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5-25-2020 – Over Analyzing situations in the consensual non monogamy swingers lifestyle

Over analyzing couples and singles in the swingers lifestyle

Have you met a couple and learned too much and did not play with them?
You can see this podcast on our new Video format on http://www.tomandbunny.com
We talk about over analyzing situations and finding faults in others to give yourself a reason to not play with them. We always say, there is times you learn too much information on a couple.

Watch us doing this very podcast on video on YouTube

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Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic! Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

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sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. To obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
Itunes , Spotify , Iheart , Podbean , Google Podcast , Tunein , Stitcher , Overcast , Castbox , Podchaser , Deezer , Digital Podcast
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Swing with TomandBunny Live podcast


5-11-2020 Facebook Jail and KIK

Facebook jail and KIK Messenger

5-11-2020 Facebook Jail and KIK Messenger

Today we discuss getting thrown into Facebook jail and our hatred for the KIK Messenger.
We have been put into Facebook Jail twice now for post we did almost 4 years ago! We are posting the image below on www.TomandBunny.com  and we discuss how we posted on a profile we no longer had access to and wonder why facebook keeps penalizing us for an account that belongs to someone else.     On a second note, one of our listeners just reached out and asked us about the KIK Messenger and our thoughts, while we directed him to an earlier podcast we included our hatred for this program as well.

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Watch us doing this very podcast on video on YouTube

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

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Subscript to our YouTube @ http://www.YouTube.com/TomandBunny

Like us on our Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic! Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. To obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
Itunes , Spotify , Iheart , Podbean , Google Podcast , Tunein , Stitcher , Overcast , Castbox , Podchaser , Deezer , Digital Podcast
.

 

Swing with TomandBunny Live podcast


5-4-2020 Life Coaching - Do you need a therapist

Life Coaching – Do you need a therapist?

5-4-2020 Life Coaching

Life Coaching – Why choose a life coach over a therapist.
We discuss us becoming certified Life Coaches and do you need an actual Therapist or can you use a Life Coach. To schedule a session with us on www.TomandBunny.com  Click on the Schedule Us link to set your FREE appointment today!

Watch our podcast on our YouTube channel and see us recording this live.

The photos below is our recent certifications as Life Coaches

 

We invite you to Follow and subscribe to our Social media to see our daily fun photos we post to our Instagram, TwitterFacebook page and YouTube to bring a little smile to the people in our lives, click any of the links and follow us to automatically receive notifications when we post new photos!Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram @TomandBunny https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Subscript to our YouTube @ http://www.YouTube.com/TomandBunny

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

Are you looking to do something while Social Distancing?  Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic!
Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. To obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
Itunes , Spotify , Iheart , Podbean , Google Podcast , Tunein , Stitcher , Overcast , Castbox , Podchaser , Deezer , Digital Podcast
.

 

Swing with TomandBunny Live podcast


Virtual Party Recap – Live Coaching and Live podcast

Virtual Swing Party Recap – Live Coaching and live podcasting
We discuss all the fun from the Virtual Swing Party event hosted on April 25th 2020 and what happened in our room, we also discuss us becoming certified Life Coaches and to schedule a session with us on www.TomandBunny.com  and our breaking news of our Live podcast starting Thursday May 7th at 8pm CST and continuing every Thursday and you can get all the details at www.swingwithtomandbunny.com

We mention in this episode the cam couple and would post their twitter @Laceycoffeegirl Give them a follow, very nice couple.

The photo below is of us just before going live on the virtual swing party

Day 40 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Virtual Swing Party

Day 40 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Virtual Swing Party

We invite you to Follow and subscribe to our Social media to see our daily fun photos we post to our Instagram, TwitterFacebook page and YouTube to bring a little smile to the people in our lives, click any of the links and follow us to automatically receive notifications when we post new photos!Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram @TomandBunny https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Subscript to our YouTube @ http://www.YouTube.com/TomandBunny

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

Are you looking to do something while Social Distancing?  Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic!
Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. To obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
Itunes , Spotify , Iheart , Podbean , Google Podcast , Tunein , Stitcher , Overcast , Castbox , Podchaser , Deezer , Digital Podcast
.

