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How to talk my wife into swinging

We get questions all the time, however about 50% are “How can I talk my wife into the swinging lifestyle”   We spend time talking about this with different scenarios and what works for us in the the Pineapple Lifestyle.

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Transcript

00:00:03:00 – 00:00:26:07
Tom
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here and I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos from the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips.com, or give us a call at 1-800-285-0853 and I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.

00:00:26:07 – 00:00:52:07
Tom
Hey everyone. We are Tom and Bonnie with Tom and by. It’s right there on the bottom of your screen if you’re watching us on YouTube, if you are not watching us on YouTube and you’re listening to us on podcasts, we invite you to jump over to YouTube and check us out. Just search Tom and Bonnie and if you’re watching us on YouTube and you prefer to listen to us in your car, we’re on pretty much every major podcast network.

00:00:52:14 – 00:00:55:22
Tom
So you can just search Tom and Bonnie.

00:00:55:24 – 00:00:56:23
Bunny
We make it simple.

00:00:56:23 – 00:01:15:23
Tom
We try to make it simple. We actually work for Tom’s trips. You’re a leader in adult lifestyle travel and this is how we are able to do these videos is because of your viewership, your comments, your feedback. But more importantly, booking with Tom’s trips.

00:01:15:23 – 00:01:17:10
Bunny
Yes. So call me.

00:01:17:12 – 00:01:25:29
Tom
Yes. The phone number is right there on the screen right now. Call Bonnie. And so she’s a low pressure sales person, but she’ll answer all your questions.

00:01:25:29 – 00:01:29:13
Bunny
And you’ll talk to me, not my assistant.

00:01:29:16 – 00:01:41:04
Tom
With Bonnie. Does I have an assistant? So real quick, there is a story on that. When people do call the 800 number and when it’s really flattering.

00:01:41:05 – 00:01:42:15
Bunny
It is very flattering.

00:01:42:16 – 00:01:58:22
Tom
And when Bonnie answers the phone and the people get all giddy, are they, get tongue tied? And then they say, I didn’t think you were going to answer the phone. I thought you would have an assistant. And what’s your response?

00:01:58:22 – 00:02:00:01
Bunny
I am the assistant.

00:02:00:01 – 00:02:10:01
Tom
Bonnie is distance. Yes. We work a real job, ladies. And yes, we do. so we just thought that was. I thought that was kind of work.

00:02:10:01 – 00:02:13:09
Bunny
A real job. Straight from my phone. Wherever my phone’s out, I’m at.

00:02:13:10 – 00:02:21:14
Tom
Yeah. We tell people, you know, a lot of people work from an office, other people work from home. We work from the phone. Currently, my phone is up. They’re recording.

00:02:21:14 – 00:02:27:00
Bunny
Us. I used to work from up here in in this little studio.

00:02:27:02 – 00:02:35:22
Tom
I know the lighted area over Bonnie’s head right there. That’s a little cubby with the dormer window and that there’s a desk.

00:02:35:25 – 00:02:50:00
Bunny
I should start working back up here again, because whenever the phone ring, I’d have to run up here, take care of it, and then run back downstairs. I should do it because, you know, I mean, it’s up and downstairs. There’s 17 steps from the.

00:02:50:02 – 00:02:52:28
Tom
Bell that you gotta come down these steps to go back up these.

00:02:52:28 – 00:02:57:06
Bunny
Steps. Yeah. So there’s only maybe I’ll do that. I’ll put that back up here.

00:02:57:10 – 00:03:28:07
Tom
Now, one of the things we do tell people all the time is if you ask us questions, a lot of times we will respond to your questions. However, when we get asked multiple times, we feel that there is a need for our answer to be more public and more on YouTube or podcasts because we figure if we get five or more questions, there’s gotta be a lot more people out there that have a same exact burning question.

00:03:28:10 – 00:03:39:13
Tom
And often times we get, oh my God, I ran across this video or this podcast and you answered, well, we don’t say we answer all the questions. What do we do?

00:03:39:16 – 00:03:40:21
Bunny
We give our opinion.

00:03:40:21 – 00:03:42:09
Tom
Yeah, which doesn’t mean nothing.

00:03:42:09 – 00:03:45:24
Bunny
No, just us are the only ones that care about our opinion.

00:03:45:25 – 00:04:02:13
Tom
We are the content creators that say our opinion is just our opinion. It means absolutely nothing and you could take it for what it’s worth. And we hope what works for us may or may not work for you, but we hope it works for you.

00:04:02:15 – 00:04:02:28
Bunny
Yes we.

00:04:02:28 – 00:04:04:02
Tom
Do. That makes sense.

00:04:04:04 – 00:04:05:13
Bunny
It completely okay.

00:04:05:17 – 00:04:20:07
Tom
So but we always say ask five other people that are in the direction you’re looking at and you’ll get five varying answers. And then just choose the one you resonate. Best and the most.

00:04:20:07 – 00:04:49:11
Bunny
Well with of course you do. Yeah. Of course you do. Now you know. And it’s, there’s so many different content creators out there from all aspects of life and which is what absolutely makes this new pineapple world so great. Yeah. And I really and I really, absolutely love that. And we all have our little following too. I mean, because there’s some that are much younger than us and there’s some that are older than us, so we fall right in that as.

00:04:49:12 – 00:05:05:25
Tom
Content creators that host hotel takeovers. So they offer a great, advice because they’re talking from experience. they’re like finding said there’s younger content creators. There’s our age.

00:05:05:28 – 00:05:10:15
Bunny
Yes, there’s some that are just straight lifestyle. There’s some that are into.

00:05:10:18 – 00:05:11:05
Tom
Fatter.

00:05:11:07 – 00:05:15:25
Bunny
Baristas, poorly, I mean, you name it, all gamuts are.

00:05:15:25 – 00:05:39:04
Tom
Covered now we will start off by saying there is no right or wrong way of navigating the lifestyle. However you personally choose to navigate, it is the most accepting way to navigate it. You do not have to conform to others ideology to be in this lifestyle. That’s absolutely. I accept.

00:05:39:08 – 00:05:40:15
Bunny
The absolute truth, but.

00:05:40:15 – 00:05:56:05
Tom
All the creators welcome, advice, suggestions and everything and that’s what makes it great. It gives you may resonate with another creator more. You may resonate with us. It doesn’t matter. you may resonate with multiple creators.

00:05:56:08 – 00:06:06:29
Bunny
Yeah. Because some of us are still on the same wavelength. It it’s just great. Yeah. I just love listening to and talking to other people about different situations.

00:06:07:00 – 00:06:14:18
Tom
Right. So we just got recently, we recently so we just got recently about it’s my hearing.

00:06:14:19 – 00:06:15:07
Bunny
It is yours.

00:06:15:08 – 00:06:38:06
Tom
I mean literally I know I’m going to go stay off topic for a second. if you guys have been following us, I have had multiple surgeries in the last six months. Sitting is six months. Six months. I, I’ve had a hand surgery. And then I had a cochlear surgery and then I had a penile implant surgery.

00:06:38:06 – 00:06:39:01
Bunny
Yes.

00:06:39:03 – 00:06:51:11
Tom
And then I just had another Kokila surgery and the Kokila penile implant cochlear all within one month. Well a month and a half. Yeah.

00:06:51:14 – 00:06:52:05
Bunny
I mean it was.

00:06:52:05 – 00:06:53:17
Tom
Just bam bam bam.

00:06:53:17 – 00:06:54:15
Bunny
Yes.

00:06:54:17 – 00:06:58:00
Tom
Yeah. But it’s our slow. It was our slow time.

00:06:58:02 – 00:07:06:25
Bunny
Right. I was going to say come July you’re going to get your butt probed.

00:07:06:27 – 00:07:12:09
Bunny
Oh it’s that time I forgot about.

00:07:12:09 – 00:07:17:07
Tom
Don’t don’t. No, we’re not going to talk about that.

00:07:17:10 – 00:07:18:18
Tom
What is that called, an MBA?

00:07:18:24 – 00:07:21:07
Bunny
No, you’re going to go nuts.

00:07:21:09 – 00:07:24:07
Tom
Ask. I thought it was an endoscope or something.

00:07:24:12 – 00:07:27:01
Bunny
That’s just how old we are, right?

00:07:27:03 – 00:07:30:05
Tom
So, yeah, unfortunately, we got to go through all that.

