? That kind of slapped me in the head. That was like a an eye opener because, yeah, your absolutely right. And he goes, because of the fact is you’re not jealous. You’re still having a good time, but you’re envious because you know what she’s getting and that you like getting that.

00:20:06:12 – 00:20:07:23
Bunny
And you’re not right now.

00:20:07:25 – 00:20:10:18
Tom
I’ll say that’s true.

00:20:10:20 – 00:20:12:02
Bunny
Right? Yeah.

00:20:12:04 – 00:20:15:06
Tom
Yeah, I’ll say that. That’s 1,000% true.

00:20:15:25 – 00:20:33:11
Tom
Because you know when you, when you go meet up with people whether it’s single a couple, you don’t know what you’re going to get until you’re right. I mean these pictures with Coke cans and remote controls, you don’t know if it’s the tiny remote or the.

00:20:33:13 – 00:20:35:08
Bunny
Big, big remote.

00:20:35:11 – 00:21:04:23
Tom
You don’t know if it’s the little six ounce cans of soda or the 12 ounce cans or the the 16. But it’s just, I mean, yeah. I, I totally get that. I mean, I, I’ve been with females where they are more pillow princesses. Yes. And so I’ll use the word envious. I’m envious that the other guy has you and I am.

00:21:04:25 – 00:21:08:20
Bunny
Trying to do everything under the sun to help.

00:21:08:22 – 00:21:12:19
Tom
Yeah, I guess I feel neglected.

00:21:12:21 – 00:21:13:07
Bunny
See?

00:21:13:12 – 00:21:13:25
Tom
See?

00:21:13:27 – 00:21:14:19
Bunny
Yeah, yeah.

00:21:14:20 – 00:21:15:25
Tom
So I get it.

00:21:15:28 – 00:21:22:20
Bunny
Yeah, but that was an eye opener. I’m like, whoa, okay. That was that was a good one that he brought up.

00:21:22:23 – 00:21:25:13
Tom
So you’re no longer jealous. You’re just envious.

00:21:25:16 – 00:21:35:13
Bunny
Yes, absolutely. But I think if Tom went out on a date, I, I would be so jealous.

00:21:35:14 – 00:21:37:00
Tom
Oh, you’d be a stalker.

00:21:37:03 – 00:21:37:16
Bunny
I think.

00:21:37:18 – 00:21:39:09
Tom
Following us and.

00:21:39:12 – 00:21:40:24
Bunny
That is way beyond.

00:21:40:24 – 00:21:45:16
Tom
I look over my shoulder to be tucked down, looking at. Yeah. No, that would be funny.

00:21:45:19 – 00:21:49:15
Bunny
I would yeah, that’s way beyond my comfort zone.

00:21:49:17 – 00:22:13:18
Tom
But yeah, we see, it happens all the time. I mean, a lot of events, even people were close with we we never say anything because it’s not our place unless they ask us. Because we don’t interject ourselves into other people’s lives. Except for here on video. And you’re willing you’re able to hit stop or close out the window.

00:22:13:18 – 00:22:41:13
Tom
You don’t have to watch us or listen to us, but we see a lot of people where they put a lot more focus on their play partner than they do their own spouse. We just seen a, couple of events ago, and a whole like, dating scenario where, I mean, me, I’m funny after 39 years, we want to be this close to each other.

00:22:41:13 – 00:22:57:28
Tom
We work together, we live together. We are this close together, believe it or not, 23 to 24 hours a day, every day, seven days a week, all year long. We’re really not apart, and we prefer not to be.

00:22:58:03 – 00:23:01:08
Bunny
The only time we’re part is when we’re in the restroom.

00:23:01:10 – 00:23:35:15
Tom
That’s the only time we’re apart. But we’re still within yelling range. Yeah, but, I, I couldn’t if we are. I mean, if we’re friends with another couple. Yeah, we’re totally good. Don’t don’t take it out of context that we can pal around and hang on to the other person and do fun stuff, but if it comes down to just intimately holding hands, are acting like you’re the couple and not.

00:23:35:17 – 00:23:49:07
Tom
Yeah, me and Bonnie, that that’s just a different scenario for us. But we have a lot of friends where we can paddle around with each other, and we just don’t. We don’t get envious. Whoa, whoa. Going rooster block each other. No problem.

00:23:49:09 – 00:24:03:09
Bunny
Yep. Absolutely. But yeah. So that’s just the biggest thing is keep your eyes open, keep your mind open and keep keep an eye on your partner too. And make sure that they’re within the loop.

00:24:03:09 – 00:24:52:10
Tom
And and people can lose interest in each other if you’re not showing, the other one the attention that they. Oh that they deserve or need. I was just telling somebody and I know where I talked about the divorcing. We have an album in our Facebook and we had 109 couples and people whenever they say, oh yeah, the divorce rate is so low in the lifestyle because it’s statistically proven, because you can communicate that no, divorcing emotions can also create huge issues, because when you have an emotional attachment, someone else that your spouse can’t compete with.

00:24:52:12 – 00:25:12:16
Tom
Correct. But I go, I went, I I’ll pull up that photo album and I like see these couples see these couples, they look happy, right? They’re like yeah, yeah, yeah. All 75% of our divorce. 75%. And like I said earlier we don’t know if it’s because of the lifestyle and it could be any number of reasons.

00:25:12:21 – 00:25:26:15
Tom
But it probably all boils down to a common denominator of lack of feeling. The other ones are like a lack of interest or no communication, passion or no sexual desires or.

00:25:26:19 – 00:25:28:05
Bunny
Right. Absolutely.

00:25:28:07 – 00:25:43:10
Tom
And and at 39 years, we still think that you should be desiring each other sexually, as you did when you were dating. Because when you were dating, the focus, honestly, was to get laid right?

00:25:43:13 – 00:25:44:06
Bunny
Exactly.

00:25:44:06 – 00:25:59:29
Tom
It was to find your soulmate. It was to find a compatibility factor. That’s where I never understood. No sex before marriage. Because then you’re kind of stuck. And there’s a lot of divorces. Are that because.

00:26:00:03 – 00:26:00:22
Bunny
Oh, yeah.

00:26:00:24 – 00:26:08:24
Tom
They didn’t measure up to each other’s, what they thought would be like.

00:26:08:26 – 00:26:12:12
Bunny
No, I, I completely get that. Yeah I completely.

00:26:12:12 – 00:26:41:02
Tom
Get that the whole hot wife thing, it works for some people and I, we’ve seen it not work for a lot of people. So hot wife thing is something we would never recommend. If someone does it that’s fine. We have no issues with it. But we would never try to talk anyone into it, nor would we recommend it, because I don’t think a lot of people could handle that scenario well.

00:26:41:02 – 00:26:56:05
Bunny
And the fact is, is if, you if you really think that your wife wants to do it, then you really need to make sure that she really wants to do it. Because we met some men and he was just a narcissist, and he basically forced her to do it.

00:26:56:06 – 00:26:59:22
Tom
Yes. And I mean, he was literally calling guys.

00:26:59:22 – 00:27:01:06
Bunny
And she.

00:27:01:06 – 00:27:15:17
Tom
And he even asked us because we were meeting them. And next thing you know, he’s like, hey, do you mind if I have a couple singles come over and nail or why, why you guys are here? And I’m like, no, dude, we’re out of here.

00:27:15:18 – 00:27:19:09
Bunny
He got off on it. She hated it. Yeah, she she.

00:27:19:12 – 00:27:23:29
Tom
Tries to take her out of there and I’m like, I didn’t know what to do in that scenario.

00:27:24:04 – 00:27:46:21
Bunny
She said, I am leaving him, I feel used I don’t want to do this. So you’ve got to make sure you’re both on the same level. Yeah. And if think I’m like, I just can’t reiterate the fact of the feelings change. If you don’t want to do it, then you need to stand up and say, I don’t like this, I don’t want to do this anymore.

00:27:46:24 – 00:27:52:11
Bunny
And then your partner should respect you in figure things out.

00:27:52:12 – 00:28:21:19
Tom
Well, the whole thing about the, pineapple world is compromises. Somebody has a fantasy and it’s, I mean, hopefully you can let your spouse live out their fantasies. That’s the whole, point of including other people into your life because some fantasies require more than one person and yes, a person not willing to do things that your spouse isn’t willing to do.

00:28:21:19 – 00:28:31:05
Bunny
Well, and also, two fantasies can be just in your head. In reality, is a good slap kick in the nuts.

00:28:31:07 – 00:28:54:27
Tom
Now, we’ve seen people break up because they, one of them had all these wild fantasies and they came true and they couldn’t handle it. They wanted nothing to do with the other person, and it was their fantasies that backfired on them. And they were the ones disgusted with the other one for helping fulfill those fantasies. How messed up is that?

00:28:54:28 – 00:29:05:11
Bunny
Oh yeah. Yeah. Let’s go back into the narcissist there. Yeah. But. So no. Yeah. It’s a very, very fine line. I think.

00:29:05:13 – 00:29:06:00
Tom
I’m pulling up my.

00:29:06:00 – 00:29:18:00
Bunny
Glasses. But not only is it that fine line, but like you say, it’s just that communication. You’ve got to communicate it. Just make this pineapple world fun. It’s fun as you can.

00:29:18:05 – 00:29:18:16
Tom
If you’re.

00:29:18:16 – 00:29:20:04
Bunny
Not. It’s supposed to be.

00:29:20:09 – 00:29:39:25
Tom
Yeah. If you’re not having fun, if you if you can’t go out and without having something to do with someone else, it may come back to haunt you later. Like, remember that your spouse is the most important person like Tom.

00:29:39:25 – 00:30:07:10
Bunny
And I say we are very, very social pineapple people. So for us it’s just a matter of going out, having fun, flirting, harmlessly, flirting. If it leads to something, then that’s great. If not, then we’ve value a friendship. We are now part of the community. Well, we’re not having. I mean, we’re having fun, but we’re not meeting the people that we want to meet.

00:30:07:13 – 00:30:14:20
Bunny
So now we’re looking for pineapple first. Yeah. So we can go out and have fun with people. We like to have fun with.

00:30:14:21 – 00:30:16:15
Tom
Pineapple people are just more fun to be.

00:30:16:18 – 00:30:33:08
Bunny
They are much more fun to be around. You don’t have to worry about. You don’t have to worry about, offending somebody because you’re wearing a too low kind of a shirt or. Or you can go on a Jeep ride with wearing them side boob shirt without.

00:30:33:10 – 00:30:33:28
Tom
Without no.

00:30:33:28 – 00:30:36:10
Bunny
Bra with a right. Exactly.

00:30:36:10 – 00:31:05:23
Tom
No. It’s true, because, I just put up a thing, because we’re going to go to cheap and base and, and, Pigeon Forge and, August. Yep. And it’s going to be all through Pigeon Forge, Gatlinburg. And this last year there was like 50,000 shapes star expecting more this year they say to go a mile. It might take you an hour to two hours because it’s just it’s a slow crawl and we’re looking forward to that.

00:31:06:01 – 00:31:28:07
Tom
So I and all these people are posting, like, we have a solid black tie, so they’re doing a black T meet up and they’re going to take a big picture. All the black tips I did. You see the pink Jeep meet up? I didn’t realize there were hundreds of them. And there’s just a big picture with it.

00:31:28:07 – 00:31:32:00
Tom
Looks like a thousand pink jeeps all in one picture.

00:31:32:01 – 00:31:35:07
Bunny
I might have to be in a gray jeep next year.

00:31:35:09 – 00:31:36:25
Tom
A gray t.

00:31:36:28 – 00:31:41:16
Bunny
Told you if I. If I get a Jeep, what I’m doing with it.

00:31:41:18 – 00:31:43:15
Tom
What are you doing with it?

00:31:43:17 – 00:31:45:01
Bunny
Putting thumper on it.

00:31:45:01 – 00:32:13:17
Tom
Oh. So, there there were people about the red jeeps and white, every jeep color. And then somebody goes, is there going to be a singles meet up? And I thought, well, that’s a great idea, because mostly it’s a lot of it’s going to be families. So I found if you’re familiar or not on the Jeep, they have trail badges and you earn them.

00:32:13:22 – 00:32:39:25
Tom
But there was, an upside down pineapple with horns and a tail and it just says plays well with the others. 4×4. And I posted that I didn’t think it was going to get approved because this is a very family friendly Facebook group. And it two weeks later, all of a sudden it popped up, approved. I was like, oh my God, there’s like seven, almost 18,000 profiles in here.

00:32:39:28 – 00:33:10:28
Tom
I’m like, I am either going to get slaughtered or so immediately I got 150 either likes hearts are laughing emojis. I got a couple of angry emojis. I got three comments, that were negative. One is, really this community has dole out those people in it and I’m thinking, you know, look around at all your friends, family, coworkers, people you sit next to in church.

00:33:11:00 – 00:33:48:22
Tom
You probably know pineapple people and not realize it because we don’t just come out, we know how to act well. Most of us know how to act normal. Yeah. And, social environment. A lot of the comments are pretty good and people are sharing it. People are tagging it, and there’s, vendor who’s going to be selling little cheat badges, and they have one that says, upside down pineapple, if you know, you know, and they’re like 25 bucks, I’m like, I might have to buy one.

00:33:48:22 – 00:34:10:04
Tom
I don’t want to put it on my Jeep, but, I just thought to support that and I was talking to her. She’s not in the lifestyle, but I committed her for producing stuff that would be promotable or sellable to other people that aren’t. Are not her demographic.

00:34:10:04 – 00:34:10:16
Bunny
Correct?

00:34:10:19 – 00:34:23:24
Tom
Mostly the coins are challenge. Coins are military, police, firemen, first responders. So it’s kind of cool to see an actual, real, bona fide upside down pineapple.

00:34:23:26 – 00:34:25:05
Bunny
Exactly.

00:34:25:07 – 00:34:57:04
Tom
Badge. So, we’ll get that. But I was talking to her, and I was telling her, I said, you know, probably 20% of that group is in the pineapple lifestyle somehow. Because in California, they did a study, the local news, and they went around surveying people. And it came out that 1 in 4 couples admitted to at least trying something in the pineapple world one time.

00:34:57:06 – 00:35:08:07
Tom
They didn’t ask any father. So that meant if you walk your neighborhood and count 100 houses, 25 possibly could be pineapple people.

00:35:08:07 – 00:35:08:18
Bunny
Yep.

00:35:08:21 – 00:35:20:03
Tom
You go to your work, you got 100 people that work in your office. 25 could be pineapple people. I know if you’re a police officer, it’s probably 85%.

00:35:20:05 – 00:35:21:02
Bunny
School teacher, a.

00:35:21:02 – 00:35:38:18
Tom
School teachers, nurses. But I mean, different lines of work are going to accumulate that 25% down. But that also goes for churches. I mean, the the moral majority aren’t so moral when they keep a secret like this.

00:35:38:21 – 00:35:49:11
Bunny
Did you see the the one going around now that there was some type of a list and it says the most swingers per capita is Pennsylvania?

00:35:49:12 – 00:35:55:16
Tom
Oh, I the one that say that. Yeah. And well, but they didn’t even put California on there.

00:35:55:16 – 00:35:55:29
Bunny
No.

00:35:55:29 – 00:36:19:08
Tom
So they’re skewed I mean, and I even post I even wrote to you that you could tell they were non pineapple people who did it just by the way. They were a few things. They, they were very naive or trying to be just a plain where someone like us would have wrote the list and yeah, got a little more definitive on it.

00:36:19:10 – 00:36:41:01
Tom
But when I told this girl who is going to be selling these batches about the pineapple world, she goes, oh my God. My friend basically said word for word, what? You just said that there’s going to be 20% of this group that would buy that batch and stuff like that. They might not put it on their cheap, but they might keep it at home.

00:36:41:04 – 00:37:06:01
Tom
We want to make a pact for with different cheap batches, and that would be one of them. And then she asked me to take it off, because I did promote it, that she was going to be selling them. So she must have gotten a little pushback. And, you know, I don’t I don’t, disagree with her wanting, me to know my post because I don’t want anyone to be dark.

00:37:06:03 – 00:37:06:16
Bunny
No.

00:37:06:16 – 00:37:08:28
Tom
And she wasn’t even in the pineapple.

00:37:08:28 – 00:37:33:11
Bunny
And that’s what I disagree with, because everybody has a right to their own business. Everybody has a right to make money, whether, it’s selling that or selling a set of tires. Right. And that’s where I just get so frustrated with people out there in the community that are so hateful towards another group of individuals.

00:37:33:11 – 00:37:42:17
Tom
Yeah. And that group of individuals, they just have a stigma in their head about that, group of individuals.

00:37:42:17 – 00:37:42:28
Bunny
Right.

00:37:43:01 – 00:37:52:25
Tom
But the fact is that group of individuals is a more honest group. They’re more they they’re more caring about other people.

00:37:52:28 – 00:37:54:23
Bunny
They’re the first ones to jump up.

00:37:54:27 – 00:37:58:00
Tom
To paint our house in California.

00:37:58:02 – 00:37:58:21
Bunny
Yeah.

00:37:58:24 – 00:38:14:22
Tom
And we are just talking about it, man. But we’re going to paint it by ourselves. And we have like ten people. So, ready to work. I mean, not to socialize. They were pushed. Let’s do, let’s do one day start to finish prime, paint it.

00:38:14:24 – 00:38:33:12
Bunny
And then when we moved to when we bought our house in California, we were moving 80 miles away and we didn’t know where are we going to put all of our stuff. And somebody just randomly called us, we made, maybe once or twice and, he’s like, I got this property, I’ve got this, I’ve got that.

00:38:33:12 – 00:38:36:11
Bunny
You can. You’re more than welcome to park your trailers here.

00:38:36:13 – 00:38:37:01
Tom
Yeah.

00:38:37:03 – 00:38:45:20
Bunny
I mean, just out of the blue. So our community is so much more helpful and is so much more caring, I think, than most any of the other.

00:38:45:20 – 00:39:10:15
Tom
And we don’t have no judgments. And that’s the difference between the pineapple world, where there are a lot of people that I know. We’re totally off topic because we’re done with the other topic. I think. But there’s a lot of people that go to pineapple clubs and events, even hedonists, there’s a lot of nudist, there’s a lot of people that want to wear their bottoms and no tops.

00:39:10:20 – 00:39:25:22
Tom
There’s people that want to be naked, there’s people that want to play with others and that everyone gets along because, you know, if someone comes up and says, hey, do you want to play? All you guys says, no. Well, I’m not into that, but thank you. Take it as a compliment.

00:39:25:22 – 00:39:26:21
Bunny
But it’s basically.

00:39:26:22 – 00:39:27:06
Tom
Is,

00:39:27:09 – 00:39:37:27
Bunny
We’re all in the same mindset of just want to have fun and meet people, right? And enjoy everybody’s.

00:39:37:29 – 00:39:52:10
Bunny
Being around people and have fun. But socialize. Yeah. The socializing and, yeah, there’s people outside. They’re so closed minded that they won’t even think of anything beyond you’re having sex with somebody else.

00:39:52:13 – 00:40:08:08
Tom
Right? And then that goes along with it. And I guess I will add into the topic of this. When we see people that focus on someone more than their own spouse, me and Bunny actually avoid both of them.

00:40:09:20 – 00:40:24:29
Tom
Because we just don’t want drama. And most people in the pineapple world, they’re, they want to be drama free. And we, we want to have fun. We want to smile. We don’t want to be the shoulder that they’re always crying on or talking about.

00:40:25:00 – 00:40:30:22
Bunny
Correct? Very correct. Yep. All right I think we’re done with this one.

00:40:30:22 – 00:40:31:23
Tom
We are done.

00:40:31:24 – 00:40:33:09
Bunny
We are done with you.

00:40:33:11 – 00:40:57:15
Tom
We’re done with you today. So until next time, definitely follow us everywhere. Just search Google, Tom and Bunny all one word. Tom and boo and and y and book your next trip with Tom’s trips.com your leader in adult lifestyle travel and let us further let us show you a good time.

00:40:57:18 – 00:41:00:02
Bunny
You got that right. We’ll see you.

00:41:00:02 – 00:41:02:00
Tom
Soon. We’ll see you soon.

 

How to talk my wife into swinging

How to talk my wife into swinging

We get questions all the time, however about 50% are “How can I talk my wife into the swinging lifestyle”   We spend time talking about this with different scenarios and what works for us in the the Pineapple Lifestyle.

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Transcript

00:00:03:00 – 00:00:26:07
Tom
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here and I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos from the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips.com, or give us a call at 1-800-285-0853 and I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:26:07 – 00:00:52:07
Tom
Hey everyone. We are Tom and Bonnie with Tom and by. It’s right there on the bottom of your screen if you’re watching us on YouTube, if you are not watching us on YouTube and you’re listening to us on podcasts, we invite you to jump over to YouTube and check us out. Just search Tom and Bonnie and if you’re watching us on YouTube and you prefer to listen to us in your car, we’re on pretty much every major podcast network.

00:00:52:14 – 00:00:55:22
Tom
So you can just search Tom and Bonnie.

00:00:55:24 – 00:00:56:23
Bunny
We make it simple.

00:00:56:23 – 00:01:15:23
Tom
We try to make it simple. We actually work for Tom’s trips. You’re a leader in adult lifestyle travel and this is how we are able to do these videos is because of your viewership, your comments, your feedback. But more importantly, booking with Tom’s trips.

00:01:15:23 – 00:01:17:10
Bunny
Yes. So call me.

00:01:17:12 – 00:01:25:29
Tom
Yes. The phone number is right there on the screen right now. Call Bonnie. And so she’s a low pressure sales person, but she’ll answer all your questions.

00:01:25:29 – 00:01:29:13
Bunny
And you’ll talk to me, not my assistant.

00:01:29:16 – 00:01:41:04
Tom
With Bonnie. Does I have an assistant? So real quick, there is a story on that. When people do call the 800 number and when it’s really flattering.

00:01:41:05 – 00:01:42:15
Bunny
It is very flattering.