 

Swing with TomandBunny Live podcast


Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and Bunny

Virtual Swing Party with Tom and Bunny

Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and Bunny

We are excited to be part of the launch of the Virtual Swing Party Saturday April 25th 2020 and we will be hosting our very own room during this event. See you all April 25th VIRTUALLY LIVE! – Tom and Bunny – Please click this link below to learn all the details we will be producing and more about this event! https://bit.ly/2K8r6Ti

We are excited to be hosting our very own room on the brand new Ethical Consensual Non-Monogamy Swingers Lifestyle platform “Virtual Swing Party” on April 25th 2020

With the trends of the Corona Virus aka COVID19 and the social distancing that is taking place, all the Swingers Lifestyle clubs, House Parties and Hotel take-over events have been shut down in order to let this pandemic pass us by and to get the world back to a normal state.

Virtual Swing party has brought to us the concept of a large scale convention type feel in a virtual setting known as Virtual Swinging throughout the lifestyle community and we were invited to host one of the many rooms they will have open and available to guest through out the event.  Our room will be called “Swinging Lifestyle” and will consist of our personal opinions on what works for us in the swinging lifestyle as well as opinions on what works for others in their quest as they navigate their swinging lifestyles.   This room will be a great room for Couple’s, Single Ladies and Single men who are New to the lifestyle and those experienced who can offer ideas and opinions so people can learn from our past mistakes or look into possibilities that they never thought of before!

The exact time of our room start to end will be posted soon, so we invite you to come and join us as well as navigate everything this event has to offer you.

Some of the rooms you will encounter during this event will include:
  • “The DJ Den” with multiple rooms of interest in music genres, and would be a great place to mix and mingle with others
  • “Virtual Play Rooms” This is your naughty rooms to show and participate with your sexual vibes with others watching and you watching others.
  • “Lights, Costumes and Action” for the guest who would like to dress in their favorite themes
  • “Swinging Lifestyle” Hosted by TomandBunny.com – Opinions from the host and others.
  • “How to make Good Pussy Better with Taylor Sparks”
  • “Lets Get Intimate” a demonstration of the Hi Massager with Dr’s Steve and Wendy
Please feel free to click any of the images to go directly to Virtual Swing Party’s website for all the information and how to book the event for April 25th, 2020
See you there!
Tom and Bunny
Keeping The Lifestyle Together 
When Life Keeps Us Apart
TICKETS AND FIRST ROUND OF ROOMS RELEASED!
Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and Bunny
Staying Connected Through Covid-19 And Beyond…..
For those in the lifestyle, the act of social distancing is especially hard. We are part of a community where so many relationships extend beyond those with whom we live. We look forward to the day when we all celebrate being “social” again together with our closest and dearest friends!
So, we are excited to announce that a group of the country’s top lifestyle promoters have teamed up to bring you Virtual Swing Parties that mirror the experience of being at an actual live event!!!
With everyone safely at home helping to defeat the virus, so many of our colleagues have been searching for a way to get back into the “swing” of things from the comfort of home. So, we have assembled a group of the lifestyle’s best Party Hosts, DJ’s, Educators, that are glad to help make this the biggest and sexiest online party ever!??
You can expect an online experience like no other with
MULTIPLE HOSTED ROOMS AT
ONE HUGE ONLINE EVENT!

Virtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and BunnyVirtual Swing Party with Swinging Lifestyle and Tom and BunnyTICKETS AND FIRST ROUND OF ROOMS RELEASED

Lifestyle Trends the evolution of virtual swinging

Virtual Swing Party – The evolution of virtual swinging

Virtual Swing Party - The evolution of virtual swinging

Lifestyle Trends – How the Corona Pandemic is changing Swinging today.
Today we discuss the trends of the swingers lifestyle and how our Consensual Non Monogamy in the swinging community are adapting to the social distancing ordered by most states.