00:07:30:05 – 00:07:31:05
Bunny
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:07:31:12 – 00:07:57:21
Tom
But anyway, just a quick, quick, quick update. I am healing great. My implant is three weeks old. And we’ve used it twice. and we recommend not using it for about three months. And I will still go with that recommendation because the last two times. So it’s a little painful. I had to, deflate it really fast since we.

00:07:57:24 – 00:08:02:01
Tom
Yeah. Says we say our good as we say, not as we do here.

00:08:02:08 – 00:08:07:04
Bunny
There it is. Well, I was looking for, backwards. Backwards.

00:08:07:06 – 00:08:15:07
Tom
But, so we did talk to our urologist, our urologist.

00:08:15:07 – 00:08:16:06
Bunny
Our.

00:08:16:08 – 00:08:36:14
Tom
Great guy. Love him, love him. And I told him, I said, hey, when we are talking about you going on video coming up, I was on drugs. Were you serious? And he goes, absolutely. So he’s going to come over here to our house one of these nights. We just have to care.

00:08:36:16 – 00:08:48:06
Bunny
Okay, go get get the schedule. But can I reiterate the fact that you’re on pain medication and you were on, coming out of Anastacia. You weren’t on drugs.

00:08:48:08 – 00:08:49:29
Tom
That. Right? Right, right, right.

00:08:50:00 – 00:08:50:27
Bunny
You were medicated.

00:08:51:01 – 00:09:05:29
Tom
I, I was legally medicated. So, are legally on drugs. I’m doing the air quotes because somebody is going to put us on blast, and they always do because they didn’t hear the context. They only heard the headline.

00:09:06:00 – 00:09:07:02
Bunny
Yeah.

00:09:07:04 – 00:09:28:04
Tom
So let’s hear the context before we make comments, please. So anyway, everything’s healing. Well, the doctor is coming to our house. He’s going to do a while. We do all of our videos and then we turn them into podcast. So it’s going to be probably several weeks, maybe 3 or 4 weeks.

00:09:28:04 – 00:09:30:14
Bunny
Our travel scramble was crazy, right?

00:09:30:14 – 00:09:37:22
Tom
Because he can do it during the week. And our I mean, we’re traveling from Thursday through Sunday and Monday is a recovery day.

00:09:38:20 – 00:10:14:19
Tom
So that only usually leaves a couple of days. So look forward to him. He’s actually going to join us on several years ago we were doing videos on Eddie. and we did a, quite a few videos and I took them off. And not that I have thin skin, but I was getting more negativity about my head from supposed people that didn’t have Eddie and, are how can I talk about it or be so open about it, blah blah, blah blah blah.

00:10:14:21 – 00:10:20:00
Tom
The fact is, is how many percentage of people with, diabetes have 80.

00:10:20:03 – 00:10:20:24
Bunny
80%.

00:10:20:24 – 00:10:41:00
Tom
80% of people with diabetes have some form of Eddie. We’re going to talk to the doctor. We’re going to get real numbers. But one of the numbers is, on the Eddie thing is, if people don’t talk about it to their doctor or their wife, how many people truly have it?

00:10:41:03 – 00:10:42:12
Bunny
And that, yeah.

00:10:42:12 – 00:10:43:22
Tom
That we don’t even know.

00:10:43:22 – 00:10:44:18
Bunny
About.

00:10:44:20 – 00:10:54:19
Tom
We only know about what’s documented with urology and, family practices or Viagra sales. All right. You know what I mean?

00:10:54:19 – 00:10:54:26
Bunny
Yeah.

00:10:54:26 – 00:10:56:18
Tom
Well, that’s how they’re documenting.

00:10:56:19 – 00:11:03:00
Bunny
Viagra sales that they know of. They don’t know. Right. Other ones. India. Yeah, exactly. Acquired.

00:11:03:01 – 00:11:10:08
Tom
We’re not saying you should go to India, order from India or go to Mexico. Just it’s gotten cheaper though.

00:11:10:11 – 00:11:13:04
Bunny
It has it. Yeah I haven’t I haven’t priced it doesn’t.

00:11:13:04 – 00:11:13:19
Tom
Work for me.

00:11:13:19 – 00:11:17:00
Bunny
No, no I say we haven’t tried that in a long time.

00:11:17:02 – 00:11:39:16
Tom
so. Yeah, we’re going to bring back a lot of those 80 videos. I didn’t delete them. I just turned them off. And you know what? I’m just going to grow a thick skin and I’m just going to put them back online. And hopefully the negative comments I can weed out. But if it if those videos help people, that’s the import.

00:11:39:18 – 00:11:54:01
Tom
If it helps one one guy out there are even a couple trying to understand, because a lot of times I know this isn’t even the video, but a lot of times Bonnie was thinking it was her.

00:11:54:23 – 00:12:01:27
Tom
Personally, not me physically. So. So yeah, I think it’s time to bring those back.

00:12:02:00 – 00:12:02:18
Bunny
And of course.

00:12:02:18 – 00:12:03:22
Tom
I’m a happy camper.

00:12:03:24 – 00:12:04:17
Bunny
Yeah. You are.

00:12:04:20 – 00:12:14:16
Tom
All right. So, with that said, that was our course. We haven’t done a video in a while. Now is our quick, quick update to the update to the update.

00:12:14:19 – 00:12:15:06
Bunny
Of course.

00:12:15:07 – 00:12:15:18
Tom
Okay.

00:12:15:19 – 00:12:17:05
Bunny
Enough talking about your junk now.

00:12:17:05 – 00:12:19:28
Tom
Yeah. So what question did you get recently asked.

00:12:19:28 – 00:12:49:13
Bunny
And so this lady contacted me and she wanted her and her husband hadn’t been discussing getting into the pineapple world. And of course, she had numerous, numerous questions. And and some of them were kind of bordered on poorly and some of them were on lifestyle. And then, of course, she thought, well, as my husband pushing me into this and, and, like I told her, I said, you got to communicate all of those issues for starters, right?

00:12:49:15 – 00:13:02:04
Bunny
And of course, I asked her different questions about what, you know, he was doing or saying, and, and it and it just turned out that he wasn’t trying to push her into it. He was just showing his, enthusiasm.

00:13:02:06 – 00:13:02:25
Tom
Right.

00:13:02:28 – 00:13:05:04
Bunny
And his excitement is to.

00:13:05:06 – 00:13:05:25
Tom
Enthusiasm.

00:13:05:25 – 00:13:09:17
Bunny
Over enthused. And which happens a lot.

00:13:09:18 – 00:13:11:20
Tom
It does. And.

00:13:11:22 – 00:13:28:03
Bunny
I mean, was really think back for the people that are already in this in our world, when you have had your first initial hookup, gone to a club, anything, you come home and you’re so excited about it and you wanted to.

00:13:28:05 – 00:13:28:21
Tom
Hit, but.

00:13:28:22 – 00:13:33:01
Bunny
You want to tell everybody and you can’t you can’t just tell everybody.

00:13:33:03 – 00:13:43:03
Tom
Well, it depends on who you are. There are parents or that would go to their job and tell everyone, which we would never, ever advise.

00:13:43:05 – 00:13:44:11
Bunny
no.

00:13:44:13 – 00:14:03:25
Tom
we, I think Pineapple World is a sexual lifestyle. It’s not a marriage. It’s not, anything that you’re trying to achieve. They’re like nodding all and say, have the sexual freedom parade.

00:14:03:28 – 00:14:05:15
Bunny
Hey, I was going to say that.

00:14:05:18 – 00:14:06:06
Tom
Oh, sorry.

00:14:06:06 – 00:14:15:17
Bunny
So I was going to say so you can pretty much go with sexual freedom, right. And that’s exactly what what this lifestyle is all.

00:14:15:17 – 00:14:47:03
Tom
About right now. What the Sexual Freedom Parade is. It goes down Bourbon Street and through the French Quarter. And the one thing about it is it it kind of opens people eyes up. hey, there’s a lot of people that don’t have the chances that normal relationships have are that they are more sexually active, are sexual beings. I truly believe that, as a human race, we were never meant to be totally monogamous.

00:14:47:03 – 00:15:18:02
Tom
Sexually, we are committed to each other. Yes. Me and Bunny have been married 38 years. This, it was 24, and we’ve been together over 39 years. Some people would always say, oh, your marriage has gone, crash, or you’re going to get divorce. Now, me and Barney just know how to navigate, see? And that’s the key thing is knowing how to navigate the pineapple world and not I mean, we always tell we.

