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Non lifestylers at lifestyle events by Tom and Bunny

hey everyone we’re tom and bunny and

today we’re going to be talking about
people who are not in the lifestyle who
like to participate
not participate but attend lifestyle
organize organizations and events
right because we’re all so much fun yes
so the question that we got was we like
to dress up
we like to dress up and we like to go
out and
to lifestyle clubs because we like the
openness of
everybody around us is it okay even
though we’re not
in the lifestyle so there are several
answers to that depending on who you
talk to yeah we
ran a club for 20 years and
we would say absolutely however
you got to understand that the majority
of the people
that are there and yes lifestyle clubs
are amazing as far as people take care
of themselves they dress
nice they’re very friendly they love to
party they love to include you into
their party
where you go to a regular bar you gotta
try to make friends and
yeah we’re in a lifestyle it’s very
social
it’s very social you could just walk up
to anyone just say hi and they’re going
to talk to you
right but what we would advise is if
you’re one of
those couples that love to hang out with
people in the lifestyle because
we’re so open and honest and friendly
and we like to dress
nice look at bunny and smell pretty
smell pretty
and flirty because i noticed a lot of
them like to flirt they just
don’t play be honest
be very very up front be very
honest when a couple approaches you
they are there to meet people to
potentially hook up with
and play with if you have
no intentions you can straight up let
them know
i mean just say hey we’d love to hang
out with you we’d love to party with you
just to be up front we are not in the
lifestyle
right we don’t partake in the lifestyle
and then don’t be upset if they say okay
and bow out
right and also don’t be upset
if somebody’s hitting on your
significant other right
it’s gonna happen and we’ve seen a lot
of people get upset
you’re in a lifestyle club you’re in a
lifestyle setting it’s gonna happen
whether people know that you’re in the
lifestyle or not
it’s gonna happen right so um
but also what i would also say is we
have to be very careful with our words
here so
i’m gonna use rooster so
if that couple’s hanging out at your
table and you guys are having a good
time
don’t rooster block them so meaning if
another couple comes up and
says hi to them or they say hi to
another couple
they’re there to meet people to play
with you are not you’re there just for
fun and entertainment
so don’t roost or block their fun
because
ultimately their goal is to
get in their panties right trying
they’re looking for the hookup they’re
looking for the hookup
but it doesn’t mean they can’t be
friends with you no absolutely not
that i mean we’re friends with a lot of
people that clearly
will never be in the lifestyle and we’re
okay with that
but we also let them know straight up if
we go over here don’t follow us
if we go over there don’t follow us stay
stay stay because we don’t need because
some people will think
oh they’re already talking to that
couple so they’ve already got a hookup
that in itself is a rooster block
so you got to be careful about who
you’re hanging out with who you’re
associating with
so if you’re in the lifestyle and the
couple that you are
just hanging out doing shots with
partying and you know they’re not in the
lifestyle
hanging out with them if you’re looking
to hook up
you are i mean people just will
turn to another couple because they
already think you’re gonna
play with the other couple right you
know and you you
we’ve had the situation like hedonism
we’re in the nude pool
everybody’s naked right and just
randomly talking
to people and just having a good time
and and
a lot of them will say you know what
we’re just nudists yeah oh
that’s fine that’s fine we’re great just
because i’m in the
nude pool doesn’t mean that i’m trying
to get down what panties you have on
but pat on but no and that’s just the
way that you need to do it you know hey
let people know we might not be on the
same level we’re not looking for the
same things you are but we
definitely like this environment and we
like to come and have fun
no keep in mind a couple that is at a
lifestyle club who are not in the
lifestyle
who like to dress up dance and party
because they’re not in the lifestyle
today doesn’t mean they won’t be in the
lifestyle next week next month next year
so
don’t don’t snub them
because just because they’re not
partaking in the lifestyle doesn’t mean
that they’re not
they’re obviously open enough to go into
a club yes
absolutely we’ve seen people that
have come we’re at the club for two or
three years before they ever
did anything oh yeah and it’s just
because they found that
right couple right circumstance
and and then they became best friends
and bane each other for years
so yeah um as far as that goes
if you are a couple that you are
not going to partic partake in the
lifestyle
be upfront it doesn’t mean the couple’s
going to shun you or
go talk smack behind your back just give
them the opportunity go meet people
and especially in this day and age
there’s so many people that are on so
many different levels
you’ve got poly um you’ve got
bisexual you’ve got every full slot swap
soft swap
everything’s under the sun and now
everybody is allowing
you know lgbtq clubs polly clubs
everybody’s intermingling
i kept thinking of saying holly like
Christmas time coming up
so now you really have to communicate
your wants and your desires
exactly so with that said but i do know
that there
are couples that will never play with
another couple
and it drives me nuts because i’m not
going to say nothing i mean if i’m
managing a club and i’m
witnessing it it’s not for me to
hinder anybody’s fun whether it’s a
couple
not in lifestyle or a couple in the
lifestyle but i see
certain tables they try to attract
young attractive couples over with no
intentions have
ever played anything because they just
want to have a party table
and now these people paid 80 bucks to go
into the club
and they’re not gonna get laid right
at all i had to i had to be the rooster
block one time we had a
uh a female and she was
all over a friend of ours that was
happened to be on a sunday so he was a
single male
and i knew she didn’t do anything yeah
she was a tease
she was a tea she liked the attention
and he was only there a short amount of
time every or when he would come
and do his thing and then leave and i
had to pull him to the side and say hey
you know what
you’re not getting anywhere with this
one you might as well just she has a
nice chastity belt hidden on
under there and he came up to me later
he’s like
i sat back and i watched he goes thank
you for the advice yeah because we see
it
we see it all the time so you know what
if you’re that couple
more power to you get dressed up come to
the
swing clubs have fun really invite
people to your table have fun but just
be honest with people
and don’t take offense if they move
their personal party to another table or
go somewhere else
you’re going to have the hardcore
lifestyle people that are going to be
like
i’m out of here yeah don’t take offense
to it and you’re going to have the
newbie couples that
um don’t have nowhere else to go and
they’re going to sit with you
but then you’re going to have the
relaxed couple that go with the flow
and they don’t care if they get laid
that night or not they’re just
if they have a great time that’s all
that matters to them because like i said
everybody’s on their own agenda we
used to watch people come in all the
time and they would get upset because
they paid 80
and they didn’t hook up for the night
right you know what
everything happens on its own and
there’s no guarantees there’s no
guarantees
so all right so with that said
just uh go out and have fun just be up
front on your intentions
uh with the other couple so that way it
gives the other couple an
opportunity to make their night the best
night that they can absolutely
all right so until next time see you
soon bye
Tom and Bunny Podcast discuss actual condom use in the swingers lifestyle