We are seeing a rise in Facebook live with prominent DJ’s from many lifestyle clubs from around the nation have been keeping their members entertained to actual full on premise swinger clubs hosting virtual parties from happy hour mixers to full on themed events using social media and meeting websites that utilize audio and video for guest to meet in a social distanced environment.

For the first time in our Podcast, we make an unexpected phone call to one of the organizers of the brand new event that taking social media by storm Bobby from VirtualSwingParty.com who has taken the small local mixers and taken the approach to a level that only him and his partnerships can handle and will be hosting the very first nation wide virtual swing party on an epic scale just as they do with their national lifestyle conventions.   Listen and stay tuned for updates to this huge event as we will post any details we get first right here.

We will be hosting our very own room The Swingers Lifestyle, the room will be an open discussion where anyone can ask questions and others will be able to offer their personal opinions of what works for them in those situations.  Remember, there is no right or wrong way for you to navigate the alternative sexual non monogamous lifestyle and hearing others views and opinions allow many to make choices that will best fit what will work for them.

We will be doing a follow up phone in podcast with Bobby next week for updates to this brand new exciting event.

Virtual Swing Party online swingers lifestyle event

Virtual Swing Party online swingers lifestyle event – Click this image to go to VirtualSwingParty.com

We invite you to Follow and subscribe to our Social media to see our daily fun photos we post to our Instagram, TwitterFacebook page and YouTube to bring a little smile to the people in our lives, click any of the links and follow us to automatically receive notifications when we post new photos!

Like us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SwingwithTomandBunny

Follow us on Twitter @TomandBunny http://www.twitter.com/TomandBunny

Follow us on Instagram @TomandBunny https://www.instagram.com/tomandbunny/

Subscript to our YouTube @ http://www.YouTube.com/TomandBunny

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

Are you looking to do something while Social Distancing?  Check out these great sites where you can meet other Couples, Single Females and Single Men!  Try all three for FREE and create a quality profile, upload photos and start making connections for after the pandemic!
Just click on each image to get bonus free time that can only be applied through our link!

Kasidie the sexually social community

Kasidie the sexually social community – We use Kasidie all the time and our profile is TomandBunny on this site, Kasidie is nationwide and offers the feel of social media like Facebook with communities, forums, Profiles, Wall post and much more to list here. Join today and you will be automatically added to our TomandBunny Community on this awesome site!

sdc.com 30 days free access 950x250

sdc.com 30 days free access with no Credit Card needed. SDC is one of the Largest Match Maker websites for Swingers in the world and has a reach in many countries around the globe. Be sure to join our community “TomandBunny” when creating your profile on this website. To obtain your FREE 30 day access you MUST click this image. without clicking this image, SDC only offers 7 day trials.

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed

SLS Swinglifestyle Free access No Credit Card Needed
We have been on SwingLifestyle for many years, it’s very easy to navigate, nationwide, basic no frills profiles that list everything on a single screen with photo galleries and the ability to see a profiles certifications. Join today with no Credit Card needed with limited full access, the site is cost effective to open the full features and worth every penny.

Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
Itunes , Spotify , Iheart , Podbean , Google Podcast , Tunein , Stitcher , Overcast , Castbox , Podchaser , Deezer , Digital Podcast
.

 

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How do we meet TomandBunny

How to meet us

TomandBunny behind the scenes making videos for the swingers lifestyle

We are always asked about how we meet people or how they could meet us?
Because of our openness about the swinging lifestyle and yes we are a couple that enjoys meeting other couples and select singles for friendships and fun!  We do receive a lot of email messages and comments on our videos and post about wanting to meet us just to meet us to actual offers to play.  We created this page to help people meet us for the possibilities of play and some hints on how to get our attention, and others.

We are on all the major sites listed below, ( Kasidie, SDC & SLS )  we are on many others but we are mainly active on these three as we have found them to be the best for our needs.