00:01:42:16 – 00:01:58:22
Tom
And when Bonnie answers the phone and the people get all giddy, are they, get tongue tied? And then they say, I didn’t think you were going to answer the phone. I thought you would have an assistant. And what’s your response?

00:01:58:22 – 00:02:00:01
Bunny
I am the assistant.

00:02:00:01 – 00:02:10:01
Tom
Bonnie is distance. Yes. We work a real job, ladies. And yes, we do. so we just thought that was. I thought that was kind of work.

00:02:10:01 – 00:02:13:09
Bunny
A real job. Straight from my phone. Wherever my phone’s out, I’m at.

00:02:13:10 – 00:02:21:14
Tom
Yeah. We tell people, you know, a lot of people work from an office, other people work from home. We work from the phone. Currently, my phone is up. They’re recording.

00:02:21:14 – 00:02:27:00
Bunny
Us. I used to work from up here in in this little studio.

00:02:27:02 – 00:02:35:22
Tom
I know the lighted area over Bonnie’s head right there. That’s a little cubby with the dormer window and that there’s a desk.

00:02:35:25 – 00:02:50:00
Bunny
I should start working back up here again, because whenever the phone ring, I’d have to run up here, take care of it, and then run back downstairs. I should do it because, you know, I mean, it’s up and downstairs. There’s 17 steps from the.

00:02:50:02 – 00:02:52:28
Tom
Bell that you gotta come down these steps to go back up these.

00:02:52:28 – 00:02:57:06
Bunny
Steps. Yeah. So there’s only maybe I’ll do that. I’ll put that back up here.

00:02:57:10 – 00:03:28:07
Tom
Now, one of the things we do tell people all the time is if you ask us questions, a lot of times we will respond to your questions. However, when we get asked multiple times, we feel that there is a need for our answer to be more public and more on YouTube or podcasts because we figure if we get five or more questions, there’s gotta be a lot more people out there that have a same exact burning question.

00:03:28:10 – 00:03:39:13
Tom
And often times we get, oh my God, I ran across this video or this podcast and you answered, well, we don’t say we answer all the questions. What do we do?

00:03:39:16 – 00:03:40:21
Bunny
We give our opinion.

00:03:40:21 – 00:03:42:09
Tom
Yeah, which doesn’t mean nothing.

00:03:42:09 – 00:03:45:24
Bunny
No, just us are the only ones that care about our opinion.

00:03:45:25 – 00:04:02:13
Tom
We are the content creators that say our opinion is just our opinion. It means absolutely nothing and you could take it for what it’s worth. And we hope what works for us may or may not work for you, but we hope it works for you.

00:04:02:15 – 00:04:02:28
Bunny
Yes we.

00:04:02:28 – 00:04:04:02
Tom
Do. That makes sense.

00:04:04:04 – 00:04:05:13
Bunny
It completely okay.

00:04:05:17 – 00:04:20:07
Tom
So but we always say ask five other people that are in the direction you’re looking at and you’ll get five varying answers. And then just choose the one you resonate. Best and the most.

00:04:20:07 – 00:04:49:11
Bunny
Well with of course you do. Yeah. Of course you do. Now you know. And it’s, there’s so many different content creators out there from all aspects of life and which is what absolutely makes this new pineapple world so great. Yeah. And I really and I really, absolutely love that. And we all have our little following too. I mean, because there’s some that are much younger than us and there’s some that are older than us, so we fall right in that as.

00:04:49:12 – 00:05:05:25
Tom
Content creators that host hotel takeovers. So they offer a great, advice because they’re talking from experience. they’re like finding said there’s younger content creators. There’s our age.

00:05:05:28 – 00:05:10:15
Bunny
Yes, there’s some that are just straight lifestyle. There’s some that are into.

00:05:10:18 – 00:05:11:05
Tom
Fatter.

00:05:11:07 – 00:05:15:25
Bunny
Baristas, poorly, I mean, you name it, all gamuts are.

00:05:15:25 – 00:05:39:04
Tom
Covered now we will start off by saying there is no right or wrong way of navigating the lifestyle. However you personally choose to navigate, it is the most accepting way to navigate it. You do not have to conform to others ideology to be in this lifestyle. That’s absolutely. I accept.

00:05:39:08 – 00:05:40:15
Bunny
The absolute truth, but.

00:05:40:15 – 00:05:56:05
Tom
All the creators welcome, advice, suggestions and everything and that’s what makes it great. It gives you may resonate with another creator more. You may resonate with us. It doesn’t matter. you may resonate with multiple creators.

00:05:56:08 – 00:06:06:29
Bunny
Yeah. Because some of us are still on the same wavelength. It it’s just great. Yeah. I just love listening to and talking to other people about different situations.

00:06:07:00 – 00:06:14:18
Tom
Right. So we just got recently, we recently so we just got recently about it’s my hearing.

00:06:14:19 – 00:06:15:07
Bunny
It is yours.

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Tom
I mean literally I know I’m going to go stay off topic for a second. if you guys have been following us, I have had multiple surgeries in the last six months. Sitting is six months. Six months. I, I’ve had a hand surgery. And then I had a cochlear surgery and then I had a penile implant surgery.

00:06:38:06 – 00:06:39:01
Bunny
Yes.

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Tom
And then I just had another Kokila surgery and the Kokila penile implant cochlear all within one month. Well a month and a half. Yeah.

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Bunny
I mean it was.

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Tom
Just bam bam bam.

00:06:53:17 – 00:06:54:15
Bunny
Yes.

00:06:54:17 – 00:06:58:00
Tom
Yeah. But it’s our slow. It was our slow time.

00:06:58:02 – 00:07:06:25
Bunny
Right. I was going to say come July you’re going to get your butt probed.

00:07:06:27 – 00:07:12:09
Bunny
Oh it’s that time I forgot about.

00:07:12:09 – 00:07:17:07
Tom
Don’t don’t. No, we’re not going to talk about that.

00:07:17:10 – 00:07:18:18
Tom
What is that called, an MBA?

00:07:18:24 – 00:07:21:07
Bunny
No, you’re going to go nuts.

00:07:21:09 – 00:07:24:07
Tom
Ask. I thought it was an endoscope or something.

00:07:24:12 – 00:07:27:01
Bunny
That’s just how old we are, right?

00:07:27:03 – 00:07:30:05
Tom
So, yeah, unfortunately, we got to go through all that.

00:07:30:05 – 00:07:31:05
Bunny
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:07:31:12 – 00:07:57:21
Tom
But anyway, just a quick, quick, quick update. I am healing great. My implant is three weeks old. And we’ve used it twice. and we recommend not using it for about three months. And I will still go with that recommendation because the last two times. So it’s a little painful. I had to, deflate it really fast since we.

00:07:57:24 – 00:08:02:01
Tom
Yeah. Says we say our good as we say, not as we do here.

00:08:02:08 – 00:08:07:04
Bunny
There it is. Well, I was looking for, backwards. Backwards.

00:08:07:06 – 00:08:15:07
Tom
But, so we did talk to our urologist, our urologist.

00:08:15:07 – 00:08:16:06
Bunny
Our.

00:08:16:08 – 00:08:36:14
Tom
Great guy. Love him, love him. And I told him, I said, hey, when we are talking about you going on video coming up, I was on drugs. Were you serious? And he goes, absolutely. So he’s going to come over here to our house one of these nights. We just have to care.

00:08:36:16 – 00:08:48:06
Bunny
Okay, go get get the schedule. But can I reiterate the fact that you’re on pain medication and you were on, coming out of Anastacia. You weren’t on drugs.

00:08:48:08 – 00:08:49:29
Tom
That. Right? Right, right, right.

00:08:50:00 – 00:08:50:27
Bunny
You were medicated.

00:08:51:01 – 00:09:05:29
Tom
I, I was legally medicated. So, are legally on drugs. I’m doing the air quotes because somebody is going to put us on blast, and they always do because they didn’t hear the context. They only heard the headline.

00:09:06:00 – 00:09:07:02
Bunny
Yeah.

00:09:07:04 – 00:09:28:04
Tom
So let’s hear the context before we make comments, please. So anyway, everything’s healing. Well, the doctor is coming to our house. He’s going to do a while. We do all of our videos and then we turn them into podcast. So it’s going to be probably several weeks, maybe 3 or 4 weeks.

00:09:28:04 – 00:09:30:14
Bunny
Our travel scramble was crazy, right?

00:09:30:14 – 00:09:37:22
Tom
Because he can do it during the week. And our I mean, we’re traveling from Thursday through Sunday and Monday is a recovery day.

00:09:38:20 – 00:10:14:19
Tom
So that only usually leaves a couple of days. So look forward to him. He’s actually going to join us on several years ago we were doing videos on Eddie. and we did a, quite a few videos and I took them off. And not that I have thin skin, but I was getting more negativity about my head from supposed people that didn’t have Eddie and, are how can I talk about it or be so open about it, blah blah, blah blah blah.

00:10:14:21 – 00:10:20:00
Tom
The fact is, is how many percentage of people with, diabetes have 80.

00:10:20:03 – 00:10:20:24
Bunny
80%.

00:10:20:24 – 00:10:41:00
Tom
80% of people with diabetes have some form of Eddie. We’re going to talk to the doctor. We’re going to get real numbers. But one of the numbers is, on the Eddie thing is, if people don’t talk about it to their doctor or their wife, how many people truly have it?

00:10:41:03 – 00:10:42:12
Bunny
And that, yeah.

00:10:42:12 – 00:10:43:22
Tom
That we don’t even know.

00:10:43:22 – 00:10:44:18
Bunny
About.

00:10:44:20 – 00:10:54:19
Tom
We only know about what’s documented with urology and, family practices or Viagra sales. All right. You know what I mean?

00:10:54:19 – 00:10:54:26
Bunny
Yeah.

00:10:54:26 – 00:10:56:18
Tom
Well, that’s how they’re documenting.

00:10:56:19 – 00:11:03:00
Bunny
Viagra sales that they know of. They don’t know. Right. Other ones. India. Yeah, exactly. Acquired.

00:11:03:01 – 00:11:10:08
Tom
We’re not saying you should go to India, order from India or go to Mexico. Just it’s gotten cheaper though.

00:11:10:11 – 00:11:13:04
Bunny
It has it. Yeah I haven’t I haven’t priced it doesn’t.

00:11:13:04 – 00:11:13:19
Tom
Work for me.

00:11:13:19 – 00:11:17:00
Bunny
No, no I say we haven’t tried that in a long time.

00:11:17:02 – 00:11:39:16
Tom
so. Yeah, we’re going to bring back a lot of those 80 videos. I didn’t delete them. I just turned them off. And you know what? I’m just going to grow a thick skin and I’m just going to put them back online. And hopefully the negative comments I can weed out. But if it if those videos help people, that’s the import.

00:11:39:18 – 00:11:54:01
Tom
If it helps one one guy out there are even a couple trying to understand, because a lot of times I know this isn’t even the video, but a lot of times Bonnie was thinking it was her.

00:11:54:23 – 00:12:01:27
Tom
Personally, not me physically. So. So yeah, I think it’s time to bring those back.

00:12:02:00 – 00:12:02:18
Bunny
And of course.

00:12:02:18 – 00:12:03:22
Tom
I’m a happy camper.

00:12:03:24 – 00:12:04:17
Bunny
Yeah. You are.

00:12:04:20 – 00:12:14:16
Tom
All right. So, with that said, that was our course. We haven’t done a video in a while. Now is our quick, quick update to the update to the update.

00:12:14:19 – 00:12:15:06
Bunny
Of course.

00:12:15:07 – 00:12:15:18
Tom
Okay.

00:12:15:19 – 00:12:17:05
Bunny
Enough talking about your junk now.

00:12:17:05 – 00:12:19:28
Tom
Yeah. So what question did you get recently asked.

00:12:19:28 – 00:12:49:13
Bunny
And so this lady contacted me and she wanted her and her husband hadn’t been discussing getting into the pineapple world. And of course, she had numerous, numerous questions. And and some of them were kind of bordered on poorly and some of them were on lifestyle. And then, of course, she thought, well, as my husband pushing me into this and, and, like I told her, I said, you got to communicate all of those issues for starters, right?

00:12:49:15 – 00:13:02:04
Bunny
And of course, I asked her different questions about what, you know, he was doing or saying, and, and it and it just turned out that he wasn’t trying to push her into it. He was just showing his, enthusiasm.

00:13:02:06 – 00:13:02:25
Tom
Right.

00:13:02:28 – 00:13:05:04
Bunny
And his excitement is to.

00:13:05:06 – 00:13:05:25
Tom
Enthusiasm.

00:13:05:25 – 00:13:09:17
Bunny
Over enthused. And which happens a lot.

00:13:09:18 – 00:13:11:20
Tom
It does. And.

00:13:11:22 – 00:13:28:03
Bunny
I mean, was really think back for the people that are already in this in our world, when you have had your first initial hookup, gone to a club, anything, you come home and you’re so excited about it and you wanted to.

00:13:28:05 – 00:13:28:21
Tom
Hit, but.

00:13:28:22 – 00:13:33:01
Bunny
You want to tell everybody and you can’t you can’t just tell everybody.

00:13:33:03 – 00:13:43:03
Tom
Well, it depends on who you are. There are parents or that would go to their job and tell everyone, which we would never, ever advise.

00:13:43:05 – 00:13:44:11
Bunny
no.

00:13:44:13 – 00:14:03:25
Tom
we, I think Pineapple World is a sexual lifestyle. It’s not a marriage. It’s not, anything that you’re trying to achieve. They’re like nodding all and say, have the sexual freedom parade.

00:14:03:28 – 00:14:05:15
Bunny
Hey, I was going to say that.

00:14:05:18 – 00:14:06:06
Tom
Oh, sorry.

00:14:06:06 – 00:14:15:17
Bunny
So I was going to say so you can pretty much go with sexual freedom, right. And that’s exactly what what this lifestyle is all.

00:14:15:17 – 00:14:47:03
Tom
About right now. What the Sexual Freedom Parade is. It goes down Bourbon Street and through the French Quarter. And the one thing about it is it it kind of opens people eyes up. hey, there’s a lot of people that don’t have the chances that normal relationships have are that they are more sexually active, are sexual beings. I truly believe that, as a human race, we were never meant to be totally monogamous.

00:14:47:03 – 00:15:18:02
Tom
Sexually, we are committed to each other. Yes. Me and Bunny have been married 38 years. This, it was 24, and we’ve been together over 39 years. Some people would always say, oh, your marriage has gone, crash, or you’re going to get divorce. Now, me and Barney just know how to navigate, see? And that’s the key thing is knowing how to navigate the pineapple world and not I mean, we always tell we.

00:15:18:02 – 00:15:29:02
Tom
Oh, you used to tell people jump in with both feet and then back out of the waters to your comfort level, because if you go in too slowly, it kind of gets,

00:15:29:04 – 00:15:32:07
Bunny
Too many roles, too boring.

00:15:32:10 – 00:16:00:01
Tom
it’s just me and Barney are one role was we had a one seat for everything. Meaning if one of us did something the other really didn’t care to see afterwards, we would talk about the whole encounter. And if one of us said, hey, we had fun. But I really didn’t like this part of the encounter. Doesn’t matter what it is, it could be someone playing with her toes.

00:16:00:01 – 00:16:03:26
Tom
I don’t have a foot fetish, but I might have an issue with somebody.

00:16:03:29 – 00:16:04:14
Bunny
Yeah.

00:16:04:16 – 00:16:18:20
Tom
Doing something I wouldn’t do at home. I don’t know, I’m just making stuff up. But we agree that at that point we won’t cross that line again. We never crossed the line in the first place.

00:16:18:23 – 00:16:21:28
Bunny
No, we had a one because we had a yes, because we asserted.

00:16:21:28 – 00:16:23:28
Tom
We don’t hold it against each.

00:16:23:28 – 00:16:41:07
Bunny
Other. Not at all. Not at all. Now, her concern was it almost sounded as though her husband was looking for a poly relationship with another couple, and she didn’t want to do that. She thought it was just going to be more fun to go out and mix and mingle with multiple people.

00:16:41:07 – 00:16:41:25
Tom
Right?

00:16:41:28 – 00:16:55:26
Bunny
And, you know, like, that’s what I told her, you know, you’ve got to communicate this with your husband. And I said, but, you know, things always involve two. I mean, you may start one way, you might end up with another. Yeah.

00:16:55:29 – 00:17:11:05
Tom
Those couples that started off as pineapple and then turned poly. And then there’s people that wanted to start off poly and turned pineapple. I mean life is ever changing. Kind of like Garth Brooks. The song the River.

00:17:11:05 – 00:17:12:07
Bunny
Of course got.

00:17:12:07 – 00:17:13:13
Tom
A got a follower follow.

00:17:13:13 – 00:17:23:11
Bunny
Flows like, you know, we’re still in the pineapple world. But I mean, as far as doing anything, it’s been a long time.

00:17:23:12 – 00:17:49:06
Tom
Well, I’ve been broken for a long time, but I will say me and funny, we’re not so much selective, are picky some people, because that comes along as a negative connotation. We can be friends with pretty much everyone, and I always have to leave myself an out because there are people we never want to encounter ever, ever again.

00:17:49:06 – 00:17:51:15
Tom
Just because we weren’t expecting.

00:17:51:17 – 00:17:52:17
Bunny
Exactly, yes.

00:17:52:17 – 00:18:09:03
Tom
But when it comes to actually playing all the moons, how to line, we got to feel it and then we’re good with it. We don’t go out necessarily looking for.

00:18:09:06 – 00:18:10:09
Bunny
Exactly.

00:18:10:11 – 00:18:13:11
Tom
Because we don’t want to get disappointed. And, you.

00:18:13:11 – 00:18:28:16
Bunny
Know, there are a lot of misconceptions for people that are starting off in, into this life that if they go to a club or they go here, they go there, that they’ve got to play with just anybody that asks, absolutely not.

00:18:28:17 – 00:18:52:23
Tom
We’ve heard that from a lot of women. and it’s ironic, though, we heard that from a lot of women, and it’s mostly women. And I’ll tell you how I came up with this. Mostly it’s a women’s idea about getting into the lifestyle. When we ran a club, we ran it for 20 years, and I would whenever a new couple brand new.

00:18:52:23 – 00:19:34:03
Tom
I mean, big, bugged out eyes and just, you know, and I would always just have fun, open up general conversation. And one of my questions was always, whose idea was it to come here? Because our club was the first thing they ever did. The first place they were meeting people, first place they ever went to. So and a lot of times I would probably I mean, it was I don’t even I don’t have a percentage, but it was a high ratio of it was the woman’s idea and it kind of, I kind of shocked me because you were most people think it’s the guy’s idea.

00:19:34:05 – 00:19:39:24
Tom
The guy’s the dog because the guy is the sleazy one. But I’m not saying women are.

00:19:39:26 – 00:19:42:02
Bunny
But it’s.

00:19:42:05 – 00:19:50:01
Tom
I’m just saying that women are just a sexual. But out in the vanilla world, they don’t show up as much.

00:19:50:01 – 00:20:04:01
Bunny
No, not at all. Not at all. And you know, in that, in that kind of poses, one of the other questions that we get all the time from the creepy people that say, how do I how do I, get.

00:20:04:01 – 00:20:04:28
Tom
My wife into it?

00:20:04:29 – 00:20:10:14
Bunny
How do I talk my wife into this? Well, you don’t well, you don’t, you do.

00:20:10:16 – 00:20:12:13
Tom
There’s a way, which is a way.

00:20:12:16 – 00:20:15:17
Bunny
You talk to her about it. Yes.

00:20:15:19 – 00:20:17:01
Tom
You communicate?

00:20:17:03 – 00:20:18:16
Bunny
Yes.

00:20:18:18 – 00:20:43:29
Tom
So, yeah. I have we get probably half of our emails. Our messages we get half are from married men asking either telling us how they wish their wife was like, funny, are asking us how to talk their wife into it, even to the point of asking if we would talk their wife into it.

00:20:43:29 – 00:20:44:28
Bunny
Yeah, and that’s a big no.

00:20:44:29 – 00:20:55:01
Tom
That’s a big no. I mean, well, we’ll answer questions, we’ll talk to people. But the person has to be has to understand that what we’re talking about.

00:20:55:04 – 00:20:56:00
Bunny
Is.

00:20:56:02 – 00:21:04:13
Tom
We know we don’t want to throw out, a jaw dropper and just say, hey, you should wait. I mean, pineapple we.

00:21:04:13 – 00:21:05:20
Bunny
Have and we.

00:21:05:23 – 00:21:05:25
Tom
I.

00:21:06:01 – 00:21:31:12
Bunny
Actually haven’t heard this. The horror stories of, of a couple went to meet a couple, and the wife had no clue what was going on. No clue, because he he did all of the talking, all of the chatting back and forth. He sent all of her pictures to them, and she had no clue whatsoever that she was going on.

00:21:31:13 – 00:21:36:16
Bunny
Well, yeah. And that is just wrong in every sense of the word.

00:21:36:16 – 00:21:55:04
Tom
Yep. And we don’t agree with that. We started our videos. I don’t know how long ago I have to go back and see when the first video was done, but our videos actually started with there was a cup down by. Back then there was only a few content creators.

00:21:55:04 – 00:21:55:23
Bunny
Yeah there was.

00:21:55:24 – 00:22:18:15
Tom
We weren’t even a content creator at the time. We were just running a club. Yeah, and one thing that we noticed at the club was the pineapple. They didn’t call it pineapple people back then. They call them and cheers. I mean, let’s bring it back to where it is. They keep changing the terminology faster than we can keep.

00:22:18:15 – 00:22:22:15
Bunny
Oh, we we came along not too long after. Key part is.

00:22:22:19 – 00:22:53:24
Tom
Right. our wife. You a press? And I gotta say this because of the algorithm, so bear with me on this. But. So we had seen a video where the couple said s pineapple world was the best thing for your marriage, and you should get into it. And I looked at Bunny and I said, that is probably I could see divorce forces happening.