Truth in Advertising – Condom Use


Are couples who claim to Require condoms when playing telling the truth?

We have been working in the lifestyle for well over 20 years now and while couples should protect themselves when swinging and engaging in intercourse with people of the opposite and same sex, the fact is that while many people will post their requirements that everyone be protected and wear condoms, when actually in an intimate setting they tend to forget what they posted or said and proceed to engage in sex without proper protection.

We are not here to advocate or deny the use of condoms, we truly believe that adults have and should have the ability to make their own decisions for what works for them in the Consensual Non Monogamy Swingers Lifestyle.  What do you think? are we right? wrong? did we forget something? please post a comment and let us know.

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Des Moines Swingers Lifestyle Club April 24 – 25 2020

We will be at the Des Moines Lifestyle Club April 24th & 25th in Des Moines, IA and we would like any of our Midwest friends to come out and party with us for one or both nights! Let us know if you can come out and see us. The website is www.desmoineslifestylesclub.com

About The Des Moines Lifestyle Club:

The Des Moines Lifestyle Club aka ClubG, is a brick and mortar Swing Club located in Des Moines IA. 

Hosting over 3500 sf of Sexy, Erotic and fun lifestyle atmosphere from their large dance floor with 2 professional stripper poles, 3 quiet rooms, social areas and private deck to the friendly BYOB bar with Free mixers and Bar glasses to drink from.