If you are on any of these sites already, you can send us an email to our profile and we are listed as TomandBunny on all three sites.

If not a member on any of the sites, you can join them all for FREE with no credit card required.  On Kasidie, they offer us 90 days free and SDC and SLS 30 days free, these are not bait sites but actual real sites that we use for our personal lifestyle experience.  Each site offers their own unique features and we suggest joining them all. One site may have a better following in one location over another,  so not all sites would work depending on your location. We found benefits using all three during our travels.

Description of you as a couple or single lady or single male:
Take a minute and complete a quality description. Tell a story about you, as a couple, single lady or single male. Describe to the reader who they would meet in person, you do not have to go overboard. Avoid a one line description such as “We are a hot couple, looking for other hot couples”.  We like substance in the people we plan to meet, and because we have not met you,  we would want to feel we have some connection when we do meet in person.

Some suggestions, describe each of you individually with as much detail to give the reader a mental visualization of you. IE: hair color and length, eye color, body type, sense of humor or lack of. When describing yourselves you don’t have to be vulgar or tell the world how amazing you are at oral or sexual positions. Its good idea to tell people what you like to do or what you would like to try. You should comment your level of play you are comfortable with, such as are you Straight, Bi sexual, Bi Curious, open to all possibilities but undecided on your sexuality.  You should also include some personal activities as many others may be attracted to someone they have something in common with, IE: Do you ride motorcycles, do you go boating, camping, sing karaoke etc…

What are you looking for:
Our biggest suggestion is keeping this area all positives and no negatives.  You can list what you don’t want without being rude about it.  You don’t have to go overboard on this section, the more you add the more you will exclude, if that makes any sense. it’s like a search, the more you put in the less results come up.  If you are looking for Couples only this would be a good place to put that. You don’t have to scream that “If we want a single male we will contact you”, if they email you, you can just delete the email. No need to make your profile rude and you shouldn’t fault people for at least reaching out. While you may not be into something today, doesn’t mean tomorrow you may change your mind, that is the beauty of swinging.

Suggestions of what you should list and what you are looking for. IE: If you are very specific and only want fit couples, list that as requirement, however if you are open to all body types, you should mention that so people will know.  If you don’t want people who smoke you should mention that, if you don’t care if they smoke or not, there is no reason to mention that.

We personally are attracted to profiles that can articulate what they want without sounding negative to those who they are not interested in, meaning, we prefer nice and positive people. some will say they are being direct, we say there is a huge difference between being direct and just being rude.

Contacting us on sites:
When emailing us, it is best to tell us something other than just a one word email IE: “Hello” or “Hey” or “Hi“.  Tell us what brought you to email us. What was it in our profile that specifically made you feel you had a connection, was it our photos, was it something in our profile description, maybe what we were looking for, or was it something we listed that we enjoyed that caught your eye?  We, like many others, like compliments. We want to know that someone actually took the time to read our profile, looked at our photos and genuinely had an attraction to us as a couple, not just one of us.   When we email people we always tell them why we are contacting them, but we also list some things in their profile that we found exciting so they know we read their profile, and we always end our email with a question that they can respond to.

Here is our list that we look at when we receive an email:

  1. Did the email introduce themselves and ask questions we could respond to?
  2. Is the profile a Couple, Single Female or Single male?
  3. Does the profile have any photos?
  4. If a couple, are there photos of both the male and female posted?
  5. If they have photos, what is the quality of photos, how old are the photos?
  6. Do they have faces? if not do they have private photos?
  7. Did they open their private photos when they initially emailed us?
  8. We read the full description and what they are looking for in others
  9. Does the description and seeking appear to be what we would be looking for?
  10. We will look at the profile location and ages of the couple or single
  11. If available we look at the age of the profile, how long have they been on the site
  12. We will look for certification of the profile and compare to the date of the profile
  13. We will look at the dates of the certification, are they old or recent
  14. We actually read the certifications and look at the profiles of those who certified