00:15:18:02 – 00:15:29:02
Tom
Oh, you used to tell people jump in with both feet and then back out of the waters to your comfort level, because if you go in too slowly, it kind of gets,

00:15:29:04 – 00:15:32:07
Bunny
Too many roles, too boring.

00:15:32:10 – 00:16:00:01
Tom
it’s just me and Barney are one role was we had a one seat for everything. Meaning if one of us did something the other really didn’t care to see afterwards, we would talk about the whole encounter. And if one of us said, hey, we had fun. But I really didn’t like this part of the encounter. Doesn’t matter what it is, it could be someone playing with her toes.

00:16:00:01 – 00:16:03:26
Tom
I don’t have a foot fetish, but I might have an issue with somebody.

00:16:03:29 – 00:16:04:14
Bunny
Yeah.

00:16:04:16 – 00:16:18:20
Tom
Doing something I wouldn’t do at home. I don’t know, I’m just making stuff up. But we agree that at that point we won’t cross that line again. We never crossed the line in the first place.

00:16:18:23 – 00:16:21:28
Bunny
No, we had a one because we had a yes, because we asserted.

00:16:21:28 – 00:16:23:28
Tom
We don’t hold it against each.

00:16:23:28 – 00:16:41:07
Bunny
Other. Not at all. Not at all. Now, her concern was it almost sounded as though her husband was looking for a poly relationship with another couple, and she didn’t want to do that. She thought it was just going to be more fun to go out and mix and mingle with multiple people.

00:16:41:07 – 00:16:41:25
Tom
Right?

00:16:41:28 – 00:16:55:26
Bunny
And, you know, like, that’s what I told her, you know, you’ve got to communicate this with your husband. And I said, but, you know, things always involve two. I mean, you may start one way, you might end up with another. Yeah.

00:16:55:29 – 00:17:11:05
Tom
Those couples that started off as pineapple and then turned poly. And then there’s people that wanted to start off poly and turned pineapple. I mean life is ever changing. Kind of like Garth Brooks. The song the River.

00:17:11:05 – 00:17:12:07
Bunny
Of course got.

00:17:12:07 – 00:17:13:13
Tom
A got a follower follow.

00:17:13:13 – 00:17:23:11
Bunny
Flows like, you know, we’re still in the pineapple world. But I mean, as far as doing anything, it’s been a long time.

00:17:23:12 – 00:17:49:06
Tom
Well, I’ve been broken for a long time, but I will say me and funny, we’re not so much selective, are picky some people, because that comes along as a negative connotation. We can be friends with pretty much everyone, and I always have to leave myself an out because there are people we never want to encounter ever, ever again.

00:17:49:06 – 00:17:51:15
Tom
Just because we weren’t expecting.

00:17:51:17 – 00:17:52:17
Bunny
Exactly, yes.

00:17:52:17 – 00:18:09:03
Tom
But when it comes to actually playing all the moons, how to line, we got to feel it and then we’re good with it. We don’t go out necessarily looking for.

00:18:09:06 – 00:18:10:09
Bunny
Exactly.

00:18:10:11 – 00:18:13:11
Tom
Because we don’t want to get disappointed. And, you.

00:18:13:11 – 00:18:28:16
Bunny
Know, there are a lot of misconceptions for people that are starting off in, into this life that if they go to a club or they go here, they go there, that they’ve got to play with just anybody that asks, absolutely not.

00:18:28:17 – 00:18:52:23
Tom
We’ve heard that from a lot of women. and it’s ironic, though, we heard that from a lot of women, and it’s mostly women. And I’ll tell you how I came up with this. Mostly it’s a women’s idea about getting into the lifestyle. When we ran a club, we ran it for 20 years, and I would whenever a new couple brand new.

00:18:52:23 – 00:19:34:03
Tom
I mean, big, bugged out eyes and just, you know, and I would always just have fun, open up general conversation. And one of my questions was always, whose idea was it to come here? Because our club was the first thing they ever did. The first place they were meeting people, first place they ever went to. So and a lot of times I would probably I mean, it was I don’t even I don’t have a percentage, but it was a high ratio of it was the woman’s idea and it kind of, I kind of shocked me because you were most people think it’s the guy’s idea.

00:19:34:05 – 00:19:39:24
Tom
The guy’s the dog because the guy is the sleazy one. But I’m not saying women are.

00:19:39:26 – 00:19:42:02
Bunny
But it’s.

00:19:42:05 – 00:19:50:01
Tom
I’m just saying that women are just a sexual. But out in the vanilla world, they don’t show up as much.

00:19:50:01 – 00:20:04:01
Bunny
No, not at all. Not at all. And you know, in that, in that kind of poses, one of the other questions that we get all the time from the creepy people that say, how do I how do I, get.

00:20:04:01 – 00:20:04:28
Tom
My wife into it?

00:20:04:29 – 00:20:10:14
Bunny
How do I talk my wife into this? Well, you don’t well, you don’t, you do.

00:20:10:16 – 00:20:12:13
Tom
There’s a way, which is a way.

00:20:12:16 – 00:20:15:17
Bunny
You talk to her about it. Yes.

00:20:15:19 – 00:20:17:01
Tom
You communicate?

00:20:17:03 – 00:20:18:16
Bunny
Yes.

00:20:18:18 – 00:20:43:29
Tom
So, yeah. I have we get probably half of our emails. Our messages we get half are from married men asking either telling us how they wish their wife was like, funny, are asking us how to talk their wife into it, even to the point of asking if we would talk their wife into it.

00:20:43:29 – 00:20:44:28
Bunny
Yeah, and that’s a big no.

00:20:44:29 – 00:20:55:01
Tom
That’s a big no. I mean, well, we’ll answer questions, we’ll talk to people. But the person has to be has to understand that what we’re talking about.

00:20:55:04 – 00:20:56:00
Bunny
Is.

00:20:56:02 – 00:21:04:13
Tom
We know we don’t want to throw out, a jaw dropper and just say, hey, you should wait. I mean, pineapple we.

00:21:04:13 – 00:21:05:20
Bunny
Have and we.

00:21:05:23 – 00:21:05:25
Tom
I.

00:21:06:01 – 00:21:31:12
Bunny
Actually haven’t heard this. The horror stories of, of a couple went to meet a couple, and the wife had no clue what was going on. No clue, because he he did all of the talking, all of the chatting back and forth. He sent all of her pictures to them, and she had no clue whatsoever that she was going on.

00:21:31:13 – 00:21:36:16
Bunny
Well, yeah. And that is just wrong in every sense of the word.

00:21:36:16 – 00:21:55:04
Tom
Yep. And we don’t agree with that. We started our videos. I don’t know how long ago I have to go back and see when the first video was done, but our videos actually started with there was a cup down by. Back then there was only a few content creators.

00:21:55:04 – 00:21:55:23
Bunny
Yeah there was.

00:21:55:24 – 00:22:18:15
Tom
We weren’t even a content creator at the time. We were just running a club. Yeah, and one thing that we noticed at the club was the pineapple. They didn’t call it pineapple people back then. They call them and cheers. I mean, let’s bring it back to where it is. They keep changing the terminology faster than we can keep.

00:22:18:15 – 00:22:22:15
Bunny
Oh, we we came along not too long after. Key part is.

00:22:22:19 – 00:22:53:24
Tom
Right. our wife. You a press? And I gotta say this because of the algorithm, so bear with me on this. But. So we had seen a video where the couple said s pineapple world was the best thing for your marriage, and you should get into it. And I looked at Bunny and I said, that is probably I could see divorce forces happening.

00:22:53:27 – 00:22:56:02
Bunny
And,

00:22:56:04 – 00:23:03:01
Tom
we set up our camera in our living room, because I go overboard and we say.

00:23:03:03 – 00:23:03:29
Bunny
Go big or go home.

00:23:03:29 – 00:23:30:11
Tom
Yeah. We set up a lighting, soft boxes, everything. And our first video was communication is the most important thing in your relationship. If you can communicate about anything, everything under the sun, you can not. I mean, it’s embarrassing. And if you could just muscle through the embarrassment and talk to your spouse.

00:23:30:14 – 00:23:32:23
Bunny
No, no no no. If you if.