00:22:53:27 – 00:22:56:02
Bunny
And,

00:22:56:04 – 00:23:03:01
Tom
we set up our camera in our living room, because I go overboard and we say.

00:23:03:03 – 00:23:03:29
Bunny
Go big or go home.

00:23:03:29 – 00:23:30:11
Tom
Yeah. We set up a lighting, soft boxes, everything. And our first video was communication is the most important thing in your relationship. If you can communicate about anything, everything under the sun, you can not. I mean, it’s embarrassing. And if you could just muscle through the embarrassment and talk to your spouse.

00:23:30:14 – 00:23:32:23
Bunny
No, no no no. If you if.

00:23:32:26 – 00:23:34:26
Tom
I kiss, a lot of things are embarrassing to talk.

00:23:34:26 – 00:23:41:10
Bunny
I want to say, if you can ask your husband, hey, do I have a hair in my buttcrack you can talk about anything.

00:23:41:10 – 00:23:53:17
Tom
Wow. I did not expect that one, but yeah, if you could talk about a hair on your buttcrack, we could probably talk about pretty much everything.

00:23:53:17 – 00:23:54:22
Bunny
Yeah, exactly.

00:23:54:22 – 00:24:05:06
Tom
So if you could talk about your penile implant, you could probably talk about anything to everybody. if you want to go that route.

00:24:05:07 – 00:24:07:05
Bunny
Of course. Of course you got that right.

00:24:07:06 – 00:24:37:03
Tom
But, yeah, the the biggest thing is we don’t talk to wives. If you don’t, we never hear from wives talking the husbands into this. I mean, that’s probably the easier target, but we don’t talk to wives. I mean, we’ll answer the wives questions. We’ve actually had wives contact us and say, hey, my husband watched one of your videos and said communication is the best thing, and he brought up the pineapple world.

00:24:37:05 – 00:24:46:00
Tom
I have serious questions. Can I ask you questions? Absolutely. Yeah, we want, but we’re only giving our opinion.

00:24:46:03 – 00:24:47:13
Bunny
But yes.

00:24:47:16 – 00:24:48:06
Tom
What works for.

00:24:48:06 – 00:24:59:20
Bunny
Us, I mean, we’re an open book. If you call us and ask us questions or you want you have any concerns, definitely. We’ll talk to you. but I’m not going to try to talk somebody into it.

00:24:59:21 – 00:25:16:17
Tom
Right. And there is a whole lot of gamut to lifestyle people. starting off with there are you don’t actually have to physically, connect with somebody to be in this world.

00:25:16:19 – 00:25:29:20
Bunny
No, no. You know, we used to have a lot of people that came to our club that they just they were more exhibitionists. So they wanted to come dance erotically, pull their boobies out of their dress.

00:25:29:21 – 00:25:31:20
Tom
Right. So they want to be older.

00:25:31:22 – 00:25:41:15
Bunny
So we had that from, from all the way up. You imagine what people could do. And they did it. Yes. So there’s so much.

00:25:41:16 – 00:26:05:15
Tom
People just like to be around the pineapple people because the pineapple people are so much more honest and open. And now in today’s terminology now mind you we go back 2527 years in the pineapple world. So I’m going to kind of say terminology we use back then that we would get slaughtered for using today.

00:26:05:18 – 00:26:06:10
Bunny
Yes.

00:26:06:10 – 00:26:32:13
Tom
What our thought was if a couple came to our club and they didn’t want to, they didn’t want to physically touch another person. They just wanted to hang out, drink, have a good time, dance erotically, like Barney said, maybe get a little bit of naked. on the dance floor, or get up on our pole and be a stripper for a song or two for their husband.

00:26:32:15 – 00:26:44:12
Tom
We always said, and this is work. Don’t slaughter me. This is just what the mentality was 20 some years ago. One drink shy of being a pineapple world.

00:26:44:14 – 00:26:46:00
Bunny
True. Very true.

00:26:46:05 – 00:26:51:13
Tom
So drinking is a big thing in the pineapple world.

00:26:51:16 – 00:26:56:01
Bunny
it can make. It can make you make mistakes, too.

00:26:56:01 – 00:27:19:17
Tom
It can make you make a. But you just have to know that when you start drinking, you gotta own up to your. Yes, any mistakes that you feel you made and just get past that? because obviously the other people, they may be aware that you’re overly intoxicated, they may not be aware because they are just as intoxicated.

00:27:19:24 – 00:27:32:17
Tom
So hey, Mimi, I’m funny, have different thoughts around all the politically correct going around. If we if we lived by politically correct, there would be no pineapple World.

00:27:32:19 – 00:27:33:10
Bunny
No.

00:27:33:13 – 00:27:44:00
Tom
There wouldn’t be because everyone is going to find fault somewhere. And they have to rephrase the terminology because they they fault even the terminology so much.

00:27:44:00 – 00:27:45:00
Bunny
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:27:45:05 – 00:27:46:02
Tom
It’s it’s.

00:27:46:02 – 00:27:46:14
Bunny
Very.

00:27:46:14 – 00:27:50:04
Tom
Offended by certain phrases are words.

00:27:50:04 – 00:27:55:11
Bunny
Yeah. It’s very, very and it’s really hard to keep up with that because.

00:27:55:13 – 00:28:03:23
Tom
because before our terminology would change every five plus years now it seems like it changes every year.

00:28:03:24 – 00:28:07:01
Bunny
Oh it’s funny, Tom’s a tick tock guy.

00:28:07:04 – 00:28:08:14
Tom
I am a tick tock guy.

00:28:08:17 – 00:28:29:28
Bunny
if you see my tick tocks, they’re all dogs. I my dog is dogs. So there will be words that come out or phrases that come out. And I have to ask Tom, what does this mean? It’s like, are you kidding me? Right? I’m so far behind. But you know what? It’s where I’m comfortable with.

00:28:30:00 – 00:28:33:17
Tom
And this all entails what? Where we are.

00:28:33:19 – 00:28:34:23
Bunny
but no, that’s talking.

00:28:34:23 – 00:28:36:16
Tom
About the original sub.

00:28:36:17 – 00:28:53:07
Bunny
Yeah. So we. But, you know, I basically told her, hey, this is your life years and your husband’s life. You do with it however you want to go. And our our saying is always, you can only go as fast as the slowest person, right?

00:28:53:08 – 00:28:55:13
Tom
You and you. You can’t.

00:28:55:15 – 00:28:59:29
Bunny
You can’t fault each other for somebody being slower than the other one.

00:28:59:29 – 00:29:11:09
Tom
I only said that because I’m watching the microphones go up and down, and when funny turns my direction, I watch it go down. And then when she turns back. So it’s, not a blast. It’s just, I get blasted for.

00:29:11:10 – 00:29:12:28
Bunny
I know, I know, for me.

00:29:13:03 – 00:29:18:25
Tom
We talked to each other because I read lips and I have my cochlear on so I can actually hear.

00:29:18:28 – 00:29:19:09
Bunny
On this.

00:29:19:09 – 00:29:25:03
Tom
Side, on this side. Now, if she was on this side, I’d be like, why?

00:29:25:05 – 00:29:34:12
Bunny
But did you even hear what I said? No, she. This is what I live with. He had no clue what I even said.

00:29:34:13 – 00:29:35:18
Tom
Said all over again.

00:29:35:20 – 00:29:37:11
Bunny
I said, you can only go as.

00:29:37:14 – 00:29:39:11
Tom
Fast as the slowest person. I did hear.

00:29:39:11 – 00:29:40:10
Bunny
That. What I said after that.

00:29:40:13 – 00:29:41:04
Tom
I don’t know.

00:29:41:06 – 00:29:46:12
Bunny
You can’t fault each other for somebody going slower than the other one.

00:29:46:14 – 00:30:20:07
Tom
Correct. And my, my thing. I always tell couples, especially new new couples talk, talk, talk meaning talk before you go anywhere or meet anybody or anything but scenarios in your head. I know it’s kind of, it could get stressful. You can get anxieties. Yeah, but you should be prepared for the encounter. If you’re going to meet a couple at a bar or dinner, do you have an out?

00:30:20:10 – 00:30:40:08
Tom
I mean, because you could walk in and as Bonnie says, the first two, three, four words out of a guy’s mouth, she knows right then and there if she even wants to communicate any further. So you got to have an out and the babysitter thing doesn’t work. Don’t get a fake phone call. Go get the babysitter out.

00:30:40:08 – 00:30:57:25
Tom
Gotta go. No, no, just be honest. Just say, hey, we don’t think it’s going to work out and we don’t want to waste your time. And we don’t want to spend $150 on a dinner sitting with people. We have no nothing in common with. You don’t have to be that dramatic. But you.

00:30:57:25 – 00:30:58:16
Bunny
Have.

00:30:58:19 – 00:30:59:10
Tom
My buddy.

00:30:59:12 – 00:30:59:20
Bunny
Buddy.

00:30:59:20 – 00:31:22:17
Tom
Turn her back on a couple. But the guy was an arrogant chauvinist. Yes. So when she did that, I’m a nice guy. I had to sit there for 45 minutes and endure the other couple. Meanwhile, Bonnie has her back. She’s talking to another table. She’s talking the waitresses. And this guy thinks he has a chance with her. And I’m like, you don’t read body language.

00:31:22:20 – 00:31:34:11
Tom
Apparently it’s a deaf skill because I can read body language, facial expressions, lips. Yeah, yeah. I mean, when someone turns their back on me, I know. Okay, it’s time to end.

00:31:34:11 – 00:31:48:28
Bunny
You know, we’ve been we’ve been in this long enough to that we know each other’s, what are each other’s likes and dislikes. And so, I mean, we both will almost no immediate leave.

00:31:49:01 – 00:32:18:17
Tom
Oh, yeah. I mean, so, Harry Harrison out for new couples that we used to use, and it worked really, really well. It still works today. Not so much for us, because if people have seen our videos, but in the conversation within so much time, you can actually talk about the weather. No matter if it’s hot or cold, rainy doesn’t matter.

00:32:18:21 – 00:32:44:10
Tom
You could talk about the weather, but the weather is the code for you guys. So I would look at Bonnie and, all right, look at the general conversation. I would say if I was interested in, other female, I would say, Holy cow. Bonnie, did you see that record temperature in Arizona? And Bonnie would reply back either.

00:32:44:10 – 00:32:56:01
Tom
Yeah, it was really hot. Meaning she was hot for the other guy, or she would talk about how call that was in Iowa.

00:32:56:03 – 00:33:18:21
Tom
Immediately, if she said the word cold, I knew that it was time to start backing out of the conversation and oh, because we don’t want, rooster block another couple ever. So there’s no reason, especially in a club setting our hotel take over, that you occupy someone’s time because they’re in a very short time frame.

00:33:18:28 – 00:33:32:18
Bunny
And you will find people, and people go, oh, that was really rude. But no, it’s not rude. The people will come up and be like, you know, within the first five minutes, hey, are you guys players? Would you be interested?

00:33:32:20 – 00:33:34:27
Tom
Hold on. We we like to get to know people.

00:33:34:27 – 00:33:51:22
Bunny
Yeah, I mean, we I met this one couple one time and they literally came up and they sat at our table and they go, so do you think there’s a chance of us and they said the word f u c k. And I’m like, nope. And he goes, hey, great guess. now you just saved me an hour, right?

00:33:51:22 – 00:34:17:02
Tom
And we were all good with that. And they’re no offense. they’re there is going to be a very high, high, high probability unless you’re in it for play. And there’s nothing wrong with that either. Absolutely not that you won’t make a match with other people. There are people that go to parties and don’t hook up multiple parties, many parties.

00:34:17:04 – 00:34:20:21
Tom
Then there’s people that go to a party and hook up ten times in one.

00:34:20:21 – 00:34:31:08
Bunny
Night, and there’s people that just absolutely love sex and they don’t care with who. And more power to them. I mean, it is you.

00:34:31:10 – 00:34:35:05
Tom
At the pineapple world. You see a lot of people lose focus on that.

00:34:35:10 – 00:34:44:28
Bunny
But and then, like I said, there’s other ones that might once a year and there is nothing wrong with where you go with this.

00:34:44:28 – 00:34:45:19
Tom
Right.

00:34:45:22 – 00:34:53:28
Bunny
And so I am going to lead us right into an advertising life, not an advertising.

00:34:53:28 – 00:34:55:07
Tom
We’re not advertising nothing.

00:34:55:07 – 00:34:57:15
Bunny
Nope. So I basically told you.

00:34:57:16 – 00:35:00:24
Tom
Say the word advertising. You’re you’re going to lose half of our honey.

00:35:00:25 – 00:35:02:05
Bunny
All right. So we’re not advertising.

00:35:02:08 – 00:35:03:29
Tom
Except for Tom’s trips.

00:35:04:02 – 00:35:11:04
Bunny
Exactly. So I told her because she had so many different questions on different things that I couldn’t answer her on.

00:35:11:10 – 00:35:11:21
Tom
Right.

00:35:11:27 – 00:35:16:10
Bunny
So I told her there is a great convention coming up at the end of June.

00:35:16:10 – 00:35:20:17
Tom
We actually wrote down a list of the places we’re going to be. Yeah, through the month of June.

00:35:20:17 – 00:35:40:10
Bunny
But if for any of you that are really, really new to this and that, want to explore different options and different things and learn at different seminars and, talk to thousands of people nodding in New Orleans. Yeah, it’s the place to be.

00:35:40:13 – 00:35:54:09
Tom
Yeah. It is the world’s largest pineapple convention, and upwards to 2500 people on Bourbon Street for 4 or 5 days now. We’ll be there for.

00:35:54:13 – 00:35:57:08
Bunny
We come in Wednesday morning and it.

00:35:57:08 – 00:36:00:19
Tom
Starts on Tuesday, but it’s mild on TV.

00:36:00:19 – 00:36:01:25
Bunny
Yeah. Where do you.

00:36:01:25 – 00:36:06:04
Tom
Say it starts building Thursday and Friday.

00:36:06:07 – 00:36:06:18
Bunny
Yeah.

00:36:06:20 – 00:36:08:01
Tom
Be prepared.

00:36:08:03 – 00:36:16:22
Bunny
So you’re going to eat there. Things start at 10 a.m.. I mean from different seminars on newbies to.

00:36:16:24 – 00:36:17:12
Tom
Massage.

00:36:17:13 – 00:36:26:29
Bunny
Massages to speed dating to poorly. by the way, you name it, you’re going to find it there.

00:36:27:07 – 00:36:33:25
Tom
And most seminars are free. There are some paid ones, but if they’re paid, there’s a reason why.

00:36:34:00 – 00:36:34:15
Bunny
And not.

00:36:34:16 – 00:36:35:15
Tom
You got to sign up for.

00:36:35:15 – 00:36:40:26
Bunny
Those. And there just seminars. There’s, Bourbon Street parties.

00:36:40:26 – 00:36:52:23
Tom
There’s couples. The seminars are. Yeah. Would be probably key. then, you, you start off at noon party.

00:36:52:25 – 00:36:53:19
Bunny
Start your party.

00:36:53:19 – 00:37:17:22
Tom
Honestly, there are two parties that start at noon every single day. and then at 3:00, two more open up and noon one is kind of, shut down and they open up for, but they are closed off to only the attendees for this convention. It is so bold, seem to get in that the line starts almost an hour before the event.

00:37:17:25 – 00:37:38:21
Tom
Tom’s trips, me and Bonnie will be there along with our host, Mike and Denise, and we will be doing. We’re not sure yet. you know, it’s probably going to be fat cats on Friday at noon. And if you’re going to be an audience, we invite you to join us at noon at Fat Cats.

00:37:38:23 – 00:37:41:10
Bunny
You are very positive that you’re going to get that time.

00:37:41:10 – 00:37:53:21
Tom
Slot. I think I think we are. And if it’s not fat cats, it’ll be bandstand. But I think it’s going to be fat cats because that with I got the choice, parties and I put fat cats as the priority.

00:37:53:21 – 00:38:11:16
Bunny
Yeah. So but, you know, it’s just a great place to go and to meet people. And then after that, and before they have the ballroom parties at 9:00 at night, they have multiple meet and greets on what you’re looking for. Yeah. Five couples poly couples fetish.

00:38:11:19 – 00:38:30:27
Tom
And their priority. so if you’re, by a couple you’re not going to be out in the lobby. They’re actually going to have a room specifically. So that way you don’t have lurkers or people leering to see who the by couples are.

00:38:30:28 – 00:38:31:20
Bunny
Yeah.

00:38:31:22 – 00:38:39:18
Tom
they’ll actually have to go into the room. Poly couples, they’ll probably have their own room, and then they’ll have a main meet and greet. And that’s the ballroom.

00:38:39:18 – 00:38:45:19
Bunny
Now, currently, I mean, we are only three weeks out or weeks out from this major event.

00:38:45:21 – 00:38:48:22
Tom
The 2nd June 28th through the 30th.

00:38:48:25 – 00:38:56:10
Bunny
The two main hotels are already sold out, but they do have another overflow hotel. I mean, Tom and I are not even staying in the main hotel.

00:38:56:11 – 00:38:57:05
Tom
No.

00:38:57:07 – 00:39:09:27
Bunny
We are staying off. We’re only staying a block away, but it’s just going to be, great. Great week and a very good learning for the newbies.

00:39:10:01 – 00:39:22:08
Tom
And these events are great to just go to, not just not in all ones, but there’s a lot of hotel takeovers. There’s, we’re going we’re going to sooner swing. We’re leaving at four in the morning.

00:39:22:08 – 00:39:23:13
Bunny
Yep. So yeah.

00:39:23:14 – 00:39:27:28
Tom
Four in the morning. This video will actually come out after we’ve looked here.

00:39:27:29 – 00:39:35:22
Bunny
Yes. So I mean we’re going to sooner swing in Oklahoma. They already have over 800 people coming for this weekend.

00:39:35:23 – 00:39:37:07
Tom
Hundreds of people at a.

00:39:37:07 – 00:39:43:05
Bunny
Campground, at a campground. also going on this weekend, it’s the splash party.

00:39:43:05 – 00:39:43:15
Tom
Yeah.

00:39:43:15 – 00:39:51:20
Bunny
And Atlanta and Atlanta, which is another really good sign that, we’ve been to splash. We have not.

00:39:51:20 – 00:39:52:19
Tom
Been to Lauderdale.

00:39:52:22 – 00:39:56:08
Bunny
We have not been to Atlanta.

00:39:56:09 – 00:39:57:11
Tom
No, we haven’t been to it.

00:39:57:14 – 00:40:13:04
Bunny
But we will because it’s only four hours from us. Right. But, they have splash parties in Atlanta, Fort Lauderdale and Houston, Houston. And so there’s so many great, great. Right.

00:40:13:04 – 00:40:30:25
Tom
And like I say, then there’s all the hotel takeovers. I mean, there’s just so many. We can’t even list them all. Then you got your regular clubs. Now the club we’re going to go to, not this weekend but the next Friday. We’re only go in there Friday night because we’re going to a wedding Saturday.

00:40:31:01 – 00:40:36:14
Bunny
So Friday, June 7th, we will be at the corral.

00:40:36:16 – 00:40:39:02
Tom
You know, that’s that corral welcome.

00:40:39:07 – 00:40:40:04
Bunny
With the K.

00:40:40:06 – 00:40:50:19
Tom
Yeah. So if you want to meet us, come out Friday night. I don’t know how late they will be there, but, we’re going to we’re we’re leaving here Thursday. They get there for Friday.

00:40:50:19 – 00:40:53:20
Bunny
So that’s the corral and Spring Grove, Pennsylvania.

00:40:53:20 – 00:41:00:18
Tom
Yes. And some people have asked. I’m four hours away. Five hours away. We’re 12 and we’re driving.

00:41:00:20 – 00:41:01:21
Bunny
So.

00:41:01:23 – 00:41:17:26
Tom
Yeah, they always say, is it worth it? I don’t know if it’s worth it for you or not. It is for us. We absolutely love the car. We love the people. We would recommend it to anybody, but we don’t want somebody say, oh, Tom, my buddy recommended it and we hated it because it’s not your cup of tea.

00:41:17:26 – 00:41:18:23
Bunny
It’s this.

00:41:18:24 – 00:41:25:23
Tom
It’s something that you should experience on your own the first time and make your own decision.

00:41:25:25 – 00:41:32:12
Bunny
It’s in in. It’s bad. It’s bad to say. But Tom and I have a rule. You always try things twice.

00:41:32:14 – 00:41:34:07
Tom
Because maybe.

00:41:34:09 – 00:41:35:18
Bunny
Make.

00:41:35:20 – 00:41:37:20
Tom
Or sometimes you.

00:41:37:22 – 00:41:50:24
Bunny
Yeah, but we’ve gone back to different places and we had a completely different feel. Right. Just it every night. And we know this from running an on premise club for 20 years, every night is different than the.

00:41:50:24 – 00:42:18:13
Tom
Other every single night. And if you have a bad experience one night, you might have a phenomenal experience. You might have a phenomenal experience. Can’t wait to get back. And it doesn’t meet your expectations. And you leave there with a negative thought in your head. Just remember it varies per the party theme. The day of the week. If you’re going during Mother’s Day weekend, it’s going to suck.

00:42:18:16 – 00:42:31:29
Bunny
Yeah, typically, if you’re going on a three day weekend like Memorial Day or Labor Day, they generally are a lot slower because everybody’s out on their boat. So we have our little theme vacations. So yeah.

00:42:32:02 – 00:42:48:22
Tom
Graduation. So it of you got to look at the holidays. You got to look at what is happening around that might, detract from yeah, the venue. And if there is nothing going on around your venues, probably going to be hopping.

00:42:48:25 – 00:43:00:26
Bunny
Well, I know, there’s a club in Iowa and, the Friday opening Friday night fair, they just closed the club because no one’s going to be there. Right? Everybody goes to the Iowa State Fair.

00:43:00:28 – 00:43:02:03
Tom
Yeah.

00:43:02:05 – 00:43:03:25
Bunny
So, I mean, yeah.