Follow up on what we look for:
We put our face photos on all our profiles and we do have private photos that we do share with profiles that we have an attraction to.  We understand that not everyone can or feels comfortable putting their faces on their profile, we do expect to actually see the couple that we will be emailing with. We suggest putting your non face photos in the public or verified photo gallery and your faces in the private gallery. We would expect people who do not have publicly visible face photos to open their privates without us asking them to. Some express they wanted to see if we had an attraction on their profile before opening their private photos, the answer is no, without seeing your entire profile, we do not. You can have all the body photos in the world, we are attracted to warm smiles and pleasant looks.  We only share our private photos with people we actually plan to meet, our face and body photos are all visible to everyone already.  We prefer to see G-Rated photos, and we enjoy seeing nudes of the people we plan to play with, but we don’t have to see nudes on the initial email.  We upload quality photos, so we expect with the technology of the phones and cameras today, there is no reason for grainy or low quality photos.  We feel that they are hiding something or they are very old photos from old technology and we have to question, what do they look like today.

We meet people based on both physical and mental attractions:
We understand people may use different names in the lifestyle, fudge their ages and weights etc.. we don’t care. It’s about physical and mental attractions, that is why we require photos for the physical and a well written profile for the mental.  A good example is we know couples in their mid to late 60’s that look like they are in their 30’s and 40’s and we know couples in their 30’s and 40’s that look in their 60’s. We never go by ages or weights, if we look at a couple and say ” We wouldn’t kick them out of bed for eating crackers “, we have an attraction.

Become certified:
Remember, there are a lot of fakes, flakes and catfish on the internet, use your best judgement. We look for certifications to help us make a decision. However, we don’t view certifications from the website as a “real” certification, we honestly hate those because anyone can hold a sign with their screen name and date and get certified. We want to see that the profile actually met another profile or went to a club / event.  We at least know the profile actually met someone physically and in person.

We suggest what you should not include in your profile:

  1. SCREAM IN ALL CAPS
  2. Repeating NO SINGLE MALES throughout your profile.
  3. Boosting how awesome you are at oral skills, everyone is a master oral manipulator.
  4. Make the reader feel insecure about their abilities because you boost yours (IE: I will make your wife cum like never before)
  5. That you are Shy, everybody is shy when meeting someone new, it shows lack of confidence.
  6. Putting NO DRAMA or DRAMA FREE, these profiles are typically the drama
  7. Listing as a couple but are single, if you were a couple and no longer, change your profile.
  8. being too politically correct, IE: if you require condoms, put that, if your don’t, don’t add it and try to play without them. people don’t like liars.
  9. Politics, leave the politics or views at home.  If you are just so dead set you can’t play with someone with opposing views, list it. (Still sounds like a negative)
  10. Negatives, your profile should be 100% positive, the reader will see your negativity as a reason not to contact you or reply to your emails.

We do not use KIK:
To finish up, we get a lot of emails that tell us that the profile doesn’t post photos but to chat them on KIK and they will send photos on there. We honestly do not use KIK. If a profile chooses not to upload photos to the sites listed below, we wouldn’t be interested in going out of our way to communicate in another spectrum just to get photos.

In conclusion:
We hope we gave you an honest view on how we view other profiles and how we engage with others on matchmaker websites. and our opinion as to how others would also treat other profiles contacting them.

We do receive our share of emails and we appreciate it. To be up front, we do not feel because we have a profile and someone emails us we are required to respond.

Single men.
We mainly look to meet with couples. Please feel free to email us on these sites, we do keep an open mind and our options open. We would be very picky on who we allow as a single male into our personal lifestyle, but know that your profile needs to be really appealing with full photos of you and your face for us to respond and that your email and profile is respectful.  we only reply to emails that we feel we would be a match, and if we do reply to your email, that doesn’t mean that we are a sure thing, it just means your profile peaked our curiosity. Note: Tom is not a cuckold and we have no intention of someone wanting to dominate either one of us.