00:23:32:26 – 00:23:34:26
Tom
I kiss, a lot of things are embarrassing to talk.

00:23:34:26 – 00:23:41:10
Bunny
I want to say, if you can ask your husband, hey, do I have a hair in my buttcrack you can talk about anything.

00:23:41:10 – 00:23:53:17
Tom
Wow. I did not expect that one, but yeah, if you could talk about a hair on your buttcrack, we could probably talk about pretty much everything.

00:23:53:17 – 00:23:54:22
Bunny
Yeah, exactly.

00:23:54:22 – 00:24:05:06
Tom
So if you could talk about your penile implant, you could probably talk about anything to everybody. if you want to go that route.

00:24:05:07 – 00:24:07:05
Bunny
Of course. Of course you got that right.

00:24:07:06 – 00:24:37:03
Tom
But, yeah, the the biggest thing is we don’t talk to wives. If you don’t, we never hear from wives talking the husbands into this. I mean, that’s probably the easier target, but we don’t talk to wives. I mean, we’ll answer the wives questions. We’ve actually had wives contact us and say, hey, my husband watched one of your videos and said communication is the best thing, and he brought up the pineapple world.

00:24:37:05 – 00:24:46:00
Tom
I have serious questions. Can I ask you questions? Absolutely. Yeah, we want, but we’re only giving our opinion.

00:24:46:03 – 00:24:47:13
Bunny
But yes.

00:24:47:16 – 00:24:48:06
Tom
What works for.

00:24:48:06 – 00:24:59:20
Bunny
Us, I mean, we’re an open book. If you call us and ask us questions or you want you have any concerns, definitely. We’ll talk to you. but I’m not going to try to talk somebody into it.

00:24:59:21 – 00:25:16:17
Tom
Right. And there is a whole lot of gamut to lifestyle people. starting off with there are you don’t actually have to physically, connect with somebody to be in this world.

00:25:16:19 – 00:25:29:20
Bunny
No, no. You know, we used to have a lot of people that came to our club that they just they were more exhibitionists. So they wanted to come dance erotically, pull their boobies out of their dress.

00:25:29:21 – 00:25:31:20
Tom
Right. So they want to be older.

00:25:31:22 – 00:25:41:15
Bunny
So we had that from, from all the way up. You imagine what people could do. And they did it. Yes. So there’s so much.

00:25:41:16 – 00:26:05:15
Tom
People just like to be around the pineapple people because the pineapple people are so much more honest and open. And now in today’s terminology now mind you we go back 2527 years in the pineapple world. So I’m going to kind of say terminology we use back then that we would get slaughtered for using today.

00:26:05:18 – 00:26:06:10
Bunny
Yes.

00:26:06:10 – 00:26:32:13
Tom
What our thought was if a couple came to our club and they didn’t want to, they didn’t want to physically touch another person. They just wanted to hang out, drink, have a good time, dance erotically, like Barney said, maybe get a little bit of naked. on the dance floor, or get up on our pole and be a stripper for a song or two for their husband.

00:26:32:15 – 00:26:44:12
Tom
We always said, and this is work. Don’t slaughter me. This is just what the mentality was 20 some years ago. One drink shy of being a pineapple world.

00:26:44:14 – 00:26:46:00
Bunny
True. Very true.

00:26:46:05 – 00:26:51:13
Tom
So drinking is a big thing in the pineapple world.

00:26:51:16 – 00:26:56:01
Bunny
it can make. It can make you make mistakes, too.

00:26:56:01 – 00:27:19:17
Tom
It can make you make a. But you just have to know that when you start drinking, you gotta own up to your. Yes, any mistakes that you feel you made and just get past that? because obviously the other people, they may be aware that you’re overly intoxicated, they may not be aware because they are just as intoxicated.

00:27:19:24 – 00:27:32:17
Tom
So hey, Mimi, I’m funny, have different thoughts around all the politically correct going around. If we if we lived by politically correct, there would be no pineapple World.

00:27:32:19 – 00:27:33:10
Bunny
No.

00:27:33:13 – 00:27:44:00
Tom
There wouldn’t be because everyone is going to find fault somewhere. And they have to rephrase the terminology because they they fault even the terminology so much.

00:27:44:00 – 00:27:45:00
Bunny
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:27:45:05 – 00:27:46:02
Tom
It’s it’s.

00:27:46:02 – 00:27:46:14
Bunny
Very.

00:27:46:14 – 00:27:50:04
Tom
Offended by certain phrases are words.

00:27:50:04 – 00:27:55:11
Bunny
Yeah. It’s very, very and it’s really hard to keep up with that because.

00:27:55:13 – 00:28:03:23
Tom
because before our terminology would change every five plus years now it seems like it changes every year.

00:28:03:24 – 00:28:07:01
Bunny
Oh it’s funny, Tom’s a tick tock guy.

00:28:07:04 – 00:28:08:14
Tom
I am a tick tock guy.

00:28:08:17 – 00:28:29:28
Bunny
if you see my tick tocks, they’re all dogs. I my dog is dogs. So there will be words that come out or phrases that come out. And I have to ask Tom, what does this mean? It’s like, are you kidding me? Right? I’m so far behind. But you know what? It’s where I’m comfortable with.

00:28:30:00 – 00:28:33:17
Tom
And this all entails what? Where we are.

00:28:33:19 – 00:28:34:23
Bunny
but no, that’s talking.

00:28:34:23 – 00:28:36:16
Tom
About the original sub.

00:28:36:17 – 00:28:53:07
Bunny
Yeah. So we. But, you know, I basically told her, hey, this is your life years and your husband’s life. You do with it however you want to go. And our our saying is always, you can only go as fast as the slowest person, right?

00:28:53:08 – 00:28:55:13
Tom
You and you. You can’t.

00:28:55:15 – 00:28:59:29
Bunny
You can’t fault each other for somebody being slower than the other one.

00:28:59:29 – 00:29:11:09
Tom
I only said that because I’m watching the microphones go up and down, and when funny turns my direction, I watch it go down. And then when she turns back. So it’s, not a blast. It’s just, I get blasted for.

00:29:11:10 – 00:29:12:28
Bunny
I know, I know, for me.

00:29:13:03 – 00:29:18:25
Tom
We talked to each other because I read lips and I have my cochlear on so I can actually hear.

00:29:18:28 – 00:29:19:09
Bunny
On this.

00:29:19:09 – 00:29:25:03
Tom
Side, on this side. Now, if she was on this side, I’d be like, why?

00:29:25:05 – 00:29:34:12
Bunny
But did you even hear what I said? No, she. This is what I live with. He had no clue what I even said.

00:29:34:13 – 00:29:35:18
Tom
Said all over again.

00:29:35:20 – 00:29:37:11
Bunny
I said, you can only go as.

00:29:37:14 – 00:29:39:11
Tom
Fast as the slowest person. I did hear.

00:29:39:11 – 00:29:40:10
Bunny
That. What I said after that.

00:29:40:13 – 00:29:41:04
Tom
I don’t know.

00:29:41:06 – 00:29:46:12
Bunny
You can’t fault each other for somebody going slower than the other one.

00:29:46:14 – 00:30:20:07
Tom
Correct. And my, my thing. I always tell couples, especially new new couples talk, talk, talk meaning talk before you go anywhere or meet anybody or anything but scenarios in your head. I know it’s kind of, it could get stressful. You can get anxieties. Yeah, but you should be prepared for the encounter. If you’re going to meet a couple at a bar or dinner, do you have an out?

00:30:20:10 – 00:30:40:08
Tom
I mean, because you could walk in and as Bonnie says, the first two, three, four words out of a guy’s mouth, she knows right then and there if she even wants to communicate any further. So you got to have an out and the babysitter thing doesn’t work. Don’t get a fake phone call. Go get the babysitter out.

00:30:40:08 – 00:30:57:25
Tom
Gotta go. No, no, just be honest. Just say, hey, we don’t think it’s going to work out and we don’t want to waste your time. And we don’t want to spend $150 on a dinner sitting with people. We have no nothing in common with. You don’t have to be that dramatic. But you.

00:30:57:25 – 00:30:58:16
Bunny
Have.

00:30:58:19 – 00:30:59:10
Tom
My buddy.

00:30:59:12 – 00:30:59:20
Bunny
Buddy.