00:43:03:27 – 00:43:08:13
Tom
We actually lived in Iowa for a year and a half. Don’t ask us why.

00:43:08:16 – 00:43:09:07
Bunny
We don’t even know.

00:43:09:09 – 00:43:12:21
Tom
We actually started our pineapple.

00:43:12:24 – 00:43:15:26
Bunny
And we did our, I guess, our journey, our.

00:43:15:26 – 00:43:16:17
Tom
Journey.

00:43:16:17 – 00:43:18:07
Bunny
Our pineapple journey started.

00:43:18:07 – 00:43:25:26
Tom
Living in a small town of 800 people was a no no, 898. We had 96 houses, 96 houses.

00:43:25:26 – 00:43:27:17
Bunny
It did have 97, but one burned.

00:43:27:19 – 00:44:02:20
Tom
Out there and the fire department watched it burn down. And, so anyway, we’ll be at the corral, not this Friday, but next Friday, June 7th. Yeah, seven. Then what’s the next hedonism? We’re back to hedonism and we will be there with Cassidy. Crush. Cassidy crush is. It’s a younger crowd because we actually time around teachers. Yes, because the teachers wanted to come, but they had school and everything, so we kind of navigated it to where they can attend.

00:44:02:26 – 00:44:12:23
Tom
So it tends to be a little on the younger side. And when I say younger side, it’s not 1821. It’s probably in mid 30s,

00:44:12:25 – 00:44:14:16
Bunny
Or like 40s or.

00:44:14:19 – 00:44:19:24
Tom
The 40s. Yeah. So we’re the old ones. We are, we’re the cool and Uncle.

00:44:20:19 – 00:44:21:27
Tom
Well, that’s what they tell us.

00:44:21:27 – 00:44:23:04
Bunny
I know.

00:44:23:06 – 00:44:26:22
Tom
But what? They kick us out of bed. Fruit and crackers, you know.

00:44:26:24 – 00:44:27:13
Bunny
Maybe not.

00:44:27:13 – 00:44:30:13
Tom
We’ll have to find out.

00:44:30:16 – 00:44:32:14
Bunny
maybe not this time, though.

00:44:32:17 – 00:44:39:28
Tom
And then when? This time. Then we come back in three days later where we do our lines for Nadia and Mullins.

00:44:40:00 – 00:44:45:04
Bunny
And you know what? I. I’m very, very giddy about going back to Nadia. It’s been it’s.

00:44:45:06 – 00:44:46:20
Tom
It’s been five years. It’s.

00:44:46:26 – 00:44:51:25
Bunny
Yeah. Because we didn’t get 2019 was the last time we went.

00:44:52:02 – 00:44:52:24
Tom
There you go.

00:44:52:26 – 00:44:55:28
Bunny
And so. So it was our.

00:44:56:01 – 00:45:04:17
Tom
Claim to fame is we were awarded our how when they announce are they. We were.

00:45:04:20 – 00:45:06:00
Bunny
Presented as.

00:45:06:02 – 00:45:25:13
Tom
We are presented as the king and queen. not in New Orleans on Bourbon Street and we got to ride in a float. The the, bunch of guys push these floats down. Yeah. Previous kings and queens and other Royal Corps. So that was actually kind of fun. Actually. It was a lot of fun.

00:45:25:13 – 00:45:32:07
Bunny
It was a lot of fun. And naughty in New Orleans has always been our one of our favorite events to go to.

00:45:32:10 – 00:45:42:11
Tom
Because there’s so much going on. I mean, you do breakfast, lunch and dinner on your own. I mean, they do have, a brunch, and.

00:45:42:14 – 00:45:43:12
Bunny
I don’t even know if they’re I.

00:45:43:12 – 00:45:48:14
Tom
Don’t think they’re having it anymore because it’s really a that’s a hard one to,

00:45:48:16 – 00:45:51:07
Bunny
There’s a lot of. They have pizza at midnight.

00:45:51:08 – 00:46:10:17
Tom
Yeah. If you’re in the playrooms, they bring in, like, hundreds of pizzas, and some people will just go up to the playroom just to get pizza and people like, oh, no, no, no, it’s all sanitary. It’s good. Yeah. And that’s probably some of the best pizza. I don’t remember the name of the place, but Crescent City pizza.

00:46:10:17 – 00:46:11:21
Bunny
And do they get it from Crescent?

00:46:11:21 – 00:46:15:14
Tom
I believe so, because that’s where, we got it for Cassidy.

00:46:15:14 – 00:46:20:28
Bunny
That’s what we’re having for lunch on that one Tuesday, I remember. Yep. That’s the first thing we’re having for lunch on that Wednesday.

00:46:20:28 – 00:46:28:15
Tom
If you haven’t had Crescent City Pizza on Bourbon Street, every place sells pizza. Crescent city sells really good pizza.

00:46:28:17 – 00:46:36:01
Bunny
And it’s it’s down there. It’s probably a good 4 or 5 blocks from the from the resort. And it doesn’t.

00:46:36:03 – 00:46:36:28
Tom
Matter if you’re walking.

00:46:36:28 – 00:46:37:05
Bunny
From.

00:46:37:05 – 00:46:43:11
Tom
Canal Street down Bourbon Street. Yeah. Towards the, pirate bar.

00:46:43:13 – 00:46:44:22
Bunny
Oh, John Lafitte’s. Yeah.

00:46:44:28 – 00:46:58:03
Tom
And you, everyone has to go there. That’s pretty much the end of Bourbon Street. Yeah. So you walk from Canal all the way down to John the Feets and it’s all candlelit. It’s like you’re in the 1700s. It’s really cool.

00:46:58:03 – 00:47:08:24
Bunny
So, yeah, I’m really, really looking forward to going back. And, you know, and for us, it’s like being newbies all over again too, because it’s been so long.

00:47:08:24 – 00:47:09:27
Tom
So we’re going to be fresh meat.

00:47:09:28 – 00:47:12:27
Bunny
We are going to be freshmen, but no one’s going to know who we are.

00:47:12:28 – 00:47:15:18
Tom
I don’t know if my name.

00:47:15:19 – 00:47:16:08
Bunny
Yeah, I don’t.

00:47:16:08 – 00:47:24:13
Tom
Know if it’s gonna work yet or not. I it works, but I don’t know. It’s still painful. Yeah, yeah. So I, I’m going to have to heel for a while.

00:47:24:14 – 00:47:27:04
Bunny
I have to be very, very gentle, very gentle.

00:47:27:07 – 00:47:28:05
Tom
Just lay there.

00:47:28:05 – 00:47:28:18
Bunny
And leave.

00:47:28:18 – 00:47:29:16
Tom
Time. Don’t move.

00:47:29:18 – 00:47:30:07
Bunny
And we’ve talked.

00:47:30:07 – 00:47:31:15
Tom
Before. Lock your hips.

00:47:31:16 – 00:47:33:21
Bunny
We’ve talked before. I’m not really gentle.

00:47:33:21 – 00:47:34:22
Tom
Don’t push back.

00:47:34:26 – 00:47:38:06
Bunny
Don’t just lay there.

00:47:38:06 – 00:47:40:06
Tom
Just let me do my thing.

00:47:40:08 – 00:47:41:18
Bunny
Just be a pillow princess.

00:47:41:19 – 00:47:45:06
Tom
There you go. Yep. So, yeah, I know.

00:47:45:08 – 00:47:48:09
Bunny
That’s not easy for me.

00:47:48:11 – 00:48:17:10
Tom
We I mean, we’re we’re looking forward. We’re going to be going to more larger events. We’ve been going to more clubs in more specific locations like the corral, vibe and Nashville. Yeah. Our Murfreesboro. we’re going to specific clubs. We have a host couple that go to trapeze, and they’re going to tempted in Lexington, this month.

00:48:17:14 – 00:48:20:19
Bunny
Yep. June 14th, June 15th and 16th.

00:48:20:19 – 00:48:37:03
Tom
Okay. So but I mean, you’re meeting the, general location of that specific club we like to go to where people travel in, like, splash party. not in the hotel parties.

00:48:37:04 – 00:48:38:28
Bunny
I mean, we just came back from Vegas.

00:48:38:28 – 00:48:42:04
Tom
Yep. And there was a lot of people that flew in for that one.

00:48:42:07 – 00:48:55:04
Bunny
Yeah. So it it we’re kind of getting back to, almost like a grassroots yacht, which is what we started and, and we’re just ready to hit the ground running again.

00:48:55:12 – 00:49:03:00
Tom
Right. So again, the best thing to do is and I didn’t finish off, I talked about talking about.

00:49:03:00 – 00:49:05:26
Bunny
Finished off this morning.

00:49:05:28 – 00:49:12:14
Tom
Wow. We talked about discussing all the, hypotheticals.

00:49:12:14 – 00:49:12:29
Bunny
Yes.

00:49:13:05 – 00:49:37:08
Tom
But what we didn’t talk about is me and Bonnie always discuss when we come home at night. No two things happen. Whether anything happen or not. We discuss what we liked about the night, what we didn’t care for or anything like that. But what if if nothing happened? We. You do have to question why did nothing happen? Was it us?

00:49:37:09 – 00:49:44:04
Tom
Was it them? Was it one of us? Why were we putting that? Don’t approach us.

00:49:44:07 – 00:49:48:05
Bunny
It usually stems from bunny tops. Too much.

00:49:48:09 – 00:49:57:19
Tom
Yes, but I talk too much on camera. So I could talk forever on camera. But when it’s out of club, I know when to shut up.

00:49:57:21 – 00:50:04:16
Bunny
But it’s kind of even. Even after all these years, you still get giddy and you still get nervous.

00:50:04:18 – 00:50:25:00
Tom
Oh, we still. Oh yeah, we still get really nervous. And people are like, oh, you’re the experienced people. No no no no, no, we don’t play that much. We really don’t play that much. And we’re fine with that. the, the main focus is it’s us.

00:50:25:06 – 00:50:25:21
Bunny
Yes.

00:50:25:22 – 00:50:29:27
Tom
And we won’t let anything interfere with our relation itself.

00:50:29:29 – 00:50:30:15
Bunny
No.

00:50:30:17 – 00:50:56:27
Tom
So we won’t take one for the team now, taking one for the team is such a nagging negative connotation. Taking one for the team just means one of you are physically attracted to the other person. It doesn’t mean they’re a bad person or anything like that. It just means that you don’t want to get physically intimate with someone you’re not physically attracted to.

00:50:56:29 – 00:51:21:07
Tom
And unfortunately, in this pineapple world there, there’s a lot of mismatched couples. Me and buddy are probably mismatched to a lot of other couples. Couples may want Bunny, but not me. they may want me and not Bunny. I know that’s the rarity. I know I’m pat myself on the back stroking my own ego here, but it is what it is.

00:51:21:09 – 00:51:42:26
Tom
Whatever. one of our encounters was, hedonism, and it just happened to be a single female and a single guy. Yeah. So it worked out. It did really well. because it was a couple that one of us was hit or miss on.

00:51:42:27 – 00:52:07:05
Bunny
Right? Right. And, you know, and think it happens. I mean, like you said, the stars aligned, at that. But our biggest thing is we always come home and we talk about it. And, if, and this is the new, new phrase, but we always say we, we, we claim each other if we played, but I don’t call it reclaim.

00:52:07:05 – 00:52:08:18
Bunny
We reconnect.

00:52:08:21 – 00:52:32:01
Tom
Yeah. So after if we do have a physical encounter with somebody, I’m using the right proper wording that doesn’t get us kicked off the algorithm. You if we have a physical interaction with another couple, sometimes there are single females, sometimes there are single men. But we focus more on, both of us playing.

00:52:32:06 – 00:52:32:29
Bunny
Yes.

00:52:33:01 – 00:52:53:21
Tom
Our interacting. Yes. So when we do come home, we get physically intimate with each other. Because the last thing I want to do is one of us doesn’t wake up in the morning, and the other one has to go through the rest of their life knowing that the last person that person was physically intimate with was not me.

00:52:53:23 – 00:52:58:00
Tom
So call it, low self-esteem.

00:52:58:03 – 00:53:12:01
Bunny
It. This is a morbid, even a morbid thought, but we’ve even discussed it. If if there’s anything that happens in the middle of play and God forbid, you know, one of us has a heart attack, you push off the other partner and jump on.

00:53:12:04 – 00:53:24:28
Tom
Oh, and if I have the heart attack, Bunny knows how to. Well, she has to learn how to fight the new one. But I don’t want to go to the morgue or the hospital with, a stiffy.

00:53:25:01 – 00:53:26:03
Bunny
What did they. What did?

00:53:26:03 – 00:53:41:20
Tom
That one they called a forklift. Because there’s two tubes, and I. In a future video, I’ll show you what the whole implant looks like. But there’s a tube on each side of the shaft, so they call it a forklift because they’re both,

00:53:41:22 – 00:53:42:01
Bunny
Yeah.

00:53:42:08 – 00:54:02:12
Tom
So I don’t want to be called a forklift. So I got to show Bunny where the new button is because it was high right now it’s low middle. Yeah. So yeah, it’s something happens to me. She’s just going to press. I also have to do with press for a second and then it will eventually go down all on its own.

00:54:02:14 – 00:54:09:04
Bunny
I’m not a crazy driver. We’re crazy. We’re. Yeah, but hey, that’s us. That’s us.

00:54:09:05 – 00:54:09:17
Tom
What are we?

00:54:09:20 – 00:54:14:25
Bunny
So, We’re, Time to go pack.

00:54:14:28 – 00:54:15:25
Tom
What time?

00:54:15:27 – 00:54:17:20
Bunny
We’re at 53 minutes. Oh, we’re.

00:54:17:26 – 00:54:18:10
Tom
Under an.

00:54:18:10 – 00:54:23:08
Bunny
Hour. Yeah, I told you, I know it’s giving me 30 minutes.

00:54:23:10 – 00:54:28:01
Tom
Yeah, well, we always start off our video saying we’re going to be 30 minutes, and then.

00:54:28:04 – 00:54:28:17
Bunny
Right.

00:54:28:18 – 00:54:30:20
Tom
One of us doesn’t shut up.

00:54:30:22 – 00:54:38:27
Bunny
It’s because now I’m looking at it. Tom wants to go to bed in one hour and 40 minutes. We still have to make dinner and we still have to pack in the car.

00:54:39:03 – 00:54:42:10
Tom
we’ll probably go out to dinner.

00:54:42:12 – 00:54:47:25
Bunny
I I’m to send Tom to the store for a dinner run, and I’ll finish packing.

00:54:47:28 – 00:55:15:14
Tom
So if you want to meet us, definitely. I got to update our Tom and money.com. I, I stopped doing it for a while because we were getting some stalkers, and I’ll be honest, they made us very nervous putting out too early where we are going to go. Yes. Sometimes it’s better to put out after you’ve gone, and then they can learn about it and then book next year and stuff like that.

00:55:15:16 – 00:55:38:03
Tom
So but yeah, we just told you where we’re going to be for June. I know it’s for short notice, but if you’d like to meet us, not in noggins, it’s naughty hyphen. the-events.com aren’t go to Tom strobes.com and just scroll down. Yeah don’t go to night hyphen events because we make a commission. If you just book it and it cost you no more.

00:55:38:06 – 00:55:41:22
Bunny
So yeah go to Tom’s tips.com and it’s underneath.

00:55:41:25 – 00:55:43:08
Tom
just scroll down to main page and.

00:55:43:08 – 00:55:43:19
Bunny
You’ll see.

00:55:43:19 – 00:55:45:19
Tom
It and just click on the naughty.

00:55:45:19 – 00:55:49:02
Bunny
And I. And I know it works because somebody just booked one today.

00:55:49:04 – 00:55:49:20
Tom
Oh did.

00:55:49:22 – 00:55:52:12
Bunny
Yes. Oh.

00:55:52:14 – 00:56:16:11
Tom
So and that’s how we’re able to do these videos. Yeah. You support us by booking travel. It costs you no more money and you might save money depending on like our group trips to hedonism. You actually save money booking to Tom’s trips. And we are the leader, the leader in hedonism. Travel throughout the year with over 20 group trips.

00:56:16:11 – 00:56:19:23
Tom
We book more rooms at hedonism than anybody else.

00:56:19:25 – 00:56:20:18
Bunny
That we do for.

00:56:20:18 – 00:56:23:09
Tom
30 years our company has been in business.

00:56:23:11 – 00:56:31:21
Bunny
Yes, yes, we’ve been really working hard to come at. We making a big comeback after Covid.

00:56:31:21 – 00:56:33:01
Tom
Covid was having.

00:56:33:01 – 00:56:47:19
Bunny
Her that kicked everybody’s butts. And you know what? We, swept off the dust and we came back with a vengeance. And, we’re bigger and better than not bigger and better. We are bigger and better than before.

00:56:47:20 – 00:56:53:06
Tom
Right now. We probably didn’t fully answer the question that was asked.

00:56:53:09 – 00:56:54:25
Bunny
Because that’s the money.

00:56:54:26 – 00:57:06:25
Tom
That’s us. We just randomly talk. I mean, we could answer the question in two minutes, but we like to talk.

00:57:06:27 – 00:57:12:13
Tom
I’d like to talk if you couldn’t see. A bunny was pointing at me.

00:57:12:16 – 00:57:18:00
Bunny
All right, we need to get off this. they need to,

00:57:18:02 – 00:57:18:25
Tom
They need to go eat.

00:57:18:26 – 00:57:30:07
Bunny
They need to go eat. Oh, can I do a shout out to Jack and Diane, who just booked with me? And I know that they watch us while they’re at their home gym. I, Jack and Diane.

00:57:30:10 – 00:57:31:24
Tom
We should play the song.

00:57:31:26 – 00:57:33:08
Bunny
Right?

00:57:33:11 – 00:57:35:09
Tom
Little ditty? Yeah, by Jack and.

00:57:35:09 – 00:57:37:19
Bunny
I, of course.

00:57:37:22 – 00:57:45:08
Tom
So, yeah. definitely. Come travel with us. We. We’d love to meet people. don’t be a stalker.

00:57:45:10 – 00:57:47:23
Bunny
No, no, don’t.

00:57:47:25 – 00:57:48:13
Tom
Oh, and.

00:57:48:13 – 00:57:53:02
Bunny
Don’t don’t make us, take down all of our schedule because they’re stalking either.

00:57:53:02 – 00:58:02:02
Tom
And if you email us, our DM us and we don’t respond, we don’t respond to. Hey. Hi.

00:58:02:04 – 00:58:04:09
Bunny
You’re hot, you’re hot.

00:58:04:12 – 00:58:14:11
Tom
I want to play, I mean, right, can I ask a question? We don’t even respond to that. Ask the question and we shall respond. Yes, maybe.

00:58:14:13 – 00:58:17:23
Bunny
Respond. Send a whole sentence.

00:58:17:26 – 00:58:19:25
Tom
Send something of substance.

00:58:19:26 – 00:58:20:23
Bunny
Yeah.

00:58:20:25 – 00:58:22:14
Tom
I mean.

00:58:22:16 – 00:58:23:28
Bunny
All right. I was like, no.

00:58:24:01 – 00:58:24:14
Tom
It’s just the.

00:58:24:14 – 00:58:25:17
Bunny
Other day, I know.

00:58:25:19 – 00:58:30:26
Tom
Literally going hundreds down and seeing stuff that I should have replied two months ago.

00:58:30:28 – 00:58:34:21
Bunny
All right. Well, he’ll reply, I’ll reply.

00:58:34:23 – 00:58:36:00
Tom
All right, until next time.

00:58:36:05 – 00:58:37:05
Bunny
We’ll see you soon.

00:58:37:05 – 00:58:38:12
Tom
We’ll see you soon.

 

 

Vibe Party Recap with Tom and Bunny

Vibe Party Recap with Tom and Bunny

Tom and Bunny recap their recent weekend at the Vibe Party hotel takeover in Murfreesboro Tennessee and update on their upcoming trips with Tom’s Trips with Hedo Hotshots at Hedonism in Jamaica, Bi-events Bi Out in Las Vegas, Sooner Swing camping trip in Tulsa Oklahoma, Kasidie Krush at Hedonism in Jamaica, Northaven Resort in Brooklyn Michigan and our two events back at Hedonism Resort with our Sunny Buns and Bi Week.

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Transcript

00:00:00:00 – 00:00:23:07
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here and I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos in the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips.com, or give us a call at 1-800-285-0853 and I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:23:07 – 00:00:48:08
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone. We’re Tom and Bonnie from Tom and Barnicle coming to you live from the Nashville area of Tennessee. And we were representing Tom’s trips, your leader and adult lifestyle travel to destinations all around the world and more by attending the Vibe Party in Murfreesboro, Tennessee this past weekend. You know what? We haven’t really been out very much besides going to Jamaica ready to go.

00:00:48:13 – 00:01:15:19
Tom and Bunny
And, it was certainly great to get our feet wet and get in there and have fun again. Yeah, because the what are we in April, middle of April going on middle of April. And we have been at Hayden is January, February, March and we’re going back next week. So it’s kind of a nice change to get to a local place.

00:01:15:19 – 00:01:33:01
Tom and Bunny
And we have a couple more events that we’re going to be going to that we’ll talk about at the end of this video. So if you want to follow us, come out and join us. So we, got the invite to be part of the Vibe Tribe while we are in, hedonism. for the Miss No swimsuit.

00:01:33:06 – 00:01:56:22
Tom and Bunny
And I think that we’ve actually probably found a home. We did find a home. Now we have band, vibe one other time, and it was probably about six years ago, maybe five, five and a half years ago when we first started with Tom’s trips. We went to a Halloween party at vibe, and we we were kind of busy the whole time.

00:01:56:22 – 00:02:21:24
Tom and Bunny
So we we enjoyed ourselves, but not like this weekend. Right now. We did have a lot of help. Yeah. My goodness. They really, pretty much held her hand and introduced us to everybody that they knew and so it was really, really good. My kidneys have been hosting for Tom’s trips for 14 years. long before we started.