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The MotorBunny Original

The Original MotorBunny!

Background

We had recently started working for Tom’s Trips, the leader in adult lifestyle travel. Our new positions take us all over the nation going to different clubs to promote adult travel to Hedonism in Jamaica, Desire in Cancun as well as other lifestyle friendly destinations. We quickly realized that what we thought was going to be easy and just talk to people. However, we found that like anyone who sees someone selling something, they avoid eye contact and walk the other way! So after some thought, we knew we needed something to draw their attention to our table. Once there, we could talk and answer questions about clothing optional, nude and lifestyle travel that most do not even know exist.

We reached out to the MotorBunny company and got an original version with all the attachments. We could set in on a table with a large dildo rotating. If that wasn’t enough, we could zap the vibration to create a “buzz” per say, to really get the people and their curiosity to come over to ask what the heck it was. We could then explain the MotorBunny to them and show them the controls as well as all the attachments that can be included to enhance the fun in the bedroom. Of course we would work our conversation into our travel and how the people could enter into a whole new world that never seemed possible. We would also invite people to join us in the play room to have a hands on demonstration of this incredible machine.

After our promotions, we find a private location in the playroom of the club and have the guest come and play on the MotorBunny. Obviously, being the first one such an intimidating vibrator on steroids, we found that once we got one female to jump on it, the curious people watching followed. We did not have to work to get people to try it out. We now had a line that would go for hours and when we say hours, we really mean HOURS!

Personal Use

Bunny absolutely LOVES the Original MotorBunny and she is looking forward to getting the newest MotorBunny Buck very soon. She uses all the attachments equally but her favorite is the Double Penetration attachment. She will start off with the smaller attachments to work herself up as it’s a slow marathon to achieve a powerful full body orgasm, not a race. After she starts with the non penetrating clitoris attachment and reaches her clit orgasm, she will work her way to the Lolli attachment again working herself up and usually at this time she will soak the machine. Once this starts happening, she will insert the large dildo attachment and thrust on the MotorBunny up and down like she is riding a partner. Typically this is where she will squirt and to maximize her experience of multiple orgasms, she will then install the double penetration attachment to make her turn into jello.

Most of the time, we will bring our MotorBunny along when we are meeting a couple for some fun time. However, we also are careful and we will play first and then finish with the MotorBunny! By finishing with the MotorBunny, any possible remaining orgasms will be completely fulfilled and everyone will end the night with satisfaction and euphoria. Our friends love it when we are coming over because they know they will be coming later that night if you know what we mean.

Attachments: The large dildo below left is the gusher. The bottom left is the prostate and ball vibrator for men. Top middle is the double penetration. Bottom middle is the lolli g-spot. Top right is a ribbed dildo with clit stimulation. Finally, the lower right is the clit on clit stimulation.

Clubs

We have taken the MotorBunny to Trapeze Atlanta where we hosted a MotorBunny party in the playroom. After 2 1/2 hours we thought the night was over. As we were putting everything away,we had a couple approach us to setup the MotorBunny for them. We did, and within minutes we had another line that was over an hour long. I think we ended up having to actually stop taking names or we would have been there through the next day!

We duplicated the same results at EC Oasis in Breaux Bridge, Louisiana where we promoted the MotorBunny as we say “Catch All” for the curious. Later that evening we found a private room for the guest to play and we setup the MotorBunny. We would let the lady select her attachment of choice and we would show the husband or boyfriend how to control the unit, but some ladies did not want to trust their significant other with the controls. Not to worry, Tom was happy to stand in and assist in the orgasms. We had a constant line for 3 hours. Some of the women wanted to give the MotorBunny a full work out to see if they could break it, sorry, no luck! The MotorBunny withstood the harshest of thrust, rolls, bounces and anything thrown at it was? We did have to cool down once!