00:30:59:20 – 00:31:22:17
Tom
Turn her back on a couple. But the guy was an arrogant chauvinist. Yes. So when she did that, I’m a nice guy. I had to sit there for 45 minutes and endure the other couple. Meanwhile, Bonnie has her back. She’s talking to another table. She’s talking the waitresses. And this guy thinks he has a chance with her. And I’m like, you don’t read body language.

00:31:22:20 – 00:31:34:11
Tom
Apparently it’s a deaf skill because I can read body language, facial expressions, lips. Yeah, yeah. I mean, when someone turns their back on me, I know. Okay, it’s time to end.

00:31:34:11 – 00:31:48:28
Bunny
You know, we’ve been we’ve been in this long enough to that we know each other’s, what are each other’s likes and dislikes. And so, I mean, we both will almost no immediate leave.

00:31:49:01 – 00:32:18:17
Tom
Oh, yeah. I mean, so, Harry Harrison out for new couples that we used to use, and it worked really, really well. It still works today. Not so much for us, because if people have seen our videos, but in the conversation within so much time, you can actually talk about the weather. No matter if it’s hot or cold, rainy doesn’t matter.

00:32:18:21 – 00:32:44:10
Tom
You could talk about the weather, but the weather is the code for you guys. So I would look at Bonnie and, all right, look at the general conversation. I would say if I was interested in, other female, I would say, Holy cow. Bonnie, did you see that record temperature in Arizona? And Bonnie would reply back either.

00:32:44:10 – 00:32:56:01
Tom
Yeah, it was really hot. Meaning she was hot for the other guy, or she would talk about how call that was in Iowa.

00:32:56:03 – 00:33:18:21
Tom
Immediately, if she said the word cold, I knew that it was time to start backing out of the conversation and oh, because we don’t want, rooster block another couple ever. So there’s no reason, especially in a club setting our hotel take over, that you occupy someone’s time because they’re in a very short time frame.

00:33:18:28 – 00:33:32:18
Bunny
And you will find people, and people go, oh, that was really rude. But no, it’s not rude. The people will come up and be like, you know, within the first five minutes, hey, are you guys players? Would you be interested?

00:33:32:20 – 00:33:34:27
Tom
Hold on. We we like to get to know people.

00:33:34:27 – 00:33:51:22
Bunny
Yeah, I mean, we I met this one couple one time and they literally came up and they sat at our table and they go, so do you think there’s a chance of us and they said the word f u c k. And I’m like, nope. And he goes, hey, great guess. now you just saved me an hour, right?

00:33:51:22 – 00:34:17:02
Tom
And we were all good with that. And they’re no offense. they’re there is going to be a very high, high, high probability unless you’re in it for play. And there’s nothing wrong with that either. Absolutely not that you won’t make a match with other people. There are people that go to parties and don’t hook up multiple parties, many parties.

00:34:17:04 – 00:34:20:21
Tom
Then there’s people that go to a party and hook up ten times in one.

00:34:20:21 – 00:34:31:08
Bunny
Night, and there’s people that just absolutely love sex and they don’t care with who. And more power to them. I mean, it is you.

00:34:31:10 – 00:34:35:05
Tom
At the pineapple world. You see a lot of people lose focus on that.

00:34:35:10 – 00:34:44:28
Bunny
But and then, like I said, there’s other ones that might once a year and there is nothing wrong with where you go with this.

00:34:44:28 – 00:34:45:19
Tom
Right.

00:34:45:22 – 00:34:53:28
Bunny
And so I am going to lead us right into an advertising life, not an advertising.

00:34:53:28 – 00:34:55:07
Tom
We’re not advertising nothing.

00:34:55:07 – 00:34:57:15
Bunny
Nope. So I basically told you.

00:34:57:16 – 00:35:00:24
Tom
Say the word advertising. You’re you’re going to lose half of our honey.

00:35:00:25 – 00:35:02:05
Bunny
All right. So we’re not advertising.

00:35:02:08 – 00:35:03:29
Tom
Except for Tom’s trips.

00:35:04:02 – 00:35:11:04
Bunny
Exactly. So I told her because she had so many different questions on different things that I couldn’t answer her on.

00:35:11:10 – 00:35:11:21
Tom
Right.

00:35:11:27 – 00:35:16:10
Bunny
So I told her there is a great convention coming up at the end of June.

00:35:16:10 – 00:35:20:17
Tom
We actually wrote down a list of the places we’re going to be. Yeah, through the month of June.

00:35:20:17 – 00:35:40:10
Bunny
But if for any of you that are really, really new to this and that, want to explore different options and different things and learn at different seminars and, talk to thousands of people nodding in New Orleans. Yeah, it’s the place to be.

00:35:40:13 – 00:35:54:09
Tom
Yeah. It is the world’s largest pineapple convention, and upwards to 2500 people on Bourbon Street for 4 or 5 days now. We’ll be there for.

00:35:54:13 – 00:35:57:08
Bunny
We come in Wednesday morning and it.

00:35:57:08 – 00:36:00:19
Tom
Starts on Tuesday, but it’s mild on TV.

00:36:00:19 – 00:36:01:25
Bunny
Yeah. Where do you.

00:36:01:25 – 00:36:06:04
Tom
Say it starts building Thursday and Friday.

00:36:06:07 – 00:36:06:18
Bunny
Yeah.

00:36:06:20 – 00:36:08:01
Tom
Be prepared.

00:36:08:03 – 00:36:16:22
Bunny
So you’re going to eat there. Things start at 10 a.m.. I mean from different seminars on newbies to.

00:36:16:24 – 00:36:17:12
Tom
Massage.

00:36:17:13 – 00:36:26:29
Bunny
Massages to speed dating to poorly. by the way, you name it, you’re going to find it there.

00:36:27:07 – 00:36:33:25
Tom
And most seminars are free. There are some paid ones, but if they’re paid, there’s a reason why.

00:36:34:00 – 00:36:34:15
Bunny
And not.

00:36:34:16 – 00:36:35:15
Tom
You got to sign up for.

00:36:35:15 – 00:36:40:26
Bunny
Those. And there just seminars. There’s, Bourbon Street parties.

00:36:40:26 – 00:36:52:23
Tom
There’s couples. The seminars are. Yeah. Would be probably key. then, you, you start off at noon party.

00:36:52:25 – 00:36:53:19
Bunny
Start your party.

00:36:53:19 – 00:37:17:22
Tom
Honestly, there are two parties that start at noon every single day. and then at 3:00, two more open up and noon one is kind of, shut down and they open up for, but they are closed off to only the attendees for this convention. It is so bold, seem to get in that the line starts almost an hour before the event.

00:37:17:25 – 00:37:38:21
Tom
Tom’s trips, me and Bonnie will be there along with our host, Mike and Denise, and we will be doing. We’re not sure yet. you know, it’s probably going to be fat cats on Friday at noon. And if you’re going to be an audience, we invite you to join us at noon at Fat Cats.

00:37:38:23 – 00:37:41:10
Bunny
You are very positive that you’re going to get that time.

00:37:41:10 – 00:37:53:21
Tom
Slot. I think I think we are. And if it’s not fat cats, it’ll be bandstand. But I think it’s going to be fat cats because that with I got the choice, parties and I put fat cats as the priority.

00:37:53:21 – 00:38:11:16
Bunny
Yeah. So but, you know, it’s just a great place to go and to meet people. And then after that, and before they have the ballroom parties at 9:00 at night, they have multiple meet and greets on what you’re looking for. Yeah. Five couples poly couples fetish.

00:38:11:19 – 00:38:30:27
Tom
And their priority. so if you’re, by a couple you’re not going to be out in the lobby. They’re actually going to have a room specifically. So that way you don’t have lurkers or people leering to see who the by couples are.

00:38:30:28 – 00:38:31:20
Bunny
Yeah.

00:38:31:22 – 00:38:39:18
Tom
they’ll actually have to go into the room. Poly couples, they’ll probably have their own room, and then they’ll have a main meet and greet. And that’s the ballroom.

00:38:39:18 – 00:38:45:19
Bunny
Now, currently, I mean, we are only three weeks out or weeks out from this major event.

00:38:45:21 – 00:38:48:22
Tom
The 2nd June 28th through the 30th.

00:38:48:25 – 00:38:56:10
Bunny
The two main hotels are already sold out, but they do have another overflow hotel. I mean, Tom and I are not even staying in the main hotel.

00:38:56:11 – 00:38:57:05
Tom
No.