00:02:21:26 – 00:02:52:22
Tom and Bunny
And they go to Trapeze Atlanta and they go to five parties. So they also go to, a couple other ones. But those are the two that they’re most well known. and believe me, they have a great presence, vibe. Everybody who is anybody who wasn’t anybody who was somebody they all knew Mike and Andy, he’s and Mike and and he’s personally brought them and introduced us.

00:02:52:24 – 00:03:12:17
Tom and Bunny
And that made our jobs a lot easier. Well, and the gist of it made the fact of getting to meet people a lot easier to it’s always great when you have somebody that kind of helps you out a little bit. Yeah. I mean, even as long as we’ve been in this life, it’s great to have friends to meet other friends, right?

00:03:12:19 – 00:03:48:15
Tom and Bunny
See, I say right a lot. You do literally, literally. So, no. now vibe had a new location. They did have a new location. Now, that ironic part is when me and buddy were transporting RVs for a while when Covid hit, and we had nothing better to do except try to make money, we would stay at the hotel that vibe was hosting at, and we always thought while we were staying there, it wasn’t a lot of people at the hotel.

00:03:48:19 – 00:04:09:25
Tom and Bunny
No, no, it’s an older hotel, but it’s big. It’s huge. And we thought, man, what a great place to have a lifestyle event at. And and you know, I mentioned that to and to the owners of vibe. I don’t know if I can mention their names, but I did mention that to them. And she’s like, you know, we’ve been trying to get this location for over seven years.

00:04:10:03 – 00:04:39:03
Tom and Bunny
What a great location. And let me tell you what a great way to blow it out. I mean, blow party. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it was it was a great, great weekend. Yeah. So you want real quick you want to give there. information for vibe parties. I just oh I, we, we had to restart the video. So if you want, Google our research vibe while you’re watching our video or after.

00:04:39:03 – 00:05:05:18
Tom and Bunny
And I’m going to put their web address throughout the video. And at the end of the video, it’s parties by vibe.com pa t I s b b I b e.com. And if you’re listening to us on a podcast, you’re welcome to jump over to our YouTube channel. And if you’re watching us on YouTube, you can listen to us on podcasts.

00:05:05:18 – 00:05:29:17
Tom and Bunny
We are Tom and Bonnie everywhere on social media, Instagram and Twitter, so be sure to like and subscribe there. Now, I won’t make you start all over. Thank you. So you know the week it vibe is a hotel takeover. Yes. And they do have a their parties on Friday night and on Saturday night. So you’re getting the most bang for your buck for the whole weekend.

00:05:29:17 – 00:06:06:20
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. And Friday night started off with spring break and Saturday night was blow in two. Totally different two totally different vibes. Yes. You like I threw that in there. And they had two different deejays, one on Friday and one on Saturday. So the music kind of correlated with each one. Yeah. So going with the spring break or now, me, I’m finding we like more of the top 40 music and music that you hear on the radio or that you can bump around to Friday night.

00:06:06:20 – 00:06:30:22
Tom and Bunny
The deejay had the dance floor packed and he was playing all those cool songs that we used to play at our club, right. It was kind of like a big mix of what we used to play. And yeah, it was like threw about a lot back, a lot of memories. Yeah. He, he was a phenomenal DJ. We we were really, really, really impressed.

00:06:30:22 – 00:06:54:15
Tom and Bunny
And just the dance for never quit. And then, the spring break party, everyone was kind of just wearing it was they said dress like you would if you were on spring break. So you had people in shorts and bikini thongs. So what? so it was very, very simple and easy to wear. I what did I wear?

00:06:54:20 – 00:07:15:25
Tom and Bunny
Oh, I have a little white outfit that I usually wear to Hedo. And I actually pulled that one out and wore it. Oh, yeah. It’s, Victoria’s Secret. It’s like, it’s a it’s actually a bathing suit cover, but but it, you know, she looks naked, right? So. And she was bathing. I am naked under it. Yeah. You weren’t wearing a bathing suit under it, so,

00:07:15:27 – 00:07:49:07
Tom and Bunny
No. Then there was a lot of people that that are regulars there, and they all had their, airbrushed t shirts. Yeah. 20, 20 from those people. And they kept coming over. So that was really cool because I kept saying, yeah, you must all went to the same airbrush. But no, I was very, very impressed. not only by the way, the parties are ran by the size of it, but just the people were just really super nice.

00:07:49:08 – 00:08:13:18
Tom and Bunny
They were really, really, really nice. They were very young. yeah, a lot more younger than us. But they still talk to us old people. They did. Maybe they didn’t think that we are so old. Hopefully. You know, you kept asking me if you looked younger. I was trying then, the nice thing about the location of the vibe party is the proximity to restaurants.

00:08:13:21 – 00:08:37:02
Tom and Bunny
Ubers. Ubers are, in abundance. they’re they’re we went to, restaurant for, brunch, on Saturday. On Saturday. And there was a restaurant in the parking lot. I don’t want to give too much details because I’m not sure, people need to book to get the information. So I don’t want to give away the dedicado.

00:08:37:02 – 00:08:58:28
Tom and Bunny
Exactly. Not. So, yeah. there’s a Walmart right across the street that pretty much everything you need, you can almost walk to if you really want to. We went to Walmart, and next we ended up walking back. Yeah. But no. And then let’s talk about Saturday night because Saturday night glow parties are always my talk about Saturday day.

00:08:59:04 – 00:09:25:08
Tom and Bunny
Oh yes, Saturday day and all the pool party that they did and all the activities. Yes. So our, miss no swimsuit contest that she took second place. they, her and her husband hosted a pool party from one to. It was only supposed to be a couple hours, but I heard it went till 6:00 at night and the party started at 8:00 at night.

00:09:25:11 – 00:09:47:02
Tom and Bunny
So the party got a little started a little later. So. Yeah. No, I know that they did a wet t shirt contest. I believe they did a wet underwear contest, a wet underwear contest. Hey, I let the guys get out there and oh, it was guys. Oh, the girls never came. No. Just kidding. it was packed. It was very packed.

00:09:47:04 – 00:10:14:10
Tom and Bunny
Yes, it was very packed. but, no, they did an amazing job doing their their games and getting people involved. Yeah. So. But I did see a couple on the wet t T-shirt. Some of the people are like, just like, here, here’s your shirt. Okay, okay. But that’s what happens when you’re friends. Yeah. You kind of get the ball and hold volunteers for I don’t know if they got Volun told.

00:10:14:10 – 00:10:34:18
Tom and Bunny
I was just watching from a distance, but it was it was fun to watch. Definitely for sure. If you’re wondering why buddy keeps looking at me, if you’re watching on YouTube, it’s because I’m technically deaf, so I have to see people. But since he’s this close, I can actually hear her. So yeah, and typically when I talk to Tom, I’m always looking at his face so he can read my lips.

00:10:34:18 – 00:10:57:26
Tom and Bunny
She likes my pretty face. I do, I do. He’s very handsome. But no, no, I want to talk about Saturday night because Glow Party is my absolute favorite. No matter where we go. Glow party is by far Bunnys ultimate favorite theme. it’s easy to dress to. The music is always pumping, so yeah, it’s more upbeat. Techno is.

00:10:57:28 – 00:11:26:16
Tom and Bunny
So now that DJ on Saturday night came in and he played all of the hottest house in dance music that you can imagine. Yeah, he had that place bumpin. Yeah, he was actually he was a really great deejay. I was going to say good DJ. He. No, he was really a great deejay. Both days were awesome. And they both cater to two different types of genre and we we couldn’t have been more happier.

00:11:26:18 – 00:11:52:05
Tom and Bunny
no. And don’t forget, you know, they come in there and they take a hotel lobby area. That’s nothing. It’s a blank canvas is a blank canvas. And they make it into a nightclub for one weekend. And the glow stuff around it, they put up the black walls with yellow glow paint on them. And heck, just a DJ upstairs.

00:11:52:07 – 00:12:15:10
Tom and Bunny
what would it be called? I don’t even there. They had a shadow box up there. They had a dance pull up there down below. They had two dance poles. Then they had the big area that looked like a rock concert with all the lighting and their huge truss sister truss system, their dance floor didn’t. They had a cage.

00:12:15:13 – 00:12:45:13
Tom and Bunny
Not only was the dance floor like tiles that were stuck together, they were nice and soft. Yeah. So when you were out there dancing, it wasn’t like you were trying to, like, dance on a hard floor and slip everywhere. It was really right. It worked out perfectly well. But I will have to say that that was probably by far the most black lights that I have ever seen at a Glow party, and that’s what makes it Glow party success.

00:12:45:15 – 00:13:13:06
Tom and Bunny
Everybody was glowing. Yes. Even if you wore a pale colors you were still glowing. No. There were some some awesome outfits. Now I tell you what I was sitting back watching and I was just kind of cracking up and laughing because watching the the crowd was reminded me so much of way back in our day when we would go to the lifestyle convention in Las Vegas.

00:13:13:06 – 00:13:38:05
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Oh yeah, we were about that age and man, we were up at like, well, we’re up about 11:00 in the morning and we were going until about nine in the morning. Right. And that’s what they were doing. They start over again. No. You know what though? What we didn’t see because unfortunately, we went did go a little bit, a little bit early on Saturday night.

00:13:38:05 – 00:13:59:05
Tom and Bunny
They had an after hours party too. So up on that area where they had their I saw a DJ, they had a full DJ system up there. So when the party was done over here, the after hours party took off. Okay. Yeah. Mike was saying they’ll go till six in the morning. And we’re a little beyond that now.

00:13:59:08 – 00:14:26:29
Tom and Bunny
But people always ask us, age demographics and I will say that the general age was a younger crowd, probably in their mid late 30 to 40 ish. So maybe I’m thinking a little younger. Well, no, I’m just talking in the media in the meat and potatoes. Yes. very a lot of people were very physically fit and but they were arrogant, physically fit.

00:14:26:29 – 00:14:51:27
Tom and Bunny
They were having a great time. beautiful people. There were people of all shapes and sizes, but the majority seemed to fit, physically fit crowd. So that’s the type of party you’re looking for. That is the place to go to. But you know what? There was like Tom said, I was, far from physically fit. There was a whole mix of all kinds of different people.

00:14:51:27 – 00:15:18:19
Tom and Bunny
So if you’re looking, there’s something for everybody. Yeah. Oh, absolutely. Yeah. we like I said we just get asked because there are people that want to go to more of a fluffy club and some people want to go to a very young club, some people want to go to a physically fit. And there’s nothing wrong with any of those, and there’s nothing wrong with any of the clubs wanting to run a certain way.

00:15:18:20 – 00:15:42:26
Tom and Bunny
No, I mean, we want to put that out there, our club that we used to run, we cater to everybody. And there were clubs a couple miles from us that cater to under 30, physically fit. you have to have a wallet to prove your worthiness. we never agreed with that back then. we still personally don’t.

00:15:42:28 – 00:16:10:17
Tom and Bunny
But like I say it, it’s, Well, I mean, but we can’t now because we’re working on that. But no, the the five party was just. It was a fun experience for everybody. Let’s put it this way. They’re such a friendly group that not only, you know, we know quite a few of them from our midst. No swimsuit contest in Jamaica, right?

00:16:10:18 – 00:16:34:22
Tom and Bunny
And one of our other contestants from trapeze was there, so they came in from Atlanta. Yeah. there was a couple there that came to miss no swimsuit and didn’t know anybody. They kind of got adopted by the vibe Tribe when we were in Jamaica. And they flew all the way in from Salt Lake City, Utah. Yes. And then I did see on Facebook that there was somebody else that came in from Houston.

00:16:34:25 – 00:16:54:01
Tom and Bunny
Did you see the map? There are people from California. They what they do is they took a map of the United States, and here we are, Tennessee. And they, colored in all the states in blue, not being political, but who came to the white Party this last week? I didn’t see that. Oh, yeah. See, that’s pretty cool.

00:16:54:01 – 00:17:21:01
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, it’s actually kind of cool that they were listing where everyone came from, but it was an amazing party. And we’re definitely going to be back for sure. Yeah. Now, vibe was talking to us. They used to do parties once a month and they would put out, tickets are for sale. Can’t you? Not as fast as Garth Brooks, Taylor Swift and all them big name artists.

00:17:21:04 – 00:17:44:24
Tom and Bunny
They would sell out in under ten minutes. I mean, whole entire hotels, people were sitting there like Ticketmaster and I like click, click and even overflows. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We had Stand the Overflow the first time because we couldn’t even get into the Right. The main hotel. Yes. You want to stay in the main hotel because you don’t want to have to leave to go to another hotel.

00:17:44:24 – 00:18:07:29
Tom and Bunny
And most likely people aren’t going to leave with you to go to another hotel. No. So you want to have a room at the host hotel. So that way you could take your private party and go have some fun privately, then go back to the main party. Now they do have a playroom there. their playroom had a bondage area, had a lot of beds and a lot of apparatuses.

00:18:08:00 – 00:18:31:10
Tom and Bunny
Right. But you also got to understand that every state is different on what they can allow in their playroom. So so everything is a little bit different in each state. If you go to a different hotel party. Yes. but you know, sometimes in the hotel parties, people will take people to their rooms because of more accessibility right there.

00:18:31:12 – 00:19:06:14
Tom and Bunny
Oh, yeah. It’s a lot more convenient. A lot more convenient. And you got a shower? Yeah. And the best way house. The best way to get somebody in your room. Hey, you guys, one shot. Come on over. I. That’s what you used to say. Of course, of course. Now that we got you here. So now vibe does their party every couple months, and, they were telling us that they were seeing a trend that when they were having a party, that people were booking so fast that the, the trend was that they were spending too much money.

00:19:06:16 – 00:19:32:03
Tom and Bunny
it can happen. It can happen. And they were about all taking money. They were obviously there about making money, but they started doing their parties a little farther apart so people could recoup because by the time you pay for the party, the hotel, the travel, the food and everything, it can add up pretty fast. And in some cases, babysitters, dogs, humans, dog sitters.

00:19:32:06 – 00:19:51:10
Tom and Bunny
We took mama with us. We we did. I don’t think she’ll be going to the next one. So yeah, it was it was a little too uncomfortable for her in the house. Yeah. She’s stuck in a room, stuck behind the pillows. But, yeah, that’s very admirable. we really appreciate that. They’re looking at the the owner of five.

00:19:51:11 – 00:20:13:06
Tom and Bunny
He’s a mathematical genius, and he is looking at all the associated costs and everything, and he just didn’t feel comfortable knowing that people were probably spending their last few dollars. But, you know, I honestly think too, when, when you have them every month, then it kind of gets mundane and it gets to be the same thing in the same people.

00:20:13:13 – 00:20:42:00
Tom and Bunny
But I think when you have them only, you know, five or 6 or 7 a year, then it gets more excitement. You get more. I think so too. Too. I think so too. because when it’s every single month we were at a club for 20 years, we were open five nights a week. We could tell you we we had a lot of new people, of course, but we could see the same people on each specific night.

00:20:42:03 – 00:21:02:10
Tom and Bunny
I mean, Saturday was always the same group of people. And there’s nothing wrong with that because it’s like seeing your friends once a week. Well, one of the funny stories that I always tell everybody is I bartended for 18 years back behind that bar, and we used to let the girls dance up on the bar. Oh, yeah.

00:21:02:16 – 00:21:23:21
Tom and Bunny
And I could tell you who had a birthmark. I had this who had that? Just because I seen the same thing every week. I liked it when, people would go worst time and you’d be like, hold on. He’ll be around in a minute. There’s a new girl up on the bar, and here I come around the corner.

00:21:23:23 – 00:21:47:09
Tom and Bunny
But, yeah. parties by vibe. check them out. Definitely book. You want to book early and fast? you want to join their website? You got a book like this? Yeah. And in order to be on their website, you have to at least go to, I think it’s two parties a year just to stay on their website.

00:21:47:09 – 00:22:10:20
Tom and Bunny
Yes. Now, I think that they have one coming up in June, according to what Mike was saying, but I don’t I think we’re even going to have a scheduling conflict with that one, too. I think we’re going to a wedding in Pennsylvania that weekend. Yeah, we’re pretty much booked every weekend. so, but you might see us somewhere in the summertime out there for sure.

00:22:10:25 – 00:22:43:12
Tom and Bunny
Now, the, the first weekend, if you want to know our kind of our schedule right now, first weekend of May, we’re going to be in Las Vegas for the buy out. And it’s a bi event and it’s for bi couples. And singles. And we’re going to be there representing Tom’s trips because Tom’s trip’s host, the only bye week and, hedonism and Jamaica, this year we’re on in April and the event’s not till October 5th.

00:22:43:14 – 00:23:11:18
Tom and Bunny
We are only have as of right now. How many rooms? Because we have nine, nine rooms. I thought it was eight. So nine rooms out of 289 rooms. So it’s crazy how fast it’s selling out. So we’re going to be there representing for the 2025 bye week at hedonism to, let people know about it. And then when we come back, we’re going to be home for a couple weeks, aren’t we?

00:23:11:20 – 00:23:37:02
Tom and Bunny
We are going to be home for a couple weeks in May. Yes. Okay. So and then at the last weekend of May, we just put out a little video on it. We’ll be at Sooners swing with Justin and Kaylee with On the Border lifestyle group in Tulsa, Oklahoma. and that’s o t b l s.com if you want check out on the border lifestyle and book sooner.

00:23:37:02 – 00:24:00:10
Tom and Bunny
Swing and come visit with us the end of May. and then, we’re going to be home all of July. I don’t know how that, but you just by past June, I did bypass June, didn’t I? We’re not going to be home much in June. June? The first weekend of June, first weekend in June is, we’re going to be at a wedding in Pennsylvania.

00:24:00:11 – 00:24:25:01
Tom and Bunny
Yes, we’re going to be, our entertainers. you already said their name. Beth and Kyle. He’s a singer saxophonist, and she is the cutest girl. Shit. they’re going to get married. They’ve been together 17 years, 17 years, and they’re going to finally do it. And we got invited. So we’re going to go down there and we’re going to stop in at the corral.

00:24:25:03 – 00:24:47:22
Tom and Bunny
That Friday night. Yep. I think that’s June 7th. I think it’s a Friday night. Okay. We’re going to be at the corral and that’s Spring Grove, Pennsylvania and that’s the corral.com if you want to check that out. then the second week of June were June 15th through the 22nd. We’re going to be back at hedonism. Okay. That’s for Cassidy Cross.

00:24:47:25 – 00:25:07:17
Tom and Bunny
and then when are we in Michigan for, That’s all. Yeah. So that’s why you. Oh, I kept thinking that was to. No, no, no. So all of July, we’re going to be home. I don’t know how that ever worked out, but it will be. Will be nice. now. Yes, if they want to go to Cassidy cross with us in June, are there still.

00:25:07:18 – 00:25:32:23
Tom and Bunny
No. We’re sold out. Oh, my God, they’re sold out. But we do have North Haven, I believe it. It’s the first weekend in August. Yes. And that’s in Brooklyn, Michigan. And that is, it’s I always say North Haven Resort in Brooklyn, Michigan. There is a North Haven something else. I think it’s a golf course or something else.

00:25:32:26 – 00:26:03:18
Tom and Bunny
Don’t mistake it. When you Google type in North Haven, Brooklyn, Michigan and you’ll find it. and that is a clothing optional nudist campground campground, if you want a lot of hard things going on, I don’t know if you can call it a camp. It’s not. It’s an upscale night. It’s totally upscale. Oh, nice. so we’re going to be there, I believe it is the first weekend in August, and that is for their Taste of Hilo weekend.

00:26:03:23 – 00:26:30:27
Tom and Bunny
Okay. So we’ll be representing. Yes. Trips for that will be then the end of August, we actually get our own little vacation and we are going to the Great Smoky jeep invasion. Oh, yeah. And, we’ll be in Pigeon Forge, but it’s Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge, Tennessee. And last year, 20,000 jeeps signed up. 50,000 showed up. so buddy has our hotel already.

00:26:30:27 – 00:26:57:29
Tom and Bunny
We are ready. I’m ready to roll on that one. Yeah, and then, September 7th, we will be back at the corral in Spring Grove, Pennsylvania. Yeah. For the crowning of their Miss Corral, who will represent them next year at Miss No. Swimsuit. Yep. And then the end of September. We don’t have anything else, right? No. Okay, so the end of September, we’ll be back at hedonism for our sunny buns.

00:26:58:02 – 00:27:22:00
Tom and Bunny
there are rooms for that. We do September 28th to the October 5th. Yeah. September 28th to October 5th. I do have rooms available for study, but. So if you want to go with us to Hinduism in the end of September or early October, and it’s great weather. phone numbers right down right over here. I was set up (800) 285-0853.

00:27:22:03 – 00:27:47:07
Tom and Bunny
go to Tom’s trips.com. You can see all of our group trips. And then we go straight into October 5th through the 12th hour by week. like I said, nine rooms left for that one. Nine rooms. So if you are a biker, people, unfortunately the single rooms are not available because we only sell 20 of them.

00:27:47:09 – 00:28:10:27
Tom and Bunny
other than that, they have to be double occupancy. So it could be a couple, two guys, two girls, but it has to be two people to the room. There are only nine rooms left and they are the cheapest rooms available. Yes. Meaning price wise. And they are Garden View regulars. Yes. They start. They are at 245 a night per person based on double occupancy.

00:28:10:27 – 00:28:35:20
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. So if you want to go to that definitely book it is a crazy week and that’s October 5th through the 12th 2024. Yeah. Because we haven’t released 2025 because we got to get to 2024. Yes. And I think we’re pretty much unoccupied through the rest of the year so far. Yeah, yeah, yeah, man, I couldn’t live the life of a rock star.

00:28:35:22 – 00:28:59:04
Tom and Bunny
you do? I’m not as busy now. And they get paid. They get paid. I mean, we get paid, we get paid. We don’t get paid. Millions and billions. No, we love our jobs. We do love our jobs. Yeah. The the the joke of that is, is people will say to us, oh my gosh, you’re YouTube famous. And Tom’s like, no, famous, no, you’re celebrities, you’re celebrities.