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Kasidie the sexually social community

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Corona Virus – Our update after a month in Self Quarantine

Corona Virus Covid Covid19

What we have been doing for the past 30 days during our Self Quarantine.
We returned home from the Tom’s Trips Ms No Swim Suit contest that’s held at Hedonism II in Jamaica every year on March 8th and we had no clue what we would be coming home to.

Imagine that you are out of the country and you come home to a whole new world where you can’t find the every day needed items like Hamburger, Toilet paper and Cleaning supplies!  It was a scary feeling and some were saying it was a hoax, others were so fearful they were wearing full on bio hazard suits and people are yelling at others who get too close, we talk about all this and some of the things we have been doing to keep a positive attitude on this very scary and very real pandemic.   Click this link to see our series of fun photos on “How we deal with the Corornavirus Pandemic” We invite you to Follow and subscribe to our Social media to see our daily fun photos we post to our Instagram, TwitterFacebook page and YouTube to bring a little smile to the people in our lives, click any of the links and follow us to automatically receive notifications when we post new photos!

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what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny

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How we are dealing with the Coronavirus Covid19 Pandemic by TomandBunny

What we do during a Pandemic!

We do stupid and fun stuff and take photos to prove it!
On a serious note, we are taking this pandemic very serious and we are doing everything possible to keep ourselves safe regardless if this is a hoax or real, there is absolutely no reason not to be prepared because regardless, when the government steps in and declares marshal law or some other legal sounding name, you won’t be able to leave your  house.  so to those that will comment that we are not taking this serious, we are, but we all deal with things in our own way, ours is we will maintain our sense of humor during this stressful time. See our updated video (April 7th, 2020) below to see how we are dealing with the pandemic.

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Day 1 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Guard our toilet paper

Day 1 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Guard our toilet paper

Day 2 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Don't Breath on us!

Day 2 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Don’t Breath on us!

Day 2 - What do we do during a Pandemic - I Said Don't Breath on Me!

Day 2 – What do we do during a Pandemic – I Said Don’t Breath on Me!

Day 3 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Build a fort

Day 3 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Build a fort

What do we do during a Pandemic Day 4 with TomandBunny

Day 4 – What do we do during a Pandemic? Pillow Fights!

Day 5 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Golf cart vs Lawn Tractor races

Day 5 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Golf cart vs Lawn Tractor races

 

Day 6 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Getting Healthy

Day 6 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Getting Healthy

Day 7 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 1

Day 7 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 1

Day 7 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 2

Day 7 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 2

Day 7 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 3

Day 7 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Sexy Redneck Photo Shoot 3

Day 8 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Pray for America

Day 8 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Pray for America
So we have been posting fun and stupid images to keep everyone’s spirits up, watching what is happening in NYC and around the world we took today and wanted to Pray for America and to everyone who is effected by this epidemic and we know it will get better and we ask everyone to take a minute and pray for a cure. Sending Prayers, well wishes and love to everyone. Tom and Bunny

Day 9 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Play on the trains

Day 9 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Play on the trains

Day 10 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Self Reflection

Day 10 – What do we do during a Pandemic? Self Reflection
With not knowing what is going to happen, where the world will be and how long this will last, it’s a good time to reflect on where you have been, where you currently are and where you want to be! This will end but life won’t and we are hopeful for a bright future, this all seems to be slowing down and they are finding ways to combat this everyday with new medical treatments. Please continue to Self distance to keep the spread down and we are thinking of all of you. Lots of love. – Tom and Bunny

Day 11 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Haulin Ass

Day 11 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Haulin Ass

Day 12 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Wind Therapy

Day 12 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Wind Therapy

Day 13 - What do we do during a Pandemic - GOOD vs EVIL

Day 13 – What do we do during a Pandemic – GOOD vs EVIL

Day 13 - What do we do during a Pandemic - GOOD PREVAILS

Day 13 – What do we do during a Pandemic? Super Bunny Prevails!
Super Bunny with her intimate knowledge and constant practice and use of her device was able to overtake Riddler Tom with his lack of knowledge on the proper technique use of his device. Remember, practice practice practice to become efficient in the use of your personal devices.