00:38:57:07 – 00:39:09:27
Bunny
We are staying off. We’re only staying a block away, but it’s just going to be, great. Great week and a very good learning for the newbies.

00:39:10:01 – 00:39:22:08
Tom
And these events are great to just go to, not just not in all ones, but there’s a lot of hotel takeovers. There’s, we’re going we’re going to sooner swing. We’re leaving at four in the morning.

00:39:22:08 – 00:39:23:13
Bunny
Yep. So yeah.

00:39:23:14 – 00:39:27:28
Tom
Four in the morning. This video will actually come out after we’ve looked here.

00:39:27:29 – 00:39:35:22
Bunny
Yes. So I mean we’re going to sooner swing in Oklahoma. They already have over 800 people coming for this weekend.

00:39:35:23 – 00:39:37:07
Tom
Hundreds of people at a.

00:39:37:07 – 00:39:43:05
Bunny
Campground, at a campground. also going on this weekend, it’s the splash party.

00:39:43:05 – 00:39:43:15
Tom
Yeah.

00:39:43:15 – 00:39:51:20
Bunny
And Atlanta and Atlanta, which is another really good sign that, we’ve been to splash. We have not.

00:39:51:20 – 00:39:52:19
Tom
Been to Lauderdale.

00:39:52:22 – 00:39:56:08
Bunny
We have not been to Atlanta.

00:39:56:09 – 00:39:57:11
Tom
No, we haven’t been to it.

00:39:57:14 – 00:40:13:04
Bunny
But we will because it’s only four hours from us. Right. But, they have splash parties in Atlanta, Fort Lauderdale and Houston, Houston. And so there’s so many great, great. Right.

00:40:13:04 – 00:40:30:25
Tom
And like I say, then there’s all the hotel takeovers. I mean, there’s just so many. We can’t even list them all. Then you got your regular clubs. Now the club we’re going to go to, not this weekend but the next Friday. We’re only go in there Friday night because we’re going to a wedding Saturday.

00:40:31:01 – 00:40:36:14
Bunny
So Friday, June 7th, we will be at the corral.

00:40:36:16 – 00:40:39:02
Tom
You know, that’s that corral welcome.

00:40:39:07 – 00:40:40:04
Bunny
With the K.

00:40:40:06 – 00:40:50:19
Tom
Yeah. So if you want to meet us, come out Friday night. I don’t know how late they will be there, but, we’re going to we’re we’re leaving here Thursday. They get there for Friday.

00:40:50:19 – 00:40:53:20
Bunny
So that’s the corral and Spring Grove, Pennsylvania.

00:40:53:20 – 00:41:00:18
Tom
Yes. And some people have asked. I’m four hours away. Five hours away. We’re 12 and we’re driving.

00:41:00:20 – 00:41:01:21
Bunny
So.

00:41:01:23 – 00:41:17:26
Tom
Yeah, they always say, is it worth it? I don’t know if it’s worth it for you or not. It is for us. We absolutely love the car. We love the people. We would recommend it to anybody, but we don’t want somebody say, oh, Tom, my buddy recommended it and we hated it because it’s not your cup of tea.

00:41:17:26 – 00:41:18:23
Bunny
It’s this.

00:41:18:24 – 00:41:25:23
Tom
It’s something that you should experience on your own the first time and make your own decision.

00:41:25:25 – 00:41:32:12
Bunny
It’s in in. It’s bad. It’s bad to say. But Tom and I have a rule. You always try things twice.

00:41:32:14 – 00:41:34:07
Tom
Because maybe.

00:41:34:09 – 00:41:35:18
Bunny
Make.

00:41:35:20 – 00:41:37:20
Tom
Or sometimes you.

00:41:37:22 – 00:41:50:24
Bunny
Yeah, but we’ve gone back to different places and we had a completely different feel. Right. Just it every night. And we know this from running an on premise club for 20 years, every night is different than the.

00:41:50:24 – 00:42:18:13
Tom
Other every single night. And if you have a bad experience one night, you might have a phenomenal experience. You might have a phenomenal experience. Can’t wait to get back. And it doesn’t meet your expectations. And you leave there with a negative thought in your head. Just remember it varies per the party theme. The day of the week. If you’re going during Mother’s Day weekend, it’s going to suck.

00:42:18:16 – 00:42:31:29
Bunny
Yeah, typically, if you’re going on a three day weekend like Memorial Day or Labor Day, they generally are a lot slower because everybody’s out on their boat. So we have our little theme vacations. So yeah.

00:42:32:02 – 00:42:48:22
Tom
Graduation. So it of you got to look at the holidays. You got to look at what is happening around that might, detract from yeah, the venue. And if there is nothing going on around your venues, probably going to be hopping.

00:42:48:25 – 00:43:00:26
Bunny
Well, I know, there’s a club in Iowa and, the Friday opening Friday night fair, they just closed the club because no one’s going to be there. Right? Everybody goes to the Iowa State Fair.

00:43:00:28 – 00:43:02:03
Tom
Yeah.

00:43:02:05 – 00:43:03:25
Bunny
So, I mean, yeah.

00:43:03:27 – 00:43:08:13
Tom
We actually lived in Iowa for a year and a half. Don’t ask us why.

00:43:08:16 – 00:43:09:07
Bunny
We don’t even know.

00:43:09:09 – 00:43:12:21
Tom
We actually started our pineapple.

00:43:12:24 – 00:43:15:26
Bunny
And we did our, I guess, our journey, our.

00:43:15:26 – 00:43:16:17
Tom
Journey.

00:43:16:17 – 00:43:18:07
Bunny
Our pineapple journey started.

00:43:18:07 – 00:43:25:26
Tom
Living in a small town of 800 people was a no no, 898. We had 96 houses, 96 houses.

00:43:25:26 – 00:43:27:17
Bunny
It did have 97, but one burned.

00:43:27:19 – 00:44:02:20
Tom
Out there and the fire department watched it burn down. And, so anyway, we’ll be at the corral, not this Friday, but next Friday, June 7th. Yeah, seven. Then what’s the next hedonism? We’re back to hedonism and we will be there with Cassidy. Crush. Cassidy crush is. It’s a younger crowd because we actually time around teachers. Yes, because the teachers wanted to come, but they had school and everything, so we kind of navigated it to where they can attend.

00:44:02:26 – 00:44:12:23
Tom
So it tends to be a little on the younger side. And when I say younger side, it’s not 1821. It’s probably in mid 30s,

00:44:12:25 – 00:44:14:16
Bunny
Or like 40s or.

00:44:14:19 – 00:44:19:24
Tom
The 40s. Yeah. So we’re the old ones. We are, we’re the cool and Uncle.

00:44:20:19 – 00:44:21:27
Tom
Well, that’s what they tell us.

00:44:21:27 – 00:44:23:04
Bunny
I know.

00:44:23:06 – 00:44:26:22
Tom
But what? They kick us out of bed. Fruit and crackers, you know.

00:44:26:24 – 00:44:27:13
Bunny
Maybe not.

00:44:27:13 – 00:44:30:13
Tom
We’ll have to find out.

00:44:30:16 – 00:44:32:14
Bunny
maybe not this time, though.

00:44:32:17 – 00:44:39:28
Tom
And then when? This time. Then we come back in three days later where we do our lines for Nadia and Mullins.

00:44:40:00 – 00:44:45:04
Bunny
And you know what? I. I’m very, very giddy about going back to Nadia. It’s been it’s.

00:44:45:06 – 00:44:46:20
Tom
It’s been five years. It’s.

00:44:46:26 – 00:44:51:25
Bunny
Yeah. Because we didn’t get 2019 was the last time we went.

00:44:52:02 – 00:44:52:24
Tom
There you go.

00:44:52:26 – 00:44:55:28
Bunny
And so. So it was our.

00:44:56:01 – 00:45:04:17
Tom
Claim to fame is we were awarded our how when they announce are they. We were.

00:45:04:20 – 00:45:06:00
Bunny
Presented as.

00:45:06:02 – 00:45:25:13
Tom
We are presented as the king and queen. not in New Orleans on Bourbon Street and we got to ride in a float. The the, bunch of guys push these floats down. Yeah. Previous kings and queens and other Royal Corps. So that was actually kind of fun. Actually. It was a lot of fun.

00:45:25:13 – 00:45:32:07
Bunny
It was a lot of fun. And naughty in New Orleans has always been our one of our favorite events to go to.

