Dear Tom and Bunny
Can a relationship go back to exactly how it was after one cheats?
We don’t condone cheating for any reason whats so ever. we often hear all the time that they love their spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend or whatever they identify as. We know people can have a lot of love for each other in a sexless commitment however we also know that in our instance, we initially got together as we had a sexual attraction for each other and thankfully we still have that sexual attraction if not more today than before. Cheating is a very hard breach of trust with most people, while some can get past it, is it going to go back exactly as it was before? we don’t think it would, regardless if the other person says they fully forgive the person who cheated, it would be something they will remember for the rest of their lives.
Can two people get past the cheating, very possible, and we know that people forgive all the time, we know we have done things in our lives that the other one of us may not have agreed with and is willing to move past that situation as the current situation is much better than the unknown.
Would our relationship go back to exactly the way it was? No it couldn’t because of the trust. it would take many years of trust to be on the same page however there will always be that twinge of doubt and it would be something that needed to be worked on for life and if you love the person you are with and you were the one cheating, you have to always and forever remind her or him how much you love them, how sorry you are and always make sure they have no reason to doubt your actions in the future.
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