00:28:59:04 – 00:29:23:16
Tom and Bunny
No celebrities make money. Yeah, we’re not celebrities. We’re just YouTube junkies. We just like to have fun on camera. We just like to talk a different kind of fun. Yes, yes. Yeah. All right, so I think that we’re pretty much done with what we did this weekend. Yep. So again, check out parties. Bye bye.com. And they have a Facebook group.

00:29:23:16 – 00:29:46:20
Tom and Bunny
You can only get in it if you go to their parties and you are registered on their actual website. because their website is a social media website. and that’s the only way you can book their events. So definitely check them out and we will let you know when the next five party will be out. But we’re excited to be part of the Vibe Tribe.

00:29:46:22 – 00:29:55:01
Tom and Bunny
Exactly. Good. It’s good to find a home again. Yes. So that being said, I guess we’ll see you guys soon. We’ll see you soon.

 

Old Fat Guys and Ms No Swimsuit Part 2

Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks and the Ms No Swimsuit contest at Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny Part 2

Today we discuss part 2 of our recent group trips Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks and Ms No Swimsuit contest with Toms Trips at Hedonism Resort in Jamaica.

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00:00:00:00 – 00:00:26:12
Tom and Bunny
we’re Tom and Bunny from Tom and Bunny dot com. And today we’re talking part two about our recent trip to Hedonism Resort in Jamaica with Tom Strip’s year leader and adult lifestyle travel Got it all that you did that was very good. So this is our week number two. So we were just there. We were literally in Jamaica from February 18th through March.

00:00:26:19 – 00:00:52:13
Tom and Bunny
No March 13th. Yeah. 21 days. I’m way off. Yeah, I think it was February 22nd, 22nd to March 1308. Let me put up the Tom’s trips right there. There we go. Go to that website and call that number to book Tom’s trips. So if you’re listening to this podcast, you might want to jump over to our YouTube channel.

00:00:52:13 – 00:01:15:08
Tom and Bunny
Just search Tom and Bonnie, just as it says right here, no spaces. And you can watch our videos because sometimes we do corny, stupid stuff and we make stupid faces at each other like that. Sometimes all the time. All right. Some of it. Okay. I got Tom so fun. One of the funniest things I’ve heard before is everybody’s like, my God, I don’t realize you.

00:01:15:10 – 00:01:36:10
Tom and Bunny
I think it’s funny when you roll your eyes. And I’m like, I didn’t realize I did it so much. You do? Oops, I do. I just don’t say anything. I let the audience say it. I just seen a meme today and Hold on. my God, you’re killing it because I’m podcast. Not. No, no, no. I got to give you this meme because death.

00:01:36:16 – 00:01:57:24
Tom and Bunny
This is so me. This is so you know, you took a picture. Yeah, that does. Do you ever just forget to hide your expressions for a minute and then you’ll you’re like, Whoa. I didn’t mean to see that face out loud. yeah, that’s me. That’s our boss. That is our boss. That’s why I can’t take phone calls or anything.

00:01:57:27 – 00:02:29:00
Tom and Bunny
Right? So we just finished up the last video. We’re talking about nonsense about pool games. Yeah. So that was four old fat guys with hot chicks. Then come week two is our annual Miss No Swimsuit, which is Tom’s trip’s staple event of the year. It’s our flagship event. It’s bingo. This was our 24th annual. Now, me and Bonnie, I’ve only been with Tom’s trips for six and a half years, and so, no, we don’t own the company.

00:02:29:00 – 00:02:57:25
Tom and Bunny
But this was our 13th trip. What? Tom’s? Yes. We’ve been traveling with them for 12 years, starting here. So. So, no, for us, in one of the things that you’ll find if you haven’t already gone to hedonism or traveled with the group, one of the things that you’ll find is people tend to go back at the same time every year because they’ve met friends or they’ve made connections and they always want to go back at the same time so they can continue to grow those friendships and make make new.

00:02:57:26 – 00:03:23:08
Tom and Bunny
Yes. Case in point, last one of last year’s contestants, she came in third. She just they just recently got married this summer and a big group from the corral went to her wedding or their wedding. And they’ve all become such good friends now they go to the corral a lot. So now they continue to go back and forth between New York and Slovenia.

00:03:23:10 – 00:03:48:23
Tom and Bunny
Yes, I talk with my hands, but I mean, that’s just a vacation point. I keep saying how fly by my face. And yes, I’ve hit him in the face before. I actually have, because I kind of lean forward. Yeah, you can’t do that. I look at my shirts all I try to go, I need my gear. So I need to be able to do that stuff you don’t want.

00:03:48:25 – 00:04:25:22
Tom and Bunny
You can’t have that kind of an impact. No. So anyways, yes. No. So for us, men’s not swimsuit is a fantastic time because we get to see all kinds of friends that we only see once a year now and in the past we just have a lot of staff at Mr. Swimsuit and the last year we didn’t have as much staff, so we all the staff that we had worked our butts off from eight in the morning until midnight, one in the morning every single day.

00:04:25:24 – 00:04:54:11
Tom and Bunny
And when I say work our butts off, it’s just we’re not working solid. But we can’t get drunk. No. And be at another event and be coherent. So it is working this time. We actually had an extra entertainment couple. Yeah. We also had another host couple and that host couple. I mean, the entertainers we had Mark Mays. Yes.

00:04:54:11 – 00:05:17:27
Tom and Bunny
And Terry, his wife. Yes. And then we had Beth and Kyle. I don’t know if I could say their name, but I guess we can. But we did. And it was great because Mark sings, plays guitar. He has a foot drum set, so he is a one man band, but he also has a band in Michigan and he does solo stuff.

00:05:17:27 – 00:05:45:01
Tom and Bunny
There are two Kyle plays saxophone and he sings, my God, he’s a mark and Kyle are both phenomenal singers. And then Beth is just so adorably cute and she’s she helps with me and Barney as a host couple when it’s just the four of us. Now, One of the one of the cool things, though, this year is Tom actually had two other women help him.

00:05:45:04 – 00:06:06:15
Tom and Bunny
We do at this particular event too, because it’s our men’s no swimsuit. We do a lot of photos. Tom is a photographer. No, he’s not a professional. He just knows how to use a camera in automatic mode. No, I know how to do lighting. Yes. I mean, look at our lights here. So what he would do is he had Beth.

00:06:06:21 – 00:06:36:05
Tom and Bunny
Beth and she and Jenny, they were his lighting girls. So previous years, we never wanted to interrupt the show for the people, but we also gained zero promotion out of it. So the photos in the past, I mean, while good, weren’t as good as I thought they could be, because when they’re on the stage, it’s really dark. And dark creates a very grainy photo and it doesn’t look as appealing.

00:06:36:07 – 00:06:58:14
Tom and Bunny
So after some discussions, I was able to have Beth and Jenny whenever our person that we want to take a picture of would come out, we would be front stage. And the second they would come out, they would turn on the LED lights. I would shoot a few pictures. They would turn off the LED lights and we would all walk away.

00:06:58:14 – 00:07:22:06
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, worked out that way. We didn’t block the audio. No. And it worked out absolutely perfect. And we’re going to be posting our no swimsuit icon just give me a couple of weeks and we’ll be posting a lot of the pictures on there because we actually have good pictures this year. I couldn’t I couldn’t do it for Tom because I have an attention span about this big and I’d be holding the light and I’d be like, squirrel.

00:07:22:08 – 00:07:53:26
Tom and Bunny
Yes, she would. She would. But also Bunny gets called away. And I do. Yeah. So we’re always we’re always within sight of each other, but we’re always doing something different at that event. Exactly. So I do the photography and I’m a liaison between Times trips and a lot of the clubs managers are owners, correct? So that way we can hopefully fulfill their needs while we’re at Jamaica.

00:07:53:28 – 00:08:34:03
Tom and Bunny
Right. And hopefully in the next several months we’ll be able to get our needs fulfilled after after surgery again. Well, we’re waiting on that. I, like the doctor said before, there’s no way they can deny it because it’s in my body. But they already did at first denial, which they denied Bunny on an MRI. So the doctor wrote a two page letter on the medical necessity of me having the surgery, and they have 30 days to review and they’re going to wait for every into the 30 days.

00:08:34:03 – 00:09:00:26
Tom and Bunny
So we’re not very hopeful right this second as far as insurance goes. And, you know, I want to reiterate to that because, you know, not only, you know, are we a travel agents within the pineapple world, but we are pineapple people, too. Yes. But we’re not the type that play separately. We only do it together. So therefore, if Tommy’s broken, I’m broken, too.

00:09:00:28 – 00:09:35:16
Tom and Bunny
Right. And so if you’re broken, heart broken. And I mean, I did have to explain that to a friend this last time who approached us, And I’m like, You do understand that we’re broken. And he’s like, You’re Tom is broken, but you’re not. And I’m like, Yeah, yeah. We’ve been married 38 years, been together 39 years. You don’t stay together this long without respecting each other and feeling like when a part of each other, when one is going through something, the other, unfortunately, yes, goes through it, too.

00:09:35:16 – 00:09:56:08
Tom and Bunny
And, you know, everybody’s life is different. Everybody is in the pineapple world differently. This is just how we do it and and what works for us. And I could I could tell buddy, let’s do this. And she’d probably say no. Right, Exactly. Just because she doesn’t feel comfortable. Nope. And if you’re not feeling comfortable, you’re not going to have a good time.

00:09:56:09 – 00:10:19:25
Tom and Bunny
Right. But so that being said, let me tell you, you know, one of the things I keep forgetting to write everything down, but the next time we go, I’m going to write down all the crazy things that you hear while you’re there. Right. But the one the one that I do specifically remember is I had a guest approached me in the pool and he had a cowboy hat on.

00:10:20:02 – 00:10:39:15
Tom and Bunny
Always wore a cowboy hat. And he says to me, Have you ever wrote a a bucking bronco? Like what? And he and I’m like, a rodeo. Rodeo or think, Yeah, or something like that. And I’m like, Why? Why would you even ask me that? And he goes, Well, have you ever rode in a rodeo? And I’m like, No.

00:10:39:21 – 00:11:02:06
Tom and Bunny
And he goes, Would you like to? And I’m like, Why? And he goes, Because I come out of chute one and I go, Well, that’s good, because I don’t like to shoot too. All right, guys, you know where she stands on that. But let me, too. It’s just fun, things like that. You know, the things that make things memorable when you have a good time with.

00:11:02:08 – 00:11:36:15
Tom and Bunny
Right. You know, just because you’re in the pineapple world doesn’t mean that you have to. Well, I there are people that fixate on having to do something with someone else every single night. And you know what? More power to them. We know couples that have been together as long as us that live that way. And we also know couples who didn’t make it past a couple of years because the other didn’t feel that the one loved them as much as the lifestyle.

00:11:36:17 – 00:12:05:13
Tom and Bunny
So we never put our feelings on the back burner. We’re always the forefront. And the pineapple world has changed dramatically since we entered it many, many years ago. I’m just going to leave it at that. But so already, so sorry. 38 years. I know, but so just the fact that it just because you’re there at Hedo doesn’t mean that you’re going to play with everybody or anybody talking about that.

00:12:05:18 – 00:12:28:15
Tom and Bunny
No, I’m just talking about I know, let’s not go negative. I’m just making connections because that’s kind of a negative. Okay. It was Harry’s birthday. It was Harry’s birthday. We’ve seen a lot of naked people. We didn’t. And one of the things we always hear and we’re not going to bring up any stories is bunny hairs all the time.

00:12:28:18 – 00:13:00:18
Tom and Bunny
I know, Harry. Yes. And we always wanted to do a video called I Know Harry because we have a hundreds stories of different scenarios of why they know Harry when they’re talking to Bunny. Bunny actually asked Harry if secret if we could have permission to do that video. And Harry said, absolutely. And then I got to thinking, would that come across as us talk and smack about anyone?

00:13:00:21 – 00:13:24:23
Tom and Bunny
So but, you know, the thing is, Harry, and for those of you that don’t know is Harry is the owner of hedonism, Right. And he is the nicest guy and he’s very, very friendly. So of course, he’s kind of shy, though. He is kind of shy. Yeah, he is kind of shy. He doesn’t mind people approaching him. He doesn’t really approach too many people.

00:13:24:23 – 00:13:54:11
Tom and Bunny
No, but that being said, everybody knows Harry. Every. Yes. Everybody knows Harry. I know Harry. Yeah. Do you know Harry? I know Harry. Yeah. He even got a business card. I did. His business cards are poker chips. I personally have never kissed Harry, but I know Harry, so I know. How are you going to last and binding? I know, Harry, but mine is.

00:13:54:14 – 00:14:20:07
Tom and Bunny
I know Harry goes less than a few other girls. yeah? yeah. Laila. So we just thought that would be kind of fun to do. Maybe when we’re no longer travel agents, no, but know it. But if we did tell stories, it would all be in fun. absolutely. There’s like, a comedian, right? Right. But we’re not funny.

00:14:20:10 – 00:14:44:08
Tom and Bunny
We’re not funny. But no. So, yeah. No, if you go there, Harry is usually he’s there a lot. He bought the place is his own personal private playground. From what I understand, his brother and sister all run the place and he has all the staff and the last person you want to go up to, to give advice on how to run Hedo is Harry.

00:14:44:08 – 00:15:07:09
Tom and Bunny
He doesn’t he go to his people? Let him have a drink in his hand. Actually, he did tell us a funny story that he was wearing his sandals at it. He was at the Teppanyaki. Yeah. And he was eating it. He was wearing a sandals hat and there’s a guest sitting next to him and he was doing all this complaining and and everything about the food.

00:15:07:09 – 00:15:28:19
Tom and Bunny
And then he says to Harry, he goes, Well, how who are you? And he goes, My name is Harry. And he goes in, What do you do? And he goes, I’m the owner of this place. But he didn’t take it offensively. No, he didn’t. He actually took that as real honest, constructive criticism because the guy didn’t know who he was.

00:15:28:21 – 00:15:47:18
Tom and Bunny
He was telling us that they were going to be updating the rooms that caught on fire. Yep. And, yeah, those go down. Those get. There’s the first 20 rooms are going to be not going to take five and a half months. It’s going to take two years. And I said can I put in a request And it’s like you want to request for what?

00:15:47:18 – 00:16:13:20
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like to change the curtains from cream to anything else to anything else. He goes, You don’t like my green curtains? Nope. No, because they were there before you started. Are were they orange? I think they were. But now they’re seventies green. Yeah. Yeah. Avocado. Green. Yeah, definitely. I had cars that were that color green. Right. I don’t want to date myself, but they were muscle cars.

00:16:13:20 – 00:16:36:06
Tom and Bunny
But I mean, you know, in when he’s there you don’t he’s, he’s there to have fun. He’s not there to. Anyone want to talk business? No, no. So we just out with Harry again. Happy birthday. We told. We told you happy birthday while we were there. Happy birthday across our channel. Yeah. And he didn’t even know we did videos, right?

00:16:36:12 – 00:17:01:09
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. So see that everybody knows. Yeah. Because we don’t go running around saying we have a YouTube channel either you either you find us or you don’t. Exactly. And the most important person there didn’t find us. But. But his sister in law watches over. yes, she does. Hi, Diane. Hi, Dr. Richard. Richard. But Richard is Bonnie’s dessert buddy.

00:17:01:12 – 00:17:27:19
Tom and Bunny
Yes. We get to talk about desserts because they have a brand new pastry chef. And it’s amazing. And yes, she is straight up says, be careful, you’ll get fat. I, I would just as soon miss dinner. Yeah. Go to the desserts. Yeah, but. But no, we had an amazing time. And going back to Miss swimsuit since we’re talking about that Harry saw on the top.

00:17:27:19 – 00:17:50:14
Tom and Bunny
Inaki bar is closed, and we heard complaints before we went there that it was warm in there and stuff like that. And the air couldn’t keep up when we were in there, we we were freezing. We got freezing in a bad way, in a very good way that we were expecting it to feel like 90 in there. And it actually felt like 72.

00:17:50:14 – 00:18:21:06
Tom and Bunny
It used to feel like it was outside, honey, it was an outside. It was 120 degrees. So yeah, it was actually a very nice, enjoyable. And they got a big long sushi bar now. Yes. So you can sit up there and order your sushi. You can get a salad up there. So it was very, very nice improvement. Now me and Bonnie are going through dental work and twice I got a front crown.

00:18:21:07 – 00:18:43:16
Tom and Bunny
I wasn’t going to bring it. I’m going to break today because we don’t give two craps, but twice my crown came off. Yeah. Was the first time it was at the tap in the Rocky. And we, I took a bite of shrimp or something and I could feel it dangling and thank God I didn’t swallow it.

00:18:43:17 – 00:19:04:24
Tom and Bunny
No. And then we got that glued on. And then a few days later, it came out, come off again. Again. I got a dentist appointment this Tuesday. We’re going to see what we can do. The crown needs to be replaced anyway, so it’s it’s starting to get a hole in the back from the. I mean, how long have I had this thing.

00:19:04:27 – 00:19:29:22
Tom and Bunny
years. Yeah. But, you know, it’s pretty funny because we do have a dentist that travels with us, so. So we’re sitting at dinner and. And I’m like, I need you in our room now. Our boss is like, What? I’m like, No, no, I need your services. So when we came back, she’s like, You carry dental supplies with you.

00:19:29:25 – 00:19:51:29
Tom and Bunny
She’s like, Well, yeah, of course I would. But we had a little thing that we brought just in case, because I just got a new bridge. Yeah. And I was concerned that the new bridge might have an issue. So we wanted to be prepared. We bought the glue. We didn’t know there was only enough glue on that little bottle to do half of the crown.

00:19:52:02 – 00:20:22:22
Tom and Bunny
It says that it’s good for ten bullcrap. I squeezed every drop out of there. Just so you know, it’s called recap it and it’s actually good to have in your luggage if you have any crowns. Well, yeah, we’re going to do a video on things you definitely should take because we never really thought about crowns falling out except for when I just got the bridge and we never thought about prescription glasses bringing an extra pair.

00:20:22:22 – 00:20:46:14
Tom and Bunny
If you’re going to be there for seven, 12, 14 days, that’s a long time to go without glasses. So we both brought extra glasses and I always carry extra reading to figure out my lens. I always carry extra readers to live up at the desk in case somebody says, I can’t really read that. I’m like, Here, here we go.

00:20:46:16 – 00:21:11:15
Tom and Bunny
So now on no swimsuit. I just went up base a little with the top jockey. Then it went into my crown right? So arm is no swimsuit that we had eight amazing ladies. They all did a great job. They did a fit, and they all worked well together. Ah, and we are very excited to be part of their journey.

00:21:11:18 – 00:21:35:09
Tom and Bunny
yeah. And you know, it was really great because they have to do certain different little contests to win your vote. Because if you travel with us, then you get to vote on who’s going to be the winner. So it for me, the biggest thing is to watch when they first come in how shy they are. They’re like, I don’t even know if I can do this.

00:21:35:12 – 00:21:56:05
Tom and Bunny
And even some of their husbands are like that too, too. At the end of the week, they’ve got this confidence that just amazes right every time. And the one thing that I always look forward to is talent show, because you never know what people are going to pull off. Every one of them was amazing. they did a great job.

00:21:56:05 – 00:22:25:23
Tom and Bunny
So good. Yeah. I, I’ve already edited all the videos. We’re figuring out one because we, we have people signed photo releases and we, we’ve told all the girls in the beginning that if they have anyone up on stage with them are using them as props, they had to make sure they had the Graham wristband and a photo release was signed and one of the contestants invited all the guys up to the stage.

00:22:25:23 – 00:22:47:12
Tom and Bunny
And all I see is faces and I can’t see risk. And and it was later in the week if I just had a black rectangle just covering the heads down. It blocked half of the video and she was on a pole, so it would have blocked half. Yeah. So we’re still trying to figure out I got I’ve never been able to do videos.

00:22:47:12 – 00:23:04:24
Tom and Bunny
We don’t do videos with the other people. So I never learned how to blur faces. So when the face turns away, the floor goes away. But when it goes towards the camera, it automatically blurs it. But I got to do that with 20 dudes. I got to figure out how to do that and not blur her face. Right?

00:23:04:25 – 00:23:28:08
Tom and Bunny
So it’s just something that might take me a little longer. Yeah, something you definitely have to research and learn. Or maybe I know somebody that can take that video and do it for them, so we’ll figure it out. But we do plan on uploading all those videos to our YouTube so that way you can look at each of the contestants videos, maybe minus one.

00:23:28:11 – 00:23:53:21
Tom and Bunny
We’ll see. We’ll see. But we had dancing, we had singing, we had group dancing. Yeah. So we say. And then we had one too, where she she draws and makes custom hats. Yeah. Her husband came out and gave the winner of the best dressed one of her hats that she had already on. Yeah. So it was really, really.

00:23:53:26 – 00:24:22:29
Tom and Bunny
It’s very cool. I was just to see. Right. Yes, that was Tiffany. So it’s very cool along the border and you’re out of Tulsa, Oklahoma. And the one that I kind of it didn’t shock me, but I was really impressed by the way that she did. It was Kelly from Sapphire. Everybody does. I touched myself. Well, not everybody, but when they do it, they want to do it real sexy and everything like that.

00:24:22:29 – 00:24:46:19
Tom and Bunny
She had fun with the song, right? And she made me appreciate the song We could. She was having fun with it, and it turned out really, really good. Yeah, I think she’s. Q She’s very you know, they’re all I like her look. yeah, Yeah. That. You like the girl next door? I do like the girl next. And, you know, we were I was taking pictures and there was a girl from Vibe.

00:24:46:20 – 00:25:10:04
Tom and Bunny
Vibe is a hotel party out of Nashville, Tennessee, and we’re now part of the Vibe Tribe. We are well, part of the Vibe Tribe because now we live here. And Megan, she was just an adorably cute girl, but she knew how to take cute pictures. And so we’re going to be putting those on our social media real soon.