00:45:32:10 – 00:45:42:11
Tom
Because there’s so much going on. I mean, you do breakfast, lunch and dinner on your own. I mean, they do have, a brunch, and.

00:45:42:14 – 00:45:43:12
Bunny
I don’t even know if they’re I.

00:45:43:12 – 00:45:48:14
Tom
Don’t think they’re having it anymore because it’s really a that’s a hard one to,

00:45:48:16 – 00:45:51:07
Bunny
There’s a lot of. They have pizza at midnight.

00:45:51:08 – 00:46:10:17
Tom
Yeah. If you’re in the playrooms, they bring in, like, hundreds of pizzas, and some people will just go up to the playroom just to get pizza and people like, oh, no, no, no, it’s all sanitary. It’s good. Yeah. And that’s probably some of the best pizza. I don’t remember the name of the place, but Crescent City pizza.

00:46:10:17 – 00:46:11:21
Bunny
And do they get it from Crescent?

00:46:11:21 – 00:46:15:14
Tom
I believe so, because that’s where, we got it for Cassidy.

00:46:15:14 – 00:46:20:28
Bunny
That’s what we’re having for lunch on that one Tuesday, I remember. Yep. That’s the first thing we’re having for lunch on that Wednesday.

00:46:20:28 – 00:46:28:15
Tom
If you haven’t had Crescent City Pizza on Bourbon Street, every place sells pizza. Crescent city sells really good pizza.

00:46:28:17 – 00:46:36:01
Bunny
And it’s it’s down there. It’s probably a good 4 or 5 blocks from the from the resort. And it doesn’t.

00:46:36:03 – 00:46:36:28
Tom
Matter if you’re walking.

00:46:36:28 – 00:46:37:05
Bunny
From.

00:46:37:05 – 00:46:43:11
Tom
Canal Street down Bourbon Street. Yeah. Towards the, pirate bar.

00:46:43:13 – 00:46:44:22
Bunny
Oh, John Lafitte’s. Yeah.

00:46:44:28 – 00:46:58:03
Tom
And you, everyone has to go there. That’s pretty much the end of Bourbon Street. Yeah. So you walk from Canal all the way down to John the Feets and it’s all candlelit. It’s like you’re in the 1700s. It’s really cool.

00:46:58:03 – 00:47:08:24
Bunny
So, yeah, I’m really, really looking forward to going back. And, you know, and for us, it’s like being newbies all over again too, because it’s been so long.

00:47:08:24 – 00:47:09:27
Tom
So we’re going to be fresh meat.

00:47:09:28 – 00:47:12:27
Bunny
We are going to be freshmen, but no one’s going to know who we are.

00:47:12:28 – 00:47:15:18
Tom
I don’t know if my name.

00:47:15:19 – 00:47:16:08
Bunny
Yeah, I don’t.

00:47:16:08 – 00:47:24:13
Tom
Know if it’s gonna work yet or not. I it works, but I don’t know. It’s still painful. Yeah, yeah. So I, I’m going to have to heel for a while.

00:47:24:14 – 00:47:27:04
Bunny
I have to be very, very gentle, very gentle.

00:47:27:07 – 00:47:28:05
Tom
Just lay there.

00:47:28:05 – 00:47:28:18
Bunny
And leave.

00:47:28:18 – 00:47:29:16
Tom
Time. Don’t move.

00:47:29:18 – 00:47:30:07
Bunny
And we’ve talked.

00:47:30:07 – 00:47:31:15
Tom
Before. Lock your hips.

00:47:31:16 – 00:47:33:21
Bunny
We’ve talked before. I’m not really gentle.

00:47:33:21 – 00:47:34:22
Tom
Don’t push back.

00:47:34:26 – 00:47:38:06
Bunny
Don’t just lay there.

00:47:38:06 – 00:47:40:06
Tom
Just let me do my thing.

00:47:40:08 – 00:47:41:18
Bunny
Just be a pillow princess.

00:47:41:19 – 00:47:45:06
Tom
There you go. Yep. So, yeah, I know.

00:47:45:08 – 00:47:48:09
Bunny
That’s not easy for me.

00:47:48:11 – 00:48:17:10
Tom
We I mean, we’re we’re looking forward. We’re going to be going to more larger events. We’ve been going to more clubs in more specific locations like the corral, vibe and Nashville. Yeah. Our Murfreesboro. we’re going to specific clubs. We have a host couple that go to trapeze, and they’re going to tempted in Lexington, this month.

00:48:17:14 – 00:48:20:19
Bunny
Yep. June 14th, June 15th and 16th.

00:48:20:19 – 00:48:37:03
Tom
Okay. So but I mean, you’re meeting the, general location of that specific club we like to go to where people travel in, like, splash party. not in the hotel parties.

00:48:37:04 – 00:48:38:28
Bunny
I mean, we just came back from Vegas.

00:48:38:28 – 00:48:42:04
Tom
Yep. And there was a lot of people that flew in for that one.

00:48:42:07 – 00:48:55:04
Bunny
Yeah. So it it we’re kind of getting back to, almost like a grassroots yacht, which is what we started and, and we’re just ready to hit the ground running again.

00:48:55:12 – 00:49:03:00
Tom
Right. So again, the best thing to do is and I didn’t finish off, I talked about talking about.

00:49:03:00 – 00:49:05:26
Bunny
Finished off this morning.

00:49:05:28 – 00:49:12:14
Tom
Wow. We talked about discussing all the, hypotheticals.

00:49:12:14 – 00:49:12:29
Bunny
Yes.

00:49:13:05 – 00:49:37:08
Tom
But what we didn’t talk about is me and Bonnie always discuss when we come home at night. No two things happen. Whether anything happen or not. We discuss what we liked about the night, what we didn’t care for or anything like that. But what if if nothing happened? We. You do have to question why did nothing happen? Was it us?

00:49:37:09 – 00:49:44:04
Tom
Was it them? Was it one of us? Why were we putting that? Don’t approach us.

00:49:44:07 – 00:49:48:05
Bunny
It usually stems from bunny tops. Too much.

00:49:48:09 – 00:49:57:19
Tom
Yes, but I talk too much on camera. So I could talk forever on camera. But when it’s out of club, I know when to shut up.

00:49:57:21 – 00:50:04:16
Bunny
But it’s kind of even. Even after all these years, you still get giddy and you still get nervous.

00:50:04:18 – 00:50:25:00
Tom
Oh, we still. Oh yeah, we still get really nervous. And people are like, oh, you’re the experienced people. No no no no, no, we don’t play that much. We really don’t play that much. And we’re fine with that. the, the main focus is it’s us.

00:50:25:06 – 00:50:25:21
Bunny
Yes.

00:50:25:22 – 00:50:29:27
Tom
And we won’t let anything interfere with our relation itself.

00:50:29:29 – 00:50:30:15
Bunny
No.

00:50:30:17 – 00:50:56:27
Tom
So we won’t take one for the team now, taking one for the team is such a nagging negative connotation. Taking one for the team just means one of you are physically attracted to the other person. It doesn’t mean they’re a bad person or anything like that. It just means that you don’t want to get physically intimate with someone you’re not physically attracted to.

00:50:56:29 – 00:51:21:07
Tom
And unfortunately, in this pineapple world there, there’s a lot of mismatched couples. Me and buddy are probably mismatched to a lot of other couples. Couples may want Bunny, but not me. they may want me and not Bunny. I know that’s the rarity. I know I’m pat myself on the back stroking my own ego here, but it is what it is.

00:51:21:09 – 00:51:42:26
Tom
Whatever. one of our encounters was, hedonism, and it just happened to be a single female and a single guy. Yeah. So it worked out. It did really well. because it was a couple that one of us was hit or miss on.

00:51:42:27 – 00:52:07:05
Bunny
Right? Right. And, you know, and think it happens. I mean, like you said, the stars aligned, at that. But our biggest thing is we always come home and we talk about it. And, if, and this is the new, new phrase, but we always say we, we, we claim each other if we played, but I don’t call it reclaim.

00:52:07:05 – 00:52:08:18
Bunny
We reconnect.

00:52:08:21 – 00:52:32:01
Tom
Yeah. So after if we do have a physical encounter with somebody, I’m using the right proper wording that doesn’t get us kicked off the algorithm. You if we have a physical interaction with another couple, sometimes there are single females, sometimes there are single men. But we focus more on, both of us playing.