Day 14 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Hunting Butterflies

Day 14 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Hunting Butterflies

Day 15 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Alabama Haircut

Day 15 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Alabama Haircut

Day 16 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Pajama Party

Day 16 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Pajama Party

Day 17 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Facebook and Chill

Day 17 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Facebook and Chill

Day 18 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Podcasting

Day 18 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Podcasting

Day 19 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Making videos

Day 19 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Making videos

Day 20 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Conspiracy Theories

Day 20 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Conspiracy Theories

Day 21 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Play Hide n Seek

Day 21 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Play Hide n Seek

Day 22 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Blowing Bubbles

Day 22 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Blowing Bubbles

Day 23 - What do we do during a Pandemic -Recreate our first kiss

Day 23 – What do we do during a Pandemic -Recreate our first kiss
The date was April 7, 1985, when Band Geek Bunny and  Heavy Metal Tom went out on our first date. Bunny was one week shy of 17 and had her own car. Tom had just moved to Arizona from California and did not have a car or license. We decided to go to the Drive in and of course Bunny was the driver!  After our first kiss Tom pulled away and licked Bunny right up the side of the face. Then told her he was a freak, and this is how our crazy life started!

Day 24 - What do we do during a Pandemic - MotorBunny Rodeo

Day 24 – What do we do during a Pandemic – MotorBunny Rodeo

Day 25 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Who wore it better

Day 25 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Who wore it better

Day 26 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Couples Mask

Day 26 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Couples Mask

Day 27 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Happy Easter

Day 27 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Happy Easter

Day 28 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Who wore it better 2

Day 28 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Who wore it better 2

Day 29 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Bunnys Birthday

Day 29 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Celebrate Bunny’s Birthday

Day 30 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Daily Walks

Day 30 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Daily Walks

Day 31 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Naughty Royalty

Day 31 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Naughty Royalty

Crowned King and Queen in 2016 at Naughty in Nawlins Swingers Convention
Some of you may not know this, in 2016 we were crowned King and Queen of the largest swingers convention Naughty in Nawlins and it is one of our most memorable moments in our lives. we had no clue that were about to be awarded such an honor and title! These were the clothes we wore when we gave up the crown in 2017 and was one of the best nights. Tom’s costume is an authentic hand made Mardi Gras costume from the 1950’s and is so delicate. we purchased it from an antique store in the french quarter, paid a lot for it but well worth it!

If you see the Red ducks behind bunny, they throw only so many out to the audience and we manage to have one for every year! We love Naughty in Nawlins and it is the one convention we do not miss and hoping that we don’t miss it in 2020!

Day 32 - What do we do during a Pandemic - SEXY CHEERLEADERS

Day 32 – What do we do during a Pandemic – SEXY CHEERLEADERS

Day 33 - What do we do during a Pandemic? - Alabama Pedicure! with all the hair and nail salons closed, we gotta do what we gonna do! to see all the series of photos check out this page on our website. https://bit.ly/TnBpandemic

Day 33 – What do we do during a Pandemic? – Alabama Pedicure!  with all the hair and nail salons closed, we gotta do what we gonna do!

Day 34 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Alabama Waxing

Day 34 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Alabama Waxing

Day 35 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Alabama Shopping

Day 35 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Alabama Shopping

Day 36 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Having Sex

Day 36 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Having Sex

Day 40 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Virtual Swing Party

Day 40 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Virtual Swing Party

Day 44 - What do we do during a Pandemic - Create live Streaming

Day 44 – What do we do during a Pandemic – Create live Streaming

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3-16-2020 Female Orgasmic Dysfunction

Female Orgasmic Dysfunction

Female Orgasmic Dysfunction is a real problem!
In this video we respond to a recent video about Female Orgasm Dysfunction and our opinions on how to deal with this very real problem among many millions of women today and in the swingers lifestyle.

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

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