00:25:10:04 – 00:25:34:22
Tom and Bunny
I’m still going through all the pictures right now that all the girls took great pictures, but Megan probably stood out as most outward outgoing as far as doing the poses. So, yeah, it’s almost like I would have thought she had a Tik-Tok page or an Instagram page. She was the only one that you pulled out the camera and she knew what to do.

00:25:34:23 – 00:26:03:24
Tom and Bunny
She knew what to do. Yeah. And then Lacy from Paradise Lakes Resort out of Tampa, Florida, just elegant, beautiful girl. And she took some amazing pictures. But as she was watching Megan, she started coming out of her shell and doing cute hats. And when I say cute, I don’t mean childish. I mean just just really cool pictures. Having fun with the camera, right?

00:26:03:24 – 00:26:26:24
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Not making love to the camera, but. Yeah, exactly. Because you know what we’re using. You use these as marketing and you want you want it to show that we’re having fun and all the girls get copies of all these pictures so that way they could show all their friends and everything. So we want to give them the best possible photo that we can.

00:26:26:29 – 00:26:54:02
Tom and Bunny
I know everyone has their camera phones and they were posting, but hopefully some of mine with my lighting might be something that they want to share. Yeah. Now we went to that Glow party on Tuesday. We we went to take pictures of our contestants and put the camera away. We were there for an hour and a half taking pictures of our contestants, guest friends, all kinds of people.

00:26:54:05 – 00:27:15:28
Tom and Bunny
But they had a backdrop we use and that was one of the ones that I was so squirrel with because I kept trying to find people and then I’d walk away. Don’t say a word. My like, well, I like going because I didn’t have it on my camera because like, the lights I was using didn’t have the hot shoe for the camera.

00:27:16:01 – 00:27:36:23
Tom and Bunny
So I had a handle that you could hold it with. And I had two tripods. And here’s Bunny walking away with the light right? But no, it’s just such an amazing time. And we didn’t go on the catamaran. We stayed back and got some work done. And then we went on a pub crawl. Not on all. We got canceled.

00:27:36:29 – 00:28:01:24
Tom and Bunny
Got canceled because we got it canceled for any nefarious reason. We just only had three people signed up and it’s a lot of expense. So we had a Thursday pub crawl, so the Tuesday one got canceled and we asked anyone that was going on Tuesday to just move over to Thursday. And so but everyone wants to go on the catamaran.

00:28:01:27 – 00:28:32:08
Tom and Bunny
the play this catamarans hedonism was dead, but it was nice for us. Well, while the catamarans were out, it was like quiet, but it gave us time because we had Mark in for the contestants and all of their group on one. And then we had Kyle in for contestants and all of their groups. Yes, on the other and then any other guests that didn’t come with one of the groups, they could pick what boat they wanted.

00:28:32:08 – 00:28:55:12
Tom and Bunny
You know, forget what cream was, a flying remotes. That’s a flying. And boy, let me tell you, I don’t think any and I don’t think anybody remember sunblock. No, they came back with red. Came back so red. But yeah, if you have a food fetish that was the the boats to be on because they were eating whipped cream off of everything.

00:28:55:12 – 00:29:29:17
Tom and Bunny
Everything, everything. It’s not even lifted off the pole probably, but from what everybody was telling me, it was the best catamaran they’d ever been on. Well, I don’t doubt it. Yeah. Eight contestants, beautiful contestants. And for on each boat and everyone’s a judge. And those contestants are vying for those votes from those people. And I know Beth told me that she went around and grabbed gathered all of the girls and put them on the front of the boat so they could all dance.

00:29:29:17 – 00:30:01:28
Tom and Bunny
And then everybody else joined them. Yes. So, yeah, it’s it was a really good time. But like I said, we we stayed behind, got some work done, and then we got to check out one of our newer deejays that. yeah, came on. Yeah. He deejay Bad Boy. What is it? What’s his name? Scott. Scott. Yeah, he he actually contacted us and wanted to try out or wanted to see if we’d be interested in deejay.

00:30:01:28 – 00:30:26:05
Tom and Bunny
And I said, Well, our bosses are going to be at this event in October, and you’re welcome to come. But if you email them, we get emails from 30 deejays a year or more. And while they might be great, we don’t we don’t know just based off of email. So I said, why don’t you come talk to them in person?

00:30:26:05 – 00:30:47:27
Tom and Bunny
Maybe they’ll put you up for whatever reason. He didn’t deejay in October. No, no. So he came back out for no swimsuit and they actually put him in a new poll from 2 to 4, which is the prime time. And he did a great job. He did do a great job. Now let’s go back. Old fat guys brought their own entertainer.

00:30:48:02 – 00:31:13:00
Tom and Bunny
my gosh. Professor Woo, He was he’s fun. He’s a qualified investor. So he’s well-spoken, articulate. He sings karaoke. And when I heard him sing a couple of years ago, I was really taken aback. This guy’s good. So he’s deejaying the pool parties, he’s helping with the pool games. He had never done this before. This a first time.

00:31:13:05 – 00:31:33:19
Tom and Bunny
He had seen it but never done it. He’s singing in the DJ booth, so people are actually thinking it’s music. Then he comes out on the pool deck singing, and he did a great job playing music. And he did Flashdance and he did Flashdance where they dumped the bucket of water on him while he is on a chair.

00:31:33:22 – 00:32:00:07
Tom and Bunny
And he’s not a small guy, so he is part of the old fat guys. But yeah, no, everybody did. Amazing. Yes. And Scott will be back with this, I believe. I can’t remember when he’s coming back. I think he’s actually going going to be there for Thanksgiving. Wow. Nice. So you got a job? Yeah, because we don’t actually hire I mean, we can refer and we can recommend, but we don’t actually do the hiring.

00:32:00:09 – 00:32:35:00
Tom and Bunny
So we’re just employees that we are. But other than that, well, Party is one of Buddy’s favorites. But again, no swimsuit. we set up a 360 photo booth, but it was raining. Yeah. And we impromptu we had a party down at the parade. Paul and Mark was playing video music, so we set the 360 photo booth and we did like 26 or 27 videos because no one really knew what was down there.

00:32:35:00 – 00:32:56:23
Tom and Bunny
We just at the very last minute, within like 30 minutes before we said we can do it here. You know, I think had we been able to set up for it during Glo party, we would have beat our record on how many people we’ve done videos of. But the fact that it’s 51 hour, we only set it up for one hour.

00:32:56:26 – 00:33:23:26
Tom and Bunny
But the fact is, is it had poured and poured and the crowd was we were afraid people would get up and slip on that. Yeah, it’s not a very big platform really. And the reason why we only do it for one hour is because hedonism is all inclusive. Not only do you get all the food at all the restaurants and the grills, it’s all inclusive with alcohol and people are enjoying the stage show.

00:33:23:26 – 00:33:46:19
Tom and Bunny
And we do the booth from 10 to 11 because after the stage show ends, people start hitting that bar and we realized drunk people why we want to cater to everyone. There are limits to how much you can do, how much I can take when someone I got online, a piece you can take, Well, we’ve got a line of people.

00:33:46:19 – 00:34:04:24
Tom and Bunny
And in a when people have been drinking, they’re not kind of not at their level. Very true. So, I mean, it’s not an upset thing. It’s just that we want to make sure everyone’s safe and we want to make sure our work is safe. So we tear it down. And then that way, me and Bonnie can enjoy the party.

00:34:04:28 – 00:34:39:19
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, cause that it said, that’s my favorite, right? And so, no, it’s definitely a lot of fun. We have fun taking videos, but eventually when my back starts feeling better, I’ll be the fool out there dancing. When they play Sandstorm by Druid anything techno because that’s all I can dance to because I don’t have any rhythm. Now, the one thing was I got to relax in the morning because Bonnie had to go to rehearsals every morning at 930 now ten, 930 the first day.

00:34:39:21 – 00:35:01:27
Tom and Bunny
So I got to just chill in the air conditioned room and yes, and our air conditioning actually worked this time. Yeah, it was cold. And what they do is they’ll do a final video of the performance and then they send me the video and I put it up on YouTube, but it’s not open to the public and I share it to just the girls so they can keep watching it.

00:35:01:27 – 00:35:23:27
Tom and Bunny
So that and I’ll tell you what, this year, because we did that and those videos were viewed quite a bit. Yeah, the performance this year was really good. Yeah. Yeah. What are you talking about? They had it down day one, right? But I watched all the views on YouTube, so they were watching it during the week. All week long.

00:35:23:27 – 00:36:05:06
Tom and Bunny
Because you could tell. Right, right. Cause day number two, let’s see here. The first rehearsal was on Monday, right? Then they do the catamaran. They came back on Wednesday. Winston was late coming to rehearsal, so we started without them. They already had it all down. Good. Completely down. So, yeah, the girls on no swimsuit do a rehearsal every day because on Friday night, even though all the votes have been cast and everything and we’re going to announce a winner by what, 830 and 8:00, they start the stage show.

00:36:05:06 – 00:36:33:29
Tom and Bunny
And that’s where we got multiple people going up and entertaining the audience and talking about that week and the past and the future and everything. And then the girls come out and do that stage show and then we then they come out and they do the question, Yeah, they come out, do a nude question, and then they all line up.

00:36:33:29 – 00:37:03:25
Tom and Bunny
I, I wanted to get a picture of all of them in the gowns so that way I could post it because it didn’t work out that way. So when they’re all nude, if I post it, blur out, somebody is going to complain. It’s still going to get hit and we still get I get a little thing. Yeah, I try not to do that, but we can post our on no swimsuit dot com and it will be Yeah that will be yeah.

00:37:03:25 – 00:37:30:01
Tom and Bunny
Because you know what we are actually redesigning our website too so everything is going to be new and fresh out there pretty soon. Yep. And lots of links to see. Can I go back and reset. No. So that we don’t trace nothing. We’re unscripted. Yes. Start to finish what we started. UPS 38 minutes. Sorry. No one’s going to walk it that far.

00:37:30:04 – 00:37:52:26
Tom and Bunny
If you watch it that far. Flub in common. There you go. There you go, buddy. Flubbed up. what do I always do? Flub up, Flub up. So what else, if anything? No, no. It’s just, you know, if you guys want to book with this, if you want to have a lots and lots of fun, give us a call.

00:37:52:26 – 00:38:16:20
Tom and Bunny
I can. The phone number. Right. I got to figure it out right there. you got to see her. we got to go sit on that. it’s it’s bad. It’s backwards. Okay? That’s why I’m always doing it wrong. But call us 800 2850853 and check it out. You can even. it knocked out that one. Yes.

00:38:16:24 – 00:38:37:11
Tom and Bunny
If you’re watching, if you’re on podcast sorry there is a screen up of mine and Bonnie’s cartoon character with Tom strips 800 to 8 50853. You can book your travel directly with but yes. Then just a reminder that hedonism is no longer a place that you can just book at the spur of the moment. you’re going to book.

00:38:37:12 – 00:39:02:26
Tom and Bunny
I was talking to Harry about it. It’s it’s gone crazy. Four or five months out, it’s sold out. I mean, we’re sitting here right now, March 17th. We have a trip, June 15th through the 22nd. Sorry, We had a friend contact us yesterday. We had rooms where he had a room and he gave it up Well, but then he called before we left and he said he may go.

00:39:02:26 – 00:39:29:06
Tom and Bunny
He had to wait to figure out financial because it rooms were to him for at that time. And he goes, can we keep an eye out in the room? Well, there’s no keeping an eye out cause when you want it and because we can’t hold nothing. No. And he reached out to us yesterday and unfortunately. But when he first reached out to us, there were six rooms available, both and the cheapest category.

00:39:29:09 – 00:39:50:18
Tom and Bunny
And but I get it. He wanted to make sure he could pay for rent and his waiting for bonus, but also to the other thing is is like for our week in October I already have a list of waiting waiting list. So yeah, just because an event is up by a week, that is by week. Yeah, that’s. That’s for our single rooms.

00:39:50:18 – 00:40:15:28
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Singles. They only allow 20 single mothers, female or male, right. Yes. I just want to clarify, but it’s more the traveling. It’s only 20 singles. But we do have at this very moment out of 280 some rooms. 20 rooms left. Yes. And they’re in cheaper categories. They are. Because the what’s the ocean view and the premiums and the Jacuzzi.

00:40:16:01 – 00:40:38:28
Tom and Bunny
But if you want a premium or Jacuzzi, you have to book what we have available in the cheapest category because there is now a waiting list for a premium room and people do cancel. So but in order to get the premium room, the people who booked and showed loyalty on that booking early will get the same awards. Definitely.

00:40:38:28 – 00:40:59:00
Tom and Bunny
If you want to go to bye week October 5th through the 12th, you better be calling us this week because you just booked another one today. No, I’ve got three I have to put in. my God. So they’re going like wildfire. Like I said, this is March 17th and we’re going we figure that these rooms are going to be gone by the 1st of April.

00:40:59:01 – 00:41:23:01
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. And the next. And then everybody will go on a waiting list. And then we’re going to get all the pissed off cancellations. So, yeah, if you want to go bye week, October 5th to the 12th, you got to call Bunny 800 to 8 50853 and you got up, got to make a commitment to reserve your room because if you delay the next day there may not be.

00:41:23:04 – 00:41:48:01
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. No. And you know what we got some really great ones coming up in September. Tom and I will be there for our sentebale on September 28 through October 5th. Those ones, we do have rooms available, not very many, but that one, that one obviously will sell out real quick too. But but definitely, if you want to go with us, that’s going to be the next time we have availability that we’re going.

00:41:48:01 – 00:42:03:29
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, because we’re going on April eight from eight and in September and April and June are both already sold out. Yeah. So yes, rooms go very, very fast. And if, you know, years ago you used to be able to call and say, Hey, I want to go to Hilo next month. sure. Well, we’ll get you. No, no.

00:42:04:01 – 00:42:44:14
Tom and Bunny
Right. Unfortunately, I mean, it’s good for us. It’s good for Hedo, but it’s not good for you guys. Yeah, but yeah, all right. So this was part two of two. Yes, we did. Stay Royalton for four days. Next video We’ll we’ll just we’ll talk about our stay there. I overdosed myself on sugar I’m I’m diabetic I got to meet her there and they they served a pineapple drink that it felt like you’re eating a frickin pineapple.

00:42:44:17 – 00:43:10:02
Tom and Bunny
And I couldn’t stop drinking them. No, I didn’t even get heartburn. I was just such a sucker, and I didn’t even think he was like, I’m not drunk. I honestly wasn’t drunk, but he just like, yeah, yeah, we’ll talk about that. Yeah, diabetic and pineapple drinking, pineapple juice. Don’t what not to do. Right at an all inclusive resort in Jamaica.

00:43:10:02 – 00:43:32:27
Tom and Bunny
In Jamaica. All right, so we’re going to cut this. And just so you know, all of our videos are on podcast except for our little short promotional videos and all of our podcast are on YouTube. So you can listen to it in your car, you can watch it, whatever you want to do. We do appreciate the comments, the feedback, not the negative ones.

00:43:32:27 – 00:43:58:19
Tom and Bunny
We delete and block those, so don’t even waste your time. No, it might be up for a few hours, could be up for a week or two, but you will be dealt with like deleted block And we’re just trying to have fun and we’re trying to make things easier on you, too. Yes. So until next time, if you have any questions or want us to talk about something, definitely make a comment.

00:43:58:19 – 00:44:10:24
Tom and Bunny
We do read the comments we. Well, you do. I do. I do before and I tell buddy the good ones. Yeah. So anyway, until next time. We’ll see you soon. We’ll see you soon.

Old Fat Guys and Ms No Swimsuit Part 1

Old Fat Guys with Hot Chicks and the Ms No Swimsuit contest at Hedonism in Jamaica with Tom and Bunny

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00:00:03:04 – 00:00:26:11
Tom and Bunny
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here. And I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos in the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips dot com or give us a call at one 800 2850853. And I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:26:11 – 00:01:06:11
Tom and Bunny
However, while we’re Tom, everybody from Tom and money.com and we recently just got back from Hayden as to end to make with Tom’s trips. You’re a leader in adult lifestyle travel. And we spent three weeks in Jamaica, 21 days, 1t1 day. And boy, let me tell you, it was it was long. It was a ball buster. It was so far we’ve never I mean, we’ve traveled around the United States for like a couple of months, but never out of the country for such a long, long period.

00:01:06:13 – 00:01:31:01
Tom and Bunny
I missed my baby. Yeah. Mama, Mama bear only list. We really missed our baby. But you know what? I was the perfect wife while I was there. You are. I was. How are you? Dare I ask, how are you the perfect wife? Because I brought you a picture of Bam. Say, Dad, bring a picture up. Bam! So I could put it by the nightstand.

00:01:31:03 – 00:02:02:01
Tom and Bunny
I’ll post the picture. See, I’m special. You are? Who brings a picture of their dog? And it’s not even that. Well, we weren’t on vacation. We were working. We did get four days of a vacation. We did this. Absolutely amazing. So let’s start. Start. You wanted to start with something. So let’s if you’re listening to this on a podcast, this is kind of a visual thing.

00:02:02:01 – 00:02:39:21
Tom and Bunny
So you might want to jump over to our YouTube channel, Tom and Bonnie. And so we motor Buddy reached out to us. Yes. And they said we got a new roller bag. You might be interested. I’m trying to figure out what way my head tilts. And we already have the heart case. That’s right. Be right behind me back there, you can see this whole block thing and they thought this would be a little more to our needs because it has a lot of compartments and it’s a soft sided and goes fits right in the car.

00:02:39:21 – 00:03:10:08
Tom and Bunny
Perfect. Yes. And so they asked if we needed any more attachments because we keep a motor. Buddy Hayden is in to make, but we also have two motor buddies here. So I’m like, I think we’re good. But let me just take a look just in case they came out with something new that we didn’t have. So I jump on their website and I noticed that they had a doc and vacuum attachment.

00:03:10:11 – 00:03:35:10
Tom and Bunny
I don’t know how long it’s been there or how how long they had it for the original motor buddy. Now we have that attachment on the buck, but we never had it on the original motor buddy. So Bonnie has a bunch of doc charts and marital aids. So we had boom. Yes, she has. From Skinny, too thick, too long.

00:03:35:10 – 00:04:21:13
Tom and Bunny
The short to different types of textures to double. Yeah. And she has a hand thing, so I’ve got quite the array. Yeah. So when we saw that, we we reached out and said we could definitely use that attachment and we’ll take one to him ism in Jamaica. So that way if someone hasn’t tried the motor buddy, they can bring their own preferred Doc Johnson attachment to try out on an actual real motor buddy And it makes it, it makes it because that way the girl is more comfortable when she tries something knowing that she is already comfortable with it.

00:04:21:18 – 00:04:57:03
Tom and Bunny
So it’s a good multiple use to to try it. Right. And like, like Bonnie, like I said, she has an array of attachments and depending on the time is depending on what attachment. So I have an extra special one now you do. So we thought, we’re going to get this vacuum attachment. Let’s go on Amazon and let’s let’s order a Doc Johnson Yeah, let’s order a new one, sort of a new one.

00:04:57:05 – 00:05:25:29
Tom and Bunny
Something that is different that I’ve never tried before. We went to the marital aid store and my God, there are about three or four times more money than on Amazon. So we didn’t buy one that we were holding in our hand. We can figure it out. Look at the size, the girth. So when we’re looking at it there, we’re looking at one that was kind of it.

00:05:26:02 – 00:05:55:11
Tom and Bunny
It didn’t look like a human. No, no. It looked a little bit different. So I thought, you know what? This one looks really interesting. I’ve never tried anything like this before. It has like three different big bulky ridges. And so they had a small one and a large one. Now, us not thinking the large the large ones said ten inches thick that weren’t thick.

00:05:55:11 – 00:06:30:20
Tom and Bunny
And you don’t have to put it all the way, you know. And I said two and a half inches around. So I’m like okay, we’re thinking two and a half inches is like, you know, do I like, you know, I’m doing girl math? Yeah, I’m doing guy math. And so the other one was quite a bit smaller like and since 7/8 is and so I think it’s worth thinking is like the small one because she has said once and girth here once so Tom’s like you you could handle the other one, you know.

00:06:30:23 – 00:06:58:11
Tom and Bunny
So yeah, go big or go home. Yeah. We don’t know. Size Queen was a real size when we’re at the marital aid store that had size queen ones that were like this big around, like the fence posts and like this this long so this big around that long. No way. We thought because we thought doc chances were more human anatomy.

00:06:58:11 – 00:07:28:09
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, more. Yeah because they have it was all more corn stars. Yeah. Corn stuff. Yes. So you could use there anatomy. Exactly. So if you watch them on the movies, you can actually use their aid. So I really, you know, and going back or going back, I really wish that Amazon would put on there that it might appear bigger smaller.

00:07:28:11 – 00:07:52:21
Tom and Bunny
Harris Might appear smaller than yeah, it appears smaller than actual size. So this is what we haven’t even opened it and woven when figuring out some type of pull game to use with that. But I was thinking ring toss or it’s it’s pretty but I think that would weigh down our luggage going to Hedo so well it’s definitely going to Hedo because it’s not staying here Why not.

00:07:52:21 – 00:08:18:13
Tom and Bunny
We’ll just put it up on the TV stand. All right. So this is what I ordered. Lucky put your fist up there, player first. Up next to it, put your fist up. No, no, no. Like next to it. That’s her fist. That’s crazy. Well, I mean, I’m not saying it’s crazy because some people. Yeah. Would be able to have no problem.

00:08:18:17 – 00:08:47:12
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, but no, not funny. This is not going in my in my marital aids box. So all the comments that we get all looking for some BBC. No, we aren’t. We’re not opposed. We’re, we’re equal opportunist. So wait, you know, if, if a guy is that big, it’s definitely, you know, unsubscribe from our channel. Don’t comment. Don’t follow us because it’s never going to happen.