Conventions

Naughty in Nawlins was an experience! We of course brought our MotorBunny for our booth and again to let people play on it. Then a couple brought a Sybian, which is the MotorBunny direct competitor. So knowing this, we agreed to do a Podcast and host a MotorBunny vs Sybian rodeo and we would invite two girls to try both machines. The other girl would control the unit of the opposing girl, well the thought was good and we were ready but we were not prepared when 20 couples come through the door to see the rodeo live! So we capitalized on this and we asked all 20 ladies to jump on each machine and give them a whirl. We had the same exact attachments on both machines so basically the only difference would be the vibration and rotation action of each machine. The Sybian went to 10 and the MotorBunny went to 11 and we waited for each girl that tried each machine in random order of selection. At the end of the rodeo, we asked each of the ladies, if they were to own one and only one, which unit would they want. All 20 said the MotorBunny. So we asked why? The basic answer was that the MotorBunny was more powerful but also more consistent on the vibration. After researching the specs on both units, they didn’t need to read to know the results. The MotorBunny is actually much more powerful and with the quality, we can see where the consistency comes into play, almost like a harmonic balance or a frequency that is working in favor of the participant.

Tom’s Trips host the MotorBunny at Hedonism

Our company, Tom’s Trips, hosts 20 group events a year at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica. We bring a MotorBunny for our “Afternoon Delight” parties where we break out the MotorBunny and create an exclusive private party for our guests to come out and play and have fun as well as try out this awesome vibrator! After playing on the MotorBunny, many times we hear our guest telling others they will be buying one for their home! Like the clubs, we have the lady pick out her attachment of choice and we show the gentleman how to use the controller. It’s not rocket science at all to use. We explain to bring the MotorBunny up slowly vs just going into Turbo mode!

Men and the MotorBunny!

They do have a few attachments for the men to use for themselves, so that ladies can’t be greedy and have the equipment all to themselves. The photo above is the Jiggle Butt attachment. We did not get this so we can’t give you any details or a personal experience. Also pictured above in the attachments on the lower left which is a Prostate attachment that also vibrates the balls. We also have not tried the Prostate attachment “yet”, but we may very well do it and update this blog!

Here are some interesting fun facts (not really facts but fun)

  • Average orgasm was typically within 5 minutes or less.
  • Most who tried the MotorBunny said they wanted one of their own.
  • Most could not handle the vibration turned all the way up.
  • Most liked an attachment that penetrated.
  • Some were a little shy and only used the clit stimulation.
  • There were not one specific chosen attachment, each lady selected their own preference.
  • Including others, while on the MotorBunny enhanced the experience with the lady.
  • Very easy clean up.
  • You can purchase a case or it fits in a carry on luggage perfectly.

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever had an opportunity to try the MotorBunny or own one??  we want to know!  Post below.

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are swingers pushy

Are Swingers Pushy

Are Swingers too pushy at clubs?  Today we discuss a topic we came across on facebook where a profile said that they were not swingers or in the lifestyle but they go to a swingers club or lifestyle club because they just want to socialize and dance and that the people who want to fuck others or fuck anyone willing to fuck were disgusting.  We say we live in a glass house and we are not the moral majority and therefore should not throw stones in a glass house.  in this podcast we give our personal politically incorrect opinion about this subject.

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EC OASIS – Lafayette LA

EC OASIS is near Lafayette, LA and is a very cool club to check out.  This club is about 6 hours from where we live and we will drive there to go party.  EC OASIS has a BYOB full service bar with bartenders, a small snack buffet, music and a lot of themed play areas.  You won’t find a group of friendly people.

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Swinging and Erectile Dysfunction Part 1

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With the millions of men who deal with Erectile Dysfunction, we were also effected by this epidemic and have been on a quest to find a cure or remedy.  In this video we discuss Testosterone therapy and how Tom found out he was not producing Testosterone.   Please comment below your thoughts!

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Female Dysfunction – To lube or not to lube

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Like male Erectile Dysfunction, women often have issues getting wet and many times thing it’s them, their partner feels unattractive but there could be many more reasons for needing lube during sex.  Please comment below your thoughts!

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what it’s like to go to an actual Swingers Club Part 2

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In this Part 2 we discuss many aspects of what it’s like to attend an actual swingers club.  Please comment below your thoughts!

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