00:52:32:06 – 00:52:32:29
Bunny
Yes.

00:52:33:01 – 00:52:53:21
Tom
Our interacting. Yes. So when we do come home, we get physically intimate with each other. Because the last thing I want to do is one of us doesn’t wake up in the morning, and the other one has to go through the rest of their life knowing that the last person that person was physically intimate with was not me.

00:52:53:23 – 00:52:58:00
Tom
So call it, low self-esteem.

00:52:58:03 – 00:53:12:01
Bunny
It. This is a morbid, even a morbid thought, but we’ve even discussed it. If if there’s anything that happens in the middle of play and God forbid, you know, one of us has a heart attack, you push off the other partner and jump on.

00:53:12:04 – 00:53:24:28
Tom
Oh, and if I have the heart attack, Bunny knows how to. Well, she has to learn how to fight the new one. But I don’t want to go to the morgue or the hospital with, a stiffy.

00:53:25:01 – 00:53:26:03
Bunny
What did they. What did?

00:53:26:03 – 00:53:41:20
Tom
That one they called a forklift. Because there’s two tubes, and I. In a future video, I’ll show you what the whole implant looks like. But there’s a tube on each side of the shaft, so they call it a forklift because they’re both,

00:53:41:22 – 00:53:42:01
Bunny
Yeah.

00:53:42:08 – 00:54:02:12
Tom
So I don’t want to be called a forklift. So I got to show Bunny where the new button is because it was high right now it’s low middle. Yeah. So yeah, it’s something happens to me. She’s just going to press. I also have to do with press for a second and then it will eventually go down all on its own.

00:54:02:14 – 00:54:09:04
Bunny
I’m not a crazy driver. We’re crazy. We’re. Yeah, but hey, that’s us. That’s us.

00:54:09:05 – 00:54:09:17
Tom
What are we?

00:54:09:20 – 00:54:14:25
Bunny
So, We’re, Time to go pack.

00:54:14:28 – 00:54:15:25
Tom
What time?

00:54:15:27 – 00:54:17:20
Bunny
We’re at 53 minutes. Oh, we’re.

00:54:17:26 – 00:54:18:10
Tom
Under an.

00:54:18:10 – 00:54:23:08
Bunny
Hour. Yeah, I told you, I know it’s giving me 30 minutes.

00:54:23:10 – 00:54:28:01
Tom
Yeah, well, we always start off our video saying we’re going to be 30 minutes, and then.

00:54:28:04 – 00:54:28:17
Bunny
Right.

00:54:28:18 – 00:54:30:20
Tom
One of us doesn’t shut up.

00:54:30:22 – 00:54:38:27
Bunny
It’s because now I’m looking at it. Tom wants to go to bed in one hour and 40 minutes. We still have to make dinner and we still have to pack in the car.

00:54:39:03 – 00:54:42:10
Tom
we’ll probably go out to dinner.

00:54:42:12 – 00:54:47:25
Bunny
I I’m to send Tom to the store for a dinner run, and I’ll finish packing.

00:54:47:28 – 00:55:15:14
Tom
So if you want to meet us, definitely. I got to update our Tom and money.com. I, I stopped doing it for a while because we were getting some stalkers, and I’ll be honest, they made us very nervous putting out too early where we are going to go. Yes. Sometimes it’s better to put out after you’ve gone, and then they can learn about it and then book next year and stuff like that.

00:55:15:16 – 00:55:38:03
Tom
So but yeah, we just told you where we’re going to be for June. I know it’s for short notice, but if you’d like to meet us, not in noggins, it’s naughty hyphen. the-events.com aren’t go to Tom strobes.com and just scroll down. Yeah don’t go to night hyphen events because we make a commission. If you just book it and it cost you no more.

00:55:38:06 – 00:55:41:22
Bunny
So yeah go to Tom’s tips.com and it’s underneath.

00:55:41:25 – 00:55:43:08
Tom
just scroll down to main page and.

00:55:43:08 – 00:55:43:19
Bunny
You’ll see.

00:55:43:19 – 00:55:45:19
Tom
It and just click on the naughty.

00:55:45:19 – 00:55:49:02
Bunny
And I. And I know it works because somebody just booked one today.

00:55:49:04 – 00:55:49:20
Tom
Oh did.

00:55:49:22 – 00:55:52:12
Bunny
Yes. Oh.

00:55:52:14 – 00:56:16:11
Tom
So and that’s how we’re able to do these videos. Yeah. You support us by booking travel. It costs you no more money and you might save money depending on like our group trips to hedonism. You actually save money booking to Tom’s trips. And we are the leader, the leader in hedonism. Travel throughout the year with over 20 group trips.

00:56:16:11 – 00:56:19:23
Tom
We book more rooms at hedonism than anybody else.

00:56:19:25 – 00:56:20:18
Bunny
That we do for.

00:56:20:18 – 00:56:23:09
Tom
30 years our company has been in business.

00:56:23:11 – 00:56:31:21
Bunny
Yes, yes, we’ve been really working hard to come at. We making a big comeback after Covid.

00:56:31:21 – 00:56:33:01
Tom
Covid was having.

00:56:33:01 – 00:56:47:19
Bunny
Her that kicked everybody’s butts. And you know what? We, swept off the dust and we came back with a vengeance. And, we’re bigger and better than not bigger and better. We are bigger and better than before.

00:56:47:20 – 00:56:53:06
Tom
Right now. We probably didn’t fully answer the question that was asked.

00:56:53:09 – 00:56:54:25
Bunny
Because that’s the money.

00:56:54:26 – 00:57:06:25
Tom
That’s us. We just randomly talk. I mean, we could answer the question in two minutes, but we like to talk.

00:57:06:27 – 00:57:12:13
Tom
I’d like to talk if you couldn’t see. A bunny was pointing at me.

00:57:12:16 – 00:57:18:00
Bunny
All right, we need to get off this. they need to,

00:57:18:02 – 00:57:18:25
Tom
They need to go eat.

00:57:18:26 – 00:57:30:07
Bunny
They need to go eat. Oh, can I do a shout out to Jack and Diane, who just booked with me? And I know that they watch us while they’re at their home gym. I, Jack and Diane.

00:57:30:10 – 00:57:31:24
Tom
We should play the song.

00:57:31:26 – 00:57:33:08
Bunny
Right?

00:57:33:11 – 00:57:35:09
Tom
Little ditty? Yeah, by Jack and.

00:57:35:09 – 00:57:37:19
Bunny
I, of course.

00:57:37:22 – 00:57:45:08
Tom
So, yeah. definitely. Come travel with us. We. We’d love to meet people. don’t be a stalker.

00:57:45:10 – 00:57:47:23
Bunny
No, no, don’t.

00:57:47:25 – 00:57:48:13
Tom
Oh, and.

00:57:48:13 – 00:57:53:02
Bunny
Don’t don’t make us, take down all of our schedule because they’re stalking either.

00:57:53:02 – 00:58:02:02
Tom
And if you email us, our DM us and we don’t respond, we don’t respond to. Hey. Hi.

00:58:02:04 – 00:58:04:09
Bunny
You’re hot, you’re hot.

00:58:04:12 – 00:58:14:11
Tom
I want to play, I mean, right, can I ask a question? We don’t even respond to that. Ask the question and we shall respond. Yes, maybe.

00:58:14:13 – 00:58:17:23
Bunny
Respond. Send a whole sentence.

00:58:17:26 – 00:58:19:25
Tom
Send something of substance.

00:58:19:26 – 00:58:20:23
Bunny
Yeah.

00:58:20:25 – 00:58:22:14
Tom
I mean.

00:58:22:16 – 00:58:23:28
Bunny
All right. I was like, no.

00:58:24:01 – 00:58:24:14
Tom
It’s just the.

00:58:24:14 – 00:58:25:17
Bunny
Other day, I know.

00:58:25:19 – 00:58:30:26
Tom
Literally going hundreds down and seeing stuff that I should have replied two months ago.

00:58:30:28 – 00:58:34:21
Bunny
All right. Well, he’ll reply, I’ll reply.

00:58:34:23 – 00:58:36:00
Tom
All right, until next time.

00:58:36:05 – 00:58:37:05
Bunny
We’ll see you soon.

00:58:37:05 – 00:58:38:12
Tom
We’ll see you soon.