00:08:47:15 – 00:09:12:21
Tom and Bunny
So so basically what I just bought was a $50 ring toss scheme. We haven’t even taken it. I wonder if we can get reimbursed for that for a ring toss game. I doubt that we’ll get a huge no. So so yesterday it comes in the mail comes through Amazon and Tom’s like, well, what’s this other box? Then I’m like, Well, that’s the Doug Johnson that I ordered.

00:09:12:25 – 00:09:42:23
Tom and Bunny
This box is huge and it weighed £5. It’s like in this big box. And I’m like, Well, maybe there’s multiples. I don’t remember what I ordered. Don’t Amazon trunk? yeah. Don’t drink an Amazon. No, you might not be able to read your measurements properly. We’re going to have to get a circumference check. So when it says instant 7/8 our it’s are five inches.

00:09:42:23 – 00:10:08:26
Tom and Bunny
We know how big it is. So basically I spent $50 on it. It gave us a good laugh at that. We were laughing because I want to talk about this on our video. On our next video. First thing I said, either that or we could autograph it and send it to somebody for a mere $500. Right. It’s our our will probably.

00:10:08:28 – 00:10:36:27
Tom and Bunny
We’re still waiting on insurance. On my issue. If you watched my broken Yes video what we’ve I have to do a go fund me so maybe we’ll option an office give it to the person that donates them most at one time. There you go. They’ll be where are we can do it to where? No matter what the donations are, we just in our name for every donation.

00:10:37:00 – 00:11:01:16
Tom and Bunny
But it has to be over some amount. It can’t be a box. A big cost like 25 bucks. That’s all right. That’s all right. So look out. Possibly for a go fund me. We don’t really know. We don’t want to do it, but surgery, if we if we have to pay for. It’s about $20,000. Yes. So what? We’re still waiting to do an update video on that.

00:11:01:17 – 00:11:24:14
Tom and Bunny
Yes. As soon as we know that’ll be coming out. Yes. All right. So you know what? The past three weeks, like I said, they absolutely want a lot faster than I anticipated. Then it actually went. But we had two great groups. We did. And we literally we got there on Thursday. Normally when we get there on Thursday, we’re the first of our group.

00:11:24:16 – 00:11:51:08
Tom and Bunny
We were not this time. No, there was like already 15, 20 people there waiting. Yes, but they all went to bed. Yeah, I think it was a travel day. Everybody was already in bed. I think. Gosh, So let’s start there. Don’t ever travel when somebody is getting ready to do an election in Jamaica. Now let’s first start off the travel advisory.

00:11:51:10 – 00:12:28:02
Tom and Bunny
They had Jamaica at a level four travel advisory. Now we’re not advising anything, but we did not feel uncomfortable there. We went to dinner at Rex Cafe and Ivan’s restaurant three times. We went on multiple pub crawls during our time and talking to the multiple drivers we had and the staff at the resort, they they all said that in a is they’re not seeing anything.

00:12:28:07 – 00:12:54:24
Tom and Bunny
So when they’re doing that Jamaican alert, they’re covering the whole they’re putting a blanket over the whole country. So basically it’s going to be if you’re looking for trouble, you can find trouble. Yeah, but yeah, we never felt unsafe at all. No, but like I say, we’re not advising anything. Whatever makes you comfortable here, just use your judgment.

00:12:54:26 – 00:13:24:22
Tom and Bunny
We go back here in the next few weeks. Yeah. April 22, 27, for our Hito Hotshots, and then we go back again in June. So we’re still going back? Yeah. Now, with that said, there was an election going on. Yes. And we did not know that the president of Jamaica was in Lucy, which is the halfway point between Montego Bay and Negro.

00:13:24:24 – 00:13:49:15
Tom and Bunny
And we got stuck in. God. Hope. Hope. Well, Hopewell Well, we were stuck about four or five miles before. Hopewell Yeah. Hopewell It’s going to be the first bigger town or parish between Montego Bay right after actually, right after you leave Montego Bay, that’s going to be the first biggest parish. Well, it what we were stuck there for like two and a half hours in traffic.

00:13:49:15 – 00:14:20:23
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Now, this is a two Lane Island road. The ocean’s literally literally two lanes because there is nowhere to pass. I’ll look for the picture and I’ll post here. Our two lane road became a five lane road because every idiot in the world was trying to pass, which now they have to merge back in and our driver was a safe driver and I would have asked him to do anything.

00:14:20:26 – 00:15:02:26
Tom and Bunny
No illegal. They literally had everything even off to the road during in the dirt on both sides were completely packed. People were trying to pass into oncoming traffic. Ambulances and in police cars couldn’t even get through. We got passed by a cow and we did it. How do you get past it? Looks out the window and goes, There’s a cow trot and passed us because in Jamaica, you know, sometimes they get off their leash because if they’re not in a fence, they’ve got a leash in, they’re chained to the ground so they can pick that area around them.

00:15:03:04 – 00:15:27:16
Tom and Bunny
Sometimes they get off and they run down the road. Yep. And that’s what happened. We got passed by a cow. Now we’re still not seeing anything. We’re thinking there’s an accident because typically when they’re you’re in that kind of traffic and there’s an accident, you’re stopped because it is a two lane road. And even our driver, Michael, says, there’s an intersection about a mile or so up.

00:15:27:16 – 00:15:47:23
Tom and Bunny
That’s probably where the accident is. That’s typically someone’s pulling out or in or motorcycle accidents. And it’s not like you have waves or Google Maps. I had ways. Yeah, but you couldn’t see. No, it didn’t have all the alerts we have and then the states. So all I could tell us how far we were from heading. So it took us two and a half hours.

00:15:47:23 – 00:16:28:18
Tom and Bunny
We finally get through Hopewell and they yeah, we seen a lot of people on the streets, but nothing that was more than usual right? So we get once we get through Hopewell, we start going. We’re like, Yes, finally we’re rolling and we’re passing. And then we stopped again. It’s just before Lucy Just before Lucy. Well, as you go around the island, you don’t really not normally notice it when you’re just driving, but when you’re in dead, stop, You could actually see were curved around and went through Lucy and our driver says to us, Hey, if you don’t mind, I know this way we can go through the neighborhoods and we can avoid a lot of

00:16:28:18 – 00:16:56:16
Tom and Bunny
this traffic. So we did. Yeah. That’s when it got. We thought, Well, we did. That’s when we didn’t feel comfortable because all of a sudden we’re seeing a ton of people in this neighborhood. We never see people. We see a few people hanging out on their porches or barbecuing and stuff like that. But we never see a ton of people walking the street.

00:16:56:22 – 00:17:25:08
Tom and Bunny
And one of the things, too, you got to understand in in Lucy there, their regular residential streets would be like what our alleys look like. Yes. So they’re very narrow. And pretty much she can only get one car through there in each direction. Right. And they’re talking to the Michael or driver. That’s what we found out about because everyone was wearing green.

00:17:25:13 – 00:17:57:29
Tom and Bunny
Yes. And we started noticing more and more green the more we approached the actual center of Lucy. And then we see thousands of people now in America. That type of environment could turn ugly really fast. So that’s where we felt our uneasiness. But Michael assured us that when he didn’t even know the president of Jamaica was in Lucy, he just said, They’re having an election and they’re celebrating.

00:17:58:03 – 00:18:24:18
Tom and Bunny
They weren’t protesting. They were violent, they were happy, they were smiling, they were dead. The election had even taken place yet. Right. This was on Thursday. The election was going to happen on Monday. Yeah. So that made us feel a little more comfortable. And we got to then we made it through there just fine. I mean, after we went through there, then we realized we were totally safe and we got to Hedonism.

00:18:24:18 – 00:19:01:25
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, but what normally takes an hour and a half drive to Montego Bay to Negril took us 5 hours, but we stopped at KFC. We did. We did. For the first time in 14 years. If you guys want some good KFC here, you if you’re staying in Montego Bay. Yeah, don’t stop because we stopped and we didn’t realize that from the time we got parked and walked in from the time we made our order, which was just a little box meals to the time we got the three little box meals was 45 minutes.

00:19:01:25 – 00:19:27:04
Tom and Bunny
Yes, it is the most profitable and most busiest KFC in the world. And also to I think that that was our downfall because we had another guest that was there in the airport with us and they had a private transfer to well, they went straight ahead and it only took them two and a half hours. Yeah. So that stop to get the chicken put us behind everything.

00:19:27:05 – 00:19:43:08
Tom and Bunny
Right. But at least we had a meal and we didn’t go in hungry but we didn’t have a bathroom so it’s no way to pull over. I was willing to pee in the bushes because all the other guys were doing that. I was Jamaican. I was willing to to help. And I was thinking I was like, Bonnie won’t care.

00:19:43:08 – 00:20:09:14
Tom and Bunny
She’ll drop her pants and pee. So we, I, we held it. I mean, Bunny are good for 2 hours and we held it for five. Well, the minute the minute I seen everything backing up, I had only probably taken like three drinks out of my soda. I’m like, no, no more. Never, never make it drink. Never. No. And Michael had had his beer and water and thank God we didn’t drink beer.

00:20:09:14 – 00:20:37:24
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, Yeah, I’m. I mean, I’m not a big fan of beer. If he had Red Stripe white, maybe, but Red Stripe, not my. It’s more like Budweiser. Yeah. And also to if you guys know this, if you go to Club Mo Bay, if you get club Mo so you know it’s going to bypass you through immigration it gives you a little lounge while you wait for you that your driver, your van, you can get rum punch to go.

00:20:37:24 – 00:20:59:23
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Thank God I did not do that. Right. Thank God I didn’t even do that. We didn’t even use the lounge. We just walked right out and gotten this car. So we get to Hedonism and they have a new general manager. So we got to meet them. Yes. Very, very nice guy. he seems like he’s going to be a a he’s going.

00:20:59:26 – 00:21:29:17
Tom and Bunny
It is. What we see, because we only saw him for two weeks. Yeah, he’ll. He’ll do good. Yes. We don’t know. The politics are how things handle from the management to the general manager. I can them right so but Bonnie made a comment that the glasses looked a little dingy and it it was water spots. It looked like the dishwashers needed to be clean.

00:21:29:17 – 00:21:49:21
Tom and Bunny
The filters. And lo and behold, the next night, all the glasses were crystal clear. It’s just, you know, it’s little things like that when you run in. Maybe they ran out of the stuff that you put in it and it didn’t stop the stuff you get in the car wash spot free rock free rent. So I don’t know.

00:21:49:21 – 00:22:17:14
Tom and Bunny
But anyway, it was nice to meet him. So very nice, very personable. Right? I love talking to him. He’s from the UK. Yeah. So we did ask though, because one of the things that we always do is, you know, hedonism has a no tipping policy. People will get fired. They will think tips get fired. So believe it or not, it’s just like any other job.

00:22:17:14 – 00:22:48:03
Tom and Bunny
People will tell management if someone gets a tip and they see it. So it’s not like they’re going to. It’s like in America, like any other job, somebody doesn’t like it because they’re not supposed to do it. That’s how they’re going to get found out. Right? So we bring Snickers bars. We brought 140 Snickers bars and then, yeah, every couple of days I’ll walk around first.

00:22:48:03 – 00:23:06:11
Tom and Bunny
I get the bartenders. Yeah, I just want to take care of the bartenders. I take care of the waitstaff. The waitstaff and the late midnight cooks. Yes. I always went out because they never get nothing. So I went over there and they were pretty excited. Yep. As we go by groundskeepers, we hand them to everybody in the front office.

00:23:06:11 – 00:23:34:06
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So we took care of everybody we could. And when you bring Snickers, they come out. Everybody’s like, I want one, I want one. And the biggest one is one of our waitstaff that we’ve known there for years. He’s like, could I have two for my grandchildren? Absolutely. Absolutely. One more. But we actually asked David, we’re like, hey, you know, they say that it tasted different.

00:23:34:12 – 00:23:58:07
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, because he’s from England. He goes, I can attest to that. Yeah. He said it was sweeter. Yeah. So yeah. So if you have any ideas, you know, they definitely tip in stickers. Yeah. And I watched Tick Tock on this English girl who tries American Foods and they have Kit Kats in England, and she tried an American Kit Kat and didn’t like it because it was too sweet.

00:23:58:08 – 00:24:30:21
Tom and Bunny
Too sweet. I remember because we do have that one bartender and he says, I don’t like sweet. Yeah. He goes, No, they’re too sweet. Too sweet. So that’s where we come in. We’re just too sweet. We are too early next year. Next time, I think we have to bring more room. So we we did get a a room and that used to be an ocean view nude room and they had to change its a guard of view regular because when you open the window all you see is a roof.

00:24:30:26 – 00:24:52:15
Tom and Bunny
Yeah, it’s right behind the dive shack. And between the flame and the dive sack, it’s actually a really good location. It has a balcony that you could sit out on that we sat on every single night. Yeah. And we got to say hi to people. Walk into the nude porn back. Now, I did find out that the particular room that we were in was horrible for cell reception.

00:24:52:18 – 00:25:15:23
Tom and Bunny
Yes. Now, for you people, if you’re trying to call Times trips, which is the number like right here, right there. But funny, that answer is because we found out about the horrible cell reception about a week into our staff. Yeah. And it literally we’re just wondering why the phone wasn’t bringing in one of our other host couples was right below us.

00:25:15:23 – 00:25:41:03
Tom and Bunny
The the room directly below us and they didn’t have any issues. It was just that particular area. When I went around, everything dropped right soft. So I told them I can’t have that room anymore. So our first week was all fat guys with hot chicks. my God, we absolutely love that group. We do. I haven’t. You know, we haven’t laughed so hard in such a long time.

00:25:41:03 – 00:26:09:18
Tom and Bunny
And it was such a good, refreshing time to go after the holidays and after the back to back with Jan. It was just great to let loose and have fun with them. Well, one of the things is it’s such they started off with, what, four or five couples years ago and now like 77 rooms. Yeah, they are so big now as a host couple, we do the pool games.

00:26:09:21 – 00:26:31:20
Tom and Bunny
We we usually bring a deejay or an entertainer, but if not, we then we got to coordinate with the Jamaican deejay. We we do the cocktail parties and we do the meet and greets. We do the offsite dinners and the pub crawls. This year, Well, last year, too. But this year was even better. They got their own entertainment committee.

00:26:31:27 – 00:27:05:07
Tom and Bunny
They’re on their own Facebook chat. And one of the couples, Paula, she’s kind of in charge of it, I think. And she coordinated the room crawl. Yeah, they they coordinated all the pool games. Me and Bunny are I mean, we did the offsite site dinner and we set up the pub crawl, but and Pat on Bunny’s back. She got those old fat guys a cooler, cooler full of beer and an extra case of beer for the winter.

00:27:05:09 – 00:27:33:13
Tom and Bunny
Before we started the pub crawl. We did. We went through over two cases. Beer? Yup. And that was just a staff plus bar at the bar and we bought all the bars. So it was it’s just very nice that we’re more of a support asset between the group and the resort. It was so nice to just sit in the pool and watch other people put on the game.

00:27:33:15 – 00:28:00:02
Tom and Bunny
We do want to say a big, huge thank you to the old fat guys with hot chicks for making us so welcome, but also allowing us to enjoy our time and not feel like we have had to be responsible for each and every single event. It was really fun. And then they have one of one of the guests works for or does Pure Romance Party.

00:28:00:03 – 00:28:24:06
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So maybe you sort of called her on that. Doc Johnson, back to you laughing because obviously we don’t know measurements. They donated all of the marital aids to give away as prizes. Yeah. So it was really, really nice. That was really cool. And up the prize value. Yes. And it just goes to show how many amazing people travel.

00:28:24:08 – 00:29:01:10
Tom and Bunny
Yes. So if you’re interested in old fat guys with hot chicks, I’ll tell you what, it’s explain. It’s not old fact, guys. Maybe one. But the the women are everything from what I twenties to. Well, yeah 56 days. So yeah. but me and Bonnie fit in well with our highway age, all that stuff, don’t you agree? Yeah.

00:29:01:17 – 00:29:24:19
Tom and Bunny
So when we went on the pub crawl, most all of us wore are old fat guys with hot chick. I’ll put that picture. Yeah. So and then we got to remember because a lot of times I said, I’ll put a picture in, you forget. So as we’re coming back in to hedonism, this young girl looks at me and she goes, Is that your old fat guy?

00:29:24:19 – 00:29:47:18
Tom and Bunny
And I’m like, Yes. And she goes, Dude, you’re too skinny. You need to be kicked out. I lost 60 some pounds. I mean, if you see our pictures and our social media and our videos, you could see I used to have a fat brown head and now it’s getting more slender. I don’t really have a gut no more.

00:29:47:20 – 00:30:11:23
Tom and Bunny
So, yeah, I should be exiled from old fat guys. Know that just goes to show that it’s not. It’s just a fun name. It is a fun name. And it’s a really, really fun group. Now what you got to do is you got to go to times trips dot com and click on group trips and you’ll see old fat guys attack sex one of the dates next year.

00:30:11:26 – 00:30:42:16
Tom and Bunny
I have it right here in front of me. my God. my gosh. She just got a new price. Pricey. February 22nd to March 1st. Right. And what’s the cheapest? Room? 310 a night per person. All right. So singles are a little slight are slightly more. So you definitely if you do double occupancy it’s cheaper all around But old fat guys attack chicks definitely, definitely recommend that because we will be there.

00:30:42:18 – 00:31:02:16
Tom and Bunny
yes, we will. We’ll be the naked ones in the nude pool, watching the game, watching the games, I think actually got up and participated in one of them. I think you did. I did. I know you did. You look like a you look like a roll of lifesavers. So they pop these big laps. yeah. gosh.

00:31:02:21 – 00:31:30:12
Tom and Bunny
And they’re like, got them. You want to go put them on and show them again? So it’s a No, we’re not. We’re are. They’re in my room. You want me? Go get it. Go get it. But I’ll explain why. So they say they’re going to have a beer chugging contest and I haven’t chugged the beer in years. And I’m thinking I can do this because it’s just those like 12 ounce glasses and I’ll just inhale both of them.

00:31:30:14 – 00:31:56:23
Tom and Bunny
Although I was up against some stiff competition because these guys, a lot of them are from Wisconsin and all they do is drink beer and eat cheese. And I but I thought I could hold my own with them and they they bring out after we’re all standing there and they hand us each two beers, they bring out these lips and body is taking forever because now I’m going to run out of time.

00:31:56:26 – 00:32:24:09
Tom and Bunny
But we all had to put these big lips on before we chugged the beer. I lied. she lied. So the lips go under your over your teeth. So basically you bite down on it like vampire teeth and you can’t drink nothing through them. So when I’m drinking it just all pouring down everything but you coming back. I’m coming back.

00:32:24:09 – 00:32:53:28
Tom and Bunny
You’re coming back. I lied. She lied. But anyway, it added a little cool fun to the actual head. I could see up your skirt. Oops. If I could have taken a picture when everybody turned around with those lips. my God. It took, like, a couple minutes to even get them on. I love. I had different colors. Yours was right.

00:32:54:04 – 00:33:14:06
Tom and Bunny
Pink was my hot pink or pink. You had pink. somebody has red. They had purple. It was the color of the rainbow up there. this is so funny. But yeah, no one could chug a beer and it just went right down here. Yes. So that was just a fun game I lost. You did lose. I thought I was going to drown.

00:33:14:08 – 00:33:50:10
Tom and Bunny
But that other that other game that we did, you look like a to a roll of lifesavers, Candy. So they have another game and we’ve been doing it for years and they throw out the little scrunchies, the thin round scrunchies, the hair ties and all the guys put them around their member. Yeah. And I’m sitting there like when we normally when we do it, we throw them all out and then people can pick them up and do it, right.

00:33:50:16 – 00:34:10:29
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. But they were giving each guy five and so this girl comes up to hand me five and I’m like, I’ll just put them on. So she starts putting them on and on and on. And mind you, my crap is broken and you got up to 12 and there was still room. You look like the rainbow of proof.

00:34:11:04 – 00:34:35:08
Tom and Bunny
I did look like the lifesavers in that. So as girls were coming around trying to collect them because they won a prize by the person who was able to pause the most off. I would only like each girl pull off for free That way. I gave more girls time to touch me. Hey, I know you did. You Did.

00:34:35:10 – 00:34:59:24
Tom and Bunny
stop, stop, stop, stop. First I let the first two girls pull them up. yeah. Then I heard they were supposed to use their mouths. yeah. So I made the other girl, honored her deal and pulled me up to the side of the pool. And then another girl. So that. That completed my. Yeah, but I. You grew up in the beginning, me being deaf.

00:34:59:24 – 00:35:10:14
Tom and Bunny
I didn’t hear the rules of the game. So even with a broken member, you still got taken care of. I did fight multiple women.

00:35:10:16 – 00:35:37:03
Tom and Bunny
That was fun. I was Later on, after we went to another resort, I was walking into the pool and our friend Denise looks up at me and goes, You got it fixed. And I said, No. She goes, What do you mean no? I said, No. That’s just where it hangs. And starts out. It gets bigger from there. Really does.

00:35:37:08 – 00:36:06:28
Tom and Bunny
Yeah. Yes. She was like, I like that. It’s floating. Just the floating. So that was kind of funny. Yeah. She thought I got my junk fixed and she was like, That was fast. I just saw your video. My No, no no, no. Unfortunately, it’s not. No, no. I’ve got to make a phone call this week. All right, so back to hedonism.

00:36:06:28 – 00:36:27:07
Tom and Bunny
But no, no, we’re fine. We’re fine. Yeah, because this could be a podcast. What’s that? 35 minute. What do you want to go part two? Yeah, we got to do a part two because we still got lots of stories from It’s no swimsuit. Okay, So what? We’re going to just stop this one and restart it. We’re going to wear the same clothes and we’re going to do part two.

00:36:27:07 – 00:36:39:11
Tom and Bunny
Why? We’re still fresh thinking about it. Yeah, because I got to I got to recite my pickup lines that I heard. Okay. All right. So we’ll be back in a little bit. We’ll see you soon. Season.

 